boarders: why parenting matters - helping families...

Julie Hodges PhD Parenting and Family

Support Centre University of Queensland

Boarders: Why parenting matters HFCC Sydney 2014

Overview

OWhy study boarders? OBoarders and developmental outcomes OThe in loco parentis role of staff OComparison between staff and boarders’ perceptions of the boarding environment O Parent training for boarding school staff? OQuestions

Why study boarders?

How many?

Currently around 20,000 young Australians aged 12-17 years live in the in loco parentis care of boarding school staff for 38 weeks each year.

Who boards?

O Geographical isolation O Parents’ employment O Family disruption O Overseas students O Specialised courses O Character building O Other

Reasons for boarding

Boarders’ developmental outcomes – what the

literature says

Polarised perspectives The literature presents polarised

perspectives on boarder outcomes. ‘independence’ Vs ‘emotional deprivation’

Independence

O The Association of Boarding Schools (2004) o Interviews over 16-month period o Satisfied with academic experience o Helped develop discipline, independence,

maturity o Well prepared for college life o Advance more quickly in their careers, more

philanthropic ‘ The principles that guide my life are the

principles that I learned at boarding school’

Emotional Deprivation

O Duffell (2000, 2006); Schaverien (2004, 2011); Poynting & Donaldson (2005)

o ‘Boarding School Survivors’ ‘Even now I cannot act on my feelings…… but I

am very efficient at acting on conclusions arrived at by logic’

‘I am too well trained to be angry, but I am sad’.

‘The Making of Them’ (Duffell, 2001)

The boarding environment and the role of boarding staff

The parenting role of staff

OSociological research found evidence for a direct comparison between the home and boarding environments (White, 2004)

O‘Regardless of their role boarding staff have the vital responsibility for the nurture and welfare of boarders (Hawkes, 2001; Holgate, 2007)

In loco parentis

O‘in place of a parent O ‘having or taking on the responsibilities of

a parent when dealing with somebody else's child’

The parenting role of staff?

O ‘Working in a Boarding School is like looking after a big family where the staff are the parents’ (Director of Boarding, June 2013)

O ‘Boarding staff are professionals not parents or friends’ (Lawyer, September 2013)

Is the boarding environment influential in boarders’

development?

Home away from home?

Comparison between staff and boarders’ perceptions of the boarding environment

o conflict o social support o boarding school climate o 2 open-ended questions - enjoy? - difficult or don’t enjoy?

Who participated?

121 staff and 415 boarders from nine

boarding schools across South East Queensland, Australia

Demographics – Study 1

Staff O 20 – 60 years M=33 years O 57% parents O <1 -15 years in boarding Boarders O 13-17 years M=15 years O <1 – 5 years boarding

Conflict (low scores = less conflict)

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Boarders Staff

Boarding School Climate (high scores = more positive climate)

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Boarders Staff

Social Support (high scores = more support)

0 2 4 6 8 10

Staff give good advice

Make it ok to ask questions

Help solve problems

Are fair to me

Listen to me - mad or upset

Demonstrate care

Demonstrate understanding

Answer my questions

Praise me

Help when I need it

Staff Boarders

“Boarding makes you more independent and free thinking” “it teaches me to respect others and listen to their opinions” (White, 2004)

Boarding is equivalent to socially condoned child abuse (Duffell, 2005; Schaverien, 2011)

A ‘parenting program’ for Boarding School Staff

O The importance of the in loco parentis role

O Complex boundaries between staff and boarders

O Consistent application of strategies

Tailoring the Teen Triple P Parenting Program

STRATEGY DESCRIPTION

APPLICATION TO THE BOARDING CONTEXT

Spending time with boarders

Spending frequent, brief amounts of time when no pressure to get other things done

Opportunities for boarders to enjoy adult contact; to demonstrate an interest in boarders

Talking to boarders

Having brief conversations about topics that are of interest to them

Promoting opportunity to voice opinions and to discuss issues and interests important to them

Showing appropriate affection

Adult-to-teenager displays of affection that don’t cause embarrassment

Demonstrate appropriate ways of showing affection

Adapting the strategies

Evaluating the program

O 9 Queensland boarding schools O Schools matched on population

and sex of boarders then randomly allocated to condition

O N = 58 staff members participated in the staff training course

Outcomes

Variable Pre-intervention Post-intervention Difference score

I WL I WL I WL

Competence

78.69

80.96

88.83

86.04

10.13*

5.08*

Self-efficacy and role satisfaction

34.96

40.59

36.47

38.42

2.65*

-1.58

Adjustment Stress Anxiety Depression

7.76 9.01 4.07 2.44

3.07 4.85 2.41 .67

5.67 6.23 3.04 2.06

3.56 4.53 1.72 .95

-2.09 -2.78* -1.01 -.57

-.41 -.32 -.69 .18

Competence – further analyses

O Intervention group reported significantly greater increase in 13 of 15 competencies measured

O Greatest improvements in: - Establishing positive relationships

- Promoting boarders’ development - Negotiating behaviour contracts to

promote self-control

Satisfaction ratings

6.45

6.32

6.2

6.056.1

6.156.2

6.256.3

6.356.4

6.456.5

Activeparticipation

Overall rating Corse Content

The Making of Them

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t1GI4L-bNZE

Questions?