how to get through toddler tantrums
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How To Get Through Toddler Tantrums
1.Consider Ignoring It
Remember that toddlers are naturally focused on their own self-interests and you likely will not be able to reason with them.As long as there is no immediate need, you may consider letting the tantrum run its course.
2. Provide A Distraction
Because toddlers have short attention spans, any sort of interesting distraction can often end a tantrum.
3. Stay Calm Yourself
Toddlers can pick up on your emotions, and freaking out can cause them to freak out further."When little people are overwhelmed by big emotions, it's our job to share our calm, not join their chaos." - L.R. Knost
4. Develop A Daily Routine
Lack of a routine is a common cause of toddler tantrums.Having a clear routine for the day can provide a bit of structure and clarity in your toddler’s life.
5. Don’t Give In
If your toddler learns that you give in when they throw a big enough fit, they are going to exploit that and do it again in the future.
6. Place Them In Timeout
If your toddler knows the only way they can get out of timeout is to calm down, they will calm down quicker in the future.They will also work harder to remain calm to avoid being placed in timeout again.
7. Don’t Get Angry At Them
Your toddler is learning how to express their emotions, and is not throwing a fit to spite you.Getting angry on top of their own frustration will only make things worse.
8. Don’t Act Differently In Public
If you act too lenient in public to avoid a tantrum, your toddler will learn to harness the power they have, and will exploit it. Be consistent with how you act.
9. Encourage Sharing
Young children are inherently selfish, and it’s this selfishness that is the basis for many tantrums.By teaching the value of sharing and the value of empathy early on, many tantrums can be avoided altogether.
10. Get Them Tired
If they’re too exhausted, they’re not going to have any energy to throw a tantrum.If nothing else works for you, try this one out!
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