help! i'm the parent of a tech saavy teen!
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Integrity Computer Concepts
Help! I’m the parent of a tech-savvy kid! Tech safety for parents
facebook.com/iccguru
HELP!!
The Burnetts
Proverbs 22:6
“Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it”
What are we going to learn today?
Session 1 “WHAT”• What kids are doing online• Where technology is going• What to look for
Session 2 “HOW”• Practical filters• Monitoring applications• Commonsence rules to put into place at home
Q & A
Current Statistics• Teens spend about 5 hours a day online
• 15% have met up in person somebody they met online
• 17% have hacked into a friends social media account or email
• 25% of teens have cheated on a test using a mobile phone
• 32% have accessed pornography online (purposely)
• Only 50% of kids have parental controls on their computers
• 70% of teens hide their online behavior from parents
• Parents MUST stay in the know. We can not give up!
Current Statistics
Going up
100%
Session 1What in the world are my kids doing
online and HOW do I keep up?
Social Networking
Social Networking
3 Rules for Social Networking
• Know the platform• Follow your child• Know their password
Social Networking
Social Networking
• Turn off public sharing• Turn off GPS tagging• Talk about what they are posting• Follow their Instagram feed
Social Networking
Facebook and Twitter
Social Networking
Vine
• 6 seconds of looping video• Owned by Twitter• Easy to post & find porn on Vine
Social Networking
Social Media Clean up!•Talk to your child
•Google their name•Review all their profiles
•Help them remove unused profiles•Don’t forget the blogs…
Pornography
• 1 in 9 websites online are pornographic
• Put a filter program on ANY computer that your child will use.
Pornography
• Family Computer• Laptop• Cell phone• iPad / Tablet• Game console• Friends house
• Put a filter program on ANY device that your child will use, especially when they are young.
File Sharing
• FrostWire
• Shareaza
• Vuse
• eMule
• BitTorrent
• Limewire
• BitComet
• Kazaa
• uTorrent
• Ares
File Sharing
Anonymity
Secret
Whisper
Yik Yak
• 4 months old (March 2014)• Mostly east coast & Southern CA• 400,000 users• Cross / Twitter and SnapChat• Designed for college students• Completely anonymous• Share with 100 up to 10,000• a VIRTUAL bathroom wall
Cyber Bullying1) Ask the tough uncomfortable questions!
Ask “What if…” questions.
2) Keep the laptop and cell phone out of the bedroom for as long as possible.
3) Look for the signs of bullying. Depression, excessive sleeping, complains of headaches / stomach aches.
4) Remove apps that are commonly used for bullying.
5) Look at your kids texts. Monitor their apps.
Cyber Bullying
Online Predators
Online Predators
Secrecy is the predators greatest weapon
Communication is a parentsgreatest defense.
Online Predators
2 questions predators always ask
1) Where is your computer?2) Are you alone?
Online Predators
Catfishingsomeone who pretends to be someone they're not using Facebook or
other social media to create false identities, particularly to pursue deceptive online romances.
SextortionWhen a person uses guilt, power, or knowledge of certain secrecy, to
force another person into having sex or performing sexual favors.
Cyber Bullying
Cyber Bullying
Rebecca Ann Sedwick12 Years old. Died from suicide 8/10/13
Cyber Bullying
Danger! Beware!
Completely Anonymous
Sexting
Definition…
Sending of sexually explicit photos or text through one’s mobile phone to friends or suitors.
Sexting
Hook up Apps
Tinder, Blendr, Grindr, Skout, and Swoon
Hook up Apps
Down
Pure
We are the first generation of parents that
have had to deal with the new phenomenon!
Colleges and employers are
looking!
Session 2How do I keep my kids
safe from the ever changing world of
technology!?!
Virus – Malware - Phishing
Virus – Malware - Phishing
KidZui
Passwords
The most common problem
Location….Location….Location…
Cell phones at night…
Cell phones at night…
Zip Mini
thejoyfactory.comKeyword: integrity
Cell phones at night…
Scott’s low cost budget version…..
The iBasket
Contracts!
• Cell phone contract• www.iccguru.com/cellphonecontract.doc
• Computer Contract• www.iccguru.com/computercontract.doc
Software you can use to keep your
kids safe
Google and YouTube
• Google’s “Safe Search”
Google and YouTube
• YouTube’s “Safety Mode”
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• Set internet usage rules• Disable ALL internet on phone• See list of currently installed apps• See internet usage per app• Weekly reports, emailed• http://curbi.com/c/iccguru
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Scott’s Final Tips
1)Educate yourselves on social
media whenever possible
2)Know the log-ins of all your
children's accounts
3)Take away technology at bedtime
4)Talk about consequences of social
media
5)Consider some monitoring
software
Connect with your KIDS
• Facebook / instagram• Texting• Face-Time / Skype• iPad games• Game consoles WITH your kids
Connect with your KIDS
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