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WINTER 2015
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New and now 4Down the aisle in the trendiest ways
Seating arrangements 8
Top trends in wedding place cards
All in the approach 10Making your wedding path stand out
How to choose how and where to honeymoon 11
Best guest 12Etiquette tips for wedding attendees
Helpers taskers and other party elves 14
Should you hire online help for your big day
Dress trends 15Looking your best on the big day
Plus-size brides 16Bridal beauty at any size
DIY all-in-one or party rental suppliers 17
Le menu du jour 18New trends in menu cards
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New ANDDown the aisle in the trendiest ways
Heidi Mae Bratt x
F rom the beginning of time brides
have wanted to make their wed-
ding day one of the most mem-
orable and special days of their
lives For the few hours of the well-plannedand long-dreamed-about party where they
are center stage they want everything to
be perfect or as perfect as it can be
Many also want it to be on trend
How many remember the 1981 royal
wedding of Diana Princess of Wales The
celebrated nuptials not only captured the
attention of the world but ushered in the
look of the decade which reflected a bride
beauti983142ied by puffy sleeves lace cathedral
train veils pearls cinched waists and
sequinsThese days you nary see a puff on a
sleeve That decadersquos trends went way
beyo nd the dress spil ling into ever y
aspect of the wedding from picture taking
(posed family portraits rather than natural
documentary-style photography) to the
cake (a stacked tiered cake held together
by columns rather than cupcakes or mini
desserts) to the venue (a party in a hotel ballroom rather than a wedding held at a
number of unique places)
We queried several of our own area wed-
ding makers to get their take on what is
new and now in the way of the wedding
Les Friedman owner of Northern Val-
ley Affairs at Temple Emanu-El in Closter
said that having a wedding in a space that
is both indoor and outdoor is something
that many brides want
ldquoBrides de983142initely are looking for theoption of indoor-outdoor for their wed-
ding so they can have the choice when the
weather is permittingrdquo he said
At Northern Valley Affairs events can
even defy the weather outside If itrsquos cold
and the couple wants to use its outdoor
space for the ceremony or for cocktails
heating lamps warm up the outdoors some
30 degrees He said Mr Friedman with
nearly 40 years experience in the events
business works with his general manager
Marty MagedldquoThe outdoor space is used especially
during the warm weather months but we
just did a late November wedding and yes
while it was warm outside 48 degrees we
were able to get it to 70 degrees with the
heating lampsrdquo he said
Brides are also looking for lighting to add
to the ambiance of the party At Northern
Valley Affairs LED lights change the look of
the room or the patio in an instant creat-
ing a different feeling as they change colorfrom amber to purple to blue for example
When it comes to dining Mr Friedman
who cut his teeth on the grand smorgas-
bords of yesterday (remember the stuffed
cabbage and barley laden cha983142ing dishes)
and the heavily prime-rib plated main
courses said there is a major difference
in how the wedding guests are enjoying
their meals today Smaller prettier more
interesting and more ethnic is what is on
the menu especially for appetizers he
said Mini martini glasses 983142illed with sushi- grade tuna and Asian slaw or a tapas-sized
Peking duck roll with a dab of Hoisin sauce
served at various stations is what is big
these days
ldquoThey want a small dainty one-bite
ldquoOne thing that
has not changedand will never change
is that people still want good service
Service is of theutmost importancerdquo
mdash Maria Daidone
With every decade there are new trends forweddings that make the ceremony au courant
Now
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appetizer They donrsquot want to have to use
a knife or fork They just want to pick and
gordquo he said
The small sized and big variety option
goes for dessert as well
Instead of the slice of wedding cake
(where do you see the bride and groom
even cutting the cake before the guests)
and the groaning and overflowing Vien-
nese table laden with desserts the sweets
are made part of the party Mini desserts
are served butler-style to guests who are
either seated or still dancing The offerings
are dizzying from dipped pretzels to cake
lollipops to mini-cheesecakes (pareve)
Sweets arrive on the dance floor as the
guests are boogieing
Another big trend is that the dancing
just doesnrsquot stop Brides want the party to
go on and on
ldquoYears ago the band would stop playingabout 983142ive times and ask the guests to be
seated to be served their various courses
the fruit cup salad appetizer main
course and dessert They used to take a
break every 20 minutes Now itrsquos nonstop
dancing in the ballroom Maybe they sit
down twicerdquo he said
Deena Greenstein the in-house event
planner for Five Star Caterers and head of
Deena Greenstein Events says that wed-
dings are no longer hamstrung by old con-
ventions or traditionsldquoThere are no rules anymore People are
doing whatever they wantrdquo she said
For example setting up a lounge for
guests was a thing common to bar and bat
mitzvahs but now weddings are including
this element In addition custom is king
she said whether it is custom linen a cus-
tom bar with a monogrammed design or
a custom dance floor
For the food Ms Greenstein said there
is a ldquoblend and balance of fun and healthyrdquosuch as a lean lamb turkey or vegetable
sliders with shoestring French fries
ldquoThere is the fun stuff but itrsquos coupled
with the classic and organic foods like
fresh vegetables and local seasonal pro-
duce Ms Greenstein said ldquoSushi is also
making a big comeback with not only the
quality but also the excitement of a beauti-
ful displayrdquo
Maria Daidone owner of the The Estates
at Florentine Gardens in River Vale said
that outdoor ceremonies where guestsenjoy the natural space is something that
has become a big part of todayrsquos weddings
Her venue she added has ldquoa beautiful gar-
den spacerdquo
Another thing Ms Daidone has noted is
that the color scheme is lighter with more
brides choosing to have their weddings
in shades that are more subdued such as
cream and nudeldquoYears ago everything was lavender but
you donrsquot see that todayrdquo she said
For after-dessert or the little goodie
sendoff food trucks have become a big
trend Guests can get donuts coffee
candy and pretzels anything that yoursquod
get from a food truck right at the event
ldquoThey just park outside and when guests
are leaving they give them water or soda or
a snackrdquo Ms Daidone said ldquoItrsquos become a
big thing in the last couple of yearsrdquo
Yossi Abadi owner of the Palisadium inCliffside Park said that the do-it-yourself
trend especially in the era of Pinterest
has become favored at weddings
For instance the centerpieces on the
tables are no longer big overwhelming
bou quet s of flowers but perhaps an
arrangement of shrubs that has been
designed by the bride Another example
of new and now is how the hosts commu-nicate with guests about where they are
to be seated Creative ways such as a big
billboard have replaced individual place
cards Mr Abadi said
ldquoWe had one client recently who used a
large mirror that had the guestsrsquo names on
it instead of place cardsrdquo he said
Whatrsquos new at the Marriott Glenpointe
is a complete renovation of its 345 guest
rooms an overhaul that includes new
bathrooms furniture carpeting and wall-
paper For guests who will use the hotelrooms for their bridal party or wedding
this is a bonus said Mitchell Heymann
director of sales and marketing
When it comes to weddings at hotels
Gerry Burns the director of catering at
the Pearl River Hilton in Pearl River NY
said that she has seen more full-weekend
weddings at her hotel than in the past In
the past it may have just been a Saturdaynight event but these days the wedding
spans the weekend Guests may arrive on
Friday for Shabbat for a rehearsal dinner
They spend Saturday either observing the
Sabbath or enjoying the day otherwise
with various activities attend the Satur-
day night wedding and then remain at the
hotel until Sunday for a farewell brunch
ldquoItrsquos a destination wedding without hav-
ing to really go far to a destinationrdquo said
Ms Burns
Noam Sokolow president of Rave Cater-ing and Event Planning said that many
weddings are taking place at unique ven-
ues such as old mansions or farms with
barns If the affair is smaller and more
intimate 200 guests as compared to 400
Grand cocktail receptions featuring an array of smallfinger food are very popular these days
Lovely outdoor venues like this setting in a garden gazebo are somethingthat brides are looking for
Brides and grooms want documentary style photography to capture their event more than posed stills
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guests it can take place in a more unique setting he said
ldquoPeople are inviting friends and not just people they are
friendly withrdquo he said
The music for weddings is also being mixed up a bit Itis not unusual to 983142ind a live band during the cocktail hour
and ceremony and then a DJ playing great dance music for
the party that follows
When it comes to food according to Mr Sokolow
pairings of food and drink are very popular For example
983142ish tacos may be served with an individual margarita slid-
ers can be chased down with a beer and bourbon-infused
short ribs can be enjoyed with a shot of bourbonAri Starkman owner of The Elan in Lodi said that
grand cocktail receptions are very popular these days
In addition Mr Starkman said there are more ethnic
customizations such as combining for example Russian
and Chinese elements in the wedding He recalled one
affair in which caviar and blintzes (Russian) shared the
menu with steamed dumplings (Chinese) because the
groom was Russian Jewish and the bride was Chinese ndasha culinary combination that gives a nod to both of their
cultures
With weddings styles may change The music may play
longer The food may be jazzed up But brides grooms
and their guests will always want to have a wonderful
party that celebrates their union in a special way and that
will be a memorable event
ldquoAnd one thing that has not changed and will never
changerdquo said Ms Daidone of The Estates at Florentine
Gardens ldquois that people still want good service Service is
of the utmost importance That will never change I hope
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Seating arrangementsTop trends in wedding place cards Sharon Naylor x
Y ou may have seen guests
crowded around a reception
table searching for their alpha-
betically arranged place cards
That shoulder-to-shoulder press of guests
has long been a scene at weddings and
todayrsquos innovations help eliminate the
long line and discomfort of trying to read
those small cards
Now the traditional card kerfuffle may
be replaced by a new display It rsquos a top
wedding trend and a popular place card
option seen on Pinterest is to eliminate the
printed card and write guestsrsquo names on a
tall vertical display such as a glass window
or mirror Guestsrsquo names and table num-
bers c an be displayed on signs installed
behind the bar or hung in frames gallery-
style on the walls at the cocktail partyThese vertical card-free table assignments
become decor pieces as well as easy-to-use
directions for guests
Vertical displays have also given the
tradition a twist by listing guestsrsquo names
according to table number not alpha-
betically Itrsquos easy for guests to spot their
names under say Table 7 and they can
see names of the other guests with whom
theyrsquore seated No more standing by the
place card table little card in hand ask-
ing their friends ldquoWhere are you sittingrdquo
Jenny Orsini wedding planner says that
this place card display creates better
momentum for your celebration allowing
guests to move right into the cocktail party
or reception without that ldquopileup of name-
searching at an entry tablerdquo
If you do wish to have printed place
cards use pretty cardstock and gorgeous
fonts that coordinate with your wedding
invitations and other print items at your wedding Decorat ive borders seasonal
colors theme motifs and elegant hand-
writing or print on the cards are all great
options (ldquoJust no computer-printed labels
pleaserdquo says Orsini pointing to the lack of
elegance in that method)
As an alternative to the tented card
flat cards are also used mdash perhaps stood
up in sand- grass- or floral-983142illed trays
for a pretty presentation These flat cards
may be attached to take-home favors like
ornate keys or charms And flat cards are
also being af983142ixed via ribbon to mini bot-
tles of bourbon tequila chocolate liqueur
or other take-home tastes that work dou-
ble-duty as place cards and favors
And another trend in wedding place
cards is writing guestsrsquo names in metallic
pen on shiny green leaves or on polished
river stones for a natural feel to comple-
ment wedding decor This natural style
is a thrill for guests since they can takethe ldquocardrdquo home and put it on display
perhaps next to a framed photo of them-
selves taken at the wedding That adds
more appreciation for your chosen design
than a simple printed card theyrsquore likely to
leave on the table at the end of the night
Speaking of keepsakes a framed dis-
play of guestsrsquo names and table numbers
becomes a wonderful keepsake for you
Perhaps a dating or engaged couple who
originally met at your wedding seated
together at Table 7 will want the display
to be shown at their wedding someday
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additionalwedding books Creatorscom
Leaves and stones are top trends inwedding guest place cardsCREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF MERCEDES NORIEGA
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All in the approachMaking your wedding path stand out
Sharon Naylor x
A s you plan your wedding decor
donrsquot forget about the paths
leading to your ceremony and
reception You may have cho-
sen your wedding location simply for the
beauty of the venue itself but you cancreate a fabulous scene for your arriving
guests by decorating the trees along the
driveway or footpath Their anticipation
builds as they see your decor and light-
ing effects along the way giving them an
even more magical 983142irst impression of your
wedding day And if your venue is one that
your guests have been to for other wed-
dings decorating the approach to the site
makes for a new unique experience
Here are some ways to make your wedding paths stand out
Hanging floralsAdorn the pathrsquos tree line with flowers and
garlands that hint at your weddingrsquos floral
motif Joyce Maffeo florist at BloomNa-
tion says ldquoYou can either display flowers
on their own such as by stringing florals
on ribbon or 983142ishing wire or display flow-
ers inside antique bottles or other glass
vesselsrdquo The advantage of the in-vessel
flower display is that flowers stay hydrated with a bit of water in the bottle allowing
them to hold up well in late-summerearly-
fall sunshine
Some open-air flowers that Maffeo
recommends for their staying power
include orchids eucalyptuses and strung
daisies
ldquoFor in-vessel flowers consider protea
orchids hypericum and ornamental kale
for a pop of purple colorrdquo says Maffeo
ldquoWreaths hanging from trees also add to
the beautiful approachrdquo One flower to be
wary of since it easily wilts in the sun is
hydrangea Maffeo suggests instead using
bunches of carnations which hold up
better in the sun
This knowledge of flowersrsquo strength in
sunshine mdash important since your floral
team will likely set up your approach
decor several hours before your wedding
mdash is one example of why you should have
professionals create your floral pieces
String lights andhanging lanternsFor a sunset or evening wedding string
lights arranged in the trees add breath-
taking effect whether you use just a few
string lights per tree or many In addi-
tion to string lights lanterns hung from
S-hooks on the trees create that trendy
look of rustic elegance And you can take
those lanterns home after the wedding to
use them in your own backyard
Non-hanging lanternsTall lanterns clustered along a path or set
on stairs leading to the wedding sites are
a new top trend for weddings this year
and next Lanterns may be metallic such
as copper or bronze or rustic-themed in
white or black Upscale home decor stores
sell lanterns as part of the outdoor enter-
taining trend These larger lanterns can be
used at home after your big day
Candles
Position a large number of traditional orLED candles in glass vessels at the entrance
to your ceremony or reception spot This
is a stunning look for exterior doors and
if you have a portico that guests will pass
through to get to an inner ceremony or
celebration space arrange a large amount
of vessel-nested candles on either side of a
clear walking pathway
Tiki torchesldquoThe use of Tiki torches creates not only
a path to the reception but also softens
the lighting for a romantic moodrdquo says
Allison Sells catering manager for Caneel
Bay Resort in the US Virgin Islands Since
Tiki torches create one single light source
per torch pair them with overhead string
lights or ground-set lanterns to multiply
your lighting effect
UplightingSetting lights at the base of trees and
directing the light upward gives those trees
a magical and impressive glow Sells says
that uplighting palm trees creates a ldquowowrdquofactor especially complementing a tropical
wedding location
Signs
Chalkboard signs with personalized
messages can be used multiple times along
the path with friendly welcome messages
invitations to ldquoGet the party startedrdquo and
directions to wedding sites In the evening
try lit marquee signs illuminating the path
with words like ldquoLoverdquo ldquoXOXOrdquo or your
monogram These too can be take-home
decor to forever remind you of your big
day
MusicPiped-in music along your path adds a wel-
coming soundtrack to the approach
If your venue has an interesting history
beautiful scenery or perhaps a s tunning
sunset that will light up the sky with colors
during your weddingrsquos arrival time you
might not need any additional decor or
lighting at all Mother Nature has taken
care of that as her wedding gift to you
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
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Teresa Iqbal x
T he honeymoon is typically the last climactic
event of the wedding process As the culminat-
ing event that pulls everything together and
leaves couples with their 983142irst opportunity to
relax and begin enjoying life together itrsquos important to
make it as enjoyable as possible But where do you begin
when it comes to choosing where and how to enjoy your
983142irst moments together as a married couple on your
honeymoon
Choosing a honeymoon destination that represents
your interests as a couple is perhaps the best place to start
narrowing down destination choices Do you love art andmuseums If so a large city with ample opportunity for
you to spend the days among art exhibits and historical
pieces is probably best suited for you Perhaps yoursquore a
couple who consider themselves literary Take some time
to research places where literary authors made history
and immerse yourself in these same spots Maybe a good
time for you means spending most of your days beach-
side Be sure to choose a honeymoon destination where
you can spend your days on the beach and take part in
activities on the water Enjoying the overall culture of your
destination is an important key to having a happy and ful-983142illing experience on your honeymoon
You neednrsquot spend an outrageous amount of money
traveling to a tropical destination either Chances are
that there are beautiful spots closer than you think where
you could make great memories doing the things you both
love In fact building your honeymoon itinerary around
the activities you love allows you to consider an array of
vacation spots that 983142it a number of budgets Whether itrsquos
staying in your country your state or even your own city
yoursquore bound to 983142ind a number of ways to celebrate They
key is to narrow down activities that are important to you
both and plan your honeymoon around cities where youknow you can have a good time doing the things you enjoy
If you are hoping to spend your vacation traveling to
faraway destinations there are other ways to be budget-
conscious while still having a good time overseas Cruises
are one honeymoon option that more and more couples
are taking advantage of every day Theyrsquore great for those
hoping to get more bang for their buck According to Lux-
ury Travel Magazine ldquowith some cruise lines port taxes
meals drinks entertainment activities and even tips are
all included in the upfront cost of a cruise Itrsquos easy to work
out a per-day cost to compare to other forms of travelrdquo
Taking a cruise also simpli983142ies the logistical process of
vacationing For example you need only unpack and pack
once Most if not all meals are included in the passen-
ger fare as well as an array of activities to be enjoyed on
the ship Splurging on meals at local spots where the ship
docks allows couples to experience 983142ine dining without
having to worry about shelling out cash at every single
meal The same goes for activities Many cruise lines orga-
nize activities off the ship that couples can take part in
such as scuba diving and museum tours which means less
hassle and work involved in 983142inding fun things to do in
your destination city leaving more time both on and offthe boat to enjoy yourselves to the fullest
A similar option for those who donrsquot want to deal with
all the stress and planning of both a wedding and a hon-
eymoon is the all-inclusive resort All-inclusives are great
for those looking for a hassle-free experience Couples can
How to choose how and where to honeymoon
pamper themselves and share all of the same bene983142its as
cruisers such as included activities and meals Just be sure
to choose a destination yoursquod both be interested in explor-
ing and experiencing to some depth because you likely
wonrsquot be doing much more than day trips to closer more
local spots This is de983142initely an upside for those looking
to stay in one place for longer and more deeply immerse
themselves in the culture art and cuisine of one location
of their choosing rather than visiting an array of destina-
tions for a short amount of time
Itrsquos clear that no matter your focus interest or budget
there are several different options to take advantage of
when creating a lasting honeymoon experienceCreatorscom
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Best guestEtiquette tips for wedding attendees Kristen Castillo x
Once the invitation arrives in
the mail you start asking your-
self questions ldquoWhat should I
wearrdquo ldquoWhat gift should I getrdquo
ldquoCan I invite a guestrdquo
All of these questions and more are com-
mon concerns for wedding guests Read on
for tips from wedding and etiquette profes-sionals for answers to your questions and
983142ind out what it takes to be a great guest
Can you bring a dateThe general rule The only people who
can attend the wedding are the ones listed
on the invitation So if the invite says ldquoMr
and Mrs Jonesrdquo then only the husband
and wife can attend If it just says ldquoMiss
Jonesrdquo then the woman must attend the
wedding aloneMake sure you RSVP for the wedding
by the date indicated on the invitation
Showing up anyway after neglecting to
RSVP is a big no-no
If your childrenrsquos names arenrsquot listed on
the invitation donrsquot show up to the wed-
ding as a family
ldquoA gentle way to deal with this situation
is to have the family table off to the side
or back of the reception areardquo says author
and etiquette expert Jacqueline Whitmore
who is also the founder of The ProtocolSchool of Palm Beach
Another option The bride and groom
might provide guests who have children
the ldquoname of a reputable baby sitter in
your area who is willing to accommodate
parents who want to attend the weddingrdquo
suggests Whitmore
What to wearWeddings tend to be dressy events but
exactly how dressyIf the invitation says ldquoblack tierdquo wear a
tuxedo
Otherwise ldquoa man should wear a suit
and a woman should wear a cocktail dress
or Sunday bestrdquo says wedding planner
Fran Plodkowski of Social Graces noting
beach weddings can be more casualldquoRemember it is a weddingrdquo says Plod-
kowski ldquoLook your bestrdquo
Gift guideGiving a wedding gift is customary but do
you give a gift off the couplersquos registry or
write a check If so how much to give
Therersquos no 983142ixed answer here
ldquoPeople do not know how much to giverdquo
says Plodkowski who advises guests to
give what they want to and can afford
Still you donrsquot have to give a gift of equal value to the price of the dinner especially
since many weddings are big budget
Typically the closer guests are to the
bride and groom the more theyrsquoll give For
example the groomrsquos sister would give a
larger gift than his co-worker would
Time mattersGuests often mistakenly assume weddings
donrsquot start on time
ldquoAs a result we see guests that purpose-fully arrive laterdquo says Camille McLamb
founder and lead coordinator at Camille
Victoria Weddings noting ceremony and
reception schedules are 983142ixed to accom-
modate parties and events throughout
the day
ldquoGuests should plan to arrive at least10 minutes before the start time listed on
the invitationrdquo urges McLamb ldquoIf a guest
ends up arriving late she should try to
check if the bridal party is lined up before
going inside If the bridal party is lined up
and about to go down the aisle the guest
should wait off to the side until the pro-
cessional is over and then sneak in up a
side aislerdquo
Remember yoursquore not
the photographerSure itrsquos exciting to capture the wedding in
photos but remember yoursquore a guest not
a photographer on assignment
ldquoDonrsquot photobomb the vowsrdquo says eti-
quette expert Cheryl Seidel ldquoRemember
therersquos probably a professional photogra-
pher somewhere behind you trying to do
the job the couple has hired him to dordquo
Seidel also reminds guests to not block
people behind them instead sit in the
back or on the far aisle Also donrsquot use aniPad to shoot photos ldquoTherersquos no way you
can be inconspicuousrdquo she says
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Before you post your pictures to social media such
as Instagram and Facebook make sure the couple
approve
Whatrsquos for dinnerEven if the reception venue is a restaurant itrsquos not OK
for guests to order whatever they want Thatrsquos because
the menu is preordered and paid for by the bride and
groom Even vegetarian vegan or specialty-diet meals
are ordered ahead of time
Guests with special dietary needs such as gluten
intolerance or nut allergies should inform the bride
and groom at the time of RSVP
AccessibilityOften guests worry about getting in and around the cer-emony and reception venues
ldquoEspecially with the rise in loft weddings not all wed-
ding venues have elevatorsrdquo says McLamb For elderly
and disabled guests ldquostairs and moving from one space
to another within a venue can present dif983142icultiesrdquo
McLamb advises brides and grooms to tell guests
about any potential accessibility challenges at the venue
so the guests can prepare ahead of time She also says
couples should reserve some tables for elderly guests
during cocktail hour Creatorscom Before you post your pictures to social media such as Instagram and Facebook make sure the couple approves(CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF NICHOLAS PURCELL STUDIO)
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HELPERS TASKERS
AND OTHER PARTY FIXERSShould you hire online help for your big day
Kristen Castillo x
W edding planning is 983142illed
with details large and small
Finding help isnrsquot always
easy but itrsquos necessary
Need help planning your engagement
party Want assistance assembling your welcome bags Loo king for som eon e
with nice penmanship to write out your
place cards
It used to be that yoursquod have to do these
jobs yourself ask friends or family or hire
an event professional So what should you
do when yoursquore overwhelmed and family
and friends arenrsquot available Nowadays
you can go online to hire helpers to get the
job done
Thatrsquos what happened for a couplersquos
wedding in Los Angeles The groom sur-
prised his bride during the reception with
her favorite New England treat Hoodsie
Cups which are paper cups 983142illed with
a mix of both chocolate and vanilla ice
cream But 983142irst the groom had to 983142igure
out how to get the frozen dessert to the
West Coast for his bride who is originally
from New England He hired a ldquoTaskerrdquo
via TaskRabbit the leading on-demand
home services app connecting busy peo-
ple with a network of Taskers in theirarea mdash or in this case someone from the
Northeast who could buy and overnight
ship 150 ice-cream cups in an industrial
strength cooler
The groom tells TaskRabbit that making
the Hoodsie Cups surprise happen was
ldquode983142initely a memory the both of us will
have for the rest of our livesrdquo and he says
that without the Taskerrsquos help he doesnrsquot
think he could have made it happen
Help for hireMany couples are hiring helpers to assist
with pre-wedding prep including every-
thing from envelope calligraphy to deco-
rating the venue to DJrsquoing or baking the
wedding cake
Some brides and grooms solicit the help
online with ads on Craigslist or v ia social
media posts asking for help with certain
wedding tasks S ites like TaskRabbit are
growing too
ldquoTaskers helping with weddings has become a big thing in the past two yearsrdquo
says Jamie Viggiano TaskRabbitrsquos VP of
marketing citing examples like helping
to plan a surprise engagement by deco-
rating an apartment with hundreds of
rose petals and LED candles deliver-
ing a wedding cake in Washington DC
and helping assemble and deliver flower
arrangements
Additional wedding tasks completed
include picking up and delivering last-
minute items like ice batteries and coffee
sorting scanning and uploading photos
for a wedding slideshow and setting up
wedding FaceTime sessions between the
couple and their loved ones who couldnrsquot
attend the ceremony in person ldquoThis has
been done a number of times with older
clients who arenrsquot savvy with technolo983143yrdquo
says Viggiano
PricingPaying for wedding help a la carte seems
to be a 983142it for couples who canrsquot afford or
donrsquot want to hire professional weddingcoordinators Some brides and grooms
list the project budget in their social media
and Craigslist posts others take bids from
anyone who responds to the ads
On TaskRabbit Taskers set their own
hourly rate by category When clients
post a task TaskRabbit provides a list of
several candidates in the area and the
individualrsquos skills The client pays once
the task is 983142inished
ldquoBrides and grooms are recognizing that
they donrsquot need to do all the wedding prep
on their own and that they can outsource
some of the more mundane tedious tasks
to quali983142ied peoplerdquo says Viggiano noting
that outsourcing the work ldquomakes a stress-
ful situation less stressfulrdquo
Buyer bewareSome wedding experts caution brides and
grooms that hiring a stranger to assist with
wedding details might not be a good idea
The reason Typically the helper is inex-
perienced with weddings and might not be
accountableldquoUnless you are a really laid-back bride
I would not recommend hiring helpers in
this wayrdquo says Michelle Balducci-Connelly
of Michelle Marie Photographie ldquoCraigslist
workers have little to no repercussions if
they donrsquot perform A professional will
have a reputation to uphold and has an
incentive to perform well because they are
making a career out of their servicerdquo
Still she understands the appeal of hir-
ing wedding helpers
ldquoWith ever-increasing costs of wed-
dings my couples are always looking to
save in areas they deem appropriaterdquo
says Balducci-Connelly noting that hiring
a day-of planner for example would cost
anywhere from $500 to $1000 for recep-
tion setup and organization compared to
a hired helper who would likely charge
an hourly or flat rate ldquothat would be far
less than a day-of coordinator would
chargerdquo
Before hiring anyone to help with your
event get references if possible and
make sure yoursquore comfortable with theirskills reliability and overall credibility
You only get one chance to make your
wedding day a success so be con983142ident in
your hiring decisions
Creatorscom
Many couples hire helpers to assist them with wedding planning such as ldquoTaskersrdquo from TaskRabbit CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF TASKRABBIT
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Dress trendsLooking your best on the big day Julia Price x
W eddings are a big deal All
the planning coordinating
decision-making letdowns
stressful situations mdash they
all fade away and become worth it the
moment the bride walks down the aisle
So of course no pressure with picking out
the perfect dress or anything rightBut really itrsquos hard to go wrong nowa-
days Luckily for everyone the lsquo80s have
come and gone and have graciously taken
their wedding dress signature styles with
them
In general wedding dresses are veer-
ing toward a less poofy look and going
toward a sleeker form-983142itting hourglass
shape This creates a more dramatic effect
when the train of the dress 983142ills out behind
the bride while also enhancing feminine
strength in the upper body
Another trend this season is the
off-the-shoulder look Several years ago
the sleeveless dress was a big hit but now
itrsquos been slightly modi983142ied to keep the shoul-
ders bare with the straps lightly hanging off
Whether the dress is white silk Chantilly
lace or ballgown-style this off-the-shoul-
der appeal creates a delicate look
The popular shabby chic furniture trend
seems to have influenced brides-to-be as
well Seeing as many couples are choos-ing the country feel mdash complete with
Mason jars mdash for their big day it makes
sense that women are looking for a dress
to match that vibe Yoursquoll see more and
more dresses with corded details and lace
accents and yoursquoll see less beadwork than
you had on some of the past looks
Also trending this season is embellishing
the back of the dress In addition to adding
a new element of beauty it makes sense
because guests wil l have a close visual of
the bridersquos back as shersquos approaching her
husband-to-be Intricate detailing on the
Trending this season is embellishing the back of the dressCREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF JULIA PRICE
back might include a crisscross or spar-
kling tulle Some brides are opting for
completely backless dresses This goes well
with layers of lace and the silhouette look
Though itrsquos good to look for many
options online (try bridescom or search for
your perfect look on Pinterest) yoursquove got
to trust your gut with what feels right for
you This is one of those situations where
no matter who else speaks up as long as
yoursquore saying ldquoI dordquo to the dress then
yoursquore going to be happy Creatorscom
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Plus-size bridesBridal beauty at any size
Kristen Castillo x
T here is a wedding gown for every
bride but if yoursquore over size 14
it might be a challenge to 983142ind
the perfect dress Luckily thatrsquos
changing Thanks to the TLC television show
ldquoCurvy Bridesrdquo and bridal shops that cater to
plus-size brides itrsquos getting easier for brides
of all sizes to 983142ind their dream dresses
These days the average woman in the
US wears a size 14 and yet bridal gownstraditionally are made for smaller sizes
ldquoPlus-size for us means anyone who
has had trouble 983142inding dresses to 983142it them
elsewhererdquo say Yuneisia Harris and Yukia
Walker owners of full-983142igured bridal salon
Curvaceous Couture and stars of ldquoCurvy
Bridesrdquo
Walker knows how frustrating it can
be for plus-sized brides to 983142ind a gown
After getting engaged she struggled to
983142ind sample gowns and ultimately didnrsquot
like the dress she chose Out of that expe-
rience she and her sister started their
company
The sisters explain that in evenin983143wear
and in bridal everything is cut smaller
ldquoSo while a person might have a smaller
street size like a 12 or a 14 in a wedding
gown they might have to order something
as large as a 20rdquo
That means when traditional bridal
salons have sample dresses in sizes 8 to 12ldquotheyrsquore really only servicing brides whose
street size is 4 to 10rdquo say Harris and Walker
Plus-Size PerceptionsThe notion of plus-size bridal fashion car-
ries many misconceptions In some cases
brides arenrsquot aware that plus-sizing exists
in the wedding world because itrsquos typi-
cally underrepresented or not seen at all
Often plus-size brides end up buying
wedding gowns online mdash one of the few
places with larger sizes
Still others assume dresses in larger
sizes should be plain and not embellished
ldquothat plus-size women donrsquot desire the
same beautiful dresses and fabrics as theirstraight-size counterpartsrdquo says Erena
Shklovsky creative director and head
designer for plus-size designer IGIGI not-
ing that many plus-size brides want ldquodeli-
cate beading luxe fabrics and innovative
cuts just like other bridesrdquo
Another misconception That being
plus-sized means you need to cover up
ldquoIrsquod say that 60 percent of our brides ini-
tially ask us to add a sleeve or a shawl to
a dress because theyrsquore afraid of showing
their arms or backrdquo say Harris and Walkernoting that adding a sleeve or a strap for
example ldquois not the most flattering choice
for a briderdquo
In other cases gowns with straps
sleeves and extra fabric can make a bride
look matronly
ldquoWe just want our brides to be happy
with their dresses and sometimes that
means helping them embrace their natu-
ral beautyrdquo say Harris and Walker who
feel viewers like the show because it allows
them to see brides they relate to try on and
look great in gorgeous gowns
Fashionable Choices
Designing full-983142igured fashions involvesmore than simply adding extra fabric
Because every bride has a different size
and body shape gowns need specialized
983142its including built-in support for large
busts for example
More fashion lines and bridal lines are
starting to embrace women of all sizes
Harris and Walker praise designers like Roz
la Kelin and Enzoani for being some of the
983142irst designers to offer plus-size samples
ldquoI think the biggest and best addition
to plus-size bridal collections is ChristianSirianorsquos dress for Nicolette Masonrdquo says
Shklovsky ldquoIt showed the rest of the fash-
ion world that plus-sized women deserve
more than to be covered with loads and
loads of fabricrdquo
Still no wedding gown is truly ready-to-
wear All dresses need alterations including
changes to hemlines bust lines waistlines
sleeves and shoulder straps No matter
what the dress size a perfect 983142it is flattering
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DIY all-in-one or party rental suppliers Chelle Cordero x
Itrsquos your wedding day and there areso many plans to be made You want
the day to be spectacular Between
budgets traditions choosing a loca-
tion considering the time of year and
weather and most importantly your idea
of a dream wedding mdash itrsquos enough to make
your head spin
You may choose an all-in-one venue that
comes with its own gorgeous setting cater-
ing waitstaff tables and chairs and hope
that the cost is within your reach DIY
wedding plans may or may not be moreeconomical but many excited couples opt
for more personalized settings and control
over the way things are done One thing is
for sure You probably donrsquot own enough
chairs tables and service to make it hap-
pen without help
You could always buy the folding chairs
and tables linens and glassware for your
event but then you need a place to store
everything before and after the party
Owning everything makes you solely respon-
sible for cleaning and ironing linens polish-
ing service and washing all of the dishware before and after use (especially if itrsquos been
sitting awhile) It is often more ef983142icient to
simply rent what you need for each occasion
if you plan to throw several parties
Letrsquos go rental
Every bride in your family before
you was married in Aunt Franrsquos parlor
and thatrsquos the beginning yoursquove always
dreamed of with a reception in the back-
yard But then you remember the light rain
shower during your cousinrsquos gala and how
it chased everyone away Yoursquoll need seat-ing and decorations for inside and yoursquoll
want to add a tent to the tables chairs and
buffet setting outside Or maybe the old
barn could be gussied up for a fancy do
but the dirt floor leaves a lot to be desired
especially when it comes to dancing -- but
thatrsquos not a problem if you add a rented
dance floor (or more)
Party rental companies offer everything
from aisle covers to wine glasses Choose
table linens centerpieces pole covers (to
hide tent supports) dance floors of various
sizes stages and more If you are worriedabout the weather 983142ind tents for outdoor
parties they come with sides or open with
options for fans or heaters for comfort
Serve delicious meals with gas or charcoal
grill rentals and buffet-style cha983142ing dishes
There is no limit to what you can do Paper
plates are great for picnics but if you pre-
fer restaurant-style service 983142ind china
charger plates silver service goblets and
flutes and linen napkins and tablecloths
Check out the party supply rental com-
panies in your area to 983142ind out what theyoffer and compare prices Make sure to
include delivery costs as well as delivery
terms such as how far in advance they will
deliver and when they will pick up after the
affair Visit the showrooms to see the qual-
ity of merchandise they offer By all means
get recommendations and warnings from
other consumers you certainly donrsquot want
to 983142ind out on the day of the party that the
tablecloths are stained or that you were
shorted on the glassware Ask about their
reputation for reliability their willingness
to work with you and whether there is an
extra charge for setup Also 983142ind out in what
condition the items have to be returned
mdash eg do the dishes need to be washedor simply scraped do the linens need to
be laundered and what are the costs for
breakage If possible compare the prices
quality service and reputations of a few
companies before making a 983142inal decision
Some party rental suppliers will work
with area vendors such as caterers and
wait staff to help you 983142ind a complete
package for your magical day Make an
appointment to sit down with your cho-
sen rental company and explain your
vision to them A party planner can makehelpful suggestions based on the compa-
nyrsquos experience with previous weddings
and parties They can tell you how many
plates glasses and flatware sets to rent
based on the number of people invited
always order a few extra pieces in case of
breakage or unexpected guests Read the
contract carefully to verify that all dates
quantities and service details are spelled
out correctly Creatorscom
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N E W
Le menu du jour
New trends in menu cards Sharon Naylor x
W hen printed menu cards
983142irst showed up as wed-
ding table additions guests
loved reading those delec-
table descriptions of the courses to come
during the dinner There was at 983142irst one
printed card per round table then four
or so spaced apart on long tables Guests
took turns looking at the elegantly printedcards with the dazzling print script Soon
individual menu cards were placed on
each guestrsquos plate for easier use and now
those individual menu cards are being per-
sonalized to each guest
ldquoYour tablescape offers countless oppor-
tunities to wow guests with custom details
and personalized menu cards are func-
tional and beautiful while making guests
feel like an important part of your big dayrdquo
says Vanessa Wicks event sales director at
Weylin B Seymourrsquos a historic event venue
in Brooklyn that has been the site of celeb-
rity weddings and events
When guests arrive at their tables they
983142ind their names printed on the menu
cards showing that you value their pres-
ence on their big day And the artistry of
their name handwritten in calligraphy
complements the loveliness of your wed-
ding design Yoursquove taken great care withthe smallest of details elevating your wed-
ding as a whole
Another advantage of customized menu
cards is the ability to tailor guestsrsquo special
menu requirements such as a gluten-free
vegan or kosher meal When guests see
their menu card they know right away
that yoursquove heard and honored their
requests They donrsquot need to be anxious
about their special meals
To help you create your personalized
menu cards keep the following tips in
mind
bull Spell names correctly Triple-check
your invitations list looking at guestsrsquosocial media pages for backup to be sure
each guestrsquos name is spelled correctly It
would be an awful faux pas if you created
a card for ldquoJohnrdquo when he goes by ldquoJonrdquo
bull Plan for dim lighting Your recep -
tion ballroom may be dimly lit illumi-
nated by candles and that low light can
make light-colored print dif983142icult to read
Larger script in a good contrasting shade
makes your menu card easier to see Not
all guests bring their reading glasses with
them Metallic print will capture candle-light so consider shimmery lettering
bull Create personalized menu cards for
children as well Theirs can be designed
differently than adult guestsrsquo cards using
kid-themed colors and motifs Add a print
game to the back of the card to provide a
fun activity
bull Add an accent to the back of guestsrsquo
menu cards A personalized note from you
may be extra work but it goes a long way
to making your guests feel like VIPs Or if
a personalized message isnrsquot realistic for
your time and budget print an inspiring
and romantic or a foodie-themed quote
on the back of each cardbull Ask your chef to help Make your menu
card mouth-watering with chef-provided
dish descriptions of each course
bull Include drink pairing choices with
each course Again your chef or bar man-
ager can provide pairing ideas using vin-
tages and cocktails that will be served at
your wedding
You might be wondering whether per-
sonalized menu cards at each guestrsquos
seat will tell each guest where to sit at
the table While guests are free to switchseats it is a good idea to put your guest
menu cards in order by table so that
staffers handling your weddingrsquos table
setups can place cards in the order you
prefer seating spouses and families next
to each other
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
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New and now 4Down the aisle in the trendiest ways
Seating arrangements 8
Top trends in wedding place cards
All in the approach 10Making your wedding path stand out
How to choose how and where to honeymoon 11
Best guest 12Etiquette tips for wedding attendees
Helpers taskers and other party elves 14
Should you hire online help for your big day
Dress trends 15Looking your best on the big day
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New ANDDown the aisle in the trendiest ways
Heidi Mae Bratt x
F rom the beginning of time brides
have wanted to make their wed-
ding day one of the most mem-
orable and special days of their
lives For the few hours of the well-plannedand long-dreamed-about party where they
are center stage they want everything to
be perfect or as perfect as it can be
Many also want it to be on trend
How many remember the 1981 royal
wedding of Diana Princess of Wales The
celebrated nuptials not only captured the
attention of the world but ushered in the
look of the decade which reflected a bride
beauti983142ied by puffy sleeves lace cathedral
train veils pearls cinched waists and
sequinsThese days you nary see a puff on a
sleeve That decadersquos trends went way
beyo nd the dress spil ling into ever y
aspect of the wedding from picture taking
(posed family portraits rather than natural
documentary-style photography) to the
cake (a stacked tiered cake held together
by columns rather than cupcakes or mini
desserts) to the venue (a party in a hotel ballroom rather than a wedding held at a
number of unique places)
We queried several of our own area wed-
ding makers to get their take on what is
new and now in the way of the wedding
Les Friedman owner of Northern Val-
ley Affairs at Temple Emanu-El in Closter
said that having a wedding in a space that
is both indoor and outdoor is something
that many brides want
ldquoBrides de983142initely are looking for theoption of indoor-outdoor for their wed-
ding so they can have the choice when the
weather is permittingrdquo he said
At Northern Valley Affairs events can
even defy the weather outside If itrsquos cold
and the couple wants to use its outdoor
space for the ceremony or for cocktails
heating lamps warm up the outdoors some
30 degrees He said Mr Friedman with
nearly 40 years experience in the events
business works with his general manager
Marty MagedldquoThe outdoor space is used especially
during the warm weather months but we
just did a late November wedding and yes
while it was warm outside 48 degrees we
were able to get it to 70 degrees with the
heating lampsrdquo he said
Brides are also looking for lighting to add
to the ambiance of the party At Northern
Valley Affairs LED lights change the look of
the room or the patio in an instant creat-
ing a different feeling as they change colorfrom amber to purple to blue for example
When it comes to dining Mr Friedman
who cut his teeth on the grand smorgas-
bords of yesterday (remember the stuffed
cabbage and barley laden cha983142ing dishes)
and the heavily prime-rib plated main
courses said there is a major difference
in how the wedding guests are enjoying
their meals today Smaller prettier more
interesting and more ethnic is what is on
the menu especially for appetizers he
said Mini martini glasses 983142illed with sushi- grade tuna and Asian slaw or a tapas-sized
Peking duck roll with a dab of Hoisin sauce
served at various stations is what is big
these days
ldquoThey want a small dainty one-bite
ldquoOne thing that
has not changedand will never change
is that people still want good service
Service is of theutmost importancerdquo
mdash Maria Daidone
With every decade there are new trends forweddings that make the ceremony au courant
Now
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appetizer They donrsquot want to have to use
a knife or fork They just want to pick and
gordquo he said
The small sized and big variety option
goes for dessert as well
Instead of the slice of wedding cake
(where do you see the bride and groom
even cutting the cake before the guests)
and the groaning and overflowing Vien-
nese table laden with desserts the sweets
are made part of the party Mini desserts
are served butler-style to guests who are
either seated or still dancing The offerings
are dizzying from dipped pretzels to cake
lollipops to mini-cheesecakes (pareve)
Sweets arrive on the dance floor as the
guests are boogieing
Another big trend is that the dancing
just doesnrsquot stop Brides want the party to
go on and on
ldquoYears ago the band would stop playingabout 983142ive times and ask the guests to be
seated to be served their various courses
the fruit cup salad appetizer main
course and dessert They used to take a
break every 20 minutes Now itrsquos nonstop
dancing in the ballroom Maybe they sit
down twicerdquo he said
Deena Greenstein the in-house event
planner for Five Star Caterers and head of
Deena Greenstein Events says that wed-
dings are no longer hamstrung by old con-
ventions or traditionsldquoThere are no rules anymore People are
doing whatever they wantrdquo she said
For example setting up a lounge for
guests was a thing common to bar and bat
mitzvahs but now weddings are including
this element In addition custom is king
she said whether it is custom linen a cus-
tom bar with a monogrammed design or
a custom dance floor
For the food Ms Greenstein said there
is a ldquoblend and balance of fun and healthyrdquosuch as a lean lamb turkey or vegetable
sliders with shoestring French fries
ldquoThere is the fun stuff but itrsquos coupled
with the classic and organic foods like
fresh vegetables and local seasonal pro-
duce Ms Greenstein said ldquoSushi is also
making a big comeback with not only the
quality but also the excitement of a beauti-
ful displayrdquo
Maria Daidone owner of the The Estates
at Florentine Gardens in River Vale said
that outdoor ceremonies where guestsenjoy the natural space is something that
has become a big part of todayrsquos weddings
Her venue she added has ldquoa beautiful gar-
den spacerdquo
Another thing Ms Daidone has noted is
that the color scheme is lighter with more
brides choosing to have their weddings
in shades that are more subdued such as
cream and nudeldquoYears ago everything was lavender but
you donrsquot see that todayrdquo she said
For after-dessert or the little goodie
sendoff food trucks have become a big
trend Guests can get donuts coffee
candy and pretzels anything that yoursquod
get from a food truck right at the event
ldquoThey just park outside and when guests
are leaving they give them water or soda or
a snackrdquo Ms Daidone said ldquoItrsquos become a
big thing in the last couple of yearsrdquo
Yossi Abadi owner of the Palisadium inCliffside Park said that the do-it-yourself
trend especially in the era of Pinterest
has become favored at weddings
For instance the centerpieces on the
tables are no longer big overwhelming
bou quet s of flowers but perhaps an
arrangement of shrubs that has been
designed by the bride Another example
of new and now is how the hosts commu-nicate with guests about where they are
to be seated Creative ways such as a big
billboard have replaced individual place
cards Mr Abadi said
ldquoWe had one client recently who used a
large mirror that had the guestsrsquo names on
it instead of place cardsrdquo he said
Whatrsquos new at the Marriott Glenpointe
is a complete renovation of its 345 guest
rooms an overhaul that includes new
bathrooms furniture carpeting and wall-
paper For guests who will use the hotelrooms for their bridal party or wedding
this is a bonus said Mitchell Heymann
director of sales and marketing
When it comes to weddings at hotels
Gerry Burns the director of catering at
the Pearl River Hilton in Pearl River NY
said that she has seen more full-weekend
weddings at her hotel than in the past In
the past it may have just been a Saturdaynight event but these days the wedding
spans the weekend Guests may arrive on
Friday for Shabbat for a rehearsal dinner
They spend Saturday either observing the
Sabbath or enjoying the day otherwise
with various activities attend the Satur-
day night wedding and then remain at the
hotel until Sunday for a farewell brunch
ldquoItrsquos a destination wedding without hav-
ing to really go far to a destinationrdquo said
Ms Burns
Noam Sokolow president of Rave Cater-ing and Event Planning said that many
weddings are taking place at unique ven-
ues such as old mansions or farms with
barns If the affair is smaller and more
intimate 200 guests as compared to 400
Grand cocktail receptions featuring an array of smallfinger food are very popular these days
Lovely outdoor venues like this setting in a garden gazebo are somethingthat brides are looking for
Brides and grooms want documentary style photography to capture their event more than posed stills
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guests it can take place in a more unique setting he said
ldquoPeople are inviting friends and not just people they are
friendly withrdquo he said
The music for weddings is also being mixed up a bit Itis not unusual to 983142ind a live band during the cocktail hour
and ceremony and then a DJ playing great dance music for
the party that follows
When it comes to food according to Mr Sokolow
pairings of food and drink are very popular For example
983142ish tacos may be served with an individual margarita slid-
ers can be chased down with a beer and bourbon-infused
short ribs can be enjoyed with a shot of bourbonAri Starkman owner of The Elan in Lodi said that
grand cocktail receptions are very popular these days
In addition Mr Starkman said there are more ethnic
customizations such as combining for example Russian
and Chinese elements in the wedding He recalled one
affair in which caviar and blintzes (Russian) shared the
menu with steamed dumplings (Chinese) because the
groom was Russian Jewish and the bride was Chinese ndasha culinary combination that gives a nod to both of their
cultures
With weddings styles may change The music may play
longer The food may be jazzed up But brides grooms
and their guests will always want to have a wonderful
party that celebrates their union in a special way and that
will be a memorable event
ldquoAnd one thing that has not changed and will never
changerdquo said Ms Daidone of The Estates at Florentine
Gardens ldquois that people still want good service Service is
of the utmost importance That will never change I hope
Giving our guests good old hospitalityrdquo
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Seating arrangementsTop trends in wedding place cards Sharon Naylor x
Y ou may have seen guests
crowded around a reception
table searching for their alpha-
betically arranged place cards
That shoulder-to-shoulder press of guests
has long been a scene at weddings and
todayrsquos innovations help eliminate the
long line and discomfort of trying to read
those small cards
Now the traditional card kerfuffle may
be replaced by a new display It rsquos a top
wedding trend and a popular place card
option seen on Pinterest is to eliminate the
printed card and write guestsrsquo names on a
tall vertical display such as a glass window
or mirror Guestsrsquo names and table num-
bers c an be displayed on signs installed
behind the bar or hung in frames gallery-
style on the walls at the cocktail partyThese vertical card-free table assignments
become decor pieces as well as easy-to-use
directions for guests
Vertical displays have also given the
tradition a twist by listing guestsrsquo names
according to table number not alpha-
betically Itrsquos easy for guests to spot their
names under say Table 7 and they can
see names of the other guests with whom
theyrsquore seated No more standing by the
place card table little card in hand ask-
ing their friends ldquoWhere are you sittingrdquo
Jenny Orsini wedding planner says that
this place card display creates better
momentum for your celebration allowing
guests to move right into the cocktail party
or reception without that ldquopileup of name-
searching at an entry tablerdquo
If you do wish to have printed place
cards use pretty cardstock and gorgeous
fonts that coordinate with your wedding
invitations and other print items at your wedding Decorat ive borders seasonal
colors theme motifs and elegant hand-
writing or print on the cards are all great
options (ldquoJust no computer-printed labels
pleaserdquo says Orsini pointing to the lack of
elegance in that method)
As an alternative to the tented card
flat cards are also used mdash perhaps stood
up in sand- grass- or floral-983142illed trays
for a pretty presentation These flat cards
may be attached to take-home favors like
ornate keys or charms And flat cards are
also being af983142ixed via ribbon to mini bot-
tles of bourbon tequila chocolate liqueur
or other take-home tastes that work dou-
ble-duty as place cards and favors
And another trend in wedding place
cards is writing guestsrsquo names in metallic
pen on shiny green leaves or on polished
river stones for a natural feel to comple-
ment wedding decor This natural style
is a thrill for guests since they can takethe ldquocardrdquo home and put it on display
perhaps next to a framed photo of them-
selves taken at the wedding That adds
more appreciation for your chosen design
than a simple printed card theyrsquore likely to
leave on the table at the end of the night
Speaking of keepsakes a framed dis-
play of guestsrsquo names and table numbers
becomes a wonderful keepsake for you
Perhaps a dating or engaged couple who
originally met at your wedding seated
together at Table 7 will want the display
to be shown at their wedding someday
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additionalwedding books Creatorscom
Leaves and stones are top trends inwedding guest place cardsCREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF MERCEDES NORIEGA
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All in the approachMaking your wedding path stand out
Sharon Naylor x
A s you plan your wedding decor
donrsquot forget about the paths
leading to your ceremony and
reception You may have cho-
sen your wedding location simply for the
beauty of the venue itself but you cancreate a fabulous scene for your arriving
guests by decorating the trees along the
driveway or footpath Their anticipation
builds as they see your decor and light-
ing effects along the way giving them an
even more magical 983142irst impression of your
wedding day And if your venue is one that
your guests have been to for other wed-
dings decorating the approach to the site
makes for a new unique experience
Here are some ways to make your wedding paths stand out
Hanging floralsAdorn the pathrsquos tree line with flowers and
garlands that hint at your weddingrsquos floral
motif Joyce Maffeo florist at BloomNa-
tion says ldquoYou can either display flowers
on their own such as by stringing florals
on ribbon or 983142ishing wire or display flow-
ers inside antique bottles or other glass
vesselsrdquo The advantage of the in-vessel
flower display is that flowers stay hydrated with a bit of water in the bottle allowing
them to hold up well in late-summerearly-
fall sunshine
Some open-air flowers that Maffeo
recommends for their staying power
include orchids eucalyptuses and strung
daisies
ldquoFor in-vessel flowers consider protea
orchids hypericum and ornamental kale
for a pop of purple colorrdquo says Maffeo
ldquoWreaths hanging from trees also add to
the beautiful approachrdquo One flower to be
wary of since it easily wilts in the sun is
hydrangea Maffeo suggests instead using
bunches of carnations which hold up
better in the sun
This knowledge of flowersrsquo strength in
sunshine mdash important since your floral
team will likely set up your approach
decor several hours before your wedding
mdash is one example of why you should have
professionals create your floral pieces
String lights andhanging lanternsFor a sunset or evening wedding string
lights arranged in the trees add breath-
taking effect whether you use just a few
string lights per tree or many In addi-
tion to string lights lanterns hung from
S-hooks on the trees create that trendy
look of rustic elegance And you can take
those lanterns home after the wedding to
use them in your own backyard
Non-hanging lanternsTall lanterns clustered along a path or set
on stairs leading to the wedding sites are
a new top trend for weddings this year
and next Lanterns may be metallic such
as copper or bronze or rustic-themed in
white or black Upscale home decor stores
sell lanterns as part of the outdoor enter-
taining trend These larger lanterns can be
used at home after your big day
Candles
Position a large number of traditional orLED candles in glass vessels at the entrance
to your ceremony or reception spot This
is a stunning look for exterior doors and
if you have a portico that guests will pass
through to get to an inner ceremony or
celebration space arrange a large amount
of vessel-nested candles on either side of a
clear walking pathway
Tiki torchesldquoThe use of Tiki torches creates not only
a path to the reception but also softens
the lighting for a romantic moodrdquo says
Allison Sells catering manager for Caneel
Bay Resort in the US Virgin Islands Since
Tiki torches create one single light source
per torch pair them with overhead string
lights or ground-set lanterns to multiply
your lighting effect
UplightingSetting lights at the base of trees and
directing the light upward gives those trees
a magical and impressive glow Sells says
that uplighting palm trees creates a ldquowowrdquofactor especially complementing a tropical
wedding location
Signs
Chalkboard signs with personalized
messages can be used multiple times along
the path with friendly welcome messages
invitations to ldquoGet the party startedrdquo and
directions to wedding sites In the evening
try lit marquee signs illuminating the path
with words like ldquoLoverdquo ldquoXOXOrdquo or your
monogram These too can be take-home
decor to forever remind you of your big
day
MusicPiped-in music along your path adds a wel-
coming soundtrack to the approach
If your venue has an interesting history
beautiful scenery or perhaps a s tunning
sunset that will light up the sky with colors
during your weddingrsquos arrival time you
might not need any additional decor or
lighting at all Mother Nature has taken
care of that as her wedding gift to you
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
Rows of candles create a magical effect for your guestsrsquo approach to your wedding CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF ELLIS ISLAND
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Teresa Iqbal x
T he honeymoon is typically the last climactic
event of the wedding process As the culminat-
ing event that pulls everything together and
leaves couples with their 983142irst opportunity to
relax and begin enjoying life together itrsquos important to
make it as enjoyable as possible But where do you begin
when it comes to choosing where and how to enjoy your
983142irst moments together as a married couple on your
honeymoon
Choosing a honeymoon destination that represents
your interests as a couple is perhaps the best place to start
narrowing down destination choices Do you love art andmuseums If so a large city with ample opportunity for
you to spend the days among art exhibits and historical
pieces is probably best suited for you Perhaps yoursquore a
couple who consider themselves literary Take some time
to research places where literary authors made history
and immerse yourself in these same spots Maybe a good
time for you means spending most of your days beach-
side Be sure to choose a honeymoon destination where
you can spend your days on the beach and take part in
activities on the water Enjoying the overall culture of your
destination is an important key to having a happy and ful-983142illing experience on your honeymoon
You neednrsquot spend an outrageous amount of money
traveling to a tropical destination either Chances are
that there are beautiful spots closer than you think where
you could make great memories doing the things you both
love In fact building your honeymoon itinerary around
the activities you love allows you to consider an array of
vacation spots that 983142it a number of budgets Whether itrsquos
staying in your country your state or even your own city
yoursquore bound to 983142ind a number of ways to celebrate They
key is to narrow down activities that are important to you
both and plan your honeymoon around cities where youknow you can have a good time doing the things you enjoy
If you are hoping to spend your vacation traveling to
faraway destinations there are other ways to be budget-
conscious while still having a good time overseas Cruises
are one honeymoon option that more and more couples
are taking advantage of every day Theyrsquore great for those
hoping to get more bang for their buck According to Lux-
ury Travel Magazine ldquowith some cruise lines port taxes
meals drinks entertainment activities and even tips are
all included in the upfront cost of a cruise Itrsquos easy to work
out a per-day cost to compare to other forms of travelrdquo
Taking a cruise also simpli983142ies the logistical process of
vacationing For example you need only unpack and pack
once Most if not all meals are included in the passen-
ger fare as well as an array of activities to be enjoyed on
the ship Splurging on meals at local spots where the ship
docks allows couples to experience 983142ine dining without
having to worry about shelling out cash at every single
meal The same goes for activities Many cruise lines orga-
nize activities off the ship that couples can take part in
such as scuba diving and museum tours which means less
hassle and work involved in 983142inding fun things to do in
your destination city leaving more time both on and offthe boat to enjoy yourselves to the fullest
A similar option for those who donrsquot want to deal with
all the stress and planning of both a wedding and a hon-
eymoon is the all-inclusive resort All-inclusives are great
for those looking for a hassle-free experience Couples can
How to choose how and where to honeymoon
pamper themselves and share all of the same bene983142its as
cruisers such as included activities and meals Just be sure
to choose a destination yoursquod both be interested in explor-
ing and experiencing to some depth because you likely
wonrsquot be doing much more than day trips to closer more
local spots This is de983142initely an upside for those looking
to stay in one place for longer and more deeply immerse
themselves in the culture art and cuisine of one location
of their choosing rather than visiting an array of destina-
tions for a short amount of time
Itrsquos clear that no matter your focus interest or budget
there are several different options to take advantage of
when creating a lasting honeymoon experienceCreatorscom
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Best guestEtiquette tips for wedding attendees Kristen Castillo x
Once the invitation arrives in
the mail you start asking your-
self questions ldquoWhat should I
wearrdquo ldquoWhat gift should I getrdquo
ldquoCan I invite a guestrdquo
All of these questions and more are com-
mon concerns for wedding guests Read on
for tips from wedding and etiquette profes-sionals for answers to your questions and
983142ind out what it takes to be a great guest
Can you bring a dateThe general rule The only people who
can attend the wedding are the ones listed
on the invitation So if the invite says ldquoMr
and Mrs Jonesrdquo then only the husband
and wife can attend If it just says ldquoMiss
Jonesrdquo then the woman must attend the
wedding aloneMake sure you RSVP for the wedding
by the date indicated on the invitation
Showing up anyway after neglecting to
RSVP is a big no-no
If your childrenrsquos names arenrsquot listed on
the invitation donrsquot show up to the wed-
ding as a family
ldquoA gentle way to deal with this situation
is to have the family table off to the side
or back of the reception areardquo says author
and etiquette expert Jacqueline Whitmore
who is also the founder of The ProtocolSchool of Palm Beach
Another option The bride and groom
might provide guests who have children
the ldquoname of a reputable baby sitter in
your area who is willing to accommodate
parents who want to attend the weddingrdquo
suggests Whitmore
What to wearWeddings tend to be dressy events but
exactly how dressyIf the invitation says ldquoblack tierdquo wear a
tuxedo
Otherwise ldquoa man should wear a suit
and a woman should wear a cocktail dress
or Sunday bestrdquo says wedding planner
Fran Plodkowski of Social Graces noting
beach weddings can be more casualldquoRemember it is a weddingrdquo says Plod-
kowski ldquoLook your bestrdquo
Gift guideGiving a wedding gift is customary but do
you give a gift off the couplersquos registry or
write a check If so how much to give
Therersquos no 983142ixed answer here
ldquoPeople do not know how much to giverdquo
says Plodkowski who advises guests to
give what they want to and can afford
Still you donrsquot have to give a gift of equal value to the price of the dinner especially
since many weddings are big budget
Typically the closer guests are to the
bride and groom the more theyrsquoll give For
example the groomrsquos sister would give a
larger gift than his co-worker would
Time mattersGuests often mistakenly assume weddings
donrsquot start on time
ldquoAs a result we see guests that purpose-fully arrive laterdquo says Camille McLamb
founder and lead coordinator at Camille
Victoria Weddings noting ceremony and
reception schedules are 983142ixed to accom-
modate parties and events throughout
the day
ldquoGuests should plan to arrive at least10 minutes before the start time listed on
the invitationrdquo urges McLamb ldquoIf a guest
ends up arriving late she should try to
check if the bridal party is lined up before
going inside If the bridal party is lined up
and about to go down the aisle the guest
should wait off to the side until the pro-
cessional is over and then sneak in up a
side aislerdquo
Remember yoursquore not
the photographerSure itrsquos exciting to capture the wedding in
photos but remember yoursquore a guest not
a photographer on assignment
ldquoDonrsquot photobomb the vowsrdquo says eti-
quette expert Cheryl Seidel ldquoRemember
therersquos probably a professional photogra-
pher somewhere behind you trying to do
the job the couple has hired him to dordquo
Seidel also reminds guests to not block
people behind them instead sit in the
back or on the far aisle Also donrsquot use aniPad to shoot photos ldquoTherersquos no way you
can be inconspicuousrdquo she says
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Before you post your pictures to social media such
as Instagram and Facebook make sure the couple
approve
Whatrsquos for dinnerEven if the reception venue is a restaurant itrsquos not OK
for guests to order whatever they want Thatrsquos because
the menu is preordered and paid for by the bride and
groom Even vegetarian vegan or specialty-diet meals
are ordered ahead of time
Guests with special dietary needs such as gluten
intolerance or nut allergies should inform the bride
and groom at the time of RSVP
AccessibilityOften guests worry about getting in and around the cer-emony and reception venues
ldquoEspecially with the rise in loft weddings not all wed-
ding venues have elevatorsrdquo says McLamb For elderly
and disabled guests ldquostairs and moving from one space
to another within a venue can present dif983142icultiesrdquo
McLamb advises brides and grooms to tell guests
about any potential accessibility challenges at the venue
so the guests can prepare ahead of time She also says
couples should reserve some tables for elderly guests
during cocktail hour Creatorscom Before you post your pictures to social media such as Instagram and Facebook make sure the couple approves(CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF NICHOLAS PURCELL STUDIO)
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HELPERS TASKERS
AND OTHER PARTY FIXERSShould you hire online help for your big day
Kristen Castillo x
W edding planning is 983142illed
with details large and small
Finding help isnrsquot always
easy but itrsquos necessary
Need help planning your engagement
party Want assistance assembling your welcome bags Loo king for som eon e
with nice penmanship to write out your
place cards
It used to be that yoursquod have to do these
jobs yourself ask friends or family or hire
an event professional So what should you
do when yoursquore overwhelmed and family
and friends arenrsquot available Nowadays
you can go online to hire helpers to get the
job done
Thatrsquos what happened for a couplersquos
wedding in Los Angeles The groom sur-
prised his bride during the reception with
her favorite New England treat Hoodsie
Cups which are paper cups 983142illed with
a mix of both chocolate and vanilla ice
cream But 983142irst the groom had to 983142igure
out how to get the frozen dessert to the
West Coast for his bride who is originally
from New England He hired a ldquoTaskerrdquo
via TaskRabbit the leading on-demand
home services app connecting busy peo-
ple with a network of Taskers in theirarea mdash or in this case someone from the
Northeast who could buy and overnight
ship 150 ice-cream cups in an industrial
strength cooler
The groom tells TaskRabbit that making
the Hoodsie Cups surprise happen was
ldquode983142initely a memory the both of us will
have for the rest of our livesrdquo and he says
that without the Taskerrsquos help he doesnrsquot
think he could have made it happen
Help for hireMany couples are hiring helpers to assist
with pre-wedding prep including every-
thing from envelope calligraphy to deco-
rating the venue to DJrsquoing or baking the
wedding cake
Some brides and grooms solicit the help
online with ads on Craigslist or v ia social
media posts asking for help with certain
wedding tasks S ites like TaskRabbit are
growing too
ldquoTaskers helping with weddings has become a big thing in the past two yearsrdquo
says Jamie Viggiano TaskRabbitrsquos VP of
marketing citing examples like helping
to plan a surprise engagement by deco-
rating an apartment with hundreds of
rose petals and LED candles deliver-
ing a wedding cake in Washington DC
and helping assemble and deliver flower
arrangements
Additional wedding tasks completed
include picking up and delivering last-
minute items like ice batteries and coffee
sorting scanning and uploading photos
for a wedding slideshow and setting up
wedding FaceTime sessions between the
couple and their loved ones who couldnrsquot
attend the ceremony in person ldquoThis has
been done a number of times with older
clients who arenrsquot savvy with technolo983143yrdquo
says Viggiano
PricingPaying for wedding help a la carte seems
to be a 983142it for couples who canrsquot afford or
donrsquot want to hire professional weddingcoordinators Some brides and grooms
list the project budget in their social media
and Craigslist posts others take bids from
anyone who responds to the ads
On TaskRabbit Taskers set their own
hourly rate by category When clients
post a task TaskRabbit provides a list of
several candidates in the area and the
individualrsquos skills The client pays once
the task is 983142inished
ldquoBrides and grooms are recognizing that
they donrsquot need to do all the wedding prep
on their own and that they can outsource
some of the more mundane tedious tasks
to quali983142ied peoplerdquo says Viggiano noting
that outsourcing the work ldquomakes a stress-
ful situation less stressfulrdquo
Buyer bewareSome wedding experts caution brides and
grooms that hiring a stranger to assist with
wedding details might not be a good idea
The reason Typically the helper is inex-
perienced with weddings and might not be
accountableldquoUnless you are a really laid-back bride
I would not recommend hiring helpers in
this wayrdquo says Michelle Balducci-Connelly
of Michelle Marie Photographie ldquoCraigslist
workers have little to no repercussions if
they donrsquot perform A professional will
have a reputation to uphold and has an
incentive to perform well because they are
making a career out of their servicerdquo
Still she understands the appeal of hir-
ing wedding helpers
ldquoWith ever-increasing costs of wed-
dings my couples are always looking to
save in areas they deem appropriaterdquo
says Balducci-Connelly noting that hiring
a day-of planner for example would cost
anywhere from $500 to $1000 for recep-
tion setup and organization compared to
a hired helper who would likely charge
an hourly or flat rate ldquothat would be far
less than a day-of coordinator would
chargerdquo
Before hiring anyone to help with your
event get references if possible and
make sure yoursquore comfortable with theirskills reliability and overall credibility
You only get one chance to make your
wedding day a success so be con983142ident in
your hiring decisions
Creatorscom
Many couples hire helpers to assist them with wedding planning such as ldquoTaskersrdquo from TaskRabbit CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF TASKRABBIT
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Dress trendsLooking your best on the big day Julia Price x
W eddings are a big deal All
the planning coordinating
decision-making letdowns
stressful situations mdash they
all fade away and become worth it the
moment the bride walks down the aisle
So of course no pressure with picking out
the perfect dress or anything rightBut really itrsquos hard to go wrong nowa-
days Luckily for everyone the lsquo80s have
come and gone and have graciously taken
their wedding dress signature styles with
them
In general wedding dresses are veer-
ing toward a less poofy look and going
toward a sleeker form-983142itting hourglass
shape This creates a more dramatic effect
when the train of the dress 983142ills out behind
the bride while also enhancing feminine
strength in the upper body
Another trend this season is the
off-the-shoulder look Several years ago
the sleeveless dress was a big hit but now
itrsquos been slightly modi983142ied to keep the shoul-
ders bare with the straps lightly hanging off
Whether the dress is white silk Chantilly
lace or ballgown-style this off-the-shoul-
der appeal creates a delicate look
The popular shabby chic furniture trend
seems to have influenced brides-to-be as
well Seeing as many couples are choos-ing the country feel mdash complete with
Mason jars mdash for their big day it makes
sense that women are looking for a dress
to match that vibe Yoursquoll see more and
more dresses with corded details and lace
accents and yoursquoll see less beadwork than
