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Inside this Issue
Fences to Set Us Free
From Our Pastors’ Desk ....3
Study with Pastor Lindsay ...4
Pastor Appreciation! …….4
Youth Page ………….....5
Meet - yes, another
$100 Challenge!
For Seniors -
The Never Alone Project ...6
Outreach ……………….....7
Lifetime Wells Now &
Christmas Gifts Soon
Financial News ..………...8
Diversity Matters ....9-10
October’s Focus on ADHD +
Bullying Prevention + Positive
Attitudes + Down Syndrome +
Sukkot + Church Libraries
Master Key
(Danny Cooper) …...…….….11
Church Grounds ………...12
WANTED!
Camera Volunteers …..…12
WANTED!
Folks to send Cards ……..13
Christian Cancer Support 13
Our People …………...…14
Memory Verse
& Worship Times
……....Back Cover
Blessings,
Your 2021 Stewardship Campaign Team
Dear Wyoming Church Family!
We hold each of you in prayer at this most
challenging time! Our annual stewardship out-
reach comes during a period of uncertainty
and anxiety. The pandemic has left its mark
on all of us, here in Kent County and across
the globe. These are the most trying times
some of us have ever lived through. We are
concerned about our health and wellness and
that of our loved ones; many of us feel isolated
and even frightened.
The pandemic leaves us less financially secure,
as well. Some of you have been furloughed at
work or have lost your jobs. Many have had
to dip into personal savings. And those beyond
our walls served by our ministries have even
greater needs than before. Thanks to dozens
of dedicated, selfless volunteers, we have been
able to continue many ministries despite the
current restrictions.
Wyoming Church has been challenged to cover
our expenses at a time when revenue is down,
in part because we had not been able to gather
in person for worship for six months. The
economic downturn likely is another factor.
We greatly appreciate those who have made
gifts online and mailed checks to the church
during our weeks apart.
While we were very happy to have resumed
indoor, in-person worship and limited group
meetings on September 20th, we now face the
extra expenses of cleaning and sanitizing to
satisfy Covid protocols, at a time the needs of
the community we serve keep growing because
of the pandemic. Now more than ever, we
will be called on to meet these needs. Our
leadership is working diligently to control ex-
penses to the extent possible and to maintain
our financial health. Wyoming Church will
remain a source of help and hope in this
trying time that will testify to our faith in
Christ for years to come.
You should have received a 2021 Pledge Card
in the mail. You can also download and print it
from www.wyomingumc.com - HAPPENINGS -
2021 Stewardship Campaign.
Please prayerfully consider your response and
mail your card to the office or bring it to
church on Sunday morning. On a spiritual level,
making a commitment of giving over the next
12 months demonstrates our willingness to
commit to God’s work through our church. On
a practical level, it allows our leaders to deter-
mine how to most effectively focus our finances
to meet the needs of
Wyoming Church and our community
during the next year.
If your giving in the past has not been based
on a prospective pledged amount, please
consider making that commitment this year.
ANY amount is important and appreciated;
the commitment is what matters most.
Should circumstances keep you from meeting
that goal, be assured that we will understand
and support whatever decision is the right one
for YOU.
We pray for God to protect and comfort you
during this public health crisis. You are each a
blessing and a gift to our church!
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Men’s Prayer Breakfast - New Location, New Time!
On Saturday morning, October the 31st, from 9:30 AM to 10:30 AM we will gather in the “Party Room” at Tre Sorelle Dolce on S. Railroad Avenue in Wyoming for a ‘MID-MORNING PRAYER BREAKFAST’. The theme of the Mini-Message will be “Prayers For Unity”. The menu will reflect the mid-morning hour with ‘A La Carte’ sweet rolls, coffee, tea and chilled water. Social distancing and the appropriate use of face masks will limit our attendance to 14 folks. We are able to plan for and hold this event at Tre Sorelle Dolce due to the generous support of owners Mike and Becky Marasco. Since seating is limited, pre-registration is required and can be accomplished by contacting Terry Higgins at (302) 492-3354 or [email protected]. Initial plans call for us to meet in this format on the last Saturday of November as well so check next month’s Wyoming Messenger for more detailed in-formation. Should you have any questions please do not hesitate to contact Terry at (302) 363-5823.
