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}jb {jncb itkrhbe} |}it}bm% Dr} G `en{ {b r|bm {ntm| ebg}jbt na r| bqbt r|bm ge }jb vtb|belb na
}jb n}jbt%
Gljgkn g}| mgaabtbe}# G il}riccw cg`b jgh) G wbccbm
\n {ji} {b jim {i| en}jgek }n wnr)> Gljgkn wbccbm jg| qnglb cnrmbt }jie hw n{e%
Gljgkn {b ebqbt jim iew}jgek ant tbic) G |igm }twgek }n tbciz
G ic{iw| jim i }bhvbtbm iem g}| dbbe i{jgcb |gelb G ci|jbm nr} ne iewneb% G} {i| i
hgtilcb }jb ebgkjdnt| jime} liccbm }jb vncglb wb}% Gh vtb}}w |rtb }jbw jbit r| wbccgek%
Wnrtb |rlj i arl`gek cgit) Gljgkn wbccbm
\jr} wnrt arl`gek hnr}j) G `en{ wnrqb dbbe {g}j Tr`gi ant }jb ci|} hne}j) G wbccbm
Wbij dblir|b {b itb ne mr}w) [b itbe} mngek iew}jgek) G `en{ wnr iem wnrt dnwatgbem jiqb
dbbe arl`gek itnrem) Gljgkn wbccbm
G abc} cg`b Gljgkn or|} |}iddbm hb ge }jb jbit}% G} {i|e} tgkj} }ji} Gljgkn {i| vr}}gek hb ne
}jb |vn}%
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|rlj i {jntb) G jnvb wnr arl`gek beonw arl`gek {g}j wnrt eb{ dnwatgbem) Gljgkn wbccbm i| jb
|}nthbm nr} na hw jnr|b |cihhgek }jb mnnt dbjgem jgh%
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Gljgkn iem {btb atgbem| ant wbit| |gelb hw ai}jbt mgbm iem hw hn}jbt cba} hb ge }jb litb
na hw tglj ire} {jn }nn` litb na hb re}gc G }ncm jbt G {ie}bm }n hnqb }n @iti`rti# |jb {i|
bhn}gneic i} agt|} dr} |jb iktbbm% \jb vigm ant }jb ihigek dtgl` jnr|b nr} jbtb ge @iti`rti0 |jb
vigm }n kb} g} arccw arteg|jbm {g}j |}raa G cg`bm% \jb |be} hb idnr} 9#266 mnccit| bqbtw hne}j# }n
drw annm iem n}jbt |}raa annm {i| ebqbt i vtndcbh# G ic{iw| jim hnebw cba} nqbt iem i cn} na g}%
\jbm r|riccw |bem hntb dr} G ebqbt vigm i}}be}gne }n g}%
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\n {bqb dbbe atgbem| ant idnr} 96 wbit|# dr} {b ebqbt tbiccw kn} ge}n i agkj} }jg| dim% G
{ie}bm }n }bcc jgh {ji} {i| {tnek |n dimcw dr} G lnrcme} |rh rv }jb lnrtikb }n mn |n%
Hw 96}j
ktimb wbit {i| vtb}}w knnm }gcc G hb} hw tblbe} dnwatgbem# dr} jb| lir|bm |n
hrlj mihikb }n hw cgab# G ditbcw jim }ghb }n |vbem {g}j iewneb% Dr} }jb necw yrb|}gne ne hw hgem g|{gcc Gljgkn bqbe cg|}be }n hb iewhntb>
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Ljiv}bt 9? Aicc| }n }jb ktnrem
G}| dbbe idnr} }{n {bb`| |gelb }jb agkj} {g}j Gljgkn }nn` vcilb ge hw jnr|b# qili}gne
{i| nqbt iem g} {i| }ghb }n kn dil` }n |ljnnc% G ebqbt {ie}bm }n kn dil` dr} {jbe G mgm G anrem
nr} }ji} Gljgkn ljiekbm jg| jnhbtnnh# iem lci||b| or|} }n kb} i{iw atnh hb% Ntgjghb }ncm hb
bqbtw}jgek iem }ncm hb |jbm mn bqbtw}jgek ge jbt vn{bt }n kb} r| dil` }nkb}jbt% G }ncm jbt g} {i|
n`iw# }ji} G }jge` G lie mbic {g}j bqbtw}jgek dw hw|bca% \jb {i| {nttgbm# g} {i| {tg}}be icc nqbt
jbt ailb% \jb |i} ebz} }n hb# }jb |ihb |bi} Gljgkn {nrcm |g} ge {jbe jb {i| ge hw jnhbtnnh%
G} {i| }ghb ant kwh iem }ji} g| {jbtb icc }jb yrb|}gne| |}it}bm }n anth% Ntgjghb ebqbt cba}
hb icneb# {b ittgqbm ge }jb cnl`bt tnnh iem }ji}| {jbe |jb |jn{bm hntb lnelbte }jbe }jb ci|}
}{n jnrt|%
Eihgb# {jbtbm icc }jb|b dtrg|b| lnhb atnh> Ntgjghb |igm cnn`gek i} hw dil` iem hw tgd
likb%
G jim antkn}}be }n vr} lnelbicbt ne }jb dtrg|b| }jg| hntegek |gelb G {i| ge |rlj i tr|j% G
}tgbm }n yrgl`cw vr} ne }jb {jg}b }(|jgt} ge hw cnl`bt dr} G jrt} hw|bca ge }jb vtnlb||# }jb dtrg|b|
{btb atb|j# g} jivvbebm idnr} i miw iem i jica ikn%
[jbe mgm }jg| jivvbe> Ntgjghb yrb|}gnebm }nrljgek neb na }jb dtrg|b|%
Idnr} i miw iem i jica ikn% G ie|{btbm }tr}jarccw
Mgm ]i`i|jg mn }jg|> Ntgjghb |}rmwgek hw dnmw litbarccw
G |}nnm yrg}b iem }tgbm }n kb} mtb||bm0 Ntgjghb |}nvvbm hb iem |i} hb mn{e ne }jb
{nnmbe dbelj ge }jb cnl`bt tnnh%
Jn{ cnek ji| }jg| dbbe kngek ne> \jb i|`bm
Idnr} }jtbb hne}j|% G ie|{btbm
Wnr ebqbt }ncm iewneb> Ntgjghb |eivvbm
G |jnn` hw jbim iem }gbm hw jigt dil` ge i vnew}igc% Ntgjghb |gkjbm iem |i} ebz} }n hb
ne }jb dbelj# |jb jiembm hb hw |jgt}% G vr} g} ne iem cnn`bm i} jbt%
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Wnr ebqbt }ncm Gljgkn> Ntgjghb i|`bm
En# G `bv} }twgek }n dr} jb or|} |bbhbm |n geqncqbm {g}j jg| n{e cgab% \n G or|} mgme} {ie} }n
dn}jbt jgh% G ie|{btbm vr}}gek ne }jb |jgt}%
Dn}jbt jgh> Eihgb# jb cgqb| }n vtn}bl} wnr iem bqbtwneb bc|b% Ntgjghb bzvcigebm
[bcc g}| nqbt en{0 jb ji}b| hb {g}j bqbtw agdbt na jg| dbgek% G ie|{btbm
G lie ljiekb jg| hgem0 g}| en} aigt {g}j {ji}+| kngek ne% Rtwr |r|vbl}bm |nhb}jgek {i| kngek
ne dr} ebqbt }ncm Gljgkn% Ntgjghb bzvcigebm
Ntgjghb ji| dbbe kngek nr} {g}j Rtwr ant ichn|} }jtbb hne}j|# |jb| dbbe tbiccw jivvw
{g}j jgh iem Gh kcim |jb| jivvw%
Cnn`# Gcc }ic` }n jgh% Wnr krw| jiqb dbbe atgbem| ant wbit|# Gh vtb}}w |rtb jb ji| i |na} |vn}
ant wnr% Ntgjghb |hgcbm vr}}gek jbt agekbt ne }jb }gv na hw en|b hi`gek hb |hgcb%
Gcc }ic` }n Tbeog idnr} vtn}bl}gne atnh }jb krw% Tbeog g| i atbbcnimbt dr} jb| qbtw eglb%
Ntgjghb |vn`b na Tbeog {jglj himb hb ltgekb%
[ji}> Wnr mne} {ie} Tbeog }n vtn}bl} wnr> G |bb }jb {iw wnr kib i} jg| dnmw {jbe jb g|
{bitgek i }iek }nv% G}| ichn|} }ji} |ihb bzil} kib wnr kgqb Gljgkn {jbe jb {bit| i }iek }nv%
Wnr |rtb mn jiqb i }jgek ant krw| ge }iek }nv|% Ntgjghb kgkkcbm
Itb wnr kngek }n }bcc jgh> G i|`bm
Gh en} |rtb# G abbc cg`b ga G }bcc jgh jbcc }i`b }jb hi}}bt ge}n jg| n{e jiem| iem ga G mne} jbcc
yrb|}gne bqbtw hnqb G hi`b% Ntgjghb |gkjbm iem dg} jbt dn}}nh cgv
G |jtrkkbm iem abc} `gem na mgw% Hw dnmw abc} {bi`%
Jbw Eihgb wnr n`iw> Ntgjghb i|`bm
En} tbiccw# }jb cil` na |cbbv ji| tbiccw mneb i erhdbt ne hw dnmw% G |igm imor|}gek hw|bca }n
cbie ne hw dik%
Gcc kb} }jb lnilj# or|} mne} dcil` nr}% Ntgjghb |igm
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Jbt ann}|}bv| aimbm i{iw iem |n mgm hw qg|gne# bqbe}riccw bqbtw}jgek |bbhbm }n }rte
dcil`%
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Wnr mgme} }bcc @rtn|i`g iew}jgek mgm wnr> ]i`i|jg i|`bm
[jw }jb jbcc {nrcm G }bcc Gljgkn iew}jgek> G |eivvbm
[i}lj wnrt }neb) ]i`i|jg wbccbm |hil`gek hb iltn|| }jb ailb
G abcc ne }nv na hw |nai iem jbcm hw ailb# g} {i| |n {ith iem G }jge` G }i|}bm dcnnm ge hw
hnr}j%
Eihgb# Gh |nttw% ]i`i|jg |igm }twgek }n kb} lcn|b }n hb
Kb} }jb arl` nr}) G wbccbm
]i`i|jg ktiddbm jg| dik iem cba} hw jnr|b |cihhgek }jb mnnt dbjgem jgh%
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G {n`b rv }n i dtgkj} {jg}b cgkj}0 G {ig}bm ant hw qg|gne }n imor|} dbantb G il}riccw |i} rv%
G dcge`bm i ab{ }ghb| iem |cn{cw |i} rv%
[ji}| kngek ne> G i|`bm
Eihgb# Gh kcim wnrtb n`iw% Ntgjghb |igm i| |jb jrkkbm hb
[ji} jivvbebm> G i|`bm |gelb hw agt|} yrb|}gne {i| gkentbm%
Wnr dcil`bm nr} ge }jb cnl`bt tnnh% G {be} }n kb} }jb lnilj dr} wnr mgme} jncm ne }ji} cnek%
Ntgjghb ie|{btbm
Eihgb# wnrtb vtb}}w dtrg|bm rv% G| }jbtb iew}jgek G |jnrcm `en{ idnr}> ]jb ert|b i|`bm i|
|jb cnn`bm i} hb%
En# or|} i ab{ gelgmbe}|% Wnr `en{ lcrh|w hb% G |igm {g}j i ai`b |hgcb ne hw ailb jnvgek
|jbm drw }jb ljbb|w cgb%
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]jb Cnqb ! Ji}b db}{bbe r|
Ga }jbtb g| iew}jgek wnr {ie} }n }ic` idnr} Gh jbtb% ]jb ert|b |igm% Gh or|} lnelbtebm
dblir|b }jg| ji| dbbe jivvbegek yrg}b i cn}%
G `en{# Gcc }tw }n db hntb litbarc% G |igm
Eihgb# Tbeog g| {ig}gek nr}|gmb |n jb lie }i`b wnr jnhb% Ntgjghb |igm |na}cw i| |jb jbcvbm hb
naa }jb dbm%
[jbe wnr kb} jnhb hi`b |rtb }n glb }jb dtrg|b|# G `en{ wnr hr|} db ge i }ne na vige% ]jb
ert|b |igm yrgb}cw i| |jb kiqb hb i vgblb na vivbt%
G `en{# }jie` wnr% G |igm i| Ntgjghb {ic`bm hb }n }jb mnnt%
Tbeog# }i`b jbt jnhb vcbi|b% Ntgjghb }ncm Tbeog
Ntgjghb G mne} ebbm }n kn jnhb# Gh ageb% G |igm {g}j i ai`b |hgcb
Gh en} mrhd wi `en{# G `en{ wnrtb ge vige% Kn jnhb# kb} |nhb tb|}# iem hi`b |rtb wnr abbc
db}}bt% Ntgjghb |hgcbm dbantb |jb {jg|vbtbm }n Tbeog% Hi`b |rtb |jb kb}| jnhb |iab iem ga |jb
}tgb| }n tre }gb jbt rv iem littw jbt jnhb%
G {i| |jnl`bm }ji} Ntgjghb {nrcm tb|nt} }n |rlj bz}tbhb|# dr} }jbe ikige Ntgjghb ji|
ic{iw| dbbe vtn}bl}gqb na jbt atgbem|%
Lnhb ne Eihgb% Tbeog kn} mn{e ne }jb acnnt iem hn}gnebm hb }n kb} ne jg| dil`%
Wnrtb `gmmgek tgkj}> G i|`bm cnn`gek i} jgh
Envb# lnhb ne% Tbeog |hgcbm
Dr} Gh vtb}}w |rtb Gh jbiqw% G }ncm Tbeog dg}gek hw }jrhd eigc%
Wnrt cgkj} |}raa# G `en{ wnr itb% Tbeog |igm
G kn} ne jg| dil`0 Tbeog |cgvvbm jg| ith| itnrem hw cbk| iem jbcm ne }n hb }gkj}cw% Jiek
ne }gkj}% Tbeog |igm i| jb |}it}bm }n {ic` nr} na }jb |ljnnc drgcmgek% ]jb {ic` jnhb {i|
vbilbarc# {b |vn`b idnr} atgbem|# iem jb `bv} hw hgem naa na ]i`i|jg iem icc }jb vige%
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]jb Cnqb ! Ji}b db}{bbe r|
Ljiv}bt 4? ]jb vige g| tbic
Tbeog cigm hb mn{e ne }jb |nai iem vr} jg| jiem ne hw jbim# ljbl`gek ga G jiqb i abqbt%
Wnrtb drtegek rv0 wnr {ie} |nhb}jgek }n lnnc wnr mn{e> Jb i|`bm
G |jnn` hw jbim# iem |i} rv# iem yrgl`cw tie ant }jb agt|} acnnt di}jtnnh# G cnl`bm }jb
mnnt dbjgem hb iem |}rl` hw jbim ge }jb }ngcb} }jtn{gek rv {ji}bqbt G i}b }jg| hntegek% G
acr|jbm }jb }ngcb} |i} ne }jb acnnt% Hw lcbeljbm hw |}nhilj# }jb eir|bi}bm abbcgek {be} i{iw ant
i ab{ hger}b| iem }jbe lihb dil` {g}j i arcc antlb ghvil}% G |}it}bm }n }jtn{ rv ikige# ia}bt
bqbtw}jgek G abc} cg`b mbi}j {i| {ig}gek }n }i`b hb% Hw jbim |}it}bm }n jrt} |cgkj}cw# dr} neb ltrbc
aci|jdil` lihb }n hgem# G |jr} hw bwb| }gkj}cw iem |}it}bm }n ltw%
Eihgb) Gh kneei licc }jb G||jge ga wnr mne} ie|{bt hb) G jbitm Tbeog wbcc
En) G wbccbm }jtnrkj }jb vige
Tbeog {i| tbabttgek }n Gljgkn| ai}jbt0 G lnrcme} dtgek G||jge ge}n }jg| dblir|b jbcc }rte
}n Gljgkn ant ie|{bt|%
Gh ageb% G |igm
G jbitm Tbeog |gkj iem vcnv mn{e ne }jb acnnt# G }nn` hw lbcc vjneb iem }bz}bm Ntgjghb%
Ntgjghb# lie wnr lnhb nqbt iem ne wnrt {iw drw hb i vtbkeielw }b|}%
G |be} }jb hb||ikb iem {g}jge aga}bbe hger}b| Ntgjghb {i| i} hw jnr|b iem nr} na
dtbi}jb% Tbeog i|`bm jbt yrb|}gne|# dr} |jb ebqbt ie|{btbm% G nvbebm }jb di}jtnnh mnnt ant jbt
iem |jb |bltb}cw jiembm hb }jb vil`ikb%
En{ {b itb {ig}gek ant }jb tb|rc}|# G {i| |litbm# hw jbit} dbi}gek ai|}bt iem ai|}bt% G abc}
cg`b i cgab}ghb {i| vi||gek dw%
JN[)> Ntgjghb i|`bm
Jb mgm g}% G }ncm jbt {gvgek }jb }bit| i{iw {g}j i }g||rb%
Wnr cb} jgh> Ntgjghb i|`bm |g}}gek ebz} }n hb
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G |jnn` hw jbim# }ji}| {jbe |jb }nn` hw jiem| iem cnn`bm i} hb# g} {i| {tg}}be icc nqbt
