Blessed is he that cometh In the name of the Lord Hosanna in the highest!

Matthew 21:9

Be Strong and Steadfast

Church of the Visitation 755 Mantoloking Road Brick, N.J. 08723

Rectory Office Phone: 732-477-0028 Religious Education: 732-477-5217 Rectory Fax: 732-477-1274 Rectory Address: 730 Lynnwood Ave. Brick, NJ Website: www.visitationrcchurch.org

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REV. EDWARD H. BLANCHETT, PASTOR, EXT. 201

Assisting Priests Rev. Richard Carlson Rev. Tony Lionelli

Rev. Msgr. Leonard Troiano Deacons

Salvatore Vicari, Ext. 218 Edward Fischer Nicola Stranieri, (On Leave)

Staff Denise Patetta, Ext. 201 Nancy Grodberg Ext. 219 Parish Secretary/Bulletin Editor Coordinator of Religious Vicki Cottrell, Ext. 216 Education Pastoral/Business Admin Dee DeTuro, Ext 219 Natalie Bencivenga, Ext. 217 Religious Education Asst. Music Director/Organist Dale Zanetti, Ext.214 Christie Winters, Ext. 105 Coordinator of Adult Faith Youth/Young Adult Ministry Formation Leader Carl Maurer, Ext 215 Facilities Manager Paul Hegadorn Karen Smith Parish Trustees

RECTORY OFFICE HOURS Monday thru Friday: 8:30 AM to 4:30 PM

Closed 12:30 – 1:30 for Lunch

Parish Registration The Church of the Visitation is obliged to serve and minister to all baptized Catholics living in our local area. PLEASE REGISTER – it assists the staff in knowing you as a parishioner, providing for your needs, informing you of parish programs and activities, and utilizing your gifts and talents in service of the Church and one another. Envelopes for weekly contributions are available to you once you are registered. Please contact Deacon Sal Vicari at ext. 218 to register.

Sacramental Sponsor Certificates The following is required by Canon Law to be a Catholic Godparent/Sponsor for Baptism or Confirmation. 1. Be at least 16 years of age. 2. Have completed the Sacraments of the Initiation. (Baptism, Eucharist & Confirmation) 3. Be a registered and active parishioner living a life of faith. If married, have a marriage that is canonically valid and recognized by the Catholic Church.

Welcome! The entire parish community extends a warm welcome to all visitors and new parishioners.

Baptism Parents or legal guardians are encouraged to register 2 months in advance to schedule a baptism. Parents and Guardians are required and sponsors are encouraged to attend the Baptismal Formation Session prior to the Baptism. Baptisms are celebrated on Sundays following the 11:00 Mass at 12:30 PM. Please contact Deacon Sal Vicari at ext. 218 to make arrangements.

Marriages The Sacrament of Marriage requires a time of spiritual preparation. According to the Common Policy adopted by the Bishops of New Jersey, this preparation requires sessions with a priest or deacon, Focus review, and attendance at a Marriage Preparation Programs such as Pre Cana. Therefore couples should make arrangements with the Church at least 1 year before the planned wedding date and finalizing any social plans. Couples must also verify freedom to marry before dates and arrangements can be made. Please contact Deacon Sal Vicari at ext. 218 to make arrangements.

Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults (RCIA) This is the process by which adults become full, active, participating members of the Catholic Church. Please call Dale Zanetti at ext. 214 for more information.

Anointing of the Sick

Please notify the Parish Office when serious illness occurs and when the sick, aged, or incapacitated are confined to home for an extended period. In an emergency call the Parish office anytime.

Penance/Reconciliation

Saturday from 3:00 to 3:45 PM in the Church or anytime by appointment. A Penance Service is held during Advent and Lent.

Religious Education (CCD)

Our Religious Education and sacramental preparation for our children meets on Sunday from 9:15~10:30 AM in Lake Riviera Middle School, weekday classes are held in the Church Rectory. Pre~registration is required. Please call Nancy Grodberg at 732-477-5217

We now offer Low-Gluten Host for those suffering from celiac sprue disease

Elevator is located on the side of the Church near the Bell Tower

LITURGY OF THE EUCHARIST Weekend: Saturday 4:00 Sunday: 7:00, 9:00 & 11:00 AM Daily: Monday – Friday 7:30 (Daily Chapel) Saturday - 8:15 PM (Daily Chapel) Holy Days: See Current Bulletin Wed. Jan. 1 ~ Solemnity of Mary Sun. April 12 ~ Easter Thurs. May 21 ~ Ascension Thursday Thurs. Aug. 15 ~ Assumption of Mary Sun. Nov. 1 ~ Feast of All Saints Tues. Dec. 8 ~ Immaculate Conception Fri. Dec. 25 ~ Christmas Holy Hour: First Fri. of the month 7:00 - 8:00 PM (Church) Eucharistic Adoration: Every Fri. 8:00 AM - 1:00 PM (Chapel)

