developing and maintain relationships, real communication
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Chapter 7 in our book, Real Communication by Dan O'Hair and Mary Wiemann, 2nd EditionTRANSCRIPT
Relationships
REAL COMMUNICATIONBY DAN O’HAIR AND MARY WEIMANN
Developing and Maintaining Relationships
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Interpersonal Relationships
Interconnections and interdependence between two individuals.
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Interpersonal Communication
Exchange of verbal and nonverbal messages between people who have a relationship and are influenced by each other’s messages.
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Types of Interpersonal Relationships
family
friendship
love
online relationships
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Interpersonal Relationships
Friendship is a close and caring relationship between 2 people that is mutually beneficial and satisfying.
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Interpersonal Relationships
available
caring
honest
confidential
loyal
empathic
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Interpersonal Relationships
Love is a relationship which you have a deep affection, intimacy, passion, and commitment.
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Interpersonal Relationships
eros
ludus
storge
pragma
mania
agape
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Interpersonal Relationships
Social Information Processing Theory says people use unique cues in online relationships.
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Interpersonal Relationships
Hyperpersonal communication can be present in online communication as much as in person.
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Why do we form relationships?
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Inclusion
We want companionship and have a need for inclusion.
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We have a need for mental, emotional, and physical stimulation.
Stimulation
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Some use relationships to fulfill a practical or psychological goal.
Goals
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Interpersonal Attraction
Proximity or nearness is one reason we form relationships
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Interpersonal Attraction
Attraction-similarity hypothesis says that when we project ourselves on other people, we are more attracted to them.
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Interpersonal Attraction
Matching hypothesis says we are attracted to those who have similar levels of attractiveness.
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Interpersonal Attraction
Genetic-similarity hypothesis says we tend to favor relationships with those who appear genetically similar.
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Costs and Rewards are the advantages and disadvantages that we have in all relationships.
Relationship Dynamics
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Theory says that when they meet, their main focus is on reducing uncertainty.
Uncertainty Reduction
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Relational dialectics theory says those tensions are contradictory feelings that we have in every relationship.
Dialectical Tensions
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Other terms that you should know from this chapter.
Social Penetration theory
Communication Privacy management theory
Strategic Topic Avoidance
Self-Disclosure
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Stages of a Relationship
Initiating
Exploratory
Intensification
Stable
Declining
Repair
Termination
Reconciliation
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