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Thrive, Survive or Fail?

Presented by:Tim Connor, CSP www.TimConnor.com,

[email protected]

Sandra Crowe, MA,PCC [email protected]

©2016 Pivotal Point T & C

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How do you define thriving?

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What is the difference in his impact?

• What story did Chris Reeves tell himself?

• What story do you tell yourself about what success, or thriving looks like? What if failure is another word for not yet? Clip:

• https://youtu.be/hiiEeMN7vbQ

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Objectives• Create awareness of what interrupts

your ability to Thrive• Change this one thing and you change

everything• Take away a tool to support you in

thriving• Feel new possibilities for what you

want to create

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What does Thriving Look Like for You?

• Example, Life animated

• How are you willing to look at and possibly redefine thriving for you?

• Is it that you are not thriving or is it the way you are defining it?

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Identify How You ReactThink of something keeping you from thriving.

How do you currently deal with it?

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The Observer that I am

Observer ResultsActions

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Language, Body and Emotions

Body

Emotions

Language Spirit

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Failure is Necessary

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:Will is Directed by Why

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What to Do Now:• Let go of how you think it has to be:

• LIGM: Let it Go Moment

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Internal Process

• Accepting “What is”

• Letting Go of “What it should be”

• Asking “What can I do?”

• Example: Soul Surfer “What is possible?” https://youtu.be/DVmJiXvh3f4

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Declarations Design the FutureWe invent the future by declaring something:

Example: “ I am a non-smoker” “I am doing…”

“I haven’t done it yet and it’s ok”“Where I am is perfect for me now. Here’s what I’m creating next…”

What declaration can you make when it comes to thriving?

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With these new tools:

Internal:

* Your mindset

*Letting go

External:

*Make a declaration

*Have a conversation

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QuestionsHow do you see failure and thriving

now?

• What declarations can you make about how you will see yourself thriving?

• What is your next step in supporting your intentions?

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How Will You Design Your Thrive?

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