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ContentsFavorites of Parents with Kids Birth Through Six . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2

Favorites of Parents with Kids Seven Through Twelve . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5

Favorites of Parents with Teens . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 8

Favorites for All Ages . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11

Favorites of Educators and Other Professionals . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13

Teach Love and Logic . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17

Special Topics . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21

Hire a Speaker . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 29

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The Two Rules of Love and Logic®

Rule #1:Adults set limits without anger, lectures, threats or repeated warnings. When we describe what we will do or allow, that’s

setting a limit. When we tell a child what he/she should or shouldn’t do, that’s a possible fight.

Rule #2:When children cause problems, adults hand these problems back in loving ways. We hand the problem back by replacing anger and

lectures with a strong dose of empathy followed by the logical consequence.

Dr. Charles Fay suggests, “Our parenting and teach-ing packages are full of specially selected materials designed for learning how to apply the Rules of Love and Logic in simple, manageable segments.” You’ll find these packages on pages 2, 5, 8, 11, 13, 16, & 20.

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Love and Logic Magic When Little Ones Leave You Speechless Charles Fay, Ph.D. & Jim FayCD & mp3 download . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3

Helicopters, Drill Sergeants and Consultants Jim Fay & Charles Fay, Ph.D. CD & mp3 download . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4

Teens and Technology Charles Fay, Ph.D. & Jim FayCD & mp3 download . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9

Love and Logic Parenting On-LineTM Jim Fay & Charles Fay, Ph.D. webinar . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .11

Real Talk on Technology Charles Fay, Ph.D. CD & mp3 download . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12

Teaching with Love and Logic Jim Fay & Charles Fay, Ph.D. book & e-Book . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14

Bullying: When Your Child is the Target Charles Fay, Ph.D. book & e-Book . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 23

Dealing with Defiance Magnet . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 28

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From: Love and Logic Institute, Inc.<loveandlogic.com>To: [email protected]: Tuesday, July 22, 2008 3:41 AMSubject: Free Love and Logic Tip – Motivating our Kids to Try

Motivating our Kids to TryWhy saying, “Just try it, it’s easy” isn’t a good idea.

Has someone ever said to you, “Just try it, it’s easy!” and then you found-out thetask they coaxed you into trying was painfully difficult? Did this leave you feelingexceptionally capable or downright stupid…and embarrassed?

When this happens to the average adult, it doesn’t take long for them to conclude two things:• This person who’s trying to help me is nuts…and definitely not to be trusted!• Why should I try if I can’t even handle the easy stuff?

Quite frequently I overhear well-meaning parents and educators using the “Just try it,it’s easy!” approach in an attempt to urge a reluctant child into trying something they’re afraid of. When the childfinds the task easy, all is right with the world. When they don’t, they’re confronted with the pain of seeing thatthey might be so slow that they can’t even do something really, really “easy!”

How often does this need to happen before our kids lose faith in our word? How often does this have to happen before our children lose faith in their own abilities? Are you willing to take this sort of risk with your kids?

In my book, From Bad Grades to a Great Life, I teach a far safer approach. Experiment with asking your child:

A lot of kids find this kind of challenging. Would you try this and let me know what you think?

If you hear, “It’s too hard. I can’t do it,” smile, pat them on the back and ask: Aren’t you glad that I don’t believe that?

“Aren’t you glad that I don’t believe that?” represents an exceptionally powerful way of communicating to your children that they have what it takes to succeed. Delivered in question format its effectiveness becomes supercharged. Remember: Questions create thinking. Statements create resistance.

You may also experiment with asking another question:

And…aren’t you glad that I’m going to love you the same even if you have to work really hard to figure this out?

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From: Love and Logic Institute, Inc.<loveandlogic.com>To: [email protected]: Tuesday, July 22, 2004 3:41 AMSubject: Free Love and Logic Tip – Why Do Questions Make Our Kids Think?

Why Do Questions Make Our Kids Think?How can we make sure that our kids are doing their fair share of thethinking? How can we keep ourselves from getting pulled into working harder on their lives than they are? How can we help thembecome prepared for a world full of decisions and consequences?

Replace statements with questions.

Some of the most powerful moments come when we empower kidsby asking them what they plan to do about various situations instead of telling themwhat they need to do. The implied message we send says, “You are smart. You cancome up with the answer.” In my CD, Shaping Self-Concept, I teach that kids who aregiven this gift are far more likely to succeed in school and in life.

On top of that, the human brain has a hard time ignoring the questions it hears. It wants to search for the answers – it just can’t help itself. What a gift we give kids when we get them to think versus telling them what to do.

A child who is redirected with the question, “Are you sure this is the right place for that behavior?” will respond much better than the child who is told, “Stop that!” One method invites thinking; the other invites resistance and battles for control. Which do you prefer?

In either case, we are enticing young brains to do lots of thinking by simply asking questions rather than stating “how it is.” So, do your kids’ brains a favor and feed them a steady diet of questions. Won’t it be fun to see the smoke start rolling out of their ears?

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Early Childhood Package It’s never too early to use Love and Logic; it even works with the teeny tiny ones! Turn the terrible two’s into terrific two’s with this package. Contents include:• Love and Logic Magic for

Early Childhood – Book, CD or e-Book – NEW! AWARD WINNER!• Toddlers & Pre-Schoolers – CD or mp3• Keeping Cool When Parenting Heats Up – CD or mp3• Love and Logic Magic® When Little Ones Leave You Speechless – CD or mp3 – NEW!

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Package with Love and Logic Magic for Early Childhood in e-Book form; Toddlers & Preschoolers, Keeping Cool When Parenting Heats Up and Love and Logic Magic ® When Little Ones Leave You Speechless in mp3 download form .05-94-054 | (1) e-Book & (3) mp3 downloads . . . . . $55 .00

Early Childhood Package

The Core of Love and Logic: EmpathyIn all of our packages, you’ll see how providing genuine empathy before delivering a consequence can make the difference between a child learning responsibility or learning resentment.People who are successful with this skill make it easier by using just one empathetic statement that fits their personality, their culture, etc.

• This is so sad.• Oh man. That’s too bad.• Dang. That’s awful.

• What a bummer.• That’s never good.• This stinks.


