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The success youve always wanted is just on the otherside of five success blockers;

1. Your Self-Concept2. Your Belief System3. Your Story4. Your Attachments

5. Your Attitude

Since youre reading the pocket book that will showyou how to manifest the quality of life change youwant, I must assume you are sincere about desiringthat change.What you are about to learn from reading this littlepocket booklet will prove beyond the shadow of a

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doubt that you DO have the power to bring about the

life-style change you want.

And now you are also about to learn how and why, upuntil now, youve sabotaged your own good intentions.Youll learn why you and most others dont keep NewYears resolutions.

Youve always had the power to solve your ownproblems, but youve hidden your manifesting powersbehind a victim story (your story about why it hasnthappened). Instead of creating what youve wanted,youve used your power to manifest the experience of

being powerless.

By manifesting powerlessness, your power hasworked by seeming not to work. Your powerlessnesshas now become a barrier to your further success.

If you seem to be hopelessly trapped in a situation, job, or relationship that no longer serves or nurturesyou, you will just naturally have serious doubts aboutyour being able to manifest a change in thosecircumstances.

But believe me, your powerlessness is nothing morethan an illusion created with the power youve alwayshad to create our own reality. What? You hadntrealized you have the power to create your ownreality?Well, you are that powerful, and if you are truly readyfor a change of circumstances, what youll read here


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will convince you that you DO have the power to

create the reality in which that change must manifest.

So, if you were certain you had the power to grantyour own wishes with a new BEING commitment, whatwould you choose to manifestthe perfect person orclient for youor maybe your income doubled?

You DO have the power to create a new reality inwhich the desired result manifests for you. And, in thenext few pages, I will be giving you five simple stepsfor transforming the quality of your life and yourcircumstances. If you are truly ready to learn the truth

of your being, Ill be showing you how and why youare powerful beyond anything youve ever dreamedpossible!

Considering your present circumstances, that promisemay sound incredible, but once youve understoodand accepted the true nature of that sleeping giantwithin, youll become a believer in your own power.And you will see how youve actually been misusingyour power, to sabotage your success efforts.

Youll learn how youve used your awesome power to

create the reality of powerlessness. Youll see howyouve been using that power all your life, oftenmanifesting what you didnt want, oblivious to the truenature of your own power.

Your use of that power, to date, might be compared tothat of a 3 year-old playing with matches, without a


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clue that in one careless moment, he/she might lightthe fire that burns down the house.

The source of your powerYou are a powerful manifestor because you werecreated in the image and likeness of God. I knowyouve heard this truth many times before, andperhaps discarded it as non-essential data. But maybeyou were not ready then to accept the awesome truthof your BEING. Are you now ready to BE powerful?

If so, consider accepting as your truth that you werecreated in Gods image, and allow yourself to see thatthis realization makes you awesomely powerful. Justponder being that powerful for a moment and let it sinkin if you can.

The more you can accept being powerful as your truth,the more powerful a manifestor youll become. Therealization that God individualized Himself in you, asyou, makes you a powerful BEING with creativepowers youve not yet understood nor learned tomanage.

Youve heard this truth in some form or another all

your life, but if like most others, you will have ignoredits true significance. So, keep in mind that in coming toknow this as your truth, youll be proving it to yourselfwith manifested results.


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Once youve accepted this truth as the bottom line for

your reality concept, youll realize that youve alwayshad the power to create your own reality. Until now,your BEING powers were lost in translation and yousomehow failed to get the profound nature of themessage.

Previously, youve rejected the true meaning of

created in His image and likeness, becauseBEING a god didnt match your accepted realityconcept (your story about the way life works ordoesnt). But realize it or not, you are a god, and as agod, no matter what youve chosen to accept as your

truth, your reality concept must manifest results tomatch your chosen point of view about life.

Thats right, youve created your own reality and havemanifested the appropriate content by simply choosingwho you would be and what to believe or not believe.

Your awesome manifesting powers work in tandemwith your belief system and the law of cause and

effect. That law reads: As thou hast believed, so

shall it be done unto thee

Notice that this law, as the empowering force behindyour Belief System, can punish as well as reward you.If you choose to believe youre not good enough, youwill manifest evidence to prove youre not, but whenyou can believe you are good enough, you willmanifest proof that you are.