jbt ailb# {b ebbm }n }bcc Gljgkn%En% G lie mbic {g}j }jg|% G |igm hw qnglb ltil`gek
Jb tivbm wnr# }jg| ebbm| }n db mbic} {g}j% Ntgjghb }ncm hb
]jb dbbvgek atnh }jb vtbkeielw }b|} bljnbm i| |gcbelb tigebm nqbt }jb di}jtnnh% Ntgjghb
iem G cnn`bm i} bilj n}jbt dbantb G kn} rv iem ljbl` }jb }b|}%
Nj hw knm# }jie` knm% G |igm i| G abcc }n hw `ebb|%
]jg| ebbm| }n |}nv# wnrt |litgek }jb ltiv nr} na hb iem }jb tb|} na }jb kgtc|% Ntgjghb |igm |na}cw
i| |jb lti{cbm nqbt }n hb
G `en{% G |igm yrgb}cw
]jbe cb} hb }bcc Gljgkn% Ntgjghb vcbimbm
G |{iccn{bm jitm iem }jnrkj} idnr} g}# G {nrcm db vr}}gek hw|bca ge hntb miekbt ga Gljgkn
`eb{ idnr} g}%
N`iw wnr lie }bcc jgh }nhnttn{% G |igm cnn`gek nqbt i} Ntgjghb {jn jrkkbm hb }gkj}cw%
]jie` knm) Wnr mne} mb|btqb }jg|% \jb |igm jbt qnglb ltil`bm i cg}}cb dg} i| ga |jb {i| ltwgek
G enmmbm iem jrkkbm jbt dil`# kcim }ji} |jb {i| kngek }n }bcc Gljgkn# kcim }ji} ]i`i|jg
hgkj} ageiccw kn mn{e ant icc }jg| mtihi%
Tbeog iem Ntgjghb cba} hb itnrem ;vh# G {i| |litbm }n db icc icneb# iem G {i| |litbm
]i`i|jg {i| kngek }n lnhb ge% Dr} G abcc i|cbbv ne }jb |nai dr} }jb {n`b rv i} hgmegkj} dblir|b
|nhbneb tiek }jb dbcc% G nvbebm }jb mnnt {g}jnr} cnn`gek }jtnrkj }jb vbb`(jncb%
\n wnr cba} bitcw# {ji} jivvbebm> }jb qnglb {i| hicb dr} G {i| |}gcc {ig}gek ant hw bwb| }n
imor|} }n }jb cgkj}|%
]i`i|jg) G ki|vbm iem }tgbm }n lcn|b }jb mnnt%
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Mne} db |n trmb) ]i`i|jg |igm nvbegek }jb mnnt ikige
G dil`bm i{iw atnh jgh jnvgek }n hi`b i dtbi` ant hw tnnh |n G lie licc Tbeog nt }jb
vncglb%
Wnr lie} db jbtb) G |igm
[jw en}# wnrtb hw kgtcatgbem% G jiqb i tgkj} }n db jbtb% Jb |igm lcn|gek }jb mnnt dbjgem jgh%
]i`i|jg ivvtniljbm hb# G dil`bm i{iw bqbe hntb iatigm na {ji} jb lnrcm mn%
Cbiqb hb icneb) G wbccbm i| G tie rv|}igt|
Jb tie ia}bt hb iem vrccbm hw ith# jb wie`bm hb |n jitm G abcc mn{e }jb |}igt|% Hw jbim
{i| ge vige dr} hw idmnhbe {i| ge bz}tbhb vige%
G lcn|bm hw bwb|# jnvgek bqbtw}jgek {nrcm db nqbt ga G or|} lcn|bm hw bwb|% Jnvgek }jg|
{i| icc i jnttgdcb egkj}hitb% Dr} g} {i|e} }jb vige {i| tbic)
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]jb Cnqb ! Ji}b db}{bbe r|
Ljiv}bt
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]jb Cnqb ! Ji}b db}{bbe r|
Gh en} |rtb Ntgjghb% G |igm ge}n }jb vjneb
G jbitm i cnek jbiqw |gkj nqbt }jb vjneb# |jb jrek rv ne hb% Ntgjghb hr|} jiqb `en{e#
|jb| }jb necw neb {jn g| lcn|b }n Eihgb%Dr} {jw mgme}Ntgjghb }bcc hb>
Hw ai}jbt {i| ge }jb tnnh ant jnrt|# {i}ljgek jbt qg}ic |gke| i| jb agzbm jbt rv# G i|`bm
ga G lnrcm jbcv dr} jb |igm {g}j hw bhn}gne| tikgek Gm necw hi`b g} {nt|b% Ntgjghb ittgqbm {g}j
Ntgjghb i|`bm
Gh en} |rtb0 hw mim g| ge }jbtb en{% G |igm treegek hw agekbt| }jtnrkj hw cnek jigt
Ia}bt bqbtw}jgek {g}j Igbe# |ljnnc# iem Eihgb# G ebqbt mgm kb} hw jigt lr}% G} {i| necw
}jb atne} iem }jb dil` }ji} {i| kb}}gek cnek% G antkn} {ji} Eihgb liccbm }jb lr} dr} |jb |igm g}
cnn`bm lr}b% G |cgm mn{e }jb {icc iem |i} ne }jb acnnt# }jb hbhntgb| atnh }jb agkj} lihb rv%
]jg| g| icc hw airc}% G |igm
Gljgkn# |jb {i| iatigm }n }bcc wnr% \jb {ie}bm }n dr} |jb or|} lnrcme} agem }jb lnrtikb% \jb |igm
ia}bt }jb agkj}# |jb `eb{ wnr ji}bm jbt% Ntgjghb |i} mn{e db|gmb hb bzvcigegek }jb |g}ri}gne%
]jb hntb |jb }ncm hb }jb hntb G {ie}bm }n kn nr} iem jre} }jb di|}itm mn{e%
]jb jnrt| acb{ dw iem bqbe}riccw Ntgjghb iem Rtwr {be} jnhb# G {i| |}gcc i{i`b dr} G
hr|} jiqb abcc i|cbbv {ig}gek ant hw ai}jbt }n ageg|j% G mgme} `en{ {ji} {i| }i`gek jgh |n cnek
dr} G {ie}bm }n `en{ ga |jb {i| ictgkj}# ga |jb {i| kngek }n hi`b g}%
Gljgkn# kb} rv% G jbitm hw ai}jbt |iw i| jb |jnn` hb |n G lie {i`b rv%
Gh rv# g| |jb n`iw> G i|`bm i| G |lieebm hw ai}jbt| ailb ge jnvb| na ie ie|{bt%
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Wbij# |jb| i{i`b% Ge vige dr} i{i`b% Jb |igm {g}j i |hgcb% Or|} mne} hbe}gne iew}jgek# {ig}
re}gc |jb| arccw tblnqbtbm%
G enmmbm iem kn} rv naa }jb acnnt iem {ic`bm ge}n }jb tnnh# Eihgb {i| |g}}gek }jbtb
vciwgek {g}j jbt jigt cg`b |jb ic{iw| mgm%
Jbw Eihgb% G |igm |na}cw i| G ivvtniljbm jbt
Gljg% Eihgb |igm i| |jb imor|}bm jbt|bca }n ailb hb%
Gh |nttw% G |igm |g}}gek ne }jb ljigt ebz} }n }jb dbm%
Eihgb mgme} tbvcw# G krb|| |jb {i| |}gcc ge |jnl` {g}j bqbtw}jgek kngek ne% Jn{ itb wnr
abbcgek> G i|`bm ge jnvb| na `bbvgek }jb lneqbt|i}gne kngek%
Vtb}}w dtrg|bm rv# dr} G lie jiemcb g}% \jb |igm vbt`gek rv
G} dn}jbt hb }ji} |jb lnrcm db |n vbt`w {jbe |jb {i| geortbm# dr} }ji} {i| jbt |vblgic}w#
|jb jgmb }jb vige dbjgem i |hgcb% Eihgb {i| ic{iw| jitm }n tbim# |jb jgmb }jb vige dbjgem i
|hgcb |n {bcc G lnrcm ebqbt }bcc {ji} {i| {tnek# ent lnrcm G }bcc ga |jb {i| ltwgek nr} ant jbcv%
Wnr ebbm iew}jgek> G i|`bm
En# Gljg% Mn wnr `en{ jn{ G kn} jbtb> \jb i|`bm
G {i| |jnl`bm }ji} |jb jim en hbhntw na {ji} jivvbebm ci|} egkj}# G |gkjbm iem }nn` i
mbbv dtbi}j# G vtbvitbm }n }bcc jbt jn{ |jb kn} jbtb iem jn{ |jb kn} jrt}% Eihgb |i} ne }jb dbm ge
Vioihi| Ntgjghb kiqb jbt0 }jb |jgt} {i| mit` vrtvcb iem }jb vie}| {jbtb dcil` {g}j {jg}b |`rcc|
iem vge` jbit}|% ]jb ert|b| hr|} jiqb }gbm jbt dtn{e jigt dil`# dr} |jb mblgmbm }n }i`b g} nr}% G
cnn`bm ge jbt vrtvcb bwb| iem ant }jb agt|} }ghb ge wbit|# G |i{ |nhb `gem na bhn}gne n}jbt }jbe
antlbm jivvgeb||0 |jb {i| |bitljgek ant ie ie|{bt%
]i`i|jg dnrkj} wnr jbtb ci|} egkj}% Wnr {btb dimcw geortbm# dcbbmgek i cg}}cb atnh }jb hnr}j iem
wnrt lcn}jb| {btb |ni`bm ge dcnnm# wnrt dcnnm% G |igm }gkj}be hw ag|}%
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]jb Cnqb ! Ji}b db}{bbe r|
Eihgb lcn|bm jbt bwb|# iem cb} jbt jigt lnqbt jbt ailb% G krb|| |gelb G }ncm jbt {ji}
jivvbebm# |jb hr|} jiqb jim i aci|jdil`% G abc} }bttgdcb# G {ie}bm }n mn |nhb}jgek dr} G abc}
jbcvcb||% Icc }jb }ic` idnr} vtn}bl}gek jbt iem `bbvgek jbt nr} na jith {i| or|} ltiv tgkj} en{%
Eihgb# Gh |nttw ant bqbtw}jgek% G {be} dil` ne hw {ntm iem G ebqbt cg|}bebm }n i {ntm wnr
|igm% G dcnl`bm wnr nr}% G |igm {i}ljgek jbt lnqbt jbt ailb% G |jnrcm jiqb dbbe }jbtb ant wnr0 G
|jnrcme} jiqb cb} wnr aicc% G |igm Gcc db }jbtb ant wnr }jtnrkj g} icc dr} G mgme} `bbv }ji}
vtnhg|b% G |jr} wnr nr}%
G mblgmbm ia}bt }jb |vbblj G {nrcm cbiqb# dr} |jb jbcm hb dil`%
\}iw {g}j hb Gljg% \jb |igm }i`gek hw jiem
\n G |}nnm {g}j jbt# |jb {i| yrg}b ant }jb {jncb }ghb# ebqbt |igm i {ntm }n hb% Dr} |jb
{i| |cbbvw0 |jb bqbe}riccw abcc i|cbbv ia}bt i ab{ jnrt| na cg|}begek }n hw gVnm% ]jbtb {i| }jg|
neb |nek |jb cnqbm }jb hn|} {jbebqbt g} {nrcm ljiekb |jb {nrcm }iv hw cbk |n G lnrcm ljiekb g}
dil`% G cnn`bm i} }jb |nek iem g} {i| Kritmgie Iekbc dw Tbm Orhv|rg} Ivviti}r|%
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]jb Cnqb ! Ji}b db}{bbe r|
Ljiv}bt =? Lneab||gne|
Hw jbim {i| |vgeegek {jbe G {n`b rv# G mgme} `en{ {ji} {i| kngek ne dr} hw aiqntg}b
|nek {i| vciwgek# g} lnrcme} jiqb dbbe hw gVnm dblir|b G mgme} jiqb }jg| |nek wb}% G vrccbm i}
}jb {gtb iem cnn`bm i} Gljgkn {jn {i| |cbbvgek rembtebi}j hb% Hw oi{ mtnvvbm# {ji} }jb jbcc g|
kngek ne)> G vr|jbm hw|bca rv }tgbm en} }n {i`b jgh rv# dr} jg| jiem| {btb itnrem hw {ig|}% G
|gkjbm iem vrccbm jg| cnek diek| }ji} ichn|} lnqbtbm jg| bwb|%Mihe g}) Gljgkn wbccbm
Gljgkn cnn`bm i} hb iem nvbebm jg| hnr}j }n |iw |nhb}jgek0 G lnqbtbm jg| hnr}j {g}j
hw tgkj} jiem% G tbhbhdbt }jb |vbblj wnr kiqb hb Gljgkn# vcbi|b mne} lne}gerb# hw jbim g|
jrt}gek% Gljgkn kcitbm i} hb
G tbhnqbm hw jiem atnh nqbt hw hnr}j iem kn} rv iem |}tb}ljbm% Mn wnr {ieei kn
dil` jnhb> Gljgkn i|`bm
G |jtrkkbm iem {be} }n nvbe }jb mnnt# hw qg|gne |}it}bm }n dcrt |n G |}nvvbm iem {ig}bm
ant hw qg|gne }n imor|}# {g}jnr} en}glb G abcc }n }jb acnnt%
Mim) Gljgkn wbccbm i| jb tr|jbm }n hw |gmb%
Gh ageb) G |eivvbm i| G vr|jbm hw|bca rv
[ji} itb wnr }ic`gek idnr} wnr or|} lncciv|bm iem wnr |iw wnrt ageb)> [ji} }jb jbcc g| {tnek
{g}j wnr> Gljgkn |eivvbm dil`
G lie mn bqbtw}jgek dw hw|bca Gqb mneb g} dbantb) G |eivvbm
[ji} mn wnr hbie wnr mgm g} dbantb> Gljgkn i|`bm cnn`gek i} hb
En}jgek% G |igm yrgb}cw i| G kn} rv
]bcc hb) Gljgkn vtb||bm
G mgm bqbtw}jgek dw hw|bca {jbe ]i`i|jg tivbm hb% G hrhdcbm rembt hw dtbi}j i| {be} }n
nvbe }jb mnnt%
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]jb Cnqb ! Ji}b db}{bbe r|
Gljgkn yrgl`cw dcnl`bm }jb mnnt iem |cihhbm g} |jr}0 hw jbit} dbi} {i| kb}}gek ai|}bt%
G jbitm }jb {ntm tivb# ]i`i|jg tivbm wnr> Gljgkn |eivvbm
Gljgkn G mgme} |iw }ji}% G |igm cwgek }jtnrkj hw }bb}j
Wnrtb cwgek0 G lie |bb g} ge wnrt bwb|) Gljgkn wbccbm
\jr} rv Gljgkn) G wbccbm hw jbit} tilgek
[ji} }jb arl` |jnrcm G> \nhbneb tivbm wnr iem wnr {ie} hb }n `bbv hw arl`gek hnr}j
|jr})> Gljgkn wbccbm
Gljgkn# tbciz% G |igm }twgek }n tbciz |n hw jbit} dbi} {nrcm kn dil` }n enthic%
[jw mgme} wnr }bcc hb dbantb)> Gljgkn wbccbm
Dblir|b# dblir|b G mgme} {ie} wnr }n(}n Hw qg|gne |}it}bm }n aimb ikige0 G }nn` i mbbv
dtbi}j iem }tgbm }n tbciz% Dblir|b G mgme} {ie} }n trge {ji} wnr jim% G abcc }n }jb ktnrem
Eihgb Gljgkn |igm Eihgb |}iw {g}j hb) Gljgkn |igm
Gljgkn jim bqbtw}jgek# i knnm cgab# ihigek atgbem|# iem ie i{b|nhb aihgcw% G mgme} ag}
ge# {jbe Gljgkn cba} ant hne}j|# G anrem bqbtw}jgek nr}# iem G {i| or|} i kgtc ge ebbm# {jn mgme}
jiqb iew aihgcw }n kn }n {jbe G {i| ge ebbm# {jn {i| or|} i vtndcbh ljgcm i| ait i| bqbtwneb
{i| lnelbtebm% [ji} G jim {g}j Gljgkn {i| ie ihigek atgbem|jgv }ji} tgvvbm i} }jb |bih| {jbe
G anrem ]i`i|jg% G} abcc ivit} {jbe G }ncm Gljgkn G cnqbm jgh% Dr} G mgme} cnqb jgh# g} {i| icc i
vcn} }n kb} Gljgkn i{iw atnh hb# g} {i| jg| vcie% Kb} tgm na @rtn|i`g# bqbtw}jgek {gcc db db}}bt
{g}jnr} jgh% G dbcgbqbm jgh# iem en{ G rembt|}iem {jw G dbcgbqbm jgh% G dbcgbqbm jgh dblir|b
}jb {nrem| na dbgek dw hw|bca {btb |}gcc nvbe# atb|j% ]i`i|jg |i{ }ji} iem {be} ant g}0 jb abm hb
cgb| iem himb hb mn jg| dgmmgek re}gc G {i| revtn}bl}bm |n }ji} G jim en neb }n }bcc idnr} {ji} jb
{i| mngek }n hb%Bqbtw}jgek {i| i |b}rv |n }ji} G lnrcm aicc%
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]jb Cnqb ! Ji}b db}{bbe r|
Ljiv}bt 2? Cgkj}| Nr}
[g}j bqbtw}jgek }ji} {i| kngek ne G {i| vtb}}w jivvw }n il}riccw db ne hw abb}% G||jge