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Raising Happy Responsible Kids

Love and Logic Magic® When Kids Drain Your EnergyJim Fay

Get ready to laugh, learn, and take the exhaustion and frustra-

tion out of parenting. When it comes to helping parents raise honest, responsible, successful kids, Jim Fay is the master! The stories and examples on this audio will give parents techniques they can use in the heat of battle ... without breaking a sweat. Parenting should be full of love and fun. With Jim Fay’s help, you will get the skills and techniques to make it happen! 09-94-576 | audio CD, 60 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $13 .9512-94-576 | mp3 download, 60 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $11 .95

Tickets to SuccessJim Fay

With lighthearted real-life exam-ples, Jim Fay shares his parenting techniques that help children:

• Build strong self-concept• Improve their problem-solving skills• Become wise decision makers02-94-028 | book, 112 pp . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .$5 .9515-94-028E | e-Book, 112 pp . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .$4 .15

Love and Logic Magic® for Early ChildhoodPractical Parenting from Birth to Six Years

Award Winning Book

Jim Fay and Charles Fay, Ph.D.

Let Jim Fay and Charles Fay, Ph.D., help you start your child off on the right foot. The tools in Love and Logic Magic® for Early Childhood will give you the building blocks you need to create children who grow up to be responsible, successful teens and adults. And as a bonus you will enjoy every stage of your child’s life and look forward to sharing a life-time of joy with them.09-94-183 | 4 audio CD set, 255 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . $17 .9502-94-145 | book, 201 pp . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $17 .9515-94-145 | e-Book, 201 pp . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $12 .50 Toddlers and

Pre-SchoolersLove and Logic® Parenting for Early Childhood: 6 Months to 5 Years

Jim Fay and Foster W. Cline, M.D.

Jim Fay and Foster W. Cline, M.D., share the secrets to taking the frustration, stress, and confusion out of par-enting toddlers. Get started early using Love and Logic!09-94-282 | 2 audio CD set, 114 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $15 .9512-94-282 | mp3 download, 114 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $13 .95

Keeping Cool When Parenting Heats UpTips for Staying Calm and Collected

Charles Fay, Ph.D. and Leah Wells

In this audio you will learn:• How to avoid common mistakes you make while

trying to do the right thing for your kids• How to stay calm when your kids are pushing your

buttons• The importance of empathy09-94-933 | audio CD, 51 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $9 .9512-94-933 | mp3 download, 51 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $9 .95

Love and Logic Magic When Little Ones Leave Your SpeechlessCharles Fay, Ph.D. and Jim Fay

Every parent of a young child knows that there are times when they say or do things that leave us completely speechless. The Love and Logic approach is loved by parents world-wide because it provides the actual words to use...and the steps to take...when this happens.

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Taking the Mayhem Out of Mornings: Tips for Parents of Younger Children• Have “practice mornings” when you’re not in a hurry.• Make a guide for them by taking pictures of them doing

all the things they need to do in the morning and putting these on the refrigerator.

• Set limits with enforceable statements: “Breakfast will be on the table until the timer goes ding.” “I give treats to kids who brush their teeth.” “My car is leaving in just a little while. Will you be going with your clothes on your body or your clothes in a bag?”• Enforce these limits with plenty of loving empathy.


Love and Logic Solutions for Early ChildhoodCharles Fay, Ph.D.

Dr. Fay will present time tested strategies for parents with children ages six and younger. You’ll learn the basics of Love and Logic for little ones, as well as specific tips for:• Taming tantrums and melt-downs• Wiping-out potty training problems• Ending morning madnesstw-85-0000013 | webinar, 120 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $29 .9509-94-503 | 2 audio CD set, 120 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $15 .9512-94-511 | mp3 download, 120 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . $13 .95

Simple Parenting Strategies For Raising Great Kids in Complicated Times


This DVD teaches how to:• Get your kids to listen the first time you ask• Avoid power struggles over chores• Use techniques far more powerful than spanking• Help your kids cope with bullying and teasing

14-94-925 | DVD, 120 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $24 .95

Painless Parenting for the Preschool Years IICharles Fay, Ph.D.

In this fast-paced video, Dr. Charles Fay takes a humorous look at the trials and tribulations of parenting young children. He uses entertaining stories and real-life examples while giving

time-tested techniques for:• Dealing with misbehavior in public • Handling temper tantrums and melt-downs • Teaching them to listen the first time you ask • Taking power-struggles out of bedtime • Responding to whining, back-talk or arguing • Turning meals into fun times rather than frantic ones• and many other everyday challenges14-94-984 | DVD, 120 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $29 .95

Sibling RivalryStrategies for Teaching Your Kids How to Get Along

Charles Fay, Ph.D.

Are your dreams of a peaceful family life being

shattered by your children’s non-stop arguing and fight-ing? Well you’re not alone. It’s the most ancient form of conflict known to mankind… Sibling Rivalry! Learn how to turn those inevitable sibling spats into priceless learning opportunities for your kids, and re-claim the peaceful family life every responsible and loving parent deserves.09-94-932 | 2 audio CD set, 110 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $21 .9512-94-932 | mp3 download, 110 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . $19 .95

Helicopters, Drill Sergeants, and ConsultantsParenting Styles and the Messages They Send

Jim Fay & Charles Fay, Ph.D.

What kind of a parent are you - a helicopter, drill sergeant or consultant? Each parenting style sends a powerful message to your child about what he or she is, or is not, capable of.09-94-268 | audio CD, 80 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .$13 .9512-94-268 | mp3 download, 80 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .$11 .95

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Ages 7-12 Parenting PackageThis package contains resources that will help reduce your stress and make parenting fun again. Contents include:• Parenting with Love & Logic – Book, CD or e-Book• Parenting for Success – Book or e-Book• Preventing Teen Rebellion – CD or mp3• Love and Logic Magic When Kids Drain Your Energy – CD or mp3

Package with Parenting with Love and Logic and Parenting for Success in book form; Preventing Teen Rebellion and Love and Logic Magic When Kids Drain Your Energy in CD form .05-94-060 | (2) books & (2) audio CD sets . . . . . . . . . $60 .00

Package with Parenting for Success in book form; Parenting with Love and Logic, Preventing Teen Rebellion and Love and Logic Magic When Kids Drain Your Energy in CD form05-94-061 | (1) book & (3) audio CD sets . . . . . . . . . . $60 .00

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Ages 7-12 Parenting Package

How to Destroy the Teaching Value of Logical Consequences• Say, “This will teach you a good lesson.”• Display anger or disgust.• Explain the value of the consequence.• Moralize or threaten.• Talk too much.• Feel sorry and give in.• Contrive a consequence for the purpose of

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Four Steps to ResponsibilityTechniques to Lead Children to Responsible Decision Making

Jim Fay

• You can quit fighting with your kids• Let them make lots of mistakes while

the price tag is low• Teach them to solve their own problems• Help them discover good decision-making skills• They will build high self-concept• Stop screaming them to bed09-94-052 | audio CD, 80 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $13 .9512-94-052 | mp3 download, 80 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $11 .95

Love and Logic Magic® When Kids Leave You SpeechlessJim Fay and Charles Fay, Ph.D.