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From the Pastors’ Desk Psalmist has turned the idea just a bit,
and he means that the Lord is my place,
and the Lord is my amount. God Him-
self is our portion. He is our land, our
boundary in life, our protection, our
guidance, and our limits. As long as we
place ourselves in a position to wholly
enjoy the full portion - the scope of life
that God wants us to have - we will easi-
ly have more than we could ever want.
How do we place ourselves in a position
to fully enjoy the portion God has given
us? Our psalmist is not shy about this.
Ringing throughout Psalm 119 is the mes-
sage of: obedience! Living in the way
God has taught us! Treating others in
the way Christ has loved us! Always
seeing the value in the portion God has
given to us; sin tells us that we have bet-
ter elsewhere, but God’s word and
promise tells us that His boundaries are
the best. They are boundaries that keep
us healthy; that let us thrive; that enable
us to build His Kingdom – no different
than the boundaries He set in Genesis
that set a whole world in motion.
A fence in the end may remind us of
limits – but God’s boundaries set us free.
With the power of the Holy Spirit,
indeed may we say, You are my portion,
Lord, I promise to obey Your words!
there and leaves splinters in your hand
if you should touch it. We covered it in
chicken wire for that extra dash of
charm. As long as it
served its
purpose,
we were
content.
After
searching
for
fences,
I found
myself
noticing
them
more
often.
I had
never
paid attention to them before. There
were big and small fences; vinyl and
metal fences; fences with space between
the bars and maximum security-style
fences. They were everywhere! Some
were to protect privacy; some were to
keep things in (like ours), some were to
protect livestock, like the cattle farm
across the street from our neighbor-
hood. Some were for farms to keep
people from trampling through crops
and orchards. Some were around
homes and showed property lines.
There were so many fences for so
many uses, but the purpose all
boiled down to a singular reason:
boundaries. Fences show the
boundaries of things. And in this,
we hear of the idea of a portion:
a set place, and a set amount.
I’m reminded of how in Genesis
God set the boundaries between
night and day, land and sea, sky
and earth. I’m reminded of how
when the Israelites flooded into
the promised land of Canaan, God
divided the land amongst them so
tribes and families could live well.
The idea of “portion” is woven
throughout our scripture stories:
it’s a set place, and a set amount.
Psalm 119:57 likewise refers to a
set place and set amount, but our
1 Blessed are those whose ways are blame-
less, who walk according to the law of the
LORD. 2 Blessed are those who keep his
statutes and seek him with all their heart— 3 they do no wrong but follow his ways. 4 You have laid down precepts that are to be
fully obeyed. 5 Oh, that my ways were stead-
fast in obeying your decrees! 6 Then I would
not be put to shame when I consider all your
commands. 7 I will praise you with an up-
right heart as I learn your righteous laws
…… 57 You are my portion, LORD;
I have promised to obey your words. 58 I have sought your face with all my heart;
be gracious to me according to your prom-
ise. 59 I have considered my ways and have
turned my steps to your statutes. 60 I will
hasten and not delay to obey your com-
mands. – Psalm 119:1-6; 57-60.
In 2016 Rick and I found ourselves franti-
cally house-shopping because we had
about twelve weeks to secure a new
home. Therefore, our requirements for
what we were looking for weren’t too
complex. The house needed to have a
roof, a certain amount of bedrooms, and
a fence. Those were our conditions.
Yes, a fence. We had a child and a dog
who would wander away at a second’s
notice and we knew we couldn’t afford
to build a fence immediately. Well, we
found our fence. Wooden, split rail, a
rustic sort of appeal as it leans here and
Lindsay & Rick Wessell
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Study with Pastor Lindsay
Wyoming will celebrate
Pastor Appreciation
Sunday on October 11th!
As we reflect on the diffi-
culties of traditional wor-
ship in this year of social
distancing please remem-
ber, we are not only hon-
oring our Pastors, but the
path that God has called
them to follow. As we
honor our co-pastors,
we also honor God.
There will be a basket
on the Welcome Desk for
your cards and messag-
es of appreciation.
May God Bless You!
This fall I will be teaching a 10 week Bible study called ‘Crazy Love: Overwhelmed By a Relentless God.’ It will be *most* Wednesday evenings, 7pm, beginning October 7th. The class will be in-person, with masking and so-cial distancing. There is limited capacity to class space, so please don't hesitate to sign up.