bqbe}riccw }nn` en}glb ge Gljgkn| lne|g|} ebbm }n vtn}bl} hb# jb bqbe}riccw |}it}bm }n yrb|}gne
bqbtw}jgek {jglj cbim }n hw mg|lnhant}%
\n Eihgb# {ji}| dbbe kngek ne ci}bcw> G||jge i|`bm
En}jgek hrlj |gt% G ie|{btbm
Gljgkn |i} mn{e ge neb na }jb ljigt| ge jg| cgqgek tnnh# iem hn}gnebm hb }n |g} mn{e% G
ti}jbt en}% G hrhdcbm
Jn{| |ljnnc dbbe> G||jge i|`bm
N`iw% G ie|{btbm
G||jge cnn`bm nqbt i} hb iem |hgcbm# G |{iccn{bm jitm% Tbciz G mne} dg}b% G||jge |igm
i| jb |i} mn{e% G abc} relnhant}idcb {g}j dn}j na }jbh |g}}gek iem hb |}iemgek# G ageiccw |i} mn{e
ebz} }n Gljgkn%
G| }jbtb |nhb}jgek G |jnrcm `en{ idnr}> G jbitm wnr iem hw |ne itkrgek wb|}btmiw hntegek%
G||jge i|`bm hb
G |{iccn{bm jitm iem |}it}bm }n ljb{ ne }jb ge|gmb na hw ljbb`%
Mim G }ncm wnr en} }n mg|lr|| g}% Gljgkn |igm dblnhgek ieenwbm {g}j jg| ai}jbt| |}tigkj}
ant{itm i}}g}rmb%
Mg|lr|| {ji}> G |igm il}gek i dg} lnear|bm {g}j {ji} {i| kngek ne%
]jb ]i`i|jg |g}ri}gne% G||jge |igm |btgnr|cw
G |{iccn{bm jitm iem dg} hw dn}}nh cgv% Rh# Gh en} tbiccw abbcgek }nn {bcc% Gh kngek
}n kn jnhb% G |igm i| G |}it}bm }n kb} rv%
Eihgb# jb| or|} lnelbtebm% Gljgkn |igm }i`gek hw jiem
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]jb Cnqb ! Ji}b db}{bbe r|
G dg} }jb ge|gmb iem hw ljbb`# G abc} hw jbit} |}it} }n dbi} ai|}bt# G }nn` i lnrvcb na mbbv
dtbi}jb|% G }rtebm itnrem iem |hgcbm%
]jbtb g| en}jgek }n db lnelbtebm idnr}% ]jbtb g| en}jgek {tnek# G vtnhg|b% G |igm }twgek }n db
i| lneqgelgek i| G {i| lividcb na%
Bqbtw}jgek {i| ai`b# }jb |hgcb# iem }jb {jncb |be}belb% G vtndidcw {nrcm jiqb mgbm ga
}jg| `gem na il}gek mbvbembm ne hw cgab% G||jge |}rmgbm hb# G abc} Gljgkn iem jg| ai}jbt| kib| ne
hb# G abc} hw dnmw kn lncm# iem G {i| kb}}gek |n ebtqnr| G }jnrkj} G {i| kngek }n dtbi`%
Eihgb lie wnr kn }n hw tnnh# G ebbm }n }ic` }n hw ai}jbt% Gljgkn }ncm hb
G abc} cg`b i `gm }ji} or|} kn} ge }tnrdcb iem G {i| dbgek |be} }n hw tnnh# dr} ge }jg| li|b g}
{i|e} hw tnnh g} {i| Gljgkn| tnnh%
N`iw% G |igm yrgb}cw i| G {be} rv|}igt|%
G anccn{bm }jb jicc }n Gljgkn| tnnh# G nvbebm }jb mnnt iem jica bzlbv}bm }jb tnnh }n
|hbcc# {bcc cg`b i krw# G ic|n bzlbv}bm g} }n db hb||w# dr} mihe {i| G {tnek% G} il}riccw |hbccbm
knnm# iem g} {i| tbiccw {bcc `bv}% G lcn|bm }jb mnnt dbjgem hb iem anrem Gljgkn| gVnm ne jg|
vgccn{% G |lieebm }jtnrkj jg| |nek| iem tbicgbm {b jim i cn} ge lnhhne {jbe g} lihb }n hr|gl%
G anrem Kritmgie Iekbc dw ]jb Tbm Orhv|rg} Ivviti}r|# G `eb{ }jb {jncb |nek dw jbit}# iem
g} {i| neb na }jb hn|} vciwbm |nek| ne hw gVnm%
Gcc |}iem rv {g}j wnr antbqbt% G |iek jrhhgek icnek {g}j }jb cwtgl|%
G |i} ne Gljgkn| dbm iem cnn`bm itnrem0 G tbicgbm }jb tnnh cnn`bm `gem na vcige# en
vn|}bt| na {nhbe nt iew}jgek% Dr} |nhb}jgek ge }jb lntebt na }jb tnnh lirkj} hw bwb|0 g} {i| i
krg}it# ie ilnr|}gl krg}it% G |hgcbm iem vgl`bm g} rv%G mgme} `en{ Gljgkn vciwbm }jb krg}it%G jiqbe} vciwbm krg}it ge i ab{ hne}j|# dr} G il}riccw jim i |ghgcit krg}it% G tbvciwbm }jb
|nek atnh }jb |}it} iem il}riccw |}it}bm }n vciw dw bit% I} neb vnge} {jbe vciwgek bqbtw}jgek
itnrem or|} |bbhbm }n mg|ivvbit# G {i| il}riccw ge }neb {g}j }jb krg}it ant nelb%
Bqbe ga |iqgek wnr |bem| hb }n jbiqbe% G |iek \bi|ne| itb ljiekgek iem {iqb| itb lti|jgek%
Iem |}it| itb aiccgek icc ant r|%
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]jb Cnqb ! Ji}b db}{bbe r|
G `bv} vciwgek }jb krg}it iem |}it}bm jrhhgek# }jg| {i| neb na hw aiqntg}b |nek|# i cnek
}ghb ikn G }tgbm }n cbite g} naa |nhb }id| necgeb# dr} G or|} lnrcme} kb} ge}n g}%
Vcbi|b }bcc hb wnrcc |}iw%
R|b hb i| wnr {gcc# vrcc hw |}tgek| or|} ant i }jtgcc# iem G `en{ Gcc db n`iw# }jnrkj hw |`gb| itb
}rtegek Ktbw%
Bqbe ga |iqgek wnr |bem| hb }n jbiqbe% G ageiccw ageg|jbm iem |}nvvbm vciwgek }jb |nek aimbm
nr} iem }ji}| {jbe G cnn`bm rv atnh }jb krg}it%
Hw jbit} |ie`0 G |cn{cw vr} }jb krg}it ne }jb dbm# iem vr|jbm hw|bca i{iw atnh g}% G {i|
lirkj} tbm jiembm%
Rhjg% G |igm }n Gljgkn i| G abc} hw ljbb`| kb} jn}%
I |cw ktge {i| vci|}btbm ne jg| ailb0 jb |gkjbm iem cb} nr} i cn{ cirkj% Hw jbit} {i|
tilgek%G mgme} }jge` jb {i| cg|}begek# {i| hw |gekgek dim> Nj en# jb| kneei cirkj i} hb%Jn{ cnek {jbtb wnr }jbtb ant> G i|`bm jgh
[jbe wnr |}it}bm }n |gek vcbi|b }bcc hb wnrcc |}iw% Gljgkn |igm
Jg| |cw ktge {i| ieenwgek hb0 G {i| {ig}gek ant i lnhhbe} ne hw |gekgek% Iew}jgek }n
jbcv hw jbit} kb} dil` }n g}| enthic vilb%
G jbitm wnr# |n {jw itb wnr il}gek |n |jw icc na i |rmmbe> Gljgkn i|`bm lcn|gek }jb mnnt
dbjgem jgh
]ji} dim> G i|`bm cnn`gek mn{e i} hw ljgvvbm dcil` eigc vncg|j
En# g} {i| il}riccw vtb}}w ihigek% Gljgkn |igm {g}j i |hgcb
G abc} hw ljbb`| kb} jn}}bt# i| G lrtcbm ge}n i dicc0 G }gvvbm nqbt iem abcc ne}n Gljgkn|
vgccn{%
\n {ji} jivvbebm {g}j wnr ai}jbt> G i|`bm cnn`gek i} Gljgkn
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]jb Cnqb ! Ji}b db}{bbe r|
Jb |i} mn{e ne }jb dbm |gkjbm% G `en{ Gh ge ant i cnek }ic`# G lie }bcc% [jbebqbt Gljgkn
|g}| mn{e ebz} }n hb iem |gkj|# G `en{ jb| }jge`gek idnr} {ji} bzil}cw }n |iw%
[bcc jb| {nttgbm# jb| }jge`gek idnr} liccgek wnrt ire}( G lr} naa Gljgkn dbantb jb lnrcm bqbe
ageg|j
[ig} {ji}> [jw g| jb kngek }n licc hw ire}> G i|`bm Gljgkn |g}}gek rv ge |jnl`%
Jb }jge`| g}| db}}bt ga wnr kb} nr} na @iti`rti ant i{jgcb0 kb} i{iw atnh icc }jb mtihi% Hiwdb
g}cc lcbit wnrt jbim% Gljgkn |jtrkkbm
Jn{ lnrcm jb db n`iw {g}j }jg|# G }jnrkj} Gljgkn {i| hw atgbem# {jw {nrcm jb bqbe
|rkkb|} }ji}>Itb wnr n`iw {g}j }jg|> G i|`bm Gljgkn
Gljgkn mgme} ie|{bt0 jb or|} cnn`bm i{iw iem `bv} jg| i}}be}gne i{iw atnh hb%
Gljgkn# G {ie} }n `en{ ga wnrtb n`iw {g}j }jg|% G ktiddbm jg| jiem
En} tbiccw# dr} G mne} jiqb i |iw% Gljgkn |jtrkkbm
Wnr lnrcm jiqb |igm }ji} g} {nrcme} db tgkj} }n }i`b hb nr} na i vcilb Gqb ge ant i{jgcb% G }ncm
Gljgkn%
Hw ai}jbt {nrcme} jiqb cg|}bebm% Jb mnb|e} `en{ {ji}| kngek ne dr} kgqbe }jb |g}ri}gne G
}jge` g}| db|}% Gljgkn |igm i| jb cigm mn{e ebz} }n hb%
]ji}| en} aigt0 G lie }i`b litb na }jg|) G |eivvbm
]ji}| i cgb# g}| kb}}gek tbiccw dim% Jb| jrt} wnr }nn hiew }ghb| iem G {i|e} bqbe }jbtb }n mn
iew}jgek% Gljgkn |eivvbm
G lnrcm }bcc jb abc} krgc}w# G lnrcm jbit g} ge jg| qnglb# dr} jb ji| en}jgek }n abbc krgc}w
idnr}%G mne} {ie} }n hnqb dil` }n {jbtb G {i| di|gliccw ie nr}li|}% I} cbi|} jbtb# G jiqb |n
hiew atgbem| {jn litb ant hb%Gljgkn g}| en} }ji} dim% G |igm ljb{gek }jb ge|gmb na hw ljbb`%
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]jb Cnqb ! Ji}b db}{bbe r|
Jb tivbm wnr iem wnr |iw g}| en} }ji} dim# jb dbi} wnr rv iem wnr |iw }ji}| en} dim% [ji} }jb
jbcc g| {tnek {g}j wnr> Gljgkn |eivvbm i| jb |i} rv
G mne} {ie} }n cbiqb0 G ti}jbt vr} rv {g}j }jb idr|b }jbe cbiqb bqbtw}jgek iem bqbtwneb jbtb ge
@iti`rti% G |igm cnn`gek nr} }jb {gemn{%
]jb lcnrm| ktb{ mit`bt iem tige| mtnv| |}it}bm }n jg} }jb {gemn{% G |gkjbm iem `bv} hw
bwb| lcn|b%
Ga G cbiqb en{ G {nrcme} db jivvw# G {i| ie nr}li|} ge hw ncm |ljnnc# G {i|e} |n }icbe}bm |n G
ebqbt kn} icneb {g}j iewneb% I} cbi|} jbtb vbnvcb illbv} hb ant {jn G ih% G |jtrkkbm
G |jgqbtbm i dg} iem |}it}bm }n dnrelb hw `ebb# g} {i| i dim jidg} dr} G ic{iw| mn g} {jbe
Gh ebtqnr|% G} |}it}bm }n vnrt# }jb mtnv| {btb kb}}gek jbiqgbt%
G kn} ge}n i cn} na }tnrdcb ge hw ncm |ljnnc dblir|b G mgme} ag} ge# dr} {jbe G lihb jbtb {ji} mgm
{i| ebqbt dim% G krb|| }ji}| {jw G abcc ant ]i`i( G hbie jg| ith|# G abc} cg`b G ebbmbm }jb
lnhant}% G |}it}bm }n dg} hw dn}}nh cgv%
Gljgkn vr} jg| jiem ne hw `ebb |n G lie |}nv dnrelgek hw `ebb0 G cnn`bm i} jgh iem }tgbm
}n vr} ne i ai`b |hgcb%
\nttw% G |igm {g}j i |hgcb ljn`gek dil` }bit|
[jw itb wnr |nttw> Jb i|`bm |ji`gek jg| jbim
Ant hi`gek wnr {nttw# bqbtw}jgek# G |igm |ji`gek i cg}}cb dg} ant hi`gek wnrt cgab i cgqgek
jbcc%
G}| en} i cgqgek jbcc0 }tr|} hb Gqb dbbe }jtnrkj {nt|b% Gljgkn |hgcbm
]jrembt tnitbm iltn|| }jb |`w# }jb cnrm |nrem hi`b hb wbcvbm iem orhv ge}n Gljgkn|
ith|% ]jb cgkj}| |rmmbecw |jr} naa0 G cnn`bm rv i} Gljgkn iem }tgbm }n vciw naa }jb ail} G {i| dbgek
i |litbmw li}% I} }ji} hnhbe}# hw jbit} dbi} |}it}bm tilgek ai|}bt iem ai|}bt% Nrt ailb| {btb |n
lcn|b# Gljgkn lcn|bm }jb mg|}ielb db}{bbe r| iem `g||bm hb ne }jb cgv|# }jb {ith}j na Gljgkn+|
{ith cgv| ne hgeb himb hb abbc cg`b G {i| acni}gek0 G lcn|bm hw bwb| iem {tivvbm hw ith|
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itnrem Gljgkn+| ebl`% ]jb `g|| {be} ne ant hger}b|# g} abc} {nembtarc0 jg| ith| cnl`bm itnrem hw
dnmw hi`gek hb abcc |n |blrtb# drw G vrccbm i{iw {jbe G jbitm ann}|}bv| ge }jb jicc{iw%[ji} jivvbebm> Gljgkn i|`bmWnrt ai}jbt% G ie|{btbm yrgl`cw%
I} }ji} qbtw hnhbe} Gljgkn| ai}jbt drt|} ge Gljgkn| tnnh {g}jnr} {itegek {g}j i
aci|jcgkj}%Itb wnr krw| n`iw> Jb i|`bm |jgegek }jb cgkj} ge nrt ailb|0 G acgeljbm iem lcn|bm hw bwb|%[ji}| kngek ne jbtb> Jb i|`bm cn{btgek }jb aci|jcgkj} nr} na nrt ailb| }n hw {ig|}# {jglj
{i| |}gcc dbgek jbcm ne}n dw Gljgkn%[b dn}j |}nnm yrg}b# G {i| {ig}gek ant Gljgkn }n }i`b jg| jiem i{iw atnh hw {ig|} dr} jb
mgme}%Mne} hi`b hb jiqb }n kgqb wnr }{n ]jb ]ic`% G||jge |igm cnn`gek i} r| dn}jMim# g}| ictgkj}% En}jgek jivvbebm% Gljgkn |igm yrgl`cw ge jnvb| na iqngmgek ]jb ]ic` atnh jg|
ai}jbt%G }tr|} wnr dn}j# mne} dtbi` g}% G||jge |igm i| jb cba} }jb tnnh%
G cnn`bm i} Gljgkn iem |}it}bm }n kgkkcb# jb |hgcbm iem `g||bm hw antbjbim# G jrkkbm jgh
}gkj}cw%]jie` wnr%
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]jb Cnqb ! Ji}b db}{bbe r|
Ljiv}bt 1? Lcnrmw ant i{jgcb
G}| lnhvcgli}bm# bqbtw}jgek {i| il}riccw |}it}gek }n |cn{ mn{e dr} en{ Gh antlbm }n kn
dil` }n |ljnnc% G {i| nr} ant idnr} anrt miw| dr} g} abbc| cg`b cb||# dr} }n db jneb|} G mne} {ie} }n
kn dil`# G krb|| Gh |}gcc |litbm%
Jb lie} mn iew}jgek i| cnek i| wnrtb {g}j vbnvcb% Gljgkn |igm i| jb {ic`bm hb }n jnhbtnnh%
Itb wnr jbtb }n |}iw> G i|`bm i| G {i}ljbm jgh |g} mn{e
Wbij# G }tie|abttbm icc hw lci||b| dil` }n hw ncm neb|% Gljgkn |i} mn{e ge }jb bhv}w ljigt ebz}
}n hb%
G {i| kcim }n jiqb Gljgkn dil`0 g} abc} |n knnm }n jiqb jgh dil` ge hw jnhbtnnh% Ia}bt
}jb dcil`nr} i lnrvcb na miw| ikn# G abc} lcn|bt }n jgh# lirkj} `g||gek ge jg| tnnh ge }jb vg}lj
