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On ne badine pas avec l'amour…. Searching for a new sexual identity and dreaming of falling in love after a brain injury. La Braise – Brussels. An illustration of long-term care of severe brain injured adults. La Braise. Day Care Center. La Braise Transports. - PowerPoint PPT PresentationTRANSCRIPT
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An illustration of long-term care of severe brain injured adults
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Day Care Center
Day Care Center
La BraiseTransportsLa Braise
Transports
Support ServiceSupport Service
Resources Center
Resources Center
Cognitive RehabilitationCenter
Cognitive RehabilitationCenter
La BraiseLa Braise
RespiteServiceRespiteService
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Population concerned
Adults (18-65 years old) Non-progressive acquired brain injury (head trauma,
stroke, ...) Severe bain injury (medical criteria+ significant
impact in daily life) Long term care/management
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Most frequent sequelaes
Neuropsychological Communicational Emotional Behavioural Anosognosia Physical Sensorial Fatigue Slowness
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CENTERDay Care RESPITE
SERVICE
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About thirty adults (aged 18-65 years) with acquired and non-progressive brain injury (TBI/stroke)
long term day care with no restriction of duration
personal, family and social support of brain injured persons by focusing on quality of life and community outreach.
Opened in August 1995CENTERDay Care
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Multidisciplinary team Group activities and individual therapies
(cognitive, creative, activities of daily life, communication, emotional, physical)
Research, implementation and use of means of compensation
Working with families
CENTERDay Care
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SERVICESupport
CENTERRehabilitation
Cognitive
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–About fourty brain injured adults and teenagers (from 12 years old)
– Individual support. Concrete support in family life of the person : Administrative and/or financial assistance, housing search, help in managing the activities of daily living, home adaptations to cognitive difficulties, development of human and material aid, social and professional reinsertion.
Opened in September1998SERVICESupport
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– About ten adults (16 to 65 years old) with brain injury
–Day rehabilitation program funded by INAMI for a period of maximum 3 years (beyond the initial 2 years of rehabilitation)
– In the presence of sufficient potential of evolution towards a social, familial and/or professional reinsertion.
CENTERRehabilitation
Cognitive Opened in January 2002
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Objectives
Quality of life (cf Qolibri) Maximal participation (cf CIF model) Autonomy (cf Mhavie, satisfaction degree) Self-confidence, revaluation of the self-image
(reintegration, volunteering) Personal, familial, social, professional
fulfillment Mourning, (re)construction of the project.
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Means
A comprehensive approach The brain injured person, his family system, his
past history, his path since the accident (neuro systemic approach)
An environmental approach Practical situations, the closest to their daily
life, ideally in life environment of the person A coherent multidisciplinary approach
Within the team (educators, neuropsychologists, speech therapist, occupational therapist, physiotherapist, social worker, responsible for integration) and the broader network (external contributors)
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•Principles–Continued feedback• Classical, ecological, observation checklist, simulations,
training/internship– System of contracts, assesments, targets–Metacognition • Having the person become an expert of his injury
– Impact of the group of peers–Working with family–Respect the individual pace (mourning, resilience)–Consider the affective experiences (solitude,
sexuality)
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Service Répit pour les proches
de personnes cérébro-lésées
en situation de grande dépendance
La Braise
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SERVICE RESPITE
–Occasionally relieve relatives of brain injured person in situation of high dependancy (requiring the continuous presence of a third party)
– Reassuring presence at home, individual excursions, integration in group activities.
Opened in 2009
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• Tool for :– Acquired brain injured persons (traumatic brain injury,
stroke…) ,– Their relatives,– Professionals working with them,– Public
Opened in september 2005
CENTERRESOURCES
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Need for fondness, a lasting relation, complicity, projects, trust and mutual respect.
Mutual help and support
Dialogue
Confidence
Patience
Importance of loving and being loved
Know that someone is relying upon oneself
Importance of a loving look on oneself
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Sexuality : all behaviours related to the sexual instinct and its fulfilment.
Sexuality within the relation.
Asking for sex or for love?
Sexual assistant: prostitution or service?