Crazy Love is a book study, with a workbook companion to help compliment the reading for each class session. In this study, Francis Chan challenges us to have the same kind of "overwhelming, relentless love" that God has for us. He says, "It's crazy, if you think about it. The God of the universe loves us with a radi-cal, unconditional, self-sacrificing love. And what is our typical response? We go to church, sing songs, and try not to cuss. God is calling
you to a passionate love relationship with Him-self. Because the answer to religious compla-cency isn't working harder at a list of do's and don'ts—it's falling in love with God." -
This Bible study requires reading one book chapter a week, and as much or as little work-book study as you would like. The cost is $17, and the books will be available early next week. If you want to join the class, please email me at [email protected] , call or text me at (302) 423-3911, or email the church office. The first chapter should be read before the first class.
I look forward to learning, praying, discussing, and having fun with you!
Lindsay Wessell
“And I will give you shepherds after my own
heart, who will feed you with knowledge and
understanding.” Jeremiah 3:15
The Fish That Got Away By David Van Kavelaar [email protected]
James and John, the sons of Zebedee, were participating in the Galilee Jubilee Fishing Tournament and boy did
they haul in a whopper. While John piloted their boat, James measured their catch and they were certain they had the
winner. And, don’t you know, that fish flipped and flopped right off the boat and returned to the sea! Their friends saw
the unfortunate fish escape and asked the brothers just how big was that fish. James answered “The head of the fish was
9 inches long and its tail was equal to the length of the head plus one half the length of the body. The body is the size of
the head plus the tail”. How long was the fish?
If a correct solution is received in my email by Oct. 15, a donation of $100 will be given
to the WUMC Youth Fellowship fund. Go figure!!
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The youth
ministries
of Wyoming
Church
are open to
all youth in
grades 6-12.
Zooming into Fall…
We have started our fall youth Bible study. We meet Thursday evenings
from 7:30 to 8:30 on Zoom. I know many of y'all are spending a ton of
time on Zoom but this is an easy way for us to meet and study together.
If you want to join, let me know at [email protected] and I'll send
you the link.
Keep watching for a possible return to in-person meetings!
Our Scouts of Troop 24 are hosting a
Join Scouting night on October 7:
Cub Scouting is a year round family-oriented part of the BSA program for boys and girls from kindergarten through fifth grade. Cub Scouts learn important life skills, personal safety, environmental stewardship, and to being part of a team while having fun and adventure. Join us for an informational night on October 7th at 6:00 PM in the Wyoming UMC south parking lot to learn more about Cub Scouting opportunities and registration here in the Camden-Wyoming area. Please bring your lawn chairs and remember your face masks and to socially distance. We look forward to you and your children joining us and feel free to invite your friends and family to join as well.
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Lifetime Wells
International … … has a mission to improve the quality of life for
communities in Ghana, Tanzania and Morocco by
providing access to safe drinking water. They envision
a world where death and disease from unsafe drinking
water is eliminated and communities are lifted out of
extreme poverty through the power of “clean water”.
They are a not-for-profit corporation organized in
the United States and they design, build and maintain
water systems. So far this year they have provided
90 communities with safe drinking water! That means
that over 147,000 people can take a deep drink of
water without worrying if it will make them sick, and
with proper handwashing, those 90 communities can
limit the spread of Covid-19.
The cost to sponsor a well is $3,500.00. With
sponsorship we will have “Wyoming United Methodist
Church” on a plaque attached to the well.
Please consider making a contribution to help us to
drill a well because no one should be drinking dirty
water.
Click here to make your donation online: https://www.gofundme.com/f/wumc-lifetime-wells-international?utm_source=customer&utm_medium=copy_link&utm_campaign=p_cf+share-flow-1
Or, drop your check in the offering or mail it to the
church, specifying ’Lifetime Wells’ on the memo line.
Give Water. Give Life. Give Peace.
We’ll start the Christmas gifts for local
families in need soon...
The project will have an earlier
deadline due to Coronavirus.
Recently at Papen Farms…
Members of Casa De Esperanza Church took their Christian witness
and a worship service to the workers who live at Papen Farms.
Earlier, the hygiene supplies we collected were given to these men.
On Sunday, September 13, a service was held. Outreach helped to
furnish Spanish Bibles, some clothing, and desserts. Jesus’ message
of salvation was shared!