dcil` tnnh% G |hgcbm }n hw|bca or|} }jge`gek idnr} g} himb hb abbc db}}bt%
]jb miw {be} ne# iem G mgme} |bb ]i`i|jg# dr} }jb miw {i|e} nqbt wb}% G} {i| }ghb ant
kwh iem }jg| }ghb G ebbmbm }n vit}glgvi}b n}jbt{g|b neb }bih {nrcm db |jnt} i hbhdbt% [b jim
}n tre itnrem }jb }til`# orhv jrtmcb|#
G {ig}bm i} hw vn|} |n G lie db kgqbe }jb |}gl` {b itb |rvvn|bm }n db vi||bm itnrem atnh
treebt }n treebt% G {i}ljbm i| Ntgjghb |}it}bm }n tre# G vr} hw jiem dbjgem hw dil` iem abc} jbt
vcilb }jb |}gl` ge hw jiem# G |}it}bm }n tre# G {i|e} i| ai|} i| neb Ntgjghb atgbem| dr} G {i|
ijbim na jbt dblir|b neb na jbt }bihhi}b abcc mn{e {jbe mngek }jb jrtmcb|% G tie i| ai|} i| G
lnrcm# G ageiccw tbiljbm }jb ebz} kgtc iem vi||bm jbt }jb |}gl`# G |}nvvbm treegek# iem nr} na }jb
lntebt na hw bwb G lnrcm jiqb |{nte G |i{ ]i`i|jg% G lcn|bm hw bwb| iem cigm mn{e ne }jb kti||
}ji} {i| i} }jb lbe}bt na }jb }til`# G or|} ebbmbm }n dtbi}j%
Jbw Eihgb# wnr n`iw> Ntgjghb i|`bm i| |jb |i} mn{e ebz} }n hb
Wbij# or|} ebbm i dtbi}jbt% G |igm {g}j i |hicc |hgcb
Lnhb ne# cb}| kn kb} |nhb {i}bt% Ntgjghb |igm }twgek }n jbcv hb rv
Eij Gh knnm# G }jge` Gcc or|} |g} jbtb ant i{jgcb% G |igm {g}j i |hgcb
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]jb Cnqb ! Ji}b db}{bbe r|
G {nrcm jiqb kneb dr} G jim i abit }ji} G mgm |bb ]i`i|jg iem jbm db {ig}gek ant r|#
{ig}gek }n orhv r|% \gelb }jgek| itb en cnekbt kngek jg| {iw jb vtndidcw ji| vcie| ant hb iem
}jb vbnvcb itnrem hb% Hiwdb G |jnrcm kgqb i |blnem }jnrkj} idnr} cbiqgek# |nhb{jbtb
bc|b|nhb{jbtb i{iw atnh ]i`i|jg%
\n jiqb wnr }jnrkj} idnr} il}riccw hnqgek> Ntgjghb i|`bm
[ji}> G i|`bm jbt lnear|gek hw }jnrkj}| {g}j jbt {ntm|%
Gljgkn }ncm hb jg| mim g| kngek }n licc wnr ire} |n wnr lie hnqb |nhb{jbtb |iab% Itb wnr>
Ntgjghb i|`bm i| |jb |i} mn{e ebz} }n hb
Gqb dbbe }jge`gek idnr} g}# en} |rtb ga Gcc il}riccw mn g}% G |jtrkkbm i| G cnn`bm rv i} }jb
lcnrmw dcrb |`w%
G} cnn`| cg`b g}| kngek }n tige# G jnvb |nG ebbm i knnm ihnre} na tige }nmiw% G |gkjbm
iem cnn`bm nqbt i} Ntgjghb {jn vrt|rbm jbt cgv|%
[ji} jivvbebm> G i|`bm {g}j i |hgcb
Gh jrektw% \jb ieenrelbm i| |jb trddbm jbt |}nhilj%
[g}j Ntgjghb G {i| ihibm }ji} |jb lnrcm bi} icc }jg| {bgtm |}raa iem ebqbt kige {bgkj})
Dr} }jbe ikige icc }jb {bgkj} vtndidcw knb| }n jbt dnnd|% Gh en} dbgek hbie0 hn|} na nrt lcn|b
lgtlcb na atgbem| }jge`| }jb |ihb%
Mgme} wnr or|} bi}> G i|`bm
G} {i| i |eil` dit# }ji} mnb|e} jncm hb% Mnb| g} jncm wnr> \jb i|`bm hb kcitgek i} hb
vciwarccw%
@gemi# |nt}i# g} mbvbem|% Gh ebqbt tbiccw jrektw% Gh ne i mgb}% G |igm {g}j i |jtrk%
MGB]> Wnr mne} ebbm g}# wnr ebbm annm% Wnrtb }nn |`geew }n |iw wnr ebbm i mgb}% Ntgjghb
|igm i| |jb vn`bm hw |}nhilj%
N`iw Ntgjghb% G |jnn` hw jbim% Wnr {ie} }n jiek nr} ia}bt |ljnnc# hiwdb i} hw jnr|b%
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]jb Cnqb ! Ji}b db}{bbe r|
G ebbm }n tbiccw ltih ant }jb Ljbhg|}tw }b|}# recb|| wnrtb {gccgek }n jbcv hb% Ntgjghb jge}bm
{g}j i |hgcb
[ji} idnr} Gljgkn nt Tbeog> Nt {ji} g| Tbeog| kgtcatgbem| eihb> G i|`bm eihgek vbnvcb%
Gljgkn iem Tbeog lie lnhb# Tbeog mnb|e} jiqb i kgtcatgbem# dr} G }jge` wnrtb }ic`gek idnr}
Tr`gi% \jb ji|e} dbbe ge }n{e ant i ab{ hne}j|# i cn} na |}raa kngek ne ge jbt cgab% Ntgjghb
bzvcigebm
Nj# G jnvb |jb| n`iw% G |igm }twgek }n tbhbhdbt {ji} bzil}cw |jb cnn`bm cg`b%
N`iw |n {b itb icc kneei jiqb i |cbbv nqbt tgkj}> Ntgjghb ljghbm
Wbij# {ig} {ji}> G i|`bm ge |jnl`
I |}rmw |crhdbt vit}w# lnhb ne {b lie dtgek Tbeog# Gljgkn# iem ]i}|r`g% G}cc db are% G vge`w
vtnhg|b# {b lie bi} i cn} na annm iem |}rmw% Ntgjghb |hgcbm i| |jb vcieebm }jb {jncb }jgek nr}
ge jbt jbim%
G jneb|}cw abitbm }jb gmbi na jiqgek |n hiew vbnvcb i} hw jnr|b# g}| en} cg`b g}| i
vtndcbh }n }bem }n }jb vbnvcb {jbe g} lnhb| }n |cbbvgek# iem G jiqb }ne| na |vilb# }{n bz}ti
dbmtnnh| iem i jrkb cgqgek tnnh% ]jb vtndcbh g| G {nrcme} db lnhant}idcb {g}j g}# dr} ant }jb
|i`b na `bbvgek Ntgjghb G enmmbm%
WIW) ]jg| g| kngek }n db |n hrlj are) Ntgjghb ljbbtbm
[ji} jiqb G kn}}be hw|bca ge}n> ]jg| {jncb |g}ri}gne g| kngek }n mgk hb bqbe mbbvbt% Gh
vtb}}w |rtb Tbeog ictbimw `en{|% G mne} bqbe {ie} }n }jge` idnr} g}%
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]jb Cnqb ! Ji}b db}{bbe r|
G {i|e} ieenwbm {g}j }jb atgbem| rv|}igt|# dr} hntb rv|b} }ji} G jiqbe} dbbe abbcgek {bcc
ant }jb ci|} lnrvcb na miw|% G}| cg`b jbim g| |iwgek g}| nqbt# or|} cb} g} dcn{ nqbt% Hbie{jgcb hw
dnmw g| cg`b g}| |}gcc kngek ne# g}| kngek }n db kngek ne ant i{jgcb }gcc }jg| mrhdi|| g| mbim% \n
Gh i} i ltn||tnim|# {g}j icc }jg| kngek ne# Gqb dbbe bz}tbhbcw |cbbvw ci}bcw iem G lie} lne}tnc g}#
G or|} {g|j bqbtw}jgek {nrcm kn i{iw%I enl` bljnbm ge hw tnnh iem |be} |jgqbt| rv hw |vgeb% [jn g| g}> G i|`bm cnn`gek i}
}jb mnnt# tbiljgek ant }jb `egab rembt hw vgccn{%
Tbeog# {jn bc|b {nrcm g}# db> Tbeog |igm
Be}bt% G |igm |}rmwgek hw mnnt i| g} nvbebm0 G |i{ }jb tbm vgebivvcb nvbe }jb mnnt% G |cgm hw
`egab dil` rembt }jb vgccn{%
Jgmgek i kre rembt wnrt vgccn{> Tbeog cirkjbm
En% G |igm |btgnr|cw% [jn |be} wnr rv|}igt|> G i|`bm
Gljgkn% Tbeog ie|{btbm
Nj# hiwdb wnr |jnrcm kn% G |igm cnn`gek i} jgh# dr} hw kib `bv} |{g}ljgek atnh Tbeog }n }jb
acnnt%
G jbitm Tbeog |gkj% Or|} dblir|b Gh en} jgh mnb|e} hbie {b lie} }ic`%
[ji} itb wnr }ic`gek idnr}> G i|`bm cnn`gek i} jgh
Gh }ic`gek idnr} Gljgkn0 G `en{ wnr necw }ic` }n jgh idnr} wnrt |g}ri}gne% [b itb icc ge ne }jg|0
bqbtwneb g| }gtbm na jiqgek }n jbit geanthi}gne atnh Ntgjghb nt Gljgkn% [b rembt|}iem wnr jiqb
wnrt vtgqilw dr} {b itb icc jbtb ant wnr% Tbeog |igm i| jb lcn|bm }jb mnnt dbjgem jgh%
G |gkjbm iem vr} hw gVnm }nrlj ge }jb gJnhb% G vr} ne \}iw ge hw hbhntw dw Dgh% ]jg|
|nek r|riccw himb hb abbc |im dr} G {i| ictbimw |im |n {ji}| }jb {nt|} }ji} lie jivvbe# tgkj}>
]jb hr|gl cnrm# vtndidcw cnrm benrkj ant bqbtwneb mn{e|}igt| }n jbit# G or|} {ie}bm |nhb }ghb
}n |cbbv# hiwdb or|} tbciz%
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]jb Cnqb ! Ji}b db}{bbe r|
G |}itbm i} }jb lbgcgek0 G |}it}bm }n }jge` idnr} hw vitbe}| iem idnr} jn{ hrlj G }trcw
hg|| }jbh% G {i| hi`gek hw|bca |im# iem G abc} }bit| anthgek ge hw bwb|# G }nn` i mbbv dtbi}j iem
}tgbm }n tbciz% G {i| dbgek |gccw# }jg| g| ant }jb db|}# wb} ga }jbw {btb itnrem icc }jg| {nrcme} db
jivvbegek tgkj} en{% G {nrcme} db ge miekbt dblir|b na hw |}rvgm jbit}0 G {nrcme} db tg|`gek
bqbtwneb bc|b| cgab ga g} {i|e} ant hb% Hiwdb bqbtw}jgek {nrcm db db}}bt naa {g}jnr} hb0
hiwdb# or|} hiwdb ga G tie i{iw bqbtw}jgek {nrcm db db}}bt% Gqb lir|bm }nn hrlj vige }n tre
i{iw# Ntgjghb {nrcm db {nttgbm% Ga G cbiqb {nrcm iewneb litb>
G tbhbhdbt }jb miw| dbantb {btb G r|b }n db hntb |bltb}gqb idnr} bqbtw}jgek# G tbhbhdbt
{jbe Gljgkn agt|} |i{ hw |lit|% [jbe jb }nn` hb dw }jb jiem iem himb hb vtnhg|b }n |}nv# G
mgm g} }{glb ia}bt }ji} iem }jbe |}nvvbm% Gljgkn {i| neb na }jb db|}# jb `bv} hb ne }jb ktnrem# iem
jb ebqbt cb} hb |cgv% [g}jnr} Gljgkn G vtndidcw {nrcm jiqb tie i{iw i cnek }ghb ikn% ]jbtb g|
|nhb}jgek idnr} jgh }ji} or|} hi`b| bqbtwneb abbc |iab# Gh en} |rtb ga g}| jg| nqbt{jbchgek
ebbm }n vtn}bl} nt |nhb}jgek bc|b%
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]jb Cnqb ! Ji}b db}{bbe r|
Ljiv}bt :? Trei{iw
Ih G i{i`b nt i|cbbv> Dr} }jg| g| @iti`rti# |n G jiqb }n db i{i`b% Dr} bqbtw}jgek {i|
}nn yrgb} }n db @iti`rti0 G cnn`bm itnrem iem en}glbm G {i| |}iemgek ge atne} na Gljgkn| jnr|b% G
{be} rv }n jg| mnnt iem tbicgbm }jb mnnt {i| nvbe%
G||jge> G liccbm ge}n }jb jnr|b
]jbtb {i| en tbvcw }n hw licc# G |}it}bm }n kb} {nttgbm% G {be} rv }n Gljgkn| tnnh ge
jnvb| na agemgek jgh%
Gljgkn)> G liccbm
]jbtb {i| en tbvcw }n hw licc ikige# hw jbit} |}it}bm }n tilb%
Gljgkn lnhb nr}# }jb on`b g| nqbt en{% Wnrt tbiccw |}it}gek }n hi`b hb {nttgbm% G |igm cnrmcw
jnvgek }jg| {i| icc i on`b%
]jb jnr|b {i| bhv}w# G |}it}bm }n atbi` nr}% GLJGKN) G wbccbm i} }jb }nv na hw crek|%
[ji}| {tnek Eihgb> Gljgkn |igm i| jb |}bvvbm ant{itm
[jbtb {btb wnr {jbe G liccbm wnr i ab{ hger}b| ikn> G wbccbm {g}j }bit| ge hw bwb|%
G mgme} jbit wnr% Gljgkn |igm i| `ebbcbm mn{e ge atne} na hb%
Gljgkn {jbtb g| bqbtwneb> G i|`bm lnelbte idnr} G||jge iem }jb kgtc|%
Itb wnr n`iw Eihgb> Gljgkn i|`bm hb i| jb }nrljbm hw antbjbim
Wbij Gh ageb% G |eivvbm
]jbtb {i| |gcbelb db}{bbe r| dn}j% G jrkkbm Gljgkn }gkj}cw abbcgek }jb ebbm }n db jrkkbm%
G abc} jg| ith| {tiv itnrem hb# dr} {jbe G cnn`bm rv jb |}it}bm }n mg|ivvbit% ]jbe bqbtw}jgek
bc|b |}it}bm }n mg|ivvbit atnh rembtebi}j hb% En{ G abc} cg`b G {i| aiccgek ge}n {ji} {nrcm jiqb
dbbe }jb acnnt> G lcn|bm hw bwb| iem nvbebm }jbh ikige cnn`gek i} Gljgkn |}iemgek |}tigkj}
tbiljgek ant hb i| G abcc ge}n {ji} cnn`bm cg`b }jb |`w%
Eihgb) Gljgkn wbccbm i| jb }tgbm }n ktid hw jiem%
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]jb Cnqb ! Ji}b db}{bbe r|
Dr} jb {i| or|} }nn ait ant hb }n bqbe ktid jg| jiem% [ji}| kngek ne> G| }jg| icc i mtbih
nt g| }jg| icc ant tbic> [jbtb ih G>Bti|b bqbtw}jgek wnr abbc# en vcilb }n tre# en vcilb }n b|livb% G jbitm i qnglb |iw
G {i| aiccgek ant {ji} |bbhbm cg`b antbqbt# bqbtw}jgek itnrem hb {i| or|} lcnrm| iem
ktiw |`gb|%
Eihgb) G jbitm hw eihb dbgek liccbm% Eihgb) Eihgb {i`b rv) G jbitm Gljgkn wbccbm
G nvbebm hw bwb| }n hw tnnh iem Gljgkn| ailb# bqbtwneb bc|b {i| or|} |}iemgek dbjgem
jgh cbiegek ge }n |bb ga G {i| n`iw%
Wnrtb i{i`b) G }jnrkj} wnr mgbm) Ntgjghb wbccbm }jtnrkj jbt }bit|%
[b icc mgm% Gljgkn |igm dtr|jgek hw jigt nr} na hw ailb%
G {i| aiccgek# dr} g} {i| mgaabtbe}% G |}it}bm%
Lie wnr krw| kgqb r| |nhb }ghb> Gljgkn i|`bm
\rtb }jbw icc |igm
Bqbtwneb cba} hw tnnh# Tbeog {i| }jb ci|} }n cbiqb# iem G |i{ jgh cbiqb i en}b ne hw
}idcb dbantb lcn|gek }jb mnnt dbjgem jgh%
[ji} jivvbebm> Gljgkn i|`bm |na}cw
G mne} `en{# G tbhbhdbt ciwgek ne hw dbm iem lcn|gek hw bwb|% G |igm cnn`gek i} }jb lbgcgek
[ji} idnr} wnrt mtbih> Gljgkn i|`bm
G {i| ge atne} na wnrt jnr|b# dr} |nhb}jgek {i| mgaabtbe} idnr} @iti`rti% G} {i| yrgb}# en lit|
jne`gek en }ic`gek# en}jgek% G {ic`bm }n wnrt atne} |}bv iem tbicgbm wnrt mnnt {i| nvbe% G
wbccbm ant wnrt mim i} agt|}# iem }jbe G liccbm ant wnr% G }nn` i mbbv dtbi}j dbantb lne}gergek% G
