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    WORDS FROM MY FATHERS

    A compilation of translated African quotes.

    BY,

    TIMI OVURU ALAGOA

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    ONE

    DONT POUR WATER INTO YOUR CASSAVA MEAL, HOPING TO EAT

    IT WITH YOUR NEIGHBOURS FISH.

    *************************

    Strive to provide your needs and learn to be content with what you

    can provide for yourself, so you are not tempted to steal, cheat or

    engage in other crimes or character demeaning activities that can

    forever mar your image.

    TWO

    SMOOTH SEAS DO NOT MAKE SKILLFULL SAILORS.

    *************************

    It is only difficult situations that can tell the true strength of a

    man. Hard times mold you; learn to see tough moments as steps

    to gaining experience.

    THREE

    WHEN SPIDER WEBS UNITE, THEY CAN TIE UP A LION.

    *************************

    Even the greatest battles can be one if we unite. In unity we can

    achieve our greatest dreams.

    FOUR

    IT IS THE CALM AND SILENT WATER, THAT DROWNS A MAN.

    *************************

    It is that which a man underestimates, that can really pull him

    down. Never underestimate any man or situation. Always be

    careful. No wonder the bible says, be careful of nothing.

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    FIVE

    THE HORSE THAT ARRIVES EARLY GETS GOOD DRINKING WATER.

    *************************

    Those who start up early, always get the best the world has tooffer. You miss the best, when you procrastinate. Remember the

    story of the foolish virgins.

    SIX

    THE FOOL SPEAKS, THE WISE MAN LISTENS.

    *************************

    When you listen you gain wisdom and can never bare your

    ignorance in public, but he who never shuts his tongue bares his

    foolishness to the world and never learns a thing. It is always

    better to listen and be wise.

    SEVEN

    RAIN BEATS A LEOPARD'S SKIN, BUT IT CANNOT WASH OUT THE

    SPOTS.

    ************************

    No matter the tough experiences life throws at a man, his qualities

    will always make him stand out. Never worry about tough times;

    you will always be what God has made you to be.

    EIGHT

    TWO BIRDS FIGHT OVER A KERNEL, WHILE A THIRD SWOOPSDOWN AND CARRIES IT AWAY.

    *************************

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    Never be lost in battle over bread, lest a stranger comes and takes

    it away. Always learn to compromise. It is always better to have a

    share, than have nothing at all.

    NINE

    THE SON SHOOTS A LEOPARD; THE FATHER IS PROUD.

    *************************

    A wise son is always the pride of his father; his success gladdens

    the heart of his father. Every father rejoices when his son achieves

    great heights. No man wants a failure for a son.

    TEN

    LOOKING AT A KINGS MOUTH ONE WOULD NEVER THINK HE

    SUCKED HIS MOTHERS BREAST.

    *************************

    Greatness clouds the thoughts with so much mist that one seldom

    sees that every great man has also gone through the same stages

    as all men do. Nobody was ever born great, it begins with natures

    process, never look down on yourself or think yourself a lesserbeing than any man.

    ELEVEN

    HE, WHO MARRIES HIS LATE FATHERS WIFE, HAS A SON WITH

    HER AND CALLS HIM IHEANACHO {something we sought after},

    SURELY IS AWARE OF WHAT KILLED HIS FATHER.

    *************************

    We should always be careful of what we do to, avoid unnecessary

    suspicion. Learn to avoid arousing pointless suspicion especially

    when we are innocent of the crimes we are been suspected for.

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    TWELVE

    HE, WHO ALLOWS HIMSELF TO BE BITTEN BY SUN AND RAIN

    WHILE HE FARMS, WILL NEVER BE BITTEN BY HUNGER.

    *************************

    Hard work always pays. But with laziness, comes hunger and

    poverty which most likely may lead to involvement in immoral

    doings. Remember, an idle mind is the devils workshop.

    THIRTEEN

    WHEN CROCODILES EAT THEIR OWN EGGS, WHAT WILL THEY

    NOT DO TO THE FLESH OF A FROG?

    *************************

    Be very careful when you deal with people you do not understand,

    especially those who can give up their very own for any reason

    whatsoever. They will not treat you any nicer if they can sacrifice

    their own.

    FOURTEEN

    THE HYENA FLIRTS WITH THE HEN, THE HEN IS HAPPY NOT

    KNOWING THAT HER DEATH HAS COME.

