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GATHER with us as Scott Burnett, owner of Integrity Computer Concepts, gives a seminar on how quickly a child online can be tossed into an unsafe situation. Scott has spent years giving Cyber Technology and Internet Safety Seminars, and his work with schools, law enforcement and parents gives him a unique perspective. About the Author: Scott Burnett is a technology expert with a heart for parents. He and his wife have 4 young children and have been involved with youth ministry at their church for 15 years. Before starting Integrity Computer Concepts in 2006, Scott was leading a cutting edge Technology Team on staff at Saddleback Church. His background in technology, experience with youth ministry and passion for parents have uniquely shaped him to teach about the subject of online safety. Scott speaks to groups all over California when he is not helping parents one on one deal with the challenges that the ever changing world of technology brings.

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Integrity Computer Concepts

Help! I’m the parent of a tech-savvy kid! Tech safety for parents

facebook.com/iccguru

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HELP!!

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The Burnetts

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Proverbs 22:6

“Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it”

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What are we going to learn today?

Session 1 “WHAT”• What kids are doing online• Where technology is going• What to look for

Session 2 “HOW”• Practical filters• Monitoring applications• Commonsence rules to put into place at home

Q & A

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Current Statistics• Teens spend about 5 hours a day online

• 15% have met up in person somebody they met online

• 17% have hacked into a friends social media account or email

• 25% of teens have cheated on a test using a mobile phone

• 32% have accessed pornography online (purposely)

• Only 50% of kids have parental controls on their computers

• 70% of teens hide their online behavior from parents

• Parents MUST stay in the know. We can not give up!

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Current Statistics

Going up

100%

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Session 1What in the world are my kids doing

online and HOW do I keep up?

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Social Networking

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Social Networking

3 Rules for Social Networking

• Know the platform• Follow your child• Know their password

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Social Networking

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Social Networking

Instagram

• Turn off public sharing• Turn off GPS tagging• Talk about what they are posting• Follow their Instagram feed

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Social Networking

Facebook and Twitter

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Social Networking

Vine

• 6 seconds of looping video• Owned by Twitter• Easy to post & find porn on Vine

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Social Networking

Social Media Clean up!•Talk to your child

•Google their name•Review all their profiles

•Help them remove unused profiles•Don’t forget the blogs…

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Pornography

• 1 in 9 websites online are pornographic

• Put a filter program on ANY computer that your child will use.

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Pornography

• Family Computer• Laptop• Cell phone• iPad / Tablet• Game console• Friends house

• Put a filter program on ANY device that your child will use, especially when they are young.

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File Sharing

• FrostWire

• Shareaza

• Vuse

• eMule

• BitTorrent

• Limewire

• BitComet

• Kazaa

• uTorrent

• Ares

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File Sharing

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Anonymity

Secret

Whisper

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Yik Yak

• 4 months old (March 2014)• Mostly east coast & Southern CA• 400,000 users• Cross / Twitter and SnapChat• Designed for college students• Completely anonymous• Share with 100 up to 10,000• a VIRTUAL bathroom wall

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Cyber Bullying1) Ask the tough uncomfortable questions!

Ask “What if…” questions.

2) Keep the laptop and cell phone out of the bedroom for as long as possible.

3) Look for the signs of bullying. Depression, excessive sleeping, complains of headaches / stomach aches.

4) Remove apps that are commonly used for bullying.

5) Look at your kids texts. Monitor their apps.

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Cyber Bullying

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Online Predators

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Online Predators

Secrecy is the predators greatest weapon

Communication is a parentsgreatest defense.

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Online Predators

2 questions predators always ask

1) Where is your computer?2) Are you alone?

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Online Predators

Catfishingsomeone who pretends to be someone they're not using Facebook or

other social media to create false identities, particularly to pursue deceptive online romances.

SextortionWhen a person uses guilt, power, or knowledge of certain secrecy, to

force another person into having sex or performing sexual favors. 

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Cyber Bullying

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Cyber Bullying

Rebecca Ann Sedwick12 Years old. Died from suicide 8/10/13

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Cyber Bullying

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Danger! Beware!

Completely Anonymous

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Sexting

Definition…

Sending of sexually explicit photos or text through one’s mobile phone to friends or suitors.

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Sexting

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Hook up Apps

Tinder, Blendr, Grindr, Skout, and Swoon

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Hook up Apps

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Pure

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We are the first generation of parents that

have had to deal with the new phenomenon!

Colleges and employers are

looking!

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Session 2How do I keep my kids

safe from the ever changing world of

technology!?!

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Virus – Malware - Phishing

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Virus – Malware - Phishing

KidZui

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Passwords

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The most common problem

Location….Location….Location…

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Cell phones at night…

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Cell phones at night…

Zip Mini

thejoyfactory.comKeyword: integrity

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Cell phones at night…

Scott’s low cost budget version…..

The iBasket

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Contracts!

• Cell phone contract• www.iccguru.com/cellphonecontract.doc

• Computer Contract• www.iccguru.com/computercontract.doc

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Software you can use to keep your

kids safe

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Google and YouTube

• Google’s “Safe Search”

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Google and YouTube

• YouTube’s “Safety Mode”

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Virtual Parent SoftwareHelps Supervise child's online activities

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• Set internet usage rules• Disable ALL internet on phone• See list of currently installed apps• See internet usage per app• Weekly reports, emailed• http://curbi.com/c/iccguru

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Scott’s Final Tips

1)Educate yourselves on social

media whenever possible

2)Know the log-ins of all your

children's accounts

3)Take away technology at bedtime

4)Talk about consequences of social

media

5)Consider some monitoring

software

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Connect with your KIDS

• Facebook / instagram• Texting• Face-Time / Skype• iPad games• Game consoles WITH your kids

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Connect with your KIDS

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