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Can you not see the trap here?As a god, you have the power to create your ownreality by simply choosing what you will believe. So, ifyouve decided that your circumstances are the majorcause of all your problems, youve chosen a realityconcept in which you will just naturally experience lifeas the victim of those circumstances.

You might want to notice that you are a victim onlybecause thats what youve chosen to believe.

For instance: if you believe life is hard, youll manifeststruggle to prove your point, but if you could changeyour mind and accept success without stress as thenorm, youd manifest results easily and effortlessly.Sound like a fairy tale? It isnt!

But for as long as you continue to believe yourcircumstances caused your problems, you willmanifest even more evidence that seems to prove youare a victim. But, the exact opposite is true; you arenot a victim! Your manifested circumstances aremerely a reflection of who you are BEING; they arethe effect of your Belief System, not the cause of yourproblem.

Your powerful Belief System has simply manifested areality in which a victims circumstances naturallybelong, and the Universe, by way of the Law ofAttraction has delivered accordingly. With your own


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Belief System, youve trapped yourself in the

manifested reality of a victim.

To find your way out of that reality concept trap, youllwant to get that youve manifested a victimscircumstances by simply choosing to believe, think,act and feel like a victim. If youre thinking your bosswill pick on you, he will. If you think people are out tocheat you, they probably will.

But if you could just change your mind about what youbelieve, youd manifest a whole different set ofcircumstances, a better quality of life for yourself.

If you believe you are not good enough, you wont be.If you believe youre not smart enough you wont be.Neither of these beliefs would really be true if youhadnt created that reality concept. But true or not, youwill remain stuck in that quagmire of self-depreciationfor as long as you continue to point to your manifestedresults as the core cause of your problems.

Conversely, once youve taken responsibility forhaving created those not good enough, not smartenough reality experiences, you will have found the

power to choose again. Then youll manifest the realityof BEING good enough and smart enough by simplychoosing that self concept as your new belief.

In the meantime, and for as long as your realityconcept keeps telling you that you are powerless tochange anything, you wont. In fact you cant change


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anything for the better, until youve allowed yourself to

see YOURSELF as the problem.

I hope you can see by now that by choosing the realityconcept of a victim, youve chosen to play the role of apowerless pawn in a live play for which you wrote thescript and are now directing.

It wont matter that your Belief System has the order ofcause and effect reversed; as a god, you will alwaysmanifest results that prove you are right. You willmanifest according to your Belief System no matterwhat youve chosen to believe.

As Henry Ford once said, Whether you believe you

can or you cant, either way, youre right!

Youve created that reality experience by choosingwhat to believe. And now, like everyone else on thisplanet Earth who believes he or she cant, you willhave trapped yourself in the manifested reality illusion

of I cant. You might want to notice that theabbreviation for Belief System is B.S.

If you are playing at life in the role of a victim, you willhave forgotten that you wrote, directed and now playthe lead role in the story of your life. Once youverealized that you wrote your own story, how successfulwould you be, and how much better would the qualityof your life be if you rewrote that story with a happierending?


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What would your life be like if the lead character inyour play had a winners attitude and had attracted theresulting winners benefits?

The real error in your choosing powerlessness as yourrole in life is this: that BEING choice will just naturallyattract solid evidence proving your situation hopeless.As a god, you will have used your god power toindividuate yourself into the reality of powerlessness.Why not wake up your sleeping giant and tap into thatawesome power to manifest the life you DO want?

I used that power to transform my life in the seventhgrade! All the way through my early years of school, Ithought I was dumb and manifested the barelypassing grades to prove it. Then my seventh gradeEnglish teacher, Ms. Weeden, convinced me I wasmuch smarter than I had believed. From that momenton, I got only As and Bs.

Notice that all I had to do to BE smarter was changemy mind about what I believed about myself. Nowmight be a good time for you to realize that your SelfConcept, your Belief System and your story have you

trapped in a reality concept thats not serving you.

As a god you have the power to create your ownreality with a new BEING choice! With your God-givenBEING power, you can create the reality of smart ordumb, rich or poor. The point being, that if you wantyour manifested circumstances to change, you need


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only change your mind about who you will BE and

whats possible for you.

You DO have the power to rewrite the story that runsyour life and you could do it now!

But your self-definition of powerlessness puts God outthere someplace, when in truth He is and always hasbeen a living part of you, experiencing life in andthrough you as you.