    *************************

    Foolishness makes us forget lurking danger a times. At those times

    we are blinded to see our foes as friends, forgetting that we are

    meat to them. Ever read Gabriel Okaras little snake and little frog?

    FIFTEEN

    A ROCK IN THE MIDDLE OF A LAKE FOREVER COOED BY FLOWING

    WATER DOES NOT KNOW AND CANNOT KNOW THE HOTNESS OF

    THE SUN THAT BURNS AND DRIES UP THE OPEN LAND.

    *************************

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    Those who have it all, can never understand it when those under

    cry of invading crises. It is only those who experience it that can

    truly explain how bad it feels. Always reach out to people when

    you can, you never can tell those experiences that even push them

    to crime.

    SIXTEEN

    THE FOOL IS THIRSTY, EVEN IN THE MIDST OF WATER.

    *************************

    Even in the midst of opportunities, possibilities and plenty, a

    foolish or cowardly person remains uninformed of the prospects.

    SEVENTEEN

    TAKING WATER FROM THE SAME WELL, DOESNT MAKE ALL

    WIVES GRAVIES TASTE GOOD.

    ************************

    Every individual differs in style and have different experiences in

    their various chosen careers or fields of endeavours. For example,

    give a group of people the same amount of money and ask themto invest it in whatever trade they desire. You will see that each

    one of them will do it differently and achieve different results.

    EIGHTEEN

    WHEN BROTHERS FIGHT TO THE POINT OF DEATH, A STRANGER

    INHERITS THEIR FATHERS ESTATE.

    *************************

    It is very unwise to fight over the remains of our fathers, we

    should rather unite and plan to increase whats on ground,

    otherwise well unconsciously give our inheritances to strangers

    and open our homes to foes.

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    NINETEEN

    ONE FALSEHOOD SPOILS A THOUSAND TRUTHS.

    *************************

    A little lie can destroy a beautiful reputation built over the years.Always aspire to be honest in all your dealings with people, a little

    lie can destroy a mans personality.

    TWENTY

    UNTIL THE ROTTEN TOOTH IS PULLED OUT, THE MOUTH MUST

    CHEW WITH CAUTION.

    *************************

    Until we source out the cause of our challenges and solve them,

    we should be cautious especially if it involves the participation of

    other people.

    TWENTY-ONE

    ONLY A FOOLISH MAN, TESTS THE DEPTH OF A RIVER WITH BOTH

    FEET.

    *************************

    Whatever we desire to do, it is only wise that we cautiously plunge

    in, lest you drown if it fails. Remember also, never put all your

    eggs in one basket.

    TWENTY-TWO

    A MAN MAY DIE, BUT HIS NAME ALWAYS REMAINS ABOVE THEGRAVE.

    *************************

    Live your life, in a way that even in death your story will be an

    inspiration and a source of hope and encouragement to those

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    youve left behind and those whom your story may bring hope and

    succor. A good name is better than silver and gold.

    TWENTY-THREE

    IF A CHILD WASHES HIS HANDS CLEAN ENOUGH, HE GETS TO

    EAT WITH ELDERS.

    *************************

    He, who lives his life well and true, will achieve great heights and

    be open to opportunities as he meets with people that will help

    easily pave his way to success.

    TWENTY-FOUR

    ONE CAMEL DOES NOT MAKE FUN OF THE OTHER CAMELS HUMP.

    *************************

    Never forget to clean the fleck in your eye, before pointing

    anothers to him. Dont correct a man of the same crime you are

    guilty of. Dont laugh at anothers disability when you have one

    yourself.

    TWENTY-FIVE

    WHEN THE MOUSE LAUGHS AT THE CAT, THERE IS A HOLE

    NEARBY

    *************************

    It is quite unusual to see a subordinate disrespectfully point fingers

    at his boss, warning or abusing him without a push from behind.

    He most likely could have a backup that might even cause you

    harm.

    TWENTY-SIX

    HE, WHO PURSUES AN INNOCENT CHICKEN, ALWAYS STUMBLES.

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    Never fight an innocent man, lest you fall. God always has a way

    of fighting their battles.

    TWENTY-SEVEN

    WE WILL WATER THE THORN, FOR THE SAKE OF THE ROSE.

    *************************

    It is only wise to sometimes make decisions that can make us

    achieve our dreams, no matter what obstructions we may face and

    no matter what unacceptable pressures we must have to sit back

    and condone.