PALM SUNDAY OF THE PASSION OF THE LORD

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Candles for the Week Blessed Mother Candle is “God’s Blessing” on Pope Francis, Bishop David O’Connell, and Reverend Edward H. Blanchett Sacred Heart Candle is “In Loving Memory” of Stephanie Lusko Church Sanctuary Candle “God’s Blessing” on Fr. Al Ricciardelli Chapel Sanctuary Candle “God’s Blessing” on The People of the Parish

PLEASE NOTE: THERE ARE MANY CANDLE INTENTIONS AVAILABLE WHICH BURN FOR A WEEK. PLEASE CALL THE RECTORY OFFICE AND GET A CANDLE FOR A BIRTHDAY, ANNIVERSARY OR ANY OTHER SPECIAL OCCASION. THEY ARE NOT ONLY FOR THE DECEASED!

Due to the Coronavirus as per the Bishop, weekday and weekend Masses, Funeral Masses, Weddings and Baptisms have been suspended along with all activities and/or events at Church of the Visitation until further notice (as of this printing). The Church Proper along with the Daily Chapel will be closed until further notice! Until public celebration of Masses can resume, we will celebrate 9:00 AM Sunday & 7:30 AM Monday-Friday & 8:15 AM Saturday daily Masses via YouTube live-stream; also to be available for later viewing on our parish YouTube channel. Please see our list of Holy Week events that will be Live-streamed as well. (Please note: Mass of the Lord’s Supper will be available for Live-stream ONLY. The sacrament of Anointing for the Sick will continue to be provided for emergency cases. Please remember, these measures enacted by the Diocese-although seeming extreme-are being proactively taken to protect all of us from contracting this disease. Please take these measures with this in mind, be patient, pray and remember that God is more powerful than any disease. Let’s give all fears and worries to Him who hears us, loves us and is our HOPE!

Please continue to visit our website for the most updated information

www.visitationRCchurch.org

May God bless you and keep you safe DUE TO THE CONTINUATION OF COVID-19, WE ARE UNABLE TO OFFER PALMS FOR DISTRIBUTION DUE TO POSSIBLE INFECTION. WE WILL DISTRIBUTE THEM AT A LATER DATE TO BE ANNOUNCED. PLEASE JOIN US FOR LIVE STREAMED PALM SUNDAY MASS AT 9:00 AM AS WELL AS HOLY THURSDAY, MASS OF THE LORDS SUPPER, 7:30 PM, GOOD FRIDAY, THE LORDS PASSION 3:00 PM THE EASTER VIGIL 8:00 PM AND 9:00 AM MASS ON EASTER SUNDAY.

SATURDAY APRIL 4 4:00 PM William J. Mack, Jr.

SUNDAY APRIL 5 7:00 AM Dee Lusko 9:00 AM Living & Dec’d Members of

the Rosary Altar Society 11:00 AM People of the Parish

MONDAY APRIL 6 7:30 AM James Mulligan

TUESDAY APRIL 7 7:30 PM Laudisi Family

WEDNESDAY APRIL 8 7:30 AM Jean A Bello

THURSDAY APRIL 9 HOLY THURSDAY NO AM MASSES

7:30 PM MASS OF THE LORD’S SUPPER (LIVE ONLY) People of the Parish

FRIDAY APRIL 10 GOOD FRIDAY NO AM MASS

3:00 PM THE LORDS PASSION SATURDAY APRIL 11

8:00 PM EASTER VIGIL SUNDAY EASTER 9:00 AM People of the Parish

Living & Dec’d Members of The Holy Name Society

Joseph Gigante

LIVESTREAM HOLY WEEK

“MY GOD, MY GOD, WHY HAVE YOU ABANDONED ME?”

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I. Maria “Chickie“ Ammerata “REMEMBERING OUR SICK” LIST IS FOR THOSE PARISHIONERS WHO ARE IN NEED OF SPECIAL PRAYERS. THEY WILL REMAIN ON THE LIST FOR FOUR WEEKS. IF EXTENDED PRAYERS ARE NEEDED, PLEASE CONTACT VISITATION’S PRAYER CHAIN AT 848-373-4239.

In Your Charity please pray for the happy repose of the souls of deceased members of the Parish, your friends, relatives and benefactors

especially; Rory Fallon

PLEASE REMEMBER TO KEEP OUR DIOCESAN BISHOP AND PRIESTS IN YOUR PRAYERS!