you had on some of the past looks
Also trending this season is embellishing
the back of the dress In addition to adding
a new element of beauty it makes sense
because guests wil l have a close visual of
the bridersquos back as shersquos approaching her
husband-to-be Intricate detailing on the
Trending this season is embellishing the back of the dressCREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF JULIA PRICE
back might include a crisscross or spar-
kling tulle Some brides are opting for
completely backless dresses This goes well
with layers of lace and the silhouette look
Though itrsquos good to look for many
options online (try bridescom or search for
your perfect look on Pinterest) yoursquove got
to trust your gut with what feels right for
you This is one of those situations where
no matter who else speaks up as long as
yoursquore saying ldquoI dordquo to the dress then
yoursquore going to be happy Creatorscom
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Plus-size bridesBridal beauty at any size
Kristen Castillo x
T here is a wedding gown for every
bride but if yoursquore over size 14
it might be a challenge to 983142ind
the perfect dress Luckily thatrsquos
changing Thanks to the TLC television show
ldquoCurvy Bridesrdquo and bridal shops that cater to
plus-size brides itrsquos getting easier for brides
of all sizes to 983142ind their dream dresses
These days the average woman in the
US wears a size 14 and yet bridal gownstraditionally are made for smaller sizes
ldquoPlus-size for us means anyone who
has had trouble 983142inding dresses to 983142it them
elsewhererdquo say Yuneisia Harris and Yukia
Walker owners of full-983142igured bridal salon
Curvaceous Couture and stars of ldquoCurvy
Bridesrdquo
Walker knows how frustrating it can
be for plus-sized brides to 983142ind a gown
After getting engaged she struggled to
983142ind sample gowns and ultimately didnrsquot
like the dress she chose Out of that expe-
rience she and her sister started their
company
The sisters explain that in evenin983143wear
and in bridal everything is cut smaller
ldquoSo while a person might have a smaller
street size like a 12 or a 14 in a wedding
gown they might have to order something
as large as a 20rdquo
That means when traditional bridal
salons have sample dresses in sizes 8 to 12ldquotheyrsquore really only servicing brides whose
street size is 4 to 10rdquo say Harris and Walker
Plus-Size PerceptionsThe notion of plus-size bridal fashion car-
ries many misconceptions In some cases
brides arenrsquot aware that plus-sizing exists
in the wedding world because itrsquos typi-
cally underrepresented or not seen at all
Often plus-size brides end up buying
wedding gowns online mdash one of the few
places with larger sizes
Still others assume dresses in larger
sizes should be plain and not embellished
ldquothat plus-size women donrsquot desire the
same beautiful dresses and fabrics as theirstraight-size counterpartsrdquo says Erena
Shklovsky creative director and head
designer for plus-size designer IGIGI not-
ing that many plus-size brides want ldquodeli-
cate beading luxe fabrics and innovative
cuts just like other bridesrdquo
Another misconception That being
plus-sized means you need to cover up
ldquoIrsquod say that 60 percent of our brides ini-
tially ask us to add a sleeve or a shawl to
a dress because theyrsquore afraid of showing
their arms or backrdquo say Harris and Walkernoting that adding a sleeve or a strap for
example ldquois not the most flattering choice
for a briderdquo
In other cases gowns with straps
sleeves and extra fabric can make a bride
look matronly
ldquoWe just want our brides to be happy
with their dresses and sometimes that
means helping them embrace their natu-
ral beautyrdquo say Harris and Walker who
feel viewers like the show because it allows
them to see brides they relate to try on and
look great in gorgeous gowns
Fashionable Choices
Designing full-983142igured fashions involvesmore than simply adding extra fabric
Because every bride has a different size
and body shape gowns need specialized
983142its including built-in support for large
busts for example
More fashion lines and bridal lines are
starting to embrace women of all sizes
Harris and Walker praise designers like Roz
la Kelin and Enzoani for being some of the
983142irst designers to offer plus-size samples
ldquoI think the biggest and best addition
to plus-size bridal collections is ChristianSirianorsquos dress for Nicolette Masonrdquo says
Shklovsky ldquoIt showed the rest of the fash-
ion world that plus-sized women deserve
more than to be covered with loads and
loads of fabricrdquo
Still no wedding gown is truly ready-to-
wear All dresses need alterations including
changes to hemlines bust lines waistlines
sleeves and shoulder straps No matter
what the dress size a perfect 983142it is flattering
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DIY all-in-one or party rental suppliers Chelle Cordero x
Itrsquos your wedding day and there areso many plans to be made You want
the day to be spectacular Between
budgets traditions choosing a loca-
tion considering the time of year and
weather and most importantly your idea
of a dream wedding mdash itrsquos enough to make
your head spin
You may choose an all-in-one venue that
comes with its own gorgeous setting cater-
ing waitstaff tables and chairs and hope
that the cost is within your reach DIY
wedding plans may or may not be moreeconomical but many excited couples opt
for more personalized settings and control
over the way things are done One thing is
for sure You probably donrsquot own enough
chairs tables and service to make it hap-
pen without help
You could always buy the folding chairs
and tables linens and glassware for your
event but then you need a place to store
everything before and after the party
Owning everything makes you solely respon-
sible for cleaning and ironing linens polish-
ing service and washing all of the dishware before and after use (especially if itrsquos been
sitting awhile) It is often more ef983142icient to
simply rent what you need for each occasion
if you plan to throw several parties
Letrsquos go rental
Every bride in your family before
you was married in Aunt Franrsquos parlor
and thatrsquos the beginning yoursquove always
dreamed of with a reception in the back-
yard But then you remember the light rain
shower during your cousinrsquos gala and how
it chased everyone away Yoursquoll need seat-ing and decorations for inside and yoursquoll
want to add a tent to the tables chairs and
buffet setting outside Or maybe the old
barn could be gussied up for a fancy do
but the dirt floor leaves a lot to be desired
especially when it comes to dancing -- but
thatrsquos not a problem if you add a rented
dance floor (or more)
Party rental companies offer everything
from aisle covers to wine glasses Choose
table linens centerpieces pole covers (to
hide tent supports) dance floors of various
sizes stages and more If you are worriedabout the weather 983142ind tents for outdoor
parties they come with sides or open with
options for fans or heaters for comfort
Serve delicious meals with gas or charcoal
grill rentals and buffet-style cha983142ing dishes
There is no limit to what you can do Paper
plates are great for picnics but if you pre-
fer restaurant-style service 983142ind china
charger plates silver service goblets and
flutes and linen napkins and tablecloths
Check out the party supply rental com-
panies in your area to 983142ind out what theyoffer and compare prices Make sure to
include delivery costs as well as delivery
terms such as how far in advance they will
deliver and when they will pick up after the
affair Visit the showrooms to see the qual-
ity of merchandise they offer By all means
get recommendations and warnings from
other consumers you certainly donrsquot want
to 983142ind out on the day of the party that the
tablecloths are stained or that you were
shorted on the glassware Ask about their
reputation for reliability their willingness
to work with you and whether there is an
extra charge for setup Also 983142ind out in what
condition the items have to be returned
mdash eg do the dishes need to be washedor simply scraped do the linens need to
be laundered and what are the costs for
breakage If possible compare the prices
quality service and reputations of a few
companies before making a 983142inal decision
Some party rental suppliers will work
with area vendors such as caterers and
wait staff to help you 983142ind a complete
package for your magical day Make an
appointment to sit down with your cho-
sen rental company and explain your
vision to them A party planner can makehelpful suggestions based on the compa-
nyrsquos experience with previous weddings
and parties They can tell you how many
plates glasses and flatware sets to rent
based on the number of people invited
always order a few extra pieces in case of
breakage or unexpected guests Read the
contract carefully to verify that all dates
quantities and service details are spelled
out correctly Creatorscom
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Le menu du jour
New trends in menu cards Sharon Naylor x
W hen printed menu cards
983142irst showed up as wed-
ding table additions guests
loved reading those delec-
table descriptions of the courses to come
during the dinner There was at 983142irst one
printed card per round table then four
or so spaced apart on long tables Guests
took turns looking at the elegantly printedcards with the dazzling print script Soon
individual menu cards were placed on
each guestrsquos plate for easier use and now
those individual menu cards are being per-
sonalized to each guest
ldquoYour tablescape offers countless oppor-
tunities to wow guests with custom details
and personalized menu cards are func-
tional and beautiful while making guests
feel like an important part of your big dayrdquo
says Vanessa Wicks event sales director at
Weylin B Seymourrsquos a historic event venue
in Brooklyn that has been the site of celeb-
rity weddings and events
When guests arrive at their tables they
983142ind their names printed on the menu
cards showing that you value their pres-
ence on their big day And the artistry of
their name handwritten in calligraphy
complements the loveliness of your wed-
ding design Yoursquove taken great care withthe smallest of details elevating your wed-
ding as a whole
Another advantage of customized menu
cards is the ability to tailor guestsrsquo special
menu requirements such as a gluten-free
vegan or kosher meal When guests see
their menu card they know right away
that yoursquove heard and honored their
requests They donrsquot need to be anxious
about their special meals
To help you create your personalized
menu cards keep the following tips in
mind
bull Spell names correctly Triple-check
your invitations list looking at guestsrsquosocial media pages for backup to be sure
each guestrsquos name is spelled correctly It
would be an awful faux pas if you created
a card for ldquoJohnrdquo when he goes by ldquoJonrdquo
bull Plan for dim lighting Your recep -
tion ballroom may be dimly lit illumi-
nated by candles and that low light can
make light-colored print dif983142icult to read
Larger script in a good contrasting shade
makes your menu card easier to see Not
all guests bring their reading glasses with
them Metallic print will capture candle-light so consider shimmery lettering
bull Create personalized menu cards for
children as well Theirs can be designed
differently than adult guestsrsquo cards using
kid-themed colors and motifs Add a print
game to the back of the card to provide a
fun activity
bull Add an accent to the back of guestsrsquo
menu cards A personalized note from you
may be extra work but it goes a long way
to making your guests feel like VIPs Or if
a personalized message isnrsquot realistic for
your time and budget print an inspiring
and romantic or a foodie-themed quote
on the back of each cardbull Ask your chef to help Make your menu
card mouth-watering with chef-provided
dish descriptions of each course
bull Include drink pairing choices with
each course Again your chef or bar man-
ager can provide pairing ideas using vin-
tages and cocktails that will be served at
your wedding
You might be wondering whether per-
sonalized menu cards at each guestrsquos
seat will tell each guest where to sit at
the table While guests are free to switchseats it is a good idea to put your guest
menu cards in order by table so that
staffers handling your weddingrsquos table
setups can place cards in the order you
prefer seating spouses and families next
to each other
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
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New and now 4Down the aisle in the trendiest ways
Seating arrangements 8
Top trends in wedding place cards
All in the approach 10Making your wedding path stand out
How to choose how and where to honeymoon 11
Best guest 12Etiquette tips for wedding attendees
Helpers taskers and other party elves 14
Should you hire online help for your big day
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New ANDDown the aisle in the trendiest ways
Heidi Mae Bratt x
F rom the beginning of time brides
have wanted to make their wed-
ding day one of the most mem-
orable and special days of their
lives For the few hours of the well-plannedand long-dreamed-about party where they
are center stage they want everything to
be perfect or as perfect as it can be
Many also want it to be on trend
How many remember the 1981 royal
wedding of Diana Princess of Wales The
celebrated nuptials not only captured the
attention of the world but ushered in the
look of the decade which reflected a bride
beauti983142ied by puffy sleeves lace cathedral
train veils pearls cinched waists and
sequinsThese days you nary see a puff on a
sleeve That decadersquos trends went way
beyo nd the dress spil ling into ever y
aspect of the wedding from picture taking
(posed family portraits rather than natural
documentary-style photography) to the
cake (a stacked tiered cake held together
by columns rather than cupcakes or mini
desserts) to the venue (a party in a hotel ballroom rather than a wedding held at a
number of unique places)
We queried several of our own area wed-
ding makers to get their take on what is
new and now in the way of the wedding
Les Friedman owner of Northern Val-
ley Affairs at Temple Emanu-El in Closter
said that having a wedding in a space that
is both indoor and outdoor is something
that many brides want
ldquoBrides de983142initely are looking for theoption of indoor-outdoor for their wed-
ding so they can have the choice when the
weather is permittingrdquo he said
At Northern Valley Affairs events can
even defy the weather outside If itrsquos cold
and the couple wants to use its outdoor
space for the ceremony or for cocktails
heating lamps warm up the outdoors some
30 degrees He said Mr Friedman with
nearly 40 years experience in the events
business works with his general manager
Marty MagedldquoThe outdoor space is used especially
during the warm weather months but we
just did a late November wedding and yes
while it was warm outside 48 degrees we
were able to get it to 70 degrees with the
heating lampsrdquo he said
Brides are also looking for lighting to add
to the ambiance of the party At Northern
Valley Affairs LED lights change the look of
the room or the patio in an instant creat-
ing a different feeling as they change colorfrom amber to purple to blue for example
When it comes to dining Mr Friedman
who cut his teeth on the grand smorgas-
bords of yesterday (remember the stuffed
cabbage and barley laden cha983142ing dishes)
and the heavily prime-rib plated main
courses said there is a major difference
in how the wedding guests are enjoying
their meals today Smaller prettier more
interesting and more ethnic is what is on
the menu especially for appetizers he
said Mini martini glasses 983142illed with sushi- grade tuna and Asian slaw or a tapas-sized
Peking duck roll with a dab of Hoisin sauce
served at various stations is what is big
these days
ldquoThey want a small dainty one-bite
ldquoOne thing that
has not changedand will never change
is that people still want good service
Service is of theutmost importancerdquo
mdash Maria Daidone
With every decade there are new trends forweddings that make the ceremony au courant
Now
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appetizer They donrsquot want to have to use
a knife or fork They just want to pick and
gordquo he said
The small sized and big variety option
goes for dessert as well
Instead of the slice of wedding cake
(where do you see the bride and groom
even cutting the cake before the guests)
and the groaning and overflowing Vien-
nese table laden with desserts the sweets
are made part of the party Mini desserts
are served butler-style to guests who are
either seated or still dancing The offerings
are dizzying from dipped pretzels to cake
lollipops to mini-cheesecakes (pareve)
Sweets arrive on the dance floor as the
guests are boogieing
Another big trend is that the dancing
just doesnrsquot stop Brides want the party to
go on and on
ldquoYears ago the band would stop playingabout 983142ive times and ask the guests to be
seated to be served their various courses
the fruit cup salad appetizer main
course and dessert They used to take a
break every 20 minutes Now itrsquos nonstop
dancing in the ballroom Maybe they sit
down twicerdquo he said
Deena Greenstein the in-house event
planner for Five Star Caterers and head of
Deena Greenstein Events says that wed-
dings are no longer hamstrung by old con-
ventions or traditionsldquoThere are no rules anymore People are
doing whatever they wantrdquo she said
For example setting up a lounge for
guests was a thing common to bar and bat
mitzvahs but now weddings are including
this element In addition custom is king
she said whether it is custom linen a cus-
tom bar with a monogrammed design or
a custom dance floor
For the food Ms Greenstein said there
is a ldquoblend and balance of fun and healthyrdquosuch as a lean lamb turkey or vegetable
sliders with shoestring French fries
ldquoThere is the fun stuff but itrsquos coupled
with the classic and organic foods like
fresh vegetables and local seasonal pro-
duce Ms Greenstein said ldquoSushi is also
making a big comeback with not only the
quality but also the excitement of a beauti-
ful displayrdquo
Maria Daidone owner of the The Estates
at Florentine Gardens in River Vale said
that outdoor ceremonies where guestsenjoy the natural space is something that
has become a big part of todayrsquos weddings
Her venue she added has ldquoa beautiful gar-
den spacerdquo
Another thing Ms Daidone has noted is
that the color scheme is lighter with more
brides choosing to have their weddings
in shades that are more subdued such as
cream and nudeldquoYears ago everything was lavender but
you donrsquot see that todayrdquo she said
For after-dessert or the little goodie
sendoff food trucks have become a big
trend Guests can get donuts coffee
candy and pretzels anything that yoursquod
get from a food truck right at the event
ldquoThey just park outside and when guests
are leaving they give them water or soda or
a snackrdquo Ms Daidone said ldquoItrsquos become a
big thing in the last couple of yearsrdquo
Yossi Abadi owner of the Palisadium inCliffside Park said that the do-it-yourself
trend especially in the era of Pinterest
has become favored at weddings
For instance the centerpieces on the
tables are no longer big overwhelming
bou quet s of flowers but perhaps an
arrangement of shrubs that has been
designed by the bride Another example
of new and now is how the hosts commu-nicate with guests about where they are
to be seated Creative ways such as a big
billboard have replaced individual place
cards Mr Abadi said
ldquoWe had one client recently who used a
large mirror that had the guestsrsquo names on
it instead of place cardsrdquo he said
Whatrsquos new at the Marriott Glenpointe
is a complete renovation of its 345 guest
rooms an overhaul that includes new
bathrooms furniture carpeting and wall-
paper For guests who will use the hotelrooms for their bridal party or wedding
this is a bonus said Mitchell Heymann
director of sales and marketing
When it comes to weddings at hotels
Gerry Burns the director of catering at
the Pearl River Hilton in Pearl River NY
said that she has seen more full-weekend
weddings at her hotel than in the past In
the past it may have just been a Saturdaynight event but these days the wedding
spans the weekend Guests may arrive on
Friday for Shabbat for a rehearsal dinner
They spend Saturday either observing the
Sabbath or enjoying the day otherwise
with various activities attend the Satur-
day night wedding and then remain at the
hotel until Sunday for a farewell brunch
ldquoItrsquos a destination wedding without hav-
ing to really go far to a destinationrdquo said
Ms Burns
Noam Sokolow president of Rave Cater-ing and Event Planning said that many
weddings are taking place at unique ven-
ues such as old mansions or farms with
barns If the affair is smaller and more
intimate 200 guests as compared to 400
Grand cocktail receptions featuring an array of smallfinger food are very popular these days
Lovely outdoor venues like this setting in a garden gazebo are somethingthat brides are looking for
Brides and grooms want documentary style photography to capture their event more than posed stills
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guests it can take place in a more unique setting he said
ldquoPeople are inviting friends and not just people they are
friendly withrdquo he said
The music for weddings is also being mixed up a bit Itis not unusual to 983142ind a live band during the cocktail hour
and ceremony and then a DJ playing great dance music for
the party that follows
When it comes to food according to Mr Sokolow
pairings of food and drink are very popular For example
983142ish tacos may be served with an individual margarita slid-
ers can be chased down with a beer and bourbon-infused
short ribs can be enjoyed with a shot of bourbonAri Starkman owner of The Elan in Lodi said that
grand cocktail receptions are very popular these days
In addition Mr Starkman said there are more ethnic
customizations such as combining for example Russian
and Chinese elements in the wedding He recalled one
affair in which caviar and blintzes (Russian) shared the
menu with steamed dumplings (Chinese) because the
groom was Russian Jewish and the bride was Chinese ndasha culinary combination that gives a nod to both of their
cultures
With weddings styles may change The music may play
longer The food may be jazzed up But brides grooms
and their guests will always want to have a wonderful
party that celebrates their union in a special way and that
will be a memorable event
ldquoAnd one thing that has not changed and will never
changerdquo said Ms Daidone of The Estates at Florentine
Gardens ldquois that people still want good service Service is
of the utmost importance That will never change I hope
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Seating arrangementsTop trends in wedding place cards Sharon Naylor x
Y ou may have seen guests
crowded around a reception
table searching for their alpha-
betically arranged place cards
That shoulder-to-shoulder press of guests
has long been a scene at weddings and
todayrsquos innovations help eliminate the
long line and discomfort of trying to read
those small cards
Now the traditional card kerfuffle may
be replaced by a new display It rsquos a top
wedding trend and a popular place card
option seen on Pinterest is to eliminate the
printed card and write guestsrsquo names on a
tall vertical display such as a glass window
or mirror Guestsrsquo names and table num-
bers c an be displayed on signs installed
behind the bar or hung in frames gallery-
style on the walls at the cocktail partyThese vertical card-free table assignments
become decor pieces as well as easy-to-use
directions for guests
Vertical displays have also given the
tradition a twist by listing guestsrsquo names
according to table number not alpha-
betically Itrsquos easy for guests to spot their
names under say Table 7 and they can
see names of the other guests with whom
theyrsquore seated No more standing by the
place card table little card in hand ask-
ing their friends ldquoWhere are you sittingrdquo
Jenny Orsini wedding planner says that
this place card display creates better
momentum for your celebration allowing
guests to move right into the cocktail party
or reception without that ldquopileup of name-
searching at an entry tablerdquo
If you do wish to have printed place
cards use pretty cardstock and gorgeous
fonts that coordinate with your wedding
invitations and other print items at your wedding Decorat ive borders seasonal
colors theme motifs and elegant hand-
writing or print on the cards are all great
options (ldquoJust no computer-printed labels
pleaserdquo says Orsini pointing to the lack of
elegance in that method)
As an alternative to the tented card
flat cards are also used mdash perhaps stood
up in sand- grass- or floral-983142illed trays
for a pretty presentation These flat cards
may be attached to take-home favors like
ornate keys or charms And flat cards are
also being af983142ixed via ribbon to mini bot-
tles of bourbon tequila chocolate liqueur
or other take-home tastes that work dou-
ble-duty as place cards and favors
And another trend in wedding place
cards is writing guestsrsquo names in metallic
pen on shiny green leaves or on polished
river stones for a natural feel to comple-
ment wedding decor This natural style
is a thrill for guests since they can takethe ldquocardrdquo home and put it on display
perhaps next to a framed photo of them-
selves taken at the wedding That adds
more appreciation for your chosen design
than a simple printed card theyrsquore likely to
leave on the table at the end of the night
Speaking of keepsakes a framed dis-
play of guestsrsquo names and table numbers
becomes a wonderful keepsake for you
Perhaps a dating or engaged couple who
originally met at your wedding seated
together at Table 7 will want the display
to be shown at their wedding someday
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additionalwedding books Creatorscom
Leaves and stones are top trends inwedding guest place cardsCREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF MERCEDES NORIEGA
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All in the approachMaking your wedding path stand out
Sharon Naylor x
A s you plan your wedding decor
donrsquot forget about the paths
leading to your ceremony and
reception You may have cho-
sen your wedding location simply for the
beauty of the venue itself but you cancreate a fabulous scene for your arriving
guests by decorating the trees along the
driveway or footpath Their anticipation
builds as they see your decor and light-
ing effects along the way giving them an
even more magical 983142irst impression of your
wedding day And if your venue is one that
your guests have been to for other wed-
dings decorating the approach to the site
makes for a new unique experience
Here are some ways to make your wedding paths stand out
Hanging floralsAdorn the pathrsquos tree line with flowers and
garlands that hint at your weddingrsquos floral
motif Joyce Maffeo florist at BloomNa-
tion says ldquoYou can either display flowers
on their own such as by stringing florals
on ribbon or 983142ishing wire or display flow-
ers inside antique bottles or other glass
vesselsrdquo The advantage of the in-vessel
flower display is that flowers stay hydrated with a bit of water in the bottle allowing
them to hold up well in late-summerearly-
fall sunshine
Some open-air flowers that Maffeo
recommends for their staying power
include orchids eucalyptuses and strung
daisies
ldquoFor in-vessel flowers consider protea
orchids hypericum and ornamental kale
for a pop of purple colorrdquo says Maffeo
ldquoWreaths hanging from trees also add to
the beautiful approachrdquo One flower to be
wary of since it easily wilts in the sun is
hydrangea Maffeo suggests instead using
bunches of carnations which hold up
better in the sun
This knowledge of flowersrsquo strength in
sunshine mdash important since your floral
team will likely set up your approach
decor several hours before your wedding
mdash is one example of why you should have
professionals create your floral pieces
String lights andhanging lanternsFor a sunset or evening wedding string
lights arranged in the trees add breath-
taking effect whether you use just a few
string lights per tree or many In addi-
tion to string lights lanterns hung from
S-hooks on the trees create that trendy
look of rustic elegance And you can take
those lanterns home after the wedding to
use them in your own backyard
Non-hanging lanternsTall lanterns clustered along a path or set
on stairs leading to the wedding sites are
a new top trend for weddings this year
and next Lanterns may be metallic such
as copper or bronze or rustic-themed in
white or black Upscale home decor stores
sell lanterns as part of the outdoor enter-
taining trend These larger lanterns can be
used at home after your big day
Candles
Position a large number of traditional orLED candles in glass vessels at the entrance
to your ceremony or reception spot This
is a stunning look for exterior doors and
if you have a portico that guests will pass
through to get to an inner ceremony or
celebration space arrange a large amount
of vessel-nested candles on either side of a
clear walking pathway
Tiki torchesldquoThe use of Tiki torches creates not only
a path to the reception but also softens
the lighting for a romantic moodrdquo says
Allison Sells catering manager for Caneel
Bay Resort in the US Virgin Islands Since
Tiki torches create one single light source
per torch pair them with overhead string
lights or ground-set lanterns to multiply
your lighting effect
UplightingSetting lights at the base of trees and
directing the light upward gives those trees
a magical and impressive glow Sells says
that uplighting palm trees creates a ldquowowrdquofactor especially complementing a tropical
wedding location
Signs
Chalkboard signs with personalized
messages can be used multiple times along
the path with friendly welcome messages
invitations to ldquoGet the party startedrdquo and
directions to wedding sites In the evening
try lit marquee signs illuminating the path
with words like ldquoLoverdquo ldquoXOXOrdquo or your
monogram These too can be take-home
decor to forever remind you of your big
day
MusicPiped-in music along your path adds a wel-
coming soundtrack to the approach
If your venue has an interesting history
beautiful scenery or perhaps a s tunning
sunset that will light up the sky with colors
during your weddingrsquos arrival time you
might not need any additional decor or
lighting at all Mother Nature has taken
care of that as her wedding gift to you
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
Rows of candles create a magical effect for your guestsrsquo approach to your wedding CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF ELLIS ISLAND
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Teresa Iqbal x
T he honeymoon is typically the last climactic
event of the wedding process As the culminat-
ing event that pulls everything together and
leaves couples with their 983142irst opportunity to
relax and begin enjoying life together itrsquos important to
make it as enjoyable as possible But where do you begin
when it comes to choosing where and how to enjoy your
983142irst moments together as a married couple on your
honeymoon
Choosing a honeymoon destination that represents
your interests as a couple is perhaps the best place to start
narrowing down destination choices Do you love art andmuseums If so a large city with ample opportunity for
you to spend the days among art exhibits and historical
pieces is probably best suited for you Perhaps yoursquore a
couple who consider themselves literary Take some time
to research places where literary authors made history
and immerse yourself in these same spots Maybe a good
time for you means spending most of your days beach-
side Be sure to choose a honeymoon destination where
you can spend your days on the beach and take part in
activities on the water Enjoying the overall culture of your
destination is an important key to having a happy and ful-983142illing experience on your honeymoon
You neednrsquot spend an outrageous amount of money
traveling to a tropical destination either Chances are
that there are beautiful spots closer than you think where
you could make great memories doing the things you both
love In fact building your honeymoon itinerary around
the activities you love allows you to consider an array of
vacation spots that 983142it a number of budgets Whether itrsquos
staying in your country your state or even your own city
yoursquore bound to 983142ind a number of ways to celebrate They
key is to narrow down activities that are important to you
both and plan your honeymoon around cities where youknow you can have a good time doing the things you enjoy
If you are hoping to spend your vacation traveling to
faraway destinations there are other ways to be budget-
conscious while still having a good time overseas Cruises
are one honeymoon option that more and more couples
are taking advantage of every day Theyrsquore great for those
hoping to get more bang for their buck According to Lux-
ury Travel Magazine ldquowith some cruise lines port taxes
meals drinks entertainment activities and even tips are
all included in the upfront cost of a cruise Itrsquos easy to work
out a per-day cost to compare to other forms of travelrdquo
Taking a cruise also simpli983142ies the logistical process of
vacationing For example you need only unpack and pack
once Most if not all meals are included in the passen-
ger fare as well as an array of activities to be enjoyed on
the ship Splurging on meals at local spots where the ship
docks allows couples to experience 983142ine dining without
having to worry about shelling out cash at every single
meal The same goes for activities Many cruise lines orga-
nize activities off the ship that couples can take part in
such as scuba diving and museum tours which means less
hassle and work involved in 983142inding fun things to do in
your destination city leaving more time both on and offthe boat to enjoy yourselves to the fullest
A similar option for those who donrsquot want to deal with
all the stress and planning of both a wedding and a hon-
eymoon is the all-inclusive resort All-inclusives are great
for those looking for a hassle-free experience Couples can
How to choose how and where to honeymoon
pamper themselves and share all of the same bene983142its as
cruisers such as included activities and meals Just be sure
to choose a destination yoursquod both be interested in explor-
ing and experiencing to some depth because you likely
wonrsquot be doing much more than day trips to closer more
local spots This is de983142initely an upside for those looking
to stay in one place for longer and more deeply immerse
themselves in the culture art and cuisine of one location
of their choosing rather than visiting an array of destina-
tions for a short amount of time
Itrsquos clear that no matter your focus interest or budget
there are several different options to take advantage of
when creating a lasting honeymoon experienceCreatorscom
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Best guestEtiquette tips for wedding attendees Kristen Castillo x
Once the invitation arrives in
the mail you start asking your-
self questions ldquoWhat should I
wearrdquo ldquoWhat gift should I getrdquo
ldquoCan I invite a guestrdquo
All of these questions and more are com-
mon concerns for wedding guests Read on
for tips from wedding and etiquette profes-sionals for answers to your questions and
983142ind out what it takes to be a great guest
Can you bring a dateThe general rule The only people who
can attend the wedding are the ones listed
on the invitation So if the invite says ldquoMr
and Mrs Jonesrdquo then only the husband
and wife can attend If it just says ldquoMiss
Jonesrdquo then the woman must attend the
wedding aloneMake sure you RSVP for the wedding
by the date indicated on the invitation
Showing up anyway after neglecting to
RSVP is a big no-no
If your childrenrsquos names arenrsquot listed on
the invitation donrsquot show up to the wed-
ding as a family
ldquoA gentle way to deal with this situation
is to have the family table off to the side
or back of the reception areardquo says author
and etiquette expert Jacqueline Whitmore
who is also the founder of The ProtocolSchool of Palm Beach
Another option The bride and groom
might provide guests who have children
the ldquoname of a reputable baby sitter in
your area who is willing to accommodate
parents who want to attend the weddingrdquo
suggests Whitmore
What to wearWeddings tend to be dressy events but
exactly how dressyIf the invitation says ldquoblack tierdquo wear a
tuxedo
Otherwise ldquoa man should wear a suit
and a woman should wear a cocktail dress
or Sunday bestrdquo says wedding planner
Fran Plodkowski of Social Graces noting
beach weddings can be more casualldquoRemember it is a weddingrdquo says Plod-
kowski ldquoLook your bestrdquo
Gift guideGiving a wedding gift is customary but do
you give a gift off the couplersquos registry or
write a check If so how much to give
Therersquos no 983142ixed answer here
ldquoPeople do not know how much to giverdquo
says Plodkowski who advises guests to
give what they want to and can afford
Still you donrsquot have to give a gift of equal value to the price of the dinner especially
since many weddings are big budget
Typically the closer guests are to the
bride and groom the more theyrsquoll give For
example the groomrsquos sister would give a
larger gift than his co-worker would
Time mattersGuests often mistakenly assume weddings
donrsquot start on time
ldquoAs a result we see guests that purpose-fully arrive laterdquo says Camille McLamb
founder and lead coordinator at Camille
Victoria Weddings noting ceremony and
reception schedules are 983142ixed to accom-
modate parties and events throughout
the day
ldquoGuests should plan to arrive at least10 minutes before the start time listed on
the invitationrdquo urges McLamb ldquoIf a guest
ends up arriving late she should try to
check if the bridal party is lined up before
going inside If the bridal party is lined up
and about to go down the aisle the guest
should wait off to the side until the pro-
cessional is over and then sneak in up a
side aislerdquo
Remember yoursquore not
the photographerSure itrsquos exciting to capture the wedding in
photos but remember yoursquore a guest not
a photographer on assignment
ldquoDonrsquot photobomb the vowsrdquo says eti-
quette expert Cheryl Seidel ldquoRemember
therersquos probably a professional photogra-
pher somewhere behind you trying to do
the job the couple has hired him to dordquo
Seidel also reminds guests to not block
people behind them instead sit in the
back or on the far aisle Also donrsquot use aniPad to shoot photos ldquoTherersquos no way you
can be inconspicuousrdquo she says
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Before you post your pictures to social media such
as Instagram and Facebook make sure the couple
approve
Whatrsquos for dinnerEven if the reception venue is a restaurant itrsquos not OK
for guests to order whatever they want Thatrsquos because
the menu is preordered and paid for by the bride and
groom Even vegetarian vegan or specialty-diet meals
are ordered ahead of time
Guests with special dietary needs such as gluten
intolerance or nut allergies should inform the bride
and groom at the time of RSVP
AccessibilityOften guests worry about getting in and around the cer-emony and reception venues
ldquoEspecially with the rise in loft weddings not all wed-
ding venues have elevatorsrdquo says McLamb For elderly
and disabled guests ldquostairs and moving from one space
to another within a venue can present dif983142icultiesrdquo
McLamb advises brides and grooms to tell guests
about any potential accessibility challenges at the venue
so the guests can prepare ahead of time She also says
couples should reserve some tables for elderly guests
during cocktail hour Creatorscom Before you post your pictures to social media such as Instagram and Facebook make sure the couple approves(CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF NICHOLAS PURCELL STUDIO)
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HELPERS TASKERS
AND OTHER PARTY FIXERSShould you hire online help for your big day
Kristen Castillo x
W edding planning is 983142illed
with details large and small
Finding help isnrsquot always
easy but itrsquos necessary
Need help planning your engagement
party Want assistance assembling your welcome bags Loo king for som eon e
with nice penmanship to write out your
place cards
It used to be that yoursquod have to do these
jobs yourself ask friends or family or hire
an event professional So what should you
do when yoursquore overwhelmed and family
and friends arenrsquot available Nowadays
you can go online to hire helpers to get the
job done
Thatrsquos what happened for a couplersquos
wedding in Los Angeles The groom sur-
prised his bride during the reception with
her favorite New England treat Hoodsie
Cups which are paper cups 983142illed with
a mix of both chocolate and vanilla ice
cream But 983142irst the groom had to 983142igure
out how to get the frozen dessert to the
West Coast for his bride who is originally
from New England He hired a ldquoTaskerrdquo
via TaskRabbit the leading on-demand
home services app connecting busy peo-
ple with a network of Taskers in theirarea mdash or in this case someone from the
Northeast who could buy and overnight
ship 150 ice-cream cups in an industrial
strength cooler
The groom tells TaskRabbit that making
the Hoodsie Cups surprise happen was
ldquode983142initely a memory the both of us will
have for the rest of our livesrdquo and he says
that without the Taskerrsquos help he doesnrsquot
think he could have made it happen
Help for hireMany couples are hiring helpers to assist
with pre-wedding prep including every-
thing from envelope calligraphy to deco-
rating the venue to DJrsquoing or baking the
wedding cake
Some brides and grooms solicit the help
online with ads on Craigslist or v ia social
media posts asking for help with certain
wedding tasks S ites like TaskRabbit are
growing too
ldquoTaskers helping with weddings has become a big thing in the past two yearsrdquo
says Jamie Viggiano TaskRabbitrsquos VP of
marketing citing examples like helping
to plan a surprise engagement by deco-
rating an apartment with hundreds of
rose petals and LED candles deliver-
ing a wedding cake in Washington DC
and helping assemble and deliver flower
arrangements
Additional wedding tasks completed
include picking up and delivering last-
minute items like ice batteries and coffee
sorting scanning and uploading photos
for a wedding slideshow and setting up
wedding FaceTime sessions between the
couple and their loved ones who couldnrsquot
attend the ceremony in person ldquoThis has
been done a number of times with older
clients who arenrsquot savvy with technolo983143yrdquo
says Viggiano
PricingPaying for wedding help a la carte seems
to be a 983142it for couples who canrsquot afford or
donrsquot want to hire professional weddingcoordinators Some brides and grooms
list the project budget in their social media
and Craigslist posts others take bids from
anyone who responds to the ads
On TaskRabbit Taskers set their own
hourly rate by category When clients
post a task TaskRabbit provides a list of
several candidates in the area and the
individualrsquos skills The client pays once
the task is 983142inished
ldquoBrides and grooms are recognizing that
they donrsquot need to do all the wedding prep
on their own and that they can outsource
some of the more mundane tedious tasks
to quali983142ied peoplerdquo says Viggiano noting
that outsourcing the work ldquomakes a stress-
ful situation less stressfulrdquo
Buyer bewareSome wedding experts caution brides and
grooms that hiring a stranger to assist with
wedding details might not be a good idea
The reason Typically the helper is inex-
perienced with weddings and might not be
accountableldquoUnless you are a really laid-back bride
I would not recommend hiring helpers in
this wayrdquo says Michelle Balducci-Connelly
of Michelle Marie Photographie ldquoCraigslist
workers have little to no repercussions if
they donrsquot perform A professional will
have a reputation to uphold and has an
incentive to perform well because they are
making a career out of their servicerdquo
Still she understands the appeal of hir-
ing wedding helpers
ldquoWith ever-increasing costs of wed-
dings my couples are always looking to
save in areas they deem appropriaterdquo
says Balducci-Connelly noting that hiring
a day-of planner for example would cost
anywhere from $500 to $1000 for recep-
tion setup and organization compared to
a hired helper who would likely charge
an hourly or flat rate ldquothat would be far
less than a day-of coordinator would
chargerdquo
Before hiring anyone to help with your
event get references if possible and
make sure yoursquore comfortable with theirskills reliability and overall credibility
You only get one chance to make your
wedding day a success so be con983142ident in
your hiring decisions
Creatorscom
Many couples hire helpers to assist them with wedding planning such as ldquoTaskersrdquo from TaskRabbit CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF TASKRABBIT
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Dress trendsLooking your best on the big day Julia Price x
W eddings are a big deal All
the planning coordinating
decision-making letdowns
stressful situations mdash they
all fade away and become worth it the
moment the bride walks down the aisle
So of course no pressure with picking out
the perfect dress or anything rightBut really itrsquos hard to go wrong nowa-
days Luckily for everyone the lsquo80s have
come and gone and have graciously taken
their wedding dress signature styles with
them
In general wedding dresses are veer-
ing toward a less poofy look and going
toward a sleeker form-983142itting hourglass
shape This creates a more dramatic effect
when the train of the dress 983142ills out behind
the bride while also enhancing feminine
strength in the upper body
Another trend this season is the
off-the-shoulder look Several years ago
the sleeveless dress was a big hit but now
itrsquos been slightly modi983142ied to keep the shoul-
ders bare with the straps lightly hanging off
Whether the dress is white silk Chantilly
lace or ballgown-style this off-the-shoul-
der appeal creates a delicate look
The popular shabby chic furniture trend
seems to have influenced brides-to-be as
well Seeing as many couples are choos-ing the country feel mdash complete with
Mason jars mdash for their big day it makes
sense that women are looking for a dress
to match that vibe Yoursquoll see more and
more dresses with corded details and lace
accents and yoursquoll see less beadwork than
you had on some of the past looks
Also trending this season is embellishing
the back of the dress In addition to adding
a new element of beauty it makes sense
because guests wil l have a close visual of
the bridersquos back as shersquos approaching her
husband-to-be Intricate detailing on the
Trending this season is embellishing the back of the dressCREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF JULIA PRICE
back might include a crisscross or spar-
kling tulle Some brides are opting for
completely backless dresses This goes well
with layers of lace and the silhouette look
Though itrsquos good to look for many
options online (try bridescom or search for
your perfect look on Pinterest) yoursquove got
to trust your gut with what feels right for
you This is one of those situations where
no matter who else speaks up as long as
yoursquore saying ldquoI dordquo to the dress then
yoursquore going to be happy Creatorscom
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Plus-size bridesBridal beauty at any size
Kristen Castillo x
T here is a wedding gown for every
bride but if yoursquore over size 14
it might be a challenge to 983142ind
the perfect dress Luckily thatrsquos
changing Thanks to the TLC television show
ldquoCurvy Bridesrdquo and bridal shops that cater to
plus-size brides itrsquos getting easier for brides
of all sizes to 983142ind their dream dresses
These days the average woman in the
US wears a size 14 and yet bridal gownstraditionally are made for smaller sizes
ldquoPlus-size for us means anyone who
has had trouble 983142inding dresses to 983142it them
elsewhererdquo say Yuneisia Harris and Yukia
Walker owners of full-983142igured bridal salon
Curvaceous Couture and stars of ldquoCurvy
Bridesrdquo
Walker knows how frustrating it can
be for plus-sized brides to 983142ind a gown
After getting engaged she struggled to
983142ind sample gowns and ultimately didnrsquot
like the dress she chose Out of that expe-
rience she and her sister started their
company
The sisters explain that in evenin983143wear
and in bridal everything is cut smaller
ldquoSo while a person might have a smaller
street size like a 12 or a 14 in a wedding
gown they might have to order something
as large as a 20rdquo
That means when traditional bridal
salons have sample dresses in sizes 8 to 12ldquotheyrsquore really only servicing brides whose
street size is 4 to 10rdquo say Harris and Walker
Plus-Size PerceptionsThe notion of plus-size bridal fashion car-
ries many misconceptions In some cases
brides arenrsquot aware that plus-sizing exists
in the wedding world because itrsquos typi-
cally underrepresented or not seen at all
Often plus-size brides end up buying
wedding gowns online mdash one of the few
places with larger sizes
Still others assume dresses in larger
sizes should be plain and not embellished
ldquothat plus-size women donrsquot desire the
same beautiful dresses and fabrics as theirstraight-size counterpartsrdquo says Erena
Shklovsky creative director and head
designer for plus-size designer IGIGI not-
ing that many plus-size brides want ldquodeli-
cate beading luxe fabrics and innovative
cuts just like other bridesrdquo
Another misconception That being
plus-sized means you need to cover up
ldquoIrsquod say that 60 percent of our brides ini-
tially ask us to add a sleeve or a shawl to
a dress because theyrsquore afraid of showing
their arms or backrdquo say Harris and Walkernoting that adding a sleeve or a strap for
example ldquois not the most flattering choice
for a briderdquo
In other cases gowns with straps
sleeves and extra fabric can make a bride
look matronly
ldquoWe just want our brides to be happy
with their dresses and sometimes that
means helping them embrace their natu-
ral beautyrdquo say Harris and Walker who
feel viewers like the show because it allows
them to see brides they relate to try on and
look great in gorgeous gowns
Fashionable Choices
Designing full-983142igured fashions involvesmore than simply adding extra fabric
Because every bride has a different size
and body shape gowns need specialized
983142its including built-in support for large
busts for example
More fashion lines and bridal lines are
starting to embrace women of all sizes
Harris and Walker praise designers like Roz
la Kelin and Enzoani for being some of the
983142irst designers to offer plus-size samples
ldquoI think the biggest and best addition
to plus-size bridal collections is ChristianSirianorsquos dress for Nicolette Masonrdquo says
Shklovsky ldquoIt showed the rest of the fash-
ion world that plus-sized women deserve
more than to be covered with loads and
loads of fabricrdquo
Still no wedding gown is truly ready-to-
wear All dresses need alterations including
changes to hemlines bust lines waistlines
sleeves and shoulder straps No matter
what the dress size a perfect 983142it is flattering
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DIY all-in-one or party rental suppliers Chelle Cordero x
Itrsquos your wedding day and there areso many plans to be made You want
the day to be spectacular Between
budgets traditions choosing a loca-
tion considering the time of year and
weather and most importantly your idea
of a dream wedding mdash itrsquos enough to make
your head spin
You may choose an all-in-one venue that
comes with its own gorgeous setting cater-
ing waitstaff tables and chairs and hope
that the cost is within your reach DIY
wedding plans may or may not be moreeconomical but many excited couples opt
for more personalized settings and control
over the way things are done One thing is
for sure You probably donrsquot own enough
chairs tables and service to make it hap-
pen without help
You could always buy the folding chairs
and tables linens and glassware for your
event but then you need a place to store
everything before and after the party
Owning everything makes you solely respon-
sible for cleaning and ironing linens polish-
ing service and washing all of the dishware before and after use (especially if itrsquos been
sitting awhile) It is often more ef983142icient to
simply rent what you need for each occasion
if you plan to throw several parties
Letrsquos go rental
Every bride in your family before
you was married in Aunt Franrsquos parlor
and thatrsquos the beginning yoursquove always
dreamed of with a reception in the back-
yard But then you remember the light rain
shower during your cousinrsquos gala and how
it chased everyone away Yoursquoll need seat-ing and decorations for inside and yoursquoll
want to add a tent to the tables chairs and
buffet setting outside Or maybe the old
barn could be gussied up for a fancy do
but the dirt floor leaves a lot to be desired
especially when it comes to dancing -- but
thatrsquos not a problem if you add a rented
dance floor (or more)
Party rental companies offer everything
from aisle covers to wine glasses Choose
table linens centerpieces pole covers (to
hide tent supports) dance floors of various
sizes stages and more If you are worriedabout the weather 983142ind tents for outdoor
parties they come with sides or open with
options for fans or heaters for comfort
Serve delicious meals with gas or charcoal
grill rentals and buffet-style cha983142ing dishes
There is no limit to what you can do Paper
plates are great for picnics but if you pre-
fer restaurant-style service 983142ind china
charger plates silver service goblets and
flutes and linen napkins and tablecloths
Check out the party supply rental com-
panies in your area to 983142ind out what theyoffer and compare prices Make sure to
include delivery costs as well as delivery
terms such as how far in advance they will
deliver and when they will pick up after the
affair Visit the showrooms to see the qual-
ity of merchandise they offer By all means
get recommendations and warnings from
other consumers you certainly donrsquot want
to 983142ind out on the day of the party that the
tablecloths are stained or that you were
shorted on the glassware Ask about their
reputation for reliability their willingness
to work with you and whether there is an
extra charge for setup Also 983142ind out in what
condition the items have to be returned
mdash eg do the dishes need to be washedor simply scraped do the linens need to
be laundered and what are the costs for
breakage If possible compare the prices
quality service and reputations of a few
companies before making a 983142inal decision
Some party rental suppliers will work
with area vendors such as caterers and
wait staff to help you 983142ind a complete
package for your magical day Make an
appointment to sit down with your cho-
sen rental company and explain your
vision to them A party planner can makehelpful suggestions based on the compa-
nyrsquos experience with previous weddings
and parties They can tell you how many
plates glasses and flatware sets to rent
based on the number of people invited
always order a few extra pieces in case of
breakage or unexpected guests Read the
contract carefully to verify that all dates
quantities and service details are spelled
out correctly Creatorscom
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Le menu du jour
New trends in menu cards Sharon Naylor x
W hen printed menu cards
983142irst showed up as wed-
ding table additions guests
loved reading those delec-
table descriptions of the courses to come
during the dinner There was at 983142irst one
printed card per round table then four
or so spaced apart on long tables Guests
took turns looking at the elegantly printedcards with the dazzling print script Soon
individual menu cards were placed on
each guestrsquos plate for easier use and now
those individual menu cards are being per-
sonalized to each guest
ldquoYour tablescape offers countless oppor-
tunities to wow guests with custom details
and personalized menu cards are func-
tional and beautiful while making guests
feel like an important part of your big dayrdquo
says Vanessa Wicks event sales director at
Weylin B Seymourrsquos a historic event venue
in Brooklyn that has been the site of celeb-
rity weddings and events
When guests arrive at their tables they
983142ind their names printed on the menu
cards showing that you value their pres-
ence on their big day And the artistry of
their name handwritten in calligraphy
complements the loveliness of your wed-
ding design Yoursquove taken great care withthe smallest of details elevating your wed-
ding as a whole
Another advantage of customized menu
cards is the ability to tailor guestsrsquo special
menu requirements such as a gluten-free
vegan or kosher meal When guests see
their menu card they know right away
that yoursquove heard and honored their
requests They donrsquot need to be anxious
about their special meals
To help you create your personalized
menu cards keep the following tips in
mind
bull Spell names correctly Triple-check
your invitations list looking at guestsrsquosocial media pages for backup to be sure
each guestrsquos name is spelled correctly It
would be an awful faux pas if you created
a card for ldquoJohnrdquo when he goes by ldquoJonrdquo
bull Plan for dim lighting Your recep -
tion ballroom may be dimly lit illumi-
nated by candles and that low light can
make light-colored print dif983142icult to read
Larger script in a good contrasting shade
makes your menu card easier to see Not
all guests bring their reading glasses with
them Metallic print will capture candle-light so consider shimmery lettering
bull Create personalized menu cards for
children as well Theirs can be designed
differently than adult guestsrsquo cards using
kid-themed colors and motifs Add a print
game to the back of the card to provide a
fun activity
bull Add an accent to the back of guestsrsquo
menu cards A personalized note from you
may be extra work but it goes a long way
to making your guests feel like VIPs Or if
a personalized message isnrsquot realistic for
your time and budget print an inspiring
and romantic or a foodie-themed quote
on the back of each cardbull Ask your chef to help Make your menu
card mouth-watering with chef-provided
dish descriptions of each course
bull Include drink pairing choices with
each course Again your chef or bar man-
ager can provide pairing ideas using vin-
tages and cocktails that will be served at
your wedding
You might be wondering whether per-
sonalized menu cards at each guestrsquos
seat will tell each guest where to sit at
the table While guests are free to switchseats it is a good idea to put your guest
menu cards in order by table so that
staffers handling your weddingrsquos table
setups can place cards in the order you
prefer seating spouses and families next
to each other
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
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New and now 4Down the aisle in the trendiest ways
Seating arrangements 8
Top trends in wedding place cards
All in the approach 10Making your wedding path stand out
How to choose how and where to honeymoon 11
Best guest 12Etiquette tips for wedding attendees
Helpers taskers and other party elves 14
Should you hire online help for your big day
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Plus-size brides 16Bridal beauty at any size
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New ANDDown the aisle in the trendiest ways
Heidi Mae Bratt x
F rom the beginning of time brides
have wanted to make their wed-
ding day one of the most mem-
orable and special days of their
lives For the few hours of the well-plannedand long-dreamed-about party where they
are center stage they want everything to
be perfect or as perfect as it can be
Many also want it to be on trend
How many remember the 1981 royal
wedding of Diana Princess of Wales The
celebrated nuptials not only captured the
attention of the world but ushered in the
look of the decade which reflected a bride
beauti983142ied by puffy sleeves lace cathedral
train veils pearls cinched waists and
sequinsThese days you nary see a puff on a
sleeve That decadersquos trends went way
beyo nd the dress spil ling into ever y
aspect of the wedding from picture taking
(posed family portraits rather than natural
documentary-style photography) to the
cake (a stacked tiered cake held together
by columns rather than cupcakes or mini
desserts) to the venue (a party in a hotel ballroom rather than a wedding held at a
number of unique places)
We queried several of our own area wed-
ding makers to get their take on what is
new and now in the way of the wedding
Les Friedman owner of Northern Val-
ley Affairs at Temple Emanu-El in Closter
said that having a wedding in a space that
is both indoor and outdoor is something
that many brides want
ldquoBrides de983142initely are looking for theoption of indoor-outdoor for their wed-
ding so they can have the choice when the
weather is permittingrdquo he said
At Northern Valley Affairs events can
even defy the weather outside If itrsquos cold
and the couple wants to use its outdoor
space for the ceremony or for cocktails
heating lamps warm up the outdoors some
30 degrees He said Mr Friedman with
nearly 40 years experience in the events
business works with his general manager
Marty MagedldquoThe outdoor space is used especially
during the warm weather months but we
just did a late November wedding and yes
while it was warm outside 48 degrees we
were able to get it to 70 degrees with the
heating lampsrdquo he said
Brides are also looking for lighting to add
to the ambiance of the party At Northern
Valley Affairs LED lights change the look of
the room or the patio in an instant creat-
ing a different feeling as they change colorfrom amber to purple to blue for example
When it comes to dining Mr Friedman
who cut his teeth on the grand smorgas-
bords of yesterday (remember the stuffed
cabbage and barley laden cha983142ing dishes)
and the heavily prime-rib plated main
courses said there is a major difference
in how the wedding guests are enjoying
their meals today Smaller prettier more
interesting and more ethnic is what is on
the menu especially for appetizers he
said Mini martini glasses 983142illed with sushi- grade tuna and Asian slaw or a tapas-sized
Peking duck roll with a dab of Hoisin sauce
served at various stations is what is big
these days
ldquoThey want a small dainty one-bite
ldquoOne thing that
has not changedand will never change
is that people still want good service
Service is of theutmost importancerdquo
mdash Maria Daidone
With every decade there are new trends forweddings that make the ceremony au courant
Now
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appetizer They donrsquot want to have to use
a knife or fork They just want to pick and
gordquo he said
The small sized and big variety option
goes for dessert as well
Instead of the slice of wedding cake
(where do you see the bride and groom
even cutting the cake before the guests)
and the groaning and overflowing Vien-
nese table laden with desserts the sweets
are made part of the party Mini desserts
are served butler-style to guests who are
either seated or still dancing The offerings
are dizzying from dipped pretzels to cake
lollipops to mini-cheesecakes (pareve)
Sweets arrive on the dance floor as the
guests are boogieing
Another big trend is that the dancing
just doesnrsquot stop Brides want the party to
go on and on
ldquoYears ago the band would stop playingabout 983142ive times and ask the guests to be
seated to be served their various courses
the fruit cup salad appetizer main
course and dessert They used to take a
break every 20 minutes Now itrsquos nonstop
dancing in the ballroom Maybe they sit
down twicerdquo he said
Deena Greenstein the in-house event
planner for Five Star Caterers and head of
Deena Greenstein Events says that wed-
dings are no longer hamstrung by old con-
ventions or traditionsldquoThere are no rules anymore People are
doing whatever they wantrdquo she said
For example setting up a lounge for
guests was a thing common to bar and bat
mitzvahs but now weddings are including
this element In addition custom is king
she said whether it is custom linen a cus-
tom bar with a monogrammed design or
a custom dance floor
For the food Ms Greenstein said there
is a ldquoblend and balance of fun and healthyrdquosuch as a lean lamb turkey or vegetable
sliders with shoestring French fries
ldquoThere is the fun stuff but itrsquos coupled
with the classic and organic foods like
fresh vegetables and local seasonal pro-
duce Ms Greenstein said ldquoSushi is also
making a big comeback with not only the
quality but also the excitement of a beauti-
ful displayrdquo
Maria Daidone owner of the The Estates
at Florentine Gardens in River Vale said
that outdoor ceremonies where guestsenjoy the natural space is something that
has become a big part of todayrsquos weddings
Her venue she added has ldquoa beautiful gar-
den spacerdquo
Another thing Ms Daidone has noted is
that the color scheme is lighter with more
brides choosing to have their weddings
in shades that are more subdued such as
cream and nudeldquoYears ago everything was lavender but
you donrsquot see that todayrdquo she said
For after-dessert or the little goodie
sendoff food trucks have become a big
trend Guests can get donuts coffee
candy and pretzels anything that yoursquod
get from a food truck right at the event
ldquoThey just park outside and when guests
are leaving they give them water or soda or
a snackrdquo Ms Daidone said ldquoItrsquos become a
big thing in the last couple of yearsrdquo
Yossi Abadi owner of the Palisadium inCliffside Park said that the do-it-yourself
trend especially in the era of Pinterest
has become favored at weddings
For instance the centerpieces on the
tables are no longer big overwhelming
bou quet s of flowers but perhaps an
arrangement of shrubs that has been
designed by the bride Another example
of new and now is how the hosts commu-nicate with guests about where they are
to be seated Creative ways such as a big
billboard have replaced individual place
cards Mr Abadi said
ldquoWe had one client recently who used a
large mirror that had the guestsrsquo names on
it instead of place cardsrdquo he said
Whatrsquos new at the Marriott Glenpointe
is a complete renovation of its 345 guest
rooms an overhaul that includes new
bathrooms furniture carpeting and wall-
paper For guests who will use the hotelrooms for their bridal party or wedding
this is a bonus said Mitchell Heymann
director of sales and marketing
When it comes to weddings at hotels
Gerry Burns the director of catering at
the Pearl River Hilton in Pearl River NY
said that she has seen more full-weekend
weddings at her hotel than in the past In
the past it may have just been a Saturdaynight event but these days the wedding
spans the weekend Guests may arrive on
Friday for Shabbat for a rehearsal dinner
They spend Saturday either observing the
Sabbath or enjoying the day otherwise
with various activities attend the Satur-
day night wedding and then remain at the
hotel until Sunday for a farewell brunch
ldquoItrsquos a destination wedding without hav-
ing to really go far to a destinationrdquo said
Ms Burns
Noam Sokolow president of Rave Cater-ing and Event Planning said that many
weddings are taking place at unique ven-
ues such as old mansions or farms with
barns If the affair is smaller and more
intimate 200 guests as compared to 400
Grand cocktail receptions featuring an array of smallfinger food are very popular these days
Lovely outdoor venues like this setting in a garden gazebo are somethingthat brides are looking for
Brides and grooms want documentary style photography to capture their event more than posed stills
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guests it can take place in a more unique setting he said
ldquoPeople are inviting friends and not just people they are
friendly withrdquo he said
The music for weddings is also being mixed up a bit Itis not unusual to 983142ind a live band during the cocktail hour
and ceremony and then a DJ playing great dance music for
the party that follows
When it comes to food according to Mr Sokolow
pairings of food and drink are very popular For example
983142ish tacos may be served with an individual margarita slid-
ers can be chased down with a beer and bourbon-infused
short ribs can be enjoyed with a shot of bourbonAri Starkman owner of The Elan in Lodi said that
grand cocktail receptions are very popular these days
In addition Mr Starkman said there are more ethnic
customizations such as combining for example Russian
and Chinese elements in the wedding He recalled one
affair in which caviar and blintzes (Russian) shared the
menu with steamed dumplings (Chinese) because the
groom was Russian Jewish and the bride was Chinese ndasha culinary combination that gives a nod to both of their
cultures
With weddings styles may change The music may play
longer The food may be jazzed up But brides grooms
and their guests will always want to have a wonderful
party that celebrates their union in a special way and that
will be a memorable event
ldquoAnd one thing that has not changed and will never
changerdquo said Ms Daidone of The Estates at Florentine
Gardens ldquois that people still want good service Service is
of the utmost importance That will never change I hope
Giving our guests good old hospitalityrdquo
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Seating arrangementsTop trends in wedding place cards Sharon Naylor x
Y ou may have seen guests
crowded around a reception
table searching for their alpha-
betically arranged place cards
That shoulder-to-shoulder press of guests
has long been a scene at weddings and
todayrsquos innovations help eliminate the
long line and discomfort of trying to read
those small cards
Now the traditional card kerfuffle may
be replaced by a new display It rsquos a top
wedding trend and a popular place card
option seen on Pinterest is to eliminate the
printed card and write guestsrsquo names on a
tall vertical display such as a glass window
or mirror Guestsrsquo names and table num-
bers c an be displayed on signs installed
behind the bar or hung in frames gallery-
style on the walls at the cocktail partyThese vertical card-free table assignments
become decor pieces as well as easy-to-use
directions for guests
Vertical displays have also given the
tradition a twist by listing guestsrsquo names
according to table number not alpha-
betically Itrsquos easy for guests to spot their
names under say Table 7 and they can
see names of the other guests with whom
theyrsquore seated No more standing by the
place card table little card in hand ask-
ing their friends ldquoWhere are you sittingrdquo
Jenny Orsini wedding planner says that
this place card display creates better
momentum for your celebration allowing
guests to move right into the cocktail party
or reception without that ldquopileup of name-
searching at an entry tablerdquo
If you do wish to have printed place
cards use pretty cardstock and gorgeous
fonts that coordinate with your wedding
invitations and other print items at your wedding Decorat ive borders seasonal
colors theme motifs and elegant hand-
writing or print on the cards are all great
options (ldquoJust no computer-printed labels
pleaserdquo says Orsini pointing to the lack of
elegance in that method)
As an alternative to the tented card
flat cards are also used mdash perhaps stood
up in sand- grass- or floral-983142illed trays
for a pretty presentation These flat cards
may be attached to take-home favors like
ornate keys or charms And flat cards are
also being af983142ixed via ribbon to mini bot-
tles of bourbon tequila chocolate liqueur
or other take-home tastes that work dou-
ble-duty as place cards and favors
And another trend in wedding place
cards is writing guestsrsquo names in metallic
pen on shiny green leaves or on polished
river stones for a natural feel to comple-
ment wedding decor This natural style
is a thrill for guests since they can takethe ldquocardrdquo home and put it on display
perhaps next to a framed photo of them-
selves taken at the wedding That adds
more appreciation for your chosen design
than a simple printed card theyrsquore likely to
leave on the table at the end of the night
Speaking of keepsakes a framed dis-
play of guestsrsquo names and table numbers
becomes a wonderful keepsake for you
Perhaps a dating or engaged couple who
originally met at your wedding seated
together at Table 7 will want the display
to be shown at their wedding someday
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additionalwedding books Creatorscom
Leaves and stones are top trends inwedding guest place cardsCREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF MERCEDES NORIEGA
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All in the approachMaking your wedding path stand out
Sharon Naylor x
A s you plan your wedding decor
donrsquot forget about the paths
leading to your ceremony and
reception You may have cho-
sen your wedding location simply for the
beauty of the venue itself but you cancreate a fabulous scene for your arriving
guests by decorating the trees along the
driveway or footpath Their anticipation
builds as they see your decor and light-
ing effects along the way giving them an
even more magical 983142irst impression of your
wedding day And if your venue is one that
your guests have been to for other wed-
dings decorating the approach to the site
makes for a new unique experience
Here are some ways to make your wedding paths stand out
Hanging floralsAdorn the pathrsquos tree line with flowers and
garlands that hint at your weddingrsquos floral
motif Joyce Maffeo florist at BloomNa-
tion says ldquoYou can either display flowers
on their own such as by stringing florals
on ribbon or 983142ishing wire or display flow-
ers inside antique bottles or other glass
vesselsrdquo The advantage of the in-vessel
flower display is that flowers stay hydrated with a bit of water in the bottle allowing
them to hold up well in late-summerearly-
fall sunshine
Some open-air flowers that Maffeo
recommends for their staying power
include orchids eucalyptuses and strung
daisies
ldquoFor in-vessel flowers consider protea
orchids hypericum and ornamental kale
for a pop of purple colorrdquo says Maffeo
ldquoWreaths hanging from trees also add to
the beautiful approachrdquo One flower to be
wary of since it easily wilts in the sun is
hydrangea Maffeo suggests instead using
bunches of carnations which hold up
better in the sun
This knowledge of flowersrsquo strength in
sunshine mdash important since your floral
team will likely set up your approach
decor several hours before your wedding
mdash is one example of why you should have
professionals create your floral pieces
String lights andhanging lanternsFor a sunset or evening wedding string
lights arranged in the trees add breath-
taking effect whether you use just a few
string lights per tree or many In addi-
tion to string lights lanterns hung from
S-hooks on the trees create that trendy
look of rustic elegance And you can take
those lanterns home after the wedding to
use them in your own backyard
Non-hanging lanternsTall lanterns clustered along a path or set
on stairs leading to the wedding sites are
a new top trend for weddings this year
and next Lanterns may be metallic such
as copper or bronze or rustic-themed in
white or black Upscale home decor stores
sell lanterns as part of the outdoor enter-
taining trend These larger lanterns can be
used at home after your big day
Candles
Position a large number of traditional orLED candles in glass vessels at the entrance
to your ceremony or reception spot This
is a stunning look for exterior doors and
if you have a portico that guests will pass
through to get to an inner ceremony or
celebration space arrange a large amount
of vessel-nested candles on either side of a
clear walking pathway
Tiki torchesldquoThe use of Tiki torches creates not only
a path to the reception but also softens
the lighting for a romantic moodrdquo says
Allison Sells catering manager for Caneel
Bay Resort in the US Virgin Islands Since
Tiki torches create one single light source
per torch pair them with overhead string
lights or ground-set lanterns to multiply
your lighting effect
UplightingSetting lights at the base of trees and
directing the light upward gives those trees
a magical and impressive glow Sells says
that uplighting palm trees creates a ldquowowrdquofactor especially complementing a tropical
wedding location
Signs
Chalkboard signs with personalized
messages can be used multiple times along
the path with friendly welcome messages
invitations to ldquoGet the party startedrdquo and
directions to wedding sites In the evening
try lit marquee signs illuminating the path
with words like ldquoLoverdquo ldquoXOXOrdquo or your
monogram These too can be take-home
decor to forever remind you of your big
day
MusicPiped-in music along your path adds a wel-
coming soundtrack to the approach
If your venue has an interesting history
beautiful scenery or perhaps a s tunning
sunset that will light up the sky with colors
during your weddingrsquos arrival time you
might not need any additional decor or
lighting at all Mother Nature has taken
care of that as her wedding gift to you
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
Rows of candles create a magical effect for your guestsrsquo approach to your wedding CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF ELLIS ISLAND
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Beauty amp Elegance
138 New Pehle Ave Saddle Brook NJ
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Teresa Iqbal x
T he honeymoon is typically the last climactic
event of the wedding process As the culminat-
ing event that pulls everything together and
leaves couples with their 983142irst opportunity to
relax and begin enjoying life together itrsquos important to
make it as enjoyable as possible But where do you begin
when it comes to choosing where and how to enjoy your
983142irst moments together as a married couple on your
honeymoon
Choosing a honeymoon destination that represents
your interests as a couple is perhaps the best place to start
narrowing down destination choices Do you love art andmuseums If so a large city with ample opportunity for
you to spend the days among art exhibits and historical
pieces is probably best suited for you Perhaps yoursquore a
couple who consider themselves literary Take some time
to research places where literary authors made history
and immerse yourself in these same spots Maybe a good
time for you means spending most of your days beach-
side Be sure to choose a honeymoon destination where
you can spend your days on the beach and take part in
activities on the water Enjoying the overall culture of your
destination is an important key to having a happy and ful-983142illing experience on your honeymoon
You neednrsquot spend an outrageous amount of money
traveling to a tropical destination either Chances are
that there are beautiful spots closer than you think where
you could make great memories doing the things you both
love In fact building your honeymoon itinerary around
the activities you love allows you to consider an array of
vacation spots that 983142it a number of budgets Whether itrsquos
staying in your country your state or even your own city
yoursquore bound to 983142ind a number of ways to celebrate They
key is to narrow down activities that are important to you
both and plan your honeymoon around cities where youknow you can have a good time doing the things you enjoy
If you are hoping to spend your vacation traveling to
faraway destinations there are other ways to be budget-
conscious while still having a good time overseas Cruises
are one honeymoon option that more and more couples
are taking advantage of every day Theyrsquore great for those
hoping to get more bang for their buck According to Lux-
ury Travel Magazine ldquowith some cruise lines port taxes
meals drinks entertainment activities and even tips are
all included in the upfront cost of a cruise Itrsquos easy to work
out a per-day cost to compare to other forms of travelrdquo
Taking a cruise also simpli983142ies the logistical process of
vacationing For example you need only unpack and pack
once Most if not all meals are included in the passen-
ger fare as well as an array of activities to be enjoyed on
the ship Splurging on meals at local spots where the ship
docks allows couples to experience 983142ine dining without
having to worry about shelling out cash at every single
meal The same goes for activities Many cruise lines orga-
nize activities off the ship that couples can take part in
such as scuba diving and museum tours which means less
hassle and work involved in 983142inding fun things to do in
your destination city leaving more time both on and offthe boat to enjoy yourselves to the fullest
A similar option for those who donrsquot want to deal with