    TWENTY-EIGHT

    THROUGH CONTINOUS PRACTICE, THE MONKEY LEARNS TO JUMP

    FROM ONE TREE TO ANOTHER.

    *************************

    Simply put- practice makes perfect. It is only through continuous

    practice that we can gain the needed experience we need to excel

    in our various fields of endeavours and achieve great feats.

    TWENTY-NINE

    SUPPOSING DOESNT FILL THE GRAIN BASKET, LIKE IF

    DOESNT FILL THE LARDER.

    *************************

    Talks alone cannot foot our bills and put food on the table; weneed action and must totally stop procrastination. We also need to

    stop leaving the work for the other man. It will never get done.

    Commit to memory the poem Mr. nobody.

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    THIRTY

    IF THE RAT IMITATES THE LIZARD IN SWIMMING, IF THE

    LIZARDS SKIN DRIES, WILL THE RATS DO SAME?

    *************************

    What one man does and simply gets away with, another might

    take a longer time to recuperate or worse still never recuperate at

    all.

    THIRTY-ONE

    HE WHO FIGHTS A MAD MAN, IS MAD HIMSELF

    *************************

    Learn to walk away from pointless arguments especially when it

    has to do with an irrational person. They sure will also make you

    sound foolish and senseless no matter how much facts you try to

    put across.

    THIRTY-TWO

    AN AGAMA LIZARD IN THE VILLAGE WILL ALWAYS REMAIN AN

    AGAMA LIZARD IN TOWN.

    *************************

    A notorious child at home, will remain a notorious child wherever

    he goes. Character always shows itself no matter where one finds

    himself.

    THIRTY-THREE

    NO MATTER HOW SRONG A TREE IS, IT WILL ALWAYS DANCE TO

    THE TUNE OF THE WIND

    ************************

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    Nobody, no matter how strong, can stand without wavering in

    times of crisis. It is said that the best way to achieve great heights

    is to brace up to challenges. Remember, it is not about the

    stumbling, but about the rising from the fall. Challenges actually

    make us better and more experienced people.

    THIRTY-FOUR

    A MAN SHOULD NOT SWALLOW POISON BECAUSE HE IS AFRAID

    TO SPIT AND OFFEND OTHERS.

    *************************

    Never accept to take the pains, when you can actually salvage your

    situation, at practically no expense but the sheer opinions of

    others.

    THIRTY-FIVE

    BEFORE YOU MARRY A WIDOW, YOU MUST FIRST ASK HER WHAT

    KILLED HER LATE HUSBAND.

    *************************

    Before you partner with anyone in a venture hes failed before, besure to enquire the reason for the failure or you might end up

    failing yourself.

    THIRTY-SIX

    THE FOREST THOUGH LOOKS THICK, WHEN ONE APPROACHES IT,

    ONE SEES THAT EACH TREE IS ON ITS OWN.

    *************************

    A problem might look so unsolvable, but in attempting it, we find

    out it is not as difficult as it is portrayed. Always, try a solution,

    every problem has a time out, if addressed the right way.

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    THIRTY-SEVEN

    THOSE WHOSE PALM-KERNELS WERE CRACKED FOR THEM BY A

    BENEVOLENT SPIRIT, SHOULD NEVER FORGET TO BE HUMBLE.

    *************************

    Always reflect on your past and your days of new beginnings.

    Never forget those who made you, they sure can mar you too.

    THIRTY-EIGHT

    THE DEATH OF AN ELDERLY MAN IS LIKE A BURNING LIBRARY.

    *************************

    When an elderly man dies, he goes with decades of wisdom that if

    transferred can improve the lot of the younger generation. Elderly

    men are regarded as libraries with lots of helpful information.

    THIRTY-NINE

    A BIG BLANKET ENCOURAGES SLEEPING IN THE MORNING.

    *************************

    Luxury encourages Idleness. If you have worked hard and made

    wise choices, you will find contentment at the right time.

    Remember, a little slumber, a little sleep, so shall thy poverty

    come.

    FOURTY

    HE WHO CANNOT DANCE WILL SAY: "THE DRUM IS BAD."

    *************************

    When a man fails to accomplish a dream, he blames it on others or

    a situation, forgetting that he is unskilled or has failed to equip

    himself for the failed task. Learn to face your in-capabilities by

    equipping yourself.