God in you, as the BEING principle, gives you thepower to create any reality you can dream up by

simply making a new BEING choice. And the choice isalways yours to make. So, what will you create today?being powerful or powerless, rich or poor?

Youve created your own reality by simply choosingwho you will BE. And until youve taken fullresponsibility for what youve created, youll remaintrapped in the reality of a victim. Are you ready toadmit you wrote the script for your own victim story?

Heres how you did it to yourself!Using your God power, (your BEING power), youve

chosen who to BE and what to believe, youve chosena reality concept and an identity to match; youvewritten your story and the role you will play in it.

The hidden secret in your lifes story is that youvealways had the power to rewrite your role in the storythat determines the quality of your life. You have the


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power right now, to make a new BEING choice that

will automatically improve the outcome of your lifesstory.

Once your new BEING commitment has been made,the quality of your manifested results will automaticallychange, because you are and have always been apowerful magnetic force for attracting what belongswith you.

The Law of Attraction demands a perfect match.Everything you attract into your life must fit within thecontext of your BEING choice. If you can accept that

premise as the new foundation of your Belief System,then the process for changing the quality of your lifewill be as simple as changing your mind about whoyou will BE.

Then with total faith in the BEING principle and theAttraction Principle, you will make your new BEINGcommitment and manifest the better results youvewanted.

What Im telling you here may sound like a fairy taletoo good to be true, but the truth is, once youve made

a solid committed BEING choice, it must manifest.You are that powerful, but you will only manifestresults according to your belief in whats possible.

When you take The Success Blockers Workshop, wellshow you how to grow your belief in whats possibleby having you take baby steps that grow larger as


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your self-confidence and your consciousness grow

exponentially.

As a participant in our BEING Workshops, youllgradually grow more and more certain of yourmanifesting powers.

Once youve proven your awesome power to yourselfand acquired certainty, you wont be worrying aboutthe how to, because you will have realized that themanifesting process is on automatic. Youll simplychoose a new way of BEING YOU, knowing for certainthat the Universe must deliver the appropriate content

and opportunities for that new BEING choice.

Of course, the next important step in the manifestingprocess is the ability to accept a better life for yourself.In choosing your new reality, you must be willing, ableand readyhave the self worthto accept delivery ofnew content when and in whatever form it shows up.

The delivery processthe Attraction Principlehasrecently been called The Secret. But the Law ofAttraction was never really a secret; The AttractionPrinciple has always been in force. It is a truth that has

been hidden from you in plain sitehidden onlybecause at some level of consciousness you were notready to accept that the process for solving lifesproblems could really be that simple.

The other half of The Secret to attracting what youwant--the part that may have been missing from The


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Secret MovieIs the BEING Principle. It is always

your BEING commitment and your attitude thattriggerssets the Attraction Principle in motion.

The power of God in you is your I am powertheBEING Principlethats the power you and I have tochoose who we will BE. Once your new BEING choiceis made, the Universe as The Attraction Principleautomatically delivers the appropriate content.

Your manifesting powers will grow along with yourever increasing awareness that as gods, your life andmine are governed by two powerful spiritual principles:

1. The BEING Principle2. The Attraction Principle

As an individualization of God, your conscious use ofthose two principles will make you powerful beyondyour current ability to believe.

The truth about your life is this: if your wishes are everto be granted, you must allow yourself to BE thepowerful genie who manifests your desires throughconscious use of the magic wand available in your use

of those two powerful spiritual principles.

Your understanding and conscious use of these twoprinciples will allow you to have whatever you wantfrom life. But you can never manifest riches in anyform, heath, wealth or relationships, until youvechosen to BE RICH and FEEL RICH in that way.


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Please know that nothing can or will change in yourlife without your new BEING commitmentuntil youvetaken that first step of choosing to BE the one who

1. Knows what you want2. Believes you can have it3. Has the self-confidence to choose it4. The self-worth to accept it5. And the winners attitude to attract it

1. How to know what you want. If you dont knowwhat you want, its because you dont know whoyou arenot really. And if you dont know who youare, you wont know what belongs with you. If arenot sure you know what you want, you might beginthe process of deciding what you want by makinga two column list.

In the left hand column make a list of everything inyour life you dont like. Then in the right handcolumn make a want that would cancel out eachitem on the dont want list. Do this exerciseexpecting that in the process of deciding what youwant, youll come to know who you are.