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FINANCIAL REPORT for the month ending August 31, 2020
Larry Towle, Finance Team Chair
Income/Expense
to Date 2020 Budget
Weekly Offerings 335,732.21 576,450
Facilities and Other 44,810.91 92,950
Total Offerings 380,543.12 669,400
Total Administrative Council 205,780.75 352,201
Total Council on Ministries 44,005.43 79,465
Pastor Parish Relations 75,820.17 167,362
Mortgage Principal liabilty 49,659.34 71,325
(Reduces debt to PNC)
Total Expense 375,265.69 670,353
Net Income(Loss) 5,277.43
Balance of Mortgage 1/1/2018 990,049.00
Principal Paid in 2020 54,817.53
Mortgage Balance end of month 935,231.47
Offerings through July
2020 Pledges
$0 $100,000 $200,000 $300,000 $400,000 $500,000 $600,000
Tithes and Pledges 2020
2 Corinthians 9:6-8 Remember this: Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously. Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver. And God is able to bless you abun-dantly, so that in all things at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work.
Cattoi. “The key is to understand that it is a neurodevelopmental issue. There are re-sources to help individuals affected by ADHD and those who support them. We’re here to help them move beyond the self-criticism that is often associated with ADHD, and to appreci-ate the strengths—creativity, curiosity, gener-osity—that individuals with ADHD bring to our society.”
“ADHD does not define an individual; people with ADHD contribute positively to the world, bringing creativity, innovation, and accomplish-ment as shown by the many leaders, artists, and individuals from all professions with ADHD,” says CHADD COO April Gower-Getz. “It’s time to accept the differences in all of us and dissolve the shame.” Famous people with ADHD include: Michael Phelps, Olympic Gold Medal swimmer; Karina Smirnoff, professional dancer; Howie Mandel, comedian; Ty Pennington, famous carpenter; Adam Levine, Maroon 5 frontman; Justin Timberlake, singer and actor; and Simone Biles, Olympic Gold Medal gymnast.
Most of us know what attention deficit hyperac-tivity disorder (ADHD) looks like in kids — fidg-ety, hyperactive, trouble getting organized, and lack of focus. About 60 percent of kids contin-ue to have symptoms of ADHD into adulthood, according to the Anxiety and Depression Asso-ciation of America. That’s 4.4 percent of the adult population, or about 8 million adults. ADHD looks a bit different in adults. It may present as restlessness, disorganization, and trouble focusing. It may also present as ex-treme focus and enthusiasm, unique problem solving skills, and perseverance.
October is …
National Bullying
Prevention Month
National Bullying Prevention Month is a campaign in the United States founded in 2006 in response to the need to raise awareness of bullying, as it was historically viewed ‘a child-hood rite of passage’ and believed that bullying
October is …
ADHD Awareness Month
Attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) (sometimes referred to as ADD for those with-out hyperactivity) is thought to be a neurological disorder, always present from childhood, which manifests itself with symptoms such as hyperactivity, forgetful-ness, poor impulse control, and distractibility.
People with ADHD live in a permanent present and have a hard time learning from the past or looking into the future to see the inescapable consequences of their actions. “Acting without thinking” is the definition of impulsivity, and one of the reasons that individuals with ADHD have trouble learning from experience.
ADHD is a disorder that affects the brain and behaviors. There's no known cure for ADHD, but several options can help your child manage their symptoms. Treatments range from behav-ioral intervention to prescription medication. In many cases, medication alone is an effective treatment for ADHD.
Children and Adults with Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (CHADD) is the nation's leading nonprofit organization serving people affected by ADHD.
CHADD is working with partners in the ADHD Awareness Coalition to educate people on the facts of ADHD—symptoms, diagnosis, and treatment—and dispel some of the myths sur-rounding this disorder, which affects more than 17 million people in the United States alone.