SACRIFICIAL GIVING

Offering for the Week of March 29, 2020

Regular $4,157.00 On Line $2,516.20 Total $6,663.20

During this most difficult time in the Churches history, we ask you to please continue to support your Parish with your weekly offering to the Church. You can

either set up your On-line Giving by visiting us at www.visitationrcchurch.org drop off your envelopes to the Rectory Office or mail you weekly offering to the Rectory office at Church of the Visitation, 730 Lynnwood Ave., Brick, NJ 08723

This crisis WILL pass and we will still be here - let's make sure that Visitation Parish is, too!!!

“Give, and it will be given to you. Good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your lap. For with the measure you use it will be measured back to you.” Luke 6:38

Monday: Is 42:1-7; Ps 27:1, 2, 3, 13-14; Jn 12:1-11 Tuesday: Is 49:1-6; Ps 71:1-2, 3-4a, 5ab-6ab, 15 and 17; Jn 13:21-33, 36-38 Wednesday: Is 50:4-9a; Ps 69:8-10, 21-22, 31, 33-34; Mt 26:14-25 Thursday: Chrism Mass: Is 61:1-3a, 6a, 8b-9; Ps 89:21-22, 25, 27; Rv 1:5-8; Lk 4:16-21 Lord’s Supper: Ex 12:1-8, 11-14; Ps 116:12-13, 15-16bc, 17-18; 1 Cor 11:23-26; Jn 13:1-15 Friday: Is 52:13 — 53:12; Ps 31:2, 6, 12-13, 15-16, 17, 25; Heb 4:14-16; 5:7-9; Jn 18:1 — 19:42 Saturday: a) Gn 1:1 — 2:2 or Gn 1:1, 26-31a; Ps 104:1-2, 5-6, 10, 12, 13-14, 24, 35 b) Gn 22:1-18 or Gn 1-2, 9a, 10-13, 15-18; Ps 16:5, 8, 9-10, 11; c) Ex 14:15 — 15:1; Ex 15:1-2, 3-4, 5-6, 17-18; d) Is 54:5-14; Ps 30:2, 4, 5-6, 11-12, 13; e) Is 55:1-11; Is 12:2-3, 4, 5-6; f) Bar 3:9-15, 32 — 4:4; Ps 19:8, 9, 10, 11; g) Ez 36:16-17a, 18-28; Ps 42:3, 5; 43:3-4 h) Rom 6:3-11; Ps 118:1-2, 16-17, 22-23 i) Mt 28:1-10 Sunday: Acts 10:34a, 37-43; Ps 118:1-2, 16-17, 22-23; Col 3:1-4 or 1 Cor 5:6b-8; Jn 20:1-9

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WHEN YOU PRAY GOD LISTENS,

WHEN YOU LISTEN, GOD TALKS.