As you become more and more aware of your trueidentity, youll more easily know who and whatbelongs in your life. Only then will you begin to makethe BEING choices that allow you to have what youreally want in your life.


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In a BEING Workshop, wed show you how to knowwhat you want and choose it.

2. How to believe you can have it. Maybe evenmore important than knowing what you want is thebelief that you can actually have it manifest in yourlife. But just knowing what you want wont getit for you; before those desired results can showup in your life, you must first have chosen to BEthe one to whom that benefit belongs by right ofconsciousness.

Most people who know what they want never seem tomanifest their desires. Their problem is in believing:theyve chosen to have what they want, when in fact,theyve only chosen to be someone who wants it.Notice that their BEING choice worked, when itmanifested the reality of wanting.

Youll never manifest results beyond your belief inwhats possible. So even if you knew what youwanted, you wouldnt choose it if you didnt trulybelieve you could actually have it, would you?

In a BEING workshop youll be proving your power as

a manifestor with out-of-the-box results. And with eachsubsequent manifestation youd grow more and morecertain about whats possible for you. Once youveacquired certainty, youll realize that you can now trulyhave whatever you want from life just by choosing it.


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During the 16 weeks of The Success Without Stress

BEING Workshop, participants manifest remarkableresults twice. They prove themselves to be powerfulmanifestors every 8 weeks. How great would your lifebe if you knew for certain you could have whateveryou wanted from life?

3. Acquiring the self-confidence to choose it. Idefine self-confidence as belief in ones selfascan do power. Confidence can also be defined asfreedom from doubtas in knowing you can andwill do whatever it takes to have what you want. Inthe BEING Workshop, you would experience

awesome spiritual awakenings, and as yourconsciousness grows so will your confidence (cando) power.

4. The winners attitude to attract it. Youll want toknow that your attitude about life is a powerfulforce for either attracting or repelling what youwant or what you dont want.Your attitude is yourstate of mindin this case, its in how you feelabout something you want. What you may notrealize about your assumed attitude is that it justnaturally creates a polarity for attracting what you

want or what you dont want into your life.

Your attitude about your life and circumstances can beeither your path to further success or your greatestbarrier to that success.

Why is attitude so important?


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Two powerful emotions, Love and/or Fear, activate the

Attraction Principle to manifest the appropriate results.If you focus mostly on your problems, you are in thesurvival mode and your attitude will be fear, doubt andworry. Youd fear the possibility of not having what youwant. The survivors fear, doubt and worry moves youinto a Losers Attitude with which youll only attractmore of those troubling circumstances into your life.

But when your focus is mostly on the solution for yourproblem and what your life will be like when theproblem is already solved, youll be living in love, joyand enthusiasm. Your love cancels out the fear and

gives you the Winners Attitude.

To learn more about the art of acquiring the WinnersAttitude, you might want to visit www.richbits.com andpurchase a copy of The Winners Secret booklet for$1.95 by this author. And if you want help in changingyour focus from fear to love, you might want to join usin the next Success Blockers Workshop.

5. And youll want to have the self-worth to acceptit. Some would label, self worth, self-esteem, but interms of manifesting the desired results, I would rate

self-worth a very necessary part in the five-stepmanifesting process. You wont be having what youthink you want unless you have the self worth toaccept it when it shows up. This means, youll want toacquire the feeling that youll have that new benefit inyour life because it belongs with you.
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We all have self worth issues, and in many cases, ourself worth problems originated when our parents used,worthiness as a lever for manipulating our goodbehavior. Acceptancethe ability to accept a betterquality of lifewould rate high on the list of the mostimportant elements of a successful manifestation.

In a BEING Workshop, youd grow your self worth,your confidence and your consciousness, big time!

Remember; to have what you really want from life youmust first

1. Know what you want2. Believe you can have it3. Have the self-confidence to choose it4. The winners attitude to attract it5. And the self-worth to accept it

Those five ways of BEING YOU, (BEING choices) arethe necessary steps for making a BEING commitmentthat activates the Attraction Principle to manifest yourdesired result. Once you have all five elements forsuccessful manifesting in place, you WILL, justnaturally, attract and HAVE whatever you want fromlife!

Thats right! Your life really is a fairy tale. All your life,with all your past BEING choices, youve been writingthe script of your own fairy tale! If your lifes story, upuntil now, is often missing joy, happiness andsatisfaction, it can only be because youve left out one


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or more of the above five stepsBEING choices

necessary for successful manifesting.