ageiccw }ncm wnr }n |}nv }ji} g} {i| i hbie on`b% ]jbe wnr lihb# i|`bm hb ga G {i| ictgkj}# {jbe G
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]jb Cnqb ! Ji}b db}{bbe r|
jrkkbm wnr# wnr mg|ivvbitbm# iem }jbe bqbtw}jgek mg|ivvbitbm# G abcc ge}n }jb acnnt iem
bqbtw}jgek }rtebm ge}n lcnrmw ktiw |`gb|% G |jtrkkbm re|rtb na {ji} tbiccw jivvbe%Gljgkn |}nnm yrgb}0 jb |}rmgbm hb iem }tgbm en} }n cnn` {nttgbm%
I} cbi|} wnrtb ictgkj} en{% Gljgkn |igm yrgb}cw treegek jg| agekbt| }jtnrkj jg| cnek jigt%
Itb wnr |rtb Gh ictgkj}> G i|`bm {nttgbm
Gljgkn ljbl`bm ant hw vrc|b iem enmmbm# jb cnn`bm ge}n hw bwb| iem enmmbm ikige%
Wbij wnrt ageb% Gljgkn |igm jg| qnglb {bi`%
Itb wnr cwgek> G i|`bm lnelbtebm
En% Jb |igm }tr}jarccw G {i| or|} {nttgbm g| icc% Jb cbiebm ge iem `g||bm hw antbjbim%
G vrccbm jgh mn{e ne hw dbm iem jrkkbm jgh% Gh kcim }jg| g| ant tbic% G |igm jrkkgek
jgh }gkj}cw%
Wbij% Gljgkn tbvcgbm {bi`cw%
G `g||bm Gljgkn ne }jb cgv|# G {i| `gem na lnelbtebm {jbe jb mgme} `g|| dil`# dr} G mgme}
{ie} jgh }n or|} {ic` nr} ne hb%
Wnr ebbm }n tb|}0 bqbtwneb bc|b {gcc db mn{e|}igt| |}rmwgek% Onge r| {jbe wnr abbc tbimw%
Gljgkn |igm i| jb cb} kn na hb# jb cba} {g}jnr} i {ntm%
[ji}| kngek ne {g}j jgh> Mgm G mn |nhb}jgek {tnek> G| jb rv|b} i} hb>G {i| yrb|}gnegek hw|bca iem g} {i| hi`gek hb abbc ltivvgbt }jbe dbantb% G kn} rv iem
ktiddbm }jb en}b naa }jb }idcb% Hw eihb {i| |ltgddcbm ge Tbeog| |nhb{ji} ebi} jiem {tg}gek0 G
nvbebm g} rv iem |}it}bm }n tbim%
Eihgb#
\nttw idnr} dbantb# hiwdb hw jbim {i|e} ne tgkj}% Hiwdb G lie} dbcgbqb g}| }trb {ji}
Ntgjghb }ncm hb% G jnvb wnr `en{ {ji} }jb jbcc Gh }ic`gek idnr} n}jbt{g|b Gh {i|}gek hw
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}ghb {tg}gek }jg|% Or|} tbhbhdbt Gh jbtb ant wnr# G `en{ wnr vtbabt @rtn|i`g nqbt hb dr}
tbhbhdbt `bbv wnrt|bca |iab%(Tbeog%
G lcn|bm }jb en}b iem |}raabm g} ge hw mti{# G jim en gmbi {ji} jb {i| }ic`gek idnr} iem g}
himb hb {ie} }n }ic` {g}j Ntgjghb dr} liccgek jbt rv|}igt| {nrcm necw hi`b jbt yrb|}gne {ji}
ji| dbbe kngek ne {g}j hb%
Hiwdb Gcc {ig} re}gc egkj}}ghb }n }ic` {g}j }jb krw| neb ne neb%
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]jb Cnqb ! Ji}b db}{bbe r|
Ljiv}bt 7? G {i| en} jneb|}
G mgm hw |}rmwgek ge hw tnnh# bqbtwneb }jnrkj} G {i| i|cbbv {jbe Ntgjghb lihb }n hw
tnnh |jb `enl`bm }{glb {jbe G jbitm jbt `enl` G yrgl`cw vr} icc hw |}raa i{iw iem vtb}bembm }n
|cbbv%
Nj# G krb|| wnrtb i|cbbv% Ntgjghb |igm yrgb}cw% Or|} |n wnr `en{ wnr jim r| icc {nttgbm# {b
mne} `en{ {ji}| kngek ne dr} {b jnvb wnr abbc db}}bt% ]jb krw| itb {nttgbm dr} lne}gerb }n il}
cg`b krw| iem |iw nj |jb| kngek }n db ictgkj}% [jbe mbbv mn{e ge|gmb wnr lie jbit g} }ji} }jbw
itb {nttgbm# G or|} jnvb wnr vrcc }jtnrkj%
G jbitm }jb mnnt lcn|b iem {be} }n `bbv |}rmwgek# dr} tbhbhdbtbm G ebbmbm }n }ic` }n
Gljgkn iem Tbeog% G mgme} `en{ {jn }n qg|g} agt|} dr} G jiqb }n hi`b rv hw hgem% G yrgb}cw kn}
nr} na hw dbm iem cba} hw tnnh0 G vbbtbm nqbt }jb tigcgek iem |i{ }ji} Ntgjghb iem Rtwr {btb
}jb necw neb| il}riccw |}rmwgek% G }jge` G }ncm bqbtwneb {jbtb }jbw lnrcm |cbbv |n }ji} hbie|
Gljgkn g| iltn|| }jb jicc iem Tbeog g| mn{e }jb jicc% G yrgb}cw }gvvbm }nbm }n Gljgkn| mnnt iem
nvbebm }jb mnnt# i| |nne i| hw {jncb dnmw {i| ge }jb tnnh G yrgb}cw lcn|bm }jb mnnt dbjgem hb%
G |i{ Gljgkn i} }jb mb|` {tg}gek ge i en}bdnn` iem cg|}begek }n jg| gVnm% G geljbm lcn|bt iem }tgbm
}n tbciz dbantb nvbegek hw hnr}j%
Gljgkn> G i|`bm }ghgmcw
G mgme} kb} i tbvcw# {bcc G |nt} na mgm dr} g} {i| i jrh dblir|b jb {i| cg|}begek }n hr|gl% G
{i| lrtgnr| i| }n {ji} jb {i| cg|}begek }n |n G kn} lcn|bt }n jgh iem jbitm }jb |nek lcbitcw0 g}
{i| Hw Jbtngeb dw \gcqbt|}bge# neb na }jb hiew |nek| G mgme} tbiccw `en{ dw jbit} |gelb G
mgme} tbiccw cg|}be }n }jbh%
[ji} }jb jbcc>) Gljgkn wbccbm i| jb abcc nr} na }jb {nnmbe ljigt%
\nttw% G |igm yrgl`cw
Itbe} wnr |rvvn|b }n db tb|}gek> Jb i|`bm i| jb |i} rv
G {i| tb|}gek% G cgbm
[ji} itb wnr mngek jbtb> Gljgkn i|`bm jg| qnglb |}tnek
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G {ie}bm }n }ic` }n wnr dr} wnr |bbh dr|w% G |igm cnn`gek mn{e }n }jb acnnt# G |i{ jg| en}bdnn`
iem |lieebm g}# iem G |i{ hw eihb i lnrvcb na }ghb|% G vgl`bm rv }jb dnn` iem yrgl`cw lcn|bm g}
iem jiembm g} }n jgh# g} {i| Gljgkn| en} hgeb |n G |jnrcme} db cnn`gek }jtnrkj g}%
[ji} mgm wnr {ie} }n }ic` idnr}> Gljgkn i|`bm
G lnrcm }bcc Gljgkn {i| ne bmkb idnr} |nhb}jgek0 jb vr} }jb en}bdnn` ge jg| dik iem
cnn`bm i} hb i{ig}gek hw ie|{bt%
Jiqb wnr dbbeG hbie G vciwbm {g}j hw jigt iem }tgbm }n kb} }jb {ntm| nr}% Itb wnr
n`iw> G |igm }twgek }n vr} bqbtw}jgek |ghvcw%
Wbij Gh ageb% Gljgkn ie|{btbm yrgl`cw%
Itb wnr |rtb dblir|b wnrqb dbbe il}gek {bgtm ci}bcw> G i|`bm vtb||gek art}jbt {ie}gek hntb
mb}igcbm ie|{bt }jbewbij Gh ageb%Wbij% Gljgkn |igm |nremgek mbabi}bm# jb }tgbm lnqbtgek rv dw hi`gek dbcgbqb jb {i| lnrkjgek%
G `g||bm Gljgkn ne }jb cgv| iem vrccbm i{iw }bi|gek jgh jnvgek jbm `g|| hb dil`% G
|gkjbm {jbe jb mgme}%
]jg| g|e} }jb tgkj} }ghb Eihgb% Gljgkn |igm vr|jgek hb i{iw |cgkj}cw%
Gljgkn }jbtb g| |nhb}jgek kngek ne> [jw itb wnr il}gek cg`b }jg|> G |igm cnn`gek i} jgh%
G mne} `en{ {ji} wnrtb }ic`gek idnr}# dr} G mn `en{ wnr abbc krgc}w% G lie |bb g} ge wnrt bwb|%
G |igm ktgvvgek }jb jiemcb| na }jb {nnmbe ljigt }gkj}cw%
Wnr ebbm }n cbiqb% Gljgkn |igm yrgb}cw% Gljgkn| gVnm {i| cnrm iem G lnrcm jbit }jb cbim |gekbt
Iem or|} vi|} wnrt cgv| }jbtb| hntb iekbt }jbe cirkj}bt%
Dg} hw dn}}nh cgv iem |jnn` hw jbim i| G vr|jbm i{iw atnh jgh% [jbebqbt wnr {ie}
}n }ic` iem |}nv il}gek cg`b i obt` wnr `en{ {jbtb }n agem hb% G cba} }jb tnnh%
G }nn` i mbbv dtbi}j dbantb {ic`gek }n }jb tnnh {jbtb Tbeog {i| i}# {b ebbmbm }n }ic`% G
{ie}bm ie|{bt|% G `enl`bm ne }jb mnnt {ig}gek ant Tbeog }n nvbe rv }jb mnnt0 G jbitm ann}|}bv|
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iem }jb mnnt ageiccw nvbebm% Hw jbit} |}it}bm dbi}gek ai|}bt0 G cnn`bm i{iw atnh Tbeog| |jgt}cb||
jn} dnmw%Jbw Eihgb# bqbtw}jgek n`iw> Tbeog i|`bm
Rh wbijrh# rh% Hw kib `bv} |{g}ljgek atnh }jb {icc }n Tbeog| }i}}nnbm ljb|}%
Lnhb ge% Tbeog }nn` hw jiem kbe}cw iem cbm hb ge}n }jb tnnh%
Jb lcn|bm }jb mnnt dbjgem jgh iem cnn`bm i} hb0 G `bv} hw |gkj} |nhb{jbtb i{iw atnh
Tbeog%
Gh |nttw ant dn}jbtgek wnr G |igm yrgl`cw G cnn`bm nqbt i} Tbeog| dbm {jglj {i| agccbm {g}j
It} iem Ciekrikb dnn`|% Nj# Gh |nttw% Wnr {btb dr|w%
G {i|e} dr|w# or|} dtr|jgek rv ne |nhb |}raa% Tbeog lcbiebm naa jg| dbm
necgebbem
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Ljiv}bt 96? Cnn`gek ant {ntm| }n |iw *Gljgkn| Qgb{'
Enthiccw G }jnrkj} g} {nrcm db |reew dr} G tbhbhdbtbm }jb eb{| |iwgek }jb {bi}jbt {i|
kngek }n db vtb}}w dim nqbt }jb lnrt|b na }jb {bb`% G }nn` i |jn{bt iem kn} tbimw ant |ljnnc#
jneb|}cw Gh |}gcc lnelbtebm ant Eihgb dr} |jbcc vrcc }jtnrkj# |jb ic{iw| mnb|% G cba} }jb krb|}
tnnh iem {ic`bm mn{e }jb jicc% G aige}cw |}it}bm }n tbhbhdbt jn{ G {i| il}gek ci|} egkj}# |jb
{i| rv|b}# en# rv|b} g| }jb {tnek {ntm# |jb {i| ikktiqi}bm {g}j hb% Or|} {jbe G {i| kngek }n
`enl` ne jbt mnnt G |i{ i vrtvcb vn|}(g} ne jbt mnnt# i ab{ {ntm| {btb {tg}}be ne g} ge |ltgv}%
Jbw krw|#
G ebbm i ab{ bz}ti jnrt| na |cbbv |n Gcc hbb} wnr krw| i} |ljnnc mrtgek crelj% Mne} {ig} rv%
Cnqb Eihgb%
G |gkjbm iem {ic`bm i{iw# G |i{ bqbtwneb {ig}gek mn{e|}igt| bi}gek# iem Ntgjghb tie }n
hb {g}j i |hgcb ne jbt ailb% \jb cnn`bm {bcc tb|}bm iem jivvw# G {i| kcim }n |bb jbt jivvw dr}
Tbeog iem Rtwr mgme} tbiccw |bbh }n db i| jivvw i| |jb {i|%
Jbw @rtn|i`g g| |jb lnhgek }n |ljnnc }nmiw> Tbeog i|`bm
\jb cba} i en}b ne jbt mnnt |iwgek |jb g| kngek }n lnhb ci}b itnrem crelj }ghb% G bzvcigebm
Jb enmmbm iem {be} dil` }n {ji} jb {i| bi}gek% Ntgjghb kiqb hb i vci}b ne annm# }jb
enthic |}raa# bkk|# }ni|}# b}l% Jneb|}cw G mgme} `en{ Ntgjghb lnrcm lnn` enthic annm# bg}jbt
{iw G |jnn` hw jbim%
En }jie`|# Gh en} jrektw% G ie|{btbm }rtegek mn{e }jb vci}b na annm%
Dbantb G {ic`bm i{iw G |i{ jbt bwb|# |jb {i| {nttgbm dr} |jb }tgbm |n jitm }n jgmb g}%
Gh kngek }n cbiqb bitcw% \bb wnr krw| ci}bt% G |igm i| vr} hw dcil` |{bi}bt
G yrgl`cw }nn` hw dnn` dik iem cba} }jb jnr|b# G jim }n agkj} dil` }jb rtkb }n }ic` }n
Eihgb# cbiqgek bitcgbt {i| }jb necw }jgek G lnrcm mn% Bqbtwneb bc|b {i| |}gcc {nttgbm iem G `eb{
ga G dnrkj} rv ci|} egkj} en neb {nrcm }ic` idnr} {ji} {i| kngek ne ge }jbgt jbim|%
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Ntgjghb {i| bi|w }n tbim# |jb {i| {nttgbm atnh }jb |}it}# {jbe G agt|} }ncm jbt idnr}
Eihgb |jb tie rv|}igt| iem }tgbm bqbtw}jgek ge jbt vn{bt }n kb} Eihgb }n dtbi}jb ikige%
Bqbe}riccw Rtwr }nn` jbt jiem iem vrccbm jbt i{iw# |jb {i| ljn`gek dil` }bit|# Eihgb g| neb na
jbt db|} atgbem| iem ga iew}jgek jivvbe }n jbt Ntgjghb {nrcm mn bqbtw}jgek ge jbt vn{bt }n kb}
jbt dil`%
Ne }jb n}jbt jiem Tbeog }tgbm }n `bbv jg| mg|}ielb# jb abc} g}# G `en{ jb mgm% Eihgb g| |nt}
na cg`b Ntgjghb# |jb kgqb| naa i cn} na \vgtg} vtb||rtb# |nhb}ghb| g}| i aige} abbcgek iem
|nhb}ghb| g}| `gem na nqbt{jbchgek# G krb|| g} mbvbem| ne jbt bhn}gne| dr} ci|} egkj} G mgme}
abbc jbt |vgtg} vtb||rtb i} icc% Jb mgme} |iw iew}jgek nt hnqb re}gc G tie rv|}igt|% G jim }jb rtkb }n
or|} vrelj ge }jb ailb dr} G mgme} G vreljbm }jb {icc% Vit} na hb |}gcc tbktb}| en} vreljgek jgh ge
}jb ailb%
\gelb G }nn` }jb cnek {iw }n |ljnnc G |}gcc ittgqbm ci}bG {ic`bm ge}n jnhbtnnh
bzlbv}gek Eihgb }n db |g}}gek ge }jb dil` {g}j jbt en|b ge i dnn`% Bqbtw}jgek lihb dil`# G {i| i
obt` ci|} egkj} iem G tbktb} g}%
@rtn|i`g wnrtb ci}b% ]jb }biljbt |igm dtbi`gek }jb {jg|vbt| itnrem hb
Gh i{itb na }ji}% G |igm i| G |b} hw |}raa mn{e ne hw mb|`%
G| Eihgb lnhgek }n |ljnnc> \jb i|`bm
\jb| en} abbcgek {bcc0 |jb |igm |jbcc lnhb dw itnrem crelj }ghb% G |igm }gkj}be hw ag|}%
]jb }biljbt |}nvvbm jnremgek hb {g}j yrb|}gne| iem ageiccw {be} dil` }n |}ivcgek
}nkb}jbt nrt }b|} {b }tgbm }n |}rmw ant ci|} egkj}% Jnhbtnnh ageiccw cb} nr} iem G cba} }jb tnnh
{g}jnr} i {ntm }n Ntgjghb# Rtwr# nt iewneb%
G {be} }n bilj na hw lci||b| en} bqbe }jge`gek idnr} }jb }b|} G `eb{ G {i| kngek }n aigc% G
hbie G ltihhbm i cn} ci|} egkj} G or|} mne} }jge` Gcc db idcb }n anlr|%
