How To Manage Your ParenTs

(Without Manipulation)

by

Askia H. Bashir

Student Activity Workbook

Prepared byAbdul H. Bin-Asad

KYD PUBLISHERSAtlanta, Georgia

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Name________________________________________________Date_____________________

Column A_____1. Depression

_____2. Reprogram

_____3. Forgive

_____4. Apologize

_____5. Burden

_____6. Responsibility

_____7. Initiative

_____8. Positives

_____9. Complimentary

_____10.Mutual

Part A–Word RecognitionDirections: MatchtheterminColumnAwiththecorrectdescriptionincolumnB.Placethelet-terofyouranswerinthespaceprovided;Seetextanddictionaryforadditionalinformation.

Column Ba. Somethingdifficulttobearemotionallyorphysi-

cally.Aresponsibilityorduty.

b. Astatementofacknowledgementaskingpardonorexpressingregretforafaultoroffense.Tomakeregretfuloforexcuseforafault.

c. Inpsychology,aneuroticorpsychoticconditionmarkedbyaninabilitytoconcentrate,andfeelingsofdejectionandguilt.Tolowerinspirit.

d. Changingyourmindtoadifferentwayofthinking.

e. Topardon.Toexcuseforafaultoroffense.

f. Somethingthatcompletes,makesupawholeorbringtoperfection.

g. Measure or moving in a direction to increase,progress,orforwardmotion.

h. Thepower,abilityorinstincttobeginorfollowthroughenergeticallywithaplanortask.

i. Havingthesamerelationshipeachtotheother.Directedandreceivedinequalamounts.Possessedincommon.

j. Being responsible. Something for which one isaccountable.Personalaccountability.

Accepting Total Responsibility, Chap. �Activity 3 & 4 Begin by Forgiving, Chap. �

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Part B – Review Questions:

1. HowdoIbeginbyforgiving?p.21

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2. WheredoIfirststartmakingchanges?p.22

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3. Namesomeoftheinfluencesthatyouaretrainedorprogrammedby?p.22

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4. WhyisitimportantthatIforgivemyparents?p.22,23

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5. WhyshouldIforgivemyself?pp.23,24

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6. Whatarethebenefitsofaskingforgivenessformyparents,othersandmyself?p.24

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7. Whataresomeoftheconsequencesofnegativethoughts?p.24

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8. HowdoIgetridofnegativethoughts?pp.24,25

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9. WhenIhavemasteredexercisingforgiveness,whatpositivefeelingwillIexperience?p.25

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Activity 3 & 4 (continued)

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�0Activity 3 & 4 (continued)

Part CDirections: AnswerTrueorFalsetothefollowingstatements,byindicatingtheletters“F”or“T”.

_____1. Blamingothersforyourunfavorablecondition,improvesyourself-image.p.26

_____2. Childrenare responsible forfifty-onepercentormoreof thequalityof familyrelationship.p.27

_____3. Parentsbecomeupsetwhentheirchildrendonotliveuptotheirexpections.p.28

OPTIONAL ACTIVITYUsing the VocabularyDirections:Fillintheblankspaceswiththecorrecttermfromthefollowingwords:

initiative burden forgive depression reprogram 1.Hehasbeeninastateof______________________________everysincehisparentssepa-

rated. 2.Iknowitwillrelievea__________________________frommymindifI________________

mymotherforwhatshesaidtome. 3.IknowIwillhaveto_____________________________mymindifIwanttohaveabetter

wayoflookingatthings. 4.Youhavetotakethe_____________________________ifyouwanttogetsomethingdone

thatothershavefailedtodo. 5.Mymindwasrelievedofaheavy________________________whenIforgavemysister

formisinformingmyparentsofmyafterschoolactivities.

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