Too often the myth that ADHD is “not a real disorder” lingers, leaving children and adults with the diagnosis feeling stigmatized. Togeth-er, we can break that stigma and show the world the many different faces of ADHD. With treatment and support, people with ADHD can and do live happy and successful lives. “Because ADHD has a range of presentations and a wide range of severity, ADHD is often difficult to understand,” says CHADD CEO Bob
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‘made kids tougher’, when the reality is that bullying has devastating effects such as school avoidance, loss of self-esteem, in-creased anxiety, and depression. Education based organizations such as National PTA, American Federation of Teachers and National Education Association to provide schools, parents and students with resources to re-spond to bullying behavior and to begin the shift of societal acceptance of bullying to social change of addressing the issue through education and support. Helpful Links:
Thursday’s Child (operates a 24-hour hotline for endangered children, including those being bullied at 1-800-871-5437): http://www.thursdayschild.org/
Kidpower’s Bullying Prevention Resources – Solutions for Protecting Children, Teens, and Adults: https://www.kidpower.org/bullying/
Nobullying.com is an online forum aimed at educating, advising, counseling and, all im-portantly, helping to Stop bullying, in particular, cyber bullying.
A federal government website managed by the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services: StopBullying.gov
October is …
Positive Attitude Month
Maintaining a positive attitude can make a difference in maintaining emotional and physi-cal health. It seems that people with a positive attitude simply live longer, happier, healthier, more successful lives!
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SUKKOT
On the Jewish calendar this month is the
festival of Sukkot, from sunset October 2nd
until sunset on October 9th. Sukkot com-memorates the years that the Jews spent in the desert on their way to the Promised Land, and celebrates the way in which God protect-ed them under difficult desert conditions.
Sukkot is also known as the Feast of Tab-ernacles, or the Feast of Booths. Sukkot is celebrated by, first of all, building a sukkah.
Jews are required to eat in the sukkah for eight days, and some even sleep in the sukkah for the duration of the holiday. The sukkah is decorated and the first day is considered a holy day in which most forms of work are forbidden.
41 Celebrate this as a festival to the LORD for seven days each year. This is to be a lasting ordinance for the generations to come; cele-brate it in the seventh month. 42 Live in tem-porary shelters for seven days: All native-born Israelites are to live in such shelters
43 so your descendants will know that I had the Israelites live in temporary shelters when I brought them out of Egypt. I am the LORD your God. –Leviticus 23:41-43
The origins of Sukkot are both historical and agricultural. Sukkot is also seen as the festival to celebrate the fall harvest. Families would move into temporary houses, Sukkahs, built near the fields to be harvested. Each day, the entire family would spend harvesting the crops. Each evening, the family would return to the Sukkah for a shared meal and celebration of the harvest. Having their hous-ing in the fields allowed the families to spend more time on the harvest rather than travel-ing back and forth each day.
The four symbols used in the first night observance are said to kabbalistically represent aspects of the celebrant’s body; the lulav (date palm frond) represents the spine, the hadass (myrtle) the eyes, the aravah (willow) the lips, and the etrog (citron) represents the heart. The spine works
October is …
Down Syndrome
Awareness Month
What is Down Syndrome?
Down syndrome is a genetic condition that causes delays in physical and intellectual development. It occurs in 1 in every 792 live births. Individuals with Down syndrome have 47 chromosomes instead of the usual 46. It is the most frequently occurring chromosomal disorder. Down syndrome is not related to race, nationality, religion or socioeconomic status. The most important fact to know about individuals with Down syndrome is that they are more like others than they are different.
Diagnosis
Down syndrome is usually identified at birth or shortly thereafter. Initially the diagnosis is based on physical characteristics that are
commonly seen in babies with Down syn-drome. These include low muscle tone, a single crease across the palm of the hand, a slightly flattened facial profile and an upward slant to the eyes. The diagnosis must be confirmed by a chromosome study (karyotype). A karyotype provides a visual display of the chromosomes grouped by their size, number and shape. Chromosomes may be studied by examining blood or tissue cells.
Cause
Down syndrome is usually caused by an error in cell division called nondisjunction. It is not known why this occurs. However, it is known that the error occurs at conception and is not related to anything the mother did during pregnancy. It has been known for some time that the incidence of Down syndrome in-creases with advancing maternal age. How-ever, 80% of children with Down syndrome are born to women under 35 years of age.
https://www.nads.org/resources/facts-about-down-syndrome/
Here’s a shout-out to Wyoming’s DS-Ambassador: Lulu Spampinato - Good luck in Kindergarten!
to God’s purpose, the eyes raise to God’s glory, the lips praise God’s bountiful love, and the heart holds God in us all.