Great comebacks every parent needs. Jim Fay and Charles Fay, Ph.D., have put together a book that will give you

the actual words when your kids say things like: • “It’s not fair!”• “But why?”• “None of my friends do chores.”• And more!02-94-045 | book, 300 pp . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $16 .9515-94-045E | e-Book, 300 pp . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $11 .85

Preventing Teen RebellionSimple, Practical Techniques You Can Do Now to Prevent Problems Later (Formerly titled “Trouble-free Teens”)


This audio presents techniques to reduce or eliminate teenage rebellion and helps parents avoid typical pre-teen and teen power struggles.09-94-371 | audio CD, 60 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .$13 .9512-94-371 | mp3 download, 60 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .$11 .95

Love and Logic Magic® When Kids Drain Your EnergyJim Fay

Get ready to laugh, learn, and take the exhaustion and frustra-

tion out of parenting. When it comes to helping parents raise honest, responsible, successful kids, Jim Fay is the master! The stories and examples on this audio will give parents techniques they can use in the heat of battle ... without breaking a sweat. Parenting should be full of love and fun. With Jim Fay’s help, you will get the skills and techniques to make it happen! 09-94-576 | audio CD, 60 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $13 .9512-94-576 | mp3 download, 60 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $11 .95

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Raise children who are self-confident, motivated, and ready for the real world with this win-win approach to parenting. Your children will learn to solve their own problems while gaining the confidence they need to meet life’s challenges, while you establish healthy control—without resorting to anger, threats, nagging or exhausting power struggles.09-94-864 | 7 audio CD set, 455 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $17 .95

02-89-540 | hardcover book, 301 pp . . . . . . . . . . . . . .$24 .99

15-89-540E | e-Book, 301 pp . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $17 .50

02-94-436 | Ser Padres con Amor y Logica book, 247 pp . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .$24 .99

Parenting for SuccessHappy, High Achieving kids (Formerly titled “Parenting Kids to Become the People Employers Really Want and America Desperately Needs!)

Charles Fay, Ph.D.

Unless you’ve got the finances to set your kids up with a lifetime trust fund, they’re going to end up spending most of their adult lives working. Wouldn’t it be a great gift if your children grew up to enjoy work... rather than dread it? 02-94-967 | book, 240 pp . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $17 .9515-94-967E | e-Book, 240 pp . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $12 .50



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This book is full of great information to help parents enjoy their kids.

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Turning Your Words Into Gold

Unenforceable Statements

Don’t talk to me in that tone of voice!

Write neatly.

For Pete’s sake! Take out the trash!

Quit calling those kids names.

Stop all of the bickering!

Enforceable Statements

I’ll listen when your voice is as calm as mine.

I grade papers that I can read.

I’ll be happy to do the extra things I do for you when you’re getting your chores done.

You may stay on the playground as long as you aren’t causing a problem.

I charge $2 per minute for listening to brothers and sisters fight.

You can teach parents and educators in your com-munity how to use enforceable statements…and much, much more by becoming a facilitator of one of our popular Love and Logic training curricula. See pages 17, 18 & 19.

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Helicopters, Drill Ser-geants, and ConsultantsParenting Styles and the Messages They Send

Jim Fay & Charles Fay, Ph.D.

This great introduction to Love and Logic will help you identify your parenting style, the message it sends, and stress-free techniques to help you be-come a “consultant” parent .

09-94-268 | audio CD, 80 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .$13 .9512-94-268 | mp3 download, 80 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .$11 .95

“Didn’t I Tell You to Take Out the Trash?!”Teaching Kids the Value of MoneyTechniques for Getting Kids to Do Chores Without Hassles

Jim Fay & Foster W. Cline, M.D.

Are you tired of arguing and fighting with you child over chores? This audio will help you!


Bullying: When Your Child is the TargetCharles Fay, Ph.D.

What would happen if more young people knew how to peacefully strip bullies of their unhealthy power? How do we move in this direction when the kids we know and love get bullied? Bullying hurts. It hurts our kids, and we hurt for them.

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Love Me Enough to Set Some LimitsJim Fay

Building your child’s self-esteem with thoughtful limit setting.

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Package with Parenting Teens with Love and Logic in book form;Developing Character in Teens, Hormones & Wheels and Teens and Technology in CD form .05-94-070 | (1) book & (3) audio CD sets . . . . . . . . . . $65 .00

Package with Parenting Teens with Love & Logic, Hormones & Wheels, Developing Character in Teens and Teens and Technology in CD form .05-94-071 | (3) audio CD sets . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $65 .00

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Some Tips for Getting Jobs Done Without Reminders1. Give them a reasonable deadline: “ Just have the living room dusted by tomorrow

at 6 p.m.”2. Hope they either refuse or forget…so they can learn.3. Avoid lectures, threats or reminders.4. Do the chore for them. 5. Let empathy and a consequence do the teaching.

“This is such a bummer. I did your chores. Now I don’t have the energy to drive you to your friend’s house.”



