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When you think about it, Santa Claus is the ultimate senior volunteer. He’s old enough to be retired, works for free and seems to have an endless supply of energy and good will. But, Santa has to have helpers. In Mission, Doug Pearson has been “helping” Santa bring joy to young ones for the past 30 years. When you see Santa at the Candlelight Parade or other events, Pearson is always around, although you never seen the two together.

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Anyone who has kids or grandkids knows that the arrival of Santa is cause for huge excitement.

But whenever Santa comes to Mis-sion, he usually needs a little help staying organized. That’s where Doug Pearson comes in.

Pearson has been “helping” Santa for more than 30 years. He has done it so often, it almost feels like he’s wearing the red suit himself.

“I probably do more of these events in Mission than anybody else,” he said.

He began his association with Santa when he was with the Kinsmen. He would visit schools all across Mission.

He finds himself in more and more demand as Santa’s schedule is pretty busy.

He’s heading to Langley twice next week for some private events and has attended the Breakfast with Santa event at Mission Springs.

But perhaps the biggest thrill is “helping” Santa at the Candlelight Parade, a job he has exuberantly done for the past 15 years.

“The parade is unbelievable, because of the kids. The enthusiasm

of the kids just gives me a great feel-ing. It’s hard to explain. When you see the kids cheering and hollering, it’s great, awesome.”

He said this year’s parade was something special.

“The turn out this year was unbe-lievable, so many kids. I didn’t think we had that many kids in Mission.”

Spending so much time with Santa, Pearson said you hear a lot of funny tales.

“There are so odd requests and funny moments,’ he said.

But for the most part, children are just thrilled to see him.

He said being at the mall in Abbots-ford was “kind of crazy” but he doesn’t do that anymore because Mission keeps him busy.

“I’ve got 26 0r 27 events to do this year.”

When not “assisting” Santa, Pear-son is the president of the drop-in activities at Mission’s Seniors Centre.

“I’m retired but I’m pretty busy.”While he will turn 70 early next

year, Pearson said he plans to con-tinue what he’s doing for as long as he can.

“I’m just taking it year by year.”

Mission Community Services Society (MCSS) is receiving funding to stock up the shelves at their food bank, thanks to a $48,000 grant from the B.C. gov-ernment. Funding will also go towards their Meals on Wheels program and Seniors Connection program.

“Without this valuable support from the B.C. government we would be chal-lenged to provide these valuable programs that assist so many of Mission’s most vulnerable citizens,” explained MCSS executive director Sanjay Gulati.

“Thanks to this funding, valuable services will continue to be provided to members of our community,” Abbotsford-Mission MLA Simon Gibson said.

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The Mission Hospice Society and the community of Mission itself recently lost a good friend when long-time volunteer Graham Symonds passed away.

He passed away peacefully in Mis-sion Memorial Hospital surrounded by family and friends.

On Nov. 26, the hospice society held a celebration of life for Symonds and more than 80 people came out to honor the volunteer, father, friend

and just amazing man.Symonds immigrated to Canada

from England in 1955 along with his two young daughters and the family dog.

He was a Cloverdale volunteer fire-fighter for many years and was chief for at least one of those years.

Prior to joining the Surrey Fire Department full time, Symonds worked for the Municipality of Surrey (from 1958 to 1964 approximately).

By the 1960s, Surrey began man-ufacturing its own fire pumpers at the municipal work yard. Eleven of these trucks were manufactured and the last one produced is housed at the Surrey Museum. Symonds was instrumental in building these fire trucks.

He worked for the Surrey Fire Department for 23 years (1964 to 1987) before retiring as a captain.

After retiring, he moved to Mission in 1989.

He was the President of the Sur-rey Professional Fire Fighters Pioneer Association for 15 years and has been a member since its formation in 1992.

Symonds and his wife volunteered at Pleasantview for several years

Mission recently lost a good friend when longtime volunteer Graham Symonds passed away.

Symonds will be missed before his wife became ill and was in Hospice at Christine Morrison.

After his wife passed away in 2007, and Symonds saw first hand the good works done at Christine Morrison, he knew that he wanted to volunteer there.

Hospice made life bear able for him after his wife’s passing. He was able to help people and be sociable at the same time.

He was a member of the Brits Club and enjoyed the company of fellow Brits at lunch each Wednesday.

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FOR SENIORS

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■ Jan. 5 Lifetime Learning Centre’s used book sale is on from 9 am to 2 pm at 32444 - 7th Ave., Mission.

