seven habits - how to be effective
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Nice Habits to become effective in societyTRANSCRIPT
What is Purpose of your Organization ?
What is Main Strategy to accomplish the Purpose?
What is Goal of your Life ?
What is Main Strategy to meet the Goal ?
Ask Two Question to yourself
Then More Important Question arises
To finalize this strategy these 7 Habits Help
No Involvement No Commitment
No Commitment
No Result!
UNDERSTAND
To get Result soon, Need to add a Catalyst
Catalyst
Don’t do different thing, they do things differently
Effective People
Remember !
7 Habits of highly Effective People
1 Be Proactive2 Begin with “End in Mind”
6 Synergy
4 Think Win-Win5 Seek first to Understand then to understood
3 Put first thing First
7 Sharpen Saw
Initiative Taker
1 Be Proactive
Ability to act based on Value & PrincipleRather than based on Emotion & Circumstances
How to be Proactive ?Achieving this ability by Developing human gifts
1 To be Proactive
Stimulus --------------------- ResponseFreedom to Choose
To be Proactive, one shall develop an
(Habit to take Initiative)
Human Gifts, which animal don’t have ?
Self Awareness: Observe our thoughts & change or improve to become effective.
Conscience: Listen inner voice
Imagination:To envision entirely different ( Out of Box)
Self Will:
1 To be Proactive
Use of this Proactiveness To accept the things which I cannot change , courage to the change the things I can & To have wisdom to know the difference between two
Circle of Influence Circle of Concern
1 To be Proactive
2 Begin with “End in Mind”
2 Begin with “End in Mind”
Suppose you are enter in car & ask driver to proceed…..
What he will ask ?
What will happen if don’t answer his question correctly ?
What an drawing artist does before starting drawing ?What a Speaker does before starting a speech ?What a director does before starting a shooting ?
3 Put first thing first
1 Important & Urgent2 Important, but not Urgent3 Not Important, but Urgent4 Neither Important nor Urgent
3 Put First thing First
4 Think “Win Win”
Seek Solution good for both
Understanding & co-operating Creatively
This is a root for 5 th Habit which need to develop
This is a condition, situation where both the party Wins in Business & Day –to-day life
Respecting other’s thought & Listening EmphaticallyClosing EGO button
5 Seek first to Understand then to understood
By developing Capacity to:
1 Step out of our own perception2 To see world through others eyes
To develop authentic relationship & have the capacity to Influence in Positive way
Look at Following two picture from very close distance,If you see from long Distance ,say 6 feet from screen,
You will have different experience.
Think “how People define the same word differently”
Listen Emphatically & Understand first
Type of Listening –Next slide
It is not necessary , The way you see the world , people should see the world !
5 Seek first to Understand then to understood
Experiment, One group inside & other outside…
1 Ignoring
2 Pretend to Listening
3 Selective Listening
4 Attentive Listening
5 EMPHATIC Listening (Really listening to get inside another person’s mind & heart)
Types of Listening
6 Synergy6 Synergy
Joint Effort/ Decision of multiple elements,to produce a result are greater than the sum of their individual effects.
No Synergy, More Energy Consumption
When there is SYNERGY ENERGY consumption would be less!
Few Examples
To complete submission within short timeSonakh is having good apparatus but not good ambience at his residenceVihash is having good ambience at his residence but not good apparatus
If they complete their submission individually they will spend more energy
If they utilize each other resources they probably require less energy
If they work jointly they can have it easily!
Two boys wish to have fruit from a tree
Alone ,anyone of them cannot take the fruit from tree due to height constraint
Problem:
7 Sharpen Saw
7 Sharpen Saw
Attending regularly & consistently renewal of
four Dimensions of life
It Means
7 Sharpen Saw
PHYSICAL
SOCIAL & EMOTIONAL
MENTAL
SPIRITUAL
Attend regularly & consistently renew 4 Dimensions of life
Exercise, Eat Healthy food , Manage Stress
Build Relationship, Listen Empathetically,Create Synergy, Care dependents
Read, visualize, write, Develop talent, Learn new skills
Meditate, Read inspirational, recommit to principles
PERSONAL RENEWAL
Hum Honge Kamiyab….
This is what I learn from Book by Stephen Covey