red flags to narcissistic personality disorder compiled by jeni mawter
DESCRIPTION
Narcissistic Personality Disorder is insidious and toxic. It destroys relationships with partners, family, friends, work colleagues and members of the community. This slide show identifies some of the red flags that signal a relationship with someone with a Narcissistic Personality Disorder. It is an attempt to explain aberrant relationship behaviours that may be observed at home, with partners, at work, or in community groups.TRANSCRIPT
![Page 1: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/1.jpg)
RED FLAGS TO
NARCISSISTICPERSONALITY
DISORDER (NPD)
COMPILED BY JENI MAWTER
![Page 2: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/2.jpg)
How does a relationship that
feels so right …
![Page 3: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/3.jpg)
… go so wrong?
![Page 4: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/4.jpg)
NPD WARNING SIGNSIGNORE AT YOUR PERIL
![Page 5: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/5.jpg)
NPDS ARE LOOKING FOR ENABLERS WHO GIVE ‘NARCISSISTIC SUPPLY’ ATTENTION +
EMPATHY + ADULATION
![Page 6: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/6.jpg)
YOU ARE SELECTED BY HOW YOU RESPOND TO THE NPDS FOCUS
![Page 7: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/7.jpg)
YOU BECOME THE TARGET FOR LOVE ‘BOMBING’
![Page 8: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/8.jpg)
AN INTENSE FOCUS IS ON YOU
![Page 9: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/9.jpg)
![Page 10: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/10.jpg)
IT FEELS LIKE YOU HAVE BEEN ‘CHOSEN’
YOU ARE SPECIAL
![Page 11: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/11.jpg)
NPDS ARE OFTEN CHARISMATIC
![Page 12: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/12.jpg)
BUT…
![Page 13: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/13.jpg)
NPD INTEREST IN YOU IS A PRETENSE
![Page 14: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/14.jpg)
YOUR ENCOUNTER WILL BE LIKE AN INTERVIEW, NOT A CONVERSATION
![Page 15: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/15.jpg)
NPDS ‘BANK’ OR STORE YOUR EMOTIONS, THOUGHTS AND EXPERIENCES
(EXPOSED WEAKNESSES WILL BE USED AGAINST YOU LATER)
![Page 16: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/16.jpg)
THEIR LOVE IS ALL-CONSUMING
![Page 17: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/17.jpg)
THIS FEELS PERFECT …
![Page 18: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/18.jpg)
UNTIL …
![Page 19: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/19.jpg)
NPDS HAVE AN INFLATED SENSE OF ‘SELF’ SUPERIORITY
![Page 20: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/20.jpg)
THEY EXPECT, AND DEMAND, TO BE WORSHIPPED
![Page 21: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/21.jpg)
THEY HAVE A STRONG SENSE OF ENTITLEMENT
![Page 22: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/22.jpg)
NPDS ARE NEVER RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR ACTIONS OR WORDSTHEY BLAME THE WORLD AND OTHERS
![Page 23: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/23.jpg)
ABUSE STARTS WITHOCCASIONAL SUBTLE PUTDOWNS
![Page 24: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/24.jpg)
EMPATHY IS FEIGNED
![Page 25: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/25.jpg)
WITHOUT AN AUDIENCENPDS HAVE NO EMPATHY
![Page 26: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/26.jpg)
NPDS WEAR TWO FACES
![Page 27: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/27.jpg)
FRIENDLY IN PUBLIC
BACKSTABBING IN PRIVATE
![Page 28: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/28.jpg)
NPDS ARE THEMASTERS OF CAMOUFLAGE
![Page 29: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/29.jpg)
LOVE BOMBING CONTINUES
YOU DROWN IN THIS SEA OF LOVE
![Page 30: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/30.jpg)
BUT… DEVALUING BEGINS
(USUALLY IN PRIVATE)
![Page 31: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/31.jpg)
WHEN WORDS CONTRADICT BEHAVIOUR YOU FEEL CONFUSED
![Page 32: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/32.jpg)
TO THE WORLD
THIS PERSON IS PERFECT
![Page 33: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/33.jpg)
TO THE NPD, YOU ARE NOT PERFECT
YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO AN OPINION
![Page 34: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/34.jpg)
IT’S “MY WAY OR THE HIGHWAY”
![Page 35: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/35.jpg)
![Page 36: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/36.jpg)
YOUR VALUE COMES FROM HOW YOU RESPOND TO THE NPD – NOT FROM
WHO YOU ARE
![Page 37: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/37.jpg)
YOU BECOME ISOLATEDLOSE FAMILY, FRIENDS, COLLEAGUES
AND COMMUNITY
![Page 38: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/38.jpg)
ATTEMPTS TO ASSERT YOURSELF LEAD TO ‘NARCISSISTIC RAGE’
![Page 39: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/39.jpg)
YET YOU FEEL SORRY FOR THE NPD
![Page 40: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/40.jpg)
YOUR ROLE IS TO PLEASE THEM
![Page 41: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/41.jpg)
NPDS ARE HYPERSENSITIVE AND PERCEIVE CRITICISM
WHEN NONE IS INTENDED
![Page 42: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/42.jpg)
NARCISSISTIC RAGE ESCALATES (ONLY IN PRIVATE)
![Page 43: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/43.jpg)
MANIPULATION TACTICS USED TO CONTROL YOU
GASLIGHTING DENIAL LYING EXCUSES
![Page 44: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/44.jpg)
I never said that.
You’re imagining things.
You’re crazy.
That never happened.
Can’t you take a joke?
COMMONLY HEARD …
![Page 45: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/45.jpg)
MUCH OF WHAT IS SAID IS A LIE
![Page 46: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/46.jpg)
AS A NPD VICTIM YOU NO LONGER TRUST YOUR OWN
PERCEPTION, MEMORY, OR JUDGEMENT
![Page 47: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/47.jpg)
![Page 48: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/48.jpg)
BLAMING: NPDS ARENEVER RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR ACTIONS
“IT’S ALL YOUR FAULT”
![Page 49: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/49.jpg)
YOU ARE IN A CYCLE OF VALUE AND DISCARD
![Page 50: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/50.jpg)
YOU KEEP TRYING TO RETURN TO YOUR OLD RELATIONSHIP
![Page 51: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/51.jpg)
YET YOU OFTEN WONDER…
![Page 52: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/52.jpg)
YOUR BOUNDARIES WILL NOT BERESPECTED
![Page 53: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/53.jpg)
YOU’RE WALKING ON EGGSHELLS
![Page 54: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/54.jpg)
ENABLERS DO NOT BELIEVE YOUTHEY PROTECT THE NPD
![Page 55: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/55.jpg)
YOU ARE SILENCED
![Page 56: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/56.jpg)
SILENCED
![Page 57: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/57.jpg)
YOUR ABUSER WON’T LET YOU GOTHEY CRY CROCODILE TEARS
![Page 58: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/58.jpg)
WELCOME TO THE CYCLE OF ABUSE
![Page 59: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/59.jpg)
NO, YOU’RE NOT CRAZY!!!
THIS WHOLE SITUATION IS CRAZY MAKING
![Page 60: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/60.jpg)
YOU’VE BEEN ‘NARCISSISED’
AND YOU NEVER KNEW …
![Page 61: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/61.jpg)
UNTIL NOW
![Page 62: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/62.jpg)
FINALLY THE PIECES FIT TOGETHER!
![Page 63: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/63.jpg)
NO MORE RED FLAG CONFUSION
![Page 64: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/64.jpg)
HOW DID SOMETHING
THAT FELT SO RIGHT …
GO SO WRONG?!
![Page 65: Red Flags to Narcissistic Personality Disorder compiled by Jeni Mawter](https://reader033.vdocuments.us/reader033/viewer/2022061103/53feb5748d7f726a5c8b463f/html5/thumbnails/65.jpg)
Please share these other links on
Narcissistic Personality Disorder
http://www.slideshare.net/jenimawter/narcissistic-victim-syndrome-a-powerpoint-by-jeni-mawter
http://www.slideshare.net/jenimawter/moving-on-from-narcissistic-abuse-compiled-by-jeni-mawter