You DO have the power (now or whenever you areready), to re-write the script that runs your life. Youlldo that, with a new BEING choice. But each time youdecide to manifest some new remarkable out-of-the-box results, you must, first, have all five BEINGchoicesthe elements for successful manifesting inplace.

Whatever you want from life that you do not alreadyhave, will become available to you when you are

ready to chose your way out of your current realityconcept box with a new BEING choice. Solving yourlifes biggest problems really is that simple, and itwould even be easy if five powerful success barrierswere not standing between you and further success.

To have what you want show up in your life wouldrequire a shift in BEING choices. Having the desiredresult manifest is as simple as changing your mindabout who you will BE. All thats necessary is that youknow what you want and choose to BE the one towhom it belongs by right of consciousness.

Remaking those five simple BEING choices would beso easy if your previous choices were not standing inyour way of having the change you want.

The creative process for manifesting what you want inlife is BE, DO HAVE. That creative process would be


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so simple and even easy to use if it were not for the

fact that we human BEINGS trap ourselves in thereality cage of our own Belief System. We take on theidentity of the individual in our reality concept cageand then become attached to who weve become andwhat weve manifested.

In your journey toward manifesting your dream reality,youll be half way home once youve realized that, inbecoming attached to the status-quo, YOU will havebecome your own greatest barrier to having life getany better.

Thats so important, Ill repeat it: YOU are your owngreatest barrier to having your life get any better.

Why are we so change resistant?As an individualization of God, youve created yourown reality, and now live and move and experiencelife in the reality of that BEING choice, but not as agod---as your ego. In the process of creating your ownrealty, youve forgotten your True Identity.

Being a god gives you the power to individuateyourself and then to experience life from that point of

view. Youve used your god power to define yourindividuality, and in the process, developed amnesiaand the illusion of separation.

In choosing who to BE, youve assumed the role ofyour individuation, your self-definition. Now, yourreality concept illusion has become a cage of self-


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imposed limitations. The walls of your cage are yourfears of what unknown dangers may lurk beyond theboundaries of your current reality concept and yourstory.

Your fear of change is now your greatest barrier tomanifesting further success in life.

In defining your individuation, youve separatedyourself from God and trapped yourself in your owncreation. Your separation from your god self is anatural part of the individuation process, but in theprocess of choosing a reality concept, youve givenaway your god-power to that which youve created.

Your reality concept trap has become five powerfulblocks to further success.The Success Blockers are:

1. your self-concept,2. your belief system,3. your story,4. your attachments5. and your attitude.

These five ways of BEING YOU are how youve

defined your individuation and created your very ownunique reality concept. In these five ways, youvetaken on the identity of your individuation, and are nowexperiencing life in the box created by choosing thatreality concept.


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Now that youve chosen a reality concept, youve

turned the maintenance of your reality concept over toyour survival (fear) motivated ego. With those BEINGchoices, youve chosen a reality concept in which toexperience life, but that reality conceptyourassumed identityhas become a box, a reality withself-imposed boundaries, and the keeper of your boxis your ego.

Why do we need an ego?Think of it this way: not only did God put a part ofHimself in each of us, He also gave us an ego as themeans by which we could experience life in the reality

of our chosen individuation. As gods, we needed aunique identity and a material reality in which toexperience our creativity.

To provide you with the real life experience of yourchosen reality concept, your ego assumes the identityof your individuation. But while experiencing life inyour chosen reality, as your ego, youll just naturallyforget who you are. You wont remember you are agod with the power to reinvent yourself. Youll forgetyou have the power to make life better with a newBEING choice; you will have become trapped in a

cage of your own making.

Your ego sees its life as a mission of survival--thesurvival of its being whoever it perceives itself to be.

As a God, youve created your own reality, and now asyour ego, youve assumed that identity and it (your


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ego) has taken on the job of maintaining that realityconcept illusion.

As ego, youll be maintaining the status quo byscreening out every idea that is not a perfect match foryour chosen reality concept. As your ego, your realityconcept will be defined in 5 different ways, each ofwhich will have become a unique and very powerfulbarrier, blocking your ability to manifest furthersuccess.

Your reality concept/success blockers are:

1. Your self-concept2. Your belief system3. Your story4. Your attachments5. Your attitude.

Remind yourself that the above five elements of yourreality concept are the ways in which youve used yourgod power (your BEING choices) to define yourindividuation.