all the stress and planning of both a wedding and a hon-
eymoon is the all-inclusive resort All-inclusives are great
for those looking for a hassle-free experience Couples can
How to choose how and where to honeymoon
pamper themselves and share all of the same bene983142its as
cruisers such as included activities and meals Just be sure
to choose a destination yoursquod both be interested in explor-
ing and experiencing to some depth because you likely
wonrsquot be doing much more than day trips to closer more
local spots This is de983142initely an upside for those looking
to stay in one place for longer and more deeply immerse
themselves in the culture art and cuisine of one location
of their choosing rather than visiting an array of destina-
tions for a short amount of time
Itrsquos clear that no matter your focus interest or budget
there are several different options to take advantage of
when creating a lasting honeymoon experienceCreatorscom
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Best guestEtiquette tips for wedding attendees Kristen Castillo x
Once the invitation arrives in
the mail you start asking your-
self questions ldquoWhat should I
wearrdquo ldquoWhat gift should I getrdquo
ldquoCan I invite a guestrdquo
All of these questions and more are com-
mon concerns for wedding guests Read on
for tips from wedding and etiquette profes-sionals for answers to your questions and
983142ind out what it takes to be a great guest
Can you bring a dateThe general rule The only people who
can attend the wedding are the ones listed
on the invitation So if the invite says ldquoMr
and Mrs Jonesrdquo then only the husband
and wife can attend If it just says ldquoMiss
Jonesrdquo then the woman must attend the
wedding aloneMake sure you RSVP for the wedding
by the date indicated on the invitation
Showing up anyway after neglecting to
RSVP is a big no-no
If your childrenrsquos names arenrsquot listed on
the invitation donrsquot show up to the wed-
ding as a family
ldquoA gentle way to deal with this situation
is to have the family table off to the side
or back of the reception areardquo says author
and etiquette expert Jacqueline Whitmore
who is also the founder of The ProtocolSchool of Palm Beach
Another option The bride and groom
might provide guests who have children
the ldquoname of a reputable baby sitter in
your area who is willing to accommodate
parents who want to attend the weddingrdquo
suggests Whitmore
What to wearWeddings tend to be dressy events but
exactly how dressyIf the invitation says ldquoblack tierdquo wear a
tuxedo
Otherwise ldquoa man should wear a suit
and a woman should wear a cocktail dress
or Sunday bestrdquo says wedding planner
Fran Plodkowski of Social Graces noting
beach weddings can be more casualldquoRemember it is a weddingrdquo says Plod-
kowski ldquoLook your bestrdquo
Gift guideGiving a wedding gift is customary but do
you give a gift off the couplersquos registry or
write a check If so how much to give
Therersquos no 983142ixed answer here
ldquoPeople do not know how much to giverdquo
says Plodkowski who advises guests to
give what they want to and can afford
Still you donrsquot have to give a gift of equal value to the price of the dinner especially
since many weddings are big budget
Typically the closer guests are to the
bride and groom the more theyrsquoll give For
example the groomrsquos sister would give a
larger gift than his co-worker would
Time mattersGuests often mistakenly assume weddings
donrsquot start on time
ldquoAs a result we see guests that purpose-fully arrive laterdquo says Camille McLamb
founder and lead coordinator at Camille
Victoria Weddings noting ceremony and
reception schedules are 983142ixed to accom-
modate parties and events throughout
the day
ldquoGuests should plan to arrive at least10 minutes before the start time listed on
the invitationrdquo urges McLamb ldquoIf a guest
ends up arriving late she should try to
check if the bridal party is lined up before
going inside If the bridal party is lined up
and about to go down the aisle the guest
should wait off to the side until the pro-
cessional is over and then sneak in up a
side aislerdquo
Remember yoursquore not
the photographerSure itrsquos exciting to capture the wedding in
photos but remember yoursquore a guest not
a photographer on assignment
ldquoDonrsquot photobomb the vowsrdquo says eti-
quette expert Cheryl Seidel ldquoRemember
therersquos probably a professional photogra-
pher somewhere behind you trying to do
the job the couple has hired him to dordquo
Seidel also reminds guests to not block
people behind them instead sit in the
back or on the far aisle Also donrsquot use aniPad to shoot photos ldquoTherersquos no way you
can be inconspicuousrdquo she says
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Before you post your pictures to social media such
as Instagram and Facebook make sure the couple
approve
Whatrsquos for dinnerEven if the reception venue is a restaurant itrsquos not OK
for guests to order whatever they want Thatrsquos because
the menu is preordered and paid for by the bride and
groom Even vegetarian vegan or specialty-diet meals
are ordered ahead of time
Guests with special dietary needs such as gluten
intolerance or nut allergies should inform the bride
and groom at the time of RSVP
AccessibilityOften guests worry about getting in and around the cer-emony and reception venues
ldquoEspecially with the rise in loft weddings not all wed-
ding venues have elevatorsrdquo says McLamb For elderly
and disabled guests ldquostairs and moving from one space
to another within a venue can present dif983142icultiesrdquo
McLamb advises brides and grooms to tell guests
about any potential accessibility challenges at the venue
so the guests can prepare ahead of time She also says
couples should reserve some tables for elderly guests
during cocktail hour Creatorscom Before you post your pictures to social media such as Instagram and Facebook make sure the couple approves(CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF NICHOLAS PURCELL STUDIO)
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HELPERS TASKERS
AND OTHER PARTY FIXERSShould you hire online help for your big day
Kristen Castillo x
W edding planning is 983142illed
with details large and small
Finding help isnrsquot always
easy but itrsquos necessary
Need help planning your engagement
party Want assistance assembling your welcome bags Loo king for som eon e
with nice penmanship to write out your
place cards
It used to be that yoursquod have to do these
jobs yourself ask friends or family or hire
an event professional So what should you
do when yoursquore overwhelmed and family
and friends arenrsquot available Nowadays
you can go online to hire helpers to get the
job done
Thatrsquos what happened for a couplersquos
wedding in Los Angeles The groom sur-
prised his bride during the reception with
her favorite New England treat Hoodsie
Cups which are paper cups 983142illed with
a mix of both chocolate and vanilla ice
cream But 983142irst the groom had to 983142igure
out how to get the frozen dessert to the
West Coast for his bride who is originally
from New England He hired a ldquoTaskerrdquo
via TaskRabbit the leading on-demand
home services app connecting busy peo-
ple with a network of Taskers in theirarea mdash or in this case someone from the
Northeast who could buy and overnight
ship 150 ice-cream cups in an industrial
strength cooler
The groom tells TaskRabbit that making
the Hoodsie Cups surprise happen was
ldquode983142initely a memory the both of us will
have for the rest of our livesrdquo and he says
that without the Taskerrsquos help he doesnrsquot
think he could have made it happen
Help for hireMany couples are hiring helpers to assist
with pre-wedding prep including every-
thing from envelope calligraphy to deco-
rating the venue to DJrsquoing or baking the
wedding cake
Some brides and grooms solicit the help
online with ads on Craigslist or v ia social
media posts asking for help with certain
wedding tasks S ites like TaskRabbit are
growing too
ldquoTaskers helping with weddings has become a big thing in the past two yearsrdquo
says Jamie Viggiano TaskRabbitrsquos VP of
marketing citing examples like helping
to plan a surprise engagement by deco-
rating an apartment with hundreds of
rose petals and LED candles deliver-
ing a wedding cake in Washington DC
and helping assemble and deliver flower
arrangements
Additional wedding tasks completed
include picking up and delivering last-
minute items like ice batteries and coffee
sorting scanning and uploading photos
for a wedding slideshow and setting up
wedding FaceTime sessions between the
couple and their loved ones who couldnrsquot
attend the ceremony in person ldquoThis has
been done a number of times with older
clients who arenrsquot savvy with technolo983143yrdquo
says Viggiano
PricingPaying for wedding help a la carte seems
to be a 983142it for couples who canrsquot afford or
donrsquot want to hire professional weddingcoordinators Some brides and grooms
list the project budget in their social media
and Craigslist posts others take bids from
anyone who responds to the ads
On TaskRabbit Taskers set their own
hourly rate by category When clients
post a task TaskRabbit provides a list of
several candidates in the area and the
individualrsquos skills The client pays once
the task is 983142inished
ldquoBrides and grooms are recognizing that
they donrsquot need to do all the wedding prep
on their own and that they can outsource
some of the more mundane tedious tasks
to quali983142ied peoplerdquo says Viggiano noting
that outsourcing the work ldquomakes a stress-
ful situation less stressfulrdquo
Buyer bewareSome wedding experts caution brides and
grooms that hiring a stranger to assist with
wedding details might not be a good idea
The reason Typically the helper is inex-
perienced with weddings and might not be
accountableldquoUnless you are a really laid-back bride
I would not recommend hiring helpers in
this wayrdquo says Michelle Balducci-Connelly
of Michelle Marie Photographie ldquoCraigslist
workers have little to no repercussions if
they donrsquot perform A professional will
have a reputation to uphold and has an
incentive to perform well because they are
making a career out of their servicerdquo
Still she understands the appeal of hir-
ing wedding helpers
ldquoWith ever-increasing costs of wed-
dings my couples are always looking to
save in areas they deem appropriaterdquo
says Balducci-Connelly noting that hiring
a day-of planner for example would cost
anywhere from $500 to $1000 for recep-
tion setup and organization compared to
a hired helper who would likely charge
an hourly or flat rate ldquothat would be far
less than a day-of coordinator would
chargerdquo
Before hiring anyone to help with your
event get references if possible and
make sure yoursquore comfortable with theirskills reliability and overall credibility
You only get one chance to make your
wedding day a success so be con983142ident in
your hiring decisions
Creatorscom
Many couples hire helpers to assist them with wedding planning such as ldquoTaskersrdquo from TaskRabbit CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF TASKRABBIT
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Dress trendsLooking your best on the big day Julia Price x
W eddings are a big deal All
the planning coordinating
decision-making letdowns
stressful situations mdash they
all fade away and become worth it the
moment the bride walks down the aisle
So of course no pressure with picking out
the perfect dress or anything rightBut really itrsquos hard to go wrong nowa-
days Luckily for everyone the lsquo80s have
come and gone and have graciously taken
their wedding dress signature styles with
them
In general wedding dresses are veer-
ing toward a less poofy look and going
toward a sleeker form-983142itting hourglass
shape This creates a more dramatic effect
when the train of the dress 983142ills out behind
the bride while also enhancing feminine
strength in the upper body
Another trend this season is the
off-the-shoulder look Several years ago
the sleeveless dress was a big hit but now
itrsquos been slightly modi983142ied to keep the shoul-
ders bare with the straps lightly hanging off
Whether the dress is white silk Chantilly
lace or ballgown-style this off-the-shoul-
der appeal creates a delicate look
The popular shabby chic furniture trend
seems to have influenced brides-to-be as
well Seeing as many couples are choos-ing the country feel mdash complete with
Mason jars mdash for their big day it makes
sense that women are looking for a dress
to match that vibe Yoursquoll see more and
more dresses with corded details and lace
accents and yoursquoll see less beadwork than
you had on some of the past looks
Also trending this season is embellishing
the back of the dress In addition to adding
a new element of beauty it makes sense
because guests wil l have a close visual of
the bridersquos back as shersquos approaching her
husband-to-be Intricate detailing on the
Trending this season is embellishing the back of the dressCREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF JULIA PRICE
back might include a crisscross or spar-
kling tulle Some brides are opting for
completely backless dresses This goes well
with layers of lace and the silhouette look
Though itrsquos good to look for many
options online (try bridescom or search for
your perfect look on Pinterest) yoursquove got
to trust your gut with what feels right for
you This is one of those situations where
no matter who else speaks up as long as
yoursquore saying ldquoI dordquo to the dress then
yoursquore going to be happy Creatorscom
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Plus-size bridesBridal beauty at any size
Kristen Castillo x
T here is a wedding gown for every
bride but if yoursquore over size 14
it might be a challenge to 983142ind
the perfect dress Luckily thatrsquos
changing Thanks to the TLC television show
ldquoCurvy Bridesrdquo and bridal shops that cater to
plus-size brides itrsquos getting easier for brides
of all sizes to 983142ind their dream dresses
These days the average woman in the
US wears a size 14 and yet bridal gownstraditionally are made for smaller sizes
ldquoPlus-size for us means anyone who
has had trouble 983142inding dresses to 983142it them
elsewhererdquo say Yuneisia Harris and Yukia
Walker owners of full-983142igured bridal salon
Curvaceous Couture and stars of ldquoCurvy
Bridesrdquo
Walker knows how frustrating it can
be for plus-sized brides to 983142ind a gown
After getting engaged she struggled to
983142ind sample gowns and ultimately didnrsquot
like the dress she chose Out of that expe-
rience she and her sister started their
company
The sisters explain that in evenin983143wear
and in bridal everything is cut smaller
ldquoSo while a person might have a smaller
street size like a 12 or a 14 in a wedding
gown they might have to order something
as large as a 20rdquo
That means when traditional bridal
salons have sample dresses in sizes 8 to 12ldquotheyrsquore really only servicing brides whose
street size is 4 to 10rdquo say Harris and Walker
Plus-Size PerceptionsThe notion of plus-size bridal fashion car-
ries many misconceptions In some cases
brides arenrsquot aware that plus-sizing exists
in the wedding world because itrsquos typi-
cally underrepresented or not seen at all
Often plus-size brides end up buying
wedding gowns online mdash one of the few
places with larger sizes
Still others assume dresses in larger
sizes should be plain and not embellished
ldquothat plus-size women donrsquot desire the
same beautiful dresses and fabrics as theirstraight-size counterpartsrdquo says Erena
Shklovsky creative director and head
designer for plus-size designer IGIGI not-
ing that many plus-size brides want ldquodeli-
cate beading luxe fabrics and innovative
cuts just like other bridesrdquo
Another misconception That being
plus-sized means you need to cover up
ldquoIrsquod say that 60 percent of our brides ini-
tially ask us to add a sleeve or a shawl to
a dress because theyrsquore afraid of showing
their arms or backrdquo say Harris and Walkernoting that adding a sleeve or a strap for
example ldquois not the most flattering choice
for a briderdquo
In other cases gowns with straps
sleeves and extra fabric can make a bride
look matronly
ldquoWe just want our brides to be happy
with their dresses and sometimes that
means helping them embrace their natu-
ral beautyrdquo say Harris and Walker who
feel viewers like the show because it allows
them to see brides they relate to try on and
look great in gorgeous gowns
Fashionable Choices
Designing full-983142igured fashions involvesmore than simply adding extra fabric
Because every bride has a different size
and body shape gowns need specialized
983142its including built-in support for large
busts for example
More fashion lines and bridal lines are
starting to embrace women of all sizes
Harris and Walker praise designers like Roz
la Kelin and Enzoani for being some of the
983142irst designers to offer plus-size samples
ldquoI think the biggest and best addition
to plus-size bridal collections is ChristianSirianorsquos dress for Nicolette Masonrdquo says
Shklovsky ldquoIt showed the rest of the fash-
ion world that plus-sized women deserve
more than to be covered with loads and
loads of fabricrdquo
Still no wedding gown is truly ready-to-
wear All dresses need alterations including
changes to hemlines bust lines waistlines
sleeves and shoulder straps No matter
what the dress size a perfect 983142it is flattering
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Itrsquos your wedding day and there areso many plans to be made You want
the day to be spectacular Between
budgets traditions choosing a loca-
tion considering the time of year and
weather and most importantly your idea
of a dream wedding mdash itrsquos enough to make
your head spin
You may choose an all-in-one venue that
comes with its own gorgeous setting cater-
ing waitstaff tables and chairs and hope
that the cost is within your reach DIY
wedding plans may or may not be moreeconomical but many excited couples opt
for more personalized settings and control
over the way things are done One thing is
for sure You probably donrsquot own enough
chairs tables and service to make it hap-
pen without help
You could always buy the folding chairs
and tables linens and glassware for your
event but then you need a place to store
everything before and after the party
Owning everything makes you solely respon-
sible for cleaning and ironing linens polish-
ing service and washing all of the dishware before and after use (especially if itrsquos been
sitting awhile) It is often more ef983142icient to
simply rent what you need for each occasion
if you plan to throw several parties
Letrsquos go rental
Every bride in your family before
you was married in Aunt Franrsquos parlor
and thatrsquos the beginning yoursquove always
dreamed of with a reception in the back-
yard But then you remember the light rain
shower during your cousinrsquos gala and how
it chased everyone away Yoursquoll need seat-ing and decorations for inside and yoursquoll
want to add a tent to the tables chairs and
buffet setting outside Or maybe the old
barn could be gussied up for a fancy do
but the dirt floor leaves a lot to be desired
especially when it comes to dancing -- but
thatrsquos not a problem if you add a rented
dance floor (or more)
Party rental companies offer everything
from aisle covers to wine glasses Choose
table linens centerpieces pole covers (to
hide tent supports) dance floors of various
sizes stages and more If you are worriedabout the weather 983142ind tents for outdoor
parties they come with sides or open with
options for fans or heaters for comfort
Serve delicious meals with gas or charcoal
grill rentals and buffet-style cha983142ing dishes
There is no limit to what you can do Paper
plates are great for picnics but if you pre-
fer restaurant-style service 983142ind china
charger plates silver service goblets and
flutes and linen napkins and tablecloths
Check out the party supply rental com-
panies in your area to 983142ind out what theyoffer and compare prices Make sure to
include delivery costs as well as delivery
terms such as how far in advance they will
deliver and when they will pick up after the
affair Visit the showrooms to see the qual-
ity of merchandise they offer By all means
get recommendations and warnings from
other consumers you certainly donrsquot want
to 983142ind out on the day of the party that the
tablecloths are stained or that you were
shorted on the glassware Ask about their
reputation for reliability their willingness
to work with you and whether there is an
extra charge for setup Also 983142ind out in what
condition the items have to be returned
mdash eg do the dishes need to be washedor simply scraped do the linens need to
be laundered and what are the costs for
breakage If possible compare the prices
quality service and reputations of a few
companies before making a 983142inal decision
Some party rental suppliers will work
with area vendors such as caterers and
wait staff to help you 983142ind a complete
package for your magical day Make an
appointment to sit down with your cho-
sen rental company and explain your
vision to them A party planner can makehelpful suggestions based on the compa-
nyrsquos experience with previous weddings
and parties They can tell you how many
plates glasses and flatware sets to rent
based on the number of people invited
always order a few extra pieces in case of
breakage or unexpected guests Read the
contract carefully to verify that all dates
quantities and service details are spelled
out correctly Creatorscom
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New trends in menu cards Sharon Naylor x
W hen printed menu cards
983142irst showed up as wed-
ding table additions guests
loved reading those delec-
table descriptions of the courses to come
during the dinner There was at 983142irst one
printed card per round table then four
or so spaced apart on long tables Guests
took turns looking at the elegantly printedcards with the dazzling print script Soon
individual menu cards were placed on
each guestrsquos plate for easier use and now
those individual menu cards are being per-
sonalized to each guest
ldquoYour tablescape offers countless oppor-
tunities to wow guests with custom details
and personalized menu cards are func-
tional and beautiful while making guests
feel like an important part of your big dayrdquo
says Vanessa Wicks event sales director at
Weylin B Seymourrsquos a historic event venue
in Brooklyn that has been the site of celeb-
rity weddings and events
When guests arrive at their tables they
983142ind their names printed on the menu
cards showing that you value their pres-
ence on their big day And the artistry of
their name handwritten in calligraphy
complements the loveliness of your wed-
ding design Yoursquove taken great care withthe smallest of details elevating your wed-
ding as a whole
Another advantage of customized menu
cards is the ability to tailor guestsrsquo special
menu requirements such as a gluten-free
vegan or kosher meal When guests see
their menu card they know right away
that yoursquove heard and honored their
requests They donrsquot need to be anxious
about their special meals
To help you create your personalized
menu cards keep the following tips in
mind
bull Spell names correctly Triple-check
your invitations list looking at guestsrsquosocial media pages for backup to be sure
each guestrsquos name is spelled correctly It
would be an awful faux pas if you created
a card for ldquoJohnrdquo when he goes by ldquoJonrdquo
bull Plan for dim lighting Your recep -
tion ballroom may be dimly lit illumi-
nated by candles and that low light can
make light-colored print dif983142icult to read
Larger script in a good contrasting shade
makes your menu card easier to see Not
all guests bring their reading glasses with
them Metallic print will capture candle-light so consider shimmery lettering
bull Create personalized menu cards for
children as well Theirs can be designed
differently than adult guestsrsquo cards using
kid-themed colors and motifs Add a print
game to the back of the card to provide a
fun activity
bull Add an accent to the back of guestsrsquo
menu cards A personalized note from you
may be extra work but it goes a long way
to making your guests feel like VIPs Or if
a personalized message isnrsquot realistic for
your time and budget print an inspiring
and romantic or a foodie-themed quote
on the back of each cardbull Ask your chef to help Make your menu
card mouth-watering with chef-provided
dish descriptions of each course
bull Include drink pairing choices with
each course Again your chef or bar man-
ager can provide pairing ideas using vin-
tages and cocktails that will be served at
your wedding
You might be wondering whether per-
sonalized menu cards at each guestrsquos
seat will tell each guest where to sit at
the table While guests are free to switchseats it is a good idea to put your guest
menu cards in order by table so that
staffers handling your weddingrsquos table
setups can place cards in the order you
prefer seating spouses and families next
to each other
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
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New and now 4Down the aisle in the trendiest ways
Seating arrangements 8
Top trends in wedding place cards
All in the approach 10Making your wedding path stand out
How to choose how and where to honeymoon 11
Best guest 12Etiquette tips for wedding attendees
Helpers taskers and other party elves 14
Should you hire online help for your big day
Dress trends 15Looking your best on the big day
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New ANDDown the aisle in the trendiest ways
Heidi Mae Bratt x
F rom the beginning of time brides
have wanted to make their wed-
ding day one of the most mem-
orable and special days of their
lives For the few hours of the well-plannedand long-dreamed-about party where they
are center stage they want everything to
be perfect or as perfect as it can be
Many also want it to be on trend
How many remember the 1981 royal
wedding of Diana Princess of Wales The
celebrated nuptials not only captured the
attention of the world but ushered in the
look of the decade which reflected a bride
beauti983142ied by puffy sleeves lace cathedral
train veils pearls cinched waists and
sequinsThese days you nary see a puff on a
sleeve That decadersquos trends went way
beyo nd the dress spil ling into ever y
aspect of the wedding from picture taking
(posed family portraits rather than natural
documentary-style photography) to the
cake (a stacked tiered cake held together
by columns rather than cupcakes or mini
desserts) to the venue (a party in a hotel ballroom rather than a wedding held at a
number of unique places)
We queried several of our own area wed-
ding makers to get their take on what is
new and now in the way of the wedding
Les Friedman owner of Northern Val-
ley Affairs at Temple Emanu-El in Closter
said that having a wedding in a space that
is both indoor and outdoor is something
that many brides want
ldquoBrides de983142initely are looking for theoption of indoor-outdoor for their wed-
ding so they can have the choice when the
weather is permittingrdquo he said
At Northern Valley Affairs events can
even defy the weather outside If itrsquos cold
and the couple wants to use its outdoor
space for the ceremony or for cocktails
heating lamps warm up the outdoors some
30 degrees He said Mr Friedman with
nearly 40 years experience in the events
business works with his general manager
Marty MagedldquoThe outdoor space is used especially
during the warm weather months but we
just did a late November wedding and yes
while it was warm outside 48 degrees we
were able to get it to 70 degrees with the
heating lampsrdquo he said
Brides are also looking for lighting to add
to the ambiance of the party At Northern
Valley Affairs LED lights change the look of
the room or the patio in an instant creat-
ing a different feeling as they change colorfrom amber to purple to blue for example
When it comes to dining Mr Friedman
who cut his teeth on the grand smorgas-
bords of yesterday (remember the stuffed
cabbage and barley laden cha983142ing dishes)
and the heavily prime-rib plated main
courses said there is a major difference
in how the wedding guests are enjoying
their meals today Smaller prettier more
interesting and more ethnic is what is on
the menu especially for appetizers he
said Mini martini glasses 983142illed with sushi- grade tuna and Asian slaw or a tapas-sized
Peking duck roll with a dab of Hoisin sauce
served at various stations is what is big
these days
ldquoThey want a small dainty one-bite
ldquoOne thing that
has not changedand will never change
is that people still want good service
Service is of theutmost importancerdquo
mdash Maria Daidone
With every decade there are new trends forweddings that make the ceremony au courant
Now
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appetizer They donrsquot want to have to use
a knife or fork They just want to pick and
gordquo he said
The small sized and big variety option
goes for dessert as well
Instead of the slice of wedding cake
(where do you see the bride and groom
even cutting the cake before the guests)
and the groaning and overflowing Vien-
nese table laden with desserts the sweets
are made part of the party Mini desserts
are served butler-style to guests who are
either seated or still dancing The offerings
are dizzying from dipped pretzels to cake
lollipops to mini-cheesecakes (pareve)
Sweets arrive on the dance floor as the
guests are boogieing
Another big trend is that the dancing
just doesnrsquot stop Brides want the party to
go on and on
ldquoYears ago the band would stop playingabout 983142ive times and ask the guests to be
seated to be served their various courses
the fruit cup salad appetizer main
course and dessert They used to take a
break every 20 minutes Now itrsquos nonstop
dancing in the ballroom Maybe they sit
down twicerdquo he said
Deena Greenstein the in-house event
planner for Five Star Caterers and head of
Deena Greenstein Events says that wed-
dings are no longer hamstrung by old con-
ventions or traditionsldquoThere are no rules anymore People are
doing whatever they wantrdquo she said
For example setting up a lounge for
guests was a thing common to bar and bat
mitzvahs but now weddings are including
this element In addition custom is king
she said whether it is custom linen a cus-
tom bar with a monogrammed design or
a custom dance floor
For the food Ms Greenstein said there
is a ldquoblend and balance of fun and healthyrdquosuch as a lean lamb turkey or vegetable
sliders with shoestring French fries
ldquoThere is the fun stuff but itrsquos coupled
with the classic and organic foods like
fresh vegetables and local seasonal pro-
duce Ms Greenstein said ldquoSushi is also
making a big comeback with not only the
quality but also the excitement of a beauti-
ful displayrdquo
Maria Daidone owner of the The Estates
at Florentine Gardens in River Vale said
that outdoor ceremonies where guestsenjoy the natural space is something that
has become a big part of todayrsquos weddings
Her venue she added has ldquoa beautiful gar-
den spacerdquo
Another thing Ms Daidone has noted is
that the color scheme is lighter with more
brides choosing to have their weddings
in shades that are more subdued such as
cream and nudeldquoYears ago everything was lavender but
you donrsquot see that todayrdquo she said
For after-dessert or the little goodie
sendoff food trucks have become a big
trend Guests can get donuts coffee
candy and pretzels anything that yoursquod
get from a food truck right at the event
ldquoThey just park outside and when guests
are leaving they give them water or soda or
a snackrdquo Ms Daidone said ldquoItrsquos become a
big thing in the last couple of yearsrdquo
Yossi Abadi owner of the Palisadium inCliffside Park said that the do-it-yourself
trend especially in the era of Pinterest
has become favored at weddings
For instance the centerpieces on the
tables are no longer big overwhelming
bou quet s of flowers but perhaps an
arrangement of shrubs that has been
designed by the bride Another example
of new and now is how the hosts commu-nicate with guests about where they are
to be seated Creative ways such as a big
billboard have replaced individual place
cards Mr Abadi said
ldquoWe had one client recently who used a
large mirror that had the guestsrsquo names on
it instead of place cardsrdquo he said
Whatrsquos new at the Marriott Glenpointe
is a complete renovation of its 345 guest
rooms an overhaul that includes new
bathrooms furniture carpeting and wall-
paper For guests who will use the hotelrooms for their bridal party or wedding
this is a bonus said Mitchell Heymann
director of sales and marketing
When it comes to weddings at hotels
Gerry Burns the director of catering at
the Pearl River Hilton in Pearl River NY
said that she has seen more full-weekend
weddings at her hotel than in the past In
the past it may have just been a Saturdaynight event but these days the wedding
spans the weekend Guests may arrive on
Friday for Shabbat for a rehearsal dinner
They spend Saturday either observing the
Sabbath or enjoying the day otherwise
with various activities attend the Satur-
day night wedding and then remain at the
hotel until Sunday for a farewell brunch
ldquoItrsquos a destination wedding without hav-
ing to really go far to a destinationrdquo said
Ms Burns
Noam Sokolow president of Rave Cater-ing and Event Planning said that many
weddings are taking place at unique ven-
ues such as old mansions or farms with
barns If the affair is smaller and more
intimate 200 guests as compared to 400
Grand cocktail receptions featuring an array of smallfinger food are very popular these days
Lovely outdoor venues like this setting in a garden gazebo are somethingthat brides are looking for
Brides and grooms want documentary style photography to capture their event more than posed stills
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guests it can take place in a more unique setting he said
ldquoPeople are inviting friends and not just people they are
friendly withrdquo he said
The music for weddings is also being mixed up a bit Itis not unusual to 983142ind a live band during the cocktail hour
and ceremony and then a DJ playing great dance music for
the party that follows
When it comes to food according to Mr Sokolow
pairings of food and drink are very popular For example
983142ish tacos may be served with an individual margarita slid-
ers can be chased down with a beer and bourbon-infused
short ribs can be enjoyed with a shot of bourbonAri Starkman owner of The Elan in Lodi said that
grand cocktail receptions are very popular these days
In addition Mr Starkman said there are more ethnic
customizations such as combining for example Russian
and Chinese elements in the wedding He recalled one
affair in which caviar and blintzes (Russian) shared the
menu with steamed dumplings (Chinese) because the
groom was Russian Jewish and the bride was Chinese ndasha culinary combination that gives a nod to both of their
cultures
With weddings styles may change The music may play
longer The food may be jazzed up But brides grooms
and their guests will always want to have a wonderful
party that celebrates their union in a special way and that
will be a memorable event
ldquoAnd one thing that has not changed and will never
changerdquo said Ms Daidone of The Estates at Florentine
Gardens ldquois that people still want good service Service is
of the utmost importance That will never change I hope
Giving our guests good old hospitalityrdquo
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Seating arrangementsTop trends in wedding place cards Sharon Naylor x
Y ou may have seen guests
crowded around a reception
table searching for their alpha-
betically arranged place cards
That shoulder-to-shoulder press of guests
has long been a scene at weddings and
todayrsquos innovations help eliminate the
long line and discomfort of trying to read
those small cards
Now the traditional card kerfuffle may
be replaced by a new display It rsquos a top
wedding trend and a popular place card
option seen on Pinterest is to eliminate the
printed card and write guestsrsquo names on a
tall vertical display such as a glass window
or mirror Guestsrsquo names and table num-
bers c an be displayed on signs installed
behind the bar or hung in frames gallery-
style on the walls at the cocktail partyThese vertical card-free table assignments
become decor pieces as well as easy-to-use
directions for guests
Vertical displays have also given the
tradition a twist by listing guestsrsquo names
according to table number not alpha-
betically Itrsquos easy for guests to spot their
names under say Table 7 and they can
see names of the other guests with whom
theyrsquore seated No more standing by the
place card table little card in hand ask-
ing their friends ldquoWhere are you sittingrdquo
Jenny Orsini wedding planner says that
this place card display creates better
momentum for your celebration allowing
guests to move right into the cocktail party
or reception without that ldquopileup of name-
searching at an entry tablerdquo
If you do wish to have printed place
cards use pretty cardstock and gorgeous
fonts that coordinate with your wedding
invitations and other print items at your wedding Decorat ive borders seasonal
colors theme motifs and elegant hand-
writing or print on the cards are all great
options (ldquoJust no computer-printed labels
pleaserdquo says Orsini pointing to the lack of
elegance in that method)
As an alternative to the tented card
flat cards are also used mdash perhaps stood
up in sand- grass- or floral-983142illed trays
for a pretty presentation These flat cards
may be attached to take-home favors like
ornate keys or charms And flat cards are
also being af983142ixed via ribbon to mini bot-
tles of bourbon tequila chocolate liqueur
or other take-home tastes that work dou-
ble-duty as place cards and favors
And another trend in wedding place
cards is writing guestsrsquo names in metallic
pen on shiny green leaves or on polished
river stones for a natural feel to comple-
ment wedding decor This natural style
is a thrill for guests since they can takethe ldquocardrdquo home and put it on display
perhaps next to a framed photo of them-
selves taken at the wedding That adds
more appreciation for your chosen design
than a simple printed card theyrsquore likely to
leave on the table at the end of the night
Speaking of keepsakes a framed dis-
play of guestsrsquo names and table numbers
becomes a wonderful keepsake for you
Perhaps a dating or engaged couple who
originally met at your wedding seated
together at Table 7 will want the display
to be shown at their wedding someday
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additionalwedding books Creatorscom
Leaves and stones are top trends inwedding guest place cardsCREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF MERCEDES NORIEGA
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All in the approachMaking your wedding path stand out
Sharon Naylor x
A s you plan your wedding decor
donrsquot forget about the paths
leading to your ceremony and
reception You may have cho-
sen your wedding location simply for the
beauty of the venue itself but you cancreate a fabulous scene for your arriving
guests by decorating the trees along the
driveway or footpath Their anticipation
builds as they see your decor and light-
ing effects along the way giving them an
even more magical 983142irst impression of your
wedding day And if your venue is one that
your guests have been to for other wed-
dings decorating the approach to the site
makes for a new unique experience
Here are some ways to make your wedding paths stand out
Hanging floralsAdorn the pathrsquos tree line with flowers and
garlands that hint at your weddingrsquos floral
motif Joyce Maffeo florist at BloomNa-
tion says ldquoYou can either display flowers
on their own such as by stringing florals
on ribbon or 983142ishing wire or display flow-
ers inside antique bottles or other glass
vesselsrdquo The advantage of the in-vessel
flower display is that flowers stay hydrated with a bit of water in the bottle allowing
them to hold up well in late-summerearly-
fall sunshine
Some open-air flowers that Maffeo
recommends for their staying power
include orchids eucalyptuses and strung
daisies
ldquoFor in-vessel flowers consider protea
orchids hypericum and ornamental kale
for a pop of purple colorrdquo says Maffeo
ldquoWreaths hanging from trees also add to
the beautiful approachrdquo One flower to be
wary of since it easily wilts in the sun is
hydrangea Maffeo suggests instead using
bunches of carnations which hold up
better in the sun
This knowledge of flowersrsquo strength in
sunshine mdash important since your floral
team will likely set up your approach
decor several hours before your wedding
mdash is one example of why you should have
professionals create your floral pieces
String lights andhanging lanternsFor a sunset or evening wedding string
lights arranged in the trees add breath-
taking effect whether you use just a few
string lights per tree or many In addi-
tion to string lights lanterns hung from
S-hooks on the trees create that trendy
look of rustic elegance And you can take
those lanterns home after the wedding to
use them in your own backyard
Non-hanging lanternsTall lanterns clustered along a path or set
on stairs leading to the wedding sites are
a new top trend for weddings this year
and next Lanterns may be metallic such
as copper or bronze or rustic-themed in
white or black Upscale home decor stores
sell lanterns as part of the outdoor enter-
taining trend These larger lanterns can be
used at home after your big day
Candles
Position a large number of traditional orLED candles in glass vessels at the entrance
to your ceremony or reception spot This
is a stunning look for exterior doors and
if you have a portico that guests will pass
through to get to an inner ceremony or
celebration space arrange a large amount
of vessel-nested candles on either side of a
clear walking pathway
Tiki torchesldquoThe use of Tiki torches creates not only
a path to the reception but also softens
the lighting for a romantic moodrdquo says
Allison Sells catering manager for Caneel
Bay Resort in the US Virgin Islands Since
Tiki torches create one single light source
per torch pair them with overhead string
lights or ground-set lanterns to multiply
your lighting effect
UplightingSetting lights at the base of trees and
directing the light upward gives those trees
a magical and impressive glow Sells says
that uplighting palm trees creates a ldquowowrdquofactor especially complementing a tropical
wedding location
Signs
Chalkboard signs with personalized
messages can be used multiple times along
the path with friendly welcome messages
invitations to ldquoGet the party startedrdquo and
directions to wedding sites In the evening
try lit marquee signs illuminating the path
with words like ldquoLoverdquo ldquoXOXOrdquo or your
monogram These too can be take-home
decor to forever remind you of your big
day
MusicPiped-in music along your path adds a wel-
coming soundtrack to the approach
If your venue has an interesting history
beautiful scenery or perhaps a s tunning
sunset that will light up the sky with colors
during your weddingrsquos arrival time you
might not need any additional decor or
lighting at all Mother Nature has taken
care of that as her wedding gift to you
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
Rows of candles create a magical effect for your guestsrsquo approach to your wedding CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF ELLIS ISLAND
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Beauty amp Elegance
138 New Pehle Ave Saddle Brook NJ
wwwmarriottcomhotelstravelewrsb-saddle-brook-marriott
at the Saddle Brook Marriott
As we cater to every detail of your special day our dedicated weddingplanners help create a carefree environment for our brides Beauty eleganceand spectacular style is what we provide at the Saddle Brook Marriott
Contact our Catering Ofce to setup a site tour or for more information
2019096810
Teresa Iqbal x
T he honeymoon is typically the last climactic
event of the wedding process As the culminat-
ing event that pulls everything together and
leaves couples with their 983142irst opportunity to
relax and begin enjoying life together itrsquos important to
make it as enjoyable as possible But where do you begin
when it comes to choosing where and how to enjoy your
983142irst moments together as a married couple on your
honeymoon
Choosing a honeymoon destination that represents
your interests as a couple is perhaps the best place to start
narrowing down destination choices Do you love art andmuseums If so a large city with ample opportunity for
you to spend the days among art exhibits and historical
pieces is probably best suited for you Perhaps yoursquore a
couple who consider themselves literary Take some time
to research places where literary authors made history
and immerse yourself in these same spots Maybe a good
time for you means spending most of your days beach-
side Be sure to choose a honeymoon destination where
you can spend your days on the beach and take part in
activities on the water Enjoying the overall culture of your
destination is an important key to having a happy and ful-983142illing experience on your honeymoon
You neednrsquot spend an outrageous amount of money
traveling to a tropical destination either Chances are
that there are beautiful spots closer than you think where
you could make great memories doing the things you both
love In fact building your honeymoon itinerary around
the activities you love allows you to consider an array of
vacation spots that 983142it a number of budgets Whether itrsquos
staying in your country your state or even your own city
yoursquore bound to 983142ind a number of ways to celebrate They
key is to narrow down activities that are important to you
both and plan your honeymoon around cities where youknow you can have a good time doing the things you enjoy
If you are hoping to spend your vacation traveling to
faraway destinations there are other ways to be budget-
conscious while still having a good time overseas Cruises
are one honeymoon option that more and more couples
are taking advantage of every day Theyrsquore great for those
hoping to get more bang for their buck According to Lux-
ury Travel Magazine ldquowith some cruise lines port taxes
meals drinks entertainment activities and even tips are
all included in the upfront cost of a cruise Itrsquos easy to work
out a per-day cost to compare to other forms of travelrdquo
Taking a cruise also simpli983142ies the logistical process of
vacationing For example you need only unpack and pack
once Most if not all meals are included in the passen-
ger fare as well as an array of activities to be enjoyed on
the ship Splurging on meals at local spots where the ship
docks allows couples to experience 983142ine dining without
having to worry about shelling out cash at every single
meal The same goes for activities Many cruise lines orga-
nize activities off the ship that couples can take part in
such as scuba diving and museum tours which means less
hassle and work involved in 983142inding fun things to do in
your destination city leaving more time both on and offthe boat to enjoy yourselves to the fullest
A similar option for those who donrsquot want to deal with
all the stress and planning of both a wedding and a hon-
eymoon is the all-inclusive resort All-inclusives are great
for those looking for a hassle-free experience Couples can
How to choose how and where to honeymoon
pamper themselves and share all of the same bene983142its as
cruisers such as included activities and meals Just be sure
to choose a destination yoursquod both be interested in explor-
ing and experiencing to some depth because you likely
wonrsquot be doing much more than day trips to closer more
local spots This is de983142initely an upside for those looking
to stay in one place for longer and more deeply immerse
themselves in the culture art and cuisine of one location
of their choosing rather than visiting an array of destina-
tions for a short amount of time
Itrsquos clear that no matter your focus interest or budget
there are several different options to take advantage of
when creating a lasting honeymoon experienceCreatorscom
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Best guestEtiquette tips for wedding attendees Kristen Castillo x
Once the invitation arrives in
the mail you start asking your-
self questions ldquoWhat should I
wearrdquo ldquoWhat gift should I getrdquo
ldquoCan I invite a guestrdquo
All of these questions and more are com-
mon concerns for wedding guests Read on
for tips from wedding and etiquette profes-sionals for answers to your questions and
983142ind out what it takes to be a great guest
Can you bring a dateThe general rule The only people who
can attend the wedding are the ones listed
on the invitation So if the invite says ldquoMr
and Mrs Jonesrdquo then only the husband
and wife can attend If it just says ldquoMiss
Jonesrdquo then the woman must attend the
wedding aloneMake sure you RSVP for the wedding
by the date indicated on the invitation
Showing up anyway after neglecting to
RSVP is a big no-no
If your childrenrsquos names arenrsquot listed on
the invitation donrsquot show up to the wed-
ding as a family
ldquoA gentle way to deal with this situation
is to have the family table off to the side
or back of the reception areardquo says author
and etiquette expert Jacqueline Whitmore
who is also the founder of The ProtocolSchool of Palm Beach
Another option The bride and groom
might provide guests who have children
the ldquoname of a reputable baby sitter in
your area who is willing to accommodate
parents who want to attend the weddingrdquo
suggests Whitmore
What to wearWeddings tend to be dressy events but
exactly how dressyIf the invitation says ldquoblack tierdquo wear a
tuxedo
Otherwise ldquoa man should wear a suit
and a woman should wear a cocktail dress
or Sunday bestrdquo says wedding planner
Fran Plodkowski of Social Graces noting
beach weddings can be more casualldquoRemember it is a weddingrdquo says Plod-
kowski ldquoLook your bestrdquo
Gift guideGiving a wedding gift is customary but do
you give a gift off the couplersquos registry or
write a check If so how much to give
Therersquos no 983142ixed answer here
ldquoPeople do not know how much to giverdquo
says Plodkowski who advises guests to
give what they want to and can afford
Still you donrsquot have to give a gift of equal value to the price of the dinner especially
since many weddings are big budget
Typically the closer guests are to the
bride and groom the more theyrsquoll give For
example the groomrsquos sister would give a
larger gift than his co-worker would
Time mattersGuests often mistakenly assume weddings
donrsquot start on time
ldquoAs a result we see guests that purpose-fully arrive laterdquo says Camille McLamb
founder and lead coordinator at Camille
Victoria Weddings noting ceremony and
reception schedules are 983142ixed to accom-
modate parties and events throughout
the day
ldquoGuests should plan to arrive at least10 minutes before the start time listed on
the invitationrdquo urges McLamb ldquoIf a guest
ends up arriving late she should try to
check if the bridal party is lined up before
going inside If the bridal party is lined up
and about to go down the aisle the guest
should wait off to the side until the pro-
cessional is over and then sneak in up a
side aislerdquo
Remember yoursquore not
the photographerSure itrsquos exciting to capture the wedding in
photos but remember yoursquore a guest not
a photographer on assignment
ldquoDonrsquot photobomb the vowsrdquo says eti-
quette expert Cheryl Seidel ldquoRemember
therersquos probably a professional photogra-
pher somewhere behind you trying to do
the job the couple has hired him to dordquo
Seidel also reminds guests to not block
people behind them instead sit in the
back or on the far aisle Also donrsquot use aniPad to shoot photos ldquoTherersquos no way you
can be inconspicuousrdquo she says
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Before you post your pictures to social media such
as Instagram and Facebook make sure the couple
approve
Whatrsquos for dinnerEven if the reception venue is a restaurant itrsquos not OK
for guests to order whatever they want Thatrsquos because
the menu is preordered and paid for by the bride and
groom Even vegetarian vegan or specialty-diet meals
are ordered ahead of time
Guests with special dietary needs such as gluten
intolerance or nut allergies should inform the bride
and groom at the time of RSVP
AccessibilityOften guests worry about getting in and around the cer-emony and reception venues
ldquoEspecially with the rise in loft weddings not all wed-
ding venues have elevatorsrdquo says McLamb For elderly
and disabled guests ldquostairs and moving from one space
to another within a venue can present dif983142icultiesrdquo
McLamb advises brides and grooms to tell guests
about any potential accessibility challenges at the venue
so the guests can prepare ahead of time She also says
couples should reserve some tables for elderly guests
during cocktail hour Creatorscom Before you post your pictures to social media such as Instagram and Facebook make sure the couple approves(CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF NICHOLAS PURCELL STUDIO)
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HELPERS TASKERS
AND OTHER PARTY FIXERSShould you hire online help for your big day
Kristen Castillo x
W edding planning is 983142illed
with details large and small
Finding help isnrsquot always
easy but itrsquos necessary
Need help planning your engagement
party Want assistance assembling your welcome bags Loo king for som eon e
with nice penmanship to write out your
place cards
It used to be that yoursquod have to do these
jobs yourself ask friends or family or hire
an event professional So what should you
do when yoursquore overwhelmed and family
and friends arenrsquot available Nowadays
you can go online to hire helpers to get the
job done
Thatrsquos what happened for a couplersquos
wedding in Los Angeles The groom sur-
prised his bride during the reception with
her favorite New England treat Hoodsie
Cups which are paper cups 983142illed with
a mix of both chocolate and vanilla ice
cream But 983142irst the groom had to 983142igure
out how to get the frozen dessert to the
West Coast for his bride who is originally
from New England He hired a ldquoTaskerrdquo
via TaskRabbit the leading on-demand
home services app connecting busy peo-
ple with a network of Taskers in theirarea mdash or in this case someone from the
Northeast who could buy and overnight
ship 150 ice-cream cups in an industrial
strength cooler
The groom tells TaskRabbit that making
the Hoodsie Cups surprise happen was
ldquode983142initely a memory the both of us will
have for the rest of our livesrdquo and he says
that without the Taskerrsquos help he doesnrsquot
think he could have made it happen
Help for hireMany couples are hiring helpers to assist
with pre-wedding prep including every-
thing from envelope calligraphy to deco-
rating the venue to DJrsquoing or baking the
wedding cake
Some brides and grooms solicit the help
online with ads on Craigslist or v ia social
media posts asking for help with certain
wedding tasks S ites like TaskRabbit are
growing too
ldquoTaskers helping with weddings has become a big thing in the past two yearsrdquo
says Jamie Viggiano TaskRabbitrsquos VP of
marketing citing examples like helping
to plan a surprise engagement by deco-
rating an apartment with hundreds of
rose petals and LED candles deliver-
ing a wedding cake in Washington DC
and helping assemble and deliver flower
arrangements
Additional wedding tasks completed
include picking up and delivering last-
minute items like ice batteries and coffee
sorting scanning and uploading photos
for a wedding slideshow and setting up
wedding FaceTime sessions between the
couple and their loved ones who couldnrsquot
attend the ceremony in person ldquoThis has
been done a number of times with older
clients who arenrsquot savvy with technolo983143yrdquo
says Viggiano
PricingPaying for wedding help a la carte seems
to be a 983142it for couples who canrsquot afford or
donrsquot want to hire professional weddingcoordinators Some brides and grooms
list the project budget in their social media
and Craigslist posts others take bids from
anyone who responds to the ads
On TaskRabbit Taskers set their own
hourly rate by category When clients
post a task TaskRabbit provides a list of
several candidates in the area and the
individualrsquos skills The client pays once
the task is 983142inished
ldquoBrides and grooms are recognizing that
they donrsquot need to do all the wedding prep
on their own and that they can outsource
some of the more mundane tedious tasks
to quali983142ied peoplerdquo says Viggiano noting
that outsourcing the work ldquomakes a stress-
ful situation less stressfulrdquo
Buyer bewareSome wedding experts caution brides and
grooms that hiring a stranger to assist with
wedding details might not be a good idea
The reason Typically the helper is inex-
perienced with weddings and might not be
accountableldquoUnless you are a really laid-back bride
I would not recommend hiring helpers in
this wayrdquo says Michelle Balducci-Connelly
of Michelle Marie Photographie ldquoCraigslist
workers have little to no repercussions if
they donrsquot perform A professional will
have a reputation to uphold and has an
incentive to perform well because they are
making a career out of their servicerdquo
Still she understands the appeal of hir-
ing wedding helpers
ldquoWith ever-increasing costs of wed-
dings my couples are always looking to
save in areas they deem appropriaterdquo
says Balducci-Connelly noting that hiring
a day-of planner for example would cost
anywhere from $500 to $1000 for recep-
tion setup and organization compared to
a hired helper who would likely charge
an hourly or flat rate ldquothat would be far
less than a day-of coordinator would
chargerdquo
Before hiring anyone to help with your
event get references if possible and
make sure yoursquore comfortable with theirskills reliability and overall credibility
You only get one chance to make your
wedding day a success so be con983142ident in
your hiring decisions
Creatorscom
Many couples hire helpers to assist them with wedding planning such as ldquoTaskersrdquo from TaskRabbit CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF TASKRABBIT
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Dress trendsLooking your best on the big day Julia Price x
W eddings are a big deal All
the planning coordinating
decision-making letdowns
stressful situations mdash they
all fade away and become worth it the
moment the bride walks down the aisle
So of course no pressure with picking out
the perfect dress or anything rightBut really itrsquos hard to go wrong nowa-
days Luckily for everyone the lsquo80s have
come and gone and have graciously taken
their wedding dress signature styles with
them
In general wedding dresses are veer-
ing toward a less poofy look and going
toward a sleeker form-983142itting hourglass
shape This creates a more dramatic effect
when the train of the dress 983142ills out behind
the bride while also enhancing feminine
strength in the upper body
Another trend this season is the
off-the-shoulder look Several years ago
the sleeveless dress was a big hit but now
itrsquos been slightly modi983142ied to keep the shoul-
ders bare with the straps lightly hanging off
Whether the dress is white silk Chantilly
lace or ballgown-style this off-the-shoul-
der appeal creates a delicate look
The popular shabby chic furniture trend
seems to have influenced brides-to-be as
well Seeing as many couples are choos-ing the country feel mdash complete with
Mason jars mdash for their big day it makes
sense that women are looking for a dress
to match that vibe Yoursquoll see more and
more dresses with corded details and lace
accents and yoursquoll see less beadwork than
you had on some of the past looks
Also trending this season is embellishing
the back of the dress In addition to adding
a new element of beauty it makes sense
because guests wil l have a close visual of
the bridersquos back as shersquos approaching her
husband-to-be Intricate detailing on the
Trending this season is embellishing the back of the dressCREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF JULIA PRICE
back might include a crisscross or spar-
kling tulle Some brides are opting for
completely backless dresses This goes well
with layers of lace and the silhouette look
Though itrsquos good to look for many
options online (try bridescom or search for
your perfect look on Pinterest) yoursquove got
to trust your gut with what feels right for
you This is one of those situations where
no matter who else speaks up as long as
yoursquore saying ldquoI dordquo to the dress then
yoursquore going to be happy Creatorscom
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Plus-size bridesBridal beauty at any size
Kristen Castillo x
T here is a wedding gown for every
bride but if yoursquore over size 14
it might be a challenge to 983142ind
the perfect dress Luckily thatrsquos
changing Thanks to the TLC television show
ldquoCurvy Bridesrdquo and bridal shops that cater to
plus-size brides itrsquos getting easier for brides
of all sizes to 983142ind their dream dresses
These days the average woman in the
US wears a size 14 and yet bridal gownstraditionally are made for smaller sizes
ldquoPlus-size for us means anyone who
has had trouble 983142inding dresses to 983142it them
elsewhererdquo say Yuneisia Harris and Yukia
Walker owners of full-983142igured bridal salon
Curvaceous Couture and stars of ldquoCurvy
Bridesrdquo
Walker knows how frustrating it can
be for plus-sized brides to 983142ind a gown
After getting engaged she struggled to
983142ind sample gowns and ultimately didnrsquot
like the dress she chose Out of that expe-
rience she and her sister started their
company
The sisters explain that in evenin983143wear
and in bridal everything is cut smaller
ldquoSo while a person might have a smaller
street size like a 12 or a 14 in a wedding
gown they might have to order something
as large as a 20rdquo
That means when traditional bridal
salons have sample dresses in sizes 8 to 12ldquotheyrsquore really only servicing brides whose
street size is 4 to 10rdquo say Harris and Walker
Plus-Size PerceptionsThe notion of plus-size bridal fashion car-
ries many misconceptions In some cases
brides arenrsquot aware that plus-sizing exists
in the wedding world because itrsquos typi-
cally underrepresented or not seen at all
Often plus-size brides end up buying
wedding gowns online mdash one of the few
places with larger sizes
Still others assume dresses in larger
sizes should be plain and not embellished
ldquothat plus-size women donrsquot desire the
same beautiful dresses and fabrics as theirstraight-size counterpartsrdquo says Erena
Shklovsky creative director and head
designer for plus-size designer IGIGI not-
ing that many plus-size brides want ldquodeli-
cate beading luxe fabrics and innovative
cuts just like other bridesrdquo
Another misconception That being
plus-sized means you need to cover up
ldquoIrsquod say that 60 percent of our brides ini-
tially ask us to add a sleeve or a shawl to
a dress because theyrsquore afraid of showing
their arms or backrdquo say Harris and Walkernoting that adding a sleeve or a strap for
example ldquois not the most flattering choice
for a briderdquo
In other cases gowns with straps
sleeves and extra fabric can make a bride
look matronly
ldquoWe just want our brides to be happy
with their dresses and sometimes that
means helping them embrace their natu-
ral beautyrdquo say Harris and Walker who
feel viewers like the show because it allows
them to see brides they relate to try on and
look great in gorgeous gowns
Fashionable Choices
Designing full-983142igured fashions involvesmore than simply adding extra fabric
Because every bride has a different size
and body shape gowns need specialized
983142its including built-in support for large
busts for example
More fashion lines and bridal lines are
starting to embrace women of all sizes
Harris and Walker praise designers like Roz
la Kelin and Enzoani for being some of the
983142irst designers to offer plus-size samples
ldquoI think the biggest and best addition
to plus-size bridal collections is ChristianSirianorsquos dress for Nicolette Masonrdquo says
Shklovsky ldquoIt showed the rest of the fash-
ion world that plus-sized women deserve
more than to be covered with loads and
loads of fabricrdquo
Still no wedding gown is truly ready-to-
wear All dresses need alterations including
changes to hemlines bust lines waistlines
sleeves and shoulder straps No matter
what the dress size a perfect 983142it is flattering
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DIY all-in-one or party rental suppliers Chelle Cordero x
Itrsquos your wedding day and there areso many plans to be made You want
the day to be spectacular Between
budgets traditions choosing a loca-
tion considering the time of year and
weather and most importantly your idea
of a dream wedding mdash itrsquos enough to make
your head spin
You may choose an all-in-one venue that
comes with its own gorgeous setting cater-
ing waitstaff tables and chairs and hope
that the cost is within your reach DIY
wedding plans may or may not be moreeconomical but many excited couples opt
for more personalized settings and control
over the way things are done One thing is
for sure You probably donrsquot own enough
chairs tables and service to make it hap-
pen without help
You could always buy the folding chairs
and tables linens and glassware for your
event but then you need a place to store
everything before and after the party
Owning everything makes you solely respon-
sible for cleaning and ironing linens polish-
ing service and washing all of the dishware before and after use (especially if itrsquos been
sitting awhile) It is often more ef983142icient to
simply rent what you need for each occasion
if you plan to throw several parties
Letrsquos go rental
Every bride in your family before
you was married in Aunt Franrsquos parlor
and thatrsquos the beginning yoursquove always
dreamed of with a reception in the back-
yard But then you remember the light rain
shower during your cousinrsquos gala and how
it chased everyone away Yoursquoll need seat-ing and decorations for inside and yoursquoll
want to add a tent to the tables chairs and
buffet setting outside Or maybe the old
barn could be gussied up for a fancy do
but the dirt floor leaves a lot to be desired
especially when it comes to dancing -- but
thatrsquos not a problem if you add a rented
dance floor (or more)
Party rental companies offer everything
from aisle covers to wine glasses Choose
table linens centerpieces pole covers (to
hide tent supports) dance floors of various
sizes stages and more If you are worriedabout the weather 983142ind tents for outdoor
parties they come with sides or open with
options for fans or heaters for comfort
Serve delicious meals with gas or charcoal
grill rentals and buffet-style cha983142ing dishes
There is no limit to what you can do Paper
plates are great for picnics but if you pre-
fer restaurant-style service 983142ind china
charger plates silver service goblets and
flutes and linen napkins and tablecloths
Check out the party supply rental com-
panies in your area to 983142ind out what theyoffer and compare prices Make sure to
include delivery costs as well as delivery
terms such as how far in advance they will
deliver and when they will pick up after the
affair Visit the showrooms to see the qual-
ity of merchandise they offer By all means
get recommendations and warnings from
other consumers you certainly donrsquot want
to 983142ind out on the day of the party that the
tablecloths are stained or that you were
shorted on the glassware Ask about their
reputation for reliability their willingness
to work with you and whether there is an
extra charge for setup Also 983142ind out in what
condition the items have to be returned
mdash eg do the dishes need to be washedor simply scraped do the linens need to
be laundered and what are the costs for
breakage If possible compare the prices
quality service and reputations of a few
companies before making a 983142inal decision
Some party rental suppliers will work
with area vendors such as caterers and
wait staff to help you 983142ind a complete
package for your magical day Make an
appointment to sit down with your cho-
sen rental company and explain your
vision to them A party planner can makehelpful suggestions based on the compa-
nyrsquos experience with previous weddings
and parties They can tell you how many
plates glasses and flatware sets to rent
based on the number of people invited
always order a few extra pieces in case of
breakage or unexpected guests Read the
contract carefully to verify that all dates
quantities and service details are spelled
out correctly Creatorscom
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Le menu du jour
New trends in menu cards Sharon Naylor x
W hen printed menu cards
983142irst showed up as wed-
ding table additions guests
loved reading those delec-
table descriptions of the courses to come
during the dinner There was at 983142irst one
printed card per round table then four
or so spaced apart on long tables Guests
took turns looking at the elegantly printedcards with the dazzling print script Soon
individual menu cards were placed on
each guestrsquos plate for easier use and now
those individual menu cards are being per-
sonalized to each guest
ldquoYour tablescape offers countless oppor-
tunities to wow guests with custom details
and personalized menu cards are func-
tional and beautiful while making guests
feel like an important part of your big dayrdquo
says Vanessa Wicks event sales director at
Weylin B Seymourrsquos a historic event venue
in Brooklyn that has been the site of celeb-
rity weddings and events
When guests arrive at their tables they
983142ind their names printed on the menu
cards showing that you value their pres-
ence on their big day And the artistry of
their name handwritten in calligraphy
complements the loveliness of your wed-
ding design Yoursquove taken great care withthe smallest of details elevating your wed-
ding as a whole
Another advantage of customized menu
cards is the ability to tailor guestsrsquo special
menu requirements such as a gluten-free
vegan or kosher meal When guests see
their menu card they know right away
that yoursquove heard and honored their
requests They donrsquot need to be anxious
about their special meals
To help you create your personalized
menu cards keep the following tips in
mind
bull Spell names correctly Triple-check
your invitations list looking at guestsrsquosocial media pages for backup to be sure
each guestrsquos name is spelled correctly It
would be an awful faux pas if you created
a card for ldquoJohnrdquo when he goes by ldquoJonrdquo
bull Plan for dim lighting Your recep -
tion ballroom may be dimly lit illumi-
nated by candles and that low light can
make light-colored print dif983142icult to read
Larger script in a good contrasting shade
makes your menu card easier to see Not
all guests bring their reading glasses with
them Metallic print will capture candle-light so consider shimmery lettering
bull Create personalized menu cards for
children as well Theirs can be designed
differently than adult guestsrsquo cards using
kid-themed colors and motifs Add a print
game to the back of the card to provide a
fun activity
bull Add an accent to the back of guestsrsquo
menu cards A personalized note from you
may be extra work but it goes a long way
to making your guests feel like VIPs Or if
a personalized message isnrsquot realistic for
your time and budget print an inspiring
and romantic or a foodie-themed quote
on the back of each cardbull Ask your chef to help Make your menu
card mouth-watering with chef-provided
dish descriptions of each course
bull Include drink pairing choices with
each course Again your chef or bar man-
ager can provide pairing ideas using vin-
tages and cocktails that will be served at
your wedding
You might be wondering whether per-
sonalized menu cards at each guestrsquos
seat will tell each guest where to sit at
the table While guests are free to switchseats it is a good idea to put your guest
menu cards in order by table so that
staffers handling your weddingrsquos table
setups can place cards in the order you
prefer seating spouses and families next
to each other
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
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New ANDDown the aisle in the trendiest ways
Heidi Mae Bratt x
F rom the beginning of time brides
have wanted to make their wed-
ding day one of the most mem-
orable and special days of their
lives For the few hours of the well-plannedand long-dreamed-about party where they
are center stage they want everything to
be perfect or as perfect as it can be
Many also want it to be on trend
How many remember the 1981 royal
wedding of Diana Princess of Wales The
celebrated nuptials not only captured the
attention of the world but ushered in the
look of the decade which reflected a bride
beauti983142ied by puffy sleeves lace cathedral
train veils pearls cinched waists and
sequinsThese days you nary see a puff on a
sleeve That decadersquos trends went way
beyo nd the dress spil ling into ever y
aspect of the wedding from picture taking
(posed family portraits rather than natural
documentary-style photography) to the
cake (a stacked tiered cake held together
by columns rather than cupcakes or mini
desserts) to the venue (a party in a hotel ballroom rather than a wedding held at a
number of unique places)
We queried several of our own area wed-
ding makers to get their take on what is
new and now in the way of the wedding
Les Friedman owner of Northern Val-
ley Affairs at Temple Emanu-El in Closter
said that having a wedding in a space that
is both indoor and outdoor is something
that many brides want
ldquoBrides de983142initely are looking for theoption of indoor-outdoor for their wed-
ding so they can have the choice when the
weather is permittingrdquo he said
At Northern Valley Affairs events can
even defy the weather outside If itrsquos cold
and the couple wants to use its outdoor
space for the ceremony or for cocktails
heating lamps warm up the outdoors some
30 degrees He said Mr Friedman with
nearly 40 years experience in the events
business works with his general manager
Marty MagedldquoThe outdoor space is used especially
during the warm weather months but we
just did a late November wedding and yes
while it was warm outside 48 degrees we
were able to get it to 70 degrees with the
heating lampsrdquo he said
Brides are also looking for lighting to add
to the ambiance of the party At Northern
Valley Affairs LED lights change the look of
the room or the patio in an instant creat-
ing a different feeling as they change colorfrom amber to purple to blue for example
When it comes to dining Mr Friedman
who cut his teeth on the grand smorgas-
bords of yesterday (remember the stuffed
cabbage and barley laden cha983142ing dishes)
and the heavily prime-rib plated main
courses said there is a major difference
in how the wedding guests are enjoying
their meals today Smaller prettier more
interesting and more ethnic is what is on
the menu especially for appetizers he
said Mini martini glasses 983142illed with sushi- grade tuna and Asian slaw or a tapas-sized
Peking duck roll with a dab of Hoisin sauce
served at various stations is what is big
these days
ldquoThey want a small dainty one-bite
ldquoOne thing that
has not changedand will never change
is that people still want good service
Service is of theutmost importancerdquo
mdash Maria Daidone
With every decade there are new trends forweddings that make the ceremony au courant
Now
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appetizer They donrsquot want to have to use
a knife or fork They just want to pick and
gordquo he said
The small sized and big variety option
goes for dessert as well
Instead of the slice of wedding cake
(where do you see the bride and groom
even cutting the cake before the guests)
and the groaning and overflowing Vien-
nese table laden with desserts the sweets
are made part of the party Mini desserts
are served butler-style to guests who are
either seated or still dancing The offerings
are dizzying from dipped pretzels to cake
lollipops to mini-cheesecakes (pareve)
Sweets arrive on the dance floor as the
guests are boogieing
Another big trend is that the dancing
just doesnrsquot stop Brides want the party to
go on and on
ldquoYears ago the band would stop playingabout 983142ive times and ask the guests to be
seated to be served their various courses
the fruit cup salad appetizer main
course and dessert They used to take a
break every 20 minutes Now itrsquos nonstop
dancing in the ballroom Maybe they sit
down twicerdquo he said
Deena Greenstein the in-house event
planner for Five Star Caterers and head of
Deena Greenstein Events says that wed-
dings are no longer hamstrung by old con-
ventions or traditionsldquoThere are no rules anymore People are
doing whatever they wantrdquo she said
For example setting up a lounge for
guests was a thing common to bar and bat
mitzvahs but now weddings are including
this element In addition custom is king
she said whether it is custom linen a cus-
tom bar with a monogrammed design or
a custom dance floor
For the food Ms Greenstein said there
is a ldquoblend and balance of fun and healthyrdquosuch as a lean lamb turkey or vegetable
sliders with shoestring French fries
ldquoThere is the fun stuff but itrsquos coupled
with the classic and organic foods like
fresh vegetables and local seasonal pro-
duce Ms Greenstein said ldquoSushi is also
making a big comeback with not only the
quality but also the excitement of a beauti-
ful displayrdquo
Maria Daidone owner of the The Estates
at Florentine Gardens in River Vale said
that outdoor ceremonies where guestsenjoy the natural space is something that
has become a big part of todayrsquos weddings
Her venue she added has ldquoa beautiful gar-
den spacerdquo
Another thing Ms Daidone has noted is
that the color scheme is lighter with more
brides choosing to have their weddings
in shades that are more subdued such as
cream and nudeldquoYears ago everything was lavender but
you donrsquot see that todayrdquo she said
For after-dessert or the little goodie
sendoff food trucks have become a big
trend Guests can get donuts coffee
candy and pretzels anything that yoursquod
get from a food truck right at the event
ldquoThey just park outside and when guests
are leaving they give them water or soda or
a snackrdquo Ms Daidone said ldquoItrsquos become a
big thing in the last couple of yearsrdquo
Yossi Abadi owner of the Palisadium inCliffside Park said that the do-it-yourself
trend especially in the era of Pinterest
has become favored at weddings
For instance the centerpieces on the
tables are no longer big overwhelming
bou quet s of flowers but perhaps an
arrangement of shrubs that has been
designed by the bride Another example
of new and now is how the hosts commu-nicate with guests about where they are
to be seated Creative ways such as a big
billboard have replaced individual place
cards Mr Abadi said
ldquoWe had one client recently who used a
large mirror that had the guestsrsquo names on
it instead of place cardsrdquo he said
Whatrsquos new at the Marriott Glenpointe
is a complete renovation of its 345 guest
rooms an overhaul that includes new
bathrooms furniture carpeting and wall-
paper For guests who will use the hotelrooms for their bridal party or wedding
this is a bonus said Mitchell Heymann
director of sales and marketing
When it comes to weddings at hotels
Gerry Burns the director of catering at
the Pearl River Hilton in Pearl River NY
said that she has seen more full-weekend
weddings at her hotel than in the past In
the past it may have just been a Saturdaynight event but these days the wedding
spans the weekend Guests may arrive on
Friday for Shabbat for a rehearsal dinner
They spend Saturday either observing the
Sabbath or enjoying the day otherwise
with various activities attend the Satur-
day night wedding and then remain at the
hotel until Sunday for a farewell brunch
ldquoItrsquos a destination wedding without hav-
ing to really go far to a destinationrdquo said
Ms Burns
Noam Sokolow president of Rave Cater-ing and Event Planning said that many
weddings are taking place at unique ven-
ues such as old mansions or farms with
barns If the affair is smaller and more
intimate 200 guests as compared to 400
Grand cocktail receptions featuring an array of smallfinger food are very popular these days
Lovely outdoor venues like this setting in a garden gazebo are somethingthat brides are looking for
Brides and grooms want documentary style photography to capture their event more than posed stills
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guests it can take place in a more unique setting he said
ldquoPeople are inviting friends and not just people they are
friendly withrdquo he said
The music for weddings is also being mixed up a bit Itis not unusual to 983142ind a live band during the cocktail hour
and ceremony and then a DJ playing great dance music for
the party that follows
When it comes to food according to Mr Sokolow
pairings of food and drink are very popular For example
983142ish tacos may be served with an individual margarita slid-
