neighborhoods to nursing homes the conversation project at ecmc campus
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Neighborhoods to Nursing Homes
The Conversation Project at ECMC Campus
What We Want Versus What Happens
• 90% of us believe that it’s important
to discuss end of life issues with our loved ones. Only 30% do.
• 60% of us say that it extremely important that our family is not burdened by tough decisions.
• 70% of us wish to die at home, yet 70% of us die in a Nursing Home or hospital.
What is “The Conversation”
Tragedies, such as accidents and serious illness can come at any time, at any age, and in any location or circumstance.
My Story
How Many of Us Have Had This Conversation?
When entering into a marriage or committed partnershipWhen a child reaches adulthood or on a significant birthday
When a chronic illness is diagnosedWhen an adult reaches a milestone age
ANYTIME
• When entering into a marriage or committed partnership
• When a child reaches adulthood
• When a chronic illness is diagnosed
• When an adult reaches a milestone age
• ANYTIME
Barriers to Conversation
Bringing Up the Subject
Only you know the folks that you want to include in the conversation. Find an appropriate way of approaching them.
Here are some suggestions:
“I need your Help with something”“I was thinking about what happened when Uncle Joe passed”“I need to think about the future, will you help me?”“I’m OK now, but I’m concerned about what happens if I get sick”
This Issue Has National Attention!!
ABC News Diane Sawyer Report
The Conversation is NOT just about Legal Documents
• It is about OUR wishes and values
• It is about family, friends, and loved ones and their understanding and commitment to carry out your end- of -life wishes• It may result in important documents
Who Will Speak For You?
• NYS Surrogate Health Law
• Health Care Proxy
• MOLST Form
Medical Treatment Options
What is Comfort Care?
Comfort care does not mean "no care."
One Person’s Advance Directive
A Poem
What Matters To You?
Remember, this “Event” is of a most personal
nature!
Insurance is Important, But Assurance is Just As Important!
Start The Conversation