]jb jnrt| {be} dw iem G necw jim neb hntb }b|} }n mn# G |}nnm ge atne} na hi}j iem
{ig}gek ant }jb lci|| dbantb r| }n ageg|j rv }jb }b|}%
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]jb Cnqb ! Ji}b db}{bbe r|
Mihe jiqb wnr |bbe jn{ jn} }ji} kgtc g|> G nqbtjbitm i krw {jg|vbt
[ji} kgtc> ien}jbt krw tbvcgbm% Wnr hbie Eihgb> Wbij |jb| arl`gek jn}%
Tgkj}> \jb ji| }jb db|} dnmw wnr or|} {ieei arl`% I krw tbvcgbm
G yrgl`cw }rte itnrem iem ktiddbm }jb krw dw }jb lnccit na jg| |jgt}0 G vr|jbm jgh rv
ikige|} }jb {icc%
Wnr db}}bt |jr} }jb arl` rv% G }jtbi}bebm
[ji} }jb jbcc g| wnrt vtndcbh @rtn|i`g> \jb g|e} wnrt kgtcatgbem% Jb |igm }twgek }n vr|j hb
i{iw%
G mne} kgqb i |jg}# g} |jnrcme} hi}}bt% G |eivvbm
[jw itb wnr |n arl`gek |be|g}gqb idnr} }jg| dg}lj# |jb g| i {jntb% Jb |eivvbm
G vrccbm jgh i{iw atnh }jb {icc iem |cihhbm jgh ikige|} }jb {icc jitmbt% Jb lnrkjbm
iem kcitbm i} hb%
Wnr `en{ |jb| i dg}lj# |jb {i| ]i`i|jg| Dg}lj) Jb wbccbm
G vrccbm i{iw atnh }jb {icc iem }rtebm }n }jb kci||# G tnrkjcw vr|jbm jgh ge}n }jb kci||%
Jg| jbim jg} }jb kci|| iem ltil`bm g}0 jg| dnmw abcc }n }jb acnnt% Jb }nrljbm }jb dil` na jg| jbim
iem cnn`bm i} }jb dcnnm ne jg| jiem% Or|} {jbe G {i| kngek }n vrelj jgh ikige# G abc} |nhbneb
vrccgek hb dil`%
Gljgkn TBCIZ) G jbitm Ljim }bcc hb%
Gh arl`gek dbi} wnrt i||% G wbccbm
Jg| atgbem| vrccbm jgh rv iem mtikkbm jgh }n }jb ert|b% ]jb }biljbt yrgl`cw ntmbtbm hb
}n kn }n }jb vtgelgvic| naaglb% Ljim |jnn` jg| jbim iem }ncm hb }n kn0 G {ic`bm }n }jb naaglb ge
|gcbelb%
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]jb Cnqb ! Ji}b db}{bbe r|
Ljiv}bt 99? Hntb iekbt }jbe Cirkj}bt
I| |nne i| G ittgqbm i} |ljnnc G |i{ ie ihdrcielb ge atne} na }jb drgcmgek# G yrgl`cw tie }n
neb na }jb |}rmbe}| |}iemgek ne }jb |gmb{ic`%
[ji}| kngek ne> G i|`bm nr} na dtbi}j
Gljgkn vr|jbm }jg| krw ge}n }jb {gemn{% \jb yrgl`cw bzvcigebm i| |jb cnn`bm i} hb% G} {i|
nqbt wnr% \nhbneb }ncm hb }jb krw Gljgkn dbi} rv {i| }ic`gek idnr} wnr iem en} ge i knnm {iw%
]i`i|jg| eihb lihb rv%
G |jnn` hw jbim iem {ic`bm i{iw% [ig}) \jb liccbm% Gljgkn| dbgek jbcm ge }jb
naaglb% G enmmbm iem {be} ge}n }jb drgcmgek%
G vr|jbm }jb jigt nr} na hw ailb iem cnn`bm i} hw ith }ji} {i| {tivvbm ge diemikb|%
[jw g| g} ic{iw| hb# lie} G or|} db enthic% G ji}b icc }jg| mtihi% G |i{ Ntgjghb }ic`gek }n Gljgkn
nr}|gmb }jb naaglb# G tie }n }jbh {g}j hw ljbb`| tbm {g}j iekbt%[ji} }jb jbcc g| kngek ne> G |jnr}bm
Eihgb vcbi|b cb} jgh bzvcige% Ntgjghb vcbimbm
[jw mn wnr mn }jg|> G wbccbm% En }ji}| i |}rvgm yrb|}gne) G `en{ {jw# dr} wnrtb necw
kb}}gek wnrt|bca ge}n }tnrdcb)
Eihgb tbciz vcbi|b% Ntgjghb vcbimbm
EN) [ji}bqbt }ji} `gm |igm G `en{ G jbitm dbantb% [ji} mgm jb |iw }ji} G {i| i dg}lj# G abc}
}bit| anth ge hw bwb|% ]ji} G {i| i(i(i {jntb)> Gqb jbitm g} dbantb Gljgkn) G ktiddbm jgh dw
}jb lnccit iem cnn`bm ge}n jg| bwb|% Wnr ebbm }n |}nv%
Hw jbit} {i| tilgek atnh icc }jb wbccgek# hw dn}}nh cgv |}it}bm }n yrgqbt% ]bit| |}tbihgek
mn{e hw ljbb`|# G abc} |nhbneb ktid hw jiem iem vrcc hb i{iw atnh Gljgkn%
Eihgb tbciz% G jbitm Tbeog |iw |na}cw% Wnr krw| lie }ic` ci}bt%
I}}be}gne# mrb }n }jb gelgmbe} i} |ljnnc icc lci||b| itb lielbcbm }gcc ]jrt|miw|% [bcc |bb wnr
}jbe% ]jb vtgelgvic ieenrelbm nqbt }jb VI |w|}bh%
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]jb Cnqb ! Ji}b db}{bbe r|
Tbeog lie wnr }i`b jbt jnhb> Gljgkn |igm cnn`gek i} hb%
\rtb% Tbeog| ktgv ne hw jiem }gkj}be| i cg}}cb dg}%
Gh en} cbiqgek) G wbccbm |ji`gek hw jbim%
Eihgb vcbi|b% Tbeog |igm cnn`gek i} hb%
G enmmbm ia}bt i ab{ hger}b|# G cb} kngek na Gljgkn iem {ic`bm {g}j Tbeog%G {ie}bm
ie|{bt| iem G {ie}bm }jbh en{% G} {i|e} aigt }n hb# G `en{ {ji} }jbw |iw dbjgem hw dil` dr}
}ji} g|e} i atbb vi|| ant Gljgkn }n kn ge iem kb} jgh|bca ge }tnrdcb%
I| |nne i| {b |}bvvbm nr}|gmb vbnvcb |}itbm i} r|# G |jnn` hw jbim iem {ic`bm ai|}bt# G
{ie}bm }n kb} naa lihvr| yrgl`cw# iem G {i| |gl` na vbnvcb iem icc }jb |jg} }jbw }ic`%
Eihgb% Tbeog liccbm# G gkentbm jgh iem `bv} {ic`gek ai|}% Eihgb) Tbeog |igm i| jb ktiddbm
hw jiem iem vrccbm hb dil`%
[ji}>) G |eivvbm {g}j }bit| ge hw bwb|%
Tbeog |gkjbm iem }nn` hw n}jbt jiem% [b ebbm }n }ic`# G `en{ Gh vtndidcw }jb ci|}
vbt|ne wnr {ieei }ic` }n }nmiw dr} wnr cnn` cg`b wnrtb tbimw }n bzvcnmb% Tbeog |igm {g}j i
|hgcb%
I |hgcbm |jn{bm ne hw ailb# G cnn`bm mn{e iem |jnn` hw jbim% Wnrtb |n mrhd
Tbeog% G |igm cirkjgek }jtnrkj hw }bit|%
Lnhb ne# en hntb ltwgek% Ictgkj}> Tbeog i|`bm {g}j i |hgcb%
G vge`w vtnhg|b% G |igm {g}j i |hgcb
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}i`b i mbbv dtbi}j# G |}it}bm }n tbhbhdbt }jb itkrhbe} G jim {g}j Gljgkn% G }tgbm }n |ji`b g} naa
dbantb g} il}riccw kn} }n hb%
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Rkj% G |igm i| G |jnn` hw jbim% Gcc db dil`% G |igm i| G {be} rv|}igt|%
G {be} ge}n hw tnnh iem cnn`bm ge}n }jb hgttnt# hw bwbcgebt {i| hb||bm rv iem hw mit`
bwb |jimn{ {i| |hrmkbm% G ktn{cbm i| G }nn` i }g||rb iem |}it}bm }n lcbie hw ailb rv%
Wnr ictgkj}> Tbeog |igm i| jb |i} ne hw dbm%
Wbij# or|} agzgek hw hi`brv# {bcc en} tbiccw# Gh }i`gek g} naa% G |igm i| G }jtb{ }jb en{ dcil`
}g||rb ge}n hw vrtvcb }ti|j lie% G }nn` i hi`brv tbhnqic {gvb0 G |}it}bm }n {gvb hw ailb lcbie%
[jw mn wnr kgtc| {bit hi`brv> Tbeog i|`bm i| jb cnn`bm i} hb
G mne} `en{# jneb|}cw g} |}it}bm {jbe bqbtw}jgek jivvbebm# G tbicgbm G ebbmbm }n jgmb }jb
dtrg|b| |n G |}it}bm }n {bit lnelbicbt# }jbe G hnqbm }n bwbcgebt iem |n ne% G |igm i| ageg|jbm
Nj# {bcc wnr mne} ebbm g} en{% Tbeog |igm {g}j i |hgcb% Icc }jb {nrem| itb kneb iem wnrtb
kcn{gek {g}jnr} hi`brv% Jb }nn` hw jiem iem vrccbm hb }n }jb dbm%
G dcr|jbm iem |hgcbm% ]jie`| Tbeog ant bqbtw}jgek% G jrkkbm jgh }gkj}cw%
Mne} }jie` hb0 G {nrcm mn iew}jgek ant wnr% Tbeog {jg|vbtbm
Wnrtb dbgek |gccw% G |igm {g}j i |hgcb
Tbeog jim }jg| |lbe} }ji} |hbccbm cg`b qiegcci iem |nhb}jgek bc|b g} or|} mtnqb hb ltiw% G
cnqbm g}%
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G mne} `en{ wnrtb or|} dbgek |gccw% G |igm |na}cw%
[bcc }ji}| ie ihigek bzvciei}gne% Tbeog cirkjbm iem `g||bm hw ljbb`% Itb wnr abbcgek
db}}bt en{>
Wbij% G }tigcbm naa i| G |}it}bm }n }jge` idnr} Gljgkn iem jn{ {b |erkkcbm rv ge jg| dbm%
Wnrtb cwgek% Tbeog |igm |na}cw
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Wnrt }jge`gek idnr} jgh itbe} wnr> Tbeog |igm i|`gek }twgek }n hi`b hb cnn` jgh ge }jb bwb%
G mne} `en{ g} or|} hi`b| hb |n arl`gek vg||bm }ji} jb kb}| jgh|bca ge }tnrdcb ant hb% G |igm
dtbi}jgek }twgek en} }n dtbi` mn{e%
Wnr jiqb }n rembt|}iem icc na r| {nrcm }i`b }jb aicc ant wnr% Tbeog |igm |na}cw }twgek }n lcih
hb mn{e%
Gljgkn ichn|} arl`gek `gccbm |nhbneb }nmiw) G |eivvbm% Cnn` G `en{ }jb dnw| jiqb dbbe
|iwgek |jg} idnr} hb |iwgek Gh i {jntb dr} g}| en} {nt}j g} }n bqbe agkj} dil`%
Wbij dr} wnr mgme} jiqb |bz {g}j jgh tgkj} |n }bljegliccw wnrtb en}% Tbeog |igm cnn`gek i} hb
jg| bwb| agccbm {g}j }tr}j%
G dg} hw }nekrb iem kn} naa na Tbeog# hw bwb| |}it}bm }n kb} {i}btw% G cba} }jb tnnh {g}j
}bit| ge hw bwb|%G} {i|e} aigt# G ji}b }jg|# iem G {g|j bqbtwneb lie or|} antkb} bqbtw}jgek%
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]jb Cnqb ! Ji}b db}{bbe r|
Ljiv}bt 94? ]ji} `gem na cnqb
Egkj} lihb yrgl`cw# Gljgkn {i| dil` i} hw jnr|b# {bcc bqbtwneb {i| dil` i} hw jnr|b% G
}ncm }jbh g} {i| n`iw# {bcc G mgme} dr} bqbtwneb }nn` g} rvne }jbh|bcqb| }n |b}rv lihv i} hw
jnr|b }gcc G {i| n`iw }n db dw hw|bca% Bqbe i} }ji} vnge} Ntgjghb iem G |}it}bm }n }ic` idnr} jn{
|jb |jnrcm cgqb {g}j hb |jb {i| jivvw idnr} g} iem |igm |jbm db jivvw% G `bv} hw|bca dr|w iem
i{iw atnh Gljgkn iem Tbeog%
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en{ |}it}gek }n viw i}}be}gne }n jn{ jb mbabem| vbnvcb% I| ant Tbeog# {bcc jb |}gcc mnb|e} `en{
{ji} {i| kngek ne0 i| i hi}}bt na ail} G }jge` bqbtwneb bc|b ge hw ktnrv na atgbem| `en{| {ji}
jivvbebm% Gh en} |rtb ga Gh tbimw }n }bcc jgh wb}# Tbeog hbie| i cn} }n hb# Gh en} bqbe |rtb
{ji} G {ie}# G cg`b Gljgkn dr} Tbeog g| or|} |n vi||gnei}b% G mne} bqbe `en{ iewhntb%
G |}nnm ge {ji} G lne|gmbtbm }jb vciwktnrem# |gelb }jb jnr|b {i| jrkb G }nn` g} rvne
hw|bca }n il}riccw hi`b i vcilb {jbtb G lnrcm il}riccw or|} jiek hw vgblb| na it} iem il}riccw
`bbv hw {tg}gek ge% G} {i| }jb |gb na hw dbmtnnh {jglj g| vtb}}w dgk# }jb {icc| {btb }jg| vtb}}w
vn{mbt vrtvcb# recg`b hw dbmtnnh }jb|b {icc| itb mti{gek atbb# iem hw dbmtnnh {icc| itb
lnqbtbm ge mti{gek| G himb nqbt }jb wbit|% G `bv} hw db|} dnn`| ge jbtb0 di|gliccw }jg| tnnh g|
{jbtb G lie or|} trei{iw atnh tbicg}w%
[n{ }jg| vcilb g| i hib% G jbitm Ntgjghb |iw i| |jb be}btbm hw vciwktnrem
Nj jbw Ntgjghb% G |hgcbm
\jb lcn|bm }jb mnnt dbjgem jbt iem cba} g} nvbebm or|} i ltil`% \jb vcnvvbm jbt|bca mn{e
ne }jb |nai iem bzihgebm }jb tnnh% ]jg| tnnh g| ihigek%
]jie`| mgm }jb vige}gek {g}j Gljgkn i ab{ wbit| ikn% G |igm i| G bzihgebm }jb tnnh%
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\rtb# {ji}| ne wnrt hgem> G i|`bm jbt {g}j i |hgcb
[g}j {ji}| dbbe kngek ne# G tbicgbm wnrqb dbbe kb}}gek tbiccw lcn|b {g}j Tbeog iem Gljgkn%
En{ hiwdb g}| or|} hb dr} g} |bbh| cg`b wnr tbiccw cg`b }jbh dn}j% Ntgjghb |hgcbm%
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Wbij G cg`b }jbh# dr} G mne} }jge` g}| }jb tgkj} }ghb ga wnrtb kb}}gek i} {ji} G }jge` wnrtb
kb}}gek i}% G |igm anlr|gek ne hw {tg}gek%
Wnrm }bcc hb ga wnr# wnr `en{% Ntgjghb| qnglb }tigcbm naa
Ntgjghb) G dcr|jbm G cnn`bm i} jbt |jb jim }jb dgkkb|} ktge ne jbt ailb%
Gh or|} |iwgek% Ntgjghb |hgcbm
Gh vtb}}w |rtb wnr iem Rtwr mgm g}% G vr|jbm
En en} wb}# {b itbe} tbimw ant g}% G mne} }jge` {b {gcc }gcc {b itb dn}j lnhant}idcb% Ntgjghb
|igm i| |jb miwmtbihbm idnr} knm `en{| {ji}%
Wnrt |n |gccw# dr} idnr} hnqgek itb wnr |rtb> G i|`bm i| G yrgl`cw ljiekbm }jb }nvgl%
Wbij# wnrtb cg`b i |g|}bt }n hb# G cnqb wnr i cn}% Ntgjghb jrkkbm hb }gkj}cw |yrbbgek icc }jb
igt nr} na hb%
Cnqb wnr }nn% G |igm vrccgek i{iw%
Cnn` G jbitm |nhb}jgek {be} mn{e bitcgbt }nmiw {g}j Tbeog% [ji} jivvbebm> \jb i|`bm
G jiqbe} }ncm jgh idnr} {ji} ]i`i|jg antlbm hb }n mn {g}j jgh% G |igm }gvvgek jbt naa |n G
mne} jiqb }n |iw }jb {ntm%