ers can be chased down with a beer and bourbon-infused
short ribs can be enjoyed with a shot of bourbonAri Starkman owner of The Elan in Lodi said that
grand cocktail receptions are very popular these days
In addition Mr Starkman said there are more ethnic
customizations such as combining for example Russian
and Chinese elements in the wedding He recalled one
affair in which caviar and blintzes (Russian) shared the
menu with steamed dumplings (Chinese) because the
groom was Russian Jewish and the bride was Chinese ndasha culinary combination that gives a nod to both of their
cultures
With weddings styles may change The music may play
longer The food may be jazzed up But brides grooms
and their guests will always want to have a wonderful
party that celebrates their union in a special way and that
will be a memorable event
ldquoAnd one thing that has not changed and will never
changerdquo said Ms Daidone of The Estates at Florentine
Gardens ldquois that people still want good service Service is
of the utmost importance That will never change I hope
Giving our guests good old hospitalityrdquo
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Seating arrangementsTop trends in wedding place cards Sharon Naylor x
Y ou may have seen guests
crowded around a reception
table searching for their alpha-
betically arranged place cards
That shoulder-to-shoulder press of guests
has long been a scene at weddings and
todayrsquos innovations help eliminate the
long line and discomfort of trying to read
those small cards
Now the traditional card kerfuffle may
be replaced by a new display It rsquos a top
wedding trend and a popular place card
option seen on Pinterest is to eliminate the
printed card and write guestsrsquo names on a
tall vertical display such as a glass window
or mirror Guestsrsquo names and table num-
bers c an be displayed on signs installed
behind the bar or hung in frames gallery-
style on the walls at the cocktail partyThese vertical card-free table assignments
become decor pieces as well as easy-to-use
directions for guests
Vertical displays have also given the
tradition a twist by listing guestsrsquo names
according to table number not alpha-
betically Itrsquos easy for guests to spot their
names under say Table 7 and they can
see names of the other guests with whom
theyrsquore seated No more standing by the
place card table little card in hand ask-
ing their friends ldquoWhere are you sittingrdquo
Jenny Orsini wedding planner says that
this place card display creates better
momentum for your celebration allowing
guests to move right into the cocktail party
or reception without that ldquopileup of name-
searching at an entry tablerdquo
If you do wish to have printed place
cards use pretty cardstock and gorgeous
fonts that coordinate with your wedding
invitations and other print items at your wedding Decorat ive borders seasonal
colors theme motifs and elegant hand-
writing or print on the cards are all great
options (ldquoJust no computer-printed labels
pleaserdquo says Orsini pointing to the lack of
elegance in that method)
As an alternative to the tented card
flat cards are also used mdash perhaps stood
up in sand- grass- or floral-983142illed trays
for a pretty presentation These flat cards
may be attached to take-home favors like
ornate keys or charms And flat cards are
also being af983142ixed via ribbon to mini bot-
tles of bourbon tequila chocolate liqueur
or other take-home tastes that work dou-
ble-duty as place cards and favors
And another trend in wedding place
cards is writing guestsrsquo names in metallic
pen on shiny green leaves or on polished
river stones for a natural feel to comple-
ment wedding decor This natural style
is a thrill for guests since they can takethe ldquocardrdquo home and put it on display
perhaps next to a framed photo of them-
selves taken at the wedding That adds
more appreciation for your chosen design
than a simple printed card theyrsquore likely to
leave on the table at the end of the night
Speaking of keepsakes a framed dis-
play of guestsrsquo names and table numbers
becomes a wonderful keepsake for you
Perhaps a dating or engaged couple who
originally met at your wedding seated
together at Table 7 will want the display
to be shown at their wedding someday
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additionalwedding books Creatorscom
Leaves and stones are top trends inwedding guest place cardsCREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF MERCEDES NORIEGA
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All in the approachMaking your wedding path stand out
Sharon Naylor x
A s you plan your wedding decor
donrsquot forget about the paths
leading to your ceremony and
reception You may have cho-
sen your wedding location simply for the
beauty of the venue itself but you cancreate a fabulous scene for your arriving
guests by decorating the trees along the
driveway or footpath Their anticipation
builds as they see your decor and light-
ing effects along the way giving them an
even more magical 983142irst impression of your
wedding day And if your venue is one that
your guests have been to for other wed-
dings decorating the approach to the site
makes for a new unique experience
Here are some ways to make your wedding paths stand out
Hanging floralsAdorn the pathrsquos tree line with flowers and
garlands that hint at your weddingrsquos floral
motif Joyce Maffeo florist at BloomNa-
tion says ldquoYou can either display flowers
on their own such as by stringing florals
on ribbon or 983142ishing wire or display flow-
ers inside antique bottles or other glass
vesselsrdquo The advantage of the in-vessel
flower display is that flowers stay hydrated with a bit of water in the bottle allowing
them to hold up well in late-summerearly-
fall sunshine
Some open-air flowers that Maffeo
recommends for their staying power
include orchids eucalyptuses and strung
daisies
ldquoFor in-vessel flowers consider protea
orchids hypericum and ornamental kale
for a pop of purple colorrdquo says Maffeo
ldquoWreaths hanging from trees also add to
the beautiful approachrdquo One flower to be
wary of since it easily wilts in the sun is
hydrangea Maffeo suggests instead using
bunches of carnations which hold up
better in the sun
This knowledge of flowersrsquo strength in
sunshine mdash important since your floral
team will likely set up your approach
decor several hours before your wedding
mdash is one example of why you should have
professionals create your floral pieces
String lights andhanging lanternsFor a sunset or evening wedding string
lights arranged in the trees add breath-
taking effect whether you use just a few
string lights per tree or many In addi-
tion to string lights lanterns hung from
S-hooks on the trees create that trendy
look of rustic elegance And you can take
those lanterns home after the wedding to
use them in your own backyard
Non-hanging lanternsTall lanterns clustered along a path or set
on stairs leading to the wedding sites are
a new top trend for weddings this year
and next Lanterns may be metallic such
as copper or bronze or rustic-themed in
white or black Upscale home decor stores
sell lanterns as part of the outdoor enter-
taining trend These larger lanterns can be
used at home after your big day
Candles
Position a large number of traditional orLED candles in glass vessels at the entrance
to your ceremony or reception spot This
is a stunning look for exterior doors and
if you have a portico that guests will pass
through to get to an inner ceremony or
celebration space arrange a large amount
of vessel-nested candles on either side of a
clear walking pathway
Tiki torchesldquoThe use of Tiki torches creates not only
a path to the reception but also softens
the lighting for a romantic moodrdquo says
Allison Sells catering manager for Caneel
Bay Resort in the US Virgin Islands Since
Tiki torches create one single light source
per torch pair them with overhead string
lights or ground-set lanterns to multiply
your lighting effect
UplightingSetting lights at the base of trees and
directing the light upward gives those trees
a magical and impressive glow Sells says
that uplighting palm trees creates a ldquowowrdquofactor especially complementing a tropical
wedding location
Signs
Chalkboard signs with personalized
messages can be used multiple times along
the path with friendly welcome messages
invitations to ldquoGet the party startedrdquo and
directions to wedding sites In the evening
try lit marquee signs illuminating the path
with words like ldquoLoverdquo ldquoXOXOrdquo or your
monogram These too can be take-home
decor to forever remind you of your big
day
MusicPiped-in music along your path adds a wel-
coming soundtrack to the approach
If your venue has an interesting history
beautiful scenery or perhaps a s tunning
sunset that will light up the sky with colors
during your weddingrsquos arrival time you
might not need any additional decor or
lighting at all Mother Nature has taken
care of that as her wedding gift to you
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
Rows of candles create a magical effect for your guestsrsquo approach to your wedding CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF ELLIS ISLAND
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Beauty amp Elegance
138 New Pehle Ave Saddle Brook NJ
wwwmarriottcomhotelstravelewrsb-saddle-brook-marriott
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As we cater to every detail of your special day our dedicated weddingplanners help create a carefree environment for our brides Beauty eleganceand spectacular style is what we provide at the Saddle Brook Marriott
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2019096810
Teresa Iqbal x
T he honeymoon is typically the last climactic
event of the wedding process As the culminat-
ing event that pulls everything together and
leaves couples with their 983142irst opportunity to
relax and begin enjoying life together itrsquos important to
make it as enjoyable as possible But where do you begin
when it comes to choosing where and how to enjoy your
983142irst moments together as a married couple on your
honeymoon
Choosing a honeymoon destination that represents
your interests as a couple is perhaps the best place to start
narrowing down destination choices Do you love art andmuseums If so a large city with ample opportunity for
you to spend the days among art exhibits and historical
pieces is probably best suited for you Perhaps yoursquore a
couple who consider themselves literary Take some time
to research places where literary authors made history
and immerse yourself in these same spots Maybe a good
time for you means spending most of your days beach-
side Be sure to choose a honeymoon destination where
you can spend your days on the beach and take part in
activities on the water Enjoying the overall culture of your
destination is an important key to having a happy and ful-983142illing experience on your honeymoon
You neednrsquot spend an outrageous amount of money
traveling to a tropical destination either Chances are
that there are beautiful spots closer than you think where
you could make great memories doing the things you both
love In fact building your honeymoon itinerary around
the activities you love allows you to consider an array of
vacation spots that 983142it a number of budgets Whether itrsquos
staying in your country your state or even your own city
yoursquore bound to 983142ind a number of ways to celebrate They
key is to narrow down activities that are important to you
both and plan your honeymoon around cities where youknow you can have a good time doing the things you enjoy
If you are hoping to spend your vacation traveling to
faraway destinations there are other ways to be budget-
conscious while still having a good time overseas Cruises
are one honeymoon option that more and more couples
are taking advantage of every day Theyrsquore great for those
hoping to get more bang for their buck According to Lux-
ury Travel Magazine ldquowith some cruise lines port taxes
meals drinks entertainment activities and even tips are
all included in the upfront cost of a cruise Itrsquos easy to work
out a per-day cost to compare to other forms of travelrdquo
Taking a cruise also simpli983142ies the logistical process of
vacationing For example you need only unpack and pack
once Most if not all meals are included in the passen-
ger fare as well as an array of activities to be enjoyed on
the ship Splurging on meals at local spots where the ship
docks allows couples to experience 983142ine dining without
having to worry about shelling out cash at every single
meal The same goes for activities Many cruise lines orga-
nize activities off the ship that couples can take part in
such as scuba diving and museum tours which means less
hassle and work involved in 983142inding fun things to do in
your destination city leaving more time both on and offthe boat to enjoy yourselves to the fullest
A similar option for those who donrsquot want to deal with
all the stress and planning of both a wedding and a hon-
eymoon is the all-inclusive resort All-inclusives are great
for those looking for a hassle-free experience Couples can
How to choose how and where to honeymoon
pamper themselves and share all of the same bene983142its as
cruisers such as included activities and meals Just be sure
to choose a destination yoursquod both be interested in explor-
ing and experiencing to some depth because you likely
wonrsquot be doing much more than day trips to closer more
local spots This is de983142initely an upside for those looking
to stay in one place for longer and more deeply immerse
themselves in the culture art and cuisine of one location
of their choosing rather than visiting an array of destina-
tions for a short amount of time
Itrsquos clear that no matter your focus interest or budget
there are several different options to take advantage of
when creating a lasting honeymoon experienceCreatorscom
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Best guestEtiquette tips for wedding attendees Kristen Castillo x
Once the invitation arrives in
the mail you start asking your-
self questions ldquoWhat should I
wearrdquo ldquoWhat gift should I getrdquo
ldquoCan I invite a guestrdquo
All of these questions and more are com-
mon concerns for wedding guests Read on
for tips from wedding and etiquette profes-sionals for answers to your questions and
983142ind out what it takes to be a great guest
Can you bring a dateThe general rule The only people who
can attend the wedding are the ones listed
on the invitation So if the invite says ldquoMr
and Mrs Jonesrdquo then only the husband
and wife can attend If it just says ldquoMiss
Jonesrdquo then the woman must attend the
wedding aloneMake sure you RSVP for the wedding
by the date indicated on the invitation
Showing up anyway after neglecting to
RSVP is a big no-no
If your childrenrsquos names arenrsquot listed on
the invitation donrsquot show up to the wed-
ding as a family
ldquoA gentle way to deal with this situation
is to have the family table off to the side
or back of the reception areardquo says author
and etiquette expert Jacqueline Whitmore
who is also the founder of The ProtocolSchool of Palm Beach
Another option The bride and groom
might provide guests who have children
the ldquoname of a reputable baby sitter in
your area who is willing to accommodate
parents who want to attend the weddingrdquo
suggests Whitmore
What to wearWeddings tend to be dressy events but
exactly how dressyIf the invitation says ldquoblack tierdquo wear a
tuxedo
Otherwise ldquoa man should wear a suit
and a woman should wear a cocktail dress
or Sunday bestrdquo says wedding planner
Fran Plodkowski of Social Graces noting
beach weddings can be more casualldquoRemember it is a weddingrdquo says Plod-
kowski ldquoLook your bestrdquo
Gift guideGiving a wedding gift is customary but do
you give a gift off the couplersquos registry or
write a check If so how much to give
Therersquos no 983142ixed answer here
ldquoPeople do not know how much to giverdquo
says Plodkowski who advises guests to
give what they want to and can afford
Still you donrsquot have to give a gift of equal value to the price of the dinner especially
since many weddings are big budget
Typically the closer guests are to the
bride and groom the more theyrsquoll give For
example the groomrsquos sister would give a
larger gift than his co-worker would
Time mattersGuests often mistakenly assume weddings
donrsquot start on time
ldquoAs a result we see guests that purpose-fully arrive laterdquo says Camille McLamb
founder and lead coordinator at Camille
Victoria Weddings noting ceremony and
reception schedules are 983142ixed to accom-
modate parties and events throughout
the day
ldquoGuests should plan to arrive at least10 minutes before the start time listed on
the invitationrdquo urges McLamb ldquoIf a guest
ends up arriving late she should try to
check if the bridal party is lined up before
going inside If the bridal party is lined up
and about to go down the aisle the guest
should wait off to the side until the pro-
cessional is over and then sneak in up a
side aislerdquo
Remember yoursquore not
the photographerSure itrsquos exciting to capture the wedding in
photos but remember yoursquore a guest not
a photographer on assignment
ldquoDonrsquot photobomb the vowsrdquo says eti-
quette expert Cheryl Seidel ldquoRemember
therersquos probably a professional photogra-
pher somewhere behind you trying to do
the job the couple has hired him to dordquo
Seidel also reminds guests to not block
people behind them instead sit in the
back or on the far aisle Also donrsquot use aniPad to shoot photos ldquoTherersquos no way you
can be inconspicuousrdquo she says
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Before you post your pictures to social media such
as Instagram and Facebook make sure the couple
approve
Whatrsquos for dinnerEven if the reception venue is a restaurant itrsquos not OK
for guests to order whatever they want Thatrsquos because
the menu is preordered and paid for by the bride and
groom Even vegetarian vegan or specialty-diet meals
are ordered ahead of time
Guests with special dietary needs such as gluten
intolerance or nut allergies should inform the bride
and groom at the time of RSVP
AccessibilityOften guests worry about getting in and around the cer-emony and reception venues
ldquoEspecially with the rise in loft weddings not all wed-
ding venues have elevatorsrdquo says McLamb For elderly
and disabled guests ldquostairs and moving from one space
to another within a venue can present dif983142icultiesrdquo
McLamb advises brides and grooms to tell guests
about any potential accessibility challenges at the venue
so the guests can prepare ahead of time She also says
couples should reserve some tables for elderly guests
during cocktail hour Creatorscom Before you post your pictures to social media such as Instagram and Facebook make sure the couple approves(CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF NICHOLAS PURCELL STUDIO)
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HELPERS TASKERS
AND OTHER PARTY FIXERSShould you hire online help for your big day
Kristen Castillo x
W edding planning is 983142illed
with details large and small
Finding help isnrsquot always
easy but itrsquos necessary
Need help planning your engagement
party Want assistance assembling your welcome bags Loo king for som eon e
with nice penmanship to write out your
place cards
It used to be that yoursquod have to do these
jobs yourself ask friends or family or hire
an event professional So what should you
do when yoursquore overwhelmed and family
and friends arenrsquot available Nowadays
you can go online to hire helpers to get the
job done
Thatrsquos what happened for a couplersquos
wedding in Los Angeles The groom sur-
prised his bride during the reception with
her favorite New England treat Hoodsie
Cups which are paper cups 983142illed with
a mix of both chocolate and vanilla ice
cream But 983142irst the groom had to 983142igure
out how to get the frozen dessert to the
West Coast for his bride who is originally
from New England He hired a ldquoTaskerrdquo
via TaskRabbit the leading on-demand
home services app connecting busy peo-
ple with a network of Taskers in theirarea mdash or in this case someone from the
Northeast who could buy and overnight
ship 150 ice-cream cups in an industrial
strength cooler
The groom tells TaskRabbit that making
the Hoodsie Cups surprise happen was
ldquode983142initely a memory the both of us will
have for the rest of our livesrdquo and he says
that without the Taskerrsquos help he doesnrsquot
think he could have made it happen
Help for hireMany couples are hiring helpers to assist
with pre-wedding prep including every-
thing from envelope calligraphy to deco-
rating the venue to DJrsquoing or baking the
wedding cake
Some brides and grooms solicit the help
online with ads on Craigslist or v ia social
media posts asking for help with certain
wedding tasks S ites like TaskRabbit are
growing too
ldquoTaskers helping with weddings has become a big thing in the past two yearsrdquo
says Jamie Viggiano TaskRabbitrsquos VP of
marketing citing examples like helping
to plan a surprise engagement by deco-
rating an apartment with hundreds of
rose petals and LED candles deliver-
ing a wedding cake in Washington DC
and helping assemble and deliver flower
arrangements
Additional wedding tasks completed
include picking up and delivering last-
minute items like ice batteries and coffee
sorting scanning and uploading photos
for a wedding slideshow and setting up
wedding FaceTime sessions between the
couple and their loved ones who couldnrsquot
attend the ceremony in person ldquoThis has
been done a number of times with older
clients who arenrsquot savvy with technolo983143yrdquo
says Viggiano
PricingPaying for wedding help a la carte seems
to be a 983142it for couples who canrsquot afford or
donrsquot want to hire professional weddingcoordinators Some brides and grooms
list the project budget in their social media
and Craigslist posts others take bids from
anyone who responds to the ads
On TaskRabbit Taskers set their own
hourly rate by category When clients
post a task TaskRabbit provides a list of
several candidates in the area and the
individualrsquos skills The client pays once
the task is 983142inished
ldquoBrides and grooms are recognizing that
they donrsquot need to do all the wedding prep
on their own and that they can outsource
some of the more mundane tedious tasks
to quali983142ied peoplerdquo says Viggiano noting
that outsourcing the work ldquomakes a stress-
ful situation less stressfulrdquo
Buyer bewareSome wedding experts caution brides and
grooms that hiring a stranger to assist with
wedding details might not be a good idea
The reason Typically the helper is inex-
perienced with weddings and might not be
accountableldquoUnless you are a really laid-back bride
I would not recommend hiring helpers in
this wayrdquo says Michelle Balducci-Connelly
of Michelle Marie Photographie ldquoCraigslist
workers have little to no repercussions if
they donrsquot perform A professional will
have a reputation to uphold and has an
incentive to perform well because they are
making a career out of their servicerdquo
Still she understands the appeal of hir-
ing wedding helpers
ldquoWith ever-increasing costs of wed-
dings my couples are always looking to
save in areas they deem appropriaterdquo
says Balducci-Connelly noting that hiring
a day-of planner for example would cost
anywhere from $500 to $1000 for recep-
tion setup and organization compared to
a hired helper who would likely charge
an hourly or flat rate ldquothat would be far
less than a day-of coordinator would
chargerdquo
Before hiring anyone to help with your
event get references if possible and
make sure yoursquore comfortable with theirskills reliability and overall credibility
You only get one chance to make your
wedding day a success so be con983142ident in
your hiring decisions
Creatorscom
Many couples hire helpers to assist them with wedding planning such as ldquoTaskersrdquo from TaskRabbit CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF TASKRABBIT
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Dress trendsLooking your best on the big day Julia Price x
W eddings are a big deal All
the planning coordinating
decision-making letdowns
stressful situations mdash they
all fade away and become worth it the
moment the bride walks down the aisle
So of course no pressure with picking out
the perfect dress or anything rightBut really itrsquos hard to go wrong nowa-
days Luckily for everyone the lsquo80s have
come and gone and have graciously taken
their wedding dress signature styles with
them
In general wedding dresses are veer-
ing toward a less poofy look and going
toward a sleeker form-983142itting hourglass
shape This creates a more dramatic effect
when the train of the dress 983142ills out behind
the bride while also enhancing feminine
strength in the upper body
Another trend this season is the
off-the-shoulder look Several years ago
the sleeveless dress was a big hit but now
itrsquos been slightly modi983142ied to keep the shoul-
ders bare with the straps lightly hanging off
Whether the dress is white silk Chantilly
lace or ballgown-style this off-the-shoul-
der appeal creates a delicate look
The popular shabby chic furniture trend
seems to have influenced brides-to-be as
well Seeing as many couples are choos-ing the country feel mdash complete with
Mason jars mdash for their big day it makes
sense that women are looking for a dress
to match that vibe Yoursquoll see more and
more dresses with corded details and lace
accents and yoursquoll see less beadwork than
you had on some of the past looks
Also trending this season is embellishing
the back of the dress In addition to adding
a new element of beauty it makes sense
because guests wil l have a close visual of
the bridersquos back as shersquos approaching her
husband-to-be Intricate detailing on the
Trending this season is embellishing the back of the dressCREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF JULIA PRICE
back might include a crisscross or spar-
kling tulle Some brides are opting for
completely backless dresses This goes well
with layers of lace and the silhouette look
Though itrsquos good to look for many
options online (try bridescom or search for
your perfect look on Pinterest) yoursquove got
to trust your gut with what feels right for
you This is one of those situations where
no matter who else speaks up as long as
yoursquore saying ldquoI dordquo to the dress then
yoursquore going to be happy Creatorscom
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Plus-size bridesBridal beauty at any size
Kristen Castillo x
T here is a wedding gown for every
bride but if yoursquore over size 14
it might be a challenge to 983142ind
the perfect dress Luckily thatrsquos
changing Thanks to the TLC television show
ldquoCurvy Bridesrdquo and bridal shops that cater to
plus-size brides itrsquos getting easier for brides
of all sizes to 983142ind their dream dresses
These days the average woman in the
US wears a size 14 and yet bridal gownstraditionally are made for smaller sizes
ldquoPlus-size for us means anyone who
has had trouble 983142inding dresses to 983142it them
elsewhererdquo say Yuneisia Harris and Yukia
Walker owners of full-983142igured bridal salon
Curvaceous Couture and stars of ldquoCurvy
Bridesrdquo
Walker knows how frustrating it can
be for plus-sized brides to 983142ind a gown
After getting engaged she struggled to
983142ind sample gowns and ultimately didnrsquot
like the dress she chose Out of that expe-
rience she and her sister started their
company
The sisters explain that in evenin983143wear
and in bridal everything is cut smaller
ldquoSo while a person might have a smaller
street size like a 12 or a 14 in a wedding
gown they might have to order something
as large as a 20rdquo
That means when traditional bridal
salons have sample dresses in sizes 8 to 12ldquotheyrsquore really only servicing brides whose
street size is 4 to 10rdquo say Harris and Walker
Plus-Size PerceptionsThe notion of plus-size bridal fashion car-
ries many misconceptions In some cases
brides arenrsquot aware that plus-sizing exists
in the wedding world because itrsquos typi-
cally underrepresented or not seen at all
Often plus-size brides end up buying
wedding gowns online mdash one of the few
places with larger sizes
Still others assume dresses in larger
sizes should be plain and not embellished
ldquothat plus-size women donrsquot desire the
same beautiful dresses and fabrics as theirstraight-size counterpartsrdquo says Erena
Shklovsky creative director and head
designer for plus-size designer IGIGI not-
ing that many plus-size brides want ldquodeli-
cate beading luxe fabrics and innovative
cuts just like other bridesrdquo
Another misconception That being
plus-sized means you need to cover up
ldquoIrsquod say that 60 percent of our brides ini-
tially ask us to add a sleeve or a shawl to
a dress because theyrsquore afraid of showing
their arms or backrdquo say Harris and Walkernoting that adding a sleeve or a strap for
example ldquois not the most flattering choice
for a briderdquo
In other cases gowns with straps
sleeves and extra fabric can make a bride
look matronly
ldquoWe just want our brides to be happy
with their dresses and sometimes that
means helping them embrace their natu-
ral beautyrdquo say Harris and Walker who
feel viewers like the show because it allows
them to see brides they relate to try on and
look great in gorgeous gowns
Fashionable Choices
Designing full-983142igured fashions involvesmore than simply adding extra fabric
Because every bride has a different size
and body shape gowns need specialized
983142its including built-in support for large
busts for example
More fashion lines and bridal lines are
starting to embrace women of all sizes
Harris and Walker praise designers like Roz
la Kelin and Enzoani for being some of the
983142irst designers to offer plus-size samples
ldquoI think the biggest and best addition
to plus-size bridal collections is ChristianSirianorsquos dress for Nicolette Masonrdquo says
Shklovsky ldquoIt showed the rest of the fash-
ion world that plus-sized women deserve
more than to be covered with loads and
loads of fabricrdquo
Still no wedding gown is truly ready-to-
wear All dresses need alterations including
changes to hemlines bust lines waistlines
sleeves and shoulder straps No matter
what the dress size a perfect 983142it is flattering
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the day to be spectacular Between
budgets traditions choosing a loca-
tion considering the time of year and
weather and most importantly your idea
of a dream wedding mdash itrsquos enough to make
your head spin
You may choose an all-in-one venue that
comes with its own gorgeous setting cater-
ing waitstaff tables and chairs and hope
that the cost is within your reach DIY
wedding plans may or may not be moreeconomical but many excited couples opt
for more personalized settings and control
over the way things are done One thing is
for sure You probably donrsquot own enough
chairs tables and service to make it hap-
pen without help
You could always buy the folding chairs
and tables linens and glassware for your
event but then you need a place to store
everything before and after the party
Owning everything makes you solely respon-
sible for cleaning and ironing linens polish-
ing service and washing all of the dishware before and after use (especially if itrsquos been
sitting awhile) It is often more ef983142icient to
simply rent what you need for each occasion
if you plan to throw several parties
Letrsquos go rental
Every bride in your family before
you was married in Aunt Franrsquos parlor
and thatrsquos the beginning yoursquove always
dreamed of with a reception in the back-
yard But then you remember the light rain
shower during your cousinrsquos gala and how
it chased everyone away Yoursquoll need seat-ing and decorations for inside and yoursquoll
want to add a tent to the tables chairs and
buffet setting outside Or maybe the old
barn could be gussied up for a fancy do
but the dirt floor leaves a lot to be desired
especially when it comes to dancing -- but
thatrsquos not a problem if you add a rented
dance floor (or more)
Party rental companies offer everything
from aisle covers to wine glasses Choose
table linens centerpieces pole covers (to
hide tent supports) dance floors of various
sizes stages and more If you are worriedabout the weather 983142ind tents for outdoor
parties they come with sides or open with
options for fans or heaters for comfort
Serve delicious meals with gas or charcoal
grill rentals and buffet-style cha983142ing dishes
There is no limit to what you can do Paper
plates are great for picnics but if you pre-
fer restaurant-style service 983142ind china
charger plates silver service goblets and
flutes and linen napkins and tablecloths
Check out the party supply rental com-
panies in your area to 983142ind out what theyoffer and compare prices Make sure to
include delivery costs as well as delivery
terms such as how far in advance they will
deliver and when they will pick up after the
affair Visit the showrooms to see the qual-
ity of merchandise they offer By all means
get recommendations and warnings from
other consumers you certainly donrsquot want
to 983142ind out on the day of the party that the
tablecloths are stained or that you were
shorted on the glassware Ask about their
reputation for reliability their willingness
to work with you and whether there is an
extra charge for setup Also 983142ind out in what
condition the items have to be returned
mdash eg do the dishes need to be washedor simply scraped do the linens need to
be laundered and what are the costs for
breakage If possible compare the prices
quality service and reputations of a few
companies before making a 983142inal decision
Some party rental suppliers will work
with area vendors such as caterers and
wait staff to help you 983142ind a complete
package for your magical day Make an
appointment to sit down with your cho-
sen rental company and explain your
vision to them A party planner can makehelpful suggestions based on the compa-
nyrsquos experience with previous weddings
and parties They can tell you how many
plates glasses and flatware sets to rent
based on the number of people invited
always order a few extra pieces in case of
breakage or unexpected guests Read the
contract carefully to verify that all dates
quantities and service details are spelled
out correctly Creatorscom
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Le menu du jour
New trends in menu cards Sharon Naylor x
W hen printed menu cards
983142irst showed up as wed-
ding table additions guests
loved reading those delec-
table descriptions of the courses to come
during the dinner There was at 983142irst one
printed card per round table then four
or so spaced apart on long tables Guests
took turns looking at the elegantly printedcards with the dazzling print script Soon
individual menu cards were placed on
each guestrsquos plate for easier use and now
those individual menu cards are being per-
sonalized to each guest
ldquoYour tablescape offers countless oppor-
tunities to wow guests with custom details
and personalized menu cards are func-
tional and beautiful while making guests
feel like an important part of your big dayrdquo
says Vanessa Wicks event sales director at
Weylin B Seymourrsquos a historic event venue
in Brooklyn that has been the site of celeb-
rity weddings and events
When guests arrive at their tables they
983142ind their names printed on the menu
cards showing that you value their pres-
ence on their big day And the artistry of
their name handwritten in calligraphy
complements the loveliness of your wed-
ding design Yoursquove taken great care withthe smallest of details elevating your wed-
ding as a whole
Another advantage of customized menu
cards is the ability to tailor guestsrsquo special
menu requirements such as a gluten-free
vegan or kosher meal When guests see
their menu card they know right away
that yoursquove heard and honored their
requests They donrsquot need to be anxious
about their special meals
To help you create your personalized
menu cards keep the following tips in
mind
bull Spell names correctly Triple-check
your invitations list looking at guestsrsquosocial media pages for backup to be sure
each guestrsquos name is spelled correctly It
would be an awful faux pas if you created
a card for ldquoJohnrdquo when he goes by ldquoJonrdquo
bull Plan for dim lighting Your recep -
tion ballroom may be dimly lit illumi-
nated by candles and that low light can
make light-colored print dif983142icult to read
Larger script in a good contrasting shade
makes your menu card easier to see Not
all guests bring their reading glasses with
them Metallic print will capture candle-light so consider shimmery lettering
bull Create personalized menu cards for
children as well Theirs can be designed
differently than adult guestsrsquo cards using
kid-themed colors and motifs Add a print
game to the back of the card to provide a
fun activity
bull Add an accent to the back of guestsrsquo
menu cards A personalized note from you
may be extra work but it goes a long way
to making your guests feel like VIPs Or if
a personalized message isnrsquot realistic for
your time and budget print an inspiring
and romantic or a foodie-themed quote
on the back of each cardbull Ask your chef to help Make your menu
card mouth-watering with chef-provided
dish descriptions of each course
bull Include drink pairing choices with
each course Again your chef or bar man-
ager can provide pairing ideas using vin-
tages and cocktails that will be served at
your wedding
You might be wondering whether per-
sonalized menu cards at each guestrsquos
seat will tell each guest where to sit at
the table While guests are free to switchseats it is a good idea to put your guest
menu cards in order by table so that
staffers handling your weddingrsquos table
setups can place cards in the order you
prefer seating spouses and families next
to each other
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
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appetizer They donrsquot want to have to use
a knife or fork They just want to pick and
gordquo he said
The small sized and big variety option
goes for dessert as well
Instead of the slice of wedding cake
(where do you see the bride and groom
even cutting the cake before the guests)
and the groaning and overflowing Vien-
nese table laden with desserts the sweets
are made part of the party Mini desserts
are served butler-style to guests who are
either seated or still dancing The offerings
are dizzying from dipped pretzels to cake
lollipops to mini-cheesecakes (pareve)
Sweets arrive on the dance floor as the
guests are boogieing
Another big trend is that the dancing
just doesnrsquot stop Brides want the party to
go on and on
ldquoYears ago the band would stop playingabout 983142ive times and ask the guests to be
seated to be served their various courses
the fruit cup salad appetizer main
course and dessert They used to take a
break every 20 minutes Now itrsquos nonstop
dancing in the ballroom Maybe they sit
down twicerdquo he said
Deena Greenstein the in-house event
planner for Five Star Caterers and head of
Deena Greenstein Events says that wed-
dings are no longer hamstrung by old con-
ventions or traditionsldquoThere are no rules anymore People are
doing whatever they wantrdquo she said
For example setting up a lounge for
guests was a thing common to bar and bat
mitzvahs but now weddings are including
this element In addition custom is king
she said whether it is custom linen a cus-
tom bar with a monogrammed design or
a custom dance floor
For the food Ms Greenstein said there
is a ldquoblend and balance of fun and healthyrdquosuch as a lean lamb turkey or vegetable
sliders with shoestring French fries
ldquoThere is the fun stuff but itrsquos coupled
with the classic and organic foods like
fresh vegetables and local seasonal pro-
duce Ms Greenstein said ldquoSushi is also
making a big comeback with not only the
quality but also the excitement of a beauti-
ful displayrdquo
Maria Daidone owner of the The Estates
at Florentine Gardens in River Vale said
that outdoor ceremonies where guestsenjoy the natural space is something that
has become a big part of todayrsquos weddings
Her venue she added has ldquoa beautiful gar-
den spacerdquo
Another thing Ms Daidone has noted is
that the color scheme is lighter with more
brides choosing to have their weddings
in shades that are more subdued such as
cream and nudeldquoYears ago everything was lavender but
you donrsquot see that todayrdquo she said
For after-dessert or the little goodie
sendoff food trucks have become a big
trend Guests can get donuts coffee
candy and pretzels anything that yoursquod
get from a food truck right at the event
ldquoThey just park outside and when guests
are leaving they give them water or soda or
a snackrdquo Ms Daidone said ldquoItrsquos become a
big thing in the last couple of yearsrdquo
Yossi Abadi owner of the Palisadium inCliffside Park said that the do-it-yourself
trend especially in the era of Pinterest
has become favored at weddings
For instance the centerpieces on the
tables are no longer big overwhelming
bou quet s of flowers but perhaps an
arrangement of shrubs that has been
designed by the bride Another example
of new and now is how the hosts commu-nicate with guests about where they are
to be seated Creative ways such as a big
billboard have replaced individual place
cards Mr Abadi said
ldquoWe had one client recently who used a
large mirror that had the guestsrsquo names on
it instead of place cardsrdquo he said
Whatrsquos new at the Marriott Glenpointe
is a complete renovation of its 345 guest
rooms an overhaul that includes new
bathrooms furniture carpeting and wall-
paper For guests who will use the hotelrooms for their bridal party or wedding
this is a bonus said Mitchell Heymann
director of sales and marketing
When it comes to weddings at hotels
Gerry Burns the director of catering at
the Pearl River Hilton in Pearl River NY
said that she has seen more full-weekend
weddings at her hotel than in the past In
the past it may have just been a Saturdaynight event but these days the wedding
spans the weekend Guests may arrive on
Friday for Shabbat for a rehearsal dinner
They spend Saturday either observing the
Sabbath or enjoying the day otherwise
with various activities attend the Satur-
day night wedding and then remain at the
hotel until Sunday for a farewell brunch
ldquoItrsquos a destination wedding without hav-
ing to really go far to a destinationrdquo said
Ms Burns
Noam Sokolow president of Rave Cater-ing and Event Planning said that many
weddings are taking place at unique ven-
ues such as old mansions or farms with
barns If the affair is smaller and more
intimate 200 guests as compared to 400
Grand cocktail receptions featuring an array of smallfinger food are very popular these days
Lovely outdoor venues like this setting in a garden gazebo are somethingthat brides are looking for
Brides and grooms want documentary style photography to capture their event more than posed stills
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guests it can take place in a more unique setting he said
ldquoPeople are inviting friends and not just people they are
friendly withrdquo he said
The music for weddings is also being mixed up a bit Itis not unusual to 983142ind a live band during the cocktail hour
and ceremony and then a DJ playing great dance music for
the party that follows
When it comes to food according to Mr Sokolow
pairings of food and drink are very popular For example
983142ish tacos may be served with an individual margarita slid-
ers can be chased down with a beer and bourbon-infused
short ribs can be enjoyed with a shot of bourbonAri Starkman owner of The Elan in Lodi said that
grand cocktail receptions are very popular these days
In addition Mr Starkman said there are more ethnic
customizations such as combining for example Russian
and Chinese elements in the wedding He recalled one
affair in which caviar and blintzes (Russian) shared the
menu with steamed dumplings (Chinese) because the
groom was Russian Jewish and the bride was Chinese ndasha culinary combination that gives a nod to both of their
cultures
With weddings styles may change The music may play
longer The food may be jazzed up But brides grooms
and their guests will always want to have a wonderful
party that celebrates their union in a special way and that
will be a memorable event
ldquoAnd one thing that has not changed and will never
changerdquo said Ms Daidone of The Estates at Florentine
Gardens ldquois that people still want good service Service is
of the utmost importance That will never change I hope
Giving our guests good old hospitalityrdquo
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Seating arrangementsTop trends in wedding place cards Sharon Naylor x
Y ou may have seen guests
crowded around a reception
table searching for their alpha-
betically arranged place cards
That shoulder-to-shoulder press of guests
has long been a scene at weddings and
todayrsquos innovations help eliminate the
long line and discomfort of trying to read
those small cards
Now the traditional card kerfuffle may
be replaced by a new display It rsquos a top
wedding trend and a popular place card
option seen on Pinterest is to eliminate the
printed card and write guestsrsquo names on a
tall vertical display such as a glass window
or mirror Guestsrsquo names and table num-
bers c an be displayed on signs installed
behind the bar or hung in frames gallery-
style on the walls at the cocktail partyThese vertical card-free table assignments
become decor pieces as well as easy-to-use
directions for guests
Vertical displays have also given the
tradition a twist by listing guestsrsquo names
according to table number not alpha-
betically Itrsquos easy for guests to spot their
names under say Table 7 and they can
see names of the other guests with whom
theyrsquore seated No more standing by the
place card table little card in hand ask-
ing their friends ldquoWhere are you sittingrdquo
Jenny Orsini wedding planner says that
this place card display creates better
momentum for your celebration allowing
guests to move right into the cocktail party
or reception without that ldquopileup of name-
searching at an entry tablerdquo
If you do wish to have printed place
cards use pretty cardstock and gorgeous
fonts that coordinate with your wedding
invitations and other print items at your wedding Decorat ive borders seasonal
colors theme motifs and elegant hand-
writing or print on the cards are all great
options (ldquoJust no computer-printed labels
pleaserdquo says Orsini pointing to the lack of
elegance in that method)
As an alternative to the tented card
flat cards are also used mdash perhaps stood
up in sand- grass- or floral-983142illed trays
for a pretty presentation These flat cards
may be attached to take-home favors like
ornate keys or charms And flat cards are
also being af983142ixed via ribbon to mini bot-
tles of bourbon tequila chocolate liqueur
or other take-home tastes that work dou-
ble-duty as place cards and favors
And another trend in wedding place
cards is writing guestsrsquo names in metallic
pen on shiny green leaves or on polished
river stones for a natural feel to comple-
ment wedding decor This natural style
is a thrill for guests since they can takethe ldquocardrdquo home and put it on display
perhaps next to a framed photo of them-
selves taken at the wedding That adds
more appreciation for your chosen design
than a simple printed card theyrsquore likely to
leave on the table at the end of the night
Speaking of keepsakes a framed dis-
play of guestsrsquo names and table numbers
becomes a wonderful keepsake for you
Perhaps a dating or engaged couple who
originally met at your wedding seated
together at Table 7 will want the display
to be shown at their wedding someday
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additionalwedding books Creatorscom
Leaves and stones are top trends inwedding guest place cardsCREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF MERCEDES NORIEGA
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All in the approachMaking your wedding path stand out
Sharon Naylor x
A s you plan your wedding decor
donrsquot forget about the paths
leading to your ceremony and
reception You may have cho-
sen your wedding location simply for the
beauty of the venue itself but you cancreate a fabulous scene for your arriving
guests by decorating the trees along the
driveway or footpath Their anticipation
builds as they see your decor and light-
ing effects along the way giving them an
even more magical 983142irst impression of your
wedding day And if your venue is one that
your guests have been to for other wed-
dings decorating the approach to the site
makes for a new unique experience
Here are some ways to make your wedding paths stand out
Hanging floralsAdorn the pathrsquos tree line with flowers and
garlands that hint at your weddingrsquos floral
motif Joyce Maffeo florist at BloomNa-
tion says ldquoYou can either display flowers
on their own such as by stringing florals
on ribbon or 983142ishing wire or display flow-
ers inside antique bottles or other glass
vesselsrdquo The advantage of the in-vessel
flower display is that flowers stay hydrated with a bit of water in the bottle allowing
them to hold up well in late-summerearly-
fall sunshine
Some open-air flowers that Maffeo
recommends for their staying power
include orchids eucalyptuses and strung
daisies
ldquoFor in-vessel flowers consider protea
orchids hypericum and ornamental kale
for a pop of purple colorrdquo says Maffeo
ldquoWreaths hanging from trees also add to
the beautiful approachrdquo One flower to be
wary of since it easily wilts in the sun is
hydrangea Maffeo suggests instead using
bunches of carnations which hold up
better in the sun
This knowledge of flowersrsquo strength in
sunshine mdash important since your floral
team will likely set up your approach
decor several hours before your wedding
mdash is one example of why you should have
professionals create your floral pieces
String lights andhanging lanternsFor a sunset or evening wedding string
lights arranged in the trees add breath-
taking effect whether you use just a few
string lights per tree or many In addi-
tion to string lights lanterns hung from
S-hooks on the trees create that trendy
look of rustic elegance And you can take
those lanterns home after the wedding to
use them in your own backyard
Non-hanging lanternsTall lanterns clustered along a path or set
on stairs leading to the wedding sites are
a new top trend for weddings this year
and next Lanterns may be metallic such
as copper or bronze or rustic-themed in
white or black Upscale home decor stores
sell lanterns as part of the outdoor enter-
taining trend These larger lanterns can be
used at home after your big day
Candles
Position a large number of traditional orLED candles in glass vessels at the entrance
to your ceremony or reception spot This
is a stunning look for exterior doors and
if you have a portico that guests will pass
through to get to an inner ceremony or
celebration space arrange a large amount
of vessel-nested candles on either side of a
clear walking pathway
Tiki torchesldquoThe use of Tiki torches creates not only
a path to the reception but also softens
the lighting for a romantic moodrdquo says
Allison Sells catering manager for Caneel
Bay Resort in the US Virgin Islands Since
Tiki torches create one single light source
per torch pair them with overhead string
lights or ground-set lanterns to multiply
your lighting effect
UplightingSetting lights at the base of trees and
directing the light upward gives those trees
a magical and impressive glow Sells says
that uplighting palm trees creates a ldquowowrdquofactor especially complementing a tropical
wedding location
Signs
Chalkboard signs with personalized
messages can be used multiple times along
the path with friendly welcome messages
invitations to ldquoGet the party startedrdquo and
directions to wedding sites In the evening
try lit marquee signs illuminating the path
with words like ldquoLoverdquo ldquoXOXOrdquo or your
monogram These too can be take-home
decor to forever remind you of your big
day
MusicPiped-in music along your path adds a wel-
coming soundtrack to the approach
If your venue has an interesting history
beautiful scenery or perhaps a s tunning
sunset that will light up the sky with colors
during your weddingrsquos arrival time you
might not need any additional decor or
lighting at all Mother Nature has taken
care of that as her wedding gift to you
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
Rows of candles create a magical effect for your guestsrsquo approach to your wedding CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF ELLIS ISLAND
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Teresa Iqbal x
T he honeymoon is typically the last climactic
event of the wedding process As the culminat-
ing event that pulls everything together and
leaves couples with their 983142irst opportunity to
relax and begin enjoying life together itrsquos important to
make it as enjoyable as possible But where do you begin
when it comes to choosing where and how to enjoy your
983142irst moments together as a married couple on your
honeymoon
Choosing a honeymoon destination that represents
your interests as a couple is perhaps the best place to start
narrowing down destination choices Do you love art andmuseums If so a large city with ample opportunity for
you to spend the days among art exhibits and historical
pieces is probably best suited for you Perhaps yoursquore a
couple who consider themselves literary Take some time
to research places where literary authors made history
and immerse yourself in these same spots Maybe a good
time for you means spending most of your days beach-
side Be sure to choose a honeymoon destination where
you can spend your days on the beach and take part in
activities on the water Enjoying the overall culture of your
destination is an important key to having a happy and ful-983142illing experience on your honeymoon
You neednrsquot spend an outrageous amount of money
traveling to a tropical destination either Chances are
that there are beautiful spots closer than you think where
you could make great memories doing the things you both
love In fact building your honeymoon itinerary around
the activities you love allows you to consider an array of
vacation spots that 983142it a number of budgets Whether itrsquos
staying in your country your state or even your own city
yoursquore bound to 983142ind a number of ways to celebrate They
key is to narrow down activities that are important to you
both and plan your honeymoon around cities where youknow you can have a good time doing the things you enjoy
If you are hoping to spend your vacation traveling to
faraway destinations there are other ways to be budget-
conscious while still having a good time overseas Cruises
are one honeymoon option that more and more couples
are taking advantage of every day Theyrsquore great for those
hoping to get more bang for their buck According to Lux-
ury Travel Magazine ldquowith some cruise lines port taxes
meals drinks entertainment activities and even tips are
all included in the upfront cost of a cruise Itrsquos easy to work
out a per-day cost to compare to other forms of travelrdquo
Taking a cruise also simpli983142ies the logistical process of
vacationing For example you need only unpack and pack
once Most if not all meals are included in the passen-
ger fare as well as an array of activities to be enjoyed on
the ship Splurging on meals at local spots where the ship
docks allows couples to experience 983142ine dining without
having to worry about shelling out cash at every single
meal The same goes for activities Many cruise lines orga-
nize activities off the ship that couples can take part in
such as scuba diving and museum tours which means less
hassle and work involved in 983142inding fun things to do in
your destination city leaving more time both on and offthe boat to enjoy yourselves to the fullest
A similar option for those who donrsquot want to deal with
all the stress and planning of both a wedding and a hon-
eymoon is the all-inclusive resort All-inclusives are great
for those looking for a hassle-free experience Couples can
How to choose how and where to honeymoon
pamper themselves and share all of the same bene983142its as
cruisers such as included activities and meals Just be sure
to choose a destination yoursquod both be interested in explor-
ing and experiencing to some depth because you likely
wonrsquot be doing much more than day trips to closer more
local spots This is de983142initely an upside for those looking
to stay in one place for longer and more deeply immerse
themselves in the culture art and cuisine of one location
of their choosing rather than visiting an array of destina-
tions for a short amount of time
Itrsquos clear that no matter your focus interest or budget
there are several different options to take advantage of
when creating a lasting honeymoon experienceCreatorscom
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Best guestEtiquette tips for wedding attendees Kristen Castillo x
Once the invitation arrives in
the mail you start asking your-
self questions ldquoWhat should I
wearrdquo ldquoWhat gift should I getrdquo
ldquoCan I invite a guestrdquo
All of these questions and more are com-
mon concerns for wedding guests Read on
for tips from wedding and etiquette profes-sionals for answers to your questions and
983142ind out what it takes to be a great guest
Can you bring a dateThe general rule The only people who
can attend the wedding are the ones listed
on the invitation So if the invite says ldquoMr
and Mrs Jonesrdquo then only the husband
and wife can attend If it just says ldquoMiss
Jonesrdquo then the woman must attend the
wedding aloneMake sure you RSVP for the wedding
by the date indicated on the invitation
Showing up anyway after neglecting to
RSVP is a big no-no
If your childrenrsquos names arenrsquot listed on
the invitation donrsquot show up to the wed-
ding as a family
ldquoA gentle way to deal with this situation
is to have the family table off to the side
or back of the reception areardquo says author
and etiquette expert Jacqueline Whitmore
who is also the founder of The ProtocolSchool of Palm Beach
Another option The bride and groom
might provide guests who have children
the ldquoname of a reputable baby sitter in
your area who is willing to accommodate
parents who want to attend the weddingrdquo
suggests Whitmore
What to wearWeddings tend to be dressy events but
exactly how dressyIf the invitation says ldquoblack tierdquo wear a
tuxedo
Otherwise ldquoa man should wear a suit
and a woman should wear a cocktail dress
or Sunday bestrdquo says wedding planner
Fran Plodkowski of Social Graces noting
beach weddings can be more casualldquoRemember it is a weddingrdquo says Plod-
kowski ldquoLook your bestrdquo
Gift guideGiving a wedding gift is customary but do
you give a gift off the couplersquos registry or
write a check If so how much to give
Therersquos no 983142ixed answer here
ldquoPeople do not know how much to giverdquo
says Plodkowski who advises guests to
give what they want to and can afford
Still you donrsquot have to give a gift of equal value to the price of the dinner especially
since many weddings are big budget
Typically the closer guests are to the
bride and groom the more theyrsquoll give For
example the groomrsquos sister would give a
larger gift than his co-worker would
Time mattersGuests often mistakenly assume weddings
donrsquot start on time
ldquoAs a result we see guests that purpose-fully arrive laterdquo says Camille McLamb
founder and lead coordinator at Camille
Victoria Weddings noting ceremony and
reception schedules are 983142ixed to accom-
modate parties and events throughout
the day
ldquoGuests should plan to arrive at least10 minutes before the start time listed on
the invitationrdquo urges McLamb ldquoIf a guest
ends up arriving late she should try to
check if the bridal party is lined up before
going inside If the bridal party is lined up
and about to go down the aisle the guest
should wait off to the side until the pro-
cessional is over and then sneak in up a
side aislerdquo
Remember yoursquore not
the photographerSure itrsquos exciting to capture the wedding in
photos but remember yoursquore a guest not
a photographer on assignment
ldquoDonrsquot photobomb the vowsrdquo says eti-
quette expert Cheryl Seidel ldquoRemember
therersquos probably a professional photogra-
pher somewhere behind you trying to do
the job the couple has hired him to dordquo
Seidel also reminds guests to not block
people behind them instead sit in the
back or on the far aisle Also donrsquot use aniPad to shoot photos ldquoTherersquos no way you
can be inconspicuousrdquo she says
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Before you post your pictures to social media such
as Instagram and Facebook make sure the couple
approve
Whatrsquos for dinnerEven if the reception venue is a restaurant itrsquos not OK
for guests to order whatever they want Thatrsquos because
the menu is preordered and paid for by the bride and
groom Even vegetarian vegan or specialty-diet meals
are ordered ahead of time
Guests with special dietary needs such as gluten
intolerance or nut allergies should inform the bride
and groom at the time of RSVP
AccessibilityOften guests worry about getting in and around the cer-emony and reception venues
ldquoEspecially with the rise in loft weddings not all wed-
ding venues have elevatorsrdquo says McLamb For elderly
and disabled guests ldquostairs and moving from one space
to another within a venue can present dif983142icultiesrdquo
McLamb advises brides and grooms to tell guests
about any potential accessibility challenges at the venue
so the guests can prepare ahead of time She also says
couples should reserve some tables for elderly guests
during cocktail hour Creatorscom Before you post your pictures to social media such as Instagram and Facebook make sure the couple approves(CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF NICHOLAS PURCELL STUDIO)
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HELPERS TASKERS
AND OTHER PARTY FIXERSShould you hire online help for your big day
Kristen Castillo x
W edding planning is 983142illed
with details large and small
Finding help isnrsquot always
easy but itrsquos necessary
Need help planning your engagement
party Want assistance assembling your welcome bags Loo king for som eon e
with nice penmanship to write out your
place cards
It used to be that yoursquod have to do these
jobs yourself ask friends or family or hire
an event professional So what should you
do when yoursquore overwhelmed and family
and friends arenrsquot available Nowadays
you can go online to hire helpers to get the
job done
Thatrsquos what happened for a couplersquos
wedding in Los Angeles The groom sur-
prised his bride during the reception with
her favorite New England treat Hoodsie
Cups which are paper cups 983142illed with
a mix of both chocolate and vanilla ice
cream But 983142irst the groom had to 983142igure
out how to get the frozen dessert to the
West Coast for his bride who is originally
from New England He hired a ldquoTaskerrdquo
via TaskRabbit the leading on-demand
home services app connecting busy peo-
ple with a network of Taskers in theirarea mdash or in this case someone from the
Northeast who could buy and overnight
ship 150 ice-cream cups in an industrial
strength cooler
The groom tells TaskRabbit that making
the Hoodsie Cups surprise happen was
ldquode983142initely a memory the both of us will
have for the rest of our livesrdquo and he says
that without the Taskerrsquos help he doesnrsquot
think he could have made it happen
Help for hireMany couples are hiring helpers to assist
with pre-wedding prep including every-
thing from envelope calligraphy to deco-
rating the venue to DJrsquoing or baking the
wedding cake
Some brides and grooms solicit the help
online with ads on Craigslist or v ia social
media posts asking for help with certain
wedding tasks S ites like TaskRabbit are
growing too
ldquoTaskers helping with weddings has become a big thing in the past two yearsrdquo
says Jamie Viggiano TaskRabbitrsquos VP of
marketing citing examples like helping
to plan a surprise engagement by deco-
rating an apartment with hundreds of
rose petals and LED candles deliver-
ing a wedding cake in Washington DC
and helping assemble and deliver flower
arrangements
Additional wedding tasks completed
include picking up and delivering last-
minute items like ice batteries and coffee
sorting scanning and uploading photos
for a wedding slideshow and setting up
wedding FaceTime sessions between the
couple and their loved ones who couldnrsquot
attend the ceremony in person ldquoThis has
been done a number of times with older
clients who arenrsquot savvy with technolo983143yrdquo
says Viggiano
PricingPaying for wedding help a la carte seems
to be a 983142it for couples who canrsquot afford or
donrsquot want to hire professional weddingcoordinators Some brides and grooms
list the project budget in their social media
and Craigslist posts others take bids from
anyone who responds to the ads
On TaskRabbit Taskers set their own
hourly rate by category When clients
post a task TaskRabbit provides a list of
several candidates in the area and the
individualrsquos skills The client pays once
the task is 983142inished
ldquoBrides and grooms are recognizing that
they donrsquot need to do all the wedding prep
on their own and that they can outsource
some of the more mundane tedious tasks
to quali983142ied peoplerdquo says Viggiano noting
that outsourcing the work ldquomakes a stress-
ful situation less stressfulrdquo
Buyer bewareSome wedding experts caution brides and
grooms that hiring a stranger to assist with
wedding details might not be a good idea
The reason Typically the helper is inex-
perienced with weddings and might not be
accountableldquoUnless you are a really laid-back bride
I would not recommend hiring helpers in
this wayrdquo says Michelle Balducci-Connelly
of Michelle Marie Photographie ldquoCraigslist
workers have little to no repercussions if
they donrsquot perform A professional will
have a reputation to uphold and has an
incentive to perform well because they are
making a career out of their servicerdquo
Still she understands the appeal of hir-
ing wedding helpers
ldquoWith ever-increasing costs of wed-
dings my couples are always looking to
save in areas they deem appropriaterdquo
says Balducci-Connelly noting that hiring
a day-of planner for example would cost
anywhere from $500 to $1000 for recep-
tion setup and organization compared to
a hired helper who would likely charge
an hourly or flat rate ldquothat would be far
less than a day-of coordinator would
chargerdquo
Before hiring anyone to help with your
event get references if possible and
make sure yoursquore comfortable with theirskills reliability and overall credibility
You only get one chance to make your
wedding day a success so be con983142ident in
your hiring decisions
Creatorscom
Many couples hire helpers to assist them with wedding planning such as ldquoTaskersrdquo from TaskRabbit CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF TASKRABBIT
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Dress trendsLooking your best on the big day Julia Price x
W eddings are a big deal All
the planning coordinating
decision-making letdowns
stressful situations mdash they
all fade away and become worth it the
moment the bride walks down the aisle
So of course no pressure with picking out
the perfect dress or anything rightBut really itrsquos hard to go wrong nowa-
days Luckily for everyone the lsquo80s have
come and gone and have graciously taken
their wedding dress signature styles with
them
In general wedding dresses are veer-
ing toward a less poofy look and going
toward a sleeker form-983142itting hourglass
shape This creates a more dramatic effect
when the train of the dress 983142ills out behind
the bride while also enhancing feminine
strength in the upper body
Another trend this season is the
off-the-shoulder look Several years ago
the sleeveless dress was a big hit but now
itrsquos been slightly modi983142ied to keep the shoul-
ders bare with the straps lightly hanging off
Whether the dress is white silk Chantilly
lace or ballgown-style this off-the-shoul-
der appeal creates a delicate look
The popular shabby chic furniture trend
seems to have influenced brides-to-be as
well Seeing as many couples are choos-ing the country feel mdash complete with
Mason jars mdash for their big day it makes
sense that women are looking for a dress
to match that vibe Yoursquoll see more and
more dresses with corded details and lace
accents and yoursquoll see less beadwork than
you had on some of the past looks
Also trending this season is embellishing
the back of the dress In addition to adding
a new element of beauty it makes sense
because guests wil l have a close visual of
the bridersquos back as shersquos approaching her
husband-to-be Intricate detailing on the
Trending this season is embellishing the back of the dressCREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF JULIA PRICE
back might include a crisscross or spar-
kling tulle Some brides are opting for
completely backless dresses This goes well
with layers of lace and the silhouette look
Though itrsquos good to look for many
options online (try bridescom or search for
your perfect look on Pinterest) yoursquove got
to trust your gut with what feels right for
you This is one of those situations where
no matter who else speaks up as long as
yoursquore saying ldquoI dordquo to the dress then
yoursquore going to be happy Creatorscom
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Plus-size bridesBridal beauty at any size
Kristen Castillo x
T here is a wedding gown for every
bride but if yoursquore over size 14
it might be a challenge to 983142ind
the perfect dress Luckily thatrsquos
changing Thanks to the TLC television show
ldquoCurvy Bridesrdquo and bridal shops that cater to
plus-size brides itrsquos getting easier for brides
of all sizes to 983142ind their dream dresses
These days the average woman in the
US wears a size 14 and yet bridal gownstraditionally are made for smaller sizes
ldquoPlus-size for us means anyone who
has had trouble 983142inding dresses to 983142it them
elsewhererdquo say Yuneisia Harris and Yukia
Walker owners of full-983142igured bridal salon
Curvaceous Couture and stars of ldquoCurvy
Bridesrdquo
Walker knows how frustrating it can
be for plus-sized brides to 983142ind a gown
After getting engaged she struggled to
983142ind sample gowns and ultimately didnrsquot
like the dress she chose Out of that expe-
rience she and her sister started their
company
The sisters explain that in evenin983143wear
and in bridal everything is cut smaller
ldquoSo while a person might have a smaller
street size like a 12 or a 14 in a wedding
gown they might have to order something
as large as a 20rdquo
That means when traditional bridal
salons have sample dresses in sizes 8 to 12ldquotheyrsquore really only servicing brides whose
street size is 4 to 10rdquo say Harris and Walker
Plus-Size PerceptionsThe notion of plus-size bridal fashion car-
ries many misconceptions In some cases
brides arenrsquot aware that plus-sizing exists
in the wedding world because itrsquos typi-
cally underrepresented or not seen at all
Often plus-size brides end up buying
wedding gowns online mdash one of the few
places with larger sizes
Still others assume dresses in larger
sizes should be plain and not embellished
ldquothat plus-size women donrsquot desire the
same beautiful dresses and fabrics as theirstraight-size counterpartsrdquo says Erena
Shklovsky creative director and head
designer for plus-size designer IGIGI not-
ing that many plus-size brides want ldquodeli-
cate beading luxe fabrics and innovative
cuts just like other bridesrdquo
Another misconception That being
plus-sized means you need to cover up
ldquoIrsquod say that 60 percent of our brides ini-
tially ask us to add a sleeve or a shawl to
a dress because theyrsquore afraid of showing
their arms or backrdquo say Harris and Walkernoting that adding a sleeve or a strap for
example ldquois not the most flattering choice
for a briderdquo
In other cases gowns with straps
sleeves and extra fabric can make a bride
look matronly
ldquoWe just want our brides to be happy
with their dresses and sometimes that
means helping them embrace their natu-
ral beautyrdquo say Harris and Walker who
feel viewers like the show because it allows
them to see brides they relate to try on and
look great in gorgeous gowns
Fashionable Choices
Designing full-983142igured fashions involvesmore than simply adding extra fabric
Because every bride has a different size
and body shape gowns need specialized
983142its including built-in support for large
busts for example
More fashion lines and bridal lines are
starting to embrace women of all sizes
Harris and Walker praise designers like Roz
la Kelin and Enzoani for being some of the
983142irst designers to offer plus-size samples
ldquoI think the biggest and best addition
to plus-size bridal collections is ChristianSirianorsquos dress for Nicolette Masonrdquo says
Shklovsky ldquoIt showed the rest of the fash-
ion world that plus-sized women deserve
more than to be covered with loads and
loads of fabricrdquo
Still no wedding gown is truly ready-to-
wear All dresses need alterations including
changes to hemlines bust lines waistlines
sleeves and shoulder straps No matter
what the dress size a perfect 983142it is flattering
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DIY all-in-one or party rental suppliers Chelle Cordero x
Itrsquos your wedding day and there areso many plans to be made You want
the day to be spectacular Between
budgets traditions choosing a loca-
tion considering the time of year and
weather and most importantly your idea
of a dream wedding mdash itrsquos enough to make
your head spin
You may choose an all-in-one venue that
comes with its own gorgeous setting cater-
ing waitstaff tables and chairs and hope
that the cost is within your reach DIY
wedding plans may or may not be moreeconomical but many excited couples opt
for more personalized settings and control
over the way things are done One thing is
for sure You probably donrsquot own enough
chairs tables and service to make it hap-
pen without help
You could always buy the folding chairs
and tables linens and glassware for your
event but then you need a place to store
everything before and after the party
Owning everything makes you solely respon-
sible for cleaning and ironing linens polish-
ing service and washing all of the dishware before and after use (especially if itrsquos been
sitting awhile) It is often more ef983142icient to
simply rent what you need for each occasion
if you plan to throw several parties
Letrsquos go rental
Every bride in your family before
you was married in Aunt Franrsquos parlor
and thatrsquos the beginning yoursquove always
dreamed of with a reception in the back-
yard But then you remember the light rain
shower during your cousinrsquos gala and how
it chased everyone away Yoursquoll need seat-ing and decorations for inside and yoursquoll
want to add a tent to the tables chairs and
buffet setting outside Or maybe the old
barn could be gussied up for a fancy do
but the dirt floor leaves a lot to be desired
especially when it comes to dancing -- but
thatrsquos not a problem if you add a rented
dance floor (or more)
Party rental companies offer everything
from aisle covers to wine glasses Choose
table linens centerpieces pole covers (to
hide tent supports) dance floors of various
sizes stages and more If you are worriedabout the weather 983142ind tents for outdoor
parties they come with sides or open with
options for fans or heaters for comfort
Serve delicious meals with gas or charcoal
grill rentals and buffet-style cha983142ing dishes
There is no limit to what you can do Paper
plates are great for picnics but if you pre-
fer restaurant-style service 983142ind china
charger plates silver service goblets and
flutes and linen napkins and tablecloths
Check out the party supply rental com-
panies in your area to 983142ind out what theyoffer and compare prices Make sure to
include delivery costs as well as delivery
terms such as how far in advance they will
deliver and when they will pick up after the
affair Visit the showrooms to see the qual-
ity of merchandise they offer By all means
get recommendations and warnings from
other consumers you certainly donrsquot want
to 983142ind out on the day of the party that the
tablecloths are stained or that you were
shorted on the glassware Ask about their
reputation for reliability their willingness
to work with you and whether there is an
extra charge for setup Also 983142ind out in what
condition the items have to be returned
mdash eg do the dishes need to be washedor simply scraped do the linens need to
be laundered and what are the costs for
breakage If possible compare the prices
quality service and reputations of a few
companies before making a 983142inal decision
Some party rental suppliers will work
with area vendors such as caterers and
wait staff to help you 983142ind a complete
package for your magical day Make an
appointment to sit down with your cho-
sen rental company and explain your
vision to them A party planner can makehelpful suggestions based on the compa-
nyrsquos experience with previous weddings
and parties They can tell you how many
plates glasses and flatware sets to rent
based on the number of people invited
always order a few extra pieces in case of
breakage or unexpected guests Read the
contract carefully to verify that all dates
quantities and service details are spelled
out correctly Creatorscom
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Le menu du jour
New trends in menu cards Sharon Naylor x
W hen printed menu cards
983142irst showed up as wed-
ding table additions guests
loved reading those delec-
table descriptions of the courses to come
during the dinner There was at 983142irst one
printed card per round table then four
or so spaced apart on long tables Guests
took turns looking at the elegantly printedcards with the dazzling print script Soon
individual menu cards were placed on
each guestrsquos plate for easier use and now
those individual menu cards are being per-
sonalized to each guest
ldquoYour tablescape offers countless oppor-
tunities to wow guests with custom details
and personalized menu cards are func-
tional and beautiful while making guests
feel like an important part of your big dayrdquo
says Vanessa Wicks event sales director at
Weylin B Seymourrsquos a historic event venue
in Brooklyn that has been the site of celeb-
rity weddings and events
When guests arrive at their tables they
983142ind their names printed on the menu
cards showing that you value their pres-
ence on their big day And the artistry of
their name handwritten in calligraphy
complements the loveliness of your wed-
ding design Yoursquove taken great care withthe smallest of details elevating your wed-
ding as a whole
Another advantage of customized menu
cards is the ability to tailor guestsrsquo special
menu requirements such as a gluten-free
vegan or kosher meal When guests see
their menu card they know right away
that yoursquove heard and honored their
requests They donrsquot need to be anxious
about their special meals
To help you create your personalized
menu cards keep the following tips in
mind
bull Spell names correctly Triple-check
your invitations list looking at guestsrsquosocial media pages for backup to be sure
each guestrsquos name is spelled correctly It
would be an awful faux pas if you created
a card for ldquoJohnrdquo when he goes by ldquoJonrdquo
bull Plan for dim lighting Your recep -
tion ballroom may be dimly lit illumi-
nated by candles and that low light can
make light-colored print dif983142icult to read
Larger script in a good contrasting shade
makes your menu card easier to see Not
all guests bring their reading glasses with
them Metallic print will capture candle-light so consider shimmery lettering
bull Create personalized menu cards for
children as well Theirs can be designed
differently than adult guestsrsquo cards using
kid-themed colors and motifs Add a print
game to the back of the card to provide a
fun activity
bull Add an accent to the back of guestsrsquo
menu cards A personalized note from you
may be extra work but it goes a long way
to making your guests feel like VIPs Or if
a personalized message isnrsquot realistic for
your time and budget print an inspiring
and romantic or a foodie-themed quote
on the back of each cardbull Ask your chef to help Make your menu
card mouth-watering with chef-provided
dish descriptions of each course
bull Include drink pairing choices with
each course Again your chef or bar man-
ager can provide pairing ideas using vin-
tages and cocktails that will be served at
your wedding
You might be wondering whether per-
sonalized menu cards at each guestrsquos
seat will tell each guest where to sit at
the table While guests are free to switchseats it is a good idea to put your guest
menu cards in order by table so that
staffers handling your weddingrsquos table
setups can place cards in the order you
prefer seating spouses and families next
to each other
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
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guests it can take place in a more unique setting he said
ldquoPeople are inviting friends and not just people they are