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    FOURTY-ONE

    A COW GAVE BIRTH TO A FIRE: SHE WANTED TO KISS IT, IT

    BURNED HER; SHE WANTED TO LEAVE IT, BUT SHE COULD NOT

    BECAUSE IT WAS HER OWN CHILD.

    *************************

    A child is always a child to the mother, whether good or bad.It is

    unwise to put away ones child because they live the opposite of

    what we expect of them. Rather seek ways to make them

    understand and mould them into what we desire and leave the rest

    to God.

    FOURTY-TWO

    IF YOU HAVE ONE FINGER POINTING AT SOMEBODY, REMEMBER

    YOU HAVE THREE POINTING TOWARDS YOURSELF.

    *************************

    Never be party to the condemning faction, rather be part of the

    redeeming assembly, because nobody is truly guiltless of one crime

    or another. Remember Christs words-let him who is without sin

    cast the first stone

    FOURTY-THREE

    IF YOUR MOUTH TURNS INTO A KNIFE, IT WILL ONE DAY CUT OFF

    YOUR LIPS TOO.

    *************************

    If you continue to slander others or gossip one person to another,the same tongue with which you use to destroy relationships will

    one day do the same to you. Be careful what you say about

    people.

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    FOURTY-SEVEN

    A CHILDS FINGERS ARE NOT SCALDED BY A PIECE OF HOT YAM

    WHICH HIS MOTHER PUTS INTO HIS PALM.

    *************************

    No mother would want hurt come her childs way. Every mother

    protects her child in such a way that the child develops a level of

    trust which makes him accept without caution any offer she brings

    to him.

    FOURTY-EIGHT

    DO NOT STEP ON THE DOGS TAIL, AND HE WILL NOT BITE YOU.

    *************************

    Always avoid stimulate trouble, especially with people that can

    inflict great pain on you. Avoid problems in every way you can.

    FOURTY-NINE

    HE WHO ASKS QUESTIONS, NEVER MISSES HIS WAY.

    *************************

    People who enquire never fail. It is always better to enquire when

    you are not knowledgeable of a matter, than guess your way

    through.

    FIFTY

    THE MOON MOVES SLOWLY, BUT IT CROSSES THE TOWN.

    *************************

    It is always better to take your time than rush it up and spoil it all.

    Remember, it is not how far, but how well.

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    FIFTY-ONE

    AFTER EVERY FOOLISH DEED, COMES REMORSE.

    *************************

    Always consider the aftermath of what you do before you indulge.

    Remember the 4 way test. 1. Is it the truth? 2. Is it fair to all

    concerned? 3. Will it build goodwill and better friendship? 4. Is it

    beneficial to all concerned? It sure will help guide you.

    FIFTY-TWO

    THE LIZARD THAT JUMPED FROM THE HIGH IROKO TREE TO THE

    GROUND, SAID HE WOULD PRAISE HIMSELF IF NO ONE ELSE DID.

    *************************

    A little self acknowledgement is allowed sometimes, because that

    great feat you achieve might be nothing more than a molehill

    compared to the achievements of others. Celebrate your

    achievements from time to time. Boost your ego/self esteem. You

    need it to achieve greater heights.

    FIFTY-THREE

    IF YOU ARE BUILDING A HOUSE AND A NAIL BREAKS, DO YOU

    STOP BUILDING, OR DO YOU CHANGE THE NAIL?

    *************************

    One should not forsake a cause because of minor failures here and

    there. To win, one must strong willed and relentless.

    FIFTY-FOUR

    AN HIPPOPOTAMUS CAN BE MADE INVISIBLE IN DARK WATERS

    *************************

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    Ignorance can lead to potential danger. It is important to be

    informed and alert. Knowledge is power.

    FIFTY-FIVE

    RATS SHOULD NEVER DANCE IN THE CATS DOORWAY.

    *************************

    Learn to avoid problems, especially with those you already know

    you barely can beat in a fight.

    FIFTY-SIX

    A MONKEY AND GORILLA MAY CLAIM ONENESS, BUT THE MONKEYIS MONKEY AND THE GORILLA, GORILLA.

    *************************

    No matter how close sometimes we get to family and friends, our

    differences always show. You cannot conceal your true identity, no

    matter how hard you hide on anothers shadow.

    FIFTY-SEVEN

    A CUTTING WORD IS WORSE THAN A BOWSTRING, A CUT MAY

    HEAL, BUT THE TONGUE DOES NOT.

