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Thirty-Third Sunday in Ordinary Time

November 18, 2018

St. Eulalia Parish • Winchester /Arlington 50 Ridge Street • Winchester, MA 01890

781-729-8220

“And then they will see the ‘Son of Man coming in the clouds’ with great power and glory.”

P~ Mark 13:26

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ST. EULALIA PARISH THIRTY-THIRD SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME NOVEMBER 18, 2018

PARISH MINISTRIES AND ACTIVITIES

SCHEDULED PRESIDERS (Subject to change) 11/19 Mon. 9:00AM Rev. James Savage 11/20 Tue. 9:00AM Rev. James Savage 11/21 Wed. 9:00AM Rev. James Savage 5:30PM Rev. James Bertelli 11/22 Thu. 9:00AM Rev. James Savage 11/23 Fri. 9:00AM Rev. Robert McMillan, SJ 11/24 Sat. 4:00PM Rev. James Savage 11/25 Sun. 7:30AM Rev. James Savage 9:00AM Rev. James Bertelli 11:00AM Rev. James Savage 5:00PM Rev. James Savage

MONSIGNOR FRANCIS MCGANN Our beloved retired pastor, Fr. Frank, who has most re-cently been serving as Senior Priest in Residence at St. Joseph Parish in Needham, has recently moved to Regi-na Cleri Residence in Boston, a home for retired priests. He is always happy to receive cards and notes from pa-rishioners of St. Eulalia. We have promised him our prayers and warm thoughts. His address is:

Rev. Msgr. Francis McGann Regina Cleri Residence 60 Cardinal William O’Connell Way Boston, MA 02114

MEMORIAL SHRINE AND BOOK OF REMEMBRANCE During the month of November, you are welcome to hon-or your beloved deceased by placing their framed photo in our memorial shrine located in the foyer. Please be sure that your photo is no larger than 5x7 and please put your name, address, and phone number on the back of the picture. The shrine will be available for the photo display during the month of November. You will also find at the shrine a Book of Remembrance. You are invited to list the names of the deceased whom you wish to be remembered in prayer. If you care to, next to their names, write any endearing quality, talent, or per-sonal trait. Candles for lighting will be available in the foyer starting on the Feast of All Souls, Friday, No-vember 2, through the end of the month.

IN MEMORIAM Altar flowers are donated this weekend In Loving Memory of

Edmond Bandar

Fr. Jim presenting sig-natures last week to

Rabbi Cari Bricklin-Small

at Temple Shir Tikvah in

Winchester. A copy has also been

sent to the Tree of Life

in Pittsburgh. We continue to pray

for our Jewish brothers and sisters.

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CATHOLIC APPEAL UPDATE

As of November 2, we have pledges of $112,200 (99%) from 321 donors toward our goal of $113,725. If you have not yet made a pledge to the 2018 Catholic Ap-peal, it is not too late. Can you help us meet our goal? As we near year-end, if you have made a pledge for 2018, please check to complete any unpaid balances as this will affect our parish rebate. We ask God's blessings for your generosity each year.

ST. VINCENT DE PAUL BINS The Society of St. Vincent de Paul responded to our calls regarding the offensive signage on their collection bins located in our parking lot. The bins, which collect clothing and shoes for those in need, have been replaced with new bins which have updated signage. We are most grateful to the St. Vincent de Paul for their quick and courteous response. ~Fr. Jim

ADORATION

Every Friday Night 7:00PM - 8:30PM

Times of quiet balanced with times of meditative music to enable private reflection. 7:30PM Pray along with a peaceful, recorded version of the Chaplet of Divine Mercy. 8:30PM

PRO-LIFE THOUGHTS

“ ‘A woman’s right to choose’ is shadow language to pretend that a moral evil is somehow a moral good.” ~ Cardinal Roger Mahoney

BIBLE STUDY CLASS Our first class for the new year will be on Thursday, January 10, 2019 at 7:00PM in the McGann Confer-ence Room. Please let the office know if you wish to attend so that we may order the books.

