follow up game

8/6/2019 Follow Up Game

1/19

Dharam Follow Up Game

PUATRAININGniceguygame.com

PUATRAINING


2/19



Bing Pick-U Artist (PUA) is sthing tht

t guys rd but, rn nd vn ci t

b, yt hn skd ht this ctuy ns, it

is tn dicut t inint n xct dnitin t

th tr PUA. As such hn I vry rst strtd

rning h t gt gd ith n, I ntd tkn xcty ht it ns t b PUA, s I strtd

rsrching th tchnic dnitin vr th

b r Gg t Wikidi. Nhr did it sy

PUA s n highy skid t ccting hn

nubrs, rcking-u cbk dtis r buidingu bs -i ddrsss, ht I quicky

risd r cn dnitins s tht PUA

is cry n h is highy skid t sducing

n. As such I hv rt dn s y

n rsn thdgis in cnvrting thsnubr, cbk nd i css in t dts s

tht yu hv th chnc t -u nd bc

PUA.


3/19



Th u g is vit thugh br yu

vn cs, thr r s tchniqus yu cn us

hist in-st t nsur yur -u is succssu:

TIME-BRIDGE: Ti-bridging is cnct hr

by yu rrng dt hist in-st nd this ssists

n thr srt vs

1. It rvids justid rsn t cs.

2. It svs t ti in ing-u, r-

stbishing crt nd thn rrnging dt,

n yur -u cn b uch shrtr nd

str nd stis it is s si s ing-

u t cnr ti r ctin th dt.

3. Fr rsn cndnc it is r bst i

yu kn yu hv rdy n dt rrngd,

nd this cr cndnc i ntury z ut

yu in urthr intrctins (b it nthr st

r just rindy cnvrstin in surrkt)

Pre-Follow Up:


4/19



Three basic examples of Time Bridging:

PUA: D yu ik Chins d?

HB: Ys.

PUA: M t, thr is this grt rsturnt nt r

r hr in Chin Tn, tty hv t chck

it ut.

HB: Hh sur.

PUA: K. Whts yur hn nubr.

------------------

PUA: D yu ik Chins d?

HB: N.

PUA: I bt tht is bcus yu hv trid th


5/19



crci cs, thr is this grt rsturnt

nt r r hr in Chin Tn, tty hv t

chck it ut.

HB: Oky sur.

PUA: K. Whts yur hn nubr.

------------------

THE EXIT: Just s irtnt s th rch is thxit; s such t guys tnd t gt vry xcitd t

gtting cs nd jct quicky tr thy rciv it.

Wht this ctivy ds is v th gir ing vry

ch s th st thing sh rbrs is yu running

ith yur hn in yur hnd ik trhy. Atr yuhv csd I strngy dvis tht yu ut yur hn

y, trnsitin nd sty in-st itt ngr, v th

cnvrstin n high nd ith th gir rbring

th intrctin nding n strng, sitiv nt.


6/19



BUILD A CONNECTION: A t guys g in-st nd

y th ntrtinr r hr by thy cntinuusy

tk, k jks nd in s rst-cs scnris

vn rr gic tricks. Yu y cs th

bck th ntrtinr r, thugh it i nt b

sid nd is iky t fk, s thr is nt sidbs r hr t think bck t th intrctin nd sy

Yh tht guy s vry cndnt in hi s nd

hd d cnnctin instd yu i c

r ik sugr, st but yu bgin ting

th nt yu v st. Buiding cnnctins is vry rg tic, nd I cud rit h bk

n it, in ct tht is xcty ht I did, chck ut th

ing ink :-P

htt://.utrining.c/s/brchurs/nic-guy-g.d

INSTANT DATE: I kn thr r t PUA

Gurus h ud disrv th id instnt

dts, thugh in y xrinc this is by r th


7/19



st ctiv thd t nsur yur -u

g is succssu. Wht I hv und is tht by

ging n n instnt dt yu r buiding s uch

crt nd rrt th cs bcs nthing

r thn si rity (As, I hv und

instnt dts t b th strting int s dyys Why ud yu k y ith nubr,

thn d -u g, thn rrng dy 2,

thn sxuy sct nd -cs, hn it cn

b dn n th s dy??).