In contemporary observance, the sukkah is a booth or hut roofed with branches, built against or near a house or synagogue and used during the Jewish festival as a tempo-rary dining or living area. It is considered a great honor to be invited to visit or stay in the sukkah of a friend or neighbor.
… and finally -
October is … National
Church Library Month!
National Church Library Month in October shines a light on the periodicals, books, and resources available to parish leaders and congregants. A flourishing library provides a way for parishioners to continue their church education beyond the Sunday sermon. The church library also gives the classrooms a way to prepare for next Sunday’s lessons.
On a next Sunday in church - check out
the Fanny Marvel Church
Library…
you will be
pleasantly
surprised at
the wealth of
resources
available!
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Danny Cooper Coordinator/Counselor
@ Daybreak Counseling Services
the source of the assurance they crave, is
found in our relationship with God, and
the gift he grants us in the reliability of
Holy Scripture. If there was ever a mas-
ter key in this life, a key that can unlock
the individual and varied locks that hinder
or bind us in this journey of life, the
Word of the Lord is that key. The next
time we face a difficulty that brings us
pause, maybe a struggle we are in at this
very moment, before taking any other
step, let us first turn to the key and see
what God, in his goodness and mercy, has
to say about what we are battling.
Chances are, the Word has some direc-
tion and reassurance to offer us. As the
psalmist proclaimed… thy word is a lamp
unto my feet, and a light unto my path. A
key is available; a key powerful and loving
enough to open any lock that binds us.
Let’s keep this key close at hand, and …
The peace of God, which
passeth all understanding,
keep your hearts and minds in
the knowledge and love of God,
and of his Son Jesus Christ our
Lord; and the blessing of
God Almighty, the Father,
the Son, and the Holy Ghost,
be amongst you, and remain
with you always. Amen.
Master Key The grass withers and the
flowers fall, but the word
of our God endures forever.
Isaiah 40:8
As an avid reader, I, like many, routinely
have more than one book going at the
same time. Apart from the Bible, there’s
usually a faith related book that I periodi-
cally read for my spiritual growth, there’s
an audio book in my car to keep me
company, which is typically a historical
novel of some variety, and fairly often, I’ll
keep a “for fun” book on my night stand
for casual reading. A lot of good reading
material; not always a lot of time to read.
The pandemic has certainly made a dent
in my audio book listening, given I work
from home and don’t drive nearly as
much. It’s likely I’ll have the same book
in my cd player for the duration of 2020!
But on the bright side, the pandemic has
given me more opportunity for the other
reading, and I’ve read more “for fun”
books these past few months than I can
ever remember.
I usually expect my faith related reading
to be the written source to inspire my
thoughts or stir my emotions, yet inter-
estingly, my current “for fun” book has
really got me thinking.
The storyline is not all that unique, as the
main character, a visiting professor from
England, finds himself wandering the
streets of Le Mans, France, eventually
unburdening his cares and concerns to a
total stranger over a glass of wine in a
quintessential French café. The profes-
sor, married to his work, yet dissatisfied
and unsettled with his station in life, con-
fesses to his newfound confidant his de-
sire to visit the nearby abbey in search of
direction for his stalled out life, saying…
they (the monks) might not give the answer,
but they could tell me where to look for it; for
although we must each have an individual
answer to our individual problems, just as
every lock has its own key, yet might not their
answer be universal, just as a master key
opens every lock?
The book, by the way, is a classic drama/
suspense novel from one of my favorite
authors, Daphne Du Maurier. Her books
don’t typically rest on the spiritual growth
corner of my night stand, but like virtually
all aspects of life, books included, spiritual
truths can be found if we’re looking, and
this line from the novel has turned over
and over in my mind in recent days… a
master key; one that can open any lock?
Years ago, as I prepared to attend a re-
treat, a dear friend gave me a gift for the
occasion, a book titled God’s Awesome
Promises. Inside the Contents section,
close to 100 feelings, questions, principles,
etc. are listed in a variety of categories,
and when explored within the book, each
topic is expounded upon with scriptures
that directly relate. Whether being anx-
ious, struggling with addiction, enjoying
Christian fellowship, or making good use
of time, this special little book points the
reader in the right direction, to the scrip-
ture references that speak directly to
whatever the reader is seeking. To me,
this sounds like a master key.
It’s rewarding in my counseling
work when the issues or topics
that are being talked about by the
person seeking assistance eventual-
ly lead back to scripture; to spiritu-
al truths and promises that directly
pertain to the object of concern.