DONATIONS FOR THE WEEK OF 11/11

Collection: $ 3,222 Mail: $ 6,975 Online: $ 670 Total: $ 10,867

BE LIKE BRIT

"They love us so much and everyone is so happy. They love what they have and they work so hard to get no-where, yet they are all so appreciative. I want to move here and start an orphanage myself." ~ the late Britney Gengel ~text to her Mom

This Thanksgiving season, we would like to give thanks for all our blessings and support BeLikeBrit by collect-ing the wish list items that help them to sustain the or-phanage and care for their 66 beautiful orphans. If you

would like to read more about the BeLikeBrit Orphan-age and all their amazing work, please check out this link, https://belikebrit.org/. If you have any questions please feel free to contact Stephanie Rogers at srog-ers@sainteulalia.org. You will find bins for your dona-tion in the back of the church or at the doors as you en-ter for Faith Formation. We will be collecting until this weekend, November 18.

THE GIVING TREE

“Here I am Lord: Saying ‘Yes’ to God’s Call.” ~1 Sam-uel 3-4

The spirit of Christmas giving comes alive at St. Eulalia Parish at Giving Tree time. Our tree will go up on the weekend of November 24-25. The suggested giving limit is $35. Gifts are due back by Sunday, December 9. FAQs about the Giving Tree:

Q: How come there are so many requests for adult backpacks? We have one organization that is a 140-bed facility that takes care of homeless individuals as they transition from being in-hospital to back out on their own. These backpacks are a vital necessity for them so that they may carry their medications and a notebook listing upcoming medical appointments. Q: How come there are so many Target Gift Cards requested? We have many parents that request Target gift cards for their children. As any parent knows, small children will change their list again and again as the Christmas approaches. Why Target? All of the fa-cilities we support are within a walking distance/short public transportation ride to a Target. Q: Do the gifts really need to be wrapped when they are returned? Yes. The organizations have requested that the gifts be wrapped including the adult backpacks. Q: Is December 9th really the deadline? Yes. There is a small army of volunteers that will meet on Mon-day, December 10 to sort the gifts. Organizations will be picking up the gifts on December 11 for distribution so that all can have a very Merry Christmas.

We never say "no" to helpers! Please join us in Manion Hall on Monday, December 10 to help sort the pre-sents. We will meet at 6:00PM. If you are a high school student, we are happy to sign off on service hours* when you come and help. *Please let Christina Hurley or Jessica Callahan know.

CANADA AND NEW ENGLAND 7-DAY CRUISE WITH FR. JIM SAVAGE AS CHAPLAIN

August 3 through August 10, 2019. Sail out of Boston on Holland America and fly back from Montreal. Visit: Bar Harbor, Maine; Halifax and Sydney Nova Scotia; Charlottetown, PEI; Montreal, Quebec

Call Kathie Pawlak - 781-883-2534 or 781-729-3796 for more information.

Thank you!

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RELIGIOUS EDUCATION K-6 CLASSES

Sundays @10:15*AM – 11:15AM (*following the 9:00AM Family Mass)

Tuesdays and Wednesdays 3:30PM – 4:30PM

When Religious Education is in session, on Sundays at the 9:00AM Mass a student and their parent read the Prayers of the Faithful. If you and your child would like to participate, please get in touch with Stephanie Rogers, Coordinator of Religious Education, at 781-729-8758. Prayers will be sent a week in advance. Thank you for taking an active role with your child.

OUR READING GROUP

On Wednesday, November 28 at 7:00PM in the McGann Conference Room, the Our Reading Group will be meeting to discuss "And Then There Were None" by Agatha Christie. A mystery novel about ten strangers who are lured to an island mansion. While having dinner, an unseen voice accuses each person of hiding a guilty secret. Tension mounts as the murders begin. All are welcome.

WITH SINCERE THANKS ...to the wonderful parishioners who helped last week to stuff and mail the OSR packets. It’s a time-consuming task, and they stayed to the very end so that the envelopes could be brought to the post office in a timely fashion. Thanks again.