Whats important to realize at this point in our

discussion is: once you understand how and why youacquired each of those reality concept/successblockers, you will have found the power to reinventyourself with a new self definition in each of those fiveways of being you.


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Isnt it time you reinvented yourself by choosing a new

reality concept in which you can really and truly havewhatever you want from life?

To manifest something different than your currentcircumstances, youll need a whole new realityconcept. In other words, if you want the quality of yourlife to change for the better, you must change yourmind about who you are and whats possible for you.In this way, you will have redefined yourself with anew reality concept.

The first step in that process would be for you to

realize that you created your current reality bychoosing who to be and what to believe.

I didnt make this up!It really is true that you can manifest whatever youwant if you believe you can. And, so that you dont getoff track with this truth in terms of whats possible foryou, I want to remind you of the spiritual law that

reads, As thou hast believed, so shall it be done

unto thee. And I also want you to see that thisspiritual law makes you a god.

So, it doesnt matter what youve chosen to believe,your reality concept must manifest content to match.

You have the powerBut, before anything can change for the better in yourlife, you must have a spiritual awakening--first come


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alive, inspired by the realization that you have the

power to simply change your mind about who you areand whats possible for you. By changing your mind inthat way, you will have made a new BEING choicethat changes your reality concept and redefines yourindividuation.

The other half of your reawakening realization willcome at that point when, youve sufficiently provenyour god power with manifested results. At that point,youll know for certain that your new BEING choicemust manifest the desired result.

Since that change of mind and heart is the real secretto manifesting the life style you want, then whatsstopping you from manifesting that change? Theanswer is: YOU; in five different ways you havebecome your own greatest barrier to further success.

Your ego has five ways in which it maintains yourreality concept. Each of the five will be used to blockyour success when you attempt to change your mindabout who you are and what to believe.

Your reality concept, in five parts

1. The first way in which you as a god haveindividuated yourself by choosing a reality concept,is in how youve chosen to perceive yourselfrelative to everyone and everything else in yourlife. Your self concept is includes your currentgrowth in consciousness, your self-esteem, yourself-confidence and your self-worth.


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Youve created your own self concept withdecisions like:

a. Im not loveable, or I am loveableb. I am good enough, or Im notc. Im dumb, or Im smartd. Im handsome, attractive, or note. Im a klutz, or Im dexterousf. I can do whatever it takes, or I cantg. Please feel free to add to the list

h. i. .

j. ..k. ..

2. The second way youve used your God power toindividuate yourself was in deciding what youwould believe. The problem with your BeliefSystem (B.S) is in believing that your truth aboutlife is THE TRUTH; when in fact, it is only yourtruth. As a god, it doesnt matter what youbelievethat belief (your truth) must materialize asyour experience.

In your journey through life, youve made beliefsystem decisions like:

a. I am a victim of my circumstancesb. God is out there someplacec. Life is hardd. Im being punished for my sins


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e. Being more successful would meanworking harder

f. It takes money to make moneyg. Money is the root of all evil

Now, lets suppose you wanted desperately tochange the quality of your life and improve yourcircumstances. You might want to notice that foras long as those beliefs are in place, it would beimpossible to manifest results to the contrary.Perhaps while reading this book you will choose tochange your mind about whats possible for you.

3. The third component of your individuation is yourstory, which is just something youve made up inyour journey through life. This would be your manyearly on conclusions about the way life is. You builtyour story mostly out of survival based decisionsmade when you established the safe boundariesbeyond which you dared not go.

The problem with your story is that you arrived atmost of those conclusions way back when youwere too young to know better, too young to beestablishing a pattern for the rest of your life.

These were decisions like:a. Ill never allow myself to be hurt like that

againb. Life is hardc. There will never be enough money


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d. The supply is limited; if I get what I want

someone else will do withoute. I have to take care of everyone and fix their

problems

The problem with any aspect of your story is thatonce youve bought into the idea that therell neverbe enough money, youll manifest a life in whichthere will never be enough money no matter howmuch you make.

Your story has become a pattern for your life that,like a broken record, repeats itself over and over

again until you change it.

4. The fourth way in which youve individuatedyourself was in becoming attached to who andwhat you had or what youve wanted. Attachedmeans what you have has you and now yourehooked. Being attached to anyone or anythingmeans youve given away your power to that whichyou think you must have if your life is to be wholeand complete.

