a man’s secret every girl should know

A Man’s Secret Every Girl Should Know

"I don’t want to talk about my ex,” usually means - It was a terrible mistake. I don’t want to give you a glimpse of how stupid I can be.

Men are action oriented. They don’t sing ‘I love you’ like girls. If a man is picking you up from a landmark, taking you to the hospital, or doing anything that makes your world a better place, it means he loves you.

• Men might take time to commit but once they are in, they take it seriously. They want to make sure that they are onboard for good.

• Men strengthen their bonds by indulging into ‘activities’, rather than sharing thoughts or feelings. Sports, an activity, makes a man feel closer to his buddies. Sex, an activity, makes a man feel closer to his partner.

• Do all men watch porn? The answer is: just about every guy has either watched porn or watches porn. Period. Men think about sex a lot, twice as often as women do. However, thinking is not same as doing, you know.

• Men don’t think of sex ‘all the time’. All-the-time is an exaggeration. When a chef squeezes a lemon, he isn’t thinking of a woman’s breast. Guys aren’t always up for sex. Just like women, men are often stressed up by the demands of work.

• It bruises a man’s ego, if he is not able to please his partner. Men want women to come up clear of what they like or don’t like. A man knows that he’ll feel good if his girl feels good. Most men worry about their physique, technique and stamina. Performance anxiety.

• A man’s ego is really fragile. Men are open to criticism only if they have had their ego massaged. Men are supposed to be manly. It destroys them when women don’t see them that way.

• To a man, man-time is sacred. Men want to go on a two-week road trip with their school friends and do silly boy stuff. When a man is given space to nurture his individuality, he gives more.

• Men let go faster than women and don’t linger on negative experiences for long. A girl keeps a track record of kisne kisse kya kaha aur kyu kaha, which is very irritating to a centralized mind of a man.

• Most men learn from their fathers. They learn about their relationship roles by watching and listening to their fathers. How the father relates to his mother can predict how a man will relate to his wife.

• Men don’t pick upon subtle cues like the tone of voice or a facial expression. Far worse, it is most difficult for them to make out a ‘sad’ face. A sullen expression doesn’t account towards sadness. For them, a face is sad when there are tears. No tears means no sadness. Better still, if you want to get noticed, cry out loud!

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