friendly withrdquo he said
The music for weddings is also being mixed up a bit Itis not unusual to 983142ind a live band during the cocktail hour
and ceremony and then a DJ playing great dance music for
the party that follows
When it comes to food according to Mr Sokolow
pairings of food and drink are very popular For example
983142ish tacos may be served with an individual margarita slid-
ers can be chased down with a beer and bourbon-infused
short ribs can be enjoyed with a shot of bourbonAri Starkman owner of The Elan in Lodi said that
grand cocktail receptions are very popular these days
In addition Mr Starkman said there are more ethnic
customizations such as combining for example Russian
and Chinese elements in the wedding He recalled one
affair in which caviar and blintzes (Russian) shared the
menu with steamed dumplings (Chinese) because the
groom was Russian Jewish and the bride was Chinese ndasha culinary combination that gives a nod to both of their
cultures
With weddings styles may change The music may play
longer The food may be jazzed up But brides grooms
and their guests will always want to have a wonderful
party that celebrates their union in a special way and that
will be a memorable event
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Seating arrangementsTop trends in wedding place cards Sharon Naylor x
Y ou may have seen guests
crowded around a reception
table searching for their alpha-
betically arranged place cards
That shoulder-to-shoulder press of guests
has long been a scene at weddings and
todayrsquos innovations help eliminate the
long line and discomfort of trying to read
those small cards
Now the traditional card kerfuffle may
be replaced by a new display It rsquos a top
wedding trend and a popular place card
option seen on Pinterest is to eliminate the
printed card and write guestsrsquo names on a
tall vertical display such as a glass window
or mirror Guestsrsquo names and table num-
bers c an be displayed on signs installed
behind the bar or hung in frames gallery-
style on the walls at the cocktail partyThese vertical card-free table assignments
become decor pieces as well as easy-to-use
directions for guests
Vertical displays have also given the
tradition a twist by listing guestsrsquo names
according to table number not alpha-
betically Itrsquos easy for guests to spot their
names under say Table 7 and they can
see names of the other guests with whom
theyrsquore seated No more standing by the
place card table little card in hand ask-
ing their friends ldquoWhere are you sittingrdquo
Jenny Orsini wedding planner says that
this place card display creates better
momentum for your celebration allowing
guests to move right into the cocktail party
or reception without that ldquopileup of name-
searching at an entry tablerdquo
If you do wish to have printed place
cards use pretty cardstock and gorgeous
fonts that coordinate with your wedding
invitations and other print items at your wedding Decorat ive borders seasonal
colors theme motifs and elegant hand-
writing or print on the cards are all great
options (ldquoJust no computer-printed labels
pleaserdquo says Orsini pointing to the lack of
elegance in that method)
As an alternative to the tented card
flat cards are also used mdash perhaps stood
up in sand- grass- or floral-983142illed trays
for a pretty presentation These flat cards
may be attached to take-home favors like
ornate keys or charms And flat cards are
also being af983142ixed via ribbon to mini bot-
tles of bourbon tequila chocolate liqueur
or other take-home tastes that work dou-
ble-duty as place cards and favors
And another trend in wedding place
cards is writing guestsrsquo names in metallic
pen on shiny green leaves or on polished
river stones for a natural feel to comple-
ment wedding decor This natural style
is a thrill for guests since they can takethe ldquocardrdquo home and put it on display
perhaps next to a framed photo of them-
selves taken at the wedding That adds
more appreciation for your chosen design
than a simple printed card theyrsquore likely to
leave on the table at the end of the night
Speaking of keepsakes a framed dis-
play of guestsrsquo names and table numbers
becomes a wonderful keepsake for you
Perhaps a dating or engaged couple who
originally met at your wedding seated
together at Table 7 will want the display
to be shown at their wedding someday
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additionalwedding books Creatorscom
Leaves and stones are top trends inwedding guest place cardsCREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF MERCEDES NORIEGA
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All in the approachMaking your wedding path stand out
Sharon Naylor x
A s you plan your wedding decor
donrsquot forget about the paths
leading to your ceremony and
reception You may have cho-
sen your wedding location simply for the
beauty of the venue itself but you cancreate a fabulous scene for your arriving
guests by decorating the trees along the
driveway or footpath Their anticipation
builds as they see your decor and light-
ing effects along the way giving them an
even more magical 983142irst impression of your
wedding day And if your venue is one that
your guests have been to for other wed-
dings decorating the approach to the site
makes for a new unique experience
Here are some ways to make your wedding paths stand out
Hanging floralsAdorn the pathrsquos tree line with flowers and
garlands that hint at your weddingrsquos floral
motif Joyce Maffeo florist at BloomNa-
tion says ldquoYou can either display flowers
on their own such as by stringing florals
on ribbon or 983142ishing wire or display flow-
ers inside antique bottles or other glass
vesselsrdquo The advantage of the in-vessel
flower display is that flowers stay hydrated with a bit of water in the bottle allowing
them to hold up well in late-summerearly-
fall sunshine
Some open-air flowers that Maffeo
recommends for their staying power
include orchids eucalyptuses and strung
daisies
ldquoFor in-vessel flowers consider protea
orchids hypericum and ornamental kale
for a pop of purple colorrdquo says Maffeo
ldquoWreaths hanging from trees also add to
the beautiful approachrdquo One flower to be
wary of since it easily wilts in the sun is
hydrangea Maffeo suggests instead using
bunches of carnations which hold up
better in the sun
This knowledge of flowersrsquo strength in
sunshine mdash important since your floral
team will likely set up your approach
decor several hours before your wedding
mdash is one example of why you should have
professionals create your floral pieces
String lights andhanging lanternsFor a sunset or evening wedding string
lights arranged in the trees add breath-
taking effect whether you use just a few
string lights per tree or many In addi-
tion to string lights lanterns hung from
S-hooks on the trees create that trendy
look of rustic elegance And you can take
those lanterns home after the wedding to
use them in your own backyard
Non-hanging lanternsTall lanterns clustered along a path or set
on stairs leading to the wedding sites are
a new top trend for weddings this year
and next Lanterns may be metallic such
as copper or bronze or rustic-themed in
white or black Upscale home decor stores
sell lanterns as part of the outdoor enter-
taining trend These larger lanterns can be
used at home after your big day
Candles
Position a large number of traditional orLED candles in glass vessels at the entrance
to your ceremony or reception spot This
is a stunning look for exterior doors and
if you have a portico that guests will pass
through to get to an inner ceremony or
celebration space arrange a large amount
of vessel-nested candles on either side of a
clear walking pathway
Tiki torchesldquoThe use of Tiki torches creates not only
a path to the reception but also softens
the lighting for a romantic moodrdquo says
Allison Sells catering manager for Caneel
Bay Resort in the US Virgin Islands Since
Tiki torches create one single light source
per torch pair them with overhead string
lights or ground-set lanterns to multiply
your lighting effect
UplightingSetting lights at the base of trees and
directing the light upward gives those trees
a magical and impressive glow Sells says
that uplighting palm trees creates a ldquowowrdquofactor especially complementing a tropical
wedding location
Signs
Chalkboard signs with personalized
messages can be used multiple times along
the path with friendly welcome messages
invitations to ldquoGet the party startedrdquo and
directions to wedding sites In the evening
try lit marquee signs illuminating the path
with words like ldquoLoverdquo ldquoXOXOrdquo or your
monogram These too can be take-home
decor to forever remind you of your big
day
MusicPiped-in music along your path adds a wel-
coming soundtrack to the approach
If your venue has an interesting history
beautiful scenery or perhaps a s tunning
sunset that will light up the sky with colors
during your weddingrsquos arrival time you
might not need any additional decor or
lighting at all Mother Nature has taken
care of that as her wedding gift to you
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
Rows of candles create a magical effect for your guestsrsquo approach to your wedding CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF ELLIS ISLAND
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Teresa Iqbal x
T he honeymoon is typically the last climactic
event of the wedding process As the culminat-
ing event that pulls everything together and
leaves couples with their 983142irst opportunity to
relax and begin enjoying life together itrsquos important to
make it as enjoyable as possible But where do you begin
when it comes to choosing where and how to enjoy your
983142irst moments together as a married couple on your
honeymoon
Choosing a honeymoon destination that represents
your interests as a couple is perhaps the best place to start
narrowing down destination choices Do you love art andmuseums If so a large city with ample opportunity for
you to spend the days among art exhibits and historical
pieces is probably best suited for you Perhaps yoursquore a
couple who consider themselves literary Take some time
to research places where literary authors made history
and immerse yourself in these same spots Maybe a good
time for you means spending most of your days beach-
side Be sure to choose a honeymoon destination where
you can spend your days on the beach and take part in
activities on the water Enjoying the overall culture of your
destination is an important key to having a happy and ful-983142illing experience on your honeymoon
You neednrsquot spend an outrageous amount of money
traveling to a tropical destination either Chances are
that there are beautiful spots closer than you think where
you could make great memories doing the things you both
love In fact building your honeymoon itinerary around
the activities you love allows you to consider an array of
vacation spots that 983142it a number of budgets Whether itrsquos
staying in your country your state or even your own city
yoursquore bound to 983142ind a number of ways to celebrate They
key is to narrow down activities that are important to you
both and plan your honeymoon around cities where youknow you can have a good time doing the things you enjoy
If you are hoping to spend your vacation traveling to
faraway destinations there are other ways to be budget-
conscious while still having a good time overseas Cruises
are one honeymoon option that more and more couples
are taking advantage of every day Theyrsquore great for those
hoping to get more bang for their buck According to Lux-
ury Travel Magazine ldquowith some cruise lines port taxes
meals drinks entertainment activities and even tips are
all included in the upfront cost of a cruise Itrsquos easy to work
out a per-day cost to compare to other forms of travelrdquo
Taking a cruise also simpli983142ies the logistical process of
vacationing For example you need only unpack and pack
once Most if not all meals are included in the passen-
ger fare as well as an array of activities to be enjoyed on
the ship Splurging on meals at local spots where the ship
docks allows couples to experience 983142ine dining without
having to worry about shelling out cash at every single
meal The same goes for activities Many cruise lines orga-
nize activities off the ship that couples can take part in
such as scuba diving and museum tours which means less
hassle and work involved in 983142inding fun things to do in
your destination city leaving more time both on and offthe boat to enjoy yourselves to the fullest
A similar option for those who donrsquot want to deal with
all the stress and planning of both a wedding and a hon-
eymoon is the all-inclusive resort All-inclusives are great
for those looking for a hassle-free experience Couples can
How to choose how and where to honeymoon
pamper themselves and share all of the same bene983142its as
cruisers such as included activities and meals Just be sure
to choose a destination yoursquod both be interested in explor-
ing and experiencing to some depth because you likely
wonrsquot be doing much more than day trips to closer more
local spots This is de983142initely an upside for those looking
to stay in one place for longer and more deeply immerse
themselves in the culture art and cuisine of one location
of their choosing rather than visiting an array of destina-
tions for a short amount of time
Itrsquos clear that no matter your focus interest or budget
there are several different options to take advantage of
when creating a lasting honeymoon experienceCreatorscom
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Best guestEtiquette tips for wedding attendees Kristen Castillo x
Once the invitation arrives in
the mail you start asking your-
self questions ldquoWhat should I
wearrdquo ldquoWhat gift should I getrdquo
ldquoCan I invite a guestrdquo
All of these questions and more are com-
mon concerns for wedding guests Read on
for tips from wedding and etiquette profes-sionals for answers to your questions and
983142ind out what it takes to be a great guest
Can you bring a dateThe general rule The only people who
can attend the wedding are the ones listed
on the invitation So if the invite says ldquoMr
and Mrs Jonesrdquo then only the husband
and wife can attend If it just says ldquoMiss
Jonesrdquo then the woman must attend the
wedding aloneMake sure you RSVP for the wedding
by the date indicated on the invitation
Showing up anyway after neglecting to
RSVP is a big no-no
If your childrenrsquos names arenrsquot listed on
the invitation donrsquot show up to the wed-
ding as a family
ldquoA gentle way to deal with this situation
is to have the family table off to the side
or back of the reception areardquo says author
and etiquette expert Jacqueline Whitmore
who is also the founder of The ProtocolSchool of Palm Beach
Another option The bride and groom
might provide guests who have children
the ldquoname of a reputable baby sitter in
your area who is willing to accommodate
parents who want to attend the weddingrdquo
suggests Whitmore
What to wearWeddings tend to be dressy events but
exactly how dressyIf the invitation says ldquoblack tierdquo wear a
tuxedo
Otherwise ldquoa man should wear a suit
and a woman should wear a cocktail dress
or Sunday bestrdquo says wedding planner
Fran Plodkowski of Social Graces noting
beach weddings can be more casualldquoRemember it is a weddingrdquo says Plod-
kowski ldquoLook your bestrdquo
Gift guideGiving a wedding gift is customary but do
you give a gift off the couplersquos registry or
write a check If so how much to give
Therersquos no 983142ixed answer here
ldquoPeople do not know how much to giverdquo
says Plodkowski who advises guests to
give what they want to and can afford
Still you donrsquot have to give a gift of equal value to the price of the dinner especially
since many weddings are big budget
Typically the closer guests are to the
bride and groom the more theyrsquoll give For
example the groomrsquos sister would give a
larger gift than his co-worker would
Time mattersGuests often mistakenly assume weddings
donrsquot start on time
ldquoAs a result we see guests that purpose-fully arrive laterdquo says Camille McLamb
founder and lead coordinator at Camille
Victoria Weddings noting ceremony and
reception schedules are 983142ixed to accom-
modate parties and events throughout
the day
ldquoGuests should plan to arrive at least10 minutes before the start time listed on
the invitationrdquo urges McLamb ldquoIf a guest
ends up arriving late she should try to
check if the bridal party is lined up before
going inside If the bridal party is lined up
and about to go down the aisle the guest
should wait off to the side until the pro-
cessional is over and then sneak in up a
side aislerdquo
Remember yoursquore not
the photographerSure itrsquos exciting to capture the wedding in
photos but remember yoursquore a guest not
a photographer on assignment
ldquoDonrsquot photobomb the vowsrdquo says eti-
quette expert Cheryl Seidel ldquoRemember
therersquos probably a professional photogra-
pher somewhere behind you trying to do
the job the couple has hired him to dordquo
Seidel also reminds guests to not block
people behind them instead sit in the
back or on the far aisle Also donrsquot use aniPad to shoot photos ldquoTherersquos no way you
can be inconspicuousrdquo she says
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Before you post your pictures to social media such
as Instagram and Facebook make sure the couple
approve
Whatrsquos for dinnerEven if the reception venue is a restaurant itrsquos not OK
for guests to order whatever they want Thatrsquos because
the menu is preordered and paid for by the bride and
groom Even vegetarian vegan or specialty-diet meals
are ordered ahead of time
Guests with special dietary needs such as gluten
intolerance or nut allergies should inform the bride
and groom at the time of RSVP
AccessibilityOften guests worry about getting in and around the cer-emony and reception venues
ldquoEspecially with the rise in loft weddings not all wed-
ding venues have elevatorsrdquo says McLamb For elderly
and disabled guests ldquostairs and moving from one space
to another within a venue can present dif983142icultiesrdquo
McLamb advises brides and grooms to tell guests
about any potential accessibility challenges at the venue
so the guests can prepare ahead of time She also says
couples should reserve some tables for elderly guests
during cocktail hour Creatorscom Before you post your pictures to social media such as Instagram and Facebook make sure the couple approves(CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF NICHOLAS PURCELL STUDIO)
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HELPERS TASKERS
AND OTHER PARTY FIXERSShould you hire online help for your big day
Kristen Castillo x
W edding planning is 983142illed
with details large and small
Finding help isnrsquot always
easy but itrsquos necessary
Need help planning your engagement
party Want assistance assembling your welcome bags Loo king for som eon e
with nice penmanship to write out your
place cards
It used to be that yoursquod have to do these
jobs yourself ask friends or family or hire
an event professional So what should you
do when yoursquore overwhelmed and family
and friends arenrsquot available Nowadays
you can go online to hire helpers to get the
job done
Thatrsquos what happened for a couplersquos
wedding in Los Angeles The groom sur-
prised his bride during the reception with
her favorite New England treat Hoodsie
Cups which are paper cups 983142illed with
a mix of both chocolate and vanilla ice
cream But 983142irst the groom had to 983142igure
out how to get the frozen dessert to the
West Coast for his bride who is originally
from New England He hired a ldquoTaskerrdquo
via TaskRabbit the leading on-demand
home services app connecting busy peo-
ple with a network of Taskers in theirarea mdash or in this case someone from the
Northeast who could buy and overnight
ship 150 ice-cream cups in an industrial
strength cooler
The groom tells TaskRabbit that making
the Hoodsie Cups surprise happen was
ldquode983142initely a memory the both of us will
have for the rest of our livesrdquo and he says
that without the Taskerrsquos help he doesnrsquot
think he could have made it happen
Help for hireMany couples are hiring helpers to assist
with pre-wedding prep including every-
thing from envelope calligraphy to deco-
rating the venue to DJrsquoing or baking the
wedding cake
Some brides and grooms solicit the help
online with ads on Craigslist or v ia social
media posts asking for help with certain
wedding tasks S ites like TaskRabbit are
growing too
ldquoTaskers helping with weddings has become a big thing in the past two yearsrdquo
says Jamie Viggiano TaskRabbitrsquos VP of
marketing citing examples like helping
to plan a surprise engagement by deco-
rating an apartment with hundreds of
rose petals and LED candles deliver-
ing a wedding cake in Washington DC
and helping assemble and deliver flower
arrangements
Additional wedding tasks completed
include picking up and delivering last-
minute items like ice batteries and coffee
sorting scanning and uploading photos
for a wedding slideshow and setting up
wedding FaceTime sessions between the
couple and their loved ones who couldnrsquot
attend the ceremony in person ldquoThis has
been done a number of times with older
clients who arenrsquot savvy with technolo983143yrdquo
says Viggiano
PricingPaying for wedding help a la carte seems
to be a 983142it for couples who canrsquot afford or
donrsquot want to hire professional weddingcoordinators Some brides and grooms
list the project budget in their social media
and Craigslist posts others take bids from
anyone who responds to the ads
On TaskRabbit Taskers set their own
hourly rate by category When clients
post a task TaskRabbit provides a list of
several candidates in the area and the
individualrsquos skills The client pays once
the task is 983142inished
ldquoBrides and grooms are recognizing that
they donrsquot need to do all the wedding prep
on their own and that they can outsource
some of the more mundane tedious tasks
to quali983142ied peoplerdquo says Viggiano noting
that outsourcing the work ldquomakes a stress-
ful situation less stressfulrdquo
Buyer bewareSome wedding experts caution brides and
grooms that hiring a stranger to assist with
wedding details might not be a good idea
The reason Typically the helper is inex-
perienced with weddings and might not be
accountableldquoUnless you are a really laid-back bride
I would not recommend hiring helpers in
this wayrdquo says Michelle Balducci-Connelly
of Michelle Marie Photographie ldquoCraigslist
workers have little to no repercussions if
they donrsquot perform A professional will
have a reputation to uphold and has an
incentive to perform well because they are
making a career out of their servicerdquo
Still she understands the appeal of hir-
ing wedding helpers
ldquoWith ever-increasing costs of wed-
dings my couples are always looking to
save in areas they deem appropriaterdquo
says Balducci-Connelly noting that hiring
a day-of planner for example would cost
anywhere from $500 to $1000 for recep-
tion setup and organization compared to
a hired helper who would likely charge
an hourly or flat rate ldquothat would be far
less than a day-of coordinator would
chargerdquo
Before hiring anyone to help with your
event get references if possible and
make sure yoursquore comfortable with theirskills reliability and overall credibility
You only get one chance to make your
wedding day a success so be con983142ident in
your hiring decisions
Creatorscom
Many couples hire helpers to assist them with wedding planning such as ldquoTaskersrdquo from TaskRabbit CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF TASKRABBIT
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Dress trendsLooking your best on the big day Julia Price x
W eddings are a big deal All
the planning coordinating
decision-making letdowns
stressful situations mdash they
all fade away and become worth it the
moment the bride walks down the aisle
So of course no pressure with picking out
the perfect dress or anything rightBut really itrsquos hard to go wrong nowa-
days Luckily for everyone the lsquo80s have
come and gone and have graciously taken
their wedding dress signature styles with
them
In general wedding dresses are veer-
ing toward a less poofy look and going
toward a sleeker form-983142itting hourglass
shape This creates a more dramatic effect
when the train of the dress 983142ills out behind
the bride while also enhancing feminine
strength in the upper body
Another trend this season is the
off-the-shoulder look Several years ago
the sleeveless dress was a big hit but now
itrsquos been slightly modi983142ied to keep the shoul-
ders bare with the straps lightly hanging off
Whether the dress is white silk Chantilly
lace or ballgown-style this off-the-shoul-
der appeal creates a delicate look
The popular shabby chic furniture trend
seems to have influenced brides-to-be as
well Seeing as many couples are choos-ing the country feel mdash complete with
Mason jars mdash for their big day it makes
sense that women are looking for a dress
to match that vibe Yoursquoll see more and
more dresses with corded details and lace
accents and yoursquoll see less beadwork than
you had on some of the past looks
Also trending this season is embellishing
the back of the dress In addition to adding
a new element of beauty it makes sense
because guests wil l have a close visual of
the bridersquos back as shersquos approaching her
husband-to-be Intricate detailing on the
Trending this season is embellishing the back of the dressCREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF JULIA PRICE
back might include a crisscross or spar-
kling tulle Some brides are opting for
completely backless dresses This goes well
with layers of lace and the silhouette look
Though itrsquos good to look for many
options online (try bridescom or search for
your perfect look on Pinterest) yoursquove got
to trust your gut with what feels right for
you This is one of those situations where
no matter who else speaks up as long as
yoursquore saying ldquoI dordquo to the dress then
yoursquore going to be happy Creatorscom
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Plus-size bridesBridal beauty at any size
Kristen Castillo x
T here is a wedding gown for every
bride but if yoursquore over size 14
it might be a challenge to 983142ind
the perfect dress Luckily thatrsquos
changing Thanks to the TLC television show
ldquoCurvy Bridesrdquo and bridal shops that cater to
plus-size brides itrsquos getting easier for brides
of all sizes to 983142ind their dream dresses
These days the average woman in the
US wears a size 14 and yet bridal gownstraditionally are made for smaller sizes
ldquoPlus-size for us means anyone who
has had trouble 983142inding dresses to 983142it them
elsewhererdquo say Yuneisia Harris and Yukia
Walker owners of full-983142igured bridal salon
Curvaceous Couture and stars of ldquoCurvy
Bridesrdquo
Walker knows how frustrating it can
be for plus-sized brides to 983142ind a gown
After getting engaged she struggled to
983142ind sample gowns and ultimately didnrsquot
like the dress she chose Out of that expe-
rience she and her sister started their
company
The sisters explain that in evenin983143wear
and in bridal everything is cut smaller
ldquoSo while a person might have a smaller
street size like a 12 or a 14 in a wedding
gown they might have to order something
as large as a 20rdquo
That means when traditional bridal
salons have sample dresses in sizes 8 to 12ldquotheyrsquore really only servicing brides whose
street size is 4 to 10rdquo say Harris and Walker
Plus-Size PerceptionsThe notion of plus-size bridal fashion car-
ries many misconceptions In some cases
brides arenrsquot aware that plus-sizing exists
in the wedding world because itrsquos typi-
cally underrepresented or not seen at all
Often plus-size brides end up buying
wedding gowns online mdash one of the few
places with larger sizes
Still others assume dresses in larger
sizes should be plain and not embellished
ldquothat plus-size women donrsquot desire the
same beautiful dresses and fabrics as theirstraight-size counterpartsrdquo says Erena
Shklovsky creative director and head
designer for plus-size designer IGIGI not-
ing that many plus-size brides want ldquodeli-
cate beading luxe fabrics and innovative
cuts just like other bridesrdquo
Another misconception That being
plus-sized means you need to cover up
ldquoIrsquod say that 60 percent of our brides ini-
tially ask us to add a sleeve or a shawl to
a dress because theyrsquore afraid of showing
their arms or backrdquo say Harris and Walkernoting that adding a sleeve or a strap for
example ldquois not the most flattering choice
for a briderdquo
In other cases gowns with straps
sleeves and extra fabric can make a bride
look matronly
ldquoWe just want our brides to be happy
with their dresses and sometimes that
means helping them embrace their natu-
ral beautyrdquo say Harris and Walker who
feel viewers like the show because it allows
them to see brides they relate to try on and
look great in gorgeous gowns
Fashionable Choices
Designing full-983142igured fashions involvesmore than simply adding extra fabric
Because every bride has a different size
and body shape gowns need specialized
983142its including built-in support for large
busts for example
More fashion lines and bridal lines are
starting to embrace women of all sizes
Harris and Walker praise designers like Roz
la Kelin and Enzoani for being some of the
983142irst designers to offer plus-size samples
ldquoI think the biggest and best addition
to plus-size bridal collections is ChristianSirianorsquos dress for Nicolette Masonrdquo says
Shklovsky ldquoIt showed the rest of the fash-
ion world that plus-sized women deserve
more than to be covered with loads and
loads of fabricrdquo
Still no wedding gown is truly ready-to-
wear All dresses need alterations including
changes to hemlines bust lines waistlines
sleeves and shoulder straps No matter
what the dress size a perfect 983142it is flattering
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DIY all-in-one or party rental suppliers Chelle Cordero x
Itrsquos your wedding day and there areso many plans to be made You want
the day to be spectacular Between
budgets traditions choosing a loca-
tion considering the time of year and
weather and most importantly your idea
of a dream wedding mdash itrsquos enough to make
your head spin
You may choose an all-in-one venue that
comes with its own gorgeous setting cater-
ing waitstaff tables and chairs and hope
that the cost is within your reach DIY
wedding plans may or may not be moreeconomical but many excited couples opt
for more personalized settings and control
over the way things are done One thing is
for sure You probably donrsquot own enough
chairs tables and service to make it hap-
pen without help
You could always buy the folding chairs
and tables linens and glassware for your
event but then you need a place to store
everything before and after the party
Owning everything makes you solely respon-
sible for cleaning and ironing linens polish-
ing service and washing all of the dishware before and after use (especially if itrsquos been
sitting awhile) It is often more ef983142icient to
simply rent what you need for each occasion
if you plan to throw several parties
Letrsquos go rental
Every bride in your family before
you was married in Aunt Franrsquos parlor
and thatrsquos the beginning yoursquove always
dreamed of with a reception in the back-
yard But then you remember the light rain
shower during your cousinrsquos gala and how
it chased everyone away Yoursquoll need seat-ing and decorations for inside and yoursquoll
want to add a tent to the tables chairs and
buffet setting outside Or maybe the old
barn could be gussied up for a fancy do
but the dirt floor leaves a lot to be desired
especially when it comes to dancing -- but
thatrsquos not a problem if you add a rented
dance floor (or more)
Party rental companies offer everything
from aisle covers to wine glasses Choose
table linens centerpieces pole covers (to
hide tent supports) dance floors of various
sizes stages and more If you are worriedabout the weather 983142ind tents for outdoor
parties they come with sides or open with
options for fans or heaters for comfort
Serve delicious meals with gas or charcoal
grill rentals and buffet-style cha983142ing dishes
There is no limit to what you can do Paper
plates are great for picnics but if you pre-
fer restaurant-style service 983142ind china
charger plates silver service goblets and
flutes and linen napkins and tablecloths
Check out the party supply rental com-
panies in your area to 983142ind out what theyoffer and compare prices Make sure to
include delivery costs as well as delivery
terms such as how far in advance they will
deliver and when they will pick up after the
affair Visit the showrooms to see the qual-
ity of merchandise they offer By all means
get recommendations and warnings from
other consumers you certainly donrsquot want
to 983142ind out on the day of the party that the
tablecloths are stained or that you were
shorted on the glassware Ask about their
reputation for reliability their willingness
to work with you and whether there is an
extra charge for setup Also 983142ind out in what
condition the items have to be returned
mdash eg do the dishes need to be washedor simply scraped do the linens need to
be laundered and what are the costs for
breakage If possible compare the prices
quality service and reputations of a few
companies before making a 983142inal decision
Some party rental suppliers will work
with area vendors such as caterers and
wait staff to help you 983142ind a complete
package for your magical day Make an
appointment to sit down with your cho-
sen rental company and explain your
vision to them A party planner can makehelpful suggestions based on the compa-
nyrsquos experience with previous weddings
and parties They can tell you how many
plates glasses and flatware sets to rent
based on the number of people invited
always order a few extra pieces in case of
breakage or unexpected guests Read the
contract carefully to verify that all dates
quantities and service details are spelled
out correctly Creatorscom
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Le menu du jour
New trends in menu cards Sharon Naylor x
W hen printed menu cards
983142irst showed up as wed-
ding table additions guests
loved reading those delec-
table descriptions of the courses to come
during the dinner There was at 983142irst one
printed card per round table then four
or so spaced apart on long tables Guests
took turns looking at the elegantly printedcards with the dazzling print script Soon
individual menu cards were placed on
each guestrsquos plate for easier use and now
those individual menu cards are being per-
sonalized to each guest
ldquoYour tablescape offers countless oppor-
tunities to wow guests with custom details
and personalized menu cards are func-
tional and beautiful while making guests
feel like an important part of your big dayrdquo
says Vanessa Wicks event sales director at
Weylin B Seymourrsquos a historic event venue
in Brooklyn that has been the site of celeb-
rity weddings and events
When guests arrive at their tables they
983142ind their names printed on the menu
cards showing that you value their pres-
ence on their big day And the artistry of
their name handwritten in calligraphy
complements the loveliness of your wed-
ding design Yoursquove taken great care withthe smallest of details elevating your wed-
ding as a whole
Another advantage of customized menu
cards is the ability to tailor guestsrsquo special
menu requirements such as a gluten-free
vegan or kosher meal When guests see
their menu card they know right away
that yoursquove heard and honored their
requests They donrsquot need to be anxious
about their special meals
To help you create your personalized
menu cards keep the following tips in
mind
bull Spell names correctly Triple-check
your invitations list looking at guestsrsquosocial media pages for backup to be sure
each guestrsquos name is spelled correctly It
would be an awful faux pas if you created
a card for ldquoJohnrdquo when he goes by ldquoJonrdquo
bull Plan for dim lighting Your recep -
tion ballroom may be dimly lit illumi-
nated by candles and that low light can
make light-colored print dif983142icult to read
Larger script in a good contrasting shade
makes your menu card easier to see Not
all guests bring their reading glasses with
them Metallic print will capture candle-light so consider shimmery lettering
bull Create personalized menu cards for
children as well Theirs can be designed
differently than adult guestsrsquo cards using
kid-themed colors and motifs Add a print
game to the back of the card to provide a
fun activity
bull Add an accent to the back of guestsrsquo
menu cards A personalized note from you
may be extra work but it goes a long way
to making your guests feel like VIPs Or if
a personalized message isnrsquot realistic for
your time and budget print an inspiring
and romantic or a foodie-themed quote
on the back of each cardbull Ask your chef to help Make your menu
card mouth-watering with chef-provided
dish descriptions of each course
bull Include drink pairing choices with
each course Again your chef or bar man-
ager can provide pairing ideas using vin-
tages and cocktails that will be served at
your wedding
You might be wondering whether per-
sonalized menu cards at each guestrsquos
seat will tell each guest where to sit at
the table While guests are free to switchseats it is a good idea to put your guest
menu cards in order by table so that
staffers handling your weddingrsquos table
setups can place cards in the order you
prefer seating spouses and families next
to each other
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
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Seating arrangementsTop trends in wedding place cards Sharon Naylor x
Y ou may have seen guests
crowded around a reception
table searching for their alpha-
betically arranged place cards
That shoulder-to-shoulder press of guests
has long been a scene at weddings and
todayrsquos innovations help eliminate the
long line and discomfort of trying to read
those small cards
Now the traditional card kerfuffle may
be replaced by a new display It rsquos a top
wedding trend and a popular place card
option seen on Pinterest is to eliminate the
printed card and write guestsrsquo names on a
tall vertical display such as a glass window
or mirror Guestsrsquo names and table num-
bers c an be displayed on signs installed
behind the bar or hung in frames gallery-
style on the walls at the cocktail partyThese vertical card-free table assignments
become decor pieces as well as easy-to-use
directions for guests
Vertical displays have also given the
tradition a twist by listing guestsrsquo names
according to table number not alpha-
betically Itrsquos easy for guests to spot their
names under say Table 7 and they can
see names of the other guests with whom
theyrsquore seated No more standing by the
place card table little card in hand ask-
ing their friends ldquoWhere are you sittingrdquo
Jenny Orsini wedding planner says that
this place card display creates better
momentum for your celebration allowing
guests to move right into the cocktail party
or reception without that ldquopileup of name-
searching at an entry tablerdquo
If you do wish to have printed place
cards use pretty cardstock and gorgeous
fonts that coordinate with your wedding
invitations and other print items at your wedding Decorat ive borders seasonal
colors theme motifs and elegant hand-
writing or print on the cards are all great
options (ldquoJust no computer-printed labels
pleaserdquo says Orsini pointing to the lack of
elegance in that method)
As an alternative to the tented card
flat cards are also used mdash perhaps stood
up in sand- grass- or floral-983142illed trays
for a pretty presentation These flat cards
may be attached to take-home favors like
ornate keys or charms And flat cards are
also being af983142ixed via ribbon to mini bot-
tles of bourbon tequila chocolate liqueur
or other take-home tastes that work dou-
ble-duty as place cards and favors
And another trend in wedding place
cards is writing guestsrsquo names in metallic
pen on shiny green leaves or on polished
river stones for a natural feel to comple-
ment wedding decor This natural style
is a thrill for guests since they can takethe ldquocardrdquo home and put it on display
perhaps next to a framed photo of them-
selves taken at the wedding That adds
more appreciation for your chosen design
than a simple printed card theyrsquore likely to
leave on the table at the end of the night
Speaking of keepsakes a framed dis-
play of guestsrsquo names and table numbers
becomes a wonderful keepsake for you
Perhaps a dating or engaged couple who
originally met at your wedding seated
together at Table 7 will want the display
to be shown at their wedding someday
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additionalwedding books Creatorscom
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All in the approachMaking your wedding path stand out
Sharon Naylor x
A s you plan your wedding decor
donrsquot forget about the paths
leading to your ceremony and
reception You may have cho-
sen your wedding location simply for the
beauty of the venue itself but you cancreate a fabulous scene for your arriving
guests by decorating the trees along the
driveway or footpath Their anticipation
builds as they see your decor and light-
ing effects along the way giving them an
even more magical 983142irst impression of your
wedding day And if your venue is one that
your guests have been to for other wed-
dings decorating the approach to the site
makes for a new unique experience
Here are some ways to make your wedding paths stand out
Hanging floralsAdorn the pathrsquos tree line with flowers and
garlands that hint at your weddingrsquos floral
motif Joyce Maffeo florist at BloomNa-
tion says ldquoYou can either display flowers
on their own such as by stringing florals
on ribbon or 983142ishing wire or display flow-
ers inside antique bottles or other glass
vesselsrdquo The advantage of the in-vessel
flower display is that flowers stay hydrated with a bit of water in the bottle allowing
them to hold up well in late-summerearly-
fall sunshine
Some open-air flowers that Maffeo
recommends for their staying power
include orchids eucalyptuses and strung
daisies
ldquoFor in-vessel flowers consider protea
orchids hypericum and ornamental kale
for a pop of purple colorrdquo says Maffeo
ldquoWreaths hanging from trees also add to
the beautiful approachrdquo One flower to be
wary of since it easily wilts in the sun is
hydrangea Maffeo suggests instead using
bunches of carnations which hold up
better in the sun
This knowledge of flowersrsquo strength in
sunshine mdash important since your floral
team will likely set up your approach
decor several hours before your wedding
mdash is one example of why you should have
professionals create your floral pieces
String lights andhanging lanternsFor a sunset or evening wedding string
lights arranged in the trees add breath-
taking effect whether you use just a few
string lights per tree or many In addi-
tion to string lights lanterns hung from
S-hooks on the trees create that trendy
look of rustic elegance And you can take
those lanterns home after the wedding to
use them in your own backyard
Non-hanging lanternsTall lanterns clustered along a path or set
on stairs leading to the wedding sites are
a new top trend for weddings this year
and next Lanterns may be metallic such
as copper or bronze or rustic-themed in
white or black Upscale home decor stores
sell lanterns as part of the outdoor enter-
taining trend These larger lanterns can be
used at home after your big day
Candles
Position a large number of traditional orLED candles in glass vessels at the entrance
to your ceremony or reception spot This
is a stunning look for exterior doors and
if you have a portico that guests will pass
through to get to an inner ceremony or
celebration space arrange a large amount
of vessel-nested candles on either side of a
clear walking pathway
Tiki torchesldquoThe use of Tiki torches creates not only
a path to the reception but also softens
the lighting for a romantic moodrdquo says
Allison Sells catering manager for Caneel
Bay Resort in the US Virgin Islands Since
Tiki torches create one single light source
per torch pair them with overhead string
lights or ground-set lanterns to multiply
your lighting effect
UplightingSetting lights at the base of trees and
directing the light upward gives those trees
a magical and impressive glow Sells says
that uplighting palm trees creates a ldquowowrdquofactor especially complementing a tropical
wedding location
Signs
Chalkboard signs with personalized
messages can be used multiple times along
the path with friendly welcome messages
invitations to ldquoGet the party startedrdquo and
directions to wedding sites In the evening
try lit marquee signs illuminating the path
with words like ldquoLoverdquo ldquoXOXOrdquo or your
monogram These too can be take-home
decor to forever remind you of your big
day
MusicPiped-in music along your path adds a wel-
coming soundtrack to the approach
If your venue has an interesting history
beautiful scenery or perhaps a s tunning
sunset that will light up the sky with colors
during your weddingrsquos arrival time you
might not need any additional decor or
lighting at all Mother Nature has taken
care of that as her wedding gift to you
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
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Teresa Iqbal x
T he honeymoon is typically the last climactic
event of the wedding process As the culminat-
ing event that pulls everything together and
leaves couples with their 983142irst opportunity to
relax and begin enjoying life together itrsquos important to
make it as enjoyable as possible But where do you begin
when it comes to choosing where and how to enjoy your
983142irst moments together as a married couple on your
honeymoon
Choosing a honeymoon destination that represents
your interests as a couple is perhaps the best place to start
narrowing down destination choices Do you love art andmuseums If so a large city with ample opportunity for
you to spend the days among art exhibits and historical
pieces is probably best suited for you Perhaps yoursquore a
couple who consider themselves literary Take some time
to research places where literary authors made history
and immerse yourself in these same spots Maybe a good
time for you means spending most of your days beach-
side Be sure to choose a honeymoon destination where
you can spend your days on the beach and take part in
activities on the water Enjoying the overall culture of your
destination is an important key to having a happy and ful-983142illing experience on your honeymoon
You neednrsquot spend an outrageous amount of money
traveling to a tropical destination either Chances are
that there are beautiful spots closer than you think where
you could make great memories doing the things you both
love In fact building your honeymoon itinerary around
the activities you love allows you to consider an array of
vacation spots that 983142it a number of budgets Whether itrsquos
staying in your country your state or even your own city
yoursquore bound to 983142ind a number of ways to celebrate They
key is to narrow down activities that are important to you
both and plan your honeymoon around cities where youknow you can have a good time doing the things you enjoy
If you are hoping to spend your vacation traveling to
faraway destinations there are other ways to be budget-
conscious while still having a good time overseas Cruises
are one honeymoon option that more and more couples
are taking advantage of every day Theyrsquore great for those
hoping to get more bang for their buck According to Lux-
ury Travel Magazine ldquowith some cruise lines port taxes
meals drinks entertainment activities and even tips are
all included in the upfront cost of a cruise Itrsquos easy to work
out a per-day cost to compare to other forms of travelrdquo
Taking a cruise also simpli983142ies the logistical process of
vacationing For example you need only unpack and pack
once Most if not all meals are included in the passen-
ger fare as well as an array of activities to be enjoyed on
the ship Splurging on meals at local spots where the ship
docks allows couples to experience 983142ine dining without
having to worry about shelling out cash at every single
meal The same goes for activities Many cruise lines orga-
nize activities off the ship that couples can take part in
such as scuba diving and museum tours which means less
hassle and work involved in 983142inding fun things to do in
your destination city leaving more time both on and offthe boat to enjoy yourselves to the fullest
A similar option for those who donrsquot want to deal with
all the stress and planning of both a wedding and a hon-
eymoon is the all-inclusive resort All-inclusives are great
for those looking for a hassle-free experience Couples can
How to choose how and where to honeymoon
pamper themselves and share all of the same bene983142its as
cruisers such as included activities and meals Just be sure
to choose a destination yoursquod both be interested in explor-
ing and experiencing to some depth because you likely
wonrsquot be doing much more than day trips to closer more
local spots This is de983142initely an upside for those looking
to stay in one place for longer and more deeply immerse
themselves in the culture art and cuisine of one location
of their choosing rather than visiting an array of destina-
tions for a short amount of time
Itrsquos clear that no matter your focus interest or budget
there are several different options to take advantage of
when creating a lasting honeymoon experienceCreatorscom
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Best guestEtiquette tips for wedding attendees Kristen Castillo x
Once the invitation arrives in
the mail you start asking your-
self questions ldquoWhat should I
wearrdquo ldquoWhat gift should I getrdquo
ldquoCan I invite a guestrdquo
All of these questions and more are com-
mon concerns for wedding guests Read on
for tips from wedding and etiquette profes-sionals for answers to your questions and
983142ind out what it takes to be a great guest
Can you bring a dateThe general rule The only people who
can attend the wedding are the ones listed
on the invitation So if the invite says ldquoMr
and Mrs Jonesrdquo then only the husband
and wife can attend If it just says ldquoMiss
Jonesrdquo then the woman must attend the
wedding aloneMake sure you RSVP for the wedding
by the date indicated on the invitation
Showing up anyway after neglecting to
RSVP is a big no-no
If your childrenrsquos names arenrsquot listed on
the invitation donrsquot show up to the wed-
ding as a family
ldquoA gentle way to deal with this situation
is to have the family table off to the side
or back of the reception areardquo says author
and etiquette expert Jacqueline Whitmore
who is also the founder of The ProtocolSchool of Palm Beach
Another option The bride and groom
might provide guests who have children
the ldquoname of a reputable baby sitter in
your area who is willing to accommodate
parents who want to attend the weddingrdquo
suggests Whitmore
What to wearWeddings tend to be dressy events but
exactly how dressyIf the invitation says ldquoblack tierdquo wear a
tuxedo
Otherwise ldquoa man should wear a suit
and a woman should wear a cocktail dress
or Sunday bestrdquo says wedding planner
Fran Plodkowski of Social Graces noting
beach weddings can be more casualldquoRemember it is a weddingrdquo says Plod-
kowski ldquoLook your bestrdquo
Gift guideGiving a wedding gift is customary but do
you give a gift off the couplersquos registry or
write a check If so how much to give
Therersquos no 983142ixed answer here
ldquoPeople do not know how much to giverdquo
says Plodkowski who advises guests to
give what they want to and can afford
Still you donrsquot have to give a gift of equal value to the price of the dinner especially
since many weddings are big budget
Typically the closer guests are to the
bride and groom the more theyrsquoll give For
example the groomrsquos sister would give a
larger gift than his co-worker would
Time mattersGuests often mistakenly assume weddings
donrsquot start on time
ldquoAs a result we see guests that purpose-fully arrive laterdquo says Camille McLamb
founder and lead coordinator at Camille
Victoria Weddings noting ceremony and
reception schedules are 983142ixed to accom-
modate parties and events throughout
the day
ldquoGuests should plan to arrive at least10 minutes before the start time listed on
the invitationrdquo urges McLamb ldquoIf a guest
ends up arriving late she should try to
check if the bridal party is lined up before
going inside If the bridal party is lined up
and about to go down the aisle the guest
should wait off to the side until the pro-
cessional is over and then sneak in up a
side aislerdquo
Remember yoursquore not
the photographerSure itrsquos exciting to capture the wedding in
photos but remember yoursquore a guest not
a photographer on assignment
ldquoDonrsquot photobomb the vowsrdquo says eti-
quette expert Cheryl Seidel ldquoRemember
therersquos probably a professional photogra-
pher somewhere behind you trying to do
the job the couple has hired him to dordquo
Seidel also reminds guests to not block
people behind them instead sit in the
back or on the far aisle Also donrsquot use aniPad to shoot photos ldquoTherersquos no way you
can be inconspicuousrdquo she says
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Before you post your pictures to social media such
as Instagram and Facebook make sure the couple
approve
Whatrsquos for dinnerEven if the reception venue is a restaurant itrsquos not OK
for guests to order whatever they want Thatrsquos because
the menu is preordered and paid for by the bride and
groom Even vegetarian vegan or specialty-diet meals
are ordered ahead of time
Guests with special dietary needs such as gluten
intolerance or nut allergies should inform the bride
and groom at the time of RSVP
AccessibilityOften guests worry about getting in and around the cer-emony and reception venues
ldquoEspecially with the rise in loft weddings not all wed-
ding venues have elevatorsrdquo says McLamb For elderly
and disabled guests ldquostairs and moving from one space
to another within a venue can present dif983142icultiesrdquo
McLamb advises brides and grooms to tell guests
about any potential accessibility challenges at the venue
so the guests can prepare ahead of time She also says
couples should reserve some tables for elderly guests
during cocktail hour Creatorscom Before you post your pictures to social media such as Instagram and Facebook make sure the couple approves(CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF NICHOLAS PURCELL STUDIO)
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HELPERS TASKERS
AND OTHER PARTY FIXERSShould you hire online help for your big day
Kristen Castillo x
W edding planning is 983142illed
with details large and small
Finding help isnrsquot always
easy but itrsquos necessary
Need help planning your engagement
party Want assistance assembling your welcome bags Loo king for som eon e
with nice penmanship to write out your
place cards
It used to be that yoursquod have to do these
jobs yourself ask friends or family or hire
an event professional So what should you
do when yoursquore overwhelmed and family
and friends arenrsquot available Nowadays
you can go online to hire helpers to get the
job done
Thatrsquos what happened for a couplersquos
wedding in Los Angeles The groom sur-
prised his bride during the reception with
her favorite New England treat Hoodsie
Cups which are paper cups 983142illed with
a mix of both chocolate and vanilla ice
cream But 983142irst the groom had to 983142igure
out how to get the frozen dessert to the
West Coast for his bride who is originally
from New England He hired a ldquoTaskerrdquo
via TaskRabbit the leading on-demand
home services app connecting busy peo-
ple with a network of Taskers in theirarea mdash or in this case someone from the
Northeast who could buy and overnight
ship 150 ice-cream cups in an industrial
strength cooler
The groom tells TaskRabbit that making
the Hoodsie Cups surprise happen was
ldquode983142initely a memory the both of us will
have for the rest of our livesrdquo and he says
that without the Taskerrsquos help he doesnrsquot
think he could have made it happen
Help for hireMany couples are hiring helpers to assist
with pre-wedding prep including every-
thing from envelope calligraphy to deco-
rating the venue to DJrsquoing or baking the
wedding cake
Some brides and grooms solicit the help
online with ads on Craigslist or v ia social
media posts asking for help with certain
wedding tasks S ites like TaskRabbit are
growing too
ldquoTaskers helping with weddings has become a big thing in the past two yearsrdquo
says Jamie Viggiano TaskRabbitrsquos VP of
marketing citing examples like helping
to plan a surprise engagement by deco-
rating an apartment with hundreds of
rose petals and LED candles deliver-
ing a wedding cake in Washington DC
and helping assemble and deliver flower
arrangements
Additional wedding tasks completed
include picking up and delivering last-
minute items like ice batteries and coffee
sorting scanning and uploading photos
for a wedding slideshow and setting up
wedding FaceTime sessions between the
couple and their loved ones who couldnrsquot
attend the ceremony in person ldquoThis has
been done a number of times with older
clients who arenrsquot savvy with technolo983143yrdquo
says Viggiano
PricingPaying for wedding help a la carte seems
to be a 983142it for couples who canrsquot afford or
donrsquot want to hire professional weddingcoordinators Some brides and grooms
list the project budget in their social media
and Craigslist posts others take bids from
anyone who responds to the ads
On TaskRabbit Taskers set their own
hourly rate by category When clients
post a task TaskRabbit provides a list of
several candidates in the area and the
individualrsquos skills The client pays once
the task is 983142inished
ldquoBrides and grooms are recognizing that
they donrsquot need to do all the wedding prep
on their own and that they can outsource
some of the more mundane tedious tasks
to quali983142ied peoplerdquo says Viggiano noting
that outsourcing the work ldquomakes a stress-
ful situation less stressfulrdquo
Buyer bewareSome wedding experts caution brides and
grooms that hiring a stranger to assist with
wedding details might not be a good idea
The reason Typically the helper is inex-
perienced with weddings and might not be
accountableldquoUnless you are a really laid-back bride
I would not recommend hiring helpers in
this wayrdquo says Michelle Balducci-Connelly
of Michelle Marie Photographie ldquoCraigslist
workers have little to no repercussions if
they donrsquot perform A professional will
have a reputation to uphold and has an
incentive to perform well because they are
making a career out of their servicerdquo
Still she understands the appeal of hir-
ing wedding helpers
ldquoWith ever-increasing costs of wed-
dings my couples are always looking to
save in areas they deem appropriaterdquo
says Balducci-Connelly noting that hiring
a day-of planner for example would cost
anywhere from $500 to $1000 for recep-
tion setup and organization compared to
a hired helper who would likely charge
an hourly or flat rate ldquothat would be far
less than a day-of coordinator would
chargerdquo
Before hiring anyone to help with your
event get references if possible and
make sure yoursquore comfortable with theirskills reliability and overall credibility
You only get one chance to make your
wedding day a success so be con983142ident in
your hiring decisions
Creatorscom
Many couples hire helpers to assist them with wedding planning such as ldquoTaskersrdquo from TaskRabbit CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF TASKRABBIT
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Dress trendsLooking your best on the big day Julia Price x
W eddings are a big deal All
the planning coordinating
decision-making letdowns
stressful situations mdash they
all fade away and become worth it the
moment the bride walks down the aisle
So of course no pressure with picking out
the perfect dress or anything rightBut really itrsquos hard to go wrong nowa-
days Luckily for everyone the lsquo80s have
come and gone and have graciously taken
their wedding dress signature styles with
them
In general wedding dresses are veer-
ing toward a less poofy look and going
toward a sleeker form-983142itting hourglass
shape This creates a more dramatic effect
when the train of the dress 983142ills out behind
the bride while also enhancing feminine
strength in the upper body
Another trend this season is the
off-the-shoulder look Several years ago
the sleeveless dress was a big hit but now
itrsquos been slightly modi983142ied to keep the shoul-
ders bare with the straps lightly hanging off
Whether the dress is white silk Chantilly
lace or ballgown-style this off-the-shoul-
der appeal creates a delicate look
The popular shabby chic furniture trend
seems to have influenced brides-to-be as
well Seeing as many couples are choos-ing the country feel mdash complete with
Mason jars mdash for their big day it makes
sense that women are looking for a dress
to match that vibe Yoursquoll see more and
more dresses with corded details and lace
accents and yoursquoll see less beadwork than
you had on some of the past looks
Also trending this season is embellishing
the back of the dress In addition to adding
a new element of beauty it makes sense
because guests wil l have a close visual of
the bridersquos back as shersquos approaching her
husband-to-be Intricate detailing on the
Trending this season is embellishing the back of the dressCREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF JULIA PRICE
back might include a crisscross or spar-
kling tulle Some brides are opting for
completely backless dresses This goes well
with layers of lace and the silhouette look
Though itrsquos good to look for many
options online (try bridescom or search for
your perfect look on Pinterest) yoursquove got
to trust your gut with what feels right for
you This is one of those situations where
no matter who else speaks up as long as
yoursquore saying ldquoI dordquo to the dress then
yoursquore going to be happy Creatorscom
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Plus-size bridesBridal beauty at any size
Kristen Castillo x
T here is a wedding gown for every
bride but if yoursquore over size 14
it might be a challenge to 983142ind
the perfect dress Luckily thatrsquos
changing Thanks to the TLC television show
ldquoCurvy Bridesrdquo and bridal shops that cater to
plus-size brides itrsquos getting easier for brides
of all sizes to 983142ind their dream dresses
These days the average woman in the
US wears a size 14 and yet bridal gownstraditionally are made for smaller sizes
ldquoPlus-size for us means anyone who
has had trouble 983142inding dresses to 983142it them
elsewhererdquo say Yuneisia Harris and Yukia
Walker owners of full-983142igured bridal salon
Curvaceous Couture and stars of ldquoCurvy
Bridesrdquo
Walker knows how frustrating it can
be for plus-sized brides to 983142ind a gown
After getting engaged she struggled to
983142ind sample gowns and ultimately didnrsquot
like the dress she chose Out of that expe-
rience she and her sister started their
company
The sisters explain that in evenin983143wear
and in bridal everything is cut smaller
ldquoSo while a person might have a smaller
street size like a 12 or a 14 in a wedding
gown they might have to order something
as large as a 20rdquo
That means when traditional bridal
salons have sample dresses in sizes 8 to 12ldquotheyrsquore really only servicing brides whose
street size is 4 to 10rdquo say Harris and Walker
Plus-Size PerceptionsThe notion of plus-size bridal fashion car-
ries many misconceptions In some cases
brides arenrsquot aware that plus-sizing exists
in the wedding world because itrsquos typi-
cally underrepresented or not seen at all
Often plus-size brides end up buying
wedding gowns online mdash one of the few
places with larger sizes
Still others assume dresses in larger
sizes should be plain and not embellished
ldquothat plus-size women donrsquot desire the
same beautiful dresses and fabrics as theirstraight-size counterpartsrdquo says Erena
Shklovsky creative director and head
designer for plus-size designer IGIGI not-
ing that many plus-size brides want ldquodeli-
cate beading luxe fabrics and innovative
cuts just like other bridesrdquo
Another misconception That being
plus-sized means you need to cover up
ldquoIrsquod say that 60 percent of our brides ini-
tially ask us to add a sleeve or a shawl to
a dress because theyrsquore afraid of showing
their arms or backrdquo say Harris and Walkernoting that adding a sleeve or a strap for
example ldquois not the most flattering choice
for a briderdquo
In other cases gowns with straps
sleeves and extra fabric can make a bride
look matronly
ldquoWe just want our brides to be happy
with their dresses and sometimes that
means helping them embrace their natu-
ral beautyrdquo say Harris and Walker who
feel viewers like the show because it allows
them to see brides they relate to try on and
look great in gorgeous gowns
Fashionable Choices
Designing full-983142igured fashions involvesmore than simply adding extra fabric
Because every bride has a different size
and body shape gowns need specialized
983142its including built-in support for large
busts for example
More fashion lines and bridal lines are
starting to embrace women of all sizes
Harris and Walker praise designers like Roz
la Kelin and Enzoani for being some of the
983142irst designers to offer plus-size samples
ldquoI think the biggest and best addition
to plus-size bridal collections is ChristianSirianorsquos dress for Nicolette Masonrdquo says
Shklovsky ldquoIt showed the rest of the fash-
ion world that plus-sized women deserve
more than to be covered with loads and
loads of fabricrdquo
Still no wedding gown is truly ready-to-
wear All dresses need alterations including
changes to hemlines bust lines waistlines
sleeves and shoulder straps No matter
what the dress size a perfect 983142it is flattering
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DIY all-in-one or party rental suppliers Chelle Cordero x
Itrsquos your wedding day and there areso many plans to be made You want
the day to be spectacular Between
budgets traditions choosing a loca-
tion considering the time of year and
weather and most importantly your idea
of a dream wedding mdash itrsquos enough to make
your head spin
You may choose an all-in-one venue that
comes with its own gorgeous setting cater-
ing waitstaff tables and chairs and hope
that the cost is within your reach DIY
wedding plans may or may not be moreeconomical but many excited couples opt
for more personalized settings and control
over the way things are done One thing is
for sure You probably donrsquot own enough
chairs tables and service to make it hap-
pen without help
You could always buy the folding chairs
and tables linens and glassware for your
event but then you need a place to store
everything before and after the party
Owning everything makes you solely respon-
sible for cleaning and ironing linens polish-
ing service and washing all of the dishware before and after use (especially if itrsquos been
sitting awhile) It is often more ef983142icient to
simply rent what you need for each occasion
if you plan to throw several parties
Letrsquos go rental
Every bride in your family before
you was married in Aunt Franrsquos parlor
and thatrsquos the beginning yoursquove always
dreamed of with a reception in the back-
yard But then you remember the light rain
shower during your cousinrsquos gala and how
it chased everyone away Yoursquoll need seat-ing and decorations for inside and yoursquoll
want to add a tent to the tables chairs and
buffet setting outside Or maybe the old
barn could be gussied up for a fancy do
but the dirt floor leaves a lot to be desired
especially when it comes to dancing -- but
thatrsquos not a problem if you add a rented
dance floor (or more)
Party rental companies offer everything
from aisle covers to wine glasses Choose
table linens centerpieces pole covers (to
hide tent supports) dance floors of various
sizes stages and more If you are worriedabout the weather 983142ind tents for outdoor
parties they come with sides or open with
options for fans or heaters for comfort
Serve delicious meals with gas or charcoal
grill rentals and buffet-style cha983142ing dishes
There is no limit to what you can do Paper
plates are great for picnics but if you pre-
fer restaurant-style service 983142ind china
charger plates silver service goblets and
flutes and linen napkins and tablecloths
Check out the party supply rental com-
panies in your area to 983142ind out what theyoffer and compare prices Make sure to
include delivery costs as well as delivery
terms such as how far in advance they will
deliver and when they will pick up after the
affair Visit the showrooms to see the qual-
ity of merchandise they offer By all means
get recommendations and warnings from
other consumers you certainly donrsquot want
to 983142ind out on the day of the party that the
tablecloths are stained or that you were
shorted on the glassware Ask about their
reputation for reliability their willingness
to work with you and whether there is an
extra charge for setup Also 983142ind out in what
condition the items have to be returned
mdash eg do the dishes need to be washedor simply scraped do the linens need to
be laundered and what are the costs for
breakage If possible compare the prices
quality service and reputations of a few
companies before making a 983142inal decision
Some party rental suppliers will work
with area vendors such as caterers and
wait staff to help you 983142ind a complete
package for your magical day Make an
appointment to sit down with your cho-
sen rental company and explain your
vision to them A party planner can makehelpful suggestions based on the compa-
nyrsquos experience with previous weddings
and parties They can tell you how many
plates glasses and flatware sets to rent
based on the number of people invited
always order a few extra pieces in case of
breakage or unexpected guests Read the
contract carefully to verify that all dates
quantities and service details are spelled
out correctly Creatorscom
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Le menu du jour
New trends in menu cards Sharon Naylor x
W hen printed menu cards
983142irst showed up as wed-
ding table additions guests
loved reading those delec-
table descriptions of the courses to come
during the dinner There was at 983142irst one
printed card per round table then four
or so spaced apart on long tables Guests
took turns looking at the elegantly printedcards with the dazzling print script Soon
individual menu cards were placed on
each guestrsquos plate for easier use and now
those individual menu cards are being per-
sonalized to each guest
ldquoYour tablescape offers countless oppor-
tunities to wow guests with custom details
and personalized menu cards are func-
tional and beautiful while making guests
feel like an important part of your big dayrdquo
says Vanessa Wicks event sales director at
Weylin B Seymourrsquos a historic event venue
in Brooklyn that has been the site of celeb-
rity weddings and events
When guests arrive at their tables they
983142ind their names printed on the menu
cards showing that you value their pres-
ence on their big day And the artistry of
their name handwritten in calligraphy
complements the loveliness of your wed-
ding design Yoursquove taken great care withthe smallest of details elevating your wed-
ding as a whole
Another advantage of customized menu
cards is the ability to tailor guestsrsquo special
menu requirements such as a gluten-free
vegan or kosher meal When guests see
their menu card they know right away
that yoursquove heard and honored their
requests They donrsquot need to be anxious
about their special meals
To help you create your personalized
menu cards keep the following tips in
mind
bull Spell names correctly Triple-check
your invitations list looking at guestsrsquosocial media pages for backup to be sure
each guestrsquos name is spelled correctly It
would be an awful faux pas if you created
a card for ldquoJohnrdquo when he goes by ldquoJonrdquo
bull Plan for dim lighting Your recep -
tion ballroom may be dimly lit illumi-
nated by candles and that low light can
make light-colored print dif983142icult to read
Larger script in a good contrasting shade
makes your menu card easier to see Not
all guests bring their reading glasses with
them Metallic print will capture candle-light so consider shimmery lettering
bull Create personalized menu cards for
children as well Theirs can be designed
differently than adult guestsrsquo cards using
kid-themed colors and motifs Add a print
game to the back of the card to provide a
fun activity
bull Add an accent to the back of guestsrsquo
menu cards A personalized note from you
may be extra work but it goes a long way
to making your guests feel like VIPs Or if
a personalized message isnrsquot realistic for
your time and budget print an inspiring
and romantic or a foodie-themed quote
on the back of each cardbull Ask your chef to help Make your menu
card mouth-watering with chef-provided
dish descriptions of each course
bull Include drink pairing choices with
each course Again your chef or bar man-
ager can provide pairing ideas using vin-
tages and cocktails that will be served at
your wedding
You might be wondering whether per-
sonalized menu cards at each guestrsquos
seat will tell each guest where to sit at
the table While guests are free to switchseats it is a good idea to put your guest
menu cards in order by table so that
staffers handling your weddingrsquos table
setups can place cards in the order you
prefer seating spouses and families next
to each other
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
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Seating arrangementsTop trends in wedding place cards Sharon Naylor x
Y ou may have seen guests
crowded around a reception
table searching for their alpha-
betically arranged place cards
That shoulder-to-shoulder press of guests
has long been a scene at weddings and
todayrsquos innovations help eliminate the
long line and discomfort of trying to read
those small cards
Now the traditional card kerfuffle may
be replaced by a new display It rsquos a top
wedding trend and a popular place card
option seen on Pinterest is to eliminate the
printed card and write guestsrsquo names on a
tall vertical display such as a glass window
or mirror Guestsrsquo names and table num-
bers c an be displayed on signs installed
behind the bar or hung in frames gallery-
style on the walls at the cocktail partyThese vertical card-free table assignments
become decor pieces as well as easy-to-use
directions for guests
Vertical displays have also given the
tradition a twist by listing guestsrsquo names
according to table number not alpha-
betically Itrsquos easy for guests to spot their
names under say Table 7 and they can
see names of the other guests with whom
theyrsquore seated No more standing by the
place card table little card in hand ask-
ing their friends ldquoWhere are you sittingrdquo
Jenny Orsini wedding planner says that
this place card display creates better
momentum for your celebration allowing
guests to move right into the cocktail party
or reception without that ldquopileup of name-
searching at an entry tablerdquo
If you do wish to have printed place
cards use pretty cardstock and gorgeous
fonts that coordinate with your wedding
invitations and other print items at your wedding Decorat ive borders seasonal
colors theme motifs and elegant hand-
writing or print on the cards are all great
options (ldquoJust no computer-printed labels
pleaserdquo says Orsini pointing to the lack of
elegance in that method)
As an alternative to the tented card
flat cards are also used mdash perhaps stood
up in sand- grass- or floral-983142illed trays
for a pretty presentation These flat cards
may be attached to take-home favors like
ornate keys or charms And flat cards are
also being af983142ixed via ribbon to mini bot-
tles of bourbon tequila chocolate liqueur
or other take-home tastes that work dou-
ble-duty as place cards and favors
And another trend in wedding place
cards is writing guestsrsquo names in metallic
pen on shiny green leaves or on polished
river stones for a natural feel to comple-
ment wedding decor This natural style
is a thrill for guests since they can takethe ldquocardrdquo home and put it on display
perhaps next to a framed photo of them-
selves taken at the wedding That adds
more appreciation for your chosen design
than a simple printed card theyrsquore likely to
leave on the table at the end of the night
Speaking of keepsakes a framed dis-
play of guestsrsquo names and table numbers
becomes a wonderful keepsake for you
Perhaps a dating or engaged couple who
originally met at your wedding seated
together at Table 7 will want the display
to be shown at their wedding someday
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additionalwedding books Creatorscom
Leaves and stones are top trends inwedding guest place cardsCREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF MERCEDES NORIEGA
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All in the approachMaking your wedding path stand out
Sharon Naylor x
A s you plan your wedding decor
donrsquot forget about the paths
leading to your ceremony and
reception You may have cho-
sen your wedding location simply for the
beauty of the venue itself but you cancreate a fabulous scene for your arriving
guests by decorating the trees along the
driveway or footpath Their anticipation
builds as they see your decor and light-
ing effects along the way giving them an
even more magical 983142irst impression of your
wedding day And if your venue is one that
your guests have been to for other wed-
dings decorating the approach to the site
makes for a new unique experience
Here are some ways to make your wedding paths stand out
Hanging floralsAdorn the pathrsquos tree line with flowers and
garlands that hint at your weddingrsquos floral
motif Joyce Maffeo florist at BloomNa-
tion says ldquoYou can either display flowers
on their own such as by stringing florals
on ribbon or 983142ishing wire or display flow-
ers inside antique bottles or other glass
vesselsrdquo The advantage of the in-vessel
flower display is that flowers stay hydrated with a bit of water in the bottle allowing
them to hold up well in late-summerearly-
fall sunshine
Some open-air flowers that Maffeo
recommends for their staying power
include orchids eucalyptuses and strung
daisies
ldquoFor in-vessel flowers consider protea
orchids hypericum and ornamental kale
for a pop of purple colorrdquo says Maffeo
ldquoWreaths hanging from trees also add to
the beautiful approachrdquo One flower to be
wary of since it easily wilts in the sun is
hydrangea Maffeo suggests instead using
bunches of carnations which hold up
better in the sun
This knowledge of flowersrsquo strength in
sunshine mdash important since your floral
team will likely set up your approach
decor several hours before your wedding
mdash is one example of why you should have
professionals create your floral pieces
String lights andhanging lanternsFor a sunset or evening wedding string
lights arranged in the trees add breath-
taking effect whether you use just a few
string lights per tree or many In addi-
tion to string lights lanterns hung from
S-hooks on the trees create that trendy
look of rustic elegance And you can take
those lanterns home after the wedding to
use them in your own backyard
Non-hanging lanternsTall lanterns clustered along a path or set
on stairs leading to the wedding sites are
a new top trend for weddings this year
and next Lanterns may be metallic such
as copper or bronze or rustic-themed in
white or black Upscale home decor stores
sell lanterns as part of the outdoor enter-
taining trend These larger lanterns can be
used at home after your big day
Candles
Position a large number of traditional orLED candles in glass vessels at the entrance
to your ceremony or reception spot This
is a stunning look for exterior doors and
if you have a portico that guests will pass
through to get to an inner ceremony or
celebration space arrange a large amount
of vessel-nested candles on either side of a
clear walking pathway
Tiki torchesldquoThe use of Tiki torches creates not only
a path to the reception but also softens
the lighting for a romantic moodrdquo says
Allison Sells catering manager for Caneel
Bay Resort in the US Virgin Islands Since
Tiki torches create one single light source
per torch pair them with overhead string
lights or ground-set lanterns to multiply
your lighting effect
UplightingSetting lights at the base of trees and
directing the light upward gives those trees
a magical and impressive glow Sells says
that uplighting palm trees creates a ldquowowrdquofactor especially complementing a tropical
wedding location
Signs
Chalkboard signs with personalized
messages can be used multiple times along
the path with friendly welcome messages
invitations to ldquoGet the party startedrdquo and
directions to wedding sites In the evening
try lit marquee signs illuminating the path