MY ALL TIME FAVOURITE SET..THUS FAR:

I hv dn s ny rchs nd csd in s

ny dirnt shins trying ut stu tht Iv rd

n rus, things Iv sn n Yutub nd vnth ny vrius 100% rjctin-r csing

tchniqus s ny gurus hv bn ubishing

sinc br I vn hrd ick-u. Hvr, th

st in-hich I tk th biggst rning xrinc

y r s ctuy th rst gir I vr gd.


8/19



I tk but hr in y bk Nic Guy G but

king bck I subcnsciusy did ny th

tchniqus bv Th gir snt hr unch brk

ith shing (Instnt Dt), Sh s in t rt

s I suggstd ging t th Ntin Art Gry

(Ti-Bridg) nd I vn csd ry n in thintrctin hist r shing; thus th st

thing sh rbd s nt csing, but

king hr t rk (Th Exit).

Th rst thing I ud sy ith ny th thds -u g is tht yu ys nt t b

nd-rsut cusd, kn ht yu nt t chiv

nt ny in th ng-tr but s in th shrt ith

vry itt st th -u.


9/19



I ging t tk but txt g rst, s it is yrrrd thd vr hn g siy r th

ti cincy, s yu dnt hv t c nd cht,

snding r r ti thn riting ssg nd

hitting th snd buttn.

THE FIRST MESSAGE:

Th rst ssg is by r th st irtnt, it is

hr sh i dcid hthr sh i fk n yu

r nt s this n hs t b n int. First thing I

ging t sk yu t d is t think but th kind rst ssg yu ud snd t gir tht yu

csd, think th xct rds yud rit

Text Game vsPhone Game:


10/19



Mst guys tnd t d sthing such s th

ing:

Hey babe, it was great meeting you last night. How

about a drink this Friday? Bob (Guy you met in Ye

Old Bar last night).

N thr r ints irvnt in hr,

rsty Hy bb this is vry gnric nickn t

giv t gir, sh i hv hrd it iin tis

br nd it is nt scic t hr r th t yu. Hvr, th cnct nickn is vry

ru, it cn gnrt bth crt nd huur,

but th nickn shud b scic t th t

yu .g. i yu t gir in Strbucks, it cud b

s si s Hy Strbucks Idy i yu tsdhr but sthing in st us this, I t gir

h s ring vry sxy utt ith high hs

nd stunning drss, but s r gsss, hist

in-st I sid t hr Sh cnt inncnt itt

I kn yur rky gk nd i tk dvntg


11/19



t hich int sh ughd nd hn I txt

hr I nd th txt ith Hy Frky Gk

t s grt ting yu isnt bd, thugh I nd

ss cny usd djctivs t dscrib ting

th gir g dn uch bttr s thy rfct rtin nd nvr b rid t xrss this tin

ith r ssin. I tn ik sying t girs It s

rndy quirky ting yu sciy i t

in dyg. A studnt in rcnty snt txt

t gir sying It s vry surr ting yu sh t gir n th trin, tht gt n th s

st s hi nd thy hd quick instnt c

dt br rting ys.

At this int I ud s b iing t dd itt bitr substnc hr in rdr t buid crt. Th

rsn bing tht hn gir givs yu hr nubr,

sh gnuiny intndd t rsnd (sciy

i yu us th r- u g tchniqus

ntind bv), thugh s sh gts n ith hr


12/19



i, ts hr rinds, hs rk ddins t t,

sci circ unctins, hr buying trtur t

rsnd dcrss sighty, s such it is irtnt

t gt tht trtur bcku s sh rsnds.

A gd y t buid this crt is t shr ittbit but yur dy r vning nd thn sk hr

but hrs .g. I nt t n tr rty ith y

rinds, h s th rst yur night

Hr I ud just ut y n ith u st, thris n nd t criy hr r hn yu t, yu

ust ssu tht sh uy rbrs givn th

nickn nd th rir rts th ssg.

Hvr, this is nt th nd th ssg, just sith r--u g Th Exit is vry irtnt

nd th st thing yu sy in th txt ssg is

vry irtnt in hr rsnding. As such I ik t

ut PS nd this PS is ys st tins

ith qustin rk .g. Hgn Dzs r Krisy


13/19



Krs? Th rsn r this st tins is siy

tht it i ntic curisity, bsic hun tin

tht is strngr in s thn s nd ds

t ntur inquisitivnss; thus siy t kn

hy yur sking rnd st tins sh

rsnd, s sh nt t kn hy yur sking,is it t sk hr ut, is it bcus yu cnt dcid

hr t g r is it tht yu just cnt dcid hich

n is bttr. As, this cn siy d n t dt,

hichvr tin sh icks yu cn rrng t g

thr th bck it in th scnd txt ssg.Rbr I ntind rir t b nd rsut

cusd t vry st th -u g, th

rst ssg is nt t rrng dt but rthr t

gt ry, s i sh ris nc, bviusy sh

i d s gin.