    *************************

    Always be careful what you say, remember words spoken can

    never be retrieved.

    FIFTY-EIGHT

    IT IS NOT WHAT YOU ARE CALLED, BUT WHAT YOU ANSWER TO.

    *************************

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    Never forget that it is not what people think of you that you are,

    but what you think of yourself. Aspire to soar and you sure will

    reach the skies. Remember, only a man can limit himself. As a man

    thinketh in his heart, so he is.

    FIFTY-NINE

    YOU DO NOT NEED TO TELL THE DEAF THAT THERE IS

    COMMOTION IN THE MARKET SQUARE.

    *************************

    In times of trouble, everybodys instinct charges him to seek

    refuge.

    SIXTY

    WHEN AN OLD BONE IS MENTIONED IN A PROVERB, AN OLD

    WOMAN TAKES STOCK OF HERSELF.

    *************************

    Whenever a crime or an addiction one is guilty of is discussed

    openly, one is taunted and fills uneasy.

    SIXTY-ONE

    WHEN THE EVIL PLOTTER BEATS HIS DRUM FOR THE DOWNFALL

    OF THE INNOCENT, THE GODS WILL NOT LET THAT DRUM

    SOUND.

    *************************

    Never fight an innocent man, lest you not just fail in your plot to

    hurt the innocent but destroy yourself too.

    SIXTY-TWO

    WHEN A SNAKE FALLS INTO A PIT, THOSE BEHIND MUST TAKECAUTION.

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    *************************

    To improve at what we do, we must learn from the mistakes of our

    predecessors. Smart people learn from the experiences of others

    rather than theirs.

    SIXTY-THREE

    COPYING EVERYONE ELSE ALL THE TIME, THE MONKEY ONE DAY

    CUT HIS THROAT.

    *************************

    Learn to do your own things, else youll someday be led or lured

    into doom.

    SIXTY-FOUR

    THE BUTTERFLY THINKS HIMSELF A BIRD, BECAUSE IT FLIES.

    *************************

    Always be conscious of who you are, to evade ridicule. It will help

    you trace and retrace yourself.

    SIXTY-FIVE

    IT IS WHAT IS IN THE HEART WHEN THERE IS NO WINE THAT

    COMES OUT WHEN THERE IS WINE IN THE HEAD.

    *************************

    Be cautious of what is said in times of merriment. Remember

    Shakespeares words. Many a true words are spoken in jest

    SIXTY-SIX

    YOU MUST NOT JUDGE A MAN BY THE WORKS OF HIS HANDS

    *************************

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    Respect people no matter what they do, be it Cab driving, truck

    pushing or housekeeping. They can achieve great heights from the

    salaries acquired and saved.

    SIXTY-SEVEN

    IF YOU NEGLECT THE POT, IT BOILS OVER AND EXTINGUISHES

    THE FIRE.

    *************************

    Little neglect can cause a lot of damage.

    SIXTY-EIGHT

    THE BEST WAY TO KEEP A HUSBAND IS TO MAKE HIM JEALOUS,THE BEST WAY TO LOSE HIM IS TO KEEP HIM A LITTLE MORE

    JEALOUS.

    *************************

    Always learn to never over-act in whatever you do. Know the

    limits, else you miss the point and spoil it all.

    SIXTY-NINE

    WHEN THE HEAD OF A HOUSEHOLD DIES, THE HOUSE BECOMES

    AN EMPTY SHELL.

    *************************

    When the bread winner of a home dies, the home becomes a home

    of hopelessness open to all the vices the head had protected his

    household from.

    SEVENTY

    STICKS IN A BUNDLE ARE UNBREAKABLE.

    *************************

    A united family, can never be destroyed. There is strength in unity.

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    SEVENTY-ONE

    TO END A CONFLICT, ONE DOES NOT BRING A KNIFE THAT CUTS,

    BUT A NEEDLE THAT SEWS.

    *************************

    To settle a dispute, one must be careful of the way he puts his

    words or seeks for the cause of the dispute that can cause more

    harms. Use wisdom to settle issues and let both parties see their

    mistakes without taking sides.

    SEVENTY-TWO

    THE FRIENDS OF OUR FRIENDS ARE OUR FRIENDS.

    *************************

    Learn to be free with all and be friendly as possible. We cannot be

    friends with our friends without accepting their friends. If birds of a

    feather flock together, then we would be sharing similarities with

    our friends friends. They could fit in the place of our friends at

    various times, especially when our friends are incapable of being

    there for us at that time.