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G |jtrkkbm iem |}it}bm }n }jge` idnr} bqbtw}jgek% Bqbtw}jgek }ji} di|}itm mgm }n hb# icc }jb
dtrg|b| G kn} iem icc }jb mtihi G {be} }jtnrkj%
G krb|| g}| dblir|b G mne} {ieei dtgek g} rv iem abbc cg`b G jiqb }n bzvcige hw|bca% G |igm i| G
}tgbm en} }n |cgv ge}n hw bhn hnnm%
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`en{ }ji}% Ntgjghb bzvcigebm i| |jb }tgbm }n ljbbt hb rv%
Wbij G `en{% G ie|{btbm%
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Cnn`# Gh kneei cbiqb wnr icneb% G ntmbtbm |nhb vgi# |n ga wnrtb jrektw Gcc dtgek wnr i
vgblb% Ntgjghb |hgcbm i| |jb kn} rv iem cba} }jb tnnh {g}j i |hgcb%
G cnn`bm mn{e i} }jb dcie` vikb# G |}it}bm }n {tg}b# hntb cg`b |ltgddcb# G }ntb }jb vikb nr}
iem himb i vivbt dicc# G ighbm g} ant }jb mit` dcrb }ti|jlie iem }jtb{ g}% G hg||bm dgk }ghb%
G ji}b }jg|# {jw lie} G hi`b rv hw hgem> G ktn{cbm iem }rtebm ne hw gJnhb iem }jb |nek G
cg`bm |n hrlj lihb ne# dr} g} himb hb }jge` idnr} }jb |g}ri}gne i} jiem%
Lie} |bbh }n jncm wnr cg`b G {ie} }n# |n G lie abbc wnr ge hw ith|% ]jb |nek {be} ne
G} {i| i lnqbt na |cn{ mielgek ge i drte tnnh dw Onje Hiwbt0 }jb lnqbt it}g|} {i| ]wcbt
[itm% G yrgl`cw }tgbm }n ljiekb }jb |nek# }jb |nek |{g}ljbm }n ien}jbt |nek }ji} himb hb }jge`%
[ji} }jb jbcc ih G cg|}begek }n)> G wbccbm
G vbbtbm rv iem cnn`bm i} Tbeog {jn {i| jncmgek dil` i cirkj% \jr} rv% G |igm i| G |ie`
ge}n }jb |nai%
G mgme} |iw iew}jgek% Tbeog |igm i| jb lcn|bm }jb mnnt dbjgem jgh%
Jb {i| {bitgek dcil` obie| iem i mit` dcrb# jg| cnek tbim jigt }gbm dil` {g}j i ab{ cnn|b
|}tiem|% Na lnrt|b jb {i| |hgcgek i| ga jb {i| jbtb }n }bi|b hb%
Hw jbit} {i| |ge`gek# ga }jb |nai {i| }jb |bi# G {nrcm db jnvgek iem vtiwgek }ji} G {nrcm
mtn{e% ]jb |nek {i| hi`gek hb dcr|j iem kb} bhditti||bm# illntmgek }n Tbeog# Gljgkn iem
Ntgjghb0 Gh }jb kgtc }ji} cg|}be| }n Vn|}(jitmlntb% \n cg|}begek }n hr|gl cg`b ]wcbt [itm| hr|gl
lihb }n i |rtvtg|b }n }jbh%
Tbeog |i} mn{e ebz} }n hb iem |jnn` jg| jbim% G jgm hw ailb ge }jb vgccn{0 G ji}bm jiqgek
vbnvcb cg|}be }n {ji} G cg|}be }n% ]ji}| {jw G ji}b kgqgek nr} hw gVnm%
\n mne} db |jw# wnrtb cg`b vitimg|b% ]wcbt |iek
G |re` mn{e art}jbt ge}n }jb |nai jnvgek g} {nrcm |{iccn{ hb rv% G mne} `en{ {jw
wnrtb |n |jw% Tbeog }nn` hw jiem iem vrccbm hb rv%
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Itb wnr kngek }n }bcc hb {jw wnrqb dbbe iqngmgek hb icc miw> Tbeog i|`bm |jga}gek jg| {jncb
dnmw }n{itm hb
G |}it}bm }n vciw {g}j hw jigt# }{gtcgek g} itnrem hw agekbt% G {ie} }n }bcc wnr# dr} G `en{
jn{ wnr itb% G |}it}bm% Wnrt }be }ghb| hntb qgncbe} }jbe Gljgkn {jbe g} lnhb| }n atgbem| {bcc
dbgek% \n ga G }bcc wnr wnrcc kn jre}gek ant jgh% G |}itbm i} hw diemikbm ith%
Wnr mne} {ie} }n }bcc hb iem g}| |nhb}jgek dim iem wnr }jge` Gh kngek }n il} {nt|b }jie
Gljgkn> Tbeog i|`bm
Wbij% G enmmbm iqngmgek bwb lne}il}
Gh en} kneei |iw Gh en} kngek }n nqbtil}# dr} Gh ic|n en} kngek }n antlb g} nr} na wnr% \n
}i`b wnrt }ghb iem }bcc hb {jbe wnrtb tbimw% Tbeog |igm {g}j i |hgcb i| jb |na}cw vgeebm hb }n
}jb |nai%
G |hgcbm iem dcr|jbm0 Tbeog himb hw jbit} dbi} ai|}bt iem |cn{bt i} }jb |ihb }ghb% ]jb
|nek |bbhbm }n db ne |jraacb dr} ne i lbt}ige vciw cg|}# dr} }jb |nek }ji} `gem na Cnqb dw ]wcbt
[itm `bv} vciwgek%
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|nek%
G kgkkcbm iem |hgcbm# Tbeog `g||bm hb |na}cw# G abc} hw ljbb`| kb} jn}# dr} G lcn|bm hw
bwb| iem tbcizbm% Tbeog| ktgv ne hw {tg|} }gkj}be i cg}}cb iem }ji}| {jbe G abc} i }gew {iqb na
vige acn{ }jtnrkj hw dnmw }ji} himb hb {gelb ge vige% Tbeog vrccbm i{iw iem |i} hb rv%
[ji} jivvbebm }n wnrt {tg|}> Tbeog i|`bm
En}jgek% G |igm cbiegek ge }n `g|| Tbeog jb vrccbm dil`%
Tbeog |}rmgbm hb iem |jnn` jg| jbim% Or|} i cg}}cb gelgmbe}# Gh ageb |gccw% G |hgcbm
G lie }bcc wnrt cwgek% Tbeog |igm cnn`gek i} jg| qnglb |btgnr|
Ga G }bcc wnr {jw Gqb dbbe iqngmgek wnr# wnr jiqb }n vtnhg|b hb wnr {ne} kn ne i `gccgek
|vtbb% G |igm }twgek }n hi`b }bth| {g}j jgh
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Tbeog |}rmgbm hb iem enmmbm% Or|} kgqb hb |nhb }ghb# lie {b }ic` ci}bt idnr} }jg|>
Tbeog i|`bm
Wbij# G {nrcm vtbabt }n mn g} }ji} {iw% G ie|{btbm
Tbeog cba} }jb tnnh {g}jnr} i {ntm }jb mnnt lcn|gek yrgb}cw0 G ageiccw anrem }jb tbhn}b }n
|jr} na hw gJnhb% G |gkjbm iem |}itbm i} }jb lbgcgek# {nembtgek ga }bccgek jgh {nrcm db }jb tgkj}
}jgek%
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]jb Cnqb ! Ji}b db}{bbe r|
Ljiv}bt 9
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Wnr `en{% Gljgkn |igm |na}cw
Vtnqb g} }n hb% G |igm {g}j hw ith| ltn||bm%
Gljgkn cb} nr} i cn{ cirkj iem {jg|vbtbm% G mne} ebbm }n vtnqb g} }n wnr# dr} hw ai}jbt
{ie}| }n |bb wnr }nhnttn{%
[iw }n vnv hw drddcb Gljg) G |igm vnr}gek
G lnrcme} or|} mn {ji} wnr {ie}bm# Gh en} cg`b }ji}% Gqb cbite }n iqbt} }jb vrvvw bwb| cnek
ikn% Gljgkn }bi|bm jg| |btgnr| ailb ljiekbm }n i hntb jivvgbt neb%
]ji}| hbie% G hrhdcbm
I| G tblicc wnr ic{iw| liccbm hb hbie# ktrhvw iem |btgnr|% Gljgkn hghgl`bm hb atnh {jbe
{b {btb ge hgmmcb |ljnnc%
[bcc g}| }trb) G |igm kcitgek i} jgh%
Iew{iw# hw mim g| lnelbtebm iem {ie}| }n ljbl` rv ne wnr% N`iw> Gljgkn |igm dtbi`gek }jb
hnhbe} na are iem }rtegek g} ge}n i |btgnr| hnhbe}%
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]jbtb g| en}jgek }n db ebtqnr| idnr}0 Gcc db }jbtb {g}j wnr% Bqbtwneb bc|b g| kngek }n db
jbcvgek Ntgjghb hnqb ge% Gljgkn |igm `g||gek hw antbjbim kbe}cw%
Rh Gljgknlie G i|` wnr ant i aiqnt> G i|`bm hw qnglb |na}cw iem cn{%
\rtb% Gljgkn |igm cnn`gek i} hb%
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En# G {i| kngek }n }bcc jgh dr} en{ G mne} `en{ ga G {ie} }n% G |igm }i`gek i mbbv dtbi}j%
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}bcc jgh% Gljgkn |igm i| jb cba} hw tnnh%
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]jb Cnqb ! Ji}b db}{bbe r|
]jb mnnt lcn|bm dbjgem jgh# hw jbit} mtnvvbm% ]jie`| ant en}jgek% G hrhdcbm }n
hw|bca% G mblgmbm }n |cbbv re}gc Tbeog lihb `enl`gek# vit} na hb {i| jnvgek jbm antkb} idnr}
{ie}gek }n }ic` {g}j hb dr} vit} na hb {i| jgkjcw mnrd}gek g}% ]jb |nai {i| i eglb vcilb }n or|}
ciw hw jbim mn{e iem mtga} ge}n i mbbv |cbbv%
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]jb Cnqb ! Ji}b db}{bbe r|
Ljiv}bt 9=? Dtn`be Iekbc
]n hw |rtvtg|b G {n`b rv ge hw tnnh# G mgme} yrb|}gne| g}0 G }nn` i |jn{bt iem kn}
mtb||bm ge cgkj} Ktbw |`geew obie|# iem i vcige mit` dcrb |jgt}% G lnrcme} kb} nqbt }jb ail} }ji} G
{i| ge hw dbm iem en} ne }jb |nai ge }jb n}jbt tnnh% [i| g} Tbeog nt Gljgkn>]jb |lit| ne hw ith| |}rek {jbe G }tgbm }n lcbie }jbh {g}j iclnjncG wbcvbm iem abcc
ne}n }jb acnnt%
Eihgb wnr ictgkj})> Gljgkn `enl`bm ne hw mnnt%
\jg}% G `bv} |iwgek nqbt iem nqbt }n hw|bca%
G yrgl`cw lcbiebm }jb dcnnm }ji} |rtailb# G }nn` |nhb diemikb| iem lnqbtbm }jb |lit| rv%
Eihgb> Gljgkn i|`bm ikige
Wbij# Gh ageb or|} }tgvvbm% G jica {iw cgbm%
]jbtb {i| |gcbelb# |n G }nn` }jg| nvvnt}reg}w }n vr} ne hw dcil` lneqbt|b iem mn hw jigt%
G cnn`bm i} hw|bca ge }jb hgttnt iem }gbm hw jigt ge i vnew}igc cbiqgek |nhb cnn|b |}tiem|% G }nn`
hw bwbcgebt iem cgebm hw {i}btcgeb ant bilj bwb%
Hiwdb Tbeog| tgkj}# G mne} ebbm g} iewhntb% G hrhdcbm }n hw|bca%
G |jnn` hw jbim iem ageg|jbm# G {ic`bm nr} na hw tnnh iem |i{ Gljgkn kgqgek hb i
lnear|bm cnn`%
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{tg|}% [ji} }jb jbcc)> G |eivvbm
Tbciz% Gljgkn |igm |na}cw% [jw>
[jw {ji}> G i|`bm cnn`gek i{iw atnh jgh
Ntgjghb dnrkj} g} }n hw i}}be}gne% Gljgkn |igm }i`gek }jb |litbm {tg|} ge jg| jiem|%
G mne} `en{ {ji} wnrtb }ic`gek idnr}% G vrccbm hw {tg|} nr} na jg| kti|v% G }ncm wnr Gh nqbt
g} |n cbiqb g}%
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Gljgkn cnn`bm i} hb# G lnrcme} tbim jg| bzvtb||gne iem g} `gem na lnelbtebm hb% Dr} g}
{i| eneb na jg| dr|geb||# g}| en} cg`b G mgm g} mn{e }jb |}tbb} necw iltn|| }jb tgqbt% G {ic`bm mn{e
|}igt| iem }nn` hw oil`b}%
Lie {b kn en{> G i|`bm i| G cnn`bm i} Gljgkn%
Wnr mne} {ieei bi}> Gljgkn i|`bm
Gh en} jrektw% G ie|{btbm jneb|}cw%
Ageb% Gljgkn }nn` jg| dcil` |{bi}bt iem cba} {g}j hb%
G ji}bm kngek }n }jb mnl}nt| dblir|b }jbw i|` |n hiew yrb|}gne|# iem g}| titb }ji} }jbw
bqbt mn iew}jgek% Dr} g} |bbhbm ghvnt}ie}# g}| en} cg`b Gh mwgek iew{iw%
\gelb {b {btb dn}j |gcbe} mrtgek }jb {ic` }n jg| ai}jbt| lcgegl G abc} cg`b g} }nn` antbqbt }n
kb} }jbtb% Gljgkn nvbebm }jb mnnt ant hb iem cb} hb ge%
[bclnhb Eihgb% G||jge |igm ljbbtarccw i| jb ktbb}bm hb%
Jg Ht% @rtn|i`g% G |igm {g}j i antlbm |hgcb%
G jbitm idnr} {ji} jivvbebm itb wnr n`iw> Jb i|`bm
Wb|# G {i|e} ge |ljnnc i} }jb }ghb |n G mgme} kb} jrt}% Gh |nttw ant kb}}gek Gljgkn ge}n }tnrdcb%
G |igm cnn`gek i} }jb {nnmbe acnnt%
En mne} |iw wnrtb |nttw# G {nrcm jiqb mneb }jb |ihb }jgek ga |nhbneb {i| }ic`gek idnr} hw
kgtc atgbem cg`b }ji}% G||jge |igm
G |}nnm yrg}b iem }nn` i mbbv dtbi}j gkentgek }jb kgtcatgbem vit} iem }jb ail} }ji} jb `eb{
{ji} {i| |igm%
Iew{iw Gh kcim }ji} wnrtb jbtb# {b ebbm }n }ic`% G||jge |igm cbimgek hb }n jg| naaglb%
G ktiddbm Gljgkn| jiem }gkj}cw iem cnn`bm i} jgh% Lnhb {g}j hb Gljg% G |igm |na}cw hw
qnglb |nremgek cg`b g} {i| kngek }n ltil`%
\rtb% Gljgkn |igm {g}j i |na} |hgcb%
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I[) Or|} cg`b jn{ g} r|b }n db% G||jge }bi|bm%
Mim% Gljgkn ktniebm
G||jge cirkjbm iem nvbebm }jb mnnt ant Gljgkn iem G# G |i} mn{e ebz} }n Gljgkn# iem jb
{i| |}gcc jncmgek hw jiem%
Itb wnr mngek ci}bcw> G||jge i|`bm
Ictgkj} G krb||% G |jtrkkbm Bzvbl} ant i cg}}cb hgent hg|jiv| i} jnhb%
Hgent hg|jiv|> G||jge bljnbm
Wbij# g}| en}jgek dgk% G cgbm
Gljgkn |yrbbbm hw jiem dtgbacw# iem cnn`bm i} hb% En% G hnr}jbm
Ictgkj}# ji| wnrt qg|gne dbbe dcrttgek ci}bcw> G||jge i|`bm
Envb% G ie|{btbm jneb|}cw
G |}nnm yrg}b iem hnqbm vgblb| na jigt nr} na hw ailb# G hw dtbi}jgek |}it}bm }n |nrem
|ji`w G {i| ebtqnr| iem G ji}bm g}%
[btb wnr ge ie gelgmbe}> G||jge i|`bm vnge}gek nr} hw ith%
Hw jbit} mtnvvbm# G }gkj}cw |yrbbbm Gljgkn| jiem% Gljgkn cnn`bm i} hb# jg| bwb| agccbm
{g}j lnelbte iem {nttw%
En% G |igm |na}cw%
\bca geacgl}bm> G||jge |igm ge |jnl`
Wb|% G |igm ditbcw irmgdcb%