WHEN YOU BELIEVE GOD WORKS.

~~~~~~~UNKNOWN DON’T STOP BELIEVING!

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Today we begin Holy Week, the days during which we journey with Jesus on his way of the cross and anticipate his Resurrection on Easter. Today’s liturgy begins with the procession with palms to remind us of Jesus’ triumphant entrance into Jerusalem.

The events of Jesus’ Passion are proclaimed in their entirety in today’s Liturgy of the Word. Those events will be proclaimed again when we celebrate the liturgies of the Triduum—Holy Thursday’s Mass of the Lord’s Supper, the Good Friday of the Lord’s Passion, and the Easter Vigil. These days are indeed profound and holy.

In Cycle A, we read the Passion of Jesus as found in the Gospel of Matthew on Palm, or Passion, Sunday. (On Good Friday, we will read the Passion of Jesus from the Gospel of John). The story of Jesus’ Passion and death in Matthew’s Gospel focuses particularly on the obedience of Jesus to the will of his Father. As Jesus sends his disciples to prepare for Passover, he indicates that the events to come are the will of the Father (Matthew 26:18). In Jesus’ prayer in the garden, he prays three times to the Father to take away the cup of suffering, but each time, Jesus concludes by affirming his obedience to the Father’s will (Matthew 26:39-44). Even Matthew’s description of Jesus’ death shows Jesus’ obedience to the Father.

Another theme of Matthew’s Gospel is to show Jesus as the fulfillment of Scripture. Throughout the Passion narrative, Matthew cites and alludes to Scripture to show that the events of Jesus’ Passion and death are in accordance with all that was foretold. And if the events were foretold, then God is in control. In addition, Matthew is particularly concerned that the reader does not miss the fact that Jesus is the Suffering Servant of the Old Testament.

Jesus acts in obedience to the Father even in death, so that sins may be forgiven. Matthew makes this clear in the story of the Lord’s Supper. As Jesus blesses the chalice, he says: “. . . for this is my blood of the covenant, which will be shed on behalf of many for the forgiveness of sins.” (Matthew 26:28)

While the Gospels of Matthew and Mark have many parallels in their narrative of the Passion, there are a few details worth noting that are unique to Matthew. Only Matthew indicates the price paid to Judas for betraying Jesus. The story of Judas’s death is also found only in Matthew, as is the detail that Pilate’s wife received a warning in a dream and that Pilate washed his hands of Jesus’ death. Finally, Matthew’s Gospel alone mentions the earthquakes and other phenomena that happened after Jesus’ death.

Matthew places the responsibility for Jesus’ death on the Sanhedrin, the chief priests and elders who were responsible for the Temple. However, the animosity that those Jewish leaders and the Jewish people demonstrate toward Jesus is not to be interpreted in ways that blame the Jewish people for Jesus’ death. Throughout Matthew’s Gospel, the narrative reflects the tension that probably existed between the early Christian community and their Jewish contemporaries. At the Second Vatican Council, the Council Fathers made clear that all sinners share responsibility for the suffering and death of Jesus and that it is wrong to place blame for Jesus’ Passion on the Jewish contemporaries of Jesus or on Jewish people today.

There are many vantage points from which to engage in Jesus’ Passion. In the characters of Matthew’s Gospel, we find reflections of ourselves and the many ways in which we sometimes respond to Jesus. Sometimes we are like Judas, who betrays Jesus and comes to regret it. We are sometimes like Peter, who denies him, or like the disciples, who fell asleep during Jesus’ darkest hour but then act rashly and violently at his arrest. Sometimes we are like Simon, who is pressed into service to help Jesus carry his cross. Sometimes we are like the leaders who fear Jesus or like Pontius Pilate, who washed his hands of the whole affair. Jesus dies so that our sins will be forgiven.

The events of Jesus’ Passion, death, and Resurrection are called the Paschal Mystery. No amount of study will exhaust or explain the depth of love that Jesus showed in offering this sacrifice for us. After we have examined and studied the stories we have received about these events, we are left with one final task—to meditate on these events and on the forgiveness that Jesus’ obedience won for us. Loyola Press

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An Act of Spiritual Communion is

proposed for the faithful who are

temporarily unable to receive

the Eucharist:

“My Jesus, I believe that You are present in the Most Holy Sacrament. I love You above all things, and I desire to receive You into my soul. Since I cannot at this moment receive You sacramentally, come at least spiritually into my heart. I embrace You as if You were already there and unite myself wholly to You. Never permit me to be separated from You. Amen.”

Exposition of the Blessed Sacrament will be live

streamed Monday-Friday from 8:00 -9:00 AM

(immediately following live-streamed daily Mass)

from the Rectory Daily Chapel.

AT A TIME WHEN WE ARE MOST