It’s even more satisfying still, to
remind those seeking help, who
are looking to me for guidance,
that the answer to their questions,
A prayer for Uncertain Times Lord, our Father and our Protector, in these times of confusion and chaos, when everything we used to think of as familiar and take for granted has changed, help us to remember that you are the constant in our lives, ever present, never changing. Remind us that you have already created a plan for us, and all we need to do is turn our troubles and concerns over to you. Help us to continue to believe when life is challenging. Amen
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Memorial Garden Is Still
Accepting Memorial Bricks!
In spite of the current pandemic conditions of
sheltering-in-place, social distancing and face
masking our Wyoming Church’s Memorial
Garden is waiting patiently and ready to ac-
cept your designated Memorial Bricks. The
fee for a customized Memorial Brick in a per-
petual care environment is very modest and
the time frame from confirmed order to
placement can be adjusted to meet specific
wishes and needs. Should you have any ques-
tions please do not hesitate to contact
Terry Higgins at [email protected]
or (302)492-3354 for an order form.
Wyoming Church’s Safe Secure Sanctuary’s New Security Camera System
Needs Volunteer Monitors!
As we begin our Wyoming Church’s much anticipated reopening, albeit with social distancing and face masking we, as
a congregation of Christian Brothers and Sisters, now have the opportunity to enjoy an increased peace of mind that
our new interior and exterior security camera system creates for us. Along with this new system comes the continual
need for folks to volunteer to be Greeters, Stewards and Monitors. One of our Church members has volunteered to
serve as a Greeter and a Steward through the month of December. However, to complete the needs of the Camera
System we will need folks to serve as Monitors whose responsibilities will be to be located in the Audio Visual Booth
monitoring a series of selected screen views that constantly display in real time the activities occurring during the 9AM
and the 11AM Services. Thanks to the good expertise of Bill Purdy the training of this new, very powerful, robust
system is very short and effective thus making the system easier to operate than our former system.
Specifically plans call for the need of two Monitors for each Sunday Morning Service; the first volunteer from 8:55 AM
to 10:00 AM and the second volunteer from 10:55 AM to 12:00 Noon. Ideally each volunteer would serve as a
Monitor once a month at the date and time of their choosing. After prayerful consideration and if you feel so led to
volunteer please contact Terry Higgins at [email protected] or (302) 363-5823 or (302) 492-3354 at
your earliest opportunity. Thank You!
Weed & Feed Church Grounds
Due to the current pandemic our Wyoming Church’s April ‘Weed ‘N Feed’
event did not occur. In the meantime our Summer’s combination of plentiful
rainfall and warm weather created an environment in which plants and shrubs
displayed an amazing rate of growth, including weeds in a few locations in the
landscaped beds. When you factor in the additional dynamic that many of our
regular volunteers that cared for the landscaped beds were practicing sheltering
-in-place one can easily visualize the need for some individual T. L. C. of weed
pulling and minor trimming.
Several faithful ‘weed pullers and trimmers’ including Dottie Harper and
Eddie Eichholz have been hard at work on various projects during the last
few weeks. If you are experiencing bouts of ‘cabin fever’ and feel led to get
outdoors and use your ‘green thumbs’ then contact Terry Higgins to see if
you would feel comfortable in taking on, on a one-time basis only, one of the
little projects that have ‘sprung up’. Terry can be found at both the 9:00 AM
and 11:00 AM Sunday Services or can be contacted at 492-3354 or
A big shout-out to the author of this article -
this entire page, in fact, for always being the
first volunteer at the front line of any
‘gardening & greeting’ chores!!
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Show a little
TLC...
in writing!
For a Birthday, Anniversary,
Illness, Encouragement,
Congratulation, Graduation,
Sympathy, Easter, Christmas,
Thanksgiving, Mothers &
Fathers Day, and any other
occasion of joyous celebration,
milestones and accomplish-
ments in a church family
member’s life, they will receive
a hand-written greeting card,
mostly one that was hand-
crafted by the Old-to-New Cardmakers!
Margaret Bryan (pictured), whom we also know and treasure as
the librarian of the WUMC Fanny Marvel Library, has served in
this capacity for many, many years. Sadly, Margaret’s eyesight has
deteriorated to a point where she simply cannot continue writing
cards.