    SEVENTY-THREE

    TO LOVE SOMEONE WHO DOES NOT LOVE YOU, IS LIKE SHAKING

    A TREE TO MAKE THE DEW DROPS FALL.

    *************************

    Loving someone who has no feelings for you is like striving to have

    the impossible. The harder you try, the harder it gets.

    SEVENTY-FOUR

    TO ONE WHO DOES NOT KNOW, A GARDEN IS A FOREST.

    *************************

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    To the ignorant, molehills are seen as mountains. Little challenges

    are seen as big confrontations and cause great fear in their hearts.

    SEVENTY-FIVE

    THE WIND DOES NOT BREAK A TREE THAT BENDS.

    *************************

    Its always good to be flexible, adapt to any situation you find

    yourself. Avoid rigidity and youll succeed and excel through your

    challenges.

    SEVENTY-SIX

    UNTIL THE LIONS HAVE THEIR HISTORIANS, TALES OF THE HUNTWILL ALWAYS GLORIFY THE HUNTER.

    *************************

    Our success stories can only be heard and retold when we decide

    to tell the stories of the brevity of our own against that of our

    peers and foes. Every man, family, society and even race has their

    tales of triumphs one way or another. Until we make it a point of

    duty to tell them, we would only be known to have simply existed.

    SEVENTY-SEVEN

    IF YOU UNDERSTAND THE BEGINNING WELL, THE END WILL NOT

    TROUBLE YOU.

    *************************

    For the end to be great, we must understand the beginning and

    know where we want to go. That way we can start planning in line

    to our dreams, molding our future right from the start, so we dont

    derail and find ourselves in a quandary, later in life.

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    SEVENTY-EIGHT

    DO NOT LOOK WHERE YOU FELL, BUT WHERE YOU SLIPPED.

    *************************

    To be able to accurately solve our mistakes, we should notcontinue to dwell on our mistake but the cause of the mistake. It

    will help us see it ahead the next time we are faced with similar

    circumstances and help us handle them better.

    SEVENTY-NINE

    WATER THAT HAS BEEN BEGGED FOR DOES NOT QUENCH THE

    THIRST.

    *************************

    It is only what you struggle to have that can give you true

    satisfaction. When you depend on people for your day to day

    needs, it takes out the pride that comes with achieving another

    milestone; you thus hardly get the fulfillment and pleasure.

    EIGHTY

    EVEN OLD WAS ONCE YOUNG

    *************************

    Never neglect the words of your fathers. Even they were once

    young and have experienced all you are seeing today. Remember

    the words of the elders are the pathway to greatness.

    EIGHTY-ONE

    WHEN THE VINE ENTWINES YOUR ROOF, IT IS TIME TO CUT IT

    DOWN.

    *************************

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    Just like you should be alert when the handshake exceeds the

    elbow, we should become careful and take action once we notice

    our relationships are beginning to cost us more than we can

    contend with.

    EIGHTY-TWO

    MAN IS LIKE PALM-WINE: WHEN YOUNG, SWEET BUT WITHOUT

    STRENGTH; IN OLD AGE, STRONG BUT HARSH.

    *************************

    The heart of a man when young is free and flows easily; he lives

    an easy going life with lesser worries, but takes harsher and

    stronger decisions in old age, especially because of his past

    experiences.

    EIGHTY-THREE

    THE RAIN DOES NOT RECOGNISE ANYONE AS A FRIEND; IT

    DRENCHES ALL EQUALLY.

    *************************

    Everybody one day or another will be faced with his own problems.Nobody is ever free of a problem or another.

    EIGHTY-FOUR

    HE, WHO DOES NOT SEIZE OPPORTUNITY TODAY, WILL BE

    UNABLE TO SEIZE TOMORROWS OPPORTUNITY.

    *************************

    Procrastination is the thief of time. When a man throws

    opportunities hes already found, he most likely would not utilize a

    future one.

    EIGHTY-FIVE

    OH HYENA, DONT GIVE ME EXCUSE TO EAT ME.

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    *************************

    When people that are supposed to be close friends betray you,

    they always give reasons for their actions. Be careful of friends

    that always give excuses for betraying others, they will one day do

    it to you.

    EIGHTY-SIX

    WITHOUT RETALIATION, EVILS WOULD ONE DAY BECOMEEXTINCT FROM THE WORLD.