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Love and Logic House Rules• Treat your parents with the same respect with which they treat you.• Everybody in the house does his or her fair share of the work.• Be prepared to solve any problem you make for others. The family understanding is that kids can solve the

problem in almost any way, provided the solution does not make a problem for anyone else on the planet.• Be prepared, at 18 years of age, to continue your education or to be totally self-supporting. ©Jim Fay


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Foster W. Cline, M.D. and Jim Fay

Our changing times require new approaches to parenting teens. Parenting experts Jim Fay and Foster W. Cline, M.D., help you address the pressing subjects faced by today’s teens like:• Drugs, alcohol, smoking, and sex• Peer pressure• What happens if they break the law

and who pays bail09-94-888 | 8 audio CD set, 555 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .$17 .9502-89-303 | hardcover book, 339 pp . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .$24 .9915-89-303E | e-Book, 339 pp . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $17 .50

Hormones & WheelsParent Survival Tips for Those Chaotic Teen Years

Jim Fay

Parenting expert Jim Fay takes a lighthearted look at the often-harrowing job of raising a teenager. In this audio you will learn how to:• Quit fighting with your teen• Make curfew work the first time• Give them control over driving,

drinking, and other poor decisions09-94-290 | 3 audio CD set, 202 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $24 .95

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Teens and TechnologyCharles Fay, Ph.D. and Jim Fay

Attempting to shield our kids from all of the temptations of the digital age is unrealistic. Doing so also leaves them unprepared to handle such

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Developing Character in TeensJim Fay

Join Jim Fay as he helps parents of teens. In this audio Jim addresses:

• Stress relief for parents• Teens doing chores and preparing meals• Parties and rebellion• Basic human needs and their effects on teens09-94-061 | audio CD, 80 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $13 .9512-94-061 | mp3 download, 80 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $11 .95


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• Get kids to listen the first time• Put an end to arguing, back-talk, and power struggles• Dramatically reduce bullying and teasing• And much, much more!

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Four Steps to Responsibility1. Give the child a task he/she can handle.2. Hope that the child “blows” it.3. Let equal parts of empathy and consequences

do the teaching.4. Give the same task again. For more tips on turning your children’s mistakes into powerful learning opportunities, listen to Jim Fay’s Four Steps to Responsibility. See page 6. ©Jim Fay


Teens and DrivingLove and Logic Speed-E Solution®

Charles Fay, Ph.D. and Jedd Hafer

In this honest and fun discussion, Dr. Charles Fay and Jedd Hafer (both are parents of ACTUAL teenagers) discuss practical steps parents can take to raise the odds that their teens will be safer, more responsible drivers.12-94-506 | mp3 download, 35 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $7 .95

Keeping Cool When Parenting Heats UpTips for Staying Calm and Collected

Charles Fay, Ph.D. and Leah Wells

In this audio you will learn:• How to avoid common mistakes you make while

trying to do the right thing for your kids• How to stay calm when your kids are pushing your

buttons• The importance of empathy09-94-933 | audio CD, 51 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $9 .9512-94-933 | mp3 download, 51 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $9 .95

Love and Logic SolutionsUnbeatable, On-the-Mark Answers to Parents’ Most-Asked Questions About Raising Kids

Jim Fay

Jim Fay will answer all your questions and help you:• End hassles about curfew• Raise kids who can cope• Discipline without anger and threats• End sibling bickering• Raise responsible kids • Avoid being embarrassed by your child’s actions

in public09-94-137 | audio CD, 120 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $14 .9512-94-606 | mp3 download, 120 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $12 .95

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“Didn’t I Tell You to Take Out the Trash?!”Techniques for Getting Kids to Do Chores Without Hassles


Are you tired of arguing and fighting with your child over chores? This audio will help you:• Choose age-appropriate chores that allow

kids to be proud to contribute• Negotiate reasonable time limits• Immediately solve their refusal to do chores• Learn how to have kids volunteer to help

around the house09-94-274 | audio CD, 60 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .$13 .9512-94-274 | mp3 download, 60 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .$11 .95


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Package with Love and Logic Magic When Kids Leave You Speechless in book form; Oh Great! What Do I Do Now? and The Life Saver Kit in CD form .05-94-201 | (1) book & (2) audio CD sets . . . . . . . . . . $80 .00

Package with Love and Logic Magic When Kids Leave You Speechless in e-Book form; Oh Great! What Do I Do Now? and The Life Saver Kit in mp3 download form .05-94-202 | (1) e-Book & (2) mp3 downloads . . . . . $80 .00

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Love and Logic is the original and proven leader in parenting. Since 1977 we’ve helped parents from all walks of life create happy, resilient and responsible kids. Enjoy immediate success with the effective parenting solutions taught in this on-line parenting class.

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Avoiding Power Struggles with KidsFeaturing Jim Fay’s “Science of Control”


Do you have a stubborn, strong-willed child who constantly tries to pull you into arguments and power struggles? If you answered, “Yes,” then you’ll love what you hear on this audio.09-94-258 | audio CD, 45 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $9 .9512-94-258 | mp3 download, 45 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $9 .95How to Discipline Kids

without Losing Their Love and RespectJim Fay

Join beloved storyteller and parenting expert, Jim Fay, as he speaks

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Love and Logic Magic® When Kids Leave You SpeechlessJim Fay and Charles Fay, Ph.D.

Great comebacks every parent needs. Turn to page 6 for a complete description.02-94-045 | book, 300 pp . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $16 .9515-94-045E | e-Book, 300 pp . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $11 .85

Oh Great! What Do I Do Now?Parenting Remedies for When Kids Cook Up the Unexpected

Charles Fay, Ph.D.

Join Dr. Charles Fay for lots of giggles and plenty of easy-to-use strategies to help you handle the unexpected.09-94-304 | 2 audio CD set, 100 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . $15 .9512-94-304 | mp3 download, 100 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $13 .95

Life Saver KitSix audio CDs in one package. A complete collection of great parent-ing techniques that will help your children grow up to be responsible, caring, successful adults.

• Four Steps to Responsibility• Raising the Odds for Responsible Behavior• Avoiding Power Struggles with Kids• Love Me Enough to Set Some Limits• Helicopters, Drill Sergeants, and Consultants - NEW!• “Didn’t I Tell You to Take Out the Trash?!”09-94-231 | 6 audio CD set, 360 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . .$59 .9512-94-231 | mp3 download, 360 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . .$55 .95

Home and School Strategies for Creating Respectful, Responsible Kids Recorded Live Event

Jim Fay

Have you ever met a child who loves to be told what to do…so that they can do the opposite? Join Jim Fay as he weaves stand-up comedy with practical solutions that will change your life.tw-85-0000011 | webinar, 261 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $79 .00


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Love and Logic® Technology and KidsGet the Conversation Started

Charles Fay, Ph.D.

Dr. Charles Fay provides 52 discussion starters…one per week…proven to help parents connect with their children over technology issues.