■ Jan. 5 Osteofit and Low Impact Fitness classes with Alvina Tyler continue every Tues. and Thur. morning at 32444 - 7th Ave., Mission. Phone 604-820-0220 for information.

■ Jan. 5 Chair Yoga with Norine Longmire continues every Tue. and Thur. morning at 11 am at 32444 - 7th Ave., Mission.

■ Jan. 7 Piano music with Tracey Tobin is presented from 1 to 2 pm at Carrington House, 32700 - 7th Ave., Mission. Fee; $7 (non-members $10).

■ Jan. 11 Lifetime Learning Centre presents French conversation classes with Nicole Bellay at 32444 - 7th Ave., Mission. Beginners 11 am to 12 noon, intermediate 9:30 to 10:30 am. Call 604-820-0220 for information.

■ Jan. 12 and 14 Lifetime Learning Centre’s Warm Fuzzies Knitting Group meets every Tuesday and Thursday at 32444 -7th Ave., Mission from 1 to 2:30 pm.

■ Jan. 20 Lifetime Learning Centre’s Writing Group with Sharon Syrette meets from 12 noon to 2:30 pm at 32444 -7th Ave., Mission. This is a series of five classes with a fee of $5 per session (non-members $7).

■ Jan. 26 Lifetime Learning Centre’s Book Discussion Group meets from 1 to 3 pm at 32444 -7th Ave., Mission. Call 604-820-0220

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■ Jan. 26 Lifetime Learning Centre presents Philosophers’ Cafe. Topic: “Where now with climate action?” Moderator: Neil Smith. Time: 7 to 9 pm. Place: Chartwell Cedarbrooke, 32331 -7th Ave., Mission. Cost: $5 - refreshments provided.

■ Jan. 27 Lifetime Learning Centre’s Open House is from 1 to 3 pm at 32444 -7th Ave., Mission. Learn about and register for our programs. Refreshments. Hear guest speaker Michael Boronowski, District of Mission Community Engagement Officer. Michael will discuss the various ways we can engage to create the type of community we desire.

■ Jan. 28 Lifetime Learning Centre presents “Tech Time” with Sharon Syrette. Bring your cell phone or tablet and students will be on hand to help you. Time: 1 to 3 pm. Place: 32444 -7th Ave.,

Mission. Fee: by donation. Pre-register at 604-820-0220. This is a partnership program with School District #75, offered as part of the Linking Hands Through the

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Have you ever wondered what deci-sions you may have to make when faced with a medical emergency? We all know to call 911 but then what?

It doesn’t matter if you are a 19-year-old adult or a 91-year-old senior, someone – such as emergency med-ical and hospital personnel or health care providers responsible for your care – will have questions for you.

If you are not capable of answering their questions someone else must make decisions for you? This requires careful thought and planning and we think about this more as we age. We start to think about what life vs qual-ity of life means to us and what our beliefs on end of life care means. The first step is deciding what’s important to you should the situation arise.

Planning means finding ways to express your wishes in advance so that if you become incapable, your wishes will be respected and followed. This provides information to decision makers to make informed decisions on your behalf.

In BC, legislation was amended on September, 1, 2011 to address this. There are forms and informa-tion guides and free workshops that explain the various decision maker requirements and the forms.

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Tune in next month to read what Gord says about wills and estate plan-ning and be sure to check the Mission Seniors Events page for scheduled workshops including Mission Seniors Centre Association – Falls Prevention at the seniors centre on Jan. 26.

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had an amazing mother daughter relationship. They were the best of

friends. They used to go shopping all the time, they went for manicures and even went to the theatre together to watch the newest play that had come to town. A year ago, Ethel was admit-ted to the hospital and things changed in an instant. Ethel wasn’t get-ting invited to shopping trips or the theatre any-more. Ethel was feeling depressed and wanted to go home. It was then that Christina and Ethel decided to hire a care-giver to bring her back home. The caregiver was the best decision for the pair because now, as mother and daughter they have the freedom again to go on shopping trips, do family dinners and see shows once in a while, and have a care-giver there to help Ethel if she needs it.Few families are

aware that medical and non-medical care exists beyond the four walls of the hospital. It’s import-ant for family caregiv-ers to utilize available resources in the com-munity, like private home care, to lessen the burdens of care. Unfor-tunately, it’s often not until there is a medi-cal emergency that the topic of enhanced care is first discussed. It can be challenging to broach the topic of increased care with parents. In fact, the number one fear of seniors is lost independence, which is why seeking help from experts at initiating happy aging talks is so important.

Article submitted by Carol Lange, franchise owner of

Nurse Next Door Maple Ridge/Mission. Nurse Next Door

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