with words like ldquoLoverdquo ldquoXOXOrdquo or your
monogram These too can be take-home
decor to forever remind you of your big
day
MusicPiped-in music along your path adds a wel-
coming soundtrack to the approach
If your venue has an interesting history
beautiful scenery or perhaps a s tunning
sunset that will light up the sky with colors
during your weddingrsquos arrival time you
might not need any additional decor or
lighting at all Mother Nature has taken
care of that as her wedding gift to you
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
Rows of candles create a magical effect for your guestsrsquo approach to your wedding CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF ELLIS ISLAND
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Teresa Iqbal x
T he honeymoon is typically the last climactic
event of the wedding process As the culminat-
ing event that pulls everything together and
leaves couples with their 983142irst opportunity to
relax and begin enjoying life together itrsquos important to
make it as enjoyable as possible But where do you begin
when it comes to choosing where and how to enjoy your
983142irst moments together as a married couple on your
honeymoon
Choosing a honeymoon destination that represents
your interests as a couple is perhaps the best place to start
narrowing down destination choices Do you love art andmuseums If so a large city with ample opportunity for
you to spend the days among art exhibits and historical
pieces is probably best suited for you Perhaps yoursquore a
couple who consider themselves literary Take some time
to research places where literary authors made history
and immerse yourself in these same spots Maybe a good
time for you means spending most of your days beach-
side Be sure to choose a honeymoon destination where
you can spend your days on the beach and take part in
activities on the water Enjoying the overall culture of your
destination is an important key to having a happy and ful-983142illing experience on your honeymoon
You neednrsquot spend an outrageous amount of money
traveling to a tropical destination either Chances are
that there are beautiful spots closer than you think where
you could make great memories doing the things you both
love In fact building your honeymoon itinerary around
the activities you love allows you to consider an array of
vacation spots that 983142it a number of budgets Whether itrsquos
staying in your country your state or even your own city
yoursquore bound to 983142ind a number of ways to celebrate They
key is to narrow down activities that are important to you
both and plan your honeymoon around cities where youknow you can have a good time doing the things you enjoy
If you are hoping to spend your vacation traveling to
faraway destinations there are other ways to be budget-
conscious while still having a good time overseas Cruises
are one honeymoon option that more and more couples
are taking advantage of every day Theyrsquore great for those
hoping to get more bang for their buck According to Lux-
ury Travel Magazine ldquowith some cruise lines port taxes
meals drinks entertainment activities and even tips are
all included in the upfront cost of a cruise Itrsquos easy to work
out a per-day cost to compare to other forms of travelrdquo
Taking a cruise also simpli983142ies the logistical process of
vacationing For example you need only unpack and pack
once Most if not all meals are included in the passen-
ger fare as well as an array of activities to be enjoyed on
the ship Splurging on meals at local spots where the ship
docks allows couples to experience 983142ine dining without
having to worry about shelling out cash at every single
meal The same goes for activities Many cruise lines orga-
nize activities off the ship that couples can take part in
such as scuba diving and museum tours which means less
hassle and work involved in 983142inding fun things to do in
your destination city leaving more time both on and offthe boat to enjoy yourselves to the fullest
A similar option for those who donrsquot want to deal with
all the stress and planning of both a wedding and a hon-
eymoon is the all-inclusive resort All-inclusives are great
for those looking for a hassle-free experience Couples can
How to choose how and where to honeymoon
pamper themselves and share all of the same bene983142its as
cruisers such as included activities and meals Just be sure
to choose a destination yoursquod both be interested in explor-
ing and experiencing to some depth because you likely
wonrsquot be doing much more than day trips to closer more
local spots This is de983142initely an upside for those looking
to stay in one place for longer and more deeply immerse
themselves in the culture art and cuisine of one location
of their choosing rather than visiting an array of destina-
tions for a short amount of time
Itrsquos clear that no matter your focus interest or budget
there are several different options to take advantage of
when creating a lasting honeymoon experienceCreatorscom
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Best guestEtiquette tips for wedding attendees Kristen Castillo x
Once the invitation arrives in
the mail you start asking your-
self questions ldquoWhat should I
wearrdquo ldquoWhat gift should I getrdquo
ldquoCan I invite a guestrdquo
All of these questions and more are com-
mon concerns for wedding guests Read on
for tips from wedding and etiquette profes-sionals for answers to your questions and
983142ind out what it takes to be a great guest
Can you bring a dateThe general rule The only people who
can attend the wedding are the ones listed
on the invitation So if the invite says ldquoMr
and Mrs Jonesrdquo then only the husband
and wife can attend If it just says ldquoMiss
Jonesrdquo then the woman must attend the
wedding aloneMake sure you RSVP for the wedding
by the date indicated on the invitation
Showing up anyway after neglecting to
RSVP is a big no-no
If your childrenrsquos names arenrsquot listed on
the invitation donrsquot show up to the wed-
ding as a family
ldquoA gentle way to deal with this situation
is to have the family table off to the side
or back of the reception areardquo says author
and etiquette expert Jacqueline Whitmore
who is also the founder of The ProtocolSchool of Palm Beach
Another option The bride and groom
might provide guests who have children
the ldquoname of a reputable baby sitter in
your area who is willing to accommodate
parents who want to attend the weddingrdquo
suggests Whitmore
What to wearWeddings tend to be dressy events but
exactly how dressyIf the invitation says ldquoblack tierdquo wear a
tuxedo
Otherwise ldquoa man should wear a suit
and a woman should wear a cocktail dress
or Sunday bestrdquo says wedding planner
Fran Plodkowski of Social Graces noting
beach weddings can be more casualldquoRemember it is a weddingrdquo says Plod-
kowski ldquoLook your bestrdquo
Gift guideGiving a wedding gift is customary but do
you give a gift off the couplersquos registry or
write a check If so how much to give
Therersquos no 983142ixed answer here
ldquoPeople do not know how much to giverdquo
says Plodkowski who advises guests to
give what they want to and can afford
Still you donrsquot have to give a gift of equal value to the price of the dinner especially
since many weddings are big budget
Typically the closer guests are to the
bride and groom the more theyrsquoll give For
example the groomrsquos sister would give a
larger gift than his co-worker would
Time mattersGuests often mistakenly assume weddings
donrsquot start on time
ldquoAs a result we see guests that purpose-fully arrive laterdquo says Camille McLamb
founder and lead coordinator at Camille
Victoria Weddings noting ceremony and
reception schedules are 983142ixed to accom-
modate parties and events throughout
the day
ldquoGuests should plan to arrive at least10 minutes before the start time listed on
the invitationrdquo urges McLamb ldquoIf a guest
ends up arriving late she should try to
check if the bridal party is lined up before
going inside If the bridal party is lined up
and about to go down the aisle the guest
should wait off to the side until the pro-
cessional is over and then sneak in up a
side aislerdquo
Remember yoursquore not
the photographerSure itrsquos exciting to capture the wedding in
photos but remember yoursquore a guest not
a photographer on assignment
ldquoDonrsquot photobomb the vowsrdquo says eti-
quette expert Cheryl Seidel ldquoRemember
therersquos probably a professional photogra-
pher somewhere behind you trying to do
the job the couple has hired him to dordquo
Seidel also reminds guests to not block
people behind them instead sit in the
back or on the far aisle Also donrsquot use aniPad to shoot photos ldquoTherersquos no way you
can be inconspicuousrdquo she says
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Before you post your pictures to social media such
as Instagram and Facebook make sure the couple
approve
Whatrsquos for dinnerEven if the reception venue is a restaurant itrsquos not OK
for guests to order whatever they want Thatrsquos because
the menu is preordered and paid for by the bride and
groom Even vegetarian vegan or specialty-diet meals
are ordered ahead of time
Guests with special dietary needs such as gluten
intolerance or nut allergies should inform the bride
and groom at the time of RSVP
AccessibilityOften guests worry about getting in and around the cer-emony and reception venues
ldquoEspecially with the rise in loft weddings not all wed-
ding venues have elevatorsrdquo says McLamb For elderly
and disabled guests ldquostairs and moving from one space
to another within a venue can present dif983142icultiesrdquo
McLamb advises brides and grooms to tell guests
about any potential accessibility challenges at the venue
so the guests can prepare ahead of time She also says
couples should reserve some tables for elderly guests
during cocktail hour Creatorscom Before you post your pictures to social media such as Instagram and Facebook make sure the couple approves(CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF NICHOLAS PURCELL STUDIO)
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HELPERS TASKERS
AND OTHER PARTY FIXERSShould you hire online help for your big day
Kristen Castillo x
W edding planning is 983142illed
with details large and small
Finding help isnrsquot always
easy but itrsquos necessary
Need help planning your engagement
party Want assistance assembling your welcome bags Loo king for som eon e
with nice penmanship to write out your
place cards
It used to be that yoursquod have to do these
jobs yourself ask friends or family or hire
an event professional So what should you
do when yoursquore overwhelmed and family
and friends arenrsquot available Nowadays
you can go online to hire helpers to get the
job done
Thatrsquos what happened for a couplersquos
wedding in Los Angeles The groom sur-
prised his bride during the reception with
her favorite New England treat Hoodsie
Cups which are paper cups 983142illed with
a mix of both chocolate and vanilla ice
cream But 983142irst the groom had to 983142igure
out how to get the frozen dessert to the
West Coast for his bride who is originally
from New England He hired a ldquoTaskerrdquo
via TaskRabbit the leading on-demand
home services app connecting busy peo-
ple with a network of Taskers in theirarea mdash or in this case someone from the
Northeast who could buy and overnight
ship 150 ice-cream cups in an industrial
strength cooler
The groom tells TaskRabbit that making
the Hoodsie Cups surprise happen was
ldquode983142initely a memory the both of us will
have for the rest of our livesrdquo and he says
that without the Taskerrsquos help he doesnrsquot
think he could have made it happen
Help for hireMany couples are hiring helpers to assist
with pre-wedding prep including every-
thing from envelope calligraphy to deco-
rating the venue to DJrsquoing or baking the
wedding cake
Some brides and grooms solicit the help
online with ads on Craigslist or v ia social
media posts asking for help with certain
wedding tasks S ites like TaskRabbit are
growing too
ldquoTaskers helping with weddings has become a big thing in the past two yearsrdquo
says Jamie Viggiano TaskRabbitrsquos VP of
marketing citing examples like helping
to plan a surprise engagement by deco-
rating an apartment with hundreds of
rose petals and LED candles deliver-
ing a wedding cake in Washington DC
and helping assemble and deliver flower
arrangements
Additional wedding tasks completed
include picking up and delivering last-
minute items like ice batteries and coffee
sorting scanning and uploading photos
for a wedding slideshow and setting up
wedding FaceTime sessions between the
couple and their loved ones who couldnrsquot
attend the ceremony in person ldquoThis has
been done a number of times with older
clients who arenrsquot savvy with technolo983143yrdquo
says Viggiano
PricingPaying for wedding help a la carte seems
to be a 983142it for couples who canrsquot afford or
donrsquot want to hire professional weddingcoordinators Some brides and grooms
list the project budget in their social media
and Craigslist posts others take bids from
anyone who responds to the ads
On TaskRabbit Taskers set their own
hourly rate by category When clients
post a task TaskRabbit provides a list of
several candidates in the area and the
individualrsquos skills The client pays once
the task is 983142inished
ldquoBrides and grooms are recognizing that
they donrsquot need to do all the wedding prep
on their own and that they can outsource
some of the more mundane tedious tasks
to quali983142ied peoplerdquo says Viggiano noting
that outsourcing the work ldquomakes a stress-
ful situation less stressfulrdquo
Buyer bewareSome wedding experts caution brides and
grooms that hiring a stranger to assist with
wedding details might not be a good idea
The reason Typically the helper is inex-
perienced with weddings and might not be
accountableldquoUnless you are a really laid-back bride
I would not recommend hiring helpers in
this wayrdquo says Michelle Balducci-Connelly
of Michelle Marie Photographie ldquoCraigslist
workers have little to no repercussions if
they donrsquot perform A professional will
have a reputation to uphold and has an
incentive to perform well because they are
making a career out of their servicerdquo
Still she understands the appeal of hir-
ing wedding helpers
ldquoWith ever-increasing costs of wed-
dings my couples are always looking to
save in areas they deem appropriaterdquo
says Balducci-Connelly noting that hiring
a day-of planner for example would cost
anywhere from $500 to $1000 for recep-
tion setup and organization compared to
a hired helper who would likely charge
an hourly or flat rate ldquothat would be far
less than a day-of coordinator would
chargerdquo
Before hiring anyone to help with your
event get references if possible and
make sure yoursquore comfortable with theirskills reliability and overall credibility
You only get one chance to make your
wedding day a success so be con983142ident in
your hiring decisions
Creatorscom
Many couples hire helpers to assist them with wedding planning such as ldquoTaskersrdquo from TaskRabbit CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF TASKRABBIT
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Dress trendsLooking your best on the big day Julia Price x
W eddings are a big deal All
the planning coordinating
decision-making letdowns
stressful situations mdash they
all fade away and become worth it the
moment the bride walks down the aisle
So of course no pressure with picking out
the perfect dress or anything rightBut really itrsquos hard to go wrong nowa-
days Luckily for everyone the lsquo80s have
come and gone and have graciously taken
their wedding dress signature styles with
them
In general wedding dresses are veer-
ing toward a less poofy look and going
toward a sleeker form-983142itting hourglass
shape This creates a more dramatic effect
when the train of the dress 983142ills out behind
the bride while also enhancing feminine
strength in the upper body
Another trend this season is the
off-the-shoulder look Several years ago
the sleeveless dress was a big hit but now
itrsquos been slightly modi983142ied to keep the shoul-
ders bare with the straps lightly hanging off
Whether the dress is white silk Chantilly
lace or ballgown-style this off-the-shoul-
der appeal creates a delicate look
The popular shabby chic furniture trend
seems to have influenced brides-to-be as
well Seeing as many couples are choos-ing the country feel mdash complete with
Mason jars mdash for their big day it makes
sense that women are looking for a dress
to match that vibe Yoursquoll see more and
more dresses with corded details and lace
accents and yoursquoll see less beadwork than
you had on some of the past looks
Also trending this season is embellishing
the back of the dress In addition to adding
a new element of beauty it makes sense
because guests wil l have a close visual of
the bridersquos back as shersquos approaching her
husband-to-be Intricate detailing on the
Trending this season is embellishing the back of the dressCREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF JULIA PRICE
back might include a crisscross or spar-
kling tulle Some brides are opting for
completely backless dresses This goes well
with layers of lace and the silhouette look
Though itrsquos good to look for many
options online (try bridescom or search for
your perfect look on Pinterest) yoursquove got
to trust your gut with what feels right for
you This is one of those situations where
no matter who else speaks up as long as
yoursquore saying ldquoI dordquo to the dress then
yoursquore going to be happy Creatorscom
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Plus-size bridesBridal beauty at any size
Kristen Castillo x
T here is a wedding gown for every
bride but if yoursquore over size 14
it might be a challenge to 983142ind
the perfect dress Luckily thatrsquos
changing Thanks to the TLC television show
ldquoCurvy Bridesrdquo and bridal shops that cater to
plus-size brides itrsquos getting easier for brides
of all sizes to 983142ind their dream dresses
These days the average woman in the
US wears a size 14 and yet bridal gownstraditionally are made for smaller sizes
ldquoPlus-size for us means anyone who
has had trouble 983142inding dresses to 983142it them
elsewhererdquo say Yuneisia Harris and Yukia
Walker owners of full-983142igured bridal salon
Curvaceous Couture and stars of ldquoCurvy
Bridesrdquo
Walker knows how frustrating it can
be for plus-sized brides to 983142ind a gown
After getting engaged she struggled to
983142ind sample gowns and ultimately didnrsquot
like the dress she chose Out of that expe-
rience she and her sister started their
company
The sisters explain that in evenin983143wear
and in bridal everything is cut smaller
ldquoSo while a person might have a smaller
street size like a 12 or a 14 in a wedding
gown they might have to order something
as large as a 20rdquo
That means when traditional bridal
salons have sample dresses in sizes 8 to 12ldquotheyrsquore really only servicing brides whose
street size is 4 to 10rdquo say Harris and Walker
Plus-Size PerceptionsThe notion of plus-size bridal fashion car-
ries many misconceptions In some cases
brides arenrsquot aware that plus-sizing exists
in the wedding world because itrsquos typi-
cally underrepresented or not seen at all
Often plus-size brides end up buying
wedding gowns online mdash one of the few
places with larger sizes
Still others assume dresses in larger
sizes should be plain and not embellished
ldquothat plus-size women donrsquot desire the
same beautiful dresses and fabrics as theirstraight-size counterpartsrdquo says Erena
Shklovsky creative director and head
designer for plus-size designer IGIGI not-
ing that many plus-size brides want ldquodeli-
cate beading luxe fabrics and innovative
cuts just like other bridesrdquo
Another misconception That being
plus-sized means you need to cover up
ldquoIrsquod say that 60 percent of our brides ini-
tially ask us to add a sleeve or a shawl to
a dress because theyrsquore afraid of showing
their arms or backrdquo say Harris and Walkernoting that adding a sleeve or a strap for
example ldquois not the most flattering choice
for a briderdquo
In other cases gowns with straps
sleeves and extra fabric can make a bride
look matronly
ldquoWe just want our brides to be happy
with their dresses and sometimes that
means helping them embrace their natu-
ral beautyrdquo say Harris and Walker who
feel viewers like the show because it allows
them to see brides they relate to try on and
look great in gorgeous gowns
Fashionable Choices
Designing full-983142igured fashions involvesmore than simply adding extra fabric
Because every bride has a different size
and body shape gowns need specialized
983142its including built-in support for large
busts for example
More fashion lines and bridal lines are
starting to embrace women of all sizes
Harris and Walker praise designers like Roz
la Kelin and Enzoani for being some of the
983142irst designers to offer plus-size samples
ldquoI think the biggest and best addition
to plus-size bridal collections is ChristianSirianorsquos dress for Nicolette Masonrdquo says
Shklovsky ldquoIt showed the rest of the fash-
ion world that plus-sized women deserve
more than to be covered with loads and
loads of fabricrdquo
Still no wedding gown is truly ready-to-
wear All dresses need alterations including
changes to hemlines bust lines waistlines
sleeves and shoulder straps No matter
what the dress size a perfect 983142it is flattering
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DIY all-in-one or party rental suppliers Chelle Cordero x
Itrsquos your wedding day and there areso many plans to be made You want
the day to be spectacular Between
budgets traditions choosing a loca-
tion considering the time of year and
weather and most importantly your idea
of a dream wedding mdash itrsquos enough to make
your head spin
You may choose an all-in-one venue that
comes with its own gorgeous setting cater-
ing waitstaff tables and chairs and hope
that the cost is within your reach DIY
wedding plans may or may not be moreeconomical but many excited couples opt
for more personalized settings and control
over the way things are done One thing is
for sure You probably donrsquot own enough
chairs tables and service to make it hap-
pen without help
You could always buy the folding chairs
and tables linens and glassware for your
event but then you need a place to store
everything before and after the party
Owning everything makes you solely respon-
sible for cleaning and ironing linens polish-
ing service and washing all of the dishware before and after use (especially if itrsquos been
sitting awhile) It is often more ef983142icient to
simply rent what you need for each occasion
if you plan to throw several parties
Letrsquos go rental
Every bride in your family before
you was married in Aunt Franrsquos parlor
and thatrsquos the beginning yoursquove always
dreamed of with a reception in the back-
yard But then you remember the light rain
shower during your cousinrsquos gala and how
it chased everyone away Yoursquoll need seat-ing and decorations for inside and yoursquoll
want to add a tent to the tables chairs and
buffet setting outside Or maybe the old
barn could be gussied up for a fancy do
but the dirt floor leaves a lot to be desired
especially when it comes to dancing -- but
thatrsquos not a problem if you add a rented
dance floor (or more)
Party rental companies offer everything
from aisle covers to wine glasses Choose
table linens centerpieces pole covers (to
hide tent supports) dance floors of various
sizes stages and more If you are worriedabout the weather 983142ind tents for outdoor
parties they come with sides or open with
options for fans or heaters for comfort
Serve delicious meals with gas or charcoal
grill rentals and buffet-style cha983142ing dishes
There is no limit to what you can do Paper
plates are great for picnics but if you pre-
fer restaurant-style service 983142ind china
charger plates silver service goblets and
flutes and linen napkins and tablecloths
Check out the party supply rental com-
panies in your area to 983142ind out what theyoffer and compare prices Make sure to
include delivery costs as well as delivery
terms such as how far in advance they will
deliver and when they will pick up after the
affair Visit the showrooms to see the qual-
ity of merchandise they offer By all means
get recommendations and warnings from
other consumers you certainly donrsquot want
to 983142ind out on the day of the party that the
tablecloths are stained or that you were
shorted on the glassware Ask about their
reputation for reliability their willingness
to work with you and whether there is an
extra charge for setup Also 983142ind out in what
condition the items have to be returned
mdash eg do the dishes need to be washedor simply scraped do the linens need to
be laundered and what are the costs for
breakage If possible compare the prices
quality service and reputations of a few
companies before making a 983142inal decision
Some party rental suppliers will work
with area vendors such as caterers and
wait staff to help you 983142ind a complete
package for your magical day Make an
appointment to sit down with your cho-
sen rental company and explain your
vision to them A party planner can makehelpful suggestions based on the compa-
nyrsquos experience with previous weddings
and parties They can tell you how many
plates glasses and flatware sets to rent
based on the number of people invited
always order a few extra pieces in case of
breakage or unexpected guests Read the
contract carefully to verify that all dates
quantities and service details are spelled
out correctly Creatorscom
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N E W
Le menu du jour
New trends in menu cards Sharon Naylor x
W hen printed menu cards
983142irst showed up as wed-
ding table additions guests
loved reading those delec-
table descriptions of the courses to come
during the dinner There was at 983142irst one
printed card per round table then four
or so spaced apart on long tables Guests
took turns looking at the elegantly printedcards with the dazzling print script Soon
individual menu cards were placed on
each guestrsquos plate for easier use and now
those individual menu cards are being per-
sonalized to each guest
ldquoYour tablescape offers countless oppor-
tunities to wow guests with custom details
and personalized menu cards are func-
tional and beautiful while making guests
feel like an important part of your big dayrdquo
says Vanessa Wicks event sales director at
Weylin B Seymourrsquos a historic event venue
in Brooklyn that has been the site of celeb-
rity weddings and events
When guests arrive at their tables they
983142ind their names printed on the menu
cards showing that you value their pres-
ence on their big day And the artistry of
their name handwritten in calligraphy
complements the loveliness of your wed-
ding design Yoursquove taken great care withthe smallest of details elevating your wed-
ding as a whole
Another advantage of customized menu
cards is the ability to tailor guestsrsquo special
menu requirements such as a gluten-free
vegan or kosher meal When guests see
their menu card they know right away
that yoursquove heard and honored their
requests They donrsquot need to be anxious
about their special meals
To help you create your personalized
menu cards keep the following tips in
mind
bull Spell names correctly Triple-check
your invitations list looking at guestsrsquosocial media pages for backup to be sure
each guestrsquos name is spelled correctly It
would be an awful faux pas if you created
a card for ldquoJohnrdquo when he goes by ldquoJonrdquo
bull Plan for dim lighting Your recep -
tion ballroom may be dimly lit illumi-
nated by candles and that low light can
make light-colored print dif983142icult to read
Larger script in a good contrasting shade
makes your menu card easier to see Not
all guests bring their reading glasses with
them Metallic print will capture candle-light so consider shimmery lettering
bull Create personalized menu cards for
children as well Theirs can be designed
differently than adult guestsrsquo cards using
kid-themed colors and motifs Add a print
game to the back of the card to provide a
fun activity
bull Add an accent to the back of guestsrsquo
menu cards A personalized note from you
may be extra work but it goes a long way
to making your guests feel like VIPs Or if
a personalized message isnrsquot realistic for
your time and budget print an inspiring
and romantic or a foodie-themed quote
on the back of each cardbull Ask your chef to help Make your menu
card mouth-watering with chef-provided
dish descriptions of each course
bull Include drink pairing choices with
each course Again your chef or bar man-
ager can provide pairing ideas using vin-
tages and cocktails that will be served at
your wedding
You might be wondering whether per-
sonalized menu cards at each guestrsquos
seat will tell each guest where to sit at
the table While guests are free to switchseats it is a good idea to put your guest
menu cards in order by table so that
staffers handling your weddingrsquos table
setups can place cards in the order you
prefer seating spouses and families next
to each other
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
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All in the approachMaking your wedding path stand out
Sharon Naylor x
A s you plan your wedding decor
donrsquot forget about the paths
leading to your ceremony and
reception You may have cho-
sen your wedding location simply for the
beauty of the venue itself but you cancreate a fabulous scene for your arriving
guests by decorating the trees along the
driveway or footpath Their anticipation
builds as they see your decor and light-
ing effects along the way giving them an
even more magical 983142irst impression of your
wedding day And if your venue is one that
your guests have been to for other wed-
dings decorating the approach to the site
makes for a new unique experience
Here are some ways to make your wedding paths stand out
Hanging floralsAdorn the pathrsquos tree line with flowers and
garlands that hint at your weddingrsquos floral
motif Joyce Maffeo florist at BloomNa-
tion says ldquoYou can either display flowers
on their own such as by stringing florals
on ribbon or 983142ishing wire or display flow-
ers inside antique bottles or other glass
vesselsrdquo The advantage of the in-vessel
flower display is that flowers stay hydrated with a bit of water in the bottle allowing
them to hold up well in late-summerearly-
fall sunshine
Some open-air flowers that Maffeo
recommends for their staying power
include orchids eucalyptuses and strung
daisies
ldquoFor in-vessel flowers consider protea
orchids hypericum and ornamental kale
for a pop of purple colorrdquo says Maffeo
ldquoWreaths hanging from trees also add to
the beautiful approachrdquo One flower to be
wary of since it easily wilts in the sun is
hydrangea Maffeo suggests instead using
bunches of carnations which hold up
better in the sun
This knowledge of flowersrsquo strength in
sunshine mdash important since your floral
team will likely set up your approach
decor several hours before your wedding
mdash is one example of why you should have
professionals create your floral pieces
String lights andhanging lanternsFor a sunset or evening wedding string
lights arranged in the trees add breath-
taking effect whether you use just a few
string lights per tree or many In addi-
tion to string lights lanterns hung from
S-hooks on the trees create that trendy
look of rustic elegance And you can take
those lanterns home after the wedding to
use them in your own backyard
Non-hanging lanternsTall lanterns clustered along a path or set
on stairs leading to the wedding sites are
a new top trend for weddings this year
and next Lanterns may be metallic such
as copper or bronze or rustic-themed in
white or black Upscale home decor stores
sell lanterns as part of the outdoor enter-
taining trend These larger lanterns can be
used at home after your big day
Candles
Position a large number of traditional orLED candles in glass vessels at the entrance
to your ceremony or reception spot This
is a stunning look for exterior doors and
if you have a portico that guests will pass
through to get to an inner ceremony or
celebration space arrange a large amount
of vessel-nested candles on either side of a
clear walking pathway
Tiki torchesldquoThe use of Tiki torches creates not only
a path to the reception but also softens
the lighting for a romantic moodrdquo says
Allison Sells catering manager for Caneel
Bay Resort in the US Virgin Islands Since
Tiki torches create one single light source
per torch pair them with overhead string
lights or ground-set lanterns to multiply
your lighting effect
UplightingSetting lights at the base of trees and
directing the light upward gives those trees
a magical and impressive glow Sells says
that uplighting palm trees creates a ldquowowrdquofactor especially complementing a tropical
wedding location
Signs
Chalkboard signs with personalized
messages can be used multiple times along
the path with friendly welcome messages
invitations to ldquoGet the party startedrdquo and
directions to wedding sites In the evening
try lit marquee signs illuminating the path
with words like ldquoLoverdquo ldquoXOXOrdquo or your
monogram These too can be take-home
decor to forever remind you of your big
day
MusicPiped-in music along your path adds a wel-
coming soundtrack to the approach
If your venue has an interesting history
beautiful scenery or perhaps a s tunning
sunset that will light up the sky with colors
during your weddingrsquos arrival time you
might not need any additional decor or
lighting at all Mother Nature has taken
care of that as her wedding gift to you
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
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T he honeymoon is typically the last climactic
event of the wedding process As the culminat-
ing event that pulls everything together and
leaves couples with their 983142irst opportunity to
relax and begin enjoying life together itrsquos important to
make it as enjoyable as possible But where do you begin
when it comes to choosing where and how to enjoy your
983142irst moments together as a married couple on your
honeymoon
Choosing a honeymoon destination that represents
your interests as a couple is perhaps the best place to start
narrowing down destination choices Do you love art andmuseums If so a large city with ample opportunity for
you to spend the days among art exhibits and historical
pieces is probably best suited for you Perhaps yoursquore a
couple who consider themselves literary Take some time
to research places where literary authors made history
and immerse yourself in these same spots Maybe a good
time for you means spending most of your days beach-
side Be sure to choose a honeymoon destination where
you can spend your days on the beach and take part in
activities on the water Enjoying the overall culture of your
destination is an important key to having a happy and ful-983142illing experience on your honeymoon
You neednrsquot spend an outrageous amount of money
traveling to a tropical destination either Chances are
that there are beautiful spots closer than you think where
you could make great memories doing the things you both
love In fact building your honeymoon itinerary around
the activities you love allows you to consider an array of
vacation spots that 983142it a number of budgets Whether itrsquos
staying in your country your state or even your own city
yoursquore bound to 983142ind a number of ways to celebrate They
key is to narrow down activities that are important to you
both and plan your honeymoon around cities where youknow you can have a good time doing the things you enjoy
If you are hoping to spend your vacation traveling to
faraway destinations there are other ways to be budget-
conscious while still having a good time overseas Cruises
are one honeymoon option that more and more couples
are taking advantage of every day Theyrsquore great for those
hoping to get more bang for their buck According to Lux-
ury Travel Magazine ldquowith some cruise lines port taxes
meals drinks entertainment activities and even tips are
all included in the upfront cost of a cruise Itrsquos easy to work
out a per-day cost to compare to other forms of travelrdquo
Taking a cruise also simpli983142ies the logistical process of
vacationing For example you need only unpack and pack
once Most if not all meals are included in the passen-
ger fare as well as an array of activities to be enjoyed on
the ship Splurging on meals at local spots where the ship
docks allows couples to experience 983142ine dining without
having to worry about shelling out cash at every single
meal The same goes for activities Many cruise lines orga-
nize activities off the ship that couples can take part in
such as scuba diving and museum tours which means less
hassle and work involved in 983142inding fun things to do in
your destination city leaving more time both on and offthe boat to enjoy yourselves to the fullest
A similar option for those who donrsquot want to deal with
all the stress and planning of both a wedding and a hon-
eymoon is the all-inclusive resort All-inclusives are great
for those looking for a hassle-free experience Couples can
How to choose how and where to honeymoon
pamper themselves and share all of the same bene983142its as
cruisers such as included activities and meals Just be sure
to choose a destination yoursquod both be interested in explor-
ing and experiencing to some depth because you likely
wonrsquot be doing much more than day trips to closer more
local spots This is de983142initely an upside for those looking
to stay in one place for longer and more deeply immerse
themselves in the culture art and cuisine of one location
of their choosing rather than visiting an array of destina-
tions for a short amount of time
Itrsquos clear that no matter your focus interest or budget
there are several different options to take advantage of
when creating a lasting honeymoon experienceCreatorscom
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Best guestEtiquette tips for wedding attendees Kristen Castillo x
Once the invitation arrives in
the mail you start asking your-
self questions ldquoWhat should I
wearrdquo ldquoWhat gift should I getrdquo
ldquoCan I invite a guestrdquo
All of these questions and more are com-
mon concerns for wedding guests Read on
for tips from wedding and etiquette profes-sionals for answers to your questions and
983142ind out what it takes to be a great guest
Can you bring a dateThe general rule The only people who
can attend the wedding are the ones listed
on the invitation So if the invite says ldquoMr
and Mrs Jonesrdquo then only the husband
and wife can attend If it just says ldquoMiss
Jonesrdquo then the woman must attend the
wedding aloneMake sure you RSVP for the wedding
by the date indicated on the invitation
Showing up anyway after neglecting to
RSVP is a big no-no
If your childrenrsquos names arenrsquot listed on
the invitation donrsquot show up to the wed-
ding as a family
ldquoA gentle way to deal with this situation
is to have the family table off to the side
or back of the reception areardquo says author
and etiquette expert Jacqueline Whitmore
who is also the founder of The ProtocolSchool of Palm Beach
Another option The bride and groom
might provide guests who have children
the ldquoname of a reputable baby sitter in
your area who is willing to accommodate
parents who want to attend the weddingrdquo
suggests Whitmore
What to wearWeddings tend to be dressy events but
exactly how dressyIf the invitation says ldquoblack tierdquo wear a
tuxedo
Otherwise ldquoa man should wear a suit
and a woman should wear a cocktail dress
or Sunday bestrdquo says wedding planner
Fran Plodkowski of Social Graces noting
beach weddings can be more casualldquoRemember it is a weddingrdquo says Plod-
kowski ldquoLook your bestrdquo
Gift guideGiving a wedding gift is customary but do
you give a gift off the couplersquos registry or
write a check If so how much to give
Therersquos no 983142ixed answer here
ldquoPeople do not know how much to giverdquo
says Plodkowski who advises guests to
give what they want to and can afford
Still you donrsquot have to give a gift of equal value to the price of the dinner especially
since many weddings are big budget
Typically the closer guests are to the
bride and groom the more theyrsquoll give For
example the groomrsquos sister would give a
larger gift than his co-worker would
Time mattersGuests often mistakenly assume weddings
donrsquot start on time
ldquoAs a result we see guests that purpose-fully arrive laterdquo says Camille McLamb
founder and lead coordinator at Camille
Victoria Weddings noting ceremony and
reception schedules are 983142ixed to accom-
modate parties and events throughout
the day
ldquoGuests should plan to arrive at least10 minutes before the start time listed on
the invitationrdquo urges McLamb ldquoIf a guest
ends up arriving late she should try to
check if the bridal party is lined up before
going inside If the bridal party is lined up
and about to go down the aisle the guest
should wait off to the side until the pro-
cessional is over and then sneak in up a
side aislerdquo
Remember yoursquore not
the photographerSure itrsquos exciting to capture the wedding in
photos but remember yoursquore a guest not
a photographer on assignment
ldquoDonrsquot photobomb the vowsrdquo says eti-
quette expert Cheryl Seidel ldquoRemember
therersquos probably a professional photogra-
pher somewhere behind you trying to do
the job the couple has hired him to dordquo
Seidel also reminds guests to not block
people behind them instead sit in the
back or on the far aisle Also donrsquot use aniPad to shoot photos ldquoTherersquos no way you
can be inconspicuousrdquo she says
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Before you post your pictures to social media such
as Instagram and Facebook make sure the couple
approve
Whatrsquos for dinnerEven if the reception venue is a restaurant itrsquos not OK
for guests to order whatever they want Thatrsquos because
the menu is preordered and paid for by the bride and
groom Even vegetarian vegan or specialty-diet meals
are ordered ahead of time
Guests with special dietary needs such as gluten
intolerance or nut allergies should inform the bride
and groom at the time of RSVP
AccessibilityOften guests worry about getting in and around the cer-emony and reception venues
ldquoEspecially with the rise in loft weddings not all wed-
ding venues have elevatorsrdquo says McLamb For elderly
and disabled guests ldquostairs and moving from one space
to another within a venue can present dif983142icultiesrdquo
McLamb advises brides and grooms to tell guests
about any potential accessibility challenges at the venue
so the guests can prepare ahead of time She also says
couples should reserve some tables for elderly guests
during cocktail hour Creatorscom Before you post your pictures to social media such as Instagram and Facebook make sure the couple approves(CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF NICHOLAS PURCELL STUDIO)
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HELPERS TASKERS
AND OTHER PARTY FIXERSShould you hire online help for your big day
Kristen Castillo x
W edding planning is 983142illed
with details large and small
Finding help isnrsquot always
easy but itrsquos necessary
Need help planning your engagement
party Want assistance assembling your welcome bags Loo king for som eon e
with nice penmanship to write out your
place cards
It used to be that yoursquod have to do these
jobs yourself ask friends or family or hire
an event professional So what should you
do when yoursquore overwhelmed and family
and friends arenrsquot available Nowadays
you can go online to hire helpers to get the
job done
Thatrsquos what happened for a couplersquos
wedding in Los Angeles The groom sur-
prised his bride during the reception with
her favorite New England treat Hoodsie
Cups which are paper cups 983142illed with
a mix of both chocolate and vanilla ice
cream But 983142irst the groom had to 983142igure
out how to get the frozen dessert to the
West Coast for his bride who is originally
from New England He hired a ldquoTaskerrdquo
via TaskRabbit the leading on-demand
home services app connecting busy peo-
ple with a network of Taskers in theirarea mdash or in this case someone from the
Northeast who could buy and overnight
ship 150 ice-cream cups in an industrial
strength cooler
The groom tells TaskRabbit that making
the Hoodsie Cups surprise happen was
ldquode983142initely a memory the both of us will
have for the rest of our livesrdquo and he says
that without the Taskerrsquos help he doesnrsquot
think he could have made it happen
Help for hireMany couples are hiring helpers to assist
with pre-wedding prep including every-
thing from envelope calligraphy to deco-
rating the venue to DJrsquoing or baking the
wedding cake
Some brides and grooms solicit the help
online with ads on Craigslist or v ia social
media posts asking for help with certain
wedding tasks S ites like TaskRabbit are
growing too
ldquoTaskers helping with weddings has become a big thing in the past two yearsrdquo
says Jamie Viggiano TaskRabbitrsquos VP of
marketing citing examples like helping
to plan a surprise engagement by deco-
rating an apartment with hundreds of
rose petals and LED candles deliver-
ing a wedding cake in Washington DC
and helping assemble and deliver flower
arrangements
Additional wedding tasks completed
include picking up and delivering last-
minute items like ice batteries and coffee
sorting scanning and uploading photos
for a wedding slideshow and setting up
wedding FaceTime sessions between the
couple and their loved ones who couldnrsquot
attend the ceremony in person ldquoThis has
been done a number of times with older
clients who arenrsquot savvy with technolo983143yrdquo
says Viggiano
PricingPaying for wedding help a la carte seems
to be a 983142it for couples who canrsquot afford or
donrsquot want to hire professional weddingcoordinators Some brides and grooms
list the project budget in their social media
and Craigslist posts others take bids from
anyone who responds to the ads
On TaskRabbit Taskers set their own
hourly rate by category When clients
post a task TaskRabbit provides a list of
several candidates in the area and the
individualrsquos skills The client pays once
the task is 983142inished
ldquoBrides and grooms are recognizing that
they donrsquot need to do all the wedding prep
on their own and that they can outsource
some of the more mundane tedious tasks
to quali983142ied peoplerdquo says Viggiano noting
that outsourcing the work ldquomakes a stress-
ful situation less stressfulrdquo
Buyer bewareSome wedding experts caution brides and
grooms that hiring a stranger to assist with
wedding details might not be a good idea
The reason Typically the helper is inex-
perienced with weddings and might not be
accountableldquoUnless you are a really laid-back bride
I would not recommend hiring helpers in
this wayrdquo says Michelle Balducci-Connelly
of Michelle Marie Photographie ldquoCraigslist
workers have little to no repercussions if
they donrsquot perform A professional will
have a reputation to uphold and has an
incentive to perform well because they are
making a career out of their servicerdquo
Still she understands the appeal of hir-
ing wedding helpers
ldquoWith ever-increasing costs of wed-
dings my couples are always looking to
save in areas they deem appropriaterdquo
says Balducci-Connelly noting that hiring
a day-of planner for example would cost
anywhere from $500 to $1000 for recep-
tion setup and organization compared to
a hired helper who would likely charge
an hourly or flat rate ldquothat would be far
less than a day-of coordinator would
chargerdquo
Before hiring anyone to help with your
event get references if possible and
make sure yoursquore comfortable with theirskills reliability and overall credibility
You only get one chance to make your
wedding day a success so be con983142ident in
your hiring decisions
Creatorscom
Many couples hire helpers to assist them with wedding planning such as ldquoTaskersrdquo from TaskRabbit CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF TASKRABBIT
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Dress trendsLooking your best on the big day Julia Price x
W eddings are a big deal All
the planning coordinating
decision-making letdowns
stressful situations mdash they
all fade away and become worth it the
moment the bride walks down the aisle
So of course no pressure with picking out
the perfect dress or anything rightBut really itrsquos hard to go wrong nowa-
days Luckily for everyone the lsquo80s have
come and gone and have graciously taken
their wedding dress signature styles with
them
In general wedding dresses are veer-
ing toward a less poofy look and going
toward a sleeker form-983142itting hourglass
shape This creates a more dramatic effect
when the train of the dress 983142ills out behind
the bride while also enhancing feminine
strength in the upper body
Another trend this season is the
off-the-shoulder look Several years ago
the sleeveless dress was a big hit but now
itrsquos been slightly modi983142ied to keep the shoul-
ders bare with the straps lightly hanging off
Whether the dress is white silk Chantilly
lace or ballgown-style this off-the-shoul-
der appeal creates a delicate look
The popular shabby chic furniture trend
seems to have influenced brides-to-be as
well Seeing as many couples are choos-ing the country feel mdash complete with
Mason jars mdash for their big day it makes
sense that women are looking for a dress
to match that vibe Yoursquoll see more and
more dresses with corded details and lace
accents and yoursquoll see less beadwork than
you had on some of the past looks
Also trending this season is embellishing
the back of the dress In addition to adding
a new element of beauty it makes sense
because guests wil l have a close visual of
the bridersquos back as shersquos approaching her
husband-to-be Intricate detailing on the
Trending this season is embellishing the back of the dressCREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF JULIA PRICE
back might include a crisscross or spar-
kling tulle Some brides are opting for
completely backless dresses This goes well
with layers of lace and the silhouette look
Though itrsquos good to look for many
options online (try bridescom or search for
your perfect look on Pinterest) yoursquove got
to trust your gut with what feels right for
you This is one of those situations where
no matter who else speaks up as long as
yoursquore saying ldquoI dordquo to the dress then
yoursquore going to be happy Creatorscom
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Well known for its authentic cuisine fromSpain serving only the freshest seafood as
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Plus-size bridesBridal beauty at any size
Kristen Castillo x
T here is a wedding gown for every
bride but if yoursquore over size 14
it might be a challenge to 983142ind
the perfect dress Luckily thatrsquos
changing Thanks to the TLC television show
ldquoCurvy Bridesrdquo and bridal shops that cater to
plus-size brides itrsquos getting easier for brides
of all sizes to 983142ind their dream dresses
These days the average woman in the
US wears a size 14 and yet bridal gownstraditionally are made for smaller sizes
ldquoPlus-size for us means anyone who
has had trouble 983142inding dresses to 983142it them
elsewhererdquo say Yuneisia Harris and Yukia
Walker owners of full-983142igured bridal salon
Curvaceous Couture and stars of ldquoCurvy
Bridesrdquo
Walker knows how frustrating it can
be for plus-sized brides to 983142ind a gown
After getting engaged she struggled to
983142ind sample gowns and ultimately didnrsquot
like the dress she chose Out of that expe-
rience she and her sister started their
company
The sisters explain that in evenin983143wear
and in bridal everything is cut smaller
ldquoSo while a person might have a smaller
street size like a 12 or a 14 in a wedding
gown they might have to order something
as large as a 20rdquo
That means when traditional bridal
salons have sample dresses in sizes 8 to 12ldquotheyrsquore really only servicing brides whose
street size is 4 to 10rdquo say Harris and Walker
Plus-Size PerceptionsThe notion of plus-size bridal fashion car-
ries many misconceptions In some cases
brides arenrsquot aware that plus-sizing exists
in the wedding world because itrsquos typi-
cally underrepresented or not seen at all
Often plus-size brides end up buying
wedding gowns online mdash one of the few
places with larger sizes
Still others assume dresses in larger
sizes should be plain and not embellished
ldquothat plus-size women donrsquot desire the
same beautiful dresses and fabrics as theirstraight-size counterpartsrdquo says Erena
Shklovsky creative director and head
designer for plus-size designer IGIGI not-
ing that many plus-size brides want ldquodeli-
cate beading luxe fabrics and innovative
cuts just like other bridesrdquo
Another misconception That being
plus-sized means you need to cover up
ldquoIrsquod say that 60 percent of our brides ini-
tially ask us to add a sleeve or a shawl to
a dress because theyrsquore afraid of showing
their arms or backrdquo say Harris and Walkernoting that adding a sleeve or a strap for
example ldquois not the most flattering choice
for a briderdquo
In other cases gowns with straps
sleeves and extra fabric can make a bride
look matronly
ldquoWe just want our brides to be happy
with their dresses and sometimes that
means helping them embrace their natu-
ral beautyrdquo say Harris and Walker who
feel viewers like the show because it allows
them to see brides they relate to try on and
look great in gorgeous gowns
Fashionable Choices
Designing full-983142igured fashions involvesmore than simply adding extra fabric
Because every bride has a different size
and body shape gowns need specialized
983142its including built-in support for large
busts for example
More fashion lines and bridal lines are
starting to embrace women of all sizes
Harris and Walker praise designers like Roz
la Kelin and Enzoani for being some of the
983142irst designers to offer plus-size samples
ldquoI think the biggest and best addition
to plus-size bridal collections is ChristianSirianorsquos dress for Nicolette Masonrdquo says
Shklovsky ldquoIt showed the rest of the fash-
ion world that plus-sized women deserve
more than to be covered with loads and
loads of fabricrdquo
Still no wedding gown is truly ready-to-
wear All dresses need alterations including
changes to hemlines bust lines waistlines
sleeves and shoulder straps No matter
what the dress size a perfect 983142it is flattering
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wwwsamdanrestaurantcom
Private Party RoomUp to 70 people
Available for
All Special Occasions
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Birthdays Anniversaries Corporate Functions
Shower Packages
Other Packages Available Call For Details
Open Seven Days For Lunch amp Dinner
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120 Terhune Drive
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The Record
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53 W Passaic St Rochelle Park
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Lunch 1130 am - 3 pm middot Dinner 5 pm - 11 pm
Lunch on Saturday from 100 on
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Ask about our party facilities
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DIY all-in-one or party rental suppliers Chelle Cordero x
Itrsquos your wedding day and there areso many plans to be made You want
the day to be spectacular Between
budgets traditions choosing a loca-
tion considering the time of year and
weather and most importantly your idea
of a dream wedding mdash itrsquos enough to make
your head spin
You may choose an all-in-one venue that
comes with its own gorgeous setting cater-
ing waitstaff tables and chairs and hope
that the cost is within your reach DIY
wedding plans may or may not be moreeconomical but many excited couples opt
for more personalized settings and control
over the way things are done One thing is
for sure You probably donrsquot own enough
chairs tables and service to make it hap-
pen without help
You could always buy the folding chairs
and tables linens and glassware for your
event but then you need a place to store
everything before and after the party
Owning everything makes you solely respon-
sible for cleaning and ironing linens polish-
ing service and washing all of the dishware before and after use (especially if itrsquos been
sitting awhile) It is often more ef983142icient to
simply rent what you need for each occasion
if you plan to throw several parties
Letrsquos go rental
Every bride in your family before
you was married in Aunt Franrsquos parlor
and thatrsquos the beginning yoursquove always
dreamed of with a reception in the back-
yard But then you remember the light rain
shower during your cousinrsquos gala and how
it chased everyone away Yoursquoll need seat-ing and decorations for inside and yoursquoll
want to add a tent to the tables chairs and
buffet setting outside Or maybe the old
barn could be gussied up for a fancy do
but the dirt floor leaves a lot to be desired
especially when it comes to dancing -- but
thatrsquos not a problem if you add a rented
dance floor (or more)
Party rental companies offer everything
from aisle covers to wine glasses Choose
table linens centerpieces pole covers (to
hide tent supports) dance floors of various
sizes stages and more If you are worriedabout the weather 983142ind tents for outdoor
parties they come with sides or open with
options for fans or heaters for comfort
Serve delicious meals with gas or charcoal
grill rentals and buffet-style cha983142ing dishes
There is no limit to what you can do Paper
plates are great for picnics but if you pre-
fer restaurant-style service 983142ind china
charger plates silver service goblets and
flutes and linen napkins and tablecloths
Check out the party supply rental com-
panies in your area to 983142ind out what theyoffer and compare prices Make sure to
include delivery costs as well as delivery
terms such as how far in advance they will
deliver and when they will pick up after the
affair Visit the showrooms to see the qual-
ity of merchandise they offer By all means
get recommendations and warnings from
other consumers you certainly donrsquot want
to 983142ind out on the day of the party that the
tablecloths are stained or that you were
shorted on the glassware Ask about their
reputation for reliability their willingness
to work with you and whether there is an
extra charge for setup Also 983142ind out in what
condition the items have to be returned
mdash eg do the dishes need to be washedor simply scraped do the linens need to
be laundered and what are the costs for
breakage If possible compare the prices
quality service and reputations of a few
companies before making a 983142inal decision
Some party rental suppliers will work
with area vendors such as caterers and
wait staff to help you 983142ind a complete
package for your magical day Make an
appointment to sit down with your cho-
sen rental company and explain your
vision to them A party planner can makehelpful suggestions based on the compa-
nyrsquos experience with previous weddings
and parties They can tell you how many
plates glasses and flatware sets to rent
based on the number of people invited
always order a few extra pieces in case of
breakage or unexpected guests Read the
contract carefully to verify that all dates
quantities and service details are spelled
out correctly Creatorscom
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Isaac ChalouhENTERTAINMENT
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Le menu du jour
New trends in menu cards Sharon Naylor x
W hen printed menu cards
983142irst showed up as wed-
ding table additions guests
loved reading those delec-
table descriptions of the courses to come
during the dinner There was at 983142irst one
printed card per round table then four
or so spaced apart on long tables Guests
took turns looking at the elegantly printedcards with the dazzling print script Soon
individual menu cards were placed on
each guestrsquos plate for easier use and now
those individual menu cards are being per-
sonalized to each guest
ldquoYour tablescape offers countless oppor-
tunities to wow guests with custom details
and personalized menu cards are func-
tional and beautiful while making guests
feel like an important part of your big dayrdquo
says Vanessa Wicks event sales director at
Weylin B Seymourrsquos a historic event venue
in Brooklyn that has been the site of celeb-
rity weddings and events
When guests arrive at their tables they
983142ind their names printed on the menu
cards showing that you value their pres-
ence on their big day And the artistry of
their name handwritten in calligraphy
complements the loveliness of your wed-
ding design Yoursquove taken great care withthe smallest of details elevating your wed-
ding as a whole
Another advantage of customized menu
cards is the ability to tailor guestsrsquo special
menu requirements such as a gluten-free
vegan or kosher meal When guests see
their menu card they know right away
that yoursquove heard and honored their
requests They donrsquot need to be anxious
about their special meals
To help you create your personalized
menu cards keep the following tips in
mind
bull Spell names correctly Triple-check
your invitations list looking at guestsrsquosocial media pages for backup to be sure
each guestrsquos name is spelled correctly It
would be an awful faux pas if you created
a card for ldquoJohnrdquo when he goes by ldquoJonrdquo
bull Plan for dim lighting Your recep -
tion ballroom may be dimly lit illumi-
nated by candles and that low light can
make light-colored print dif983142icult to read
Larger script in a good contrasting shade
makes your menu card easier to see Not
all guests bring their reading glasses with
them Metallic print will capture candle-light so consider shimmery lettering
bull Create personalized menu cards for
children as well Theirs can be designed
differently than adult guestsrsquo cards using
kid-themed colors and motifs Add a print
game to the back of the card to provide a
fun activity
bull Add an accent to the back of guestsrsquo
menu cards A personalized note from you
may be extra work but it goes a long way
to making your guests feel like VIPs Or if
a personalized message isnrsquot realistic for
your time and budget print an inspiring
and romantic or a foodie-themed quote
on the back of each cardbull Ask your chef to help Make your menu
card mouth-watering with chef-provided
dish descriptions of each course
bull Include drink pairing choices with
each course Again your chef or bar man-
ager can provide pairing ideas using vin-
tages and cocktails that will be served at
your wedding
You might be wondering whether per-
sonalized menu cards at each guestrsquos
seat will tell each guest where to sit at
the table While guests are free to switchseats it is a good idea to put your guest
menu cards in order by table so that
staffers handling your weddingrsquos table
setups can place cards in the order you
prefer seating spouses and families next
to each other
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
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WINTER 2015
A SUPPLEMENT TO
THE JEWISH STANDARD
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All in the approachMaking your wedding path stand out
Sharon Naylor x
A s you plan your wedding decor
donrsquot forget about the paths
leading to your ceremony and
reception You may have cho-
sen your wedding location simply for the
beauty of the venue itself but you cancreate a fabulous scene for your arriving
guests by decorating the trees along the
driveway or footpath Their anticipation
builds as they see your decor and light-
ing effects along the way giving them an
even more magical 983142irst impression of your
wedding day And if your venue is one that
your guests have been to for other wed-
dings decorating the approach to the site
makes for a new unique experience
Here are some ways to make your wedding paths stand out
Hanging floralsAdorn the pathrsquos tree line with flowers and
garlands that hint at your weddingrsquos floral
motif Joyce Maffeo florist at BloomNa-
tion says ldquoYou can either display flowers
on their own such as by stringing florals
on ribbon or 983142ishing wire or display flow-
ers inside antique bottles or other glass
vesselsrdquo The advantage of the in-vessel
flower display is that flowers stay hydrated with a bit of water in the bottle allowing
them to hold up well in late-summerearly-
fall sunshine
Some open-air flowers that Maffeo
recommends for their staying power
include orchids eucalyptuses and strung
daisies
ldquoFor in-vessel flowers consider protea
orchids hypericum and ornamental kale
for a pop of purple colorrdquo says Maffeo
ldquoWreaths hanging from trees also add to
the beautiful approachrdquo One flower to be
wary of since it easily wilts in the sun is
hydrangea Maffeo suggests instead using
bunches of carnations which hold up
better in the sun
This knowledge of flowersrsquo strength in
sunshine mdash important since your floral
team will likely set up your approach
decor several hours before your wedding
mdash is one example of why you should have
professionals create your floral pieces
String lights andhanging lanternsFor a sunset or evening wedding string
lights arranged in the trees add breath-
taking effect whether you use just a few
string lights per tree or many In addi-
tion to string lights lanterns hung from
S-hooks on the trees create that trendy
look of rustic elegance And you can take
those lanterns home after the wedding to
use them in your own backyard
Non-hanging lanternsTall lanterns clustered along a path or set
on stairs leading to the wedding sites are
a new top trend for weddings this year
and next Lanterns may be metallic such
as copper or bronze or rustic-themed in
white or black Upscale home decor stores
sell lanterns as part of the outdoor enter-
taining trend These larger lanterns can be
used at home after your big day
Candles
Position a large number of traditional orLED candles in glass vessels at the entrance
to your ceremony or reception spot This
is a stunning look for exterior doors and
if you have a portico that guests will pass
through to get to an inner ceremony or
celebration space arrange a large amount
of vessel-nested candles on either side of a
clear walking pathway
Tiki torchesldquoThe use of Tiki torches creates not only
a path to the reception but also softens
the lighting for a romantic moodrdquo says
Allison Sells catering manager for Caneel
Bay Resort in the US Virgin Islands Since
Tiki torches create one single light source
per torch pair them with overhead string
lights or ground-set lanterns to multiply
your lighting effect
UplightingSetting lights at the base of trees and
directing the light upward gives those trees
a magical and impressive glow Sells says
that uplighting palm trees creates a ldquowowrdquofactor especially complementing a tropical
wedding location
Signs
Chalkboard signs with personalized
messages can be used multiple times along
the path with friendly welcome messages
invitations to ldquoGet the party startedrdquo and
directions to wedding sites In the evening
try lit marquee signs illuminating the path
with words like ldquoLoverdquo ldquoXOXOrdquo or your
monogram These too can be take-home
decor to forever remind you of your big
day
MusicPiped-in music along your path adds a wel-
coming soundtrack to the approach
If your venue has an interesting history
beautiful scenery or perhaps a s tunning
sunset that will light up the sky with colors
during your weddingrsquos arrival time you
might not need any additional decor or
lighting at all Mother Nature has taken
care of that as her wedding gift to you
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
Rows of candles create a magical effect for your guestsrsquo approach to your wedding CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF ELLIS ISLAND
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138 New Pehle Ave Saddle Brook NJ
wwwmarriottcomhotelstravelewrsb-saddle-brook-marriott
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2019096810
Teresa Iqbal x
T he honeymoon is typically the last climactic
event of the wedding process As the culminat-
ing event that pulls everything together and
leaves couples with their 983142irst opportunity to
relax and begin enjoying life together itrsquos important to
make it as enjoyable as possible But where do you begin
when it comes to choosing where and how to enjoy your
983142irst moments together as a married couple on your
honeymoon
Choosing a honeymoon destination that represents
your interests as a couple is perhaps the best place to start
narrowing down destination choices Do you love art andmuseums If so a large city with ample opportunity for
you to spend the days among art exhibits and historical
pieces is probably best suited for you Perhaps yoursquore a
couple who consider themselves literary Take some time
to research places where literary authors made history
and immerse yourself in these same spots Maybe a good
time for you means spending most of your days beach-
side Be sure to choose a honeymoon destination where
you can spend your days on the beach and take part in
activities on the water Enjoying the overall culture of your
destination is an important key to having a happy and ful-983142illing experience on your honeymoon
You neednrsquot spend an outrageous amount of money
traveling to a tropical destination either Chances are
that there are beautiful spots closer than you think where
you could make great memories doing the things you both
love In fact building your honeymoon itinerary around
the activities you love allows you to consider an array of
vacation spots that 983142it a number of budgets Whether itrsquos
staying in your country your state or even your own city
yoursquore bound to 983142ind a number of ways to celebrate They
key is to narrow down activities that are important to you
both and plan your honeymoon around cities where youknow you can have a good time doing the things you enjoy
If you are hoping to spend your vacation traveling to
faraway destinations there are other ways to be budget-
conscious while still having a good time overseas Cruises
are one honeymoon option that more and more couples
are taking advantage of every day Theyrsquore great for those
hoping to get more bang for their buck According to Lux-
ury Travel Magazine ldquowith some cruise lines port taxes
meals drinks entertainment activities and even tips are
all included in the upfront cost of a cruise Itrsquos easy to work
out a per-day cost to compare to other forms of travelrdquo
Taking a cruise also simpli983142ies the logistical process of
vacationing For example you need only unpack and pack
once Most if not all meals are included in the passen-
ger fare as well as an array of activities to be enjoyed on
the ship Splurging on meals at local spots where the ship
docks allows couples to experience 983142ine dining without
having to worry about shelling out cash at every single
meal The same goes for activities Many cruise lines orga-
nize activities off the ship that couples can take part in
such as scuba diving and museum tours which means less
hassle and work involved in 983142inding fun things to do in
your destination city leaving more time both on and offthe boat to enjoy yourselves to the fullest
A similar option for those who donrsquot want to deal with
all the stress and planning of both a wedding and a hon-
eymoon is the all-inclusive resort All-inclusives are great
for those looking for a hassle-free experience Couples can
How to choose how and where to honeymoon
pamper themselves and share all of the same bene983142its as
cruisers such as included activities and meals Just be sure
to choose a destination yoursquod both be interested in explor-
ing and experiencing to some depth because you likely
wonrsquot be doing much more than day trips to closer more
local spots This is de983142initely an upside for those looking
to stay in one place for longer and more deeply immerse
themselves in the culture art and cuisine of one location
of their choosing rather than visiting an array of destina-
tions for a short amount of time
Itrsquos clear that no matter your focus interest or budget
there are several different options to take advantage of
when creating a lasting honeymoon experienceCreatorscom
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Best guestEtiquette tips for wedding attendees Kristen Castillo x
Once the invitation arrives in
the mail you start asking your-
self questions ldquoWhat should I
wearrdquo ldquoWhat gift should I getrdquo
ldquoCan I invite a guestrdquo
All of these questions and more are com-
mon concerns for wedding guests Read on
for tips from wedding and etiquette profes-sionals for answers to your questions and
983142ind out what it takes to be a great guest
Can you bring a dateThe general rule The only people who
can attend the wedding are the ones listed
on the invitation So if the invite says ldquoMr
and Mrs Jonesrdquo then only the husband
and wife can attend If it just says ldquoMiss
Jonesrdquo then the woman must attend the
wedding aloneMake sure you RSVP for the wedding
by the date indicated on the invitation
Showing up anyway after neglecting to
RSVP is a big no-no
If your childrenrsquos names arenrsquot listed on
the invitation donrsquot show up to the wed-
ding as a family
ldquoA gentle way to deal with this situation
is to have the family table off to the side
or back of the reception areardquo says author
and etiquette expert Jacqueline Whitmore
who is also the founder of The ProtocolSchool of Palm Beach
Another option The bride and groom
might provide guests who have children
the ldquoname of a reputable baby sitter in
your area who is willing to accommodate
parents who want to attend the weddingrdquo
suggests Whitmore
What to wearWeddings tend to be dressy events but
exactly how dressyIf the invitation says ldquoblack tierdquo wear a
tuxedo
Otherwise ldquoa man should wear a suit
and a woman should wear a cocktail dress
or Sunday bestrdquo says wedding planner
Fran Plodkowski of Social Graces noting
beach weddings can be more casualldquoRemember it is a weddingrdquo says Plod-
kowski ldquoLook your bestrdquo
Gift guideGiving a wedding gift is customary but do
you give a gift off the couplersquos registry or
write a check If so how much to give
Therersquos no 983142ixed answer here
ldquoPeople do not know how much to giverdquo
says Plodkowski who advises guests to
give what they want to and can afford
Still you donrsquot have to give a gift of equal value to the price of the dinner especially
since many weddings are big budget
Typically the closer guests are to the
bride and groom the more theyrsquoll give For
example the groomrsquos sister would give a
larger gift than his co-worker would
Time mattersGuests often mistakenly assume weddings
donrsquot start on time
ldquoAs a result we see guests that purpose-fully arrive laterdquo says Camille McLamb
founder and lead coordinator at Camille
Victoria Weddings noting ceremony and
reception schedules are 983142ixed to accom-
modate parties and events throughout
the day
ldquoGuests should plan to arrive at least10 minutes before the start time listed on
the invitationrdquo urges McLamb ldquoIf a guest
ends up arriving late she should try to
check if the bridal party is lined up before
going inside If the bridal party is lined up
and about to go down the aisle the guest
should wait off to the side until the pro-
cessional is over and then sneak in up a
side aislerdquo
Remember yoursquore not
the photographerSure itrsquos exciting to capture the wedding in
photos but remember yoursquore a guest not
a photographer on assignment
ldquoDonrsquot photobomb the vowsrdquo says eti-
quette expert Cheryl Seidel ldquoRemember
therersquos probably a professional photogra-
pher somewhere behind you trying to do
the job the couple has hired him to dordquo
Seidel also reminds guests to not block
people behind them instead sit in the
back or on the far aisle Also donrsquot use aniPad to shoot photos ldquoTherersquos no way you
can be inconspicuousrdquo she says
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Before you post your pictures to social media such
as Instagram and Facebook make sure the couple
approve
Whatrsquos for dinnerEven if the reception venue is a restaurant itrsquos not OK
for guests to order whatever they want Thatrsquos because
the menu is preordered and paid for by the bride and
groom Even vegetarian vegan or specialty-diet meals
are ordered ahead of time
Guests with special dietary needs such as gluten
intolerance or nut allergies should inform the bride
and groom at the time of RSVP
AccessibilityOften guests worry about getting in and around the cer-emony and reception venues
ldquoEspecially with the rise in loft weddings not all wed-
ding venues have elevatorsrdquo says McLamb For elderly
and disabled guests ldquostairs and moving from one space
to another within a venue can present dif983142icultiesrdquo
McLamb advises brides and grooms to tell guests
about any potential accessibility challenges at the venue
so the guests can prepare ahead of time She also says
couples should reserve some tables for elderly guests
during cocktail hour Creatorscom Before you post your pictures to social media such as Instagram and Facebook make sure the couple approves(CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF NICHOLAS PURCELL STUDIO)
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HELPERS TASKERS
AND OTHER PARTY FIXERSShould you hire online help for your big day
Kristen Castillo x
W edding planning is 983142illed
with details large and small
Finding help isnrsquot always
easy but itrsquos necessary
Need help planning your engagement
party Want assistance assembling your welcome bags Loo king for som eon e
with nice penmanship to write out your
place cards
It used to be that yoursquod have to do these
jobs yourself ask friends or family or hire
an event professional So what should you
do when yoursquore overwhelmed and family
and friends arenrsquot available Nowadays
you can go online to hire helpers to get the
job done
Thatrsquos what happened for a couplersquos
wedding in Los Angeles The groom sur-
prised his bride during the reception with
her favorite New England treat Hoodsie
Cups which are paper cups 983142illed with
a mix of both chocolate and vanilla ice
cream But 983142irst the groom had to 983142igure
out how to get the frozen dessert to the
West Coast for his bride who is originally
from New England He hired a ldquoTaskerrdquo
via TaskRabbit the leading on-demand
home services app connecting busy peo-
ple with a network of Taskers in theirarea mdash or in this case someone from the
Northeast who could buy and overnight
ship 150 ice-cream cups in an industrial
strength cooler
The groom tells TaskRabbit that making
the Hoodsie Cups surprise happen was
ldquode983142initely a memory the both of us will
have for the rest of our livesrdquo and he says
that without the Taskerrsquos help he doesnrsquot
think he could have made it happen
Help for hireMany couples are hiring helpers to assist
with pre-wedding prep including every-
thing from envelope calligraphy to deco-
rating the venue to DJrsquoing or baking the
wedding cake
Some brides and grooms solicit the help
online with ads on Craigslist or v ia social
media posts asking for help with certain
wedding tasks S ites like TaskRabbit are
growing too
ldquoTaskers helping with weddings has become a big thing in the past two yearsrdquo
says Jamie Viggiano TaskRabbitrsquos VP of
marketing citing examples like helping
to plan a surprise engagement by deco-
rating an apartment with hundreds of
rose petals and LED candles deliver-
ing a wedding cake in Washington DC
and helping assemble and deliver flower
arrangements
Additional wedding tasks completed
include picking up and delivering last-
minute items like ice batteries and coffee
sorting scanning and uploading photos
for a wedding slideshow and setting up
wedding FaceTime sessions between the
couple and their loved ones who couldnrsquot
attend the ceremony in person ldquoThis has
been done a number of times with older
clients who arenrsquot savvy with technolo983143yrdquo
says Viggiano
PricingPaying for wedding help a la carte seems
to be a 983142it for couples who canrsquot afford or
donrsquot want to hire professional weddingcoordinators Some brides and grooms
list the project budget in their social media
and Craigslist posts others take bids from
anyone who responds to the ads
On TaskRabbit Taskers set their own
hourly rate by category When clients
post a task TaskRabbit provides a list of
several candidates in the area and the
individualrsquos skills The client pays once
the task is 983142inished
ldquoBrides and grooms are recognizing that
they donrsquot need to do all the wedding prep
on their own and that they can outsource
some of the more mundane tedious tasks
to quali983142ied peoplerdquo says Viggiano noting
that outsourcing the work ldquomakes a stress-
ful situation less stressfulrdquo
Buyer bewareSome wedding experts caution brides and
grooms that hiring a stranger to assist with
wedding details might not be a good idea
The reason Typically the helper is inex-
perienced with weddings and might not be
accountableldquoUnless you are a really laid-back bride