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Real Talk on TechnologyGuiding Your Kids to Make Good Digital Decisions

Charles Fay, Ph.D.

Parenting in the digital age is definitely not for the weak of heart.

In this audio you’ll hear research-based, yet practical tools for: Helping your kids make good decisions about technology. Teaching them to avoid becoming victims. Keeping a watchful eye on their digital behavior.09-94-150 | audio CD, 120 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .$12 .9512-94-150 | mp3 download, 120 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . .$10 .95


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Angry & Oppositional StudentsCalming Classrooms with Love and Logic

Charles Fay, Ph.D.

Looking for a positive yet powerful approach to preventing school violence? In this live presentation, Dr. Charles Fay gives you long-term solutions rather than temporary bandages. • How to set firm limits without creating explosions• The psychology underlying violent behavior in youth• How to intervene with angry, resentful youth before they seek revenge• Tools for creating a positive school climate…even with really tough kids• Strategies for saving lives09-94-363 | 3 audio CD set, 198 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $19 .95


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This fun book was written for all the Love and Logic educators who are looking for easy-to-use, hard-hitting hints to help them through the school day.02-94-177 | book, 128 pp . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $6 .0015-94-177E | e-Book, 128 pp . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $4 .20

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Classroom management just got easier. If you’d like to spend more time teach-ing and less time disciplining students, you need the practical techniques you’ll find contained in Teaching With Love and Logic. This book is an essential resource for every teacher searching for new ways to gain student cooperation and for more positive discipline techniques. Love and Logic® is a method of working with students which was developed by educational expert Jim Fay, and child psychiatrist Foster W. Cline, M.D. The Love and Logic techniques:

• Put teachers back in control of the classroom• Result in students who are internalized in the discipline rather than

dependent upon external controls• Raise the level of student responsibility• Teach students to think for themselves• Prepare students to function effectively in a world filled with temptations,

decisions, and consequences• Return a teacher’s joy of teaching!

Teaching With Love and Logic will help every classroom teacher! It’s practical and effective. Jim Fay really cares about kids.

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Teaching With Love and Logic is filled with solid, practical advice for teachers on how to create a school environment in which students can develop their own sense of self-discipline and independent problem-solving skills. This book is worthy of and guaranteed to be in great demand.

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Jim Fay has more than 31 years experience as an educator and principal. He is recognized as one of America’s top educational consultants and has won many awards in the educational field.

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Teaching with Love and LogicTaking Control of the Classroom


COMPLETELY REVISED EDITION

Jim and Charles Fay will teach you how to effectively manage your classroom through shared control, choices within limits and the importance of relationships.• Gaining cooperation from students who don’t repond .. to traditional behavior management systems• Motivating apathetic students who just don’t try• Taking great care of yourself as you inspire your students toward greatness

02-94-237 | book, 350 pp . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $21 .9515-94-237 | e-Book, 350 pp . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .$15 .50

Quick and Easy Classroom Interven-tions23 Proven Tools for Increasing Student Cooperation

Jim Fay

This audio will help both teachers and students. Learn skills that allow teachers to take back control of the classroom through an escalating series of interventions. Interventions that will:• Increase learning time for students• Decrease office referrals• Help teachers manage disruptive students• Immediately eliminate struggles with resistant students • Reduce teachers’ stress so that they enjoy teaching again09-94-312 | 2 audio CD set, 180 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $21 .9512-94-312 | mp3 download, 180 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . $19 .95

Putting Parents at Ease9 Keys to Effective Parent-Teacher Conferences

Jim Fay

Whether unexpected, or planned in advance, parent

conferences often are stressful events. Jim Fay shares the nine elements that guarantee successful parent-teacher conferences. You will also find effective communi-cation techniques for all your adult-adult relationships.09-94-525 | 3 audio CD set, 180 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $19 .95



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Thank God It’s Monday!Creating Peace & Joy in the Classroom & Home

Sally Northway Ogden

These CDs teach:• Strategies for building strong, emotionally healthy children

• Secrets for helping children thrive• Indispensable tools for making discipline a breeze• How to bullyproof children, diffuse power struggles & handle difficult people09-63-333 | 4 audio CD set . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $17 .95

Creating a Love and Logic School CultureJim Fay

This book offers a successful, time proven, step-by-step process. Jim Fay not only provides the specifics of creating a Love and Logic school, he shares actual dialogs for dealing with difficult kids, difficult teachers, and difficult parents.These strategies are those that are not found in typical administrator training courses.

02-94-090 | Book, 114pp . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $17 .95 15-94-090E | e-Book, 114 pp . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $12 .50


The Love and Logic Classroom... More Cooperative, Higher Achieving StudentsNine Key Skills for Educators


In this LIVE, fun-filled presentation, Jim Fay and Dr. Charles Fay share powerful skills, refined through over five decades of real classroom experience.

You’ll learn how to: • Enforce these limits…even with your most challenging students• Prevent group misbehavior• And much, much more!09-94-120 | 7 audio CD set, 7 hrs . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $59 .95


Creating a Fear-Free and High Achieving ClassroomPreventing Power-Struggles, Bullying and Burn-Out

Sally Northway Ogden

In a webinar where the time flies and you learn through stories, Sally Ogden will present tons of practical strate-gies for handling difficult people, power struggles and bullying.tw-85-0000014 | webinar, 210 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $79 .00

Classroom Poster A must for every classroom in your school.

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School Lending Library PackageEverything you need to share Love and Logic with others. Contents include:• Calming the Chaos – CD• Putting Parents at Ease – CD• Teaching with Love and Logic – book - COMPLETELY REVISED EDITION!• Quick and Easy Classroom Interventions – CD• Creating a Love and Logic School Culture – book• Shaping Self-Concept – CD• Hope for Underachieving Kids – CD• Angry & Oppositional Students – CD• Meeting the Challenge – book• The Love and Logic Classroom – CD• Words Will Never Hurt Me – book• From Bad Grades to a Great Life – book AWARD WINNER!

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Guiding Kids to Solve Their Problems: Five Steps Used by Effective Parents and TeachersStep One: Provide a strong dose of empathy and listen.Step Two: Ask, “What do you think you are going to do?”Step Three: When they shrug their shoulders, ask, “Would you like to hear what some other kids try?”Step Four: Give them two or three possible solu-tions. After each, ask, “How will that work for you?”Step Five: Allow them to learn from the happy or sad consequences of their choice.