You are attached if:

a. You have something or are in a relationshipyou are afraid of losingb. Youve set a goal and fear not reaching itc. You are attached to a job you dont like but

cant quit because you need the moneyd. You are attached to a relationship that no

longer serves you, but youve avoided


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confronting that person for fear of

destroying the relationshipe. You are attached to whatever you think youneed to make your life whole and complete.

Unfortunately, attachment in any of its forms is a trapexplained by a spiritual law that Ive paraphrased to

read: What you desperately need, you cant have;

but once you no longer need it, you can have all of

it you want. Youll know what I mean, if youve evergone to the bank to borrow money when you neededit. They said No didnt they? But if you didnt need it,you could have borrowed all you wanted.

Actually that law of attachment is my paraphrased

interpretation of a biblical quote that reads, To him

that hath, it shall be given and he shall have even

more abundance; but to him that hath not, it shall

be taken away even that he hath.

Attachments are traps, because once you fear loosingwhat you have or when you are afraid of failing atsomething you will most probably suffer that loss. Yourway past that fear is to face it and move through and

past it with the winners attitude.

As a god, you can have whatever you want from life.But once youve become attached to a person, place,thing, or some outcome, you have become a person inneed, and your need automatically negates your godpower. Its like trying to water the lawn with your foot


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on the hose. Your need gives your personal power tothat which youve become attached.

To win at anything, you must first set yourself free offear of need and in the process, acquire the WinnersAttitude. To win, you must find your way past your fearof loss or failure. As always, the only way out of pain,fear or trouble is through.

Fear is the avoidance of some form of pain, so untilyouve allowed yourself to move into and through theavoided pain (mostly imagined) your fear will stop you

cold. But once youve visited the worst possiblescenario and made that experience okay, your fear ofloss will go away and you will have acquired theattitude of a winner.

As Mark Twain once said, In my lifetime Ive faced

a multitude of problems. Most of them never

happened!

The success you really want is on the other side ofyour fear of the unknown. My guess is that youll needhelpcoachingthru the process of facing your fears

and making failure okay. Youll find your fear coach inthe next Success Blockers Workshop.

5. The fifth way youve defined your individuation is inchoosing your attitude about your life andcircumstances. Out of all your self-defining BEING


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choices your attitude may be the single mostpowerful attractor or blocker of further success.

Basically, your attitude about the world and howyou feel about life in general is what determineswho and what you will attract into your life. Yourattitude at any given moment, will be based in oneof two powerful emotionsfear or love. Yourattitude, whether love or fear based, activates theattraction principle to manifest correspondingresults.

When you are focused more on your problem thanits solution, Fear can only attract more of what youdo not want into your life. But once your attentionis centered in love, on the joy of having what youwanton the problems solution, your newlyacquired enthusiasm, the winners attitude, will justnaturally attract the success you want.

The thing to get from this self-definition/success-barriers discussion is the realization that youvecreated the reality concept in which your currentcircumstances just naturally belong. Youve used yourgod power, to individuate yourself into that reality

concept with those circumstances.

A major assumption in your reality concept illusion willbe that there is no way out. But thats simply not true!The solution for your problemany problemIs foryou to rewrite the ending of your story or create a new


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reality with another BEING choice. You can do that

any time you are ready.

Just change your mind about who you are and whatbelongs with you and your circumstances will changeto match.

At this point, stop and listen to your mind chatter.Notice that in just thinking about changing your mind,your negative self talk shows up. Thats your egoreacting to the idea of a reality concept change withthoughts of fear, doubt or worry. What youre feeling isnatural; its ego resistance and thats what stops most

people who attempt a serious change in life style.

Almost everyone you know would change their lifestyle for the better if they knew they could. Peoplewant out of what theyve always just settled forand into that which they really want. But because oftheir egos powerful resistance to change, theirtransformation process is often time consuming andfrustrating. Youll experience that frustration, unlessyou are coached through the transformation processby a certified BEING coach.

If you knew help were available through thetransformation process, would you be interested inlearning more about that?

If so, go to www.richbits.com and click on workshopsor email [email protected] and request informationabout the Success Blockers Workshop.
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Youve been growing your consciousness all your life,realize it or not. Self-discovery (spiritual awakenings)are not a one time event in your lifenot adestination. Being transformed is nothing new in yourlife, but the process, more often than not, is slow andpainful.