MIDNIGHT MADNESS IN WINCHESTER CENTER Shop ~ Dine ~ Save Come to Downtown Winchester on Monday, Novem-ber 26, 6:00PM to Midnight-ish to experience the annual tradition - “Midnight Madness” featuring festive decorations, discounted shopping, live music and deli-cious dining! Gather with your friends for a fabulous evening out and about in Winchester Center and cele-brate a night to kick off the holidays. You won’t want to miss it – because it’s only ONCE a year! Midnight Madness is brought to you by the Winchester Chamber of Commerce. www.winchesterchamber.com

CRADLES TO CRAYONS

Thank you St. Eulalia Parish for your support in mak-ing our 5th Cradles to Crayons Community Drive pos-sible. We are grateful for the use of Manion Hall and for the parking space for the collection unit. Thank you to everyone who donated items and helped at the sorting event. The collection unit was filled with do-nations and we had a room full of eager families work-ing hard to help many children get essential items they need and cannot afford.

We collected and sorted clothing, shoes, coats, books and toys that will help 702 children living in homeless situations. We are blessed to be a part of such a gener-ous and caring parish and community. Thank you!

~Jessica Callaghan

ADVENT CANDLES AND WREATHS

Advent calendars and wreaths will be for sale in the foyer of the church beginning this weekend, November 17-18. All proceeds will benefit St. Francis House in Boston. Your purchases will help to decorate your home with lovely, seasonal items and the offering will help those in need!

PARKING LOT SEALCOATING

Due to scheduling and weather conflicts, our sealcoat-ing project will have to wait until the Spring. We were able to get the crack sealing completed before the win-ter which is important for the life of the asphalt.

THANKSGIVING

You’re all invited to come and celebrate the Eucharist on Thanksgiving Eve/Day on Wednesday at 7:00PM and Thursday at 9:00AM in appreciation of the multi-ple blessings that God has given us.

You are also invited to bring to the Masses non-perishable food items which will be brought forth dur-ing the preparation of the gifts. All food items will be donated to St. Matthew’s Emergency Food Pantry. Pi-antedosi Bakery generously donated bread which will be blessed and distributed at the end of Mass to be en-joyed at your family’s Thanksgiving gathering.

KINDNESS CORNER

“ Kind words can be short and easy to speak,

but their echoes are truly endless”

~Mother Teresa

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THE UNBROKEN WORD………………………..……....……..by Michael J. Cunningham

“Face the Music,” “Stop procrastinating,” “Avoid conflict at all costs!” These are a few of the quotes

which occupy our minds when we are facing problems. Depending on the seriousness of the problem,

and our relationship with those involved, we may take a different tack to find a resolution.

All of us at some point in our lives have been responsible for managing others, perhaps nowhere more

than in our close or extended family. For myself, I have a tendency to try and have others involved in

the solution to a problem, even when they may not want to participate. In business situations the way

problems are resolved are determined by the culture of the environment. While the polarization is most

evident in the workplace, it is also true for everywhere else.

We can all relate to seeing problems. However, our inner peace is often disturbed or restored based on

how we deal with them. Unfortunately, all too often, we either leave them unresolved or take a judg-

mental approach which often alienates those who are trying to bring back into the fold.

Leaving these issues to fester is rather like putting off symptoms of an illness we know we have to deal

with; they rarely fix themselves. While prayer can be a solace and even help us in our “silent suffer-

ing,” we also are called to action to try and do something to help resolve the situation. This means talk-

ing about the issues, having an open, but Christian mindset when looking for solutions. Asking our-

selves what is the “right thing to do,” not just what will satisfy me or the others involved. We need to

look no further than the beatitudes to help guide us in

these decisions. Almost all situations can be measured

against the loving advice of Jesus in those beautiful

words, and solutions and answers can be found.

I know at times, it can be painful when you open a

wound, examine a problem, deal with the difficulties;

however, avoidance almost always leads to a worse

outcome. So even if we have to cause some hurt or

raise some painful issue when it comes to solving

problems, we are called to take action. Personally, this

always causes some internal wounding, knowing you

have disturbed someone to help bring them to a reali-

zation which may resolve the issue.

The pain which we endure by taking action is a price

we all have to pay when we are operating as Chris-

tians with the desire to do this will from the heart. I

know this pain personally, as I am sure you have felt it

yourself.

When I feel this pain, I take a look at the crucifix and

see what love expressed really looks like. And the

love in His pain becomes mine.

