Twenty years ago:

“If you see something in someone that you dislike, be

sure that you posses that feature, and get closer to that person because you have for

sure something to work there.”

Three years ago:

• “If you see a virtue in someone, feel confident that you own that virtue, you cannot be aware of a virtue that is not strong in you.”

A Look in the Mirror

We can actually see what we want to see.

It is a reflection!

When you change, the relationship changes.

• The dynamic of a negative relationship cannot be sustained without your participation.

-Linda Kavelin Popov, A Pace of Grace

Alberto

Work with a partner

• Look at each other into the face, making eye contact, in complete silence, for 30 seconds.

• Boundary: • Perceptiveness: be aware of your feelings, observe carefully your own gestures and

your partner´s as well, your body language.

What happened?

What can I do, to see a different reflection of the person I have in front of me?

“Sesa Wo Suban” Transform my character to transform the world.

Perceptiveness• Clarity of insight.• Being observant of what is

beneath the surface and looking for a deeper meaning.• Slow down into awareness.• We strive to see what is truly

going on.

We are born with all the virtues in potential!