I would not recommend hiring helpers in
this wayrdquo says Michelle Balducci-Connelly
of Michelle Marie Photographie ldquoCraigslist
workers have little to no repercussions if
they donrsquot perform A professional will
have a reputation to uphold and has an
incentive to perform well because they are
making a career out of their servicerdquo
Still she understands the appeal of hir-
ing wedding helpers
ldquoWith ever-increasing costs of wed-
dings my couples are always looking to
save in areas they deem appropriaterdquo
says Balducci-Connelly noting that hiring
a day-of planner for example would cost
anywhere from $500 to $1000 for recep-
tion setup and organization compared to
a hired helper who would likely charge
an hourly or flat rate ldquothat would be far
less than a day-of coordinator would
chargerdquo
Before hiring anyone to help with your
event get references if possible and
make sure yoursquore comfortable with theirskills reliability and overall credibility
You only get one chance to make your
wedding day a success so be con983142ident in
your hiring decisions
Creatorscom
Many couples hire helpers to assist them with wedding planning such as ldquoTaskersrdquo from TaskRabbit CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF TASKRABBIT
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Dress trendsLooking your best on the big day Julia Price x
W eddings are a big deal All
the planning coordinating
decision-making letdowns
stressful situations mdash they
all fade away and become worth it the
moment the bride walks down the aisle
So of course no pressure with picking out
the perfect dress or anything rightBut really itrsquos hard to go wrong nowa-
days Luckily for everyone the lsquo80s have
come and gone and have graciously taken
their wedding dress signature styles with
them
In general wedding dresses are veer-
ing toward a less poofy look and going
toward a sleeker form-983142itting hourglass
shape This creates a more dramatic effect
when the train of the dress 983142ills out behind
the bride while also enhancing feminine
strength in the upper body
Another trend this season is the
off-the-shoulder look Several years ago
the sleeveless dress was a big hit but now
itrsquos been slightly modi983142ied to keep the shoul-
ders bare with the straps lightly hanging off
Whether the dress is white silk Chantilly
lace or ballgown-style this off-the-shoul-
der appeal creates a delicate look
The popular shabby chic furniture trend
seems to have influenced brides-to-be as
well Seeing as many couples are choos-ing the country feel mdash complete with
Mason jars mdash for their big day it makes
sense that women are looking for a dress
to match that vibe Yoursquoll see more and
more dresses with corded details and lace
accents and yoursquoll see less beadwork than
you had on some of the past looks
Also trending this season is embellishing
the back of the dress In addition to adding
a new element of beauty it makes sense
because guests wil l have a close visual of
the bridersquos back as shersquos approaching her
husband-to-be Intricate detailing on the
Trending this season is embellishing the back of the dressCREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF JULIA PRICE
back might include a crisscross or spar-
kling tulle Some brides are opting for
completely backless dresses This goes well
with layers of lace and the silhouette look
Though itrsquos good to look for many
options online (try bridescom or search for
your perfect look on Pinterest) yoursquove got
to trust your gut with what feels right for
you This is one of those situations where
no matter who else speaks up as long as
yoursquore saying ldquoI dordquo to the dress then
yoursquore going to be happy Creatorscom
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Well known for its authentic cuisine fromSpain serving only the freshest seafood as
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Plus-size bridesBridal beauty at any size
Kristen Castillo x
T here is a wedding gown for every
bride but if yoursquore over size 14
it might be a challenge to 983142ind
the perfect dress Luckily thatrsquos
changing Thanks to the TLC television show
ldquoCurvy Bridesrdquo and bridal shops that cater to
plus-size brides itrsquos getting easier for brides
of all sizes to 983142ind their dream dresses
These days the average woman in the
US wears a size 14 and yet bridal gownstraditionally are made for smaller sizes
ldquoPlus-size for us means anyone who
has had trouble 983142inding dresses to 983142it them
elsewhererdquo say Yuneisia Harris and Yukia
Walker owners of full-983142igured bridal salon
Curvaceous Couture and stars of ldquoCurvy
Bridesrdquo
Walker knows how frustrating it can
be for plus-sized brides to 983142ind a gown
After getting engaged she struggled to
983142ind sample gowns and ultimately didnrsquot
like the dress she chose Out of that expe-
rience she and her sister started their
company
The sisters explain that in evenin983143wear
and in bridal everything is cut smaller
ldquoSo while a person might have a smaller
street size like a 12 or a 14 in a wedding
gown they might have to order something
as large as a 20rdquo
That means when traditional bridal
salons have sample dresses in sizes 8 to 12ldquotheyrsquore really only servicing brides whose
street size is 4 to 10rdquo say Harris and Walker
Plus-Size PerceptionsThe notion of plus-size bridal fashion car-
ries many misconceptions In some cases
brides arenrsquot aware that plus-sizing exists
in the wedding world because itrsquos typi-
cally underrepresented or not seen at all
Often plus-size brides end up buying
wedding gowns online mdash one of the few
places with larger sizes
Still others assume dresses in larger
sizes should be plain and not embellished
ldquothat plus-size women donrsquot desire the
same beautiful dresses and fabrics as theirstraight-size counterpartsrdquo says Erena
Shklovsky creative director and head
designer for plus-size designer IGIGI not-
ing that many plus-size brides want ldquodeli-
cate beading luxe fabrics and innovative
cuts just like other bridesrdquo
Another misconception That being
plus-sized means you need to cover up
ldquoIrsquod say that 60 percent of our brides ini-
tially ask us to add a sleeve or a shawl to
a dress because theyrsquore afraid of showing
their arms or backrdquo say Harris and Walkernoting that adding a sleeve or a strap for
example ldquois not the most flattering choice
for a briderdquo
In other cases gowns with straps
sleeves and extra fabric can make a bride
look matronly
ldquoWe just want our brides to be happy
with their dresses and sometimes that
means helping them embrace their natu-
ral beautyrdquo say Harris and Walker who
feel viewers like the show because it allows
them to see brides they relate to try on and
look great in gorgeous gowns
Fashionable Choices
Designing full-983142igured fashions involvesmore than simply adding extra fabric
Because every bride has a different size
and body shape gowns need specialized
983142its including built-in support for large
busts for example
More fashion lines and bridal lines are
starting to embrace women of all sizes
Harris and Walker praise designers like Roz
la Kelin and Enzoani for being some of the
983142irst designers to offer plus-size samples
ldquoI think the biggest and best addition
to plus-size bridal collections is ChristianSirianorsquos dress for Nicolette Masonrdquo says
Shklovsky ldquoIt showed the rest of the fash-
ion world that plus-sized women deserve
more than to be covered with loads and
loads of fabricrdquo
Still no wedding gown is truly ready-to-
wear All dresses need alterations including
changes to hemlines bust lines waistlines
sleeves and shoulder straps No matter
what the dress size a perfect 983142it is flattering
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DIY all-in-one or party rental suppliers Chelle Cordero x
Itrsquos your wedding day and there areso many plans to be made You want
the day to be spectacular Between
budgets traditions choosing a loca-
tion considering the time of year and
weather and most importantly your idea
of a dream wedding mdash itrsquos enough to make
your head spin
You may choose an all-in-one venue that
comes with its own gorgeous setting cater-
ing waitstaff tables and chairs and hope
that the cost is within your reach DIY
wedding plans may or may not be moreeconomical but many excited couples opt
for more personalized settings and control
over the way things are done One thing is
for sure You probably donrsquot own enough
chairs tables and service to make it hap-
pen without help
You could always buy the folding chairs
and tables linens and glassware for your
event but then you need a place to store
everything before and after the party
Owning everything makes you solely respon-
sible for cleaning and ironing linens polish-
ing service and washing all of the dishware before and after use (especially if itrsquos been
sitting awhile) It is often more ef983142icient to
simply rent what you need for each occasion
if you plan to throw several parties
Letrsquos go rental
Every bride in your family before
you was married in Aunt Franrsquos parlor
and thatrsquos the beginning yoursquove always
dreamed of with a reception in the back-
yard But then you remember the light rain
shower during your cousinrsquos gala and how
it chased everyone away Yoursquoll need seat-ing and decorations for inside and yoursquoll
want to add a tent to the tables chairs and
buffet setting outside Or maybe the old
barn could be gussied up for a fancy do
but the dirt floor leaves a lot to be desired
especially when it comes to dancing -- but
thatrsquos not a problem if you add a rented
dance floor (or more)
Party rental companies offer everything
from aisle covers to wine glasses Choose
table linens centerpieces pole covers (to
hide tent supports) dance floors of various
sizes stages and more If you are worriedabout the weather 983142ind tents for outdoor
parties they come with sides or open with
options for fans or heaters for comfort
Serve delicious meals with gas or charcoal
grill rentals and buffet-style cha983142ing dishes
There is no limit to what you can do Paper
plates are great for picnics but if you pre-
fer restaurant-style service 983142ind china
charger plates silver service goblets and
flutes and linen napkins and tablecloths
Check out the party supply rental com-
panies in your area to 983142ind out what theyoffer and compare prices Make sure to
include delivery costs as well as delivery
terms such as how far in advance they will
deliver and when they will pick up after the
affair Visit the showrooms to see the qual-
ity of merchandise they offer By all means
get recommendations and warnings from
other consumers you certainly donrsquot want
to 983142ind out on the day of the party that the
tablecloths are stained or that you were
shorted on the glassware Ask about their
reputation for reliability their willingness
to work with you and whether there is an
extra charge for setup Also 983142ind out in what
condition the items have to be returned
mdash eg do the dishes need to be washedor simply scraped do the linens need to
be laundered and what are the costs for
breakage If possible compare the prices
quality service and reputations of a few
companies before making a 983142inal decision
Some party rental suppliers will work
with area vendors such as caterers and
wait staff to help you 983142ind a complete
package for your magical day Make an
appointment to sit down with your cho-
sen rental company and explain your
vision to them A party planner can makehelpful suggestions based on the compa-
nyrsquos experience with previous weddings
and parties They can tell you how many
plates glasses and flatware sets to rent
based on the number of people invited
always order a few extra pieces in case of
breakage or unexpected guests Read the
contract carefully to verify that all dates
quantities and service details are spelled
out correctly Creatorscom
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Isaac ChalouhENTERTAINMENT
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N E W
Le menu du jour
New trends in menu cards Sharon Naylor x
W hen printed menu cards
983142irst showed up as wed-
ding table additions guests
loved reading those delec-
table descriptions of the courses to come
during the dinner There was at 983142irst one
printed card per round table then four
or so spaced apart on long tables Guests
took turns looking at the elegantly printedcards with the dazzling print script Soon
individual menu cards were placed on
each guestrsquos plate for easier use and now
those individual menu cards are being per-
sonalized to each guest
ldquoYour tablescape offers countless oppor-
tunities to wow guests with custom details
and personalized menu cards are func-
tional and beautiful while making guests
feel like an important part of your big dayrdquo
says Vanessa Wicks event sales director at
Weylin B Seymourrsquos a historic event venue
in Brooklyn that has been the site of celeb-
rity weddings and events
When guests arrive at their tables they
983142ind their names printed on the menu
cards showing that you value their pres-
ence on their big day And the artistry of
their name handwritten in calligraphy
complements the loveliness of your wed-
ding design Yoursquove taken great care withthe smallest of details elevating your wed-
ding as a whole
Another advantage of customized menu
cards is the ability to tailor guestsrsquo special
menu requirements such as a gluten-free
vegan or kosher meal When guests see
their menu card they know right away
that yoursquove heard and honored their
requests They donrsquot need to be anxious
about their special meals
To help you create your personalized
menu cards keep the following tips in
mind
bull Spell names correctly Triple-check
your invitations list looking at guestsrsquosocial media pages for backup to be sure
each guestrsquos name is spelled correctly It
would be an awful faux pas if you created
a card for ldquoJohnrdquo when he goes by ldquoJonrdquo
bull Plan for dim lighting Your recep -
tion ballroom may be dimly lit illumi-
nated by candles and that low light can
make light-colored print dif983142icult to read
Larger script in a good contrasting shade
makes your menu card easier to see Not
all guests bring their reading glasses with
them Metallic print will capture candle-light so consider shimmery lettering
bull Create personalized menu cards for
children as well Theirs can be designed
differently than adult guestsrsquo cards using
kid-themed colors and motifs Add a print
game to the back of the card to provide a
fun activity
bull Add an accent to the back of guestsrsquo
menu cards A personalized note from you
may be extra work but it goes a long way
to making your guests feel like VIPs Or if
a personalized message isnrsquot realistic for
your time and budget print an inspiring
and romantic or a foodie-themed quote
on the back of each cardbull Ask your chef to help Make your menu
card mouth-watering with chef-provided
dish descriptions of each course
bull Include drink pairing choices with
each course Again your chef or bar man-
ager can provide pairing ideas using vin-
tages and cocktails that will be served at
your wedding
You might be wondering whether per-
sonalized menu cards at each guestrsquos
seat will tell each guest where to sit at
the table While guests are free to switchseats it is a good idea to put your guest
menu cards in order by table so that
staffers handling your weddingrsquos table
setups can place cards in the order you
prefer seating spouses and families next
to each other
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
B if l
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wwwmarriottcomhotelstravelewrsb-saddle-brook-marriott
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Teresa Iqbal x
T he honeymoon is typically the last climactic
event of the wedding process As the culminat-
ing event that pulls everything together and
leaves couples with their 983142irst opportunity to
relax and begin enjoying life together itrsquos important to
make it as enjoyable as possible But where do you begin
when it comes to choosing where and how to enjoy your
983142irst moments together as a married couple on your
honeymoon
Choosing a honeymoon destination that represents
your interests as a couple is perhaps the best place to start
narrowing down destination choices Do you love art andmuseums If so a large city with ample opportunity for
you to spend the days among art exhibits and historical
pieces is probably best suited for you Perhaps yoursquore a
couple who consider themselves literary Take some time
to research places where literary authors made history
and immerse yourself in these same spots Maybe a good
time for you means spending most of your days beach-
side Be sure to choose a honeymoon destination where
you can spend your days on the beach and take part in
activities on the water Enjoying the overall culture of your
destination is an important key to having a happy and ful-983142illing experience on your honeymoon
You neednrsquot spend an outrageous amount of money
traveling to a tropical destination either Chances are
that there are beautiful spots closer than you think where
you could make great memories doing the things you both
love In fact building your honeymoon itinerary around
the activities you love allows you to consider an array of
vacation spots that 983142it a number of budgets Whether itrsquos
staying in your country your state or even your own city
yoursquore bound to 983142ind a number of ways to celebrate They
key is to narrow down activities that are important to you
both and plan your honeymoon around cities where youknow you can have a good time doing the things you enjoy
If you are hoping to spend your vacation traveling to
faraway destinations there are other ways to be budget-
conscious while still having a good time overseas Cruises
are one honeymoon option that more and more couples
are taking advantage of every day Theyrsquore great for those
hoping to get more bang for their buck According to Lux-
ury Travel Magazine ldquowith some cruise lines port taxes
meals drinks entertainment activities and even tips are
all included in the upfront cost of a cruise Itrsquos easy to work
out a per-day cost to compare to other forms of travelrdquo
Taking a cruise also simpli983142ies the logistical process of
vacationing For example you need only unpack and pack
once Most if not all meals are included in the passen-
ger fare as well as an array of activities to be enjoyed on
the ship Splurging on meals at local spots where the ship
docks allows couples to experience 983142ine dining without
having to worry about shelling out cash at every single
meal The same goes for activities Many cruise lines orga-
nize activities off the ship that couples can take part in
such as scuba diving and museum tours which means less
hassle and work involved in 983142inding fun things to do in
your destination city leaving more time both on and offthe boat to enjoy yourselves to the fullest
A similar option for those who donrsquot want to deal with
all the stress and planning of both a wedding and a hon-
eymoon is the all-inclusive resort All-inclusives are great
for those looking for a hassle-free experience Couples can
How to choose how and where to honeymoon
pamper themselves and share all of the same bene983142its as
cruisers such as included activities and meals Just be sure
to choose a destination yoursquod both be interested in explor-
ing and experiencing to some depth because you likely
wonrsquot be doing much more than day trips to closer more
local spots This is de983142initely an upside for those looking
to stay in one place for longer and more deeply immerse
themselves in the culture art and cuisine of one location
of their choosing rather than visiting an array of destina-
tions for a short amount of time
Itrsquos clear that no matter your focus interest or budget
there are several different options to take advantage of
when creating a lasting honeymoon experienceCreatorscom
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Best guestEtiquette tips for wedding attendees Kristen Castillo x
Once the invitation arrives in
the mail you start asking your-
self questions ldquoWhat should I
wearrdquo ldquoWhat gift should I getrdquo
ldquoCan I invite a guestrdquo
All of these questions and more are com-
mon concerns for wedding guests Read on
for tips from wedding and etiquette profes-sionals for answers to your questions and
983142ind out what it takes to be a great guest
Can you bring a dateThe general rule The only people who
can attend the wedding are the ones listed
on the invitation So if the invite says ldquoMr
and Mrs Jonesrdquo then only the husband
and wife can attend If it just says ldquoMiss
Jonesrdquo then the woman must attend the
wedding aloneMake sure you RSVP for the wedding
by the date indicated on the invitation
Showing up anyway after neglecting to
RSVP is a big no-no
If your childrenrsquos names arenrsquot listed on
the invitation donrsquot show up to the wed-
ding as a family
ldquoA gentle way to deal with this situation
is to have the family table off to the side
or back of the reception areardquo says author
and etiquette expert Jacqueline Whitmore
who is also the founder of The ProtocolSchool of Palm Beach
Another option The bride and groom
might provide guests who have children
the ldquoname of a reputable baby sitter in
your area who is willing to accommodate
parents who want to attend the weddingrdquo
suggests Whitmore
What to wearWeddings tend to be dressy events but
exactly how dressyIf the invitation says ldquoblack tierdquo wear a
tuxedo
Otherwise ldquoa man should wear a suit
and a woman should wear a cocktail dress
or Sunday bestrdquo says wedding planner
Fran Plodkowski of Social Graces noting
beach weddings can be more casualldquoRemember it is a weddingrdquo says Plod-
kowski ldquoLook your bestrdquo
Gift guideGiving a wedding gift is customary but do
you give a gift off the couplersquos registry or
write a check If so how much to give
Therersquos no 983142ixed answer here
ldquoPeople do not know how much to giverdquo
says Plodkowski who advises guests to
give what they want to and can afford
Still you donrsquot have to give a gift of equal value to the price of the dinner especially
since many weddings are big budget
Typically the closer guests are to the
bride and groom the more theyrsquoll give For
example the groomrsquos sister would give a
larger gift than his co-worker would
Time mattersGuests often mistakenly assume weddings
donrsquot start on time
ldquoAs a result we see guests that purpose-fully arrive laterdquo says Camille McLamb
founder and lead coordinator at Camille
Victoria Weddings noting ceremony and
reception schedules are 983142ixed to accom-
modate parties and events throughout
the day
ldquoGuests should plan to arrive at least10 minutes before the start time listed on
the invitationrdquo urges McLamb ldquoIf a guest
ends up arriving late she should try to
check if the bridal party is lined up before
going inside If the bridal party is lined up
and about to go down the aisle the guest
should wait off to the side until the pro-
cessional is over and then sneak in up a
side aislerdquo
Remember yoursquore not
the photographerSure itrsquos exciting to capture the wedding in
photos but remember yoursquore a guest not
a photographer on assignment
ldquoDonrsquot photobomb the vowsrdquo says eti-
quette expert Cheryl Seidel ldquoRemember
therersquos probably a professional photogra-
pher somewhere behind you trying to do
the job the couple has hired him to dordquo
Seidel also reminds guests to not block
people behind them instead sit in the
back or on the far aisle Also donrsquot use aniPad to shoot photos ldquoTherersquos no way you
can be inconspicuousrdquo she says
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Before you post your pictures to social media such
as Instagram and Facebook make sure the couple
approve
Whatrsquos for dinnerEven if the reception venue is a restaurant itrsquos not OK
for guests to order whatever they want Thatrsquos because
the menu is preordered and paid for by the bride and
groom Even vegetarian vegan or specialty-diet meals
are ordered ahead of time
Guests with special dietary needs such as gluten
intolerance or nut allergies should inform the bride
and groom at the time of RSVP
AccessibilityOften guests worry about getting in and around the cer-emony and reception venues
ldquoEspecially with the rise in loft weddings not all wed-
ding venues have elevatorsrdquo says McLamb For elderly
and disabled guests ldquostairs and moving from one space
to another within a venue can present dif983142icultiesrdquo
McLamb advises brides and grooms to tell guests
about any potential accessibility challenges at the venue
so the guests can prepare ahead of time She also says
couples should reserve some tables for elderly guests
during cocktail hour Creatorscom Before you post your pictures to social media such as Instagram and Facebook make sure the couple approves(CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF NICHOLAS PURCELL STUDIO)
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HELPERS TASKERS
AND OTHER PARTY FIXERSShould you hire online help for your big day
Kristen Castillo x
W edding planning is 983142illed
with details large and small
Finding help isnrsquot always
easy but itrsquos necessary
Need help planning your engagement
party Want assistance assembling your welcome bags Loo king for som eon e
with nice penmanship to write out your
place cards
It used to be that yoursquod have to do these
jobs yourself ask friends or family or hire
an event professional So what should you
do when yoursquore overwhelmed and family
and friends arenrsquot available Nowadays
you can go online to hire helpers to get the
job done
Thatrsquos what happened for a couplersquos
wedding in Los Angeles The groom sur-
prised his bride during the reception with
her favorite New England treat Hoodsie
Cups which are paper cups 983142illed with
a mix of both chocolate and vanilla ice
cream But 983142irst the groom had to 983142igure
out how to get the frozen dessert to the
West Coast for his bride who is originally
from New England He hired a ldquoTaskerrdquo
via TaskRabbit the leading on-demand
home services app connecting busy peo-
ple with a network of Taskers in theirarea mdash or in this case someone from the
Northeast who could buy and overnight
ship 150 ice-cream cups in an industrial
strength cooler
The groom tells TaskRabbit that making
the Hoodsie Cups surprise happen was
ldquode983142initely a memory the both of us will
have for the rest of our livesrdquo and he says
that without the Taskerrsquos help he doesnrsquot
think he could have made it happen
Help for hireMany couples are hiring helpers to assist
with pre-wedding prep including every-
thing from envelope calligraphy to deco-
rating the venue to DJrsquoing or baking the
wedding cake
Some brides and grooms solicit the help
online with ads on Craigslist or v ia social
media posts asking for help with certain
wedding tasks S ites like TaskRabbit are
growing too
ldquoTaskers helping with weddings has become a big thing in the past two yearsrdquo
says Jamie Viggiano TaskRabbitrsquos VP of
marketing citing examples like helping
to plan a surprise engagement by deco-
rating an apartment with hundreds of
rose petals and LED candles deliver-
ing a wedding cake in Washington DC
and helping assemble and deliver flower
arrangements
Additional wedding tasks completed
include picking up and delivering last-
minute items like ice batteries and coffee
sorting scanning and uploading photos
for a wedding slideshow and setting up
wedding FaceTime sessions between the
couple and their loved ones who couldnrsquot
attend the ceremony in person ldquoThis has
been done a number of times with older
clients who arenrsquot savvy with technolo983143yrdquo
says Viggiano
PricingPaying for wedding help a la carte seems
to be a 983142it for couples who canrsquot afford or
donrsquot want to hire professional weddingcoordinators Some brides and grooms
list the project budget in their social media
and Craigslist posts others take bids from
anyone who responds to the ads
On TaskRabbit Taskers set their own
hourly rate by category When clients
post a task TaskRabbit provides a list of
several candidates in the area and the
individualrsquos skills The client pays once
the task is 983142inished
ldquoBrides and grooms are recognizing that
they donrsquot need to do all the wedding prep
on their own and that they can outsource
some of the more mundane tedious tasks
to quali983142ied peoplerdquo says Viggiano noting
that outsourcing the work ldquomakes a stress-
ful situation less stressfulrdquo
Buyer bewareSome wedding experts caution brides and
grooms that hiring a stranger to assist with
wedding details might not be a good idea
The reason Typically the helper is inex-
perienced with weddings and might not be
accountableldquoUnless you are a really laid-back bride
I would not recommend hiring helpers in
this wayrdquo says Michelle Balducci-Connelly
of Michelle Marie Photographie ldquoCraigslist
workers have little to no repercussions if
they donrsquot perform A professional will
have a reputation to uphold and has an
incentive to perform well because they are
making a career out of their servicerdquo
Still she understands the appeal of hir-
ing wedding helpers
ldquoWith ever-increasing costs of wed-
dings my couples are always looking to
save in areas they deem appropriaterdquo
says Balducci-Connelly noting that hiring
a day-of planner for example would cost
anywhere from $500 to $1000 for recep-
tion setup and organization compared to
a hired helper who would likely charge
an hourly or flat rate ldquothat would be far
less than a day-of coordinator would
chargerdquo
Before hiring anyone to help with your
event get references if possible and
make sure yoursquore comfortable with theirskills reliability and overall credibility
You only get one chance to make your
wedding day a success so be con983142ident in
your hiring decisions
Creatorscom
Many couples hire helpers to assist them with wedding planning such as ldquoTaskersrdquo from TaskRabbit CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF TASKRABBIT
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Dress trendsLooking your best on the big day Julia Price x
W eddings are a big deal All
the planning coordinating
decision-making letdowns
stressful situations mdash they
all fade away and become worth it the
moment the bride walks down the aisle
So of course no pressure with picking out
the perfect dress or anything rightBut really itrsquos hard to go wrong nowa-
days Luckily for everyone the lsquo80s have
come and gone and have graciously taken
their wedding dress signature styles with
them
In general wedding dresses are veer-
ing toward a less poofy look and going
toward a sleeker form-983142itting hourglass
shape This creates a more dramatic effect
when the train of the dress 983142ills out behind
the bride while also enhancing feminine
strength in the upper body
Another trend this season is the
off-the-shoulder look Several years ago
the sleeveless dress was a big hit but now
itrsquos been slightly modi983142ied to keep the shoul-
ders bare with the straps lightly hanging off
Whether the dress is white silk Chantilly
lace or ballgown-style this off-the-shoul-
der appeal creates a delicate look
The popular shabby chic furniture trend
seems to have influenced brides-to-be as
well Seeing as many couples are choos-ing the country feel mdash complete with
Mason jars mdash for their big day it makes
sense that women are looking for a dress
to match that vibe Yoursquoll see more and
more dresses with corded details and lace
accents and yoursquoll see less beadwork than
you had on some of the past looks
Also trending this season is embellishing
the back of the dress In addition to adding
a new element of beauty it makes sense
because guests wil l have a close visual of
the bridersquos back as shersquos approaching her
husband-to-be Intricate detailing on the
Trending this season is embellishing the back of the dressCREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF JULIA PRICE
back might include a crisscross or spar-
kling tulle Some brides are opting for
completely backless dresses This goes well
with layers of lace and the silhouette look
Though itrsquos good to look for many
options online (try bridescom or search for
your perfect look on Pinterest) yoursquove got
to trust your gut with what feels right for
you This is one of those situations where
no matter who else speaks up as long as
yoursquore saying ldquoI dordquo to the dress then
yoursquore going to be happy Creatorscom
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Plus-size bridesBridal beauty at any size
Kristen Castillo x
T here is a wedding gown for every
bride but if yoursquore over size 14
it might be a challenge to 983142ind
the perfect dress Luckily thatrsquos
changing Thanks to the TLC television show
ldquoCurvy Bridesrdquo and bridal shops that cater to
plus-size brides itrsquos getting easier for brides
of all sizes to 983142ind their dream dresses
These days the average woman in the
US wears a size 14 and yet bridal gownstraditionally are made for smaller sizes
ldquoPlus-size for us means anyone who
has had trouble 983142inding dresses to 983142it them
elsewhererdquo say Yuneisia Harris and Yukia
Walker owners of full-983142igured bridal salon
Curvaceous Couture and stars of ldquoCurvy
Bridesrdquo
Walker knows how frustrating it can
be for plus-sized brides to 983142ind a gown
After getting engaged she struggled to
983142ind sample gowns and ultimately didnrsquot
like the dress she chose Out of that expe-
rience she and her sister started their
company
The sisters explain that in evenin983143wear
and in bridal everything is cut smaller
ldquoSo while a person might have a smaller
street size like a 12 or a 14 in a wedding
gown they might have to order something
as large as a 20rdquo
That means when traditional bridal
salons have sample dresses in sizes 8 to 12ldquotheyrsquore really only servicing brides whose
street size is 4 to 10rdquo say Harris and Walker
Plus-Size PerceptionsThe notion of plus-size bridal fashion car-
ries many misconceptions In some cases
brides arenrsquot aware that plus-sizing exists
in the wedding world because itrsquos typi-
cally underrepresented or not seen at all
Often plus-size brides end up buying
wedding gowns online mdash one of the few
places with larger sizes
Still others assume dresses in larger
sizes should be plain and not embellished
ldquothat plus-size women donrsquot desire the
same beautiful dresses and fabrics as theirstraight-size counterpartsrdquo says Erena
Shklovsky creative director and head
designer for plus-size designer IGIGI not-
ing that many plus-size brides want ldquodeli-
cate beading luxe fabrics and innovative
cuts just like other bridesrdquo
Another misconception That being
plus-sized means you need to cover up
ldquoIrsquod say that 60 percent of our brides ini-
tially ask us to add a sleeve or a shawl to
a dress because theyrsquore afraid of showing
their arms or backrdquo say Harris and Walkernoting that adding a sleeve or a strap for
example ldquois not the most flattering choice
for a briderdquo
In other cases gowns with straps
sleeves and extra fabric can make a bride
look matronly
ldquoWe just want our brides to be happy
with their dresses and sometimes that
means helping them embrace their natu-
ral beautyrdquo say Harris and Walker who
feel viewers like the show because it allows
them to see brides they relate to try on and
look great in gorgeous gowns
Fashionable Choices
Designing full-983142igured fashions involvesmore than simply adding extra fabric
Because every bride has a different size
and body shape gowns need specialized
983142its including built-in support for large
busts for example
More fashion lines and bridal lines are
starting to embrace women of all sizes
Harris and Walker praise designers like Roz
la Kelin and Enzoani for being some of the
983142irst designers to offer plus-size samples
ldquoI think the biggest and best addition
to plus-size bridal collections is ChristianSirianorsquos dress for Nicolette Masonrdquo says
Shklovsky ldquoIt showed the rest of the fash-
ion world that plus-sized women deserve
more than to be covered with loads and
loads of fabricrdquo
Still no wedding gown is truly ready-to-
wear All dresses need alterations including
changes to hemlines bust lines waistlines
sleeves and shoulder straps No matter
what the dress size a perfect 983142it is flattering
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DIY all-in-one or party rental suppliers Chelle Cordero x
Itrsquos your wedding day and there areso many plans to be made You want
the day to be spectacular Between
budgets traditions choosing a loca-
tion considering the time of year and
weather and most importantly your idea
of a dream wedding mdash itrsquos enough to make
your head spin
You may choose an all-in-one venue that
comes with its own gorgeous setting cater-
ing waitstaff tables and chairs and hope
that the cost is within your reach DIY
wedding plans may or may not be moreeconomical but many excited couples opt
for more personalized settings and control
over the way things are done One thing is
for sure You probably donrsquot own enough
chairs tables and service to make it hap-
pen without help
You could always buy the folding chairs
and tables linens and glassware for your
event but then you need a place to store
everything before and after the party
Owning everything makes you solely respon-
sible for cleaning and ironing linens polish-
ing service and washing all of the dishware before and after use (especially if itrsquos been
sitting awhile) It is often more ef983142icient to
simply rent what you need for each occasion
if you plan to throw several parties
Letrsquos go rental
Every bride in your family before
you was married in Aunt Franrsquos parlor
and thatrsquos the beginning yoursquove always
dreamed of with a reception in the back-
yard But then you remember the light rain
shower during your cousinrsquos gala and how
it chased everyone away Yoursquoll need seat-ing and decorations for inside and yoursquoll
want to add a tent to the tables chairs and
buffet setting outside Or maybe the old
barn could be gussied up for a fancy do
but the dirt floor leaves a lot to be desired
especially when it comes to dancing -- but
thatrsquos not a problem if you add a rented
dance floor (or more)
Party rental companies offer everything
from aisle covers to wine glasses Choose
table linens centerpieces pole covers (to
hide tent supports) dance floors of various
sizes stages and more If you are worriedabout the weather 983142ind tents for outdoor
parties they come with sides or open with
options for fans or heaters for comfort
Serve delicious meals with gas or charcoal
grill rentals and buffet-style cha983142ing dishes
There is no limit to what you can do Paper
plates are great for picnics but if you pre-
fer restaurant-style service 983142ind china
charger plates silver service goblets and
flutes and linen napkins and tablecloths
Check out the party supply rental com-
panies in your area to 983142ind out what theyoffer and compare prices Make sure to
include delivery costs as well as delivery
terms such as how far in advance they will
deliver and when they will pick up after the
affair Visit the showrooms to see the qual-
ity of merchandise they offer By all means
get recommendations and warnings from
other consumers you certainly donrsquot want
to 983142ind out on the day of the party that the
tablecloths are stained or that you were
shorted on the glassware Ask about their
reputation for reliability their willingness
to work with you and whether there is an
extra charge for setup Also 983142ind out in what
condition the items have to be returned
mdash eg do the dishes need to be washedor simply scraped do the linens need to
be laundered and what are the costs for
breakage If possible compare the prices
quality service and reputations of a few
companies before making a 983142inal decision
Some party rental suppliers will work
with area vendors such as caterers and
wait staff to help you 983142ind a complete
package for your magical day Make an
appointment to sit down with your cho-
sen rental company and explain your
vision to them A party planner can makehelpful suggestions based on the compa-
nyrsquos experience with previous weddings
and parties They can tell you how many
plates glasses and flatware sets to rent
based on the number of people invited
always order a few extra pieces in case of
breakage or unexpected guests Read the
contract carefully to verify that all dates
quantities and service details are spelled
out correctly Creatorscom
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Le menu du jour
New trends in menu cards Sharon Naylor x
W hen printed menu cards
983142irst showed up as wed-
ding table additions guests
loved reading those delec-
table descriptions of the courses to come
during the dinner There was at 983142irst one
printed card per round table then four
or so spaced apart on long tables Guests
took turns looking at the elegantly printedcards with the dazzling print script Soon
individual menu cards were placed on
each guestrsquos plate for easier use and now
those individual menu cards are being per-
sonalized to each guest
ldquoYour tablescape offers countless oppor-
tunities to wow guests with custom details
and personalized menu cards are func-
tional and beautiful while making guests
feel like an important part of your big dayrdquo
says Vanessa Wicks event sales director at
Weylin B Seymourrsquos a historic event venue
in Brooklyn that has been the site of celeb-
rity weddings and events
When guests arrive at their tables they
983142ind their names printed on the menu
cards showing that you value their pres-
ence on their big day And the artistry of
their name handwritten in calligraphy
complements the loveliness of your wed-
ding design Yoursquove taken great care withthe smallest of details elevating your wed-
ding as a whole
Another advantage of customized menu
cards is the ability to tailor guestsrsquo special
menu requirements such as a gluten-free
vegan or kosher meal When guests see
their menu card they know right away
that yoursquove heard and honored their
requests They donrsquot need to be anxious
about their special meals
To help you create your personalized
menu cards keep the following tips in
mind
bull Spell names correctly Triple-check
your invitations list looking at guestsrsquosocial media pages for backup to be sure
each guestrsquos name is spelled correctly It
would be an awful faux pas if you created
a card for ldquoJohnrdquo when he goes by ldquoJonrdquo
bull Plan for dim lighting Your recep -
tion ballroom may be dimly lit illumi-
nated by candles and that low light can
make light-colored print dif983142icult to read
Larger script in a good contrasting shade
makes your menu card easier to see Not
all guests bring their reading glasses with
them Metallic print will capture candle-light so consider shimmery lettering
bull Create personalized menu cards for
children as well Theirs can be designed
differently than adult guestsrsquo cards using
kid-themed colors and motifs Add a print
game to the back of the card to provide a
fun activity
bull Add an accent to the back of guestsrsquo
menu cards A personalized note from you
may be extra work but it goes a long way
to making your guests feel like VIPs Or if
a personalized message isnrsquot realistic for
your time and budget print an inspiring
and romantic or a foodie-themed quote
on the back of each cardbull Ask your chef to help Make your menu
card mouth-watering with chef-provided
dish descriptions of each course
bull Include drink pairing choices with
each course Again your chef or bar man-
ager can provide pairing ideas using vin-
tages and cocktails that will be served at
your wedding
You might be wondering whether per-
sonalized menu cards at each guestrsquos
seat will tell each guest where to sit at
the table While guests are free to switchseats it is a good idea to put your guest
menu cards in order by table so that
staffers handling your weddingrsquos table
setups can place cards in the order you
prefer seating spouses and families next
to each other
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
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Best guestEtiquette tips for wedding attendees Kristen Castillo x
Once the invitation arrives in
the mail you start asking your-
self questions ldquoWhat should I
wearrdquo ldquoWhat gift should I getrdquo
ldquoCan I invite a guestrdquo
All of these questions and more are com-
mon concerns for wedding guests Read on
for tips from wedding and etiquette profes-sionals for answers to your questions and
983142ind out what it takes to be a great guest
Can you bring a dateThe general rule The only people who
can attend the wedding are the ones listed
on the invitation So if the invite says ldquoMr
and Mrs Jonesrdquo then only the husband
and wife can attend If it just says ldquoMiss
Jonesrdquo then the woman must attend the
wedding aloneMake sure you RSVP for the wedding
by the date indicated on the invitation
Showing up anyway after neglecting to
RSVP is a big no-no
If your childrenrsquos names arenrsquot listed on
the invitation donrsquot show up to the wed-
ding as a family
ldquoA gentle way to deal with this situation
is to have the family table off to the side
or back of the reception areardquo says author
and etiquette expert Jacqueline Whitmore
who is also the founder of The ProtocolSchool of Palm Beach
Another option The bride and groom
might provide guests who have children
the ldquoname of a reputable baby sitter in
your area who is willing to accommodate
parents who want to attend the weddingrdquo
suggests Whitmore
What to wearWeddings tend to be dressy events but
exactly how dressyIf the invitation says ldquoblack tierdquo wear a
tuxedo
Otherwise ldquoa man should wear a suit
and a woman should wear a cocktail dress
or Sunday bestrdquo says wedding planner
Fran Plodkowski of Social Graces noting
beach weddings can be more casualldquoRemember it is a weddingrdquo says Plod-
kowski ldquoLook your bestrdquo
Gift guideGiving a wedding gift is customary but do
you give a gift off the couplersquos registry or
write a check If so how much to give
Therersquos no 983142ixed answer here
ldquoPeople do not know how much to giverdquo
says Plodkowski who advises guests to
give what they want to and can afford
Still you donrsquot have to give a gift of equal value to the price of the dinner especially
since many weddings are big budget
Typically the closer guests are to the
bride and groom the more theyrsquoll give For
example the groomrsquos sister would give a
larger gift than his co-worker would
Time mattersGuests often mistakenly assume weddings
donrsquot start on time
ldquoAs a result we see guests that purpose-fully arrive laterdquo says Camille McLamb
founder and lead coordinator at Camille
Victoria Weddings noting ceremony and
reception schedules are 983142ixed to accom-
modate parties and events throughout
the day
ldquoGuests should plan to arrive at least10 minutes before the start time listed on
the invitationrdquo urges McLamb ldquoIf a guest
ends up arriving late she should try to
check if the bridal party is lined up before
going inside If the bridal party is lined up
and about to go down the aisle the guest
should wait off to the side until the pro-
cessional is over and then sneak in up a
side aislerdquo
Remember yoursquore not
the photographerSure itrsquos exciting to capture the wedding in
photos but remember yoursquore a guest not
a photographer on assignment
ldquoDonrsquot photobomb the vowsrdquo says eti-
quette expert Cheryl Seidel ldquoRemember
therersquos probably a professional photogra-
pher somewhere behind you trying to do
the job the couple has hired him to dordquo
Seidel also reminds guests to not block
people behind them instead sit in the
back or on the far aisle Also donrsquot use aniPad to shoot photos ldquoTherersquos no way you
can be inconspicuousrdquo she says
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Before you post your pictures to social media such
as Instagram and Facebook make sure the couple
approve
Whatrsquos for dinnerEven if the reception venue is a restaurant itrsquos not OK
for guests to order whatever they want Thatrsquos because
the menu is preordered and paid for by the bride and
groom Even vegetarian vegan or specialty-diet meals
are ordered ahead of time
Guests with special dietary needs such as gluten
intolerance or nut allergies should inform the bride
and groom at the time of RSVP
AccessibilityOften guests worry about getting in and around the cer-emony and reception venues
ldquoEspecially with the rise in loft weddings not all wed-
ding venues have elevatorsrdquo says McLamb For elderly
and disabled guests ldquostairs and moving from one space
to another within a venue can present dif983142icultiesrdquo
McLamb advises brides and grooms to tell guests
about any potential accessibility challenges at the venue
so the guests can prepare ahead of time She also says
couples should reserve some tables for elderly guests
during cocktail hour Creatorscom Before you post your pictures to social media such as Instagram and Facebook make sure the couple approves(CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF NICHOLAS PURCELL STUDIO)
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HELPERS TASKERS
AND OTHER PARTY FIXERSShould you hire online help for your big day
Kristen Castillo x
W edding planning is 983142illed
with details large and small
Finding help isnrsquot always
easy but itrsquos necessary
Need help planning your engagement
party Want assistance assembling your welcome bags Loo king for som eon e
with nice penmanship to write out your
place cards
It used to be that yoursquod have to do these
jobs yourself ask friends or family or hire
an event professional So what should you
do when yoursquore overwhelmed and family
and friends arenrsquot available Nowadays
you can go online to hire helpers to get the
job done
Thatrsquos what happened for a couplersquos
wedding in Los Angeles The groom sur-
prised his bride during the reception with
her favorite New England treat Hoodsie
Cups which are paper cups 983142illed with
a mix of both chocolate and vanilla ice
cream But 983142irst the groom had to 983142igure
out how to get the frozen dessert to the
West Coast for his bride who is originally
from New England He hired a ldquoTaskerrdquo
via TaskRabbit the leading on-demand
home services app connecting busy peo-
ple with a network of Taskers in theirarea mdash or in this case someone from the
Northeast who could buy and overnight
ship 150 ice-cream cups in an industrial
strength cooler
The groom tells TaskRabbit that making
the Hoodsie Cups surprise happen was
ldquode983142initely a memory the both of us will
have for the rest of our livesrdquo and he says
that without the Taskerrsquos help he doesnrsquot
think he could have made it happen
Help for hireMany couples are hiring helpers to assist
with pre-wedding prep including every-
thing from envelope calligraphy to deco-
rating the venue to DJrsquoing or baking the
wedding cake
Some brides and grooms solicit the help
online with ads on Craigslist or v ia social
media posts asking for help with certain
wedding tasks S ites like TaskRabbit are
growing too
ldquoTaskers helping with weddings has become a big thing in the past two yearsrdquo
says Jamie Viggiano TaskRabbitrsquos VP of
marketing citing examples like helping
to plan a surprise engagement by deco-
rating an apartment with hundreds of
rose petals and LED candles deliver-
ing a wedding cake in Washington DC
and helping assemble and deliver flower
arrangements
Additional wedding tasks completed
include picking up and delivering last-
minute items like ice batteries and coffee
sorting scanning and uploading photos
for a wedding slideshow and setting up
wedding FaceTime sessions between the
couple and their loved ones who couldnrsquot
attend the ceremony in person ldquoThis has
been done a number of times with older
clients who arenrsquot savvy with technolo983143yrdquo
says Viggiano
PricingPaying for wedding help a la carte seems
to be a 983142it for couples who canrsquot afford or
donrsquot want to hire professional weddingcoordinators Some brides and grooms
list the project budget in their social media
and Craigslist posts others take bids from
anyone who responds to the ads
On TaskRabbit Taskers set their own
hourly rate by category When clients
post a task TaskRabbit provides a list of
several candidates in the area and the
individualrsquos skills The client pays once
the task is 983142inished
ldquoBrides and grooms are recognizing that
they donrsquot need to do all the wedding prep
on their own and that they can outsource
some of the more mundane tedious tasks
to quali983142ied peoplerdquo says Viggiano noting
that outsourcing the work ldquomakes a stress-
ful situation less stressfulrdquo
Buyer bewareSome wedding experts caution brides and
grooms that hiring a stranger to assist with
wedding details might not be a good idea
The reason Typically the helper is inex-
perienced with weddings and might not be
accountableldquoUnless you are a really laid-back bride
I would not recommend hiring helpers in
this wayrdquo says Michelle Balducci-Connelly
of Michelle Marie Photographie ldquoCraigslist
workers have little to no repercussions if
they donrsquot perform A professional will
have a reputation to uphold and has an
incentive to perform well because they are
making a career out of their servicerdquo
Still she understands the appeal of hir-
ing wedding helpers
ldquoWith ever-increasing costs of wed-
dings my couples are always looking to
save in areas they deem appropriaterdquo
says Balducci-Connelly noting that hiring
a day-of planner for example would cost
anywhere from $500 to $1000 for recep-
tion setup and organization compared to
a hired helper who would likely charge
an hourly or flat rate ldquothat would be far
less than a day-of coordinator would
chargerdquo
Before hiring anyone to help with your
event get references if possible and
make sure yoursquore comfortable with theirskills reliability and overall credibility
You only get one chance to make your
wedding day a success so be con983142ident in
your hiring decisions
Creatorscom
Many couples hire helpers to assist them with wedding planning such as ldquoTaskersrdquo from TaskRabbit CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF TASKRABBIT
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Dress trendsLooking your best on the big day Julia Price x
W eddings are a big deal All
the planning coordinating
decision-making letdowns
stressful situations mdash they
all fade away and become worth it the
moment the bride walks down the aisle
So of course no pressure with picking out
the perfect dress or anything rightBut really itrsquos hard to go wrong nowa-
days Luckily for everyone the lsquo80s have
come and gone and have graciously taken
their wedding dress signature styles with
them
In general wedding dresses are veer-
ing toward a less poofy look and going
toward a sleeker form-983142itting hourglass
shape This creates a more dramatic effect
when the train of the dress 983142ills out behind
the bride while also enhancing feminine
strength in the upper body
Another trend this season is the
off-the-shoulder look Several years ago
the sleeveless dress was a big hit but now
itrsquos been slightly modi983142ied to keep the shoul-
ders bare with the straps lightly hanging off
Whether the dress is white silk Chantilly
lace or ballgown-style this off-the-shoul-
der appeal creates a delicate look
The popular shabby chic furniture trend
seems to have influenced brides-to-be as
well Seeing as many couples are choos-ing the country feel mdash complete with
Mason jars mdash for their big day it makes
sense that women are looking for a dress
to match that vibe Yoursquoll see more and
more dresses with corded details and lace
accents and yoursquoll see less beadwork than
you had on some of the past looks
Also trending this season is embellishing
the back of the dress In addition to adding
a new element of beauty it makes sense
because guests wil l have a close visual of
the bridersquos back as shersquos approaching her
husband-to-be Intricate detailing on the
Trending this season is embellishing the back of the dressCREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF JULIA PRICE
back might include a crisscross or spar-
kling tulle Some brides are opting for
completely backless dresses This goes well
with layers of lace and the silhouette look
Though itrsquos good to look for many
options online (try bridescom or search for
your perfect look on Pinterest) yoursquove got
to trust your gut with what feels right for
you This is one of those situations where
no matter who else speaks up as long as
yoursquore saying ldquoI dordquo to the dress then
yoursquore going to be happy Creatorscom
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Plus-size bridesBridal beauty at any size
Kristen Castillo x
T here is a wedding gown for every
bride but if yoursquore over size 14
it might be a challenge to 983142ind
the perfect dress Luckily thatrsquos
changing Thanks to the TLC television show
ldquoCurvy Bridesrdquo and bridal shops that cater to
plus-size brides itrsquos getting easier for brides
of all sizes to 983142ind their dream dresses
These days the average woman in the
US wears a size 14 and yet bridal gownstraditionally are made for smaller sizes
ldquoPlus-size for us means anyone who
has had trouble 983142inding dresses to 983142it them
elsewhererdquo say Yuneisia Harris and Yukia
Walker owners of full-983142igured bridal salon
Curvaceous Couture and stars of ldquoCurvy
Bridesrdquo
Walker knows how frustrating it can
be for plus-sized brides to 983142ind a gown
After getting engaged she struggled to
983142ind sample gowns and ultimately didnrsquot
like the dress she chose Out of that expe-
rience she and her sister started their
company
The sisters explain that in evenin983143wear
and in bridal everything is cut smaller
ldquoSo while a person might have a smaller
street size like a 12 or a 14 in a wedding
gown they might have to order something
as large as a 20rdquo
That means when traditional bridal
salons have sample dresses in sizes 8 to 12ldquotheyrsquore really only servicing brides whose
street size is 4 to 10rdquo say Harris and Walker
Plus-Size PerceptionsThe notion of plus-size bridal fashion car-
ries many misconceptions In some cases
brides arenrsquot aware that plus-sizing exists
in the wedding world because itrsquos typi-
cally underrepresented or not seen at all
Often plus-size brides end up buying
wedding gowns online mdash one of the few
places with larger sizes
Still others assume dresses in larger
sizes should be plain and not embellished
ldquothat plus-size women donrsquot desire the
same beautiful dresses and fabrics as theirstraight-size counterpartsrdquo says Erena
Shklovsky creative director and head
designer for plus-size designer IGIGI not-
ing that many plus-size brides want ldquodeli-
cate beading luxe fabrics and innovative
cuts just like other bridesrdquo
Another misconception That being
plus-sized means you need to cover up
ldquoIrsquod say that 60 percent of our brides ini-
tially ask us to add a sleeve or a shawl to
a dress because theyrsquore afraid of showing
their arms or backrdquo say Harris and Walkernoting that adding a sleeve or a strap for
example ldquois not the most flattering choice
for a briderdquo
In other cases gowns with straps
sleeves and extra fabric can make a bride
look matronly
ldquoWe just want our brides to be happy
with their dresses and sometimes that
means helping them embrace their natu-
ral beautyrdquo say Harris and Walker who
feel viewers like the show because it allows
them to see brides they relate to try on and
look great in gorgeous gowns
Fashionable Choices
Designing full-983142igured fashions involvesmore than simply adding extra fabric
Because every bride has a different size
and body shape gowns need specialized
983142its including built-in support for large
busts for example
More fashion lines and bridal lines are
starting to embrace women of all sizes
Harris and Walker praise designers like Roz
la Kelin and Enzoani for being some of the
983142irst designers to offer plus-size samples
ldquoI think the biggest and best addition
to plus-size bridal collections is ChristianSirianorsquos dress for Nicolette Masonrdquo says
Shklovsky ldquoIt showed the rest of the fash-
ion world that plus-sized women deserve
more than to be covered with loads and
loads of fabricrdquo
Still no wedding gown is truly ready-to-
wear All dresses need alterations including
changes to hemlines bust lines waistlines
sleeves and shoulder straps No matter
what the dress size a perfect 983142it is flattering
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201-843-1250
Lunch 1130 am - 3 pm middot Dinner 5 pm - 11 pm
Lunch on Saturday from 100 on
Open Monday-Sunday for lunch amp dinner
Ask about our party facilities
Excellent - Zagat1999 2000 2001 2002 2003 2006 2014
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SHOWERS middot BACHELORBACHELORETTE PARTIES middot REHEARSAL DINNERS
DIY all-in-one or party rental suppliers Chelle Cordero x
Itrsquos your wedding day and there areso many plans to be made You want
the day to be spectacular Between
budgets traditions choosing a loca-
tion considering the time of year and
weather and most importantly your idea
of a dream wedding mdash itrsquos enough to make
your head spin
You may choose an all-in-one venue that
comes with its own gorgeous setting cater-
ing waitstaff tables and chairs and hope
that the cost is within your reach DIY
wedding plans may or may not be moreeconomical but many excited couples opt
for more personalized settings and control
over the way things are done One thing is
for sure You probably donrsquot own enough
chairs tables and service to make it hap-
pen without help
You could always buy the folding chairs
and tables linens and glassware for your
event but then you need a place to store
everything before and after the party
Owning everything makes you solely respon-
sible for cleaning and ironing linens polish-
ing service and washing all of the dishware before and after use (especially if itrsquos been
sitting awhile) It is often more ef983142icient to
simply rent what you need for each occasion
if you plan to throw several parties
Letrsquos go rental
Every bride in your family before
you was married in Aunt Franrsquos parlor
and thatrsquos the beginning yoursquove always
dreamed of with a reception in the back-
yard But then you remember the light rain
shower during your cousinrsquos gala and how
it chased everyone away Yoursquoll need seat-ing and decorations for inside and yoursquoll
want to add a tent to the tables chairs and
buffet setting outside Or maybe the old
barn could be gussied up for a fancy do
but the dirt floor leaves a lot to be desired
especially when it comes to dancing -- but
thatrsquos not a problem if you add a rented
dance floor (or more)
Party rental companies offer everything
from aisle covers to wine glasses Choose
table linens centerpieces pole covers (to
hide tent supports) dance floors of various
sizes stages and more If you are worriedabout the weather 983142ind tents for outdoor
parties they come with sides or open with
options for fans or heaters for comfort
Serve delicious meals with gas or charcoal
grill rentals and buffet-style cha983142ing dishes
There is no limit to what you can do Paper
plates are great for picnics but if you pre-
fer restaurant-style service 983142ind china
charger plates silver service goblets and
flutes and linen napkins and tablecloths
Check out the party supply rental com-
panies in your area to 983142ind out what theyoffer and compare prices Make sure to
include delivery costs as well as delivery
terms such as how far in advance they will
deliver and when they will pick up after the
affair Visit the showrooms to see the qual-
ity of merchandise they offer By all means
get recommendations and warnings from
other consumers you certainly donrsquot want
to 983142ind out on the day of the party that the
tablecloths are stained or that you were
shorted on the glassware Ask about their
reputation for reliability their willingness
to work with you and whether there is an
extra charge for setup Also 983142ind out in what
condition the items have to be returned
mdash eg do the dishes need to be washedor simply scraped do the linens need to
be laundered and what are the costs for
breakage If possible compare the prices
quality service and reputations of a few
companies before making a 983142inal decision
Some party rental suppliers will work
with area vendors such as caterers and
wait staff to help you 983142ind a complete
package for your magical day Make an
appointment to sit down with your cho-
sen rental company and explain your
vision to them A party planner can makehelpful suggestions based on the compa-
nyrsquos experience with previous weddings
and parties They can tell you how many
plates glasses and flatware sets to rent
based on the number of people invited
always order a few extra pieces in case of
breakage or unexpected guests Read the
contract carefully to verify that all dates
quantities and service details are spelled
out correctly Creatorscom
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Isaac ChalouhENTERTAINMENT
DJ and Lighting Services
LONG ISLAND
88 Washington AvenueCedarhurst NY 11516
516-792-6144
TEANECK
370 Queen Anne RoadTeaneck NJ 07666
201-357-8730
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N E W
Le menu du jour
New trends in menu cards Sharon Naylor x
W hen printed menu cards
983142irst showed up as wed-
ding table additions guests
loved reading those delec-
table descriptions of the courses to come
during the dinner There was at 983142irst one
printed card per round table then four
or so spaced apart on long tables Guests
took turns looking at the elegantly printedcards with the dazzling print script Soon
individual menu cards were placed on
each guestrsquos plate for easier use and now
those individual menu cards are being per-
sonalized to each guest
ldquoYour tablescape offers countless oppor-
tunities to wow guests with custom details
and personalized menu cards are func-
tional and beautiful while making guests
feel like an important part of your big dayrdquo
says Vanessa Wicks event sales director at
Weylin B Seymourrsquos a historic event venue
in Brooklyn that has been the site of celeb-
rity weddings and events
When guests arrive at their tables they
983142ind their names printed on the menu
cards showing that you value their pres-
ence on their big day And the artistry of
their name handwritten in calligraphy
complements the loveliness of your wed-
ding design Yoursquove taken great care withthe smallest of details elevating your wed-
ding as a whole
Another advantage of customized menu
cards is the ability to tailor guestsrsquo special
menu requirements such as a gluten-free
vegan or kosher meal When guests see
their menu card they know right away
that yoursquove heard and honored their
requests They donrsquot need to be anxious
about their special meals
To help you create your personalized
menu cards keep the following tips in
mind
bull Spell names correctly Triple-check
your invitations list looking at guestsrsquosocial media pages for backup to be sure
each guestrsquos name is spelled correctly It
would be an awful faux pas if you created
a card for ldquoJohnrdquo when he goes by ldquoJonrdquo
bull Plan for dim lighting Your recep -
tion ballroom may be dimly lit illumi-
nated by candles and that low light can
make light-colored print dif983142icult to read
Larger script in a good contrasting shade
makes your menu card easier to see Not
all guests bring their reading glasses with
them Metallic print will capture candle-light so consider shimmery lettering
bull Create personalized menu cards for
children as well Theirs can be designed
differently than adult guestsrsquo cards using
kid-themed colors and motifs Add a print
game to the back of the card to provide a
fun activity
bull Add an accent to the back of guestsrsquo
menu cards A personalized note from you
may be extra work but it goes a long way
to making your guests feel like VIPs Or if
a personalized message isnrsquot realistic for
your time and budget print an inspiring
and romantic or a foodie-themed quote
on the back of each cardbull Ask your chef to help Make your menu
card mouth-watering with chef-provided
dish descriptions of each course
bull Include drink pairing choices with
each course Again your chef or bar man-
ager can provide pairing ideas using vin-
tages and cocktails that will be served at
your wedding
You might be wondering whether per-
sonalized menu cards at each guestrsquos
seat will tell each guest where to sit at
the table While guests are free to switchseats it is a good idea to put your guest
menu cards in order by table so that
staffers handling your weddingrsquos table
setups can place cards in the order you
prefer seating spouses and families next
to each other
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
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2015READERS POLL
Before you post your pictures to social media such
as Instagram and Facebook make sure the couple
approve
Whatrsquos for dinnerEven if the reception venue is a restaurant itrsquos not OK
for guests to order whatever they want Thatrsquos because
the menu is preordered and paid for by the bride and
groom Even vegetarian vegan or specialty-diet meals
are ordered ahead of time
Guests with special dietary needs such as gluten
intolerance or nut allergies should inform the bride
and groom at the time of RSVP
AccessibilityOften guests worry about getting in and around the cer-emony and reception venues
ldquoEspecially with the rise in loft weddings not all wed-
ding venues have elevatorsrdquo says McLamb For elderly
and disabled guests ldquostairs and moving from one space
to another within a venue can present dif983142icultiesrdquo
McLamb advises brides and grooms to tell guests
about any potential accessibility challenges at the venue
so the guests can prepare ahead of time She also says
couples should reserve some tables for elderly guests
during cocktail hour Creatorscom Before you post your pictures to social media such as Instagram and Facebook make sure the couple approves(CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF NICHOLAS PURCELL STUDIO)
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HELPERS TASKERS
AND OTHER PARTY FIXERSShould you hire online help for your big day
Kristen Castillo x
W edding planning is 983142illed
with details large and small
Finding help isnrsquot always
easy but itrsquos necessary
Need help planning your engagement
party Want assistance assembling your welcome bags Loo king for som eon e
with nice penmanship to write out your
place cards
It used to be that yoursquod have to do these
jobs yourself ask friends or family or hire
an event professional So what should you
do when yoursquore overwhelmed and family
and friends arenrsquot available Nowadays
you can go online to hire helpers to get the
job done
Thatrsquos what happened for a couplersquos
wedding in Los Angeles The groom sur-
prised his bride during the reception with
her favorite New England treat Hoodsie
Cups which are paper cups 983142illed with
a mix of both chocolate and vanilla ice
cream But 983142irst the groom had to 983142igure
out how to get the frozen dessert to the
West Coast for his bride who is originally
from New England He hired a ldquoTaskerrdquo
via TaskRabbit the leading on-demand
home services app connecting busy peo-
ple with a network of Taskers in theirarea mdash or in this case someone from the
Northeast who could buy and overnight
ship 150 ice-cream cups in an industrial
strength cooler
The groom tells TaskRabbit that making
the Hoodsie Cups surprise happen was
ldquode983142initely a memory the both of us will
have for the rest of our livesrdquo and he says
that without the Taskerrsquos help he doesnrsquot
think he could have made it happen
Help for hireMany couples are hiring helpers to assist
with pre-wedding prep including every-
thing from envelope calligraphy to deco-
rating the venue to DJrsquoing or baking the
wedding cake
Some brides and grooms solicit the help
online with ads on Craigslist or v ia social
media posts asking for help with certain
wedding tasks S ites like TaskRabbit are
growing too
ldquoTaskers helping with weddings has become a big thing in the past two yearsrdquo
says Jamie Viggiano TaskRabbitrsquos VP of
marketing citing examples like helping
to plan a surprise engagement by deco-
rating an apartment with hundreds of
rose petals and LED candles deliver-
ing a wedding cake in Washington DC
and helping assemble and deliver flower
arrangements
Additional wedding tasks completed
include picking up and delivering last-
minute items like ice batteries and coffee
sorting scanning and uploading photos
for a wedding slideshow and setting up
wedding FaceTime sessions between the
couple and their loved ones who couldnrsquot
attend the ceremony in person ldquoThis has
been done a number of times with older
clients who arenrsquot savvy with technolo983143yrdquo
says Viggiano
PricingPaying for wedding help a la carte seems
to be a 983142it for couples who canrsquot afford or
donrsquot want to hire professional weddingcoordinators Some brides and grooms
list the project budget in their social media
and Craigslist posts others take bids from
anyone who responds to the ads
On TaskRabbit Taskers set their own
hourly rate by category When clients
post a task TaskRabbit provides a list of
several candidates in the area and the
individualrsquos skills The client pays once
the task is 983142inished
ldquoBrides and grooms are recognizing that
they donrsquot need to do all the wedding prep
on their own and that they can outsource
some of the more mundane tedious tasks
to quali983142ied peoplerdquo says Viggiano noting
that outsourcing the work ldquomakes a stress-
ful situation less stressfulrdquo
Buyer bewareSome wedding experts caution brides and
grooms that hiring a stranger to assist with
wedding details might not be a good idea
The reason Typically the helper is inex-
perienced with weddings and might not be
accountableldquoUnless you are a really laid-back bride
I would not recommend hiring helpers in
this wayrdquo says Michelle Balducci-Connelly
of Michelle Marie Photographie ldquoCraigslist
workers have little to no repercussions if
they donrsquot perform A professional will
have a reputation to uphold and has an
incentive to perform well because they are
making a career out of their servicerdquo
Still she understands the appeal of hir-
ing wedding helpers
ldquoWith ever-increasing costs of wed-
dings my couples are always looking to
save in areas they deem appropriaterdquo
says Balducci-Connelly noting that hiring
a day-of planner for example would cost
anywhere from $500 to $1000 for recep-
tion setup and organization compared to
a hired helper who would likely charge
an hourly or flat rate ldquothat would be far
less than a day-of coordinator would
chargerdquo
Before hiring anyone to help with your
event get references if possible and
make sure yoursquore comfortable with theirskills reliability and overall credibility
You only get one chance to make your
wedding day a success so be con983142ident in
your hiring decisions
Creatorscom
Many couples hire helpers to assist them with wedding planning such as ldquoTaskersrdquo from TaskRabbit CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF TASKRABBIT
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160 Prospect Ave Hackensack | 201-880-8750wwwbelpostonjcom
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A B B E Y C R E A T I V E P H O T O G R A P H Y
Dress trendsLooking your best on the big day Julia Price x
W eddings are a big deal All
the planning coordinating
decision-making letdowns
stressful situations mdash they
all fade away and become worth it the
moment the bride walks down the aisle
So of course no pressure with picking out
the perfect dress or anything rightBut really itrsquos hard to go wrong nowa-
days Luckily for everyone the lsquo80s have
come and gone and have graciously taken
their wedding dress signature styles with
them
In general wedding dresses are veer-
ing toward a less poofy look and going
toward a sleeker form-983142itting hourglass
shape This creates a more dramatic effect
when the train of the dress 983142ills out behind
the bride while also enhancing feminine
strength in the upper body
Another trend this season is the
off-the-shoulder look Several years ago
the sleeveless dress was a big hit but now
itrsquos been slightly modi983142ied to keep the shoul-
ders bare with the straps lightly hanging off
Whether the dress is white silk Chantilly
lace or ballgown-style this off-the-shoul-
der appeal creates a delicate look
The popular shabby chic furniture trend
seems to have influenced brides-to-be as
well Seeing as many couples are choos-ing the country feel mdash complete with
Mason jars mdash for their big day it makes
sense that women are looking for a dress
to match that vibe Yoursquoll see more and
more dresses with corded details and lace
accents and yoursquoll see less beadwork than
you had on some of the past looks
Also trending this season is embellishing
the back of the dress In addition to adding
a new element of beauty it makes sense
because guests wil l have a close visual of
the bridersquos back as shersquos approaching her
husband-to-be Intricate detailing on the
Trending this season is embellishing the back of the dressCREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF JULIA PRICE
back might include a crisscross or spar-
kling tulle Some brides are opting for
completely backless dresses This goes well
with layers of lace and the silhouette look
Though itrsquos good to look for many
options online (try bridescom or search for
your perfect look on Pinterest) yoursquove got
to trust your gut with what feels right for
you This is one of those situations where
no matter who else speaks up as long as
yoursquore saying ldquoI dordquo to the dress then
yoursquore going to be happy Creatorscom
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Steakhouse bull SushiChinese bull Thai
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Well known for its authentic cuisine fromSpain serving only the freshest seafood as
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343 Bergen BlvdPalisades Park NJ2019471038
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Serving Bergen County from more than 30 years
Mesoacuten Madrid is the
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Plus-size bridesBridal beauty at any size
Kristen Castillo x
T here is a wedding gown for every
bride but if yoursquore over size 14
it might be a challenge to 983142ind
the perfect dress Luckily thatrsquos
changing Thanks to the TLC television show
ldquoCurvy Bridesrdquo and bridal shops that cater to
plus-size brides itrsquos getting easier for brides
of all sizes to 983142ind their dream dresses
These days the average woman in the
US wears a size 14 and yet bridal gownstraditionally are made for smaller sizes
ldquoPlus-size for us means anyone who
has had trouble 983142inding dresses to 983142it them
elsewhererdquo say Yuneisia Harris and Yukia
Walker owners of full-983142igured bridal salon
Curvaceous Couture and stars of ldquoCurvy
Bridesrdquo
Walker knows how frustrating it can
be for plus-sized brides to 983142ind a gown
After getting engaged she struggled to
983142ind sample gowns and ultimately didnrsquot
like the dress she chose Out of that expe-
rience she and her sister started their
company
The sisters explain that in evenin983143wear
and in bridal everything is cut smaller
ldquoSo while a person might have a smaller
street size like a 12 or a 14 in a wedding
gown they might have to order something
as large as a 20rdquo
That means when traditional bridal
salons have sample dresses in sizes 8 to 12ldquotheyrsquore really only servicing brides whose
street size is 4 to 10rdquo say Harris and Walker
Plus-Size PerceptionsThe notion of plus-size bridal fashion car-
ries many misconceptions In some cases
brides arenrsquot aware that plus-sizing exists
in the wedding world because itrsquos typi-
cally underrepresented or not seen at all
Often plus-size brides end up buying
wedding gowns online mdash one of the few
places with larger sizes
Still others assume dresses in larger
sizes should be plain and not embellished
ldquothat plus-size women donrsquot desire the
same beautiful dresses and fabrics as theirstraight-size counterpartsrdquo says Erena
Shklovsky creative director and head
designer for plus-size designer IGIGI not-
ing that many plus-size brides want ldquodeli-
cate beading luxe fabrics and innovative
cuts just like other bridesrdquo
Another misconception That being
plus-sized means you need to cover up
ldquoIrsquod say that 60 percent of our brides ini-
tially ask us to add a sleeve or a shawl to
a dress because theyrsquore afraid of showing
their arms or backrdquo say Harris and Walkernoting that adding a sleeve or a strap for
example ldquois not the most flattering choice
for a briderdquo
In other cases gowns with straps
sleeves and extra fabric can make a bride
look matronly
ldquoWe just want our brides to be happy
with their dresses and sometimes that
means helping them embrace their natu-
ral beautyrdquo say Harris and Walker who
feel viewers like the show because it allows
them to see brides they relate to try on and