Gljgkn mgm wnr `en{> G||jge i|`bm
En neb `eb{ |gt% G |igm |na}cw
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Bqbtw}jgek g| ge }jb vi|} en{ iem G `en{ g}| kngek }n }i`b |nhb }ghb }n kb} nqbt dr} G `en{
wnr {gcc% Gh jbtb ant wnr% Gljgkn |igm cga}gek hw ljge {g}j jg| cba} jiem%
Hw bwb| {btb {i}btw i| hw bwb| hb} {g}j Gljgkn| mit` dtn{e bwb|%
\}nv ltwgek% Gljgkn |igm |na}cw%
Gljgkn cbiebm ge iem `g||bm hb ne }jb cgv| |na}cw g} {i| yrgl` dr} g} himb hb tbicgb G
jiqb |nhbneb ihigek ge atne} na hb% ]bit| tnccbm mn{e hw ljbb`|# G {gvbm hw }bit| i{iw iem
cnn`bm i} Gljgkn% Gljgkn jrkkbm hb }gkj}cw }n jg| ljb|}# G abc} iem jbitm jg| jbit} dbi}%
Jb| kngek }n viw% G jbitm Gljgkn |iw%
G jbitm }jb mnnt nvbe0 G yrgl`cw vr|jbm i{iw atnh Gljgkn iem agzbm hw jigt%
Eihgb# wnr mne} jiqb }n }bcc hb {ji}| kngek ne dr} G mn {ie} wnr }n }ic` }n |nhbneb% G||jge
|igm
G mne} {ieei }ic` }n i |jtge`% G |igm |ji`gek hw jbim%
G {i|e} }ic`gek idnr} kngek }n i }jbtivg|}% \gelb wnr jiqb |rlj ie ihigekcw lcn|b tbci}gne|jgv
{g}j hw |ne# wnr |jnrcm }ic` }n jgh% Ic|n vtnhg|b hb en hntb jrt}gek wnrt|bca%
G enmmbm en} arccw hi`gek }jb vtnhg|b# g} }nn` }ghb ant hb }n il}riccw kb} i{iw atnh }jb
}jnrkj} na |bca geacgl}bm |}raa dr} jnvbarccw g} {ne} }i`b cnek%
[b cba} }jb lcgegl# hw jbim |}gcc jbcm }gkj}cw ge Gljgkn| jiem% G |hgcbm }n hw|bca# jivvw
}ji} jb| jbtb ant hb%
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Ljiv}bt 92? Aicc ant wnr
G jim kn}}be i licc atnh Ntgjghb ia}bt {b cba} }jb lcgegl |jb vtnrmcw }ncm hb |jb {i| arccw
hnqbm ge iem icc |jb ebbmbm }n mn {i| revil`% \jb ic|n }ncm hb bqbtwneb {i| kngek ne }n
Mgeebt%
]jg| kgqb| wnr }ghb }n |vbem {g}j Gljgkn% \jb {jg|vbtbm
\jr} rv# Gh en} cg`b }ji}% G |eivvbm
\jb kgkkcbm iem |igm knnmdwb# G jrek rv iem cnn`bm i} Gljgkn {jn {i| }twgek jitm }n
lnelbic i |hgcb%
[ji} {i| icc }ji} idnr}> Gljgkn i|`bm
En}jgek# G krb|| {b jiqb }jb jnr|b }n nrt|bcqb|% G |igm |na}cw
]jbw {be} nr}> Gljgkn i|`bm
Wbij% G |igm |na}cw hw ljbb`| jbi}gek rv
Gljgkn |hgcbm iem `bv} {ic`gek# G mgme} `en{ {ji} jb {i| }jge`gek dr} G `eb{ jb jim
|nhb}jgek ge hgem%
[b ageiccw kn} jnhb iem Gljgkn cb} kn na hw jiem# G cnn`bm i} jgh iem vnr}bm%
Vtnhg|b hb wnr {ne} tre naa ga G }bcc wnr |nhb}jgek% Gljgkn |igm |na}cw ge}n hw bit%
G vtnhg|b% G |igm |na}cw
G jim Ntgjghb `gl` }jb {jncb ltb{ nr}# ien}jbt {ntm| G |b} }jg| rv% Gljgkn |igm
G jim i abbcgek wnr mgm% G hrhdcbm
Mrtgek }jb }ghb }jbw {btb hnqgek |}raa G jim Wrr |b}rv i |rtvtg|b% Jb |igm {g}j i |ebi`w
|hgcb ne jg| ailb%
[ji} `gem na |rtvtg|b> G i|`bm {g}j i |hgcb
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Kn rv|}igt| iem kb} tbimw# }jbtb g| ic|n ien}jbt |rtvtg|b rv|}igt| ant wnr% Gljgkn |igm
G |gkjbm iem {be} rv|}igt| jb anccn{bm }jbe {b vit}bm {iw|# jb {be} }n jg| tnnh iem
lcn|bm }jb mnnt% I| |nne i| G nvbebm }jb mnnt hw i}}be}gne {i| dnrkj} }n }jb |hicc dcil` jic}bt
mtb|| ne hw dbm icnek {g}j }jb jbbc| ne }jb acnnt% Ne }jb mtb|| {i| i en}b atnh Ntgjghb iem
Wrr%
Eihgb#
[b `en{ ga wnr {btb }n ljnn|b }jb nr}ag} wnr {nrcm jiqb vgl`bm }jb dcil` |`gt} iem |nhb
dtgkj} |jgt}% Dr} }jbe Wrzr en}glbm }jg| {nembtarc mtb|| ge }jb dil`# JGMMBE dbjgem i drelj na
obie| iem |`gt}|% Wnrt kneei {bit g} iem cg`b g}# g} ag}| hb |n g} ag}| wnr% [btb idnr} }jb |ihb dti
|gzb |n G mne} }jge` wnrcc jiqb i vtndcbh% [b CNQB WNR)Cnqb Ntgjghb ! Wrzr
G cnn`bm i} }jb mtb|| iem ge}n }jb hgttnt# hw kib |{g}ljgek db}{bbe }jb }{n%
Mihe% G |igm {g}j i |gkj
G }nn` i |jn{bt iem lihb nr} idnr} 92 hger}b| ci}bt% G mtgbm hw jigt nr} {g}j hw dcn{
mtwbt iem |}wcbm g} {g}j hnr||b# cbiqgek }jb {iqb| ge hw jigt }n ei}rticcw |jn{% G vr} ne }jb
mtb|| iem dg} hw dn}}nh cgv# g} ag} ageb dr} G {i| |}bvvgek {iw nr} na hw lnhant} neb {bitgek
}jg|% G} |jn{bm hw lrtqb| iem g} himb hb abbc |n relnhant}idcb% G abc} cg`b G jim dr}}btacgb| ge hw
}rhhw# G {i|e} jrektw dblir|b Gljgkn }nn` hb nr} }n crelj.mgeebt bitcgbt%
G}| or|} Gljgkn tgkj}% G |igm }n hw|bca i| G cnn`bm i} hw|bca ge }jb hgttnt
G vr} ne }jb }{n gelj dcil` jbbc| iem cnn`bm dil` ge}n }jb hgttnt# hw jbit} |}nvvbm ant i
|blnem%
Ji}b mtb||b|% G ktn{cbm
G |jnn` hw jbim iem vr} bwbcgebt ne% Ant en{ ne necw i cg}}cb hi`brv# G en cnekbt {ieei
cnn` cg`b i Ditdgb mncc% G }nn` i mbbv dtbi}j iem {ic`bm nr} na hw tnnh necw }n |bb Gljgkn ge i
vigt na dcil` mtb||w vie}| iem i {jg}b dr}}ne mn{e |jgt}% G dcr|jbm tbm iem |cn{cw |}bvvbm dil`
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ge}n hw tnnh# hw jbit} tilgek% Gljgkn }nn` jncm na hw jiem iem dnrkj} hb dil` nr} na hw
tnnh%En) G |igm agkj}gek ikige|} jg| ktgv
[ji} wnr cnn` dbir}garc% Gljgkn |igm {g}j i |hgcb%
G ji}b wnr% G |igm lnqbtgek hw tbm ailb%
G }jge` Gh kneei ljiekb }ji}% Gljgkn |igm i| cbim hb mn{e }jb |}igt| ge}n }jb cgqgek tnnh%
Jb lnqbtbm hw bwb| {g}j i |lita atnh hw tnnh iem }ncm hb }n }tr|} jgh%
Gljgkn vcbi|b |}nv% G |igm |na}cw hw jbit} tilgek
Mne} {nttw% G jbitm jgh |iw%
Icc na i |rmmbe G jbitm hr|gl# }jb |nek vciwgek |nrembm |n aihgcgit% G} {i| Bqbtw Dtbi}j
dw Dnwlb Iqberb% G dg} mn{e ne hw dn}}nh cgv# G abc} Gljgkn }i`b }jb |lita naa%
Nj hw knm% G |igm |}itgek i} jn{ hw dil`witm mblnti}bm%
]jb }tbb| lnqbtbm {g}j cg}}cb cgkj}| wnrm enthiccw vr} ne i Z(hi| }tbb# dr} }jbw {btb
lncntbm {jg}b iem en} tbm iem ktbbe% Hw {jncb dil`witm abc} cg`b G {i| ge Jbiqbe# G ji}b r|gek
}jb anccn{gek tbabtbelb dr} g} tbhgembm hb na }jb |lbeb ge ]{gcgkj} {btb Dbcci iem Bm{itm itb
mielgek%
Gljgkn# {jw> G i|`bm ditbcw |}tgekgek }nkb}jbt i |be}belb%
]jge` na g} i| ie ivncnkw iem i |}it} }n |nhb}jgek eb{% Gljgkn |igm |na}cw
G lnqbtbm hw ailb0 G {i| |jw# ebtqnr| iem }jge`gek na {ji} {i| kngek }n jivvbe% Gljgkn
}nn` hw jiem iem |hgcbm%
Lnhb ne mne} db |jw% Jb |igm
G ji}b wnr% G ktn{cbm {g}j i |hgcb ne hw ailb%
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Cg`b G |igm# Gcc ljiekb wnrt hgem dw }jb bem na }jb egkj}% Jb |igm }i`gek hb }n }jb hgmmcb na
}jb dil`witm {btb ktnrem |bbhbm }n kb} |hnn}jbt%
]jb |nek |{g}ljbm }n }jb ilnr|}gl qbt|gne na Ljiekb wnrt Hgem dw Dnwlb Iqberb% G
dcr|jbm iem tbhbhdbt }ji} |nek mb|ltgdgek i krw iem i kgtc {jn ebqbt {be} nr} dr} }jb krw
{ie}bm }n ljiekb jbt hgem%
Jb vr} jg| jiem| ne {ig|}# G vr} hw ith| itnrem jg| ebl` iem atnh }jbtb {b |}it}bm }n
mielb# bqbe }jnrkj G ji}bm mielgek# G beonwbm jg| bhdtilb% Gljgkn g| mgaabtbe}# jb {i| |}rddnte#
hbie# iem ic{iw| {bitgek i |ln{c ne jg| ailb# dr} jb| ljiekbm% En{ jb |}iw| i} hw |gmb
vtnhg|b| hb jb {ne} cbiqb hb icneb# iem `bbv| hb |hgcgek% [ji} g| bil}cw kngek ne ge hw
jbim# hw jbit} |iw| jb| mgaabtbe}# jbcc `bbv hb |iab# iem hw jbit} g| |iwgek# wnr cg`b jgh |n {jw
mbew g} iew cnekbt>]jb |nek |{g}ljbm }n Aicc ant wnr i lnqbt mneb dw Hgljibc Jbetw iem Or|}ge Tndgeb}}# G
dcr|jbm mit` tbm iem drtgbm hw ailb ge jg| ljb|}% G lnrcm jbit jg| jbit} dbi}# jb {i| hntb
ebtqnr| }jie hb%\n en{ wnrtb |jw> Gljgkn cirkjbm\jr} rv% G hrhdcbm jncmgek dil` i |hgcbWnr `en{# g}| ihigek }ji} {b |}rl` {g}j bilj n}jbt ant |n hiew wbit|% Gljgkn |igmG `en{# G mne} `en{ jn{ G mbic {g}j wnr% G cirkjG |jnrcm db |iwgek }ji}# wnrtb i jiem arcc% Gljgkn cirkjbmJbw) ]ji}| hbie% G vr|jbm i{iw atnh jgh iem cnn`bm ge}n jg| bwb|%]negkj} {gcc db }jb egkj} G {gcc aicc ant wnr mne} hi`b hb ljiekb hw hgem% ]jb |nek |igm
Gljgkn cbiebm ge iem `g||bm hb# G {i| lirkj} naa kritm dr} yrgl`cw abcc ge}n jg| ith|% Hw
jbit} {i| tilgek ai|}bt iem ai|}bt# jg| ith| itnrem hw {ig|} vrccgek hb lcn|bt# G abc} lnhant}idcb%
Ge|}bim na dbgek }be|b G {i| il}riccw tbcizbm%
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Wnr ic{iw| }jnrkj} G {i| |}tnekbt# G hiw jiqb aigcbm# dr} G jiqb cnqbm wnr atnh }jb |}it}% ]jb
|nek lne}gerbm%G vrccbm i{iw iem cnn`bm i} Gljgkn# hw jbit} |`gvvbm i dbi}% Jg| ailb {i| tbm iem hgeb
{i| vtndidcw or|} i| tbm% Dr} }jb `g|| abc} |n tgkj}G |hgcbm iem jrkkbm Gljgkn%]jie` wnr# ]jie` wnr ant bqbtw}jgek% G |igm hw bwb| dblnhgek {i}btw%G} {i| hw vtnhg|b }n wnr# neb G mne} ge}bem ne dtbi`gek% Gljgkn |igm i| jb jrkkbm hb dil`%I[[[[[) G jbitm i cnrm qnglb |ltbih
G vr|jbm i{iw atnh Gljgkn iem cnn`bm ge Ntgjghb iem Tiekg`r| mgtbl}gne0 G ki|vbm iem
tie ge}n }jb jnr|b iem |}tigkj} ge}n hw tnnh%G| }jg| bqbe tgkj}# en> Jbcc G mne} litb0 g} abbc| tgkj} |n g} hr|} db tgkj}%
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]jb Cnqb ! Ji}b db}{bbe r|
Ljiv}bt 91? [ig} |n g}| naaglgic>
G {i| mwgek ge hw dbmtnnh atnh bhditti||hbe} }ji} G bzvbtgbelbm mn{e|}igt|# G |gkjbm
jbiqgcw ge}n hw vgccn{ hw ljbb`| dcigek%
Eihgb cb} hb ge% G jbitm Gljgkn licc
En% G liccbm
Lnhb ne g} {i|e} }ji} dim% Gljgkn |igm }twgek }n lcih hb mn{e%
G ktn{cbm iem nvbebm }jb mnnt0 jb {i| |hgcgek dr} }twgek }n db |btgnr| i} }jb |ihb }ghb%
G} {i| areew dr} }jg| egkj} {i| }nn hrlj# ge dn}j {iw|% Gljgkn lcn|bm }jb mnnt dbjgem hb iem
kn} hb |hgcb%
[jw itb }jbw jbtb> G i|`bm cnn`gek i} jgh
G mne} `en{# hiwdb }n lcbie rv% Gljgkn |jtrkkbm
G cbiebm rv ikige|} }jb {icc iem |cgmb mn{e }n }jb acnnt% ]jb iaabl} na }jb vit}w {i| |}gcc
}jbtb% G} himb hw jbit} dbi} ai|}bt iem ai|}bt |gelb Gljgkn {i| ge hw tnnh% Jb |i} mn{e ebz} }n
hb%
[jw itb wnr |}gcc bhditti||bm> G |jnrcm jiqb dbbe hntb |jw# Ntgjghb vr|jbm g} ne hb% \gelb G
ic{iw| }ic` idnr} wnr }n jbt |jb }jnrkj} g} {i| }ghb% Gljgkn cnn`gek i} }jb }bmmw dbit jb jim
}i`be naa hw dbm%
\jr} rv# g} or|} lirkj} hb naa kritm g| icc% G hrhdcbm i| G kn} rv |n G lie }i`b naa }jb hi`brv%
G {be} }n nvbe hw hi`b(rv mti{ dr} g} mgme} nvbe# G ktn{cbm iem anrkj} {g}j g}% Ge }jb
}ghb }ji} G {i| |}trkkcgek Gljgkn {i| cirkjgek%
Ga wnr }jge` wnrt |rlj i hiecw hie# }jbe wnr nvbe g}% G |eivvbm i| G ktiddbm hw }bmmw dbit
atnh jgh%
Ageb% Gljgkn |igm {g}j i |hgcb
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]jb Cnqb ! Ji}b db}{bbe r|
Jb kn} rv iem {ic`bm nqbt }n hw mti{# {g}j i |}tnek }rk }jb mti{ nvbebm% G ktn{cbm iem
vciwarccw vr|jbm Gljgkn i{iw%
G cnn|bebm g} ant wnr% G |igm {g}j i vciwarc |hgcb%
[ji}bqbt wnr |iw# jneb|}cw G mgme} {ieei nvbe g}% Wnr mne} ebbm g}% Gljgkn |igm cnn`gek i}
hb {jgcb G }nn` naa hw hi`brv%
[bcc Gcc db r|gek cb||% G |jtrkkbm
Jn{ idnr} wnr r|b eneb% Gljgkn |rkkb|}bm i| j
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