VULNERABLE, EVIL TRIES TO LURE US

INTO DECEPTION

The Diocese of Trenton has issued an alert regarding reports of email and text scams that will use the name of a pastor to solicit funds in the form of gift cards or cash donations. The warning follows a recent report on CBS Philly about parishes in the Archdiocese of Philadelphia being targeted. The email usually begins with a simple “Hi,” but no recipients’ name, and asks for financial help for a worthy cause. The pastor’s name concludes the email. Several pastors in the Diocese of Trenton have already heard from parishioners who received emails or text messages, seemingly from the pastor, asking for donations. The Diocese takes this opportunity to advise parishioners that pastors do not raise money in this manner and to exercise the utmost caution when receiving this type of communication. Some law enforcement in the area urge parishioners to question any email or text that doesn’t come from a person in their contacts. If the person is not known, a parishioner should call the person asking for funds to verify the story. If a pastor’s name is used, parishioners should contact the parish to verify the legitimacy of the appeal. Anyone who feels that they have been the victim of this type of scam is urged to contact their local police department.

God bless us all and protect us. O Mary, Mother of Divine Love, protect and lead us

to the heart of your Son.

✞

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FEELING STRESSED DURING

THIS DIFFICULT TIME? These are uncharted waters, and it’s normal to have anxiety and worry. Here are some suggestions on how to maintain your sanity and feel good during this pandemic especially if you are practicing social distancing or working at home:

Don’t forget about the power of prayer. Praying can calm your fears and anxieties when you feel out of control.

Remember to eat as healthy as you can and hydrate! Take your vitamins too.

Don’t forget to get some exercise. You can always go for a walk or review your on-line or TV options for exercise shows.

Spring clean early! It’s time for a good house scrub down anyway. Just make sure to whistle while you work.

Check in with your neighbors. Are they are doing okay? Do you have provisions you could share?

Journal about what you are experiencing. Sometimes just venting is helpful.

It’s okay to laugh. Watch a funny movie or show.

Catch up on your reading with a good book or your kindle.

Tell yourself, even aloud, that “this is not forever”. Our normal way of life will return.

Virtual contact – FaceTime for one or other group activities with dial in connection. Reach out to someone you have been thinking about and reconnect.

Maintain a daily schedule. A consistent routine will go a long way to keeping your stress at bay.

Just think! You can work at home in your PJs or at least your fuzzy slippers!

Don’t forget to spend some time outside. Getting in touch with the nature God gave us can make a huge difference in our moods.

Listen to music. It has been found to lower blood pressure, slow down your pulse, and reduce stress hormones.

“Worrying does not take away tomorrow's troubles; it takes away today's peace.” Anonymous.

RECTORY OFFICE CLOSED The Rectory Office will be closed to public access until further notice. The staff is working remotely; telephone contact is limited to voice mail messages, which will be returned as soon as possible. Please continue to send in your much needed weekly donation envelopes during this temporary closure. They will continue to be posted to your account as usual. Staff can also be reached via e-mail. (see page 10 of this bulletin for addresses).

WHAT WE CAN DO FOR HOLY WEEK Magnificat

A spiritual guide that helps people develop their prayer life. This month’s complimentary issue is available online this month, by visiting www. magnificat.net. then click on the American Flag for the US edition

Apps to Pray Together Check out Hallow or Laudate/iBreviary. Hallow includes audio reflections on the daily gospel (lectio divina), the Examen prayer, acts of spiritual communion, the Rosary, and more. Laudate and iBreviary both include the Liturgy of the Hours as well as other resources.

Lenten Night of Prayer Visit http://www.catholicfamilyfaith.org/lenten-season-resources.html for a compilation of some great Lenten resources including prayers, videos, Stations of the Cross, and activities for families and children.

Pray the Rosary Visit USCCB.org for a Scriptural Rosary: The Sorrowful Mysteries. From the Prayer and Worship drop-down menu click – Prayer & Devotions – Rosaries……

PRAYER FOR DOCTORS AND NURSES

O merciful Father, We pray you sanctify our doctors and nurses and all those whom you have called to practice the profession of healing the sick. Strengthen them in body and soul, and bless their work, that they may give comfort to those for whose salvation your Son

became Man, lived on this earth, suffered and died on the Cross. Amen.

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PRAYER TO ST. VINCENT DE PAUL IN TIME OF ILLNESS

O Saint Vincent de Paul, our father and model, Throughout your life you wished

To imitate Jesus, the missionary and servant. In your time, you confronted

