the seven habits – a way to be a better you
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The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik
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The Seven Habit of Highly Effective People
Stephen Covey
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What do people need?
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Basic human needs
Live
Love Learn
Leave a legacy
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How mature are you?
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Levels of Maturity
Stephen Covey “The Seven Habit of Highly Effective People”
Dependent Independent Interdependent
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In a strict sense, we are all dependent!
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It is about emotional dependency!
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You are dependent if:
• You need to be recognized for what you do
• You seek gratification through the thanking of others
• You feel secure by the assurance of others
MOST OF THE TIME!
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Do not get me wrong! You CAN NOT be happy without people!
Wait until we talk about interdependence.
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To be Independent …
• You need to be …
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Your life is a product of your values not your feelings
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Your life is a product of your decisions not your conditions
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You and I have the capacity to choose our response
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To be Independent …
• You need to take the initiative!
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The last human freedom “the power to chose my response to any condition”
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Between the stimulus and the response lies your freedom to chose the
response
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To be Independent …
• You need to focus on what you can affect!
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I have to revenge!
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It is not what people do to us that hurts us, it’s our chosen response that hurts
us
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Reactive people think about how to get back on people who tried to hurt them
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“Nothing can make you feel inferior without your consent” Eleanor Roosevelt
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Language of the proactive person: I chose to, I prefer to, yes, no, I will …
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To be Independent …
• You need to set you own goals!
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Develop a mission statement
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Let it become your eye glasses you see everything through it
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SMART Goals
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Focus on relationships rather than schedules
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Focus on leadership not management
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Focus on your roles in life
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Becoming Independent
Be Proactive Begin with the
End in Mind Put first things
First
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Now that you became independent …
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Let’s go for interdependence!
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To become interdependent …
You need to think about what makes others happy
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Think Win-Win
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Nurture competency higher than yours without feeling threatened
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Share knowledge, recognition, gain, profit
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Builds a quality of a relationship
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No deal is always an option! Agree to disagree agreeably.
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To become interdependent …
• You need to listen and understand what others need
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You need to be influenced to be able to influence
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You need to diagnose before prescribing the medicine
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Understand!
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It requires patience and openness
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It requires a lot of time, but it saves a lot of time on the long run
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Understanding does not mean that you agree … it means that you accept the
other
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Relationships are more important than efficiency
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To become interdependent …
• You need to work out the solutions that will make everyone satisfied
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Differences
– Do not respect differences!
– Do not accept differences!
– Do not tolerate differences!
– CELEBRATE differences!
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Be Objective!
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The key to objectivity is to realize that we are subjective!
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You see the world as you are, not as it is
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You look through the eyeglasses of your experience!
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Synergy is the fruit!
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Becoming interdependent
Think Win-Win
Seek first to Understand …
Synergize
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Don’t forget your machine!
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Sharpen the Saw!
Stephen Covey, “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People”
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The four “Dimensions” of your life!
Body Soul
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