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Get solutions that work right now to:• Help end student arguing and back-talk• Guide kids to own and solve their problems• Build positive relationships with challenging students• Maintain order with extremely disruptive students• Prevent most classroom management problems

Our multimedia teacher-training curriculum was developed to make teaching fun and rewarding...instead of stressful and exhausting. This curriculum will build strong schools where teachers have time to teach and students want to learn. This is an excel-lent in-service tool for every educator!

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9 Essential Skills for the Love and Logic Classroom® Instructor TrainingAdditional training is not required, but highly recommended . Attend our 9 Essential Skills for the Love and Logic Classroom® instructor training .

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How to Facilitate Love and Logic Educator Training9 Essential Skills for the Love and Logic Classroom®

Love and Logic® recommends independent Trainers facilitate one module per month for 9 months; this gives educators the opportunity to practice/experiment with the skills learned before moving on to the next skill . Each module is approximately 1 ½ -2 hours in duration . It is important you do not facilitate multiple modules in one day, or too close together; educators can become overwhelmed, and leave feeling Love and Logic techniques are too hard .

Successful facilitators teach the curricula as directed in the easy step-by-step Facilita-tor’s Guide . Our research shows that participants are most successful, and gain a better understanding of Love and Logic, when the classes are taught in this way .

Each participant must have his/her own workbook .

Curriculum includes:• 9 Skills• 9 Modules• 34 Stories authored and

presented by Jim Fay and Charles Fay, Ph.D.

• Facilitator’s Guide• Instructional DVDs or

USB with presentations by Jim Fay and Charles Fay, Ph.D.

• Ten Participant Workbooks

• One-on-one, direct access to Jim Fay and Charles Fay, Ph.D., for support questions

For your own preparation and reference, one copy of:• Teaching with Love and

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• Quick and Easy Class-room Interventions: 23 Proven Tools for Increas-ing Student Cooperation (two audio CDs)

• A tote bag for easy carrying and storing

• Upon approval you have the potential to offer graduate level credit to your attendees

• Facilitators can be added to our national reference list for referrals

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Curriculum to Teach Love and Logic to Parents with Young Children

Love and Logic Early Childhood Parenting Made Fun!®Creating Happy Families and Responsible Kids


With this multimedia parent-training curriculum, you can teach parents of teeny, tiny kids how to:• Put an end to misbehavior in public• Smooth out mornings and bedtimes• Take the battle out of meal times, tooth brushing, bathing, etc.• Make potty training fun• Teach respect, responsibility, and self-discipline• And much, much more!

There’s great news! When parents start Love and Logic early in their children’s lives, they dramatically up the odds that the teenage years will be fun…instead of frantic. They also create kids who’ll begin school ready to learn…instead of ready to drive their teachers batty.

07-94-780 | Multimedia curriculum on DVD . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $700 .00

07-94-781 | Multimedia curriculum on USB . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $730 .00

Additional parent workbooks are available to facilitators, please include your facilitator I .D . number when ordering . Call 800-338-4065 for more information .

08-77-112 | Certificates of Completion for your attendees . . . . . . . . . . . pack of 25 for $11 .00

02-94-819 | Workbooks . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $9 .00

How to Facilitate Love and Logic Parenting ClassesParenting the Love and Logic Way®, Early Childhood Parenting Made Fun®

or Becoming a Love and Logic Parent® -Spanish Curriculum

Love and Logic® recommends Independent Trainers facilitate one session per week for 5-6 weeks (dependent on the number of modules in the curricula you are teach-ing) . This allows participants the opportunity to practice/experiment with the skills learned before moving on to the next skill . Each session is approximately 2 hours in duration . It is important you do not facilitate multiple sessions in one day or hold classes too close together; parents may become overwhelmed, and leave feeling Love and Logic techniques are too hard .

Successful facilitators teach the curricula as directed in the easy step-by-step Facili-tator’s Guide . Our research shows that participants are most successful, and gain a better understanding of Love and Logic, when the classes are taught in this way .

Each participant must have his/her own workbook; couples may share .

This curriculum includes:• One Facilitator Guide,

which includes simple, step-by-step instructions for presenting five separate sessions, each lasting approximately 2 hours

• DVDs or USB including 21 videotaped stories/examples authored and presented by Jim Fay and Charles Fay, Ph.D. in front of a live audience

• Ten Parent Workbooks, each including 10 read-ings, 9 exercises, and 27 instructional visuals

• For your own preparation and reference; one copy of: Love and Logic Magic for Early Childhood (book) - NEW! and Helicopters, Drill Sergeants, and Con-sultants (CD) - NEW!


• Free, one-on-one telephone access to Jim Fay and Charles Fay, Ph.D. (You get their cell phone numbers!)


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Curriculum to Teach Love and Logic to Parents with Children of All Ages

Parenting the Love and Logic Way®Charles Fay, Ph.D., and Jim Fay, with special thanks to Foster W. Cline, M.D.

Are you ready to play a powerful role in changing your community for the better? By facilitating this curriculum, you’ll be helping to increase the supply of young people equipped with the character, compassion and problem-solving skills essential for becoming good neighbors to all. Would you like to boost positive parent involvement in your local school or district? Everybody wins when parents develop practical skills for reinforc-ing the expectations their children experience at school. Kids are happier and behave better. Teachers are more relaxed and effective. Parents are far more supportive of teachers and administrators. This curriculum is designed for you to have immediate success. Teachers, counselors, administrators, parents – all have success teaching this highly beneficial parenting class, even their first time out. We give you carefully crafted, step-by-step instructions for each of the six sessions you’ll lead. This package is designed so that you can begin teaching immediately.

07-94-392 | Multimedia Curriculum on DVD . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $700 .00

07-94-393 | Multimedia Curriculum on USB . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $730 .00

Additional parent workbooks are available to facilitators, please include your facilitator I .D . number when ordering . Call 800-338-4065 for more information .

