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    How to StayPOSI

    +IVEin a

    TOUGH

    Work Environmen

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    -Dog eat dog . . . everyone fighting to get ahead

    - No one appreciates your contributions

    - Too much work . . . not enough help- Deadlines are unrealistic

    - Longer hours . . . additional work

    - Budget Constraints- Competition is eating us alive

    - Poor management / direction

    - Job insecurity

    Negative WorkEnvironment

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    Other PeoplesBehavior

    Bulldozers

    Snipers

    Exploders

    Clams

    Patronizers

    Complainers

    Controllers

    Backstabbers

    WalkingWounded

    Negatives

    Gossips

    BrownNosers

    Sluffers

    Whiners

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    CHANGE . . .

    u Challenges our paradigmsu Alters the way we thinku Makes life more difficult for

    a while

    u Causes Stressu Is an ongoing fact of life

    ChangingEnvironment

    The only person who alwayslikes change is a wet baby

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    PastExperiences

    Ouch!

    Ouch!

    Ouch!

    Ouch!

    Ouch!

    Ouch!

    Ouch!

    Ouch! Ouch!

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    MediaFrenzy

    NegativeWorld View

    A recent Statistic:

    Crime down 20% in America reporting up 600%,Look at what you are looking at !!!

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    u GENETIC: My Grandparents did it to me.(Inherited traits)

    u PSYCHIC: My Parents did it to me.(Upbringing)

    u ENVIRONMENTAL: My Spouse, my Boss,the Company, the Economy, etc.. is doing

    this to me. (Surroundings)

    DeterminismTheory

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    Choose the Right Luggage

    Dodge

    Bullets Be

    Bulletproof

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    Youre going to get hit!

    The Problem With DodgingBullets

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    Choice #2 Wear Bulletproof Armor

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    Bulletproof ArmorComes from

    SELF CHANGE

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    Putting onthe Armor

    Change

    3Things

    !

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    How to Change YourAttitude

    ATTITUDE

    ATTITUDE

    Changes happen

    personallyfrom the

    INSIDE OUT!

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    I am responsible . ..

    . . . for who I am

    . . . for what I

    have

    . . . for what I doATTIT

    UDE

    So . . . AcceptResponsibility

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    Negativeworld view

    YOU

    FROM THE INSIDE . . . OUT!

    Owne

    rship Values

    Mission Disc

    ipline

    ATTITUDE

    Step #2 Take Control

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    How to Change YourThinking

    THINKING

    THINKING

    Changes comefrom observing

    logicallyinevery situation

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    Observe Your Thinking

    THINKING

    Itsuckstobe

    him.

    Irefus

    etole

    t

    thishoo

    kme!

    This is allveryinteresting

    WhatcanIdo

    todefusethis?

    Tomorrow it willlook verydifferent.

    Idlike

    tobea

    t

    the

    anage our e a

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    This is going to be

    a wonderful day!This is going to

    be a crappy day!

    anage our e - a

    If you think you Can, or you think you CantYOURE RIGHT! Henry Ford

    THINKING

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    How to Change YourBehavior

    BEHAVIOR

    BEHAVIOR

    Changes take

    true assessment,determination &discipline

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    St T d Ch i

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    Steps Toward ChangingBehavior

    1. Unconscious Incompetence

    2. Conscience Incompetence

    3. Conscience Competence

    4. Unconscious Competence

    BEHAVIOR

    The New YOU!

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    AddPOSI

    +IVEBehavior

    INFLUENCE YOUR ENVIRONMENT!

    Sprinkle some positive on the negatives Focus on the good of each day Stay out of the feeding frenzies Say please and thank you Practice EMPATHY Evaluate YOURbehavior Never miss an opportunity to complement

    Spread a SMILE around

    Replace the BAD HABITS!

    BEHAVIOR

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    Watch your definitions -

    they become thoughts

    Watch your thoughts -

    they become wordsWatch your words -

    they become actions

    Watch our actions -

    Remember to . . .

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    The Choice is YOURS

    With a Bad attitude

    you can never have apositive day

    With a Positive attitudeyou can never have a

    bad day

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    ChoosePOSI+IVELiving

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    HAVE A WONDERFULL &

    A positive 2011

    E N J O

    Y !!!!!!!!!!