14/19



S th n txt ssg ud k sthing

ik th ing:

Hey Freeky Geek. It was randomly quirky meeting

you. I went to an afterparty with my friends, how

was the rest of your night? Dharam. Ps HaganDazs or Krispy Kremes?

BASIC PRINCIPLES OF TEXT GAME:

After sending the rst message it is importantt hd ut r rsns nd nt txt gin. A

t n i tk thir ti t rsnd r

th rst ssg st ik ini-tst t s

h ndy yu r, s b tint nd just it

it ut. In terms of when to send the rst message,

gnry I ud sy i yu hv buit strng

nugh cnnctin in-st, s ntind in r-

u g it shudnt ry ttr t

uch hn yu snd th rst txt, thugh yu


15/19



dnt nt t v it t ng. My rsn ru

is i I cs in th dyti I i snd th rst txt

tr tht vning nd i I cs in th vning I

i snd th rst txt th nxt vning. Unss

th vning I ging t txt is ithr Fridy

r Sturdy night, in hich cs I i it untiSundy.

Keep end result focused making sure you are

rrnging dt s sn s ssib r txt

g, thugh d nt hsitt t k txting

st rrngnt dt s it i buid rcrt r hn yu t u.

E-mail message game is exactly the same

rcss s txt ssgs, thugh it is dn

vr th intrnt.

BASIC PRINCIPLES OF PHONE GAME:

Cing gir is uch sir thn txt g,

thugh tks itt ngr s yu hv t snd

ti n th hn tking.


16/19



Always call when in a good state; perhaps even

istn t s usic tht gts yu in gd stt

rir t ringing.

I have found that as opposed to arranging a

dt n th rst hn c, k shrt

cs, nd thn rrng dt. Avoid notoriously long calls such as the clich

ns tht nd-u ith th Yu hng-u, n yu

hng-u nish.

At the end of each phone conversation hang

u n high ik ving th gir nting t tkr ik ny gd stry tr.

Aim to build connections on the phone, just

think it ik nr st ithut ny kin.


17/19



Fcbk is sci ntrking sit tht hs rguby

bc th st ctiv ns ing-u

s yu hv th rtunity t gt t kn rbut ch thr thn ny thr ns.

Th rst ssg is snt hist snding rind

rqust, nd it is in th xct s rt s th

txt ssg rt. Hvr, th ky dirncis ith th Fcbk r yu hv, s th bsic

rincis sttd b r rtd t yur r

nd xiising intrst.

BASIC PRINCIPLES OF FACEBOOK GAME:

PICTURES: This is ky, n k thrugh

yur hts ith n tthcb nd thy hv

t b ttrctiv. Idy yud nt icturs tht

in t n th ing thr ctgris:

Facebook Game:


18/19



Picturs yu ith girs!!!

Picturs yu ding k stu (B it

trving th rd such s n ictur yu

in Mxic ring sbrr nd thn n

yu in R ith th cisu rchitctur

bhind yu r hbby such s rck cibingr krt).

Picturs yu ith chidrn (I hv rind

h is sing dd ys uding icturs

hi nd his dughtr nd n bsuty

uv it, think its th st stst thing in thrd).

THE WALL: It is irtnt tht yur

shs yu hv n ctiv i, idy n

cnting n yur . I hv gru thr r ur girs tht I cbk csd nd

dsit nvr ting u ith th hv

cnvrstins tn, hich givs y cbk

r t rsctin.


19/19


STATUS UPDATES: Thr r rinds

n y cbk hs cbk sttus I ys

just ignr nd brush st. Th rsn bing

tht thy g sthing ik this: I just ku,

I strugging t gt ut bd, I t r

rk, I n trin, tc tc tc I ry dntcr, s th n ti thy ight ut sthing

intrsting s thr cbk sttus I vrk

it. As such cbk sttus chngs shudnt

hn tn nd hn thy d, k th

irtnt nnuncnts, vry quirky rrkr king un t rticur gir (Nt n yur

trying t g, t uch invstnt, it shud

b rind).

follow up game

Documents