Sending cards, notes of compassion and celebration from the
church, is a vital and meaningful ministry to so many members of
our church family. Time and again people have told us over the
years just how much that small token of care and concern has
meant to them!
Wouldn’t YOU want to be part of a team that’s sending
these cards?
Renate in the office will give you the information on who needs
to receive a card and why at the time. And, of course, you will
have a selection of cards and postage stamps available.
Contact Renate at [email protected] or (302) 399-3898.
When the Christian Cancer Support Group
became the vision for three women in our
church, we felt there was a real need for Chris-
tian support for those going through cancer treat-
ment or post-cancer treatment or newly diag-
nosed with cancer.
Our group was small but we created a real bond
and were genuinely interested in each other’s
progress, offering support for those who
needed it.
As Ecclesiastes 3:1 tells us, there is a season
for everything and as our group meetings have
dwindled to a very small number of attendees, we
feel it may be time to take a break from monthly
gatherings. However, we will always be here to
offer support for those who may need that sup-
port in the future.
Please feel free to contact one of us if you have a
desire for prayer or some Christian support. We
believe the time will come when the need is there
once more and we will be poised and ready to
re-convene once again!
Sharon Duncan – 302- 698-1904
Vicki Buckworth – 302-697-2033
Judy Field – 302-284-4059
“If there ever comes a day when we can’t be together,
keep me in your heart,
I ’ll stay there forever.”
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~ Our People ~
10/01 Kathi Thomas
10/03 Brad Eaby, Amelia Short,
Avery Whitenight
10/04 John deBloois, Braydon Flynn
10/05 Brianna Ditty, Lynn Farina, Dottie Harper,
Danielle Paugh
10/07 Jessica Kirby, Melissa Nelson
10/08 Kim Reed
10/10 Emily Cook
10/11 Seth Brosius, Jim Murray, Janice
Watkins
10/12 Melissa Long
10/13 Elias Wessell
10/15 Evan Fennemore
10/16 Well Inge
10/17 Vicki Buckworth, Wesley Mann
10/18 Gertie Brittingham, Eddie Eichholz
10/19 Mike Kijowski
10/20 Sylvia Bongers, Ginger Jankowski,
Adam Jones
10/21 Connie Quarnaccio
10/22 Jerry White
10/23 Reagan Raughley
10/25 Carol Pearson
10/26 James Moore, Vianna Spampinato
10/27 Bill Forbes, Jack Mitchell,
Bella Ritter
10/28 Debbie Watson
10/29 Dominic Cousens,
Ashlynn McDevitt, Suzanne Sutton
10/30 Kathy Lane
10/31 Jonathan Moore, Matt Tappan
11/01 Michelle (Freidel) Harris
11/02 Kyle Jankowski, Gregg Marker,
Barbara McCleaft
11/03 Seth Flaherty, Timothy Higgins,
Dave Yencer
11/04 Dick Gabler, Reid Singleton,
Tanya Williams
11/05 Alicia Porter, Samuel Wessell
~ Deaths ~
Susan Mateja,
the wife of Walter
and mom of Ellyanna and Emily
on August 26, 2020
Robert Willey,
the father of Beth Cooper,
on August 31, 2020
Kristin Lynn Fisher,
the sister of Theresa McGee
on August 25, 2020
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Anna Durham,
the mother of Kathleen Torbert
on September 4, 2020
Gwen Stevens
on September 6, 2020
John Warfield,
the brother of
Richard Warfield
(in Titusville, Florida)
on September 1, 2020
Jerry Buckworth,
member of
Wyoming Church
since 1964,
on September 20, 2020
"O Lord, Please Hear My Prayer" (Moses Hogan)
O Lord, please hear my prayer; In the morning when I rise.
It's your servant bound for glory. O dear Lord, please hear my prayer.
O Lord, please hear my prayer. Keep me safe within your arms.
It's your servant bound for glory.
O dear Lord, please hear my prayer. When my work on earth is done, And you come to take me home.
Just to know I'm bound for glory; And to hear You say, "Well done!"
Done with sin and sorrow. Have mercy. Mercy.
Vicki & Jerry Buckworth
~ Deaths ~
Joseph Basto, Jr.,
the brother of Jackie
Cousens
on September 12, 2020
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To: You!
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