better parenting
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Better Parenting
Home is the place where boys and girls first learn how to limit their wishes, abide by rules, and consider the rights and needs of others
Children are born angels parentmake them frogs
Parenting starts from womb
Make home a place of happiness
Mother to teach the child to respectfather
Respect, even though it is taught atschool, must also be learned at home.Parents have more influence withregards to respect when compared tothe teachers
Love is learnt from mother
Teach them values, never compromise
Birth Order - Gender Roles
Teach them sharing
Your children are the children of GOD,don’t be possessive
Share financial problems with them
Never tell your child that I do not needanything from you
Examine their demands
Family meetings 17 – 18 years
During family discussions child to be animportant person
Family should have one meal together
Do not scold while eating – only positivetalks, avoid hatred
Play with your child
Maintain good relationship
Do not compare them with others
Not worldly pleasures, extendmoral support & moral courage
He is unique person, respect hispersonality
Listen, understand & believe them
Tell him that you love him verymuch.
Provide them with unconditionallove
• You reap what you sow, ensure you sow the right seeds
• Set a good example for your children
• Provide your children with a lot of verbal & physical affection
In the eyes of a child, you rank right upthere under GOD
Make time for your children
You cannot afford to make mistakes inparenting – life is a final stage show
Peers tend to be for role models,provide guidance, encouragement
Develop team work
Develop decision makings skills inthem
Closely monitor your child
Encourage and develop habit ofthinking
Train children for community life
Refuse to Criticize, argue & complain
If you plan for 1 year you will plant corn
If you plan for 10 years you will planttrees
If you plan for 100 years you will giveeducation, training & teach themvalues in life
View your parenting towards thegoal of producing an adult who canlive their own making wise choices& decisions in life
Parents must give the child the best of themselves & live in tune with their momentary role, even controlling their thoughts & feelings,
To play this role requires some self-education.
Always compliment them.
When your child is old enough, lethim make his own decisions andtake responsibility of theconsequences from that action.
Show love! Tell your love. say, "I love you" often. Hugs and kisses are great.
Never insult, embarrass or make fun of your child – especially in public. This will only affect his self-esteem.
Look at what is left and not what is lost
Life is like a tennis match if you want towin you have to serve well, rememberthe game starts with love all
F A M I L Y
FatherAndMotherILoveYou
Be a role model parent
Always give life the very best &
proud to be a parent
A Big Thank you
Appu Joseph ChackoLife Skills Coach & Career Guide
CEO, Tattwa Centre of Excellence, Tiruvalla
Mobile: 94474 14963Email: [email protected]