Ethics (moral) : non-discrimination and respect of the other
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In the Belgian law, prostitution is not an infringement by ityself. It consists in proposing or accepting, in exchange for payment or a material advantage other than affective, physical contacts of any kind, which aim at satisfying sexual needs or pleasures.
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Recruitment – running or renting a house of prostitution
Exploiting the the prostitution of others
Street walking
Advertising prostitution
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1. The sequelae
2. Comparison with the life before the accident
3. Changes in the roles and expectations of the couple
4. Lack of communication in the couple
5. Difficulties establishing emotional relations
6. Images conveyed by society and education
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Fatigue
Hemiplegia / hemiparesia,…
Limitations of movements
Changes in body sensations (insensitivity or hypersensitivity, pain)
Not wanting to show one’s body
No longer being able to satisfy one’s needs and the needs of the partner
Fear of deceiving the partner / oneself
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Memory problems
Slowing of the thought
Attention problems
Judgement problems
Loss of initiative
Language problems (understanding, expression)
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Fear to be exploited (memory problems, financial)
Fear of not being respected
Fear of being unable to say « no »
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Difficulties accessing emotional experiences
Difficulties expressing emotional experiences
Behavioural changes :
disinhibition (hypersexuality) inhibition (hyposexuality, apathy) lack of emotional control
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All these changes result in
Lack of self-esteem
Shame, feeling of guilt, helplessness
Sadness, withdrawn attitude, depression
Expressing the anger caused by the handicap through agressivity towards the others
Anxiety
Disruption with oneself and with the other
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De-sexualized body in hospital environment
Body broken up, transformed vulnerable
Difficulties recognizing oneself
Changes of the self-image and the image given to others
Looking for recognition in the eyes of the other
The personal values are challenged: no longer loving oneself, no longer being able to be loved by the other
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Comparison of performances, experiences, with those before the accident
Believe that the relation of the couple before the accident is anyway acquired
The history before the accident influences the current emotional and sexual life
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The partner has a role of caregiver, to the detriment of his role as spouse
The body cared for is no longer « eroticized »
loss of intimity of the couple
sometimes loss of sexual identityA
mbivalent feelings between partners (guilt, shame, recognition)
Difficulties to communicate to the other one’s feelings and expectations from him
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The partner becomes a caregiver
No longer being at an equal level
No longer walking at the same pace…
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New expectations are not explicitely expressed
Fears
Unsaid
Incomprehension
Gap between the partners
lonely together, separations, divorces
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(Kreutzer 94, Linn 94, Perlesz 2000)
Behavioural problems – agression, disinhibition – are major factors of distress (Linn 92)
Disruption of the life, depression, social withdrawal, inversion of the roles in the couple (Rosembaum et Najenson 1976)
3 to 5 times more separations and divorces (Wood, 97)
Loss of the main emotional and relational support of the spouses: disturbance of the sexuality, the communication with the partner, the social role of the couple
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Refuse a new relation
To avoid suffering To avoid an unpleasant encounter Because of the weight of the handicap
LONELINESS
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Worship of the image and the look
Competitiveness
Performance
« The ideal image » is even more difficult to reach after the accident
Risk of misunderstandings and frustrations
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Some solutions
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Propose rewarding activities, of public utility, to brain-injured people
Transport Pay attention to the need of emotional
relations of the brain-injured patients Support to families and partners Training of existing services Specific
support services with an additional mission of « leasure »
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Conclusions
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Pay attention to the real request of the person
Do not normalize
Sex without love = ?
Love and food have the same vital importance for our health and our survival (Ko Tseu)
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Encounters are still possible… One must trust life, because one is still alive
It is important to be loved, such as I am now; that someone shares, exchanges, shows me by gestures and attentions that I exist and that I matter …
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Certain adults found a family and become parents after the accident…
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For further information :
Christine Croisiaux - Director
« La Braise » asbl
Rue de Neerpede 165
B-1070 Bruxelles
Tél 0032 (0)2.523.04.94
Fax 0032 (0)2.523.39.52
Email : [email protected]
All brochures published by the Resources Center « La Braise » are downloadable (in
French) on the website :www.labraise.org
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