The plague, the illness of the people. Interceded now with the Holy Trinity

On behalf of all the nations on earth visited by the modern scourge. Help the bodies and hearts of all victims.

Strengthen caregivers, be close to all neighbors, and enlighten researchers. Walk with those approaching the portals of death.

As you gave strong and ardent advice to struggle against evil,

So now come to our aid! Teach us how to expose our lives for the weakest among us,

And strengthen us to help them better In fearless perseverance.

With the sole desire of aiding them in their needs, Open our spirits to God’s infinite providence. Let us endow it with his total will for action. Inspire in us, also, obedience to our leaders, As we now place ourselves in their hands,

Confident and fortified with genuine feelings of dedication and zeal For our sisters and brothers.

Amen.

ST. VINCENT DE PAUL One does not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes forth from the mouth of God (Matt 4:4)

Our St. Vincent de Paul Society is still helping our neighbors in need. Please drop off nonperishable food donations in the baskets in the Church. Someone from St. Vincent de Paul will collect the food each day. During this very trying time, we must not forget the less fortunate of our community and how we can be of assistance to them. As always, thank you for your generosity.

In the wise words of St. Vincent de Paul

“To serve the poor is to serve Jesus…… Love the poor. Honor them, my children, as you would honor Christ Himself.”

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DAILY REFLECTIONS FOR HOLY WEEK

Monday, April 6 GOD MADE YOU WHOLE AND COMPLETE.

"IN HIS BODY LIVES THE FULLNESS OF DIVINITY,

AND IN HIM YOU TOO FIND YOUR OWN FULFILLMENT." (Colossians 2:9) In the movie "The Wizard of Oz" the characters are living their lives with the belief that something is missing inside them. The Tin man lacks a brain, the Scarecrow a heart, the Cowardly lion lacks courage and Dorothy lacks a sense of belonging, of being connected. Through their journey, and facing their fears, represented by the wicked witch, they come to discover that Oz didn't give them anything they didn't already possess inside themselves. What Oz gave them was the belief. In this life, death and resurrection, Jesus powerfully communicates to us that we are created in the image of the Father, that the Father loves us as we are and that we live with the resurrected power of Christ. This belief says to us, there is nothing we need that we don't already possess. Do you believe the kingdom of God, all your needs are within you?

Tuesday, April 7 GOD HAS BEEN WITH YOU ALL ALONG.

"I WILL BE WITH YOU UNTIL THE END OF TIME." (Matthew 28:20) As we grow in the spiritual life, we become more aware of the existence of invisible realities. Clearly, there are other realities that exist besides the reality you can see, touch and hear with your physical senses. There are the realities of God's presence. This presence is experienced whenever we give our love away or are loved by another. Today, reflect on the various times you have loved another or experienced being loved, and realize it was then, that you met the living God.

Wednesday, April 8 WE ARE CALLED TO BECOME BRAND NEW.

"LO, I AM ABOUT TO CREATE NEW HEAVENS AND A NEW EARTH; THE THINGS OF THE PAST SHALL NOT BE REMEMBERED OR COME TO MIND." (Isaiah 65: 17)

Some people believe that the more you grow spiritually, the more things you have to give up. The belief that the spiritual life is one of discipline and sacrifice is not true. Certainly discipline and sacrifice are part of healthy spirituality, but only to bring about more joy, peace and inner strength. Our problem is we get so used to the familiar, we fear letting go of our attachments will cause deprivation. Jesus calls us to grow and become new. He knows that letting go of the old will result in abundant living.

Holy Thursday, April 9 WE ARE ALL ONE IN CHRIST; THERE ARE NO CATEGORIES.

"AND THERE ARE NO MORE DISTINCTIONS BETWEEN JEW AND GREEK, SLAVE AND FREE, MALE AND FEMALE, BUT ALL OF YOU ARE ONE IN CHRIST JESUS." (Galatians 3:28)

When you think about this passage from Galatians, it becomes painfully clear that prejudice or feeling better than or less than anyone else is totally inconsistent with the gospel of Christ. How can anyone claim to be an authentic disciple and still judge others by the color of their skin or the amount of money they have in their pocket? On this Holy Thursday, when Jesus humbles himself by washing the disciple’s feet, reflect on your perceptions of others who are externally different from you. Realize today that internally, we're all the same. We all want to love and be loved; to know and to be known.

Good Friday, April 10 ARE YOU A PERSON OF PASSION?

"A MAN CAN HAVE NO GREATER LOVE THAN TO LAY DOWN HIS LIFE FOR HIS FRIENDS." (John 15:13) There's no cry more poignant in our literature than Emily's in Thornton Wilder's "Our Town". Recall the sad moment before she returns to her grave on the hill. "Good-by, good-by world. Good-by Grover's Comers, Mama and Papa Good-by to clocks ticking ... and Mama's sunflowers, and food and coffee, and new-ironed dresses and hot baths, and sleeping and waking up. Oh earth, you're too wonderful for anybody to realize you. Do any human beings ever realize life while they live it every minute?" Jesus Christ, He died-so that you might LIVE!