    *************************

    Lets learn to forgive each other. Revenge and retaliation will only

    cause more harm and destroy lots of supposed beautiful

    relationships that could even shape our lives into better people.

    EIGHTY-SEVEN

    IF NOTHING TOUCHES THE PALM-LEAVES THEY DO NOT RUSTLE.

    *************************

    Problems do not arise without a cause. Every reaction is caused byan action. (Compare English "Where there's smoke there's fire.")

    EIGHTY-EIGHT

    A CHILD WITHOUT A MOTHER, IS LIKE A FISH IN SHALLOW

    WATERS.

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    A child without a mother is open to lots of vices that can even costhim his life.

    EIGHTY-NINE

    AN HIPPOPOPOTAMUS CAN BE MADE INVISIBLE IN DARK WATER.

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    Ignorance can lead to potential danger. It is important to be

    informed and alert.

    NINETY

    EVEN OVER COLD PUDDING, THE COWARD FEARS WOULD BURN

    HIS MOUTH.

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    The coward fears to handle even the simplest tasks. Theres no

    reason concluding over an issue without first trying it. With fear

    comes poverty.

    NINETY-ONE

    IF YOU WATCH YOUR POT, YOUR FOOD WILL NOT BURN

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    Guard yourself from problems that arise from carelessness and

    negligence. When we become too lackadaisical we become open to

    troubles that we actually could have been able to evade.

    NINETY-TWO

    IF YOU SECRETLY BURN A HOUSE, CAN YOU CONCEAL THE

    SMOKE TOO?

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    Every evil action always has a way of bringing its perpetrators out.

    Be careful what you do, nothing is hidden under the sun.

    Remember the law of karma.

    NINETY-THREE

    THE FROG WANTED TO BE AS BIG AS THE ELEPHANT, BUT GOT

    BURST INSTEAD.

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    Greed can lure one into partaking in criminal activities that can

    even cost you your life. Never envy anothers accomplishments,

    strive to achieve your dreams not because you want to compete

    with another but because you desire to excel without having to

    compromise to a fault.

    NINETY-FOUR

    THUNDER IS NOT YET RAIN

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    The times might be tough now, but it might not get worse than it

    already is. Never give up. A man might be sick and close to death,

    but it doesnt mean he is dead or will die for sure.

    NINETY-FIVE

    TOO LARGE A MORSEL CHOKES THE CHILD.

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    Learn to eat only what you can chew lest you choke. Greed causes

    a lot of harm. Be careful whatever you do, is not a matter of how

    far, but how well. Apply the warnings of traffic, speed truly kills.Always remember to take one step at a time.

    NINETY-SIX

    BECAUSE FRIENDSHIP IS PLEASANT, WE PARTAKE OF OUR

    FRIENDS ENTERTAINMENT; NOT BECAUSE WE HAVE NOT ENOUGH

    TO EAT IN OUR OWN HOUSE.

    *************************

    We love to be and share with our friends, not because we really

    want anything from them or cant afford the little gains we get

    from them, but for the joy we derive and the laughter and bliss of

    friendship which keeps us going each passing day.

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    NINETY-SEVEN

    BY THE TIME THE FOOL HAS LEARNED THE GAME, THE PLAYERS

    HAVE DISPERSED.

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    When a man fails to plan early, he only realizes himself when his

    peers have achieved it all. Time waits for no man.

    NINETY-EIGHT

    YOU CANNOT BUILD A HOUSE FOR LAST YEARS RAINS.

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    Just like you shouldnt cry over spilt milk. You should learn to let

    go of past misfortunes, failures, mistakes and move on with the

    lessons learnt as a weapon for future reoccurrences, especially

    when you see clearly that it cant be remedied.

    NINETY-NINE

    NO MATTER HOW LONG THE NIGHT, THE DAY IS SURE TO COME.

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    Sometimes, the difficulties we face make us feel we would never

    survive the next minute, but then comes the miracles. It is said

    that he that is down needs fear no fall, it can only get better from

    there.

    ONE HUNDRED

    THOUGH YOU SWEEP THE HUT IN THE SAND FLAT SEVERALLY,THE SAND WILL NEVER DISSAPPEAR.

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    No matter how hard we try, there are some situations we never

    can change. It is good we know how to brave such situations when

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    they come our way, because they could only drain us and also

    destroy our lives, future and even careers, if we continue to dwell

    on them.