look great in gorgeous gowns
Fashionable Choices
Designing full-983142igured fashions involvesmore than simply adding extra fabric
Because every bride has a different size
and body shape gowns need specialized
983142its including built-in support for large
busts for example
More fashion lines and bridal lines are
starting to embrace women of all sizes
Harris and Walker praise designers like Roz
la Kelin and Enzoani for being some of the
983142irst designers to offer plus-size samples
ldquoI think the biggest and best addition
to plus-size bridal collections is ChristianSirianorsquos dress for Nicolette Masonrdquo says
Shklovsky ldquoIt showed the rest of the fash-
ion world that plus-sized women deserve
more than to be covered with loads and
loads of fabricrdquo
Still no wedding gown is truly ready-to-
wear All dresses need alterations including
changes to hemlines bust lines waistlines
sleeves and shoulder straps No matter
what the dress size a perfect 983142it is flattering
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178 Piermont Road middot Cresskill NJ
(201) 816-7343 middot Fax (201) 816-0254
wwwsamdanrestaurantcom
Private Party RoomUp to 70 people
Available for
All Special Occasions
WIFI
Spanish amp Portuguese Restaurant Why Go to Newark Come Once Yoursquoll be Back
Specializing in Seafood and Steaks
Private Room Available For All Occasions
Birthdays Anniversaries Corporate Functions
Shower Packages
Other Packages Available Call For Details
Open Seven Days For Lunch amp Dinner
Full Bar and Extensive Wine List
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120 Terhune Drive
Wayne NJ
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53 W Passaic St Rochelle Park
201-843-1250
Lunch 1130 am - 3 pm middot Dinner 5 pm - 11 pm
Lunch on Saturday from 100 on
Open Monday-Sunday for lunch amp dinner
Ask about our party facilities
Excellent - Zagat1999 2000 2001 2002 2003 2006 2014
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SHOWERS middot BACHELORBACHELORETTE PARTIES middot REHEARSAL DINNERS
DIY all-in-one or party rental suppliers Chelle Cordero x
Itrsquos your wedding day and there areso many plans to be made You want
the day to be spectacular Between
budgets traditions choosing a loca-
tion considering the time of year and
weather and most importantly your idea
of a dream wedding mdash itrsquos enough to make
your head spin
You may choose an all-in-one venue that
comes with its own gorgeous setting cater-
ing waitstaff tables and chairs and hope
that the cost is within your reach DIY
wedding plans may or may not be moreeconomical but many excited couples opt
for more personalized settings and control
over the way things are done One thing is
for sure You probably donrsquot own enough
chairs tables and service to make it hap-
pen without help
You could always buy the folding chairs
and tables linens and glassware for your
event but then you need a place to store
everything before and after the party
Owning everything makes you solely respon-
sible for cleaning and ironing linens polish-
ing service and washing all of the dishware before and after use (especially if itrsquos been
sitting awhile) It is often more ef983142icient to
simply rent what you need for each occasion
if you plan to throw several parties
Letrsquos go rental
Every bride in your family before
you was married in Aunt Franrsquos parlor
and thatrsquos the beginning yoursquove always
dreamed of with a reception in the back-
yard But then you remember the light rain
shower during your cousinrsquos gala and how
it chased everyone away Yoursquoll need seat-ing and decorations for inside and yoursquoll
want to add a tent to the tables chairs and
buffet setting outside Or maybe the old
barn could be gussied up for a fancy do
but the dirt floor leaves a lot to be desired
especially when it comes to dancing -- but
thatrsquos not a problem if you add a rented
dance floor (or more)
Party rental companies offer everything
from aisle covers to wine glasses Choose
table linens centerpieces pole covers (to
hide tent supports) dance floors of various
sizes stages and more If you are worriedabout the weather 983142ind tents for outdoor
parties they come with sides or open with
options for fans or heaters for comfort
Serve delicious meals with gas or charcoal
grill rentals and buffet-style cha983142ing dishes
There is no limit to what you can do Paper
plates are great for picnics but if you pre-
fer restaurant-style service 983142ind china
charger plates silver service goblets and
flutes and linen napkins and tablecloths
Check out the party supply rental com-
panies in your area to 983142ind out what theyoffer and compare prices Make sure to
include delivery costs as well as delivery
terms such as how far in advance they will
deliver and when they will pick up after the
affair Visit the showrooms to see the qual-
ity of merchandise they offer By all means
get recommendations and warnings from
other consumers you certainly donrsquot want
to 983142ind out on the day of the party that the
tablecloths are stained or that you were
shorted on the glassware Ask about their
reputation for reliability their willingness
to work with you and whether there is an
extra charge for setup Also 983142ind out in what
condition the items have to be returned
mdash eg do the dishes need to be washedor simply scraped do the linens need to
be laundered and what are the costs for
breakage If possible compare the prices
quality service and reputations of a few
companies before making a 983142inal decision
Some party rental suppliers will work
with area vendors such as caterers and
wait staff to help you 983142ind a complete
package for your magical day Make an
appointment to sit down with your cho-
sen rental company and explain your
vision to them A party planner can makehelpful suggestions based on the compa-
nyrsquos experience with previous weddings
and parties They can tell you how many
plates glasses and flatware sets to rent
based on the number of people invited
always order a few extra pieces in case of
breakage or unexpected guests Read the
contract carefully to verify that all dates
quantities and service details are spelled
out correctly Creatorscom
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Isaac ChalouhENTERTAINMENT
DJ and Lighting Services
LONG ISLAND
88 Washington AvenueCedarhurst NY 11516
516-792-6144
TEANECK
370 Queen Anne RoadTeaneck NJ 07666
201-357-8730
BROOKLYN
2084 East 8th StreetBrooklyn NY 11223
347-702-5154
VISIT OUR SHOWROOMS
wwwdjisaacchalouhcom
N E W
Le menu du jour
New trends in menu cards Sharon Naylor x
W hen printed menu cards
983142irst showed up as wed-
ding table additions guests
loved reading those delec-
table descriptions of the courses to come
during the dinner There was at 983142irst one
printed card per round table then four
or so spaced apart on long tables Guests
took turns looking at the elegantly printedcards with the dazzling print script Soon
individual menu cards were placed on
each guestrsquos plate for easier use and now
those individual menu cards are being per-
sonalized to each guest
ldquoYour tablescape offers countless oppor-
tunities to wow guests with custom details
and personalized menu cards are func-
tional and beautiful while making guests
feel like an important part of your big dayrdquo
says Vanessa Wicks event sales director at
Weylin B Seymourrsquos a historic event venue
in Brooklyn that has been the site of celeb-
rity weddings and events
When guests arrive at their tables they
983142ind their names printed on the menu
cards showing that you value their pres-
ence on their big day And the artistry of
their name handwritten in calligraphy
complements the loveliness of your wed-
ding design Yoursquove taken great care withthe smallest of details elevating your wed-
ding as a whole
Another advantage of customized menu
cards is the ability to tailor guestsrsquo special
menu requirements such as a gluten-free
vegan or kosher meal When guests see
their menu card they know right away
that yoursquove heard and honored their
requests They donrsquot need to be anxious
about their special meals
To help you create your personalized
menu cards keep the following tips in
mind
bull Spell names correctly Triple-check
your invitations list looking at guestsrsquosocial media pages for backup to be sure
each guestrsquos name is spelled correctly It
would be an awful faux pas if you created
a card for ldquoJohnrdquo when he goes by ldquoJonrdquo
bull Plan for dim lighting Your recep -
tion ballroom may be dimly lit illumi-
nated by candles and that low light can
make light-colored print dif983142icult to read
Larger script in a good contrasting shade
makes your menu card easier to see Not
all guests bring their reading glasses with
them Metallic print will capture candle-light so consider shimmery lettering
bull Create personalized menu cards for
children as well Theirs can be designed
differently than adult guestsrsquo cards using
kid-themed colors and motifs Add a print
game to the back of the card to provide a
fun activity
bull Add an accent to the back of guestsrsquo
menu cards A personalized note from you
may be extra work but it goes a long way
to making your guests feel like VIPs Or if
a personalized message isnrsquot realistic for
your time and budget print an inspiring
and romantic or a foodie-themed quote
on the back of each cardbull Ask your chef to help Make your menu
card mouth-watering with chef-provided
dish descriptions of each course
bull Include drink pairing choices with
each course Again your chef or bar man-
ager can provide pairing ideas using vin-
tages and cocktails that will be served at
your wedding
You might be wondering whether per-
sonalized menu cards at each guestrsquos
seat will tell each guest where to sit at
the table While guests are free to switchseats it is a good idea to put your guest
menu cards in order by table so that
staffers handling your weddingrsquos table
setups can place cards in the order you
prefer seating spouses and families next
to each other
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
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HELPERS TASKERS
AND OTHER PARTY FIXERSShould you hire online help for your big day
Kristen Castillo x
W edding planning is 983142illed
with details large and small
Finding help isnrsquot always
easy but itrsquos necessary
Need help planning your engagement
party Want assistance assembling your welcome bags Loo king for som eon e
with nice penmanship to write out your
place cards
It used to be that yoursquod have to do these
jobs yourself ask friends or family or hire
an event professional So what should you
do when yoursquore overwhelmed and family
and friends arenrsquot available Nowadays
you can go online to hire helpers to get the
job done
Thatrsquos what happened for a couplersquos
wedding in Los Angeles The groom sur-
prised his bride during the reception with
her favorite New England treat Hoodsie
Cups which are paper cups 983142illed with
a mix of both chocolate and vanilla ice
cream But 983142irst the groom had to 983142igure
out how to get the frozen dessert to the
West Coast for his bride who is originally
from New England He hired a ldquoTaskerrdquo
via TaskRabbit the leading on-demand
home services app connecting busy peo-
ple with a network of Taskers in theirarea mdash or in this case someone from the
Northeast who could buy and overnight
ship 150 ice-cream cups in an industrial
strength cooler
The groom tells TaskRabbit that making
the Hoodsie Cups surprise happen was
ldquode983142initely a memory the both of us will
have for the rest of our livesrdquo and he says
that without the Taskerrsquos help he doesnrsquot
think he could have made it happen
Help for hireMany couples are hiring helpers to assist
with pre-wedding prep including every-
thing from envelope calligraphy to deco-
rating the venue to DJrsquoing or baking the
wedding cake
Some brides and grooms solicit the help
online with ads on Craigslist or v ia social
media posts asking for help with certain
wedding tasks S ites like TaskRabbit are
growing too
ldquoTaskers helping with weddings has become a big thing in the past two yearsrdquo
says Jamie Viggiano TaskRabbitrsquos VP of
marketing citing examples like helping
to plan a surprise engagement by deco-
rating an apartment with hundreds of
rose petals and LED candles deliver-
ing a wedding cake in Washington DC
and helping assemble and deliver flower
arrangements
Additional wedding tasks completed
include picking up and delivering last-
minute items like ice batteries and coffee
sorting scanning and uploading photos
for a wedding slideshow and setting up
wedding FaceTime sessions between the
couple and their loved ones who couldnrsquot
attend the ceremony in person ldquoThis has
been done a number of times with older
clients who arenrsquot savvy with technolo983143yrdquo
says Viggiano
PricingPaying for wedding help a la carte seems
to be a 983142it for couples who canrsquot afford or
donrsquot want to hire professional weddingcoordinators Some brides and grooms
list the project budget in their social media
and Craigslist posts others take bids from
anyone who responds to the ads
On TaskRabbit Taskers set their own
hourly rate by category When clients
post a task TaskRabbit provides a list of
several candidates in the area and the
individualrsquos skills The client pays once
the task is 983142inished
ldquoBrides and grooms are recognizing that
they donrsquot need to do all the wedding prep
on their own and that they can outsource
some of the more mundane tedious tasks
to quali983142ied peoplerdquo says Viggiano noting
that outsourcing the work ldquomakes a stress-
ful situation less stressfulrdquo
Buyer bewareSome wedding experts caution brides and
grooms that hiring a stranger to assist with
wedding details might not be a good idea
The reason Typically the helper is inex-
perienced with weddings and might not be
accountableldquoUnless you are a really laid-back bride
I would not recommend hiring helpers in
this wayrdquo says Michelle Balducci-Connelly
of Michelle Marie Photographie ldquoCraigslist
workers have little to no repercussions if
they donrsquot perform A professional will
have a reputation to uphold and has an
incentive to perform well because they are
making a career out of their servicerdquo
Still she understands the appeal of hir-
ing wedding helpers
ldquoWith ever-increasing costs of wed-
dings my couples are always looking to
save in areas they deem appropriaterdquo
says Balducci-Connelly noting that hiring
a day-of planner for example would cost
anywhere from $500 to $1000 for recep-
tion setup and organization compared to
a hired helper who would likely charge
an hourly or flat rate ldquothat would be far
less than a day-of coordinator would
chargerdquo
Before hiring anyone to help with your
event get references if possible and
make sure yoursquore comfortable with theirskills reliability and overall credibility
You only get one chance to make your
wedding day a success so be con983142ident in
your hiring decisions
Creatorscom
Many couples hire helpers to assist them with wedding planning such as ldquoTaskersrdquo from TaskRabbit CREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF TASKRABBIT
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Open Tuesday - Sunday for Lunch and DinnerSunday Brunch 11am - 3pm All you can eat $2495
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A B B E Y C R E A T I V E P H O T O G R A P H Y
Dress trendsLooking your best on the big day Julia Price x
W eddings are a big deal All
the planning coordinating
decision-making letdowns
stressful situations mdash they
all fade away and become worth it the
moment the bride walks down the aisle
So of course no pressure with picking out
the perfect dress or anything rightBut really itrsquos hard to go wrong nowa-
days Luckily for everyone the lsquo80s have
come and gone and have graciously taken
their wedding dress signature styles with
them
In general wedding dresses are veer-
ing toward a less poofy look and going
toward a sleeker form-983142itting hourglass
shape This creates a more dramatic effect
when the train of the dress 983142ills out behind
the bride while also enhancing feminine
strength in the upper body
Another trend this season is the
off-the-shoulder look Several years ago
the sleeveless dress was a big hit but now
itrsquos been slightly modi983142ied to keep the shoul-
ders bare with the straps lightly hanging off
Whether the dress is white silk Chantilly
lace or ballgown-style this off-the-shoul-
der appeal creates a delicate look
The popular shabby chic furniture trend
seems to have influenced brides-to-be as
well Seeing as many couples are choos-ing the country feel mdash complete with
Mason jars mdash for their big day it makes
sense that women are looking for a dress
to match that vibe Yoursquoll see more and
more dresses with corded details and lace
accents and yoursquoll see less beadwork than
you had on some of the past looks
Also trending this season is embellishing
the back of the dress In addition to adding
a new element of beauty it makes sense
because guests wil l have a close visual of
the bridersquos back as shersquos approaching her
husband-to-be Intricate detailing on the
Trending this season is embellishing the back of the dressCREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF JULIA PRICE
back might include a crisscross or spar-
kling tulle Some brides are opting for
completely backless dresses This goes well
with layers of lace and the silhouette look
Though itrsquos good to look for many
options online (try bridescom or search for
your perfect look on Pinterest) yoursquove got
to trust your gut with what feels right for
you This is one of those situations where
no matter who else speaks up as long as
yoursquore saying ldquoI dordquo to the dress then
yoursquore going to be happy Creatorscom
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Steakhouse bull SushiChinese bull Thai
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Well known for its authentic cuisine fromSpain serving only the freshest seafood as
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343 Bergen BlvdPalisades Park NJ2019471038
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MesoacutenMadrid
Serving Bergen County from more than 30 years
Mesoacuten Madrid is the
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Plus-size bridesBridal beauty at any size
Kristen Castillo x
T here is a wedding gown for every
bride but if yoursquore over size 14
it might be a challenge to 983142ind
the perfect dress Luckily thatrsquos
changing Thanks to the TLC television show
ldquoCurvy Bridesrdquo and bridal shops that cater to
plus-size brides itrsquos getting easier for brides
of all sizes to 983142ind their dream dresses
These days the average woman in the
US wears a size 14 and yet bridal gownstraditionally are made for smaller sizes
ldquoPlus-size for us means anyone who
has had trouble 983142inding dresses to 983142it them
elsewhererdquo say Yuneisia Harris and Yukia
Walker owners of full-983142igured bridal salon
Curvaceous Couture and stars of ldquoCurvy
Bridesrdquo
Walker knows how frustrating it can
be for plus-sized brides to 983142ind a gown
After getting engaged she struggled to
983142ind sample gowns and ultimately didnrsquot
like the dress she chose Out of that expe-
rience she and her sister started their
company
The sisters explain that in evenin983143wear
and in bridal everything is cut smaller
ldquoSo while a person might have a smaller
street size like a 12 or a 14 in a wedding
gown they might have to order something
as large as a 20rdquo
That means when traditional bridal
salons have sample dresses in sizes 8 to 12ldquotheyrsquore really only servicing brides whose
street size is 4 to 10rdquo say Harris and Walker
Plus-Size PerceptionsThe notion of plus-size bridal fashion car-
ries many misconceptions In some cases
brides arenrsquot aware that plus-sizing exists
in the wedding world because itrsquos typi-
cally underrepresented or not seen at all
Often plus-size brides end up buying
wedding gowns online mdash one of the few
places with larger sizes
Still others assume dresses in larger
sizes should be plain and not embellished
ldquothat plus-size women donrsquot desire the
same beautiful dresses and fabrics as theirstraight-size counterpartsrdquo says Erena
Shklovsky creative director and head
designer for plus-size designer IGIGI not-
ing that many plus-size brides want ldquodeli-
cate beading luxe fabrics and innovative
cuts just like other bridesrdquo
Another misconception That being
plus-sized means you need to cover up
ldquoIrsquod say that 60 percent of our brides ini-
tially ask us to add a sleeve or a shawl to
a dress because theyrsquore afraid of showing
their arms or backrdquo say Harris and Walkernoting that adding a sleeve or a strap for
example ldquois not the most flattering choice
for a briderdquo
In other cases gowns with straps
sleeves and extra fabric can make a bride
look matronly
ldquoWe just want our brides to be happy
with their dresses and sometimes that
means helping them embrace their natu-
ral beautyrdquo say Harris and Walker who
feel viewers like the show because it allows
them to see brides they relate to try on and
look great in gorgeous gowns
Fashionable Choices
Designing full-983142igured fashions involvesmore than simply adding extra fabric
Because every bride has a different size
and body shape gowns need specialized
983142its including built-in support for large
busts for example
More fashion lines and bridal lines are
starting to embrace women of all sizes
Harris and Walker praise designers like Roz
la Kelin and Enzoani for being some of the
983142irst designers to offer plus-size samples
ldquoI think the biggest and best addition
to plus-size bridal collections is ChristianSirianorsquos dress for Nicolette Masonrdquo says
Shklovsky ldquoIt showed the rest of the fash-
ion world that plus-sized women deserve
more than to be covered with loads and
loads of fabricrdquo
Still no wedding gown is truly ready-to-
wear All dresses need alterations including
changes to hemlines bust lines waistlines
sleeves and shoulder straps No matter
what the dress size a perfect 983142it is flattering
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Middle Eastern Restaurant
178 Piermont Road middot Cresskill NJ
(201) 816-7343 middot Fax (201) 816-0254
wwwsamdanrestaurantcom
Private Party RoomUp to 70 people
Available for
All Special Occasions
WIFI
Spanish amp Portuguese Restaurant Why Go to Newark Come Once Yoursquoll be Back
Specializing in Seafood and Steaks
Private Room Available For All Occasions
Birthdays Anniversaries Corporate Functions
Shower Packages
Other Packages Available Call For Details
Open Seven Days For Lunch amp Dinner
Full Bar and Extensive Wine List
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120 Terhune Drive
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Voted By The Wine
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53 W Passaic St Rochelle Park
201-843-1250
Lunch 1130 am - 3 pm middot Dinner 5 pm - 11 pm
Lunch on Saturday from 100 on
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DIY all-in-one or party rental suppliers Chelle Cordero x
Itrsquos your wedding day and there areso many plans to be made You want
the day to be spectacular Between
budgets traditions choosing a loca-
tion considering the time of year and
weather and most importantly your idea
of a dream wedding mdash itrsquos enough to make
your head spin
You may choose an all-in-one venue that
comes with its own gorgeous setting cater-
ing waitstaff tables and chairs and hope
that the cost is within your reach DIY
wedding plans may or may not be moreeconomical but many excited couples opt
for more personalized settings and control
over the way things are done One thing is
for sure You probably donrsquot own enough
chairs tables and service to make it hap-
pen without help
You could always buy the folding chairs
and tables linens and glassware for your
event but then you need a place to store
everything before and after the party
Owning everything makes you solely respon-
sible for cleaning and ironing linens polish-
ing service and washing all of the dishware before and after use (especially if itrsquos been
sitting awhile) It is often more ef983142icient to
simply rent what you need for each occasion
if you plan to throw several parties
Letrsquos go rental
Every bride in your family before
you was married in Aunt Franrsquos parlor
and thatrsquos the beginning yoursquove always
dreamed of with a reception in the back-
yard But then you remember the light rain
shower during your cousinrsquos gala and how
it chased everyone away Yoursquoll need seat-ing and decorations for inside and yoursquoll
want to add a tent to the tables chairs and
buffet setting outside Or maybe the old
barn could be gussied up for a fancy do
but the dirt floor leaves a lot to be desired
especially when it comes to dancing -- but
thatrsquos not a problem if you add a rented
dance floor (or more)
Party rental companies offer everything
from aisle covers to wine glasses Choose
table linens centerpieces pole covers (to
hide tent supports) dance floors of various
sizes stages and more If you are worriedabout the weather 983142ind tents for outdoor
parties they come with sides or open with
options for fans or heaters for comfort
Serve delicious meals with gas or charcoal
grill rentals and buffet-style cha983142ing dishes
There is no limit to what you can do Paper
plates are great for picnics but if you pre-
fer restaurant-style service 983142ind china
charger plates silver service goblets and
flutes and linen napkins and tablecloths
Check out the party supply rental com-
panies in your area to 983142ind out what theyoffer and compare prices Make sure to
include delivery costs as well as delivery
terms such as how far in advance they will
deliver and when they will pick up after the
affair Visit the showrooms to see the qual-
ity of merchandise they offer By all means
get recommendations and warnings from
other consumers you certainly donrsquot want
to 983142ind out on the day of the party that the
tablecloths are stained or that you were
shorted on the glassware Ask about their
reputation for reliability their willingness
to work with you and whether there is an
extra charge for setup Also 983142ind out in what
condition the items have to be returned
mdash eg do the dishes need to be washedor simply scraped do the linens need to
be laundered and what are the costs for
breakage If possible compare the prices
quality service and reputations of a few
companies before making a 983142inal decision
Some party rental suppliers will work
with area vendors such as caterers and
wait staff to help you 983142ind a complete
package for your magical day Make an
appointment to sit down with your cho-
sen rental company and explain your
vision to them A party planner can makehelpful suggestions based on the compa-
nyrsquos experience with previous weddings
and parties They can tell you how many
plates glasses and flatware sets to rent
based on the number of people invited
always order a few extra pieces in case of
breakage or unexpected guests Read the
contract carefully to verify that all dates
quantities and service details are spelled
out correctly Creatorscom
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Isaac ChalouhENTERTAINMENT
DJ and Lighting Services
LONG ISLAND
88 Washington AvenueCedarhurst NY 11516
516-792-6144
TEANECK
370 Queen Anne RoadTeaneck NJ 07666
201-357-8730
BROOKLYN
2084 East 8th StreetBrooklyn NY 11223
347-702-5154
VISIT OUR SHOWROOMS
wwwdjisaacchalouhcom
N E W
Le menu du jour
New trends in menu cards Sharon Naylor x
W hen printed menu cards
983142irst showed up as wed-
ding table additions guests
loved reading those delec-
table descriptions of the courses to come
during the dinner There was at 983142irst one
printed card per round table then four
or so spaced apart on long tables Guests
took turns looking at the elegantly printedcards with the dazzling print script Soon
individual menu cards were placed on
each guestrsquos plate for easier use and now
those individual menu cards are being per-
sonalized to each guest
ldquoYour tablescape offers countless oppor-
tunities to wow guests with custom details
and personalized menu cards are func-
tional and beautiful while making guests
feel like an important part of your big dayrdquo
says Vanessa Wicks event sales director at
Weylin B Seymourrsquos a historic event venue
in Brooklyn that has been the site of celeb-
rity weddings and events
When guests arrive at their tables they
983142ind their names printed on the menu
cards showing that you value their pres-
ence on their big day And the artistry of
their name handwritten in calligraphy
complements the loveliness of your wed-
ding design Yoursquove taken great care withthe smallest of details elevating your wed-
ding as a whole
Another advantage of customized menu
cards is the ability to tailor guestsrsquo special
menu requirements such as a gluten-free
vegan or kosher meal When guests see
their menu card they know right away
that yoursquove heard and honored their
requests They donrsquot need to be anxious
about their special meals
To help you create your personalized
menu cards keep the following tips in
mind
bull Spell names correctly Triple-check
your invitations list looking at guestsrsquosocial media pages for backup to be sure
each guestrsquos name is spelled correctly It
would be an awful faux pas if you created
a card for ldquoJohnrdquo when he goes by ldquoJonrdquo
bull Plan for dim lighting Your recep -
tion ballroom may be dimly lit illumi-
nated by candles and that low light can
make light-colored print dif983142icult to read
Larger script in a good contrasting shade
makes your menu card easier to see Not
all guests bring their reading glasses with
them Metallic print will capture candle-light so consider shimmery lettering
bull Create personalized menu cards for
children as well Theirs can be designed
differently than adult guestsrsquo cards using
kid-themed colors and motifs Add a print
game to the back of the card to provide a
fun activity
bull Add an accent to the back of guestsrsquo
menu cards A personalized note from you
may be extra work but it goes a long way
to making your guests feel like VIPs Or if
a personalized message isnrsquot realistic for
your time and budget print an inspiring
and romantic or a foodie-themed quote
on the back of each cardbull Ask your chef to help Make your menu
card mouth-watering with chef-provided
dish descriptions of each course
bull Include drink pairing choices with
each course Again your chef or bar man-
ager can provide pairing ideas using vin-
tages and cocktails that will be served at
your wedding
You might be wondering whether per-
sonalized menu cards at each guestrsquos
seat will tell each guest where to sit at
the table While guests are free to switchseats it is a good idea to put your guest
menu cards in order by table so that
staffers handling your weddingrsquos table
setups can place cards in the order you
prefer seating spouses and families next
to each other
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
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HQ 101 Washington StreetHistoric Paterson NJ
973-279-3000
1105 Mt Kemble Ave (Rt 202)Morristown NJ
973-425-5500
584 Rt 17 North ( Racetrack Rd)Ridgewood NJ
201-857-3600
SINCE 1952
RIDGEWOOD
GRANDOPENING
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160 Prospect Ave Hackensack | 201-880-8750wwwbelpostonjcom
Open Tuesday - Sunday for Lunch and DinnerSunday Brunch 11am - 3pm All you can eat $2495
(includes 1 complimentary Mimosa)
Happy Hour Tuesday-Friday 4-6pmSpecial Small Bite Menu
Every Thursday is Ladies NightFeaturing DJ Rolo 7-11pm amp 2 for 1 drinks 6-8pm
Elegant Room with Terrace for Your
Simcha Private or Corporate Event
Call Joan our Banquet Sales Managerto book your event today
BEL POSTOthe restaurant
Restaurant bull Bar bull Catering bull Special Events
t
BarBat Mitzvahs middot Weddings
Meetings middot Brissim middot Luncheons
Convenient Location middot Beautiful Sanctuary
Spacious Elegant Ballroom middot Large Dance Floor
Ample ParkingYour Choice of Approved Kosher Caterers
Celebrate your next simcha at thehellip
J C C PC B T
Please call us at (201) 262-7691 or visit us online at wwwjccparamusorg
Conveniently located at the intersection of Midland Avenue and Spring Valley Road
A B B E Y C R E A T I V E P H O T O G R A P H Y
Dress trendsLooking your best on the big day Julia Price x
W eddings are a big deal All
the planning coordinating
decision-making letdowns
stressful situations mdash they
all fade away and become worth it the
moment the bride walks down the aisle
So of course no pressure with picking out
the perfect dress or anything rightBut really itrsquos hard to go wrong nowa-
days Luckily for everyone the lsquo80s have
come and gone and have graciously taken
their wedding dress signature styles with
them
In general wedding dresses are veer-
ing toward a less poofy look and going
toward a sleeker form-983142itting hourglass
shape This creates a more dramatic effect
when the train of the dress 983142ills out behind
the bride while also enhancing feminine
strength in the upper body
Another trend this season is the
off-the-shoulder look Several years ago
the sleeveless dress was a big hit but now
itrsquos been slightly modi983142ied to keep the shoul-
ders bare with the straps lightly hanging off
Whether the dress is white silk Chantilly
lace or ballgown-style this off-the-shoul-
der appeal creates a delicate look
The popular shabby chic furniture trend
seems to have influenced brides-to-be as
well Seeing as many couples are choos-ing the country feel mdash complete with
Mason jars mdash for their big day it makes
sense that women are looking for a dress
to match that vibe Yoursquoll see more and
more dresses with corded details and lace
accents and yoursquoll see less beadwork than
you had on some of the past looks
Also trending this season is embellishing
the back of the dress In addition to adding
a new element of beauty it makes sense
because guests wil l have a close visual of
the bridersquos back as shersquos approaching her
husband-to-be Intricate detailing on the
Trending this season is embellishing the back of the dressCREATORSCOM PHOTO COURTESY OF JULIA PRICE
back might include a crisscross or spar-
kling tulle Some brides are opting for
completely backless dresses This goes well
with layers of lace and the silhouette look
Though itrsquos good to look for many
options online (try bridescom or search for
your perfect look on Pinterest) yoursquove got
to trust your gut with what feels right for
you This is one of those situations where
no matter who else speaks up as long as
yoursquore saying ldquoI dordquo to the dress then
yoursquore going to be happy Creatorscom
WINTER 2015 BEAUTIFUL BEGINNINGS
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RCBCRCBCRCBC
Steakhouse bull SushiChinese bull Thai
Japanese
515 Cedar Lane Teaneck201-530-5665
Sun-Thur 12-10pm bull Sat -11pm
wwwestihanacom
Now cateringin Monsey at the Atrium - up to
700 people
WE
DELIVER
Sushi Bars for
All Celebrations
Holiday Parties ampOffice Catering
NORTH JERSEYrsquoS TOP-RATED RESTAURANT
RATED 12 THE RECORD
ZAGAT RATED
L U NCH
amp DI N N E R NEW YORK STYLE
ATMOSPHERE
AUTHENTIC GREEK CUISINE
LUNCH AND DINNER
23B BROADWAY RT 4 EAST
ELMWOOD PARK
201-703-9200WWWTAVERNAMYKONOSCOM
TAVERNA
JERSEYrsquoS PREMIERE SEAFOOD DESTINATIONAVAILABLE FOR PRIVATE PARTIES
201-796-05462-27 SADDLE RIVER ROAD middot FAIR LAWN
WWWOCEANOSRESTAURANTCOM
Well known for its authentic cuisine fromSpain serving only the freshest seafood as
well as its large menu selections tapas anddaily specials including Steak Mesoacuten
343 Bergen BlvdPalisades Park NJ2019471038
wwwMesonMadridcom
MesoacutenMadrid
Serving Bergen County from more than 30 years
Mesoacuten Madrid is the
perfect place for hosting
large and small events
with private rooms that will
accommodate 25-150 guests
SHOWERS middot BACHELORBACHELORETTE PARTIES middot REHEARSAL DINNERS
Plus-size bridesBridal beauty at any size
Kristen Castillo x
T here is a wedding gown for every
bride but if yoursquore over size 14
it might be a challenge to 983142ind
the perfect dress Luckily thatrsquos
changing Thanks to the TLC television show
ldquoCurvy Bridesrdquo and bridal shops that cater to
plus-size brides itrsquos getting easier for brides
of all sizes to 983142ind their dream dresses
These days the average woman in the
US wears a size 14 and yet bridal gownstraditionally are made for smaller sizes
ldquoPlus-size for us means anyone who
has had trouble 983142inding dresses to 983142it them
elsewhererdquo say Yuneisia Harris and Yukia
Walker owners of full-983142igured bridal salon
Curvaceous Couture and stars of ldquoCurvy
Bridesrdquo
Walker knows how frustrating it can
be for plus-sized brides to 983142ind a gown
After getting engaged she struggled to
983142ind sample gowns and ultimately didnrsquot
like the dress she chose Out of that expe-
rience she and her sister started their
company
The sisters explain that in evenin983143wear
and in bridal everything is cut smaller
ldquoSo while a person might have a smaller
street size like a 12 or a 14 in a wedding
gown they might have to order something
as large as a 20rdquo
That means when traditional bridal
salons have sample dresses in sizes 8 to 12ldquotheyrsquore really only servicing brides whose
street size is 4 to 10rdquo say Harris and Walker
Plus-Size PerceptionsThe notion of plus-size bridal fashion car-
ries many misconceptions In some cases
brides arenrsquot aware that plus-sizing exists
in the wedding world because itrsquos typi-
cally underrepresented or not seen at all
Often plus-size brides end up buying
wedding gowns online mdash one of the few
places with larger sizes
Still others assume dresses in larger
sizes should be plain and not embellished
ldquothat plus-size women donrsquot desire the
same beautiful dresses and fabrics as theirstraight-size counterpartsrdquo says Erena
Shklovsky creative director and head
designer for plus-size designer IGIGI not-
ing that many plus-size brides want ldquodeli-
cate beading luxe fabrics and innovative
cuts just like other bridesrdquo
Another misconception That being
plus-sized means you need to cover up
ldquoIrsquod say that 60 percent of our brides ini-
tially ask us to add a sleeve or a shawl to
a dress because theyrsquore afraid of showing
their arms or backrdquo say Harris and Walkernoting that adding a sleeve or a strap for
example ldquois not the most flattering choice
for a briderdquo
In other cases gowns with straps
sleeves and extra fabric can make a bride
look matronly
ldquoWe just want our brides to be happy
with their dresses and sometimes that
means helping them embrace their natu-
ral beautyrdquo say Harris and Walker who
feel viewers like the show because it allows
them to see brides they relate to try on and
look great in gorgeous gowns
Fashionable Choices
Designing full-983142igured fashions involvesmore than simply adding extra fabric
Because every bride has a different size
and body shape gowns need specialized
983142its including built-in support for large
busts for example
More fashion lines and bridal lines are
starting to embrace women of all sizes
Harris and Walker praise designers like Roz
la Kelin and Enzoani for being some of the
983142irst designers to offer plus-size samples
ldquoI think the biggest and best addition
to plus-size bridal collections is ChristianSirianorsquos dress for Nicolette Masonrdquo says
Shklovsky ldquoIt showed the rest of the fash-
ion world that plus-sized women deserve
more than to be covered with loads and
loads of fabricrdquo
Still no wedding gown is truly ready-to-
wear All dresses need alterations including
changes to hemlines bust lines waistlines
sleeves and shoulder straps No matter
what the dress size a perfect 983142it is flattering
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Middle Eastern Restaurant
178 Piermont Road middot Cresskill NJ
(201) 816-7343 middot Fax (201) 816-0254
wwwsamdanrestaurantcom
Private Party RoomUp to 70 people
Available for
All Special Occasions
WIFI
Spanish amp Portuguese Restaurant Why Go to Newark Come Once Yoursquoll be Back
Specializing in Seafood and Steaks
Private Room Available For All Occasions
Birthdays Anniversaries Corporate Functions
Shower Packages
Other Packages Available Call For Details
Open Seven Days For Lunch amp Dinner
Full Bar and Extensive Wine List
TAKE OUT AVAILABLE
120 Terhune Drive
Wayne NJ
9736160999
Call For Reservations
DAILY SEAFOOD
SPECIALS
wwwVilaVerdeRestaurantcom
Voted By The Wine
and Dine Restaurant
Researcher Society amp
The Record
ldquoFine Dining ina Relaxed Atmosphererdquo Before or After Dinner Enjoy Live Music
in our Lounge Fri amp Sat Evenings
53 W Passaic St Rochelle Park
201-843-1250
Lunch 1130 am - 3 pm middot Dinner 5 pm - 11 pm
Lunch on Saturday from 100 on
Open Monday-Sunday for lunch amp dinner
Ask about our party facilities
Excellent - Zagat1999 2000 2001 2002 2003 2006 2014
RISTORANTE
SHOWERS middot BACHELORBACHELORETTE PARTIES middot REHEARSAL DINNERS
DIY all-in-one or party rental suppliers Chelle Cordero x
Itrsquos your wedding day and there areso many plans to be made You want
the day to be spectacular Between
budgets traditions choosing a loca-
tion considering the time of year and
weather and most importantly your idea
of a dream wedding mdash itrsquos enough to make
your head spin
You may choose an all-in-one venue that
comes with its own gorgeous setting cater-
ing waitstaff tables and chairs and hope
that the cost is within your reach DIY
wedding plans may or may not be moreeconomical but many excited couples opt
for more personalized settings and control
over the way things are done One thing is
for sure You probably donrsquot own enough
chairs tables and service to make it hap-
pen without help
You could always buy the folding chairs
and tables linens and glassware for your
event but then you need a place to store
everything before and after the party
Owning everything makes you solely respon-
sible for cleaning and ironing linens polish-
ing service and washing all of the dishware before and after use (especially if itrsquos been
sitting awhile) It is often more ef983142icient to
simply rent what you need for each occasion
if you plan to throw several parties
Letrsquos go rental
Every bride in your family before
you was married in Aunt Franrsquos parlor
and thatrsquos the beginning yoursquove always
dreamed of with a reception in the back-
yard But then you remember the light rain
shower during your cousinrsquos gala and how
it chased everyone away Yoursquoll need seat-ing and decorations for inside and yoursquoll
want to add a tent to the tables chairs and
buffet setting outside Or maybe the old
barn could be gussied up for a fancy do
but the dirt floor leaves a lot to be desired
especially when it comes to dancing -- but
thatrsquos not a problem if you add a rented
dance floor (or more)
Party rental companies offer everything
from aisle covers to wine glasses Choose
table linens centerpieces pole covers (to
hide tent supports) dance floors of various
sizes stages and more If you are worriedabout the weather 983142ind tents for outdoor
parties they come with sides or open with
options for fans or heaters for comfort
Serve delicious meals with gas or charcoal
grill rentals and buffet-style cha983142ing dishes
There is no limit to what you can do Paper
plates are great for picnics but if you pre-
fer restaurant-style service 983142ind china
charger plates silver service goblets and
flutes and linen napkins and tablecloths
Check out the party supply rental com-
panies in your area to 983142ind out what theyoffer and compare prices Make sure to
include delivery costs as well as delivery
terms such as how far in advance they will
deliver and when they will pick up after the
affair Visit the showrooms to see the qual-
ity of merchandise they offer By all means
get recommendations and warnings from
other consumers you certainly donrsquot want
to 983142ind out on the day of the party that the
tablecloths are stained or that you were
shorted on the glassware Ask about their
reputation for reliability their willingness
to work with you and whether there is an
extra charge for setup Also 983142ind out in what
condition the items have to be returned
mdash eg do the dishes need to be washedor simply scraped do the linens need to
be laundered and what are the costs for
breakage If possible compare the prices
quality service and reputations of a few
companies before making a 983142inal decision
Some party rental suppliers will work
with area vendors such as caterers and
wait staff to help you 983142ind a complete
package for your magical day Make an
appointment to sit down with your cho-
sen rental company and explain your
vision to them A party planner can makehelpful suggestions based on the compa-
nyrsquos experience with previous weddings
and parties They can tell you how many
plates glasses and flatware sets to rent
based on the number of people invited
always order a few extra pieces in case of
breakage or unexpected guests Read the
contract carefully to verify that all dates
quantities and service details are spelled
out correctly Creatorscom
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Isaac ChalouhENTERTAINMENT
DJ and Lighting Services
LONG ISLAND
88 Washington AvenueCedarhurst NY 11516
516-792-6144
TEANECK
370 Queen Anne RoadTeaneck NJ 07666
201-357-8730
BROOKLYN
2084 East 8th StreetBrooklyn NY 11223
347-702-5154
VISIT OUR SHOWROOMS
wwwdjisaacchalouhcom
N E W
Le menu du jour
New trends in menu cards Sharon Naylor x
W hen printed menu cards
983142irst showed up as wed-
ding table additions guests
loved reading those delec-
table descriptions of the courses to come
during the dinner There was at 983142irst one
printed card per round table then four
or so spaced apart on long tables Guests
took turns looking at the elegantly printedcards with the dazzling print script Soon
individual menu cards were placed on
each guestrsquos plate for easier use and now
those individual menu cards are being per-
sonalized to each guest
ldquoYour tablescape offers countless oppor-
tunities to wow guests with custom details
and personalized menu cards are func-
tional and beautiful while making guests
feel like an important part of your big dayrdquo
says Vanessa Wicks event sales director at
Weylin B Seymourrsquos a historic event venue
in Brooklyn that has been the site of celeb-
rity weddings and events
When guests arrive at their tables they
983142ind their names printed on the menu
cards showing that you value their pres-
ence on their big day And the artistry of
their name handwritten in calligraphy
complements the loveliness of your wed-
ding design Yoursquove taken great care withthe smallest of details elevating your wed-
ding as a whole
Another advantage of customized menu
cards is the ability to tailor guestsrsquo special
menu requirements such as a gluten-free
vegan or kosher meal When guests see
their menu card they know right away
that yoursquove heard and honored their
requests They donrsquot need to be anxious
about their special meals
To help you create your personalized
menu cards keep the following tips in
mind
bull Spell names correctly Triple-check
your invitations list looking at guestsrsquosocial media pages for backup to be sure
each guestrsquos name is spelled correctly It
would be an awful faux pas if you created
a card for ldquoJohnrdquo when he goes by ldquoJonrdquo
bull Plan for dim lighting Your recep -
tion ballroom may be dimly lit illumi-
nated by candles and that low light can
make light-colored print dif983142icult to read
Larger script in a good contrasting shade
makes your menu card easier to see Not
all guests bring their reading glasses with
them Metallic print will capture candle-light so consider shimmery lettering
bull Create personalized menu cards for
children as well Theirs can be designed
differently than adult guestsrsquo cards using
kid-themed colors and motifs Add a print
game to the back of the card to provide a
fun activity
bull Add an accent to the back of guestsrsquo
menu cards A personalized note from you
may be extra work but it goes a long way
to making your guests feel like VIPs Or if
a personalized message isnrsquot realistic for
your time and budget print an inspiring
and romantic or a foodie-themed quote
on the back of each cardbull Ask your chef to help Make your menu
card mouth-watering with chef-provided
dish descriptions of each course
bull Include drink pairing choices with
each course Again your chef or bar man-
ager can provide pairing ideas using vin-
tages and cocktails that will be served at
your wedding
You might be wondering whether per-
sonalized menu cards at each guestrsquos
seat will tell each guest where to sit at
the table While guests are free to switchseats it is a good idea to put your guest
menu cards in order by table so that
staffers handling your weddingrsquos table
setups can place cards in the order you
prefer seating spouses and families next
to each other
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
B if l
7232019 Beautiful Beginnings December 2015
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Beautiful
WINTER 2015
A SUPPLEMENT TO
THE JEWISH STANDARD
7232019 Beautiful Beginnings December 2015
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7232019 Beautiful Beginnings December 2015
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L I V E WI TH F IN E DE S IGN
greenbauminter iorscom
HQ 101 Washington StreetHistoric Paterson NJ
973-279-3000
1105 Mt Kemble Ave (Rt 202)Morristown NJ
973-425-5500
584 Rt 17 North ( Racetrack Rd)Ridgewood NJ
201-857-3600
SINCE 1952
RIDGEWOOD
GRANDOPENING
7232019 Beautiful Beginnings December 2015
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S-16 Jewish Standard WINTER 2015 BEAUTIFUL BEGINNINGS
RCBCRCBCRCBC
Steakhouse bull SushiChinese bull Thai
Japanese
515 Cedar Lane Teaneck201-530-5665
Sun-Thur 12-10pm bull Sat -11pm
wwwestihanacom
Now cateringin Monsey at the Atrium - up to
700 people
WE
DELIVER
Sushi Bars for
All Celebrations
Holiday Parties ampOffice Catering
NORTH JERSEYrsquoS TOP-RATED RESTAURANT
RATED 12 THE RECORD
ZAGAT RATED
L U NCH
amp DI N N E R NEW YORK STYLE
ATMOSPHERE
AUTHENTIC GREEK CUISINE
LUNCH AND DINNER
23B BROADWAY RT 4 EAST
ELMWOOD PARK
201-703-9200WWWTAVERNAMYKONOSCOM
TAVERNA
JERSEYrsquoS PREMIERE SEAFOOD DESTINATIONAVAILABLE FOR PRIVATE PARTIES
201-796-05462-27 SADDLE RIVER ROAD middot FAIR LAWN
WWWOCEANOSRESTAURANTCOM
Well known for its authentic cuisine fromSpain serving only the freshest seafood as
well as its large menu selections tapas anddaily specials including Steak Mesoacuten
343 Bergen BlvdPalisades Park NJ2019471038
wwwMesonMadridcom
MesoacutenMadrid
Serving Bergen County from more than 30 years
Mesoacuten Madrid is the
perfect place for hosting
large and small events
with private rooms that will
accommodate 25-150 guests
SHOWERS middot BACHELORBACHELORETTE PARTIES middot REHEARSAL DINNERS
Plus-size bridesBridal beauty at any size
Kristen Castillo x
T here is a wedding gown for every
bride but if yoursquore over size 14
it might be a challenge to 983142ind
the perfect dress Luckily thatrsquos
changing Thanks to the TLC television show
ldquoCurvy Bridesrdquo and bridal shops that cater to
plus-size brides itrsquos getting easier for brides
of all sizes to 983142ind their dream dresses
These days the average woman in the
US wears a size 14 and yet bridal gownstraditionally are made for smaller sizes
ldquoPlus-size for us means anyone who
has had trouble 983142inding dresses to 983142it them
elsewhererdquo say Yuneisia Harris and Yukia
Walker owners of full-983142igured bridal salon
Curvaceous Couture and stars of ldquoCurvy
Bridesrdquo
Walker knows how frustrating it can
be for plus-sized brides to 983142ind a gown
After getting engaged she struggled to
983142ind sample gowns and ultimately didnrsquot
like the dress she chose Out of that expe-
rience she and her sister started their
company
The sisters explain that in evenin983143wear
and in bridal everything is cut smaller
ldquoSo while a person might have a smaller
street size like a 12 or a 14 in a wedding
gown they might have to order something
as large as a 20rdquo
That means when traditional bridal
salons have sample dresses in sizes 8 to 12ldquotheyrsquore really only servicing brides whose
street size is 4 to 10rdquo say Harris and Walker
Plus-Size PerceptionsThe notion of plus-size bridal fashion car-
ries many misconceptions In some cases
brides arenrsquot aware that plus-sizing exists
in the wedding world because itrsquos typi-
cally underrepresented or not seen at all
Often plus-size brides end up buying
wedding gowns online mdash one of the few
places with larger sizes
Still others assume dresses in larger
sizes should be plain and not embellished
ldquothat plus-size women donrsquot desire the
same beautiful dresses and fabrics as theirstraight-size counterpartsrdquo says Erena
Shklovsky creative director and head
designer for plus-size designer IGIGI not-
ing that many plus-size brides want ldquodeli-
cate beading luxe fabrics and innovative
cuts just like other bridesrdquo
Another misconception That being
plus-sized means you need to cover up
ldquoIrsquod say that 60 percent of our brides ini-
tially ask us to add a sleeve or a shawl to
a dress because theyrsquore afraid of showing
their arms or backrdquo say Harris and Walkernoting that adding a sleeve or a strap for
example ldquois not the most flattering choice
for a briderdquo
In other cases gowns with straps
sleeves and extra fabric can make a bride
look matronly
ldquoWe just want our brides to be happy
with their dresses and sometimes that
means helping them embrace their natu-
ral beautyrdquo say Harris and Walker who
feel viewers like the show because it allows
them to see brides they relate to try on and
look great in gorgeous gowns
Fashionable Choices
Designing full-983142igured fashions involvesmore than simply adding extra fabric
Because every bride has a different size
and body shape gowns need specialized
983142its including built-in support for large
busts for example
More fashion lines and bridal lines are
starting to embrace women of all sizes
Harris and Walker praise designers like Roz
la Kelin and Enzoani for being some of the
983142irst designers to offer plus-size samples
ldquoI think the biggest and best addition
to plus-size bridal collections is ChristianSirianorsquos dress for Nicolette Masonrdquo says
Shklovsky ldquoIt showed the rest of the fash-
ion world that plus-sized women deserve
more than to be covered with loads and
loads of fabricrdquo
Still no wedding gown is truly ready-to-
wear All dresses need alterations including
changes to hemlines bust lines waistlines
sleeves and shoulder straps No matter
what the dress size a perfect 983142it is flattering
S 17WINTER 2015 BEAUTIFUL BEGINNINGS
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S-17 Jewish StandardWINTER 2015 BEAUTIFUL BEGINNINGS
Middle Eastern Restaurant
178 Piermont Road middot Cresskill NJ
(201) 816-7343 middot Fax (201) 816-0254
wwwsamdanrestaurantcom
Private Party RoomUp to 70 people
Available for
All Special Occasions
WIFI
Spanish amp Portuguese Restaurant Why Go to Newark Come Once Yoursquoll be Back
Specializing in Seafood and Steaks
Private Room Available For All Occasions
Birthdays Anniversaries Corporate Functions
Shower Packages
Other Packages Available Call For Details
Open Seven Days For Lunch amp Dinner
Full Bar and Extensive Wine List
TAKE OUT AVAILABLE
120 Terhune Drive
Wayne NJ
9736160999
Call For Reservations
DAILY SEAFOOD
SPECIALS
wwwVilaVerdeRestaurantcom
Voted By The Wine
and Dine Restaurant
Researcher Society amp
The Record
ldquoFine Dining ina Relaxed Atmosphererdquo Before or After Dinner Enjoy Live Music
in our Lounge Fri amp Sat Evenings
53 W Passaic St Rochelle Park
201-843-1250
Lunch 1130 am - 3 pm middot Dinner 5 pm - 11 pm
Lunch on Saturday from 100 on
Open Monday-Sunday for lunch amp dinner
Ask about our party facilities
Excellent - Zagat1999 2000 2001 2002 2003 2006 2014
RISTORANTE
SHOWERS middot BACHELORBACHELORETTE PARTIES middot REHEARSAL DINNERS
DIY all-in-one or party rental suppliers Chelle Cordero x
Itrsquos your wedding day and there areso many plans to be made You want
the day to be spectacular Between
budgets traditions choosing a loca-
tion considering the time of year and
weather and most importantly your idea
of a dream wedding mdash itrsquos enough to make
your head spin
You may choose an all-in-one venue that
comes with its own gorgeous setting cater-
ing waitstaff tables and chairs and hope
that the cost is within your reach DIY
wedding plans may or may not be moreeconomical but many excited couples opt
for more personalized settings and control
over the way things are done One thing is
for sure You probably donrsquot own enough
chairs tables and service to make it hap-
pen without help
You could always buy the folding chairs
and tables linens and glassware for your
event but then you need a place to store
everything before and after the party
Owning everything makes you solely respon-
sible for cleaning and ironing linens polish-
ing service and washing all of the dishware before and after use (especially if itrsquos been
sitting awhile) It is often more ef983142icient to
simply rent what you need for each occasion
if you plan to throw several parties
Letrsquos go rental
Every bride in your family before
you was married in Aunt Franrsquos parlor
and thatrsquos the beginning yoursquove always
dreamed of with a reception in the back-
yard But then you remember the light rain
shower during your cousinrsquos gala and how
it chased everyone away Yoursquoll need seat-ing and decorations for inside and yoursquoll
want to add a tent to the tables chairs and
buffet setting outside Or maybe the old
barn could be gussied up for a fancy do
but the dirt floor leaves a lot to be desired
especially when it comes to dancing -- but
thatrsquos not a problem if you add a rented
dance floor (or more)
Party rental companies offer everything
from aisle covers to wine glasses Choose
table linens centerpieces pole covers (to
hide tent supports) dance floors of various
sizes stages and more If you are worriedabout the weather 983142ind tents for outdoor
parties they come with sides or open with
options for fans or heaters for comfort
Serve delicious meals with gas or charcoal
grill rentals and buffet-style cha983142ing dishes
There is no limit to what you can do Paper
plates are great for picnics but if you pre-
fer restaurant-style service 983142ind china
charger plates silver service goblets and
flutes and linen napkins and tablecloths
Check out the party supply rental com-
panies in your area to 983142ind out what theyoffer and compare prices Make sure to
include delivery costs as well as delivery
terms such as how far in advance they will
deliver and when they will pick up after the
affair Visit the showrooms to see the qual-
ity of merchandise they offer By all means
get recommendations and warnings from
other consumers you certainly donrsquot want
to 983142ind out on the day of the party that the
tablecloths are stained or that you were
shorted on the glassware Ask about their
reputation for reliability their willingness
to work with you and whether there is an
extra charge for setup Also 983142ind out in what
condition the items have to be returned
mdash eg do the dishes need to be washedor simply scraped do the linens need to
be laundered and what are the costs for
breakage If possible compare the prices
quality service and reputations of a few
companies before making a 983142inal decision
Some party rental suppliers will work
with area vendors such as caterers and
wait staff to help you 983142ind a complete
package for your magical day Make an
appointment to sit down with your cho-
sen rental company and explain your
vision to them A party planner can makehelpful suggestions based on the compa-
nyrsquos experience with previous weddings
and parties They can tell you how many
plates glasses and flatware sets to rent
based on the number of people invited
always order a few extra pieces in case of
breakage or unexpected guests Read the
contract carefully to verify that all dates
quantities and service details are spelled
out correctly Creatorscom
S 18 Jewish Standard WINTER 2015 BEAUTIFUL BEGINNINGS
7232019 Beautiful Beginnings December 2015
httpslidepdfcomreaderfullbeautiful-beginnings-december-2015 2024
S-18 Jewish Standard WINTER 2015 BEAUTIFUL BEGINNINGS
Isaac ChalouhENTERTAINMENT
DJ and Lighting Services
LONG ISLAND
88 Washington AvenueCedarhurst NY 11516
516-792-6144
TEANECK
370 Queen Anne RoadTeaneck NJ 07666
201-357-8730
BROOKLYN
2084 East 8th StreetBrooklyn NY 11223
347-702-5154
VISIT OUR SHOWROOMS
wwwdjisaacchalouhcom
N E W
Le menu du jour
New trends in menu cards Sharon Naylor x
W hen printed menu cards
983142irst showed up as wed-
ding table additions guests
loved reading those delec-
table descriptions of the courses to come
during the dinner There was at 983142irst one
printed card per round table then four
or so spaced apart on long tables Guests
took turns looking at the elegantly printedcards with the dazzling print script Soon
individual menu cards were placed on
each guestrsquos plate for easier use and now
those individual menu cards are being per-
sonalized to each guest
ldquoYour tablescape offers countless oppor-
tunities to wow guests with custom details
and personalized menu cards are func-
tional and beautiful while making guests
feel like an important part of your big dayrdquo
says Vanessa Wicks event sales director at
Weylin B Seymourrsquos a historic event venue
in Brooklyn that has been the site of celeb-
rity weddings and events
When guests arrive at their tables they
983142ind their names printed on the menu
cards showing that you value their pres-
ence on their big day And the artistry of
their name handwritten in calligraphy
complements the loveliness of your wed-
ding design Yoursquove taken great care withthe smallest of details elevating your wed-
ding as a whole
Another advantage of customized menu
cards is the ability to tailor guestsrsquo special
menu requirements such as a gluten-free
vegan or kosher meal When guests see
their menu card they know right away
that yoursquove heard and honored their
requests They donrsquot need to be anxious
about their special meals
To help you create your personalized
menu cards keep the following tips in
mind
bull Spell names correctly Triple-check
your invitations list looking at guestsrsquosocial media pages for backup to be sure
each guestrsquos name is spelled correctly It
would be an awful faux pas if you created
a card for ldquoJohnrdquo when he goes by ldquoJonrdquo
bull Plan for dim lighting Your recep -
tion ballroom may be dimly lit illumi-
nated by candles and that low light can
make light-colored print dif983142icult to read
Larger script in a good contrasting shade
makes your menu card easier to see Not
all guests bring their reading glasses with
them Metallic print will capture candle-light so consider shimmery lettering
bull Create personalized menu cards for
children as well Theirs can be designed
differently than adult guestsrsquo cards using
kid-themed colors and motifs Add a print
game to the back of the card to provide a
fun activity
bull Add an accent to the back of guestsrsquo
menu cards A personalized note from you
may be extra work but it goes a long way
to making your guests feel like VIPs Or if
a personalized message isnrsquot realistic for
your time and budget print an inspiring
and romantic or a foodie-themed quote
on the back of each cardbull Ask your chef to help Make your menu
card mouth-watering with chef-provided
dish descriptions of each course
bull Include drink pairing choices with
each course Again your chef or bar man-
ager can provide pairing ideas using vin-
tages and cocktails that will be served at
your wedding
You might be wondering whether per-
sonalized menu cards at each guestrsquos
seat will tell each guest where to sit at
the table While guests are free to switchseats it is a good idea to put your guest
menu cards in order by table so that
staffers handling your weddingrsquos table
setups can place cards in the order you
prefer seating spouses and families next
to each other
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
B if l
7232019 Beautiful Beginnings December 2015
httpslidepdfcomreaderfullbeautiful-beginnings-december-2015 2124
Beautiful
WINTER 2015
A SUPPLEMENT TO
THE JEWISH STANDARD
7232019 Beautiful Beginnings December 2015
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L I V E WI TH F IN E DE S IGN
greenbauminter iorscom
HQ 101 Washington StreetHistoric Paterson NJ
973-279-3000
1105 Mt Kemble Ave (Rt 202)Morristown NJ
973-425-5500
584 Rt 17 North ( Racetrack Rd)Ridgewood NJ
201-857-3600
SINCE 1952
RIDGEWOOD
GRANDOPENING
7232019 Beautiful Beginnings December 2015
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S-17 Jewish StandardWINTER 2015 BEAUTIFUL BEGINNINGS
Middle Eastern Restaurant
178 Piermont Road middot Cresskill NJ
(201) 816-7343 middot Fax (201) 816-0254
wwwsamdanrestaurantcom
Private Party RoomUp to 70 people
Available for
All Special Occasions
WIFI
Spanish amp Portuguese Restaurant Why Go to Newark Come Once Yoursquoll be Back
Specializing in Seafood and Steaks
Private Room Available For All Occasions
Birthdays Anniversaries Corporate Functions
Shower Packages
Other Packages Available Call For Details
Open Seven Days For Lunch amp Dinner
Full Bar and Extensive Wine List
TAKE OUT AVAILABLE
120 Terhune Drive
Wayne NJ
9736160999
Call For Reservations
DAILY SEAFOOD
SPECIALS
wwwVilaVerdeRestaurantcom
Voted By The Wine
and Dine Restaurant
Researcher Society amp
The Record
ldquoFine Dining ina Relaxed Atmosphererdquo Before or After Dinner Enjoy Live Music
in our Lounge Fri amp Sat Evenings
53 W Passaic St Rochelle Park
201-843-1250
Lunch 1130 am - 3 pm middot Dinner 5 pm - 11 pm
Lunch on Saturday from 100 on
Open Monday-Sunday for lunch amp dinner
Ask about our party facilities
Excellent - Zagat1999 2000 2001 2002 2003 2006 2014
RISTORANTE
SHOWERS middot BACHELORBACHELORETTE PARTIES middot REHEARSAL DINNERS
DIY all-in-one or party rental suppliers Chelle Cordero x
Itrsquos your wedding day and there areso many plans to be made You want
the day to be spectacular Between
budgets traditions choosing a loca-
tion considering the time of year and
weather and most importantly your idea
of a dream wedding mdash itrsquos enough to make
your head spin
You may choose an all-in-one venue that
comes with its own gorgeous setting cater-
ing waitstaff tables and chairs and hope
that the cost is within your reach DIY
wedding plans may or may not be moreeconomical but many excited couples opt
for more personalized settings and control
over the way things are done One thing is
for sure You probably donrsquot own enough
chairs tables and service to make it hap-
pen without help
You could always buy the folding chairs
and tables linens and glassware for your
event but then you need a place to store
everything before and after the party
Owning everything makes you solely respon-
sible for cleaning and ironing linens polish-
ing service and washing all of the dishware before and after use (especially if itrsquos been
sitting awhile) It is often more ef983142icient to
simply rent what you need for each occasion
if you plan to throw several parties
Letrsquos go rental
Every bride in your family before
you was married in Aunt Franrsquos parlor
and thatrsquos the beginning yoursquove always
dreamed of with a reception in the back-
yard But then you remember the light rain
shower during your cousinrsquos gala and how
it chased everyone away Yoursquoll need seat-ing and decorations for inside and yoursquoll
want to add a tent to the tables chairs and
buffet setting outside Or maybe the old
barn could be gussied up for a fancy do
but the dirt floor leaves a lot to be desired
especially when it comes to dancing -- but
thatrsquos not a problem if you add a rented
dance floor (or more)
Party rental companies offer everything
from aisle covers to wine glasses Choose
table linens centerpieces pole covers (to
hide tent supports) dance floors of various
sizes stages and more If you are worriedabout the weather 983142ind tents for outdoor
parties they come with sides or open with
options for fans or heaters for comfort
Serve delicious meals with gas or charcoal
grill rentals and buffet-style cha983142ing dishes
There is no limit to what you can do Paper
plates are great for picnics but if you pre-
fer restaurant-style service 983142ind china
charger plates silver service goblets and
flutes and linen napkins and tablecloths
Check out the party supply rental com-
panies in your area to 983142ind out what theyoffer and compare prices Make sure to
include delivery costs as well as delivery
terms such as how far in advance they will
deliver and when they will pick up after the
affair Visit the showrooms to see the qual-
ity of merchandise they offer By all means
get recommendations and warnings from
other consumers you certainly donrsquot want
to 983142ind out on the day of the party that the
tablecloths are stained or that you were
shorted on the glassware Ask about their
reputation for reliability their willingness
to work with you and whether there is an
extra charge for setup Also 983142ind out in what
condition the items have to be returned
mdash eg do the dishes need to be washedor simply scraped do the linens need to
be laundered and what are the costs for
breakage If possible compare the prices
quality service and reputations of a few
companies before making a 983142inal decision
Some party rental suppliers will work
with area vendors such as caterers and
wait staff to help you 983142ind a complete
package for your magical day Make an
appointment to sit down with your cho-
sen rental company and explain your
vision to them A party planner can makehelpful suggestions based on the compa-
nyrsquos experience with previous weddings
and parties They can tell you how many
plates glasses and flatware sets to rent
based on the number of people invited
always order a few extra pieces in case of
breakage or unexpected guests Read the
contract carefully to verify that all dates
quantities and service details are spelled
out correctly Creatorscom
S 18 Jewish Standard WINTER 2015 BEAUTIFUL BEGINNINGS
7232019 Beautiful Beginnings December 2015
httpslidepdfcomreaderfullbeautiful-beginnings-december-2015 2024
S-18 Jewish Standard WINTER 2015 BEAUTIFUL BEGINNINGS
Isaac ChalouhENTERTAINMENT
DJ and Lighting Services
LONG ISLAND
88 Washington AvenueCedarhurst NY 11516
516-792-6144
TEANECK
370 Queen Anne RoadTeaneck NJ 07666
201-357-8730
BROOKLYN
2084 East 8th StreetBrooklyn NY 11223
347-702-5154
VISIT OUR SHOWROOMS
wwwdjisaacchalouhcom
N E W
Le menu du jour
New trends in menu cards Sharon Naylor x
W hen printed menu cards
983142irst showed up as wed-
ding table additions guests
loved reading those delec-
table descriptions of the courses to come
during the dinner There was at 983142irst one
printed card per round table then four
or so spaced apart on long tables Guests
took turns looking at the elegantly printedcards with the dazzling print script Soon
individual menu cards were placed on
each guestrsquos plate for easier use and now
those individual menu cards are being per-
sonalized to each guest
ldquoYour tablescape offers countless oppor-
tunities to wow guests with custom details
and personalized menu cards are func-
tional and beautiful while making guests
feel like an important part of your big dayrdquo
says Vanessa Wicks event sales director at
Weylin B Seymourrsquos a historic event venue
in Brooklyn that has been the site of celeb-
rity weddings and events
When guests arrive at their tables they
983142ind their names printed on the menu
cards showing that you value their pres-
ence on their big day And the artistry of
their name handwritten in calligraphy
complements the loveliness of your wed-
ding design Yoursquove taken great care withthe smallest of details elevating your wed-
ding as a whole
Another advantage of customized menu
cards is the ability to tailor guestsrsquo special
menu requirements such as a gluten-free
vegan or kosher meal When guests see
their menu card they know right away
that yoursquove heard and honored their
requests They donrsquot need to be anxious
about their special meals
To help you create your personalized
menu cards keep the following tips in
mind
bull Spell names correctly Triple-check
your invitations list looking at guestsrsquosocial media pages for backup to be sure
each guestrsquos name is spelled correctly It
would be an awful faux pas if you created
a card for ldquoJohnrdquo when he goes by ldquoJonrdquo
bull Plan for dim lighting Your recep -
tion ballroom may be dimly lit illumi-
nated by candles and that low light can
make light-colored print dif983142icult to read
Larger script in a good contrasting shade
makes your menu card easier to see Not
all guests bring their reading glasses with
them Metallic print will capture candle-light so consider shimmery lettering
bull Create personalized menu cards for
children as well Theirs can be designed
differently than adult guestsrsquo cards using
kid-themed colors and motifs Add a print
game to the back of the card to provide a
fun activity
bull Add an accent to the back of guestsrsquo
menu cards A personalized note from you
may be extra work but it goes a long way
to making your guests feel like VIPs Or if
a personalized message isnrsquot realistic for
your time and budget print an inspiring
and romantic or a foodie-themed quote
on the back of each cardbull Ask your chef to help Make your menu
card mouth-watering with chef-provided
dish descriptions of each course
bull Include drink pairing choices with
each course Again your chef or bar man-
ager can provide pairing ideas using vin-
tages and cocktails that will be served at
your wedding
You might be wondering whether per-
sonalized menu cards at each guestrsquos
seat will tell each guest where to sit at
the table While guests are free to switchseats it is a good idea to put your guest
menu cards in order by table so that
staffers handling your weddingrsquos table
setups can place cards in the order you
prefer seating spouses and families next
to each other
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
B if l
7232019 Beautiful Beginnings December 2015
httpslidepdfcomreaderfullbeautiful-beginnings-december-2015 2124
Beautiful
WINTER 2015
A SUPPLEMENT TO
THE JEWISH STANDARD
7232019 Beautiful Beginnings December 2015
httpslidepdfcomreaderfullbeautiful-beginnings-december-2015 2224
7232019 Beautiful Beginnings December 2015
httpslidepdfcomreaderfullbeautiful-beginnings-december-2015 2324
L I V E WI TH F IN E DE S IGN
greenbauminter iorscom
HQ 101 Washington StreetHistoric Paterson NJ
973-279-3000
1105 Mt Kemble Ave (Rt 202)Morristown NJ
973-425-5500
584 Rt 17 North ( Racetrack Rd)Ridgewood NJ
201-857-3600
SINCE 1952
RIDGEWOOD
GRANDOPENING
7232019 Beautiful Beginnings December 2015
httpslidepdfcomreaderfullbeautiful-beginnings-december-2015 2424
7232019 Beautiful Beginnings December 2015
httpslidepdfcomreaderfullbeautiful-beginnings-december-2015 2024
S-18 Jewish Standard WINTER 2015 BEAUTIFUL BEGINNINGS
Isaac ChalouhENTERTAINMENT
DJ and Lighting Services
LONG ISLAND
88 Washington AvenueCedarhurst NY 11516
516-792-6144
TEANECK
370 Queen Anne RoadTeaneck NJ 07666
201-357-8730
BROOKLYN
2084 East 8th StreetBrooklyn NY 11223
347-702-5154
VISIT OUR SHOWROOMS
wwwdjisaacchalouhcom
N E W
Le menu du jour
New trends in menu cards Sharon Naylor x
W hen printed menu cards
983142irst showed up as wed-
ding table additions guests
loved reading those delec-
table descriptions of the courses to come
during the dinner There was at 983142irst one
printed card per round table then four
or so spaced apart on long tables Guests
took turns looking at the elegantly printedcards with the dazzling print script Soon
individual menu cards were placed on
each guestrsquos plate for easier use and now
those individual menu cards are being per-
sonalized to each guest
ldquoYour tablescape offers countless oppor-
tunities to wow guests with custom details
and personalized menu cards are func-
tional and beautiful while making guests
feel like an important part of your big dayrdquo
says Vanessa Wicks event sales director at
Weylin B Seymourrsquos a historic event venue
in Brooklyn that has been the site of celeb-
rity weddings and events
When guests arrive at their tables they
983142ind their names printed on the menu
cards showing that you value their pres-
ence on their big day And the artistry of
their name handwritten in calligraphy
complements the loveliness of your wed-
ding design Yoursquove taken great care withthe smallest of details elevating your wed-
ding as a whole
Another advantage of customized menu
cards is the ability to tailor guestsrsquo special
menu requirements such as a gluten-free
vegan or kosher meal When guests see
their menu card they know right away
that yoursquove heard and honored their
requests They donrsquot need to be anxious
about their special meals
To help you create your personalized
menu cards keep the following tips in
mind
bull Spell names correctly Triple-check
your invitations list looking at guestsrsquosocial media pages for backup to be sure
each guestrsquos name is spelled correctly It
would be an awful faux pas if you created
a card for ldquoJohnrdquo when he goes by ldquoJonrdquo
bull Plan for dim lighting Your recep -
tion ballroom may be dimly lit illumi-
nated by candles and that low light can
make light-colored print dif983142icult to read
Larger script in a good contrasting shade
makes your menu card easier to see Not
all guests bring their reading glasses with
them Metallic print will capture candle-light so consider shimmery lettering
bull Create personalized menu cards for
children as well Theirs can be designed
differently than adult guestsrsquo cards using
kid-themed colors and motifs Add a print
game to the back of the card to provide a
fun activity
bull Add an accent to the back of guestsrsquo
menu cards A personalized note from you
may be extra work but it goes a long way
to making your guests feel like VIPs Or if
a personalized message isnrsquot realistic for
your time and budget print an inspiring
and romantic or a foodie-themed quote
on the back of each cardbull Ask your chef to help Make your menu
card mouth-watering with chef-provided
dish descriptions of each course
bull Include drink pairing choices with
each course Again your chef or bar man-
ager can provide pairing ideas using vin-
tages and cocktails that will be served at
your wedding
You might be wondering whether per-
sonalized menu cards at each guestrsquos
seat will tell each guest where to sit at
the table While guests are free to switchseats it is a good idea to put your guest
menu cards in order by table so that
staffers handling your weddingrsquos table
setups can place cards in the order you
prefer seating spouses and families next
to each other
Sharon Naylor is the author of ldquoThe Bridersquos
Guide to Freebiesrdquo and three dozen additional
wedding books Creatorscom
B if l
7232019 Beautiful Beginnings December 2015
httpslidepdfcomreaderfullbeautiful-beginnings-december-2015 2124
Beautiful
WINTER 2015
A SUPPLEMENT TO
THE JEWISH STANDARD
7232019 Beautiful Beginnings December 2015
httpslidepdfcomreaderfullbeautiful-beginnings-december-2015 2224
7232019 Beautiful Beginnings December 2015
httpslidepdfcomreaderfullbeautiful-beginnings-december-2015 2324
L I V E WI TH F IN E DE S IGN
greenbauminter iorscom
HQ 101 Washington StreetHistoric Paterson NJ
973-279-3000
1105 Mt Kemble Ave (Rt 202)Morristown NJ
973-425-5500
584 Rt 17 North ( Racetrack Rd)Ridgewood NJ
201-857-3600
SINCE 1952
RIDGEWOOD
GRANDOPENING
7232019 Beautiful Beginnings December 2015
httpslidepdfcomreaderfullbeautiful-beginnings-december-2015 2424
7232019 Beautiful Beginnings December 2015
httpslidepdfcomreaderfullbeautiful-beginnings-december-2015 2124
Beautiful
WINTER 2015
A SUPPLEMENT TO
THE JEWISH STANDARD
7232019 Beautiful Beginnings December 2015
httpslidepdfcomreaderfullbeautiful-beginnings-december-2015 2224
7232019 Beautiful Beginnings December 2015
httpslidepdfcomreaderfullbeautiful-beginnings-december-2015 2324
L I V E WI TH F IN E DE S IGN
greenbauminter iorscom
HQ 101 Washington StreetHistoric Paterson NJ
973-279-3000
1105 Mt Kemble Ave (Rt 202)Morristown NJ
973-425-5500
584 Rt 17 North ( Racetrack Rd)Ridgewood NJ
201-857-3600
SINCE 1952
RIDGEWOOD
GRANDOPENING
7232019 Beautiful Beginnings December 2015
httpslidepdfcomreaderfullbeautiful-beginnings-december-2015 2424
7232019 Beautiful Beginnings December 2015
httpslidepdfcomreaderfullbeautiful-beginnings-december-2015 2224
7232019 Beautiful Beginnings December 2015
httpslidepdfcomreaderfullbeautiful-beginnings-december-2015 2324
L I V E WI TH F IN E DE S IGN
greenbauminter iorscom
HQ 101 Washington StreetHistoric Paterson NJ
973-279-3000
1105 Mt Kemble Ave (Rt 202)Morristown NJ
973-425-5500
584 Rt 17 North ( Racetrack Rd)Ridgewood NJ
201-857-3600
SINCE 1952
RIDGEWOOD
GRANDOPENING
7232019 Beautiful Beginnings December 2015
httpslidepdfcomreaderfullbeautiful-beginnings-december-2015 2424
7232019 Beautiful Beginnings December 2015
httpslidepdfcomreaderfullbeautiful-beginnings-december-2015 2324
L I V E WI TH F IN E DE S IGN
greenbauminter iorscom
HQ 101 Washington StreetHistoric Paterson NJ
973-279-3000
1105 Mt Kemble Ave (Rt 202)Morristown NJ
973-425-5500
584 Rt 17 North ( Racetrack Rd)Ridgewood NJ
201-857-3600
SINCE 1952
RIDGEWOOD
GRANDOPENING
7232019 Beautiful Beginnings December 2015
httpslidepdfcomreaderfullbeautiful-beginnings-december-2015 2424
7232019 Beautiful Beginnings December 2015
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