Holy Saturday, April 11 WITH EVERY DEATH THERE IS RESURRECTION.

"THE SON OF MAN IS TO BE HANDED OVER TO MEN AND THEY WILL KILL HIM AND THREE DAYS AFTER HIS DEATH HE WILL RISE." (Mark 9:31-32)

Letting go is an important aspect of the spiritual life. To grow, we may have to let go of an attitude, such as anger or sadness. Sometimes we have to let go of an old familiar way of seeing ourselves. Realize that the dynamic of death and resurrection is always operative in our lives. Learn to be open to the new and release the old, negative ways that get in the way of your growth. Know that God is constantly calling us to become more. He is always seeking to provide opportunities that heal that which has been broken and re-create our lives.

Easter Sunday, April 12 BEHOLD I MAKE ALL THINGS NEW.

"FOR ANYONE WHO IS IN CHRIST, THERE IS A NEW CREATION." (2 Corinthians 5:17) Have you ever seriously asked yourself, "Why did Jesus die on a cross?" Our own personal answer to this question will directly manifest itself through the way we live out our Catholic Christianity. Some people believe Jesus died so we could have religion and go to Mass on Sunday. Some believe he died so the pearly gates could be opened. For those people, Jesus remains at a distance and they live cautiously. For those who believe Jesus died so that we might become brand new people, these people know good news; they know Jesus and his powerful love. So again, "Why did Jesus die on a cross and how does this impact on your life?"

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STAFF E-MAIL ADDRESSES, MINISTRIES AND ORGANIZATIONS If you wish to reach a staff member via e-mail, please find a list of each staff’s email address below:

Liturgical Ministries EXTRAORDINARY MINISTERS OF COMMUNION distributes Holy Communion at Masses, as well as to the homebound, hospitalized, nursing home, and senior housing residents. 732-477-9672, ext. 216 – Vicki Cottrell or vcottrell@visitationrcchurch.org LECTORS enhance the community’s celebration of the Mass by meaningful reading of God’s Word and by providing direction and overviews during the Liturgy. 732-477-9672, ext. 216 – Vicki Cottrell or vcottrell@visitationrcchurch.org LITURGY TEAM meets monthly to plan liturgical and worship services that are meaningful and spiritual. 732-477-9672 ext. 217 Natalya Bencivenga or nbencivenga@visitationrcchurch.org ART AND ENVIRONMENT TEAM visually enhances the celebration of the Mass by providing decorations that highlight the liturgical seasons. – Fr. Ed 732-477-9672, ext. 201 MUSIC MINISTRY spiritually enhances the celebration of the Liturgy. We are always seeking individuals who would like to share their gift of music through songs and prayers. 732-477-9672, ext. 217 - Natalya Bencivenga or nbencivenga@visitationrcchurch.org USHERS promote hospitality by assisting parishioners, taking up collections and preparing Offertory gifts for presentation at Mass. 732-262-4186 – Kathy Cifelli VISITATION ALTAR SERVERS TEAM see Youth Ministry

Sacrament Preparation BAPTISMAL TEAM assists the Priests and Deacons with Baptismal Formation Sessions, as well as the actual ceremony. 732-477-9028 - Donna Stawicki or Baptism@visitationRCchurch.org RCIA (Rite of Christian Initiation for Adults) is the process used to welcome those who wish to complete some or all of the sacraments of initiation in the Church. 732-477-9672, ext. 214 - Dale Zanetti or dzanetti@visitationrcchurch.org

Education and Evangelization Ministries ADULT FAITH FORMATION provides educational and growth opportunities for parish adults. 732-477-9672, ext. 214 - Dale Zanetti or dzanetti@visitationrcchurch.org BIBLE SHARING offers day and evening sessions to all who wish to deepen their understanding of Scripture. 732-477-9672 ext. 214 - Dale Zanetti or dzanetti@visitationrcchurch.org EVANGELIZATION TEAM promotes and fosters evangelization in all ministries by reaching out and encouraging all to live life as active Catholics. 732-477-9672, ext. 218 - Deacon Salvatore Vicari or ext. 214 - Dale Zanetti or dzanetti@visitationrcchurch.org MEN’S GROUP meets every other Monday evening in Rectory Room C to study the Word of God, faith sharing and fellowship. 201-747-8631 Chris Pozo or chrispozo@optonline.net RELIGIOUS EDUCATION (CCD) meets on Sunday from 9:15 to 10:30 AM in the Lake Riviera Middle School and weekdays in the church rectory during the school year. Pre-registration is required. 732-477-5217- Nancy Grodberg or ngrodberg@visitationrcchurch.org

Prayer Groups CHILDREN OF LIGHT CHARISMATIC PRAYER GROUP meets Friday evenings to pray, share scripture, praise God, give and discuss teachings and share fellowship. 732-255-2728 - Paul Rollis or paulrollis63@gmail.com PRAYER CHAIN is for anyone who feels the need for prayer or would like to join the group. 848-373-4239.

Pastoral Care Ministries BEREAVEMENT TEAM is in the process of reforming. Contact Fr. Ed at the rectory or info@visitationRCchurch.org. FUNERAL LITURGY MINISTRY helps plan liturgy for funeral masses. 732-477-5217 – Nancy Grodberg. VISITATION CAREGIVERS provide supportive services to the frail elderly and homebound in our community such as friendly visits, food shopping, transportation to medical appointments and respite care for families. 732-505-2273 ext. 211- Mary Malagiere or marym@caregivervolunteers.org