08-77-113 | Certificates of Completion for your attendees . . . . . . . . . . . pack of 25 for $11 .00

02-94-406 | Workbooks . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $9 .00

Instructor TrainingThe Love and Logic Institute holds a three-day, hands-on training for instructors of the Parenting the Love and Logic Way®, Becoming a Love and Logic Parent® and Love and Logic Early Childhood Parenting Made Fun!® curricula. These conferences are designed to enhance your instructional skills through specialized and intensive sessions with program developers Jim Fay, Charles Fay, Ph.D., and Foster W. Cline, M.D. Attendees will hone their knowledge of the Parenting the Love and Logic Way®, Becoming a Love and Logic Parent® and Love and Logic Early Childhood Parenting Made Fun!® curricula and philosophy while polishing their professional presentation skills and strengthening their confidence. These trainings are optional, but recommended.

October & May (call 800-338-4065 for specific dates) Denver, CO .................. $395.00

This curriculum includes:• DVDs or USB contain-

ing nearly five hours of video segments by Charles Fay, Ph.D., and Jim Fay

• Bonus video content containing approxi-mately 90 minutes of Dr. Charles Fay’s answers to some of the most common parent-ing challenges

• Easy-to-follow and user-friendly Facilitator Guide with step-by-step instructions

• Ten Parent Workbooks for your attendees

• For your reference: Parenting with Love and Logic; From Bad Grades to a Great Life!; Helicop-ters, Drill Sergeants, and Consultants; Keeping Cool When Parenting Heats Up


• One-on-one, direct access to Jim Fay and Charles Fay, Ph.D., for support questions


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Facilitator Lending Library PackageEverything you need to share Love and Logic with others. Contents include:• Love and Logic Magic® When Kids Leave You Speechless – book• Love and Logic Magic® When Kids Drain Your Energy – CD • Meeting the Challenge – book• From Innocence to Entitlement – book• Four Steps to Responsibility – CD

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Guidelines for Helping with Homework: Teaching Kids to Take Responsibility for Their Learning• Help only when your child actually wants your help.• Help only as long as there is an absence of anger.• Tell your child, “I am going to let you work on your

own most of the time so that you will know that you can learn even when I am not sitting next to you.”

• Help only when your child holds the pencil longer than you do.• Never work harder on your child’s homework than they do.

Read From Bad Grades to a Great Life! for more tips.


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This audio will help parents and educators lay the foundation that gives unmotivated, underachieving kids the desire to be successful. The time-tested strategies will help you:• Understand the roots of underachievement• Learn the skills that motivate underachieving kids• Raise the odds for your kids to stay in school• Navigate the home-school connection09-94-541 | audio CD, 150 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $17 .95

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Winning the Homework BattleHelping Children Discover and Celebrate Their Strengths


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The legendary Jim Fay, and entitlement expert, Dawn Billings, give an in-depth look at entitlement and provide techniques for preventing and curing the problem.• Teach your kids the true meaning of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness• Step out of the role of “service provider” and into the role of parent • Never hear, “It’s not fair,” or “But I want it,” and give in again• Have the courage to say “No”02-94-746 | book, 131 pp . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $17 .9515-94-746E | e-Book, 131 pp . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .$12 .50

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Calming the ChaosBehavior Improvement Strategies for the Child with ADHD


With simple-to-learn and easy-to-apply Love and Logic techniques you can restore order and peacefulness to homes and classrooms while building positive and healthy relationships between parents, teachers, and children with ADD/ADHD. 09-94-320 | 3 audio CD set, 210 min . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $21 .95

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Jim Fay, Foster W. Cline, M.D. and Bob Sornson

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Love and Logic Guidelines for Giving Choices• Only give choices that fit your value system.• Give 99% of your choices when things are going well.• Give choices before the child becomes resistant.• For each choice, give two options, each of which you

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Love and Logic: Keys to Helping Kids Cope with DivorceRecorded Live Event

Charles Fay, Ph.D.

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Index

PRODUCTS FOR PARENTS

Ages 7–12 Parenting Package . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5Allowing Kids to Choose Success . . . . . . . . . . . . 21Avoiding Power Struggles

with Kids . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12Bookmarks . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 28Bullying: When Your Child is the Target . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 23Calming the Chaos . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .24Certificates of Completion . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18, 19Childhood Lying, Stealing & Cheating . . . . . . .23Dealing with Defiance Magnet . . . . . . . . . . . . . .28 Developing Character in Teens . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9Didn’t I Tell You to Take Out

the Trash?! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .7, 10Early Childhood Package . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2Facilitator Lending Library . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .20Four Steps to Responsibility . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6From Bad Grades

to a Great Life! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21From Innocence to Entitlement . . . . . . . . . . . . .22Grandparenting with Love and Logic . . . . . . . . 27Grief, Trauma, and Loss . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .23Healing Trust . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .24Healthy Choices, Happy Kids . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 27Helicopters, Drill Sergeants, and

Consultants . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4, 7, 28Home and School Strategies for Creating

Respectful, Responsible Kids . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12Hope for Underachieving Kids . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21Hormones & Wheels . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9How to Discipline Kids Without Losing Their

Love and Respect . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12If They Push Your Button, Don’t

Let it Ring Your Bell! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .23I’ve Got What It Takes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .28Jim Fay One Liner Magnet . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .28Keeping Cool When

Parenting Heats Up . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3, 10Life Saver Kit . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12Love and Logic Early Childhood Parenting

Made Fun! Curriculum . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18Love and Logic: Keys to Helping Kids

Cope with Divorce . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .26Love and Logic Magic for Early

Childhood . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3Love and Logic Magic for

Lasting Relationships . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .26Love and Logic Magic When Kids

Leave You Speechless . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .6, 12Love and Logic Magic When Kids

Drain Your Energy . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .3, 6Love and Logic Magic When Little Ones

Leave You Speechless . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3Love and Logic Parenting On-LineTM . . . . . . . . . 11Love and Logic Solutions . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .10Love and Logic Solutions for

Early Childhood . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4Love & Logic Solutions for Kids with

Special Needs . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .24Love and Logic Strategies for Kids

with Hurtful Pasts . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .24

Love and Logicisms . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7Love Me Enough to Set Some Limits . . . . . . . . . . 7Magnet . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .28Marriage – Love and Logic . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 26 Meeting the Challenge . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .24Millionaire Babies or Bankrupt Brats? . . . . . . . .22No Thanks, I Just Had a Banana! . . . . . . . . . . . . .23Oh Great! What Do I Do Now? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12Painless Parenting for the

Preschool Years II . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4Parenting Children with Health Issues . . . . . . .25Parenting Children with Health Issues

and Special Needs . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .25Parenting Children with Special

