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The Seven Habits – A way to be a better YOU Mohammad Tawfik

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The Seven Habit of Highly Effective People

Stephen Covey

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What do people need?

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Basic human needs

Live

Love Learn

Leave a legacy

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How mature are you?

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Levels of Maturity

Stephen Covey “The Seven Habit of Highly Effective People”

Dependent Independent Interdependent

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In a strict sense, we are all dependent!

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It is about emotional dependency!

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You are dependent if:

• You need to be recognized for what you do

• You seek gratification through the thanking of others

• You feel secure by the assurance of others

MOST OF THE TIME!

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Do not get me wrong! You CAN NOT be happy without people!

Wait until we talk about interdependence.

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To be Independent …

• You need to be …

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Your life is a product of your values not your feelings

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Your life is a product of your decisions not your conditions

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You and I have the capacity to choose our response

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To be Independent …

• You need to take the initiative!

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The last human freedom “the power to chose my response to any condition”

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Between the stimulus and the response lies your freedom to chose the

response

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To be Independent …

• You need to focus on what you can affect!

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I have to revenge!

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It is not what people do to us that hurts us, it’s our chosen response that hurts

us

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Reactive people think about how to get back on people who tried to hurt them

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“Nothing can make you feel inferior without your consent” Eleanor Roosevelt

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Language of the proactive person: I chose to, I prefer to, yes, no, I will …

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To be Independent …

• You need to set you own goals!

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Develop a mission statement

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Let it become your eye glasses you see everything through it

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SMART Goals

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Focus on relationships rather than schedules

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Focus on leadership not management

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Focus on your roles in life

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Becoming Independent

Be Proactive Begin with the

End in Mind Put first things

First

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Now that you became independent …

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Let’s go for interdependence!

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To become interdependent …

You need to think about what makes others happy

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Think Win-Win

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Nurture competency higher than yours without feeling threatened

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Share knowledge, recognition, gain, profit

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Builds a quality of a relationship

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No deal is always an option! Agree to disagree agreeably.

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To become interdependent …

• You need to listen and understand what others need

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You need to be influenced to be able to influence

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You need to diagnose before prescribing the medicine

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Understand!

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It requires patience and openness

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It requires a lot of time, but it saves a lot of time on the long run

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Understanding does not mean that you agree … it means that you accept the

other

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Relationships are more important than efficiency

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To become interdependent …

• You need to work out the solutions that will make everyone satisfied

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Differences

– Do not respect differences!

– Do not accept differences!

– Do not tolerate differences!

– CELEBRATE differences!

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Be Objective!

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The key to objectivity is to realize that we are subjective!

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You see the world as you are, not as it is

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You look through the eyeglasses of your experience!

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Synergy is the fruit!

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Becoming interdependent

Think Win-Win

Seek first to Understand …

Synergize

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Don’t forget your machine!

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Sharpen the Saw!

Stephen Covey, “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People”

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The four “Dimensions” of your life!

Body Soul

Relationships Mind