The average person, using a process called,CREATE, PERSIST, DESTROY, is transformed aboutevery 3 years. In that prolonged 3 to 4 yeartransformation process, the average person spendsabout 2 years in the destroy process before finally

freeing him or herself from an unhappy situation or arelationship and move on.

The Create, Persist, Destroy process is prolonged andoften agonizingly painful, because egos do notunderstand or accept the necessity for detaching fromthe old in order to make room for life to get better.

In the creative process, before we can have ormanifest anything different in our lives, we must firstdetach from that which weve previously created. Inorder for anything new to show up in your life, you

must create the space for it to happen.

You wont be choosing a new way of being YOU untilthe old YOU steps out of the way. The old you is YouBEING your success blockers,

Your self-concept Your belief system


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Your story

Your attachments Your attitude

all of these must change to make room for the newyou. It is through this create, persist, and destroy(detach) process that we grow our consciousness, ourself confidence and our self worth.

In the BEING WORKSHOPS, we speed up thetransformation process by having participants detachand make a new BEING choice, with a new goal setevery 8 weeks.

Why is it important to speed up the transformationprocess? You are an individualization of God on theyellow brick road of self discovery. But the realizationof your god power can be theory only for you, untilyouve proven yourself powerful with manifestedresults.

Realize it or not, you are on a mission of selfdiscovery. Youve been slowly growing yourconsciousness all your life. This self growth processtakes place through a series of spiritual awakenings.Life just gets better and better as your self awareness

grows. Why not join us in the next Success BlockersWorkshop and speed up the process.

One of the many ways you can experience the realityof God in your life is by using your god power to createthe reality of your dreamsnot just oncebut overand over again. Through this process your


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consciousness, your self confidence and your self

worth will grow exponentially.

Ive created an illustration to give you an idea whatyour life might look like on that consciousness curve.

A side benefit of your growth in consciousness, ofcourse, will be your exponential growth in income andthe improved quality of your life!


That you are a god can be theory only for you, untilyouve proven to yourself how powerful you are with


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manifested results. Youll come to know God

experientially by being a god in your own life. Youllgrow your consciousness by facing your fears, whilemoving beyond those fear barriers

Youve been searching for your personal power allyour life without a clue that your power was the powerof god expressing in and through you as you.

Most successful people go through life assumingpersonal power to be the ability to make thingshappen, the ability get things donecrunch it out,doing power. They mistakenly assume that personal

power is an active make-it-happen sort of power.

But crunching it out is life the hard way. The easy,effortless way is to let the Universe do the manifesting.

The truth is that your god power is not make ithappen power; instead it is passive power which issimply the power to make solid committed BEINGchoices with full faith (certainty) that your desiredresults will manifest easily and effortlessly.

Your god power is a let it happen power. You can

have whatever you want from life once youve learnedthe art of making BEING choices that just naturallymanifest the desired result easily and effortlessly.

I know this may sound like a fairy tale, but havingwhat you want from life really is that simple.


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But youll probably need help in the process of provinglife is that simple. You are and always have been inthe process of growing your consciousness. And,realize it or not, your consciousness growsexponentially.

The time frame for growing your consciousness isstrictly up to you, but the consciousness curve looksthe same whether you spread it out over 60 years orthree years. Go back and look at the chart again andthen decide how soon youll want to manifest the goodlife.

Notice in above the illustration that the consciousnesscurve will also be a quality of life curve and/or anearnings curve. Especially notice how your earningsand the quality of your life would improveexponentially if you chose to stay on the BEINGWorkshops speeded up path of self discovery.

Can you even imagine how great life would be--how joyful, happy and successful youd be if you were togrow your God Poweryour manifesting powersexponentially every 8 weeks for the next three years? Iknow youll have trouble picturing that, but with each

out-of-the-box manifestation, your belief in whatspossible will grow.As a participant in a BEING Workshop youll grow yourconsciousness, your self-confidence and your self-worth every 8 weeks. But even more important is that


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youd be learning the art of managing your powerful

change-resistant ego.

In the 6-month graduate course, The Mastering YourLife Workshop, youd grow your consciousness every90 days and be putting the real you in charge.To learn more about the BEING WORKSHOPS, callus at 505 280 0930.

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