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Steffen, Steffen & Associates, Inc. 2010-2015 1 Living The 9½ SECRETS The Most Successful People (MSP) Use That Others Don’t Using the Aligned Thinking Process Introducing the Q – E – S 1 Method Using the Elegantly Simple 2 Aligned Thinking Process Hint: Print this Introduction so it’s easier to take notes. Benefits You Can Expect Get the most from your time and career (Elevating Time Management) Get the most from your life (Enjoy the Life you REALLY want) Add life to your years and years to your life (Fuller-longer life) 1 Q –Quick to learn, E – Easy to use, S – Sure to work immediately and for a lifetime. 2 When all is implemented with a commitment of just 30, 5 and 5, you can continue to enjoy all the benefits for life. Coach Jim Steffen

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Steffen, Steffen & Associates, Inc. 2010-2015 1

Living

The 9½ SECRETS

The Most Successful People

(MSP) Use

That Others Don’t

Using the Aligned Thinking Process

Introducing the Q – E – S1

Method

Using the Elegantly Simple2

Aligned Thinking Process

Hint: Print this Introduction so it’s easier to take notes.

Benefits You Can Expect

Get the most from your time and career (Elevating Time Management)

Get the most from your life (Enjoy the Life you REALLY want)

Add life to your years and years to your life (Fuller-longer life)

1 Q –Quick to learn, E – Easy to use, S – Sure to work immediately and for a lifetime. 2 When all is implemented with a commitment of just 30, 5 and 5, you can continue to enjoy all the benefits for life.

Coach Jim Steffen

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Living the 9 ½ Aligned Thinking™ Secrets Contents

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To think and act like the Most Successful People think and act so YOU can enjoy success like the Most Successful People.

Strategic Goal: To identify, achieve and enjoy more – the riches – the values – the life you

REALLY want.

Tactical Goal: To build the habits to do what most people believe impossible:

Align EVERY action to – the riches – the values – the life you REALLY want.

Part I Building Your Habits to Live the Life

You REALLY want

1. Discovering the SECRETS

How the SECRETS were discovered 3

SECRETS 1 – 4 The Critical Basic Habits and their Significant Competitive Edge 5

SECRETS 5 – 8 Four Critical Challenges Overcome Leading to The Big 4 6

Start at the Bulletin Board – Text & Audio Presentations

2. Implementing the SECRETS

Partner’s Guide – The Partner – Your Key to Greater Insight, Commitment and Fun 13

SECRET 9 – Imitate the Champions – Your Own Personal Coach 19

3. Bonus Support – Your Own Personal On Line Virtual Coach 20

Where to Begin – Aligned Thinking Assessment 20

A Fun Way to Build Your Personal and Profession Life Missions

Part II – Refining Your Habits to Grow the Life

You REALLY Want

Double Danger – Overcome in just 15 Minutes a Week 21

Elegantly Simple – Just a 30, 5, and 5 Commitment 22

Appendix 23

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Living the 9 ½ Aligned Thinking™ Secrets 1. Discovering the SECRETS

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Part I Building the Habits to Live the Life

You REALLY want

1. Discovering the SECRETS

How the SECRETS were Discovered

My goal – Help participants accomplish what they REALLY want to accomplish

1. How the Most Successful People Think & Act

2. How to share this with others

3. So you can enjoy Success like the Most Successful People

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Living the 9 ½ Aligned Thinking™ Secrets 1. Discovering the SECRETS

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Story Behind the Story – Discovery of SECRET 1 Your Dream and My Dream

I’m sure you have dreams, so you’ll understand my dream.

For a long time, I dreamed of having my own business that would help people reach their full

potential, i.e. help them realize and enjoy their dreams.

Situation: After the first traditional time management program.

The Life Changing Questions

What do we control?

And how do we get the most from it?

Answer to Question One

The past is gone. The future is not here yet. The Only thing we control is our action NOW.

Question Two – Best answered in Two Parts

What is the most value to you – what your REALLY want.

How to align EVERY action (the only thing you control) to – the riches – the values –

the life – you REALLY want.

Most People say – that’s impossible

Secrets 1 – 8 say YOU can do it

Secret 9 will show you the Q – E – S Way ( the quickest, easiest and surest way)

SECRET 9 ½ will help you “Refine your Habits to grow the life you REALLY Want.”

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Living the 9 ½ Aligned Thinking™ Secrets 1. Discovering the SECRETS

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SECRETS 1 – 4 Critical Basics – Only You

Why only you can give yourself this Significant Competitive Edge.

SECRET 1 – Start with what You Control

The Most Successful People

Think about time_differently_ than most.

SECRET 2 – Clarify your Passion

The Most Successful People

clarify what they REALLY want by writing_ it.

Modules 1 and 2 will guide you to create a Personal and Profession Life Mission.

SECRET 3 – Compass Question

The Most Successful People

develop the skill to continuously _focus_ on living the life they _really_ want.

Module 3 will help you get started on this.

SECRET 4 – Multitasking vs. Single Focus

The Most Successful People

practice being _totally_ Involved in _just one_ thing at a time.

Module 4 will pull it all together.

Only You Can

1. Decide what to focus on – this action

2. Clarify what you REALLY want

3. Align this next action to what you REALLY want

4. Develop the skill of being totally involved in just one thing

Take-Home Value:

Only __ __ __ can give yourself this Significant Competitive Edge

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Living the 9 ½ Aligned Thinking™ Secrets 1. Discovering the SECRETS

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SECRETS 5 – 8 The Aligned Thinking Tools Needed

SECRET 5 – Myth – What I REALLY want is Selfish

The Most Successful People know

focusing on what They_ REALLY want is the key to a motivated life,

lived with great passion, inner fulfillment and