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ExecuNet Presents…
Conversations in the FAST LANE
with Renessa Boley Layne
Redesigning Your Success for More Passion, Purpose and Ease
Why are we here?
In the mad dash to succeed fast...
Why are we here?
In the mad dash to succeed fast...
How do we make this easier?
In the next 60 minutes you will learn:
In the next 60 minutes you will learn:
What it means to be in the fast lane going in the wrong direction in your work and life.
In the next 60 minutes you will learn:
What it means to be in the fast lane going in the wrong direction in your work and life.
How to recognize the signs on the road that you may be headed in the wrong direction personally or professionally.
In the next 60 minutes you will learn:
What it means to be in the fast lane going in the wrong direction in your work and life.
How to recognize the signs on the road that you may be headed in the wrong direction personally or professionally.
Your biggest roadblock to finding (and maintaining) your “right direction”.
In the next 60 minutes you will learn:
What it means to be in the fast lane going in the wrong direction in your work and life.
How to recognize the signs on the road that you may be headed in the wrong direction personally or professionally.
How to make decisions to achieve more and enjoy more in your work, leadership and life right now.
Your biggest roadblock to finding (and maintaining) your “right direction”.
Who am I?
I have personally coached hundreds of clients…
Who am I?
Who am I?
But it wasn’t always this way for me…
But it wasn’t always this way for me…
A SOLID GOLD DANCER
But it wasn’t always this way for me…
• I was “fast lane, wrong direction” for a really long time in my career and life.
But it wasn’t always this way for me…
• I was “fast lane, wrong direction” for a really long time in my work and life.
• I suffered burnout, stress-induced illnesses, depression and “achiever’s guilt”.
But it wasn’t always this way for me…
• I was “fast lane, wrong direction” for a really long time in my work and life.
• I suffered burnout, stress-related illnesses, depression and “achiever’s guilt”
• I took a giant leap into entrepreneurship…
But it wasn’t always this way for me…
• I was “fast lane, wrong direction” for a really long time in my work and life.
• Experienced burnout, stress-related illnesses, depression and “achiever’s guilt”
• I took a giant leap into entrepreneurship…and lost everything.
• I ended up with a $1.97 to my name, literally.
What does it mean to be in the fast lane going in the wrong direction?
What I learned about “wrong direction”?
DESTINATION APPROACH
DESTINATIONAPPROACH
What I learned about “wrong direction”?
DESTINATION APPROACH
DESTINATIONAPPROACH
wrong role…
What I learned about “wrong direction”?
DESTINATION APPROACH
DESTINATIONAPPROACH
wrong role…
…wrong pace
What are the signs on the road?
…Performance & Productivity
…Mental & Emotional
…Physical
…Relational
There are whispers, then there are SCREAMS.
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The signs don’t lie…
Poor eating habits
Inability to sleep
“Letting yourself go”
Chronic low energy
Muscle tension/pain
Weight gain/loss
Frequent headaches
Drug/alcohol abuse
Chronic illness
PHYSICAL
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The signs don’t lie…
Boredom
Lack of enthusiasm
Procrastination
Unengaged with work
Moodiness
Annoyed & angry
Insecurity & inadequacy
Constant stress
Panic attacks/anxiety
MENTAL/EMOTIONAL
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The signs don’t lie…
Excessive late hours
Lack of interest in the job
Feeling stuck
Unengaged with work
Resentment
Workplace conflict
Using manipulation to advance
Unethical behavior
Poor performance
PERFORMANCE
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The signs don’t lie…
Limited contact with friends
No activities outsideof work
Do not express yourself
Working during holidays
Overly competitive
Workplace conflict
Dominant/aggressive behavior
Disconnected from kids
Marital problems
RELATIONAL
What’s the biggest roadblock to getting what you want in work & life?
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It is your “driving dialogue”.
I’m so behind.
I must succeed on
my own.
I can’t ask for help.
I can’t admit I’m
wrong.I must be in control!
I cannot fail!I can’t take the risk
unless I’m sure.
I don’t think I’mready yet.
Why is it happening for thembut not for me?
I can’t quit.
I will not be beaten!
My opinion does not matter.
I don’t deserve this.
I don’t think I can do this.
I’ll never be good enough.
What’s your “driving dialogue”?
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It is your “driving dialogue”.
I’m so behind.
I must succeed on
my own.
I can’t ask for help.
I can’t admit I’m
wrong.I must be in control!
I cannot fail!I can’t take the risk
unless I’m sure.
I don’t think I’mready yet.
Why is it happening for thembut not for me?
I can’t quit.