Medical Needs . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .25Parenting for Success

Happy, High Achieving Kids . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6Parenting Teens with Love and Logic . . . . . . . . . 9Parenting the Love and Logic Way

Curriculum . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19Parenting with Love and Logic . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6Parents are Not ATMs . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .22Preventing Teen Rebellion . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6Real Talk on Technology . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12Shaping Self-Concept . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21Sibling Rivalry . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4Simple Parenting Strategies . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4Stand in My Shoes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 27Stepparenting: Keeping It Sane! . . . . . . . . . . . . .26Stepparenting with Love and Logic . . . . . . . . . .26Stress Free Package . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11Success with Severely Disruptive Youth . . . . . .24Success with Strong Willed, Stubborn, or

Downright Defiant Kids . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .10Technology and Kids . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12Teen Package . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 8Teens and Driving . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .10Teens and Technology . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9Three Book Gift Set . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .28Tickets to Success . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3, 28Toddlers and Pre-Schoolers . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3Tote Bag . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .28When Love Is Not Enough . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .24When Your Spouse Has a

Different Parenting Style . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .26Winning the Homework Battle . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21Winning with Diabetes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .25Words Will NEVER Hurt Me . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .23

PRODUCTS FOR EDUCATORS

9 Essential Skills for the Love and Logic Classroom Curriculum . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17

Angry and Oppositional Students . . . . . . . . . . . 14Avoiding Power Struggles

with Kids . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12Calming the Chaos . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .24Classroom Poster . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15Creating a Fear-Free and High

Achieving Classroom . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15Creating a Love and Logic

School Culture . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15

Educator Package . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13 Facilitator Lending Library . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .20 From Bad Grades

to a Great Life! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21 Home and School Strategies for Creating

Respectful, Responsible Kids . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12Hope for Underachieving Kids . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21Love and Logic Magic When Kids Leave

You Speechless . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .6, 12Love and Logic Magic When Kids Drain

Your Energy . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .3, 6Love and Logic On The Bus . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15Love & Logic Solutions for Kids with

Special Needs . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .24Love and Logic Teacher-isms . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14Meeting the Challenge . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .24No Thanks, I Just Had a Banana! . . . . . . . . . . . . .23Putting Parents at Ease . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14Quick and Easy Classroom Interventions . . . . . 14Shaping Self-Concept . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21School Lending Library Package . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16Schoolwide Discipline Plan Without the Loopholes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15Success With Strong Willed, Stubborn, or

Downright Defiant Kids . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .10Teaching with Love and Logic . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14Thank God It’s Monday! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15The Love and Logic Classroom . . .

Higher Achieving, More Cooperative Students . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15

Tote Bag . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .28Words Will NEVER Hurt Me . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .23

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Parenting the Love and Logic Way Facilitator Training . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19

Summer Conference . . . . . . . . . Inside back coverOne-day Events . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Inside back coverOrder Form . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 31Registration form . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 32

HELPFUL HINTS

The Core of Love and Logic . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2Four Steps to Responsibility . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .10Guiding Kids to Solve Their Problems . . . . . . . . 16Guidelines for Giving Choices . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .25Guidelines for Helping With Homework . . . . . 21How to Destroy the Teaching Value

of Logical Consequences . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5Love and Logic House Rules . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9Love and Logic One-Liners . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 27Some Tips for Getting Jobs Done

Without Reminders . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 8Taking the Mayhem Out of Mornings . . . . . . . . . 4Turning Your Words Into Gold . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7 The Two Rules

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☐ Love and Logic Educator & Parent Retreat $425

☐ 9 Essential Skills for the Love and Logic Classroom® Training $395

☐ Parenting the Love and Logic Way® Training $395

☐ One-Day Events $99

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Love and Logic® Events and Conferences

One-Day EventsAttend a one-day Love and Logic Event for Parents, Counselors, and Educators in cities across America.One-Day Event . . . . . . . . . . $99 .00

Events & Conferences

Love and Logic Educator & Parent RetreatJoin Jim Fay, Charles Fay, Ph.D., and other world renowned speakers for our annual Summer Conference. Enjoy three fun, skill-filled days at a beautiful mountain retreat and get a rare opportunity to gain some very practical skills including:

• Practical tools for maintaining order and enthusiasm in your classroom• Strategies for helping children develop self-control• Techniques for creating a calm, enthusiastic and supportive school culture• Tools for avoiding power struggles at home and at school• Strategies for helping youth with severe acting-out behavior• Techniques that also contribute to healthy marriages and other adult relationships

June | Colorado ......................................................................................................... $425.00

9 Essential Skills for the Love and Logic Classroom® - Instructor TrainingInstructors of this step-by-step staff development curriculum will learn how to give teachers and school support staff the practical skills required to succeed with today’s stressful situations.

• Learn how to give teachers the practical skills required to succeed with today’s tough students

• Create a school where there are fewer battles with students and fewer complaints from parents

• Learn skills that will lower your stress level in the process

February | Denver, CO .............................................................................................$395.00

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For regularly updated information about our events and conferences with Jim Fay, Charles Fay, Ph.D., and other Love and Logic speakers, please contact one of our friendly customer care specialists at 800-338-4065 or visit our website at www.loveandlogic.com.

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The Love and Logic StoryIt was the mid 1970’s, and two men were concerned about the number of parents and educators struggling with challenging children and teens.

“They won’t listen to a thing I say. If I’d have known how hard it was to be a parent, I wouldn’t have had kids!”

“Every year the students get more out of control. Now I spend more time doing discipline than teaching. Something’s got to give!”

Foster W. Cline, M.D., a child psychiatrist, and Jim Fay, an educator of nearly thirty years, began their quest to find solutions. Over the next decade their research and real-life experience gave birth to the Love and Logic approach.

These respected experts discovered that children thrive when they…• have loving, compassionate and genuinely empathetic

parents and teachers• experience consistent limits and accountability• are allowed to learn by making plenty of small, “affordable” mistakes• are taught to own and solve the problems they encounter

Today Love and Logic is trusted world-wide for practical and effective resources for bringing the joy back to parenting and teaching.

“Parenting is fun again. Now I actually look forward to my kids acting-up…so that I can use my new skills.”

“I was burned-out and ready to quit teaching. Love and Logic saved my career.”

you don’t have to be perfect to raise great kids you just ... · problems back in loving ways....

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