NATALYA BENCIVENGA ~ MUSIC DIRECTOR nbencivenga@visitationRCchurch.org NANCY GRODBERG ~ RELIGIOUS EDUCATION COORDINATOR ngrodberg@visitationRCchurch.org DEE DETURO ~ RELIGIOUS EDUCATION ASSISTANT ddeturo@visitationRCchurch.org RICHARD SCHULER ~ BOOKEEPER rschuler@visitationRCchurch.org CARL MAURER ~ FACILITIES MANAGER cmaurer@visitationRCchurch.org CHRISTIE WINTERS – YOUTH/ YOUNG ADULT COORDINATOR cwinters@visitationRCchurch.org

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REV. EDWARD H. BLANCHETT ~ PASTOR pastored@visitationRCchurch.org DEACON SALVATORE VICARI deaconsal@visitationRCchurch.org VICKI COTTRELL ~PASTORAL/BUSINESS ADMINISTRATOR vcottrell@visitationRCchurch.org

DENISE PATETTA ~ PARISH SECRETARY/BULLETIN EDITOR dpatetta@visitationRCchurch.org DALE ZANETTI ~ ADULT FAITH FORMATION COORDINATOR dzanetti@visitationRCchurch.org

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Social Ministries/Activities BINGO is held in the Parish Hall on Tuesdays at 11:00 AM 732-475-0589– Cathy or Bingo@visitationRCchurch.org. EVENT DEVELOPMENT TEAM meets as needed to develop and implement social activities (such as the Gift Auction and Wine Tasting/Art Auction) for the purpose of raising money for the building fund. 732-475-0048, – Vicki Cottrell-vcottrell@visitationrcchurch.org

Services ANNULMENT TEAMS are available to assist a parishioner in rectifying his/her marital status in accordance with the law of the Catholic Church and enable parish members to participate in a full Christian life 732-477-7059 ext. 218 – Deacon Salvatore Vicari, 848-333-2671 – Eleanor Troiano, 732-477-7059 ext. 103 Joan Olden

Social Concerns COMMUNITY LUNCH provides lunch Wednesdays each week to members of the parish and community. 732-255-2835 - Isabel Kronicz or fkronicz@comcast.net RESPECT LIFE focuses on pro-life issues and needs through education and support of other organizations in support of pro-life issues. The group gathers weekly to recite the Rosary. . 732-920-9006 – Pat Gigante ST. VINCENT DE PAUL operates the Thrift Shop in the SOS building at 725 Mantoloking Rd. and manages the funds from the poor boxes to assist the less fortunate in our parish and the surrounding community. Donations of nonperishable food are accepted at the doors of the Church to assist the hungry of the community. 732-477-9672, ext. 160

Youth Ministries/Activities CHILDREN’S CHOIR welcomes all from 3 to 12 years of age to share their love for Jesus through music. No tryouts are required. 732-477-9672 ext. 217 – Natalya Bencivenga or nbencivenga@visitationrcchurch.org VISITATION ALTAR SERVERS TEAM provides assistance to the Priest in celebration of the Mass and other liturgical celebrations Open to all adults and boys and girls third grade and higher who have received their Holy Communion 732-903-4290 – John McCoy or vast@visitationRCchurch.org VISITATION YOUTH MINISTRY provides a safe place for high school teenagers to come together, meet new people, and have fun while serving God and the community. For additional information please contact 732-477-7059 ext. 105 – Christie or cwinters@visitationrcchurch.org VISITATION YOUNG ADULT MINISTRY provides an opportunity for all between the ages of 18 to 39 looking to grow and deepen their faith in Catholicism to join our local Catholic young adult community. For additional information please contact 732-477-7059 ext. 105 – Christie or cwinters@visitationrcchurch.org

Temporal Welfare BUILDING AND GROUNDS TEAM works to improve and enhance the appearance and safety of the existing church, former church, rectory building, and the associated grounds. The goal of this team is to adhere to all current safety and building codes and ensure that the house of God is maintained in an appropriate manner. - Fr. Ed 732-477-9672, ext. 201 FINANCE COUNCIL oversees the financial aspects of the parish 732-477-9672, ext. 216 – Arnie Vicidomini

Organizations AA MEETINGS are held on Thursdays at 7:30 PM in the parish hall. ALANON MEETINGS are held on Tuesdays at 7:00 PM in the parish hall. HOLY NAME OF JESUS SOCIETY promotes respect for the Holy Name of Jesus and His Holy Catholic Church. Society members attend the 9:00 AM Mass and meet monthly 609-234-4437 – Richard Bencivenga or visitation.holyname@gmail.com KNIGHTS OF COLUMBUS #836 work with the local parish and contribute many hours of volunteer work to our community annually.732-600-1029 – Andrew Kelly or andrekelly3@me.com ROSARY ALTAR SOCIETY honors the Blessed Virgin Mary to secure her patronage through the daily recitation of the Rosary for the spiritual benefit of the parish community. Members attend the 9:00 AM Mass and meet monthly. 732-295-1812 – Rose Marie DiGiovanni or digioro1@yahoo.com Consult the Parish Events Calendar on our parish website (www.visitationRCchurch.org) for the most current schedule of meeting dates, times, and locations. Information in the Calendar of Events section of the bulletin is current as of bulletin publication.

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