I will not be beaten!
My opinion does not matter.
I don’t deserve this.
I don’t think I can do this.
Your “driving dialogues” generally fall into one of four categories…
• Worth
Your “driving dialogues” generally fall into one of four categories…
• Worth• Capability
Your “driving dialogues” generally fall into one of four categories…
• Worth• Capability• Relativity (Comparison)
Your “driving dialogues” generally fall into one of four categories…
• Worth• Capability• Relativity (Comparison)• Control
Your “driving dialogues” generally fall into one of four categories…
How does your driving dialogue impact your “right direction”?
DESTINATION APPROACH
DESTINATIONAPPROACH
right role……right pace
What happens when you manage your “driving dialogue”…
“With raise after raise, I have nearly doubled my salary and have begun to elevate myself as a leading authority in my field. I've even been highly paid to consult for other organizations outside of my company. These major shifts in
my life would not have happened without Renessa’s program!”
– Dr. Constinia Charbonnette
What happens when you manage your “driving dialogue”…
“I would have never thought I could get paid to do this work! I couldn't believe people would want to listen to, learn from, and PAY ME for my life experiences. Renessa positioned my message and my brand in a way that stood out, and I landed my first keynote for an audience of 1500
and secured 2 corporate coaching clients at $15K each.More importantly, I am building a business that is
authentic to me, and I get to impact people in ways I never could have imagined. “
– Jeanny ChaiFounder, BambooMyth.com
3 Key Areas of Focus to achieve more and enjoy more in your
career and life right now.
It’s not that complicated…
Do you have a ”DESIGN” issue?
Do you have a ”MINDSET” issue?
Do you have a ”STRATEGY” issue?
Take the Success & Happiness TestExecuNet.SuccessAndHappinesstest.com
Do you have a ”DESIGN” issue?
Do you have a ”MIND” issue?
Do you have a ”STRATEGY” issue?
It’s not that complicated…
Do you have a ”DESIGN” issue?
Do you have a ”MINDSET” issue?
Do you have a ”STRATEGY” issue?
Take the Success & Happiness TestExecuNet.SuccessAndHappinesstest.com
How I can help you further
How I can help you further
The cost is FREE.
I have opened up my calendar for 72 hours to speak with you personally about how to discover, design and get highly paid to do work you love!
Open your browser NOW & go to:https://renessaspeaks.com/execunet
Find me at: linkedin.com/in/renessa-boley-layne
Who is the “Perfect Work” Strategy Session for?
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Who is the “Perfect Work” Strategy Session for?
✓ You have a long-buried dream or a desire to create a career or business you LOVE, even if you don’t know where to start.
http://www.execunet.com/successandhappinesstest
Who is the “Perfect Work” Strategy Session for?
✓ You have a long-buried dream or a desire to create a career or business you LOVE, even if you don’t know where to start.
✓ You're not experiencing the success and fulfillment you crave, even if you're making a good income.
http://www.execunet.com/successandhappinesstest
Who is the “Perfect Work” Strategy Session for?
✓ You have a long-buried dream or a desire to create a career or business you LOVE, even if you don’t know where to start.
✓ You're not experiencing the success and fulfillment you crave, even if you're making a good income.
✓ You believe that with the right guidance, strategies, and confidence, you can take a giant leap forward to bring your BIG idea to life!
http://www.execunet.com/successandhappinesstest
The “Perfect Work” Strategy Session is NOT for you if:
http://www.execunet.com/successandhappinesstest
The “Perfect Work” Strategy Session is NOT for you if:
You want great information on how to get highly paid to do work you love, but you're not ready to act on it right now.
http://www.execunet.com/successandhappinesstest
The “Perfect Work” Strategy Session is NOT for you if:
You want great information on how to get highly paid to do work you love, but you're not ready to act on it right now.
You want a sounding board to talk through challenges with your current role or leadership, but you’re not looking to explore a radical shift.
http://www.execunet.com/successandhappinesstest
The “Perfect Work” Strategy Session is NOT for you if:
You want great information on how to get highly paid to do work you love, but you're not ready to act on it right now.
You want a sounding board to talk through challenges with your current role or leadership, but you’re not looking to explore a radical shift.
You need income (like yesterday!) and are looking primarily for resume and job search support
http://www.execunet.com/successandhappinesstest
Open your browser NOW & go to: https://renessaspeaks.com/execunet
Find me at: linkedin.com/in/renessa-boley-layne
ExecuNet Presents…
Conversations in the FAST LANE
with Renessa Boley Layne
Redesigning Your Success for More Passion, Purpose and Ease