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PARISH STAFF EMAIL EXT. Rev. James W. Savage Pastor jsavage@sainteulalia.org 24 Rev. James Bertelli Senior Priest Cheryl Pongratz Dir. of Operations/5:00 Music Director cpongratz@sainteulalia.org 12 Louise Cocuzzo Pastoral Associate lcocuzzo@sainteulalia.org 29 Mary Lou Burke Asst. Pastoral Associate mlburke@sainteulalia.org 25 Barbara Mahoney Pastoral Care Coordinator bmahoney@sainteulalia.org 16 Laura MacMullin Parish Secretary (M,T,Th) lmacmullin@sainteulalia.org 10 Joanne Boag Parish Secretary (W, F) jboag@sainteulalia.org 10 Sally Cunningham CFF, Grades 7-11 scunningham@sainteulalia.org 19 Stephanie Rogers CFF, Grades K-6 srogers@sainteulalia.org 26 Barbara Doherty Faith Formation Secretary bdoherty@sainteulalia.org 18 Al DiMinico Custodian adiminico@sainteulalia.org Deborah Moscoso 11:00 Choir Director emeliodeb@comcast.net Parish Pastoral Council ppc@sainteulalia.org RCIA Program RCIA@sainteulalia.org Prolife Committee prolife@sainteulalia.org

Sunday, November 18 RCIA - 6:00PM

Monday, November 19

Tuesday, November 20

Women’s Group - 7:00PM

Wednesday, November 21

Thursday, November 22 Centering Prayer - 9:30AM

Friday, November 23

Saturday, November 24

Sunday, November 25

RCIA - 6:00PM

NEW TO THE PARISH - Welcome to St. Eulalia Parish. If you are a newcomer, please introduce yourself to a member of the parish staff. Reg-istration materials are in the foyer of the church, or, you may call the parish office at 781-729-8220 to register. ANOINTING AND PASTORAL CARE OF THE SICK - Both sacra-mental and pastoral services are offered by the Pastoral Staff to the sick, hospitalized, homebound, and all who are in need. To arrange a visit, please call Barbara Mahoney at 781-729-8220, ext. 16. The parish offers a special ministry to the hospitalized at Winchester Hospital. The Catholic Chaplain at the hospital is Mary Beth Moran, 781-756-2295. SACRAMENT OF RECONCILIATION - Saturdays from 3:00PM - 3:45PM, or by appointment by calling Louise Cocuzzo, ext. 29.

SACRAMENT OF INITIATION - Adults interested in learning more about the Catholic faith should call Louise Cocuzzo at 781-729-8220, ext. 29. Infant Baptism is celebrated the second Sunday of each month. To register, please call Louise Cocuzzo, ext. 29. MARRIAGE - Engaged couples planning marriage are asked to contact Fr. James Savage at 781-729-8220, ext. 24 to make arrangements for the wed-ding. A program of marriage preparation is offered to all couples. RELIGIOUS EDUCATION - Saint Eulalia Parish offers a full program of religious education for ages kindergarten to adult. Please call the Religious Education office at 781-729-8758 for information.

Saturday, November 17 3:00PM - 3:45PM Reconciliation (Confession) 4:00PM Dr. John Grady and Family

Sunday, November 18 7:30AM George, Alma and Donald MacMullin 9:00AM Robert Hillis, Sr. 11:00AM Edmond Bandar 5:00PM Basil Marchi - 17th Anniversary

Monday, November 19 9:00AM Fr. Harold LeBlanc - healing

Tuesday, November 20 9:00AM Joseph Buckley

Wednesday, November 21 Thanksgiving Vigil 9:00AM Parishioners of St. Eulalia and St. Mary 7:00PM Barbara J. Muldoon

Thursday, November 22 Thanksgiving 9:00AM Salvatore Ferraro

Friday, November 23 9:00AM Available 7:30PM Adoration

Saturday, November 24 3:00PM - 3:45PM Reconciliation (Confession) 4:00PM Donald & Karen Mahoney - 50th Wedding Celebration

Sunday, November 25 7:30AM Joseph Bernier 9:00AM Eleanore Craig 11:00AM Anthony Russo, Sr. 5:00PM Charles Keveny

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