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Poor Listening Styles By: Deanna Atherton

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Poor Listening StylesBy: Deanna Atherton

There are FIVE POOR LISTENING STYLESSpacing outPretend listeningSelective listeningWord listeningSelf-centered listening

Spacing outSpacing out is when someone is talking and you are day dreaminghttps://www.google.com/url?sa=i&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=images&cd=&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=0ahUKEwizoqPEhq3MAhWLMSYKHeHRC5wQjB0IBg&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.thedailybeast.com%2Farticles%2F2014%2F10%2F04%2Fdaydreaming-is-not-a-disorder.html&bvm=bv.120551593,d.eWE&psig=AFQjCNEkhboIEE70lmG3rRGPq7IrGGwR-Q&ust=1461785777984666

Pretend listeningWhen one person is talking to you and you arent really listening to them and you comment back with yea or sounds cool

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Selective listeningWhen you pay attention to the person only on the parts that interest you.

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Word listeningWhen you listen to just the words they are saying not how they are saying it.https://www.google.com/url?sa=i&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=images&cd=&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=0ahUKEwjO-PDMia3MAhWFSiYKHY1uDq8QjB0IBg&url=http%3A%2F%2Fplannersweb.com%2F2014%2F10%2Fimportant-skills-planning-commissioners%2F&bvm=bv.120551593,d.eWE&psig=AFQjCNHJc1lxPWBq8KSt07D9WGBRx3h2xg&ust=1461786591602955

Self-centered listeningWhen instead of trying to fit into their shoes you want them to fit into your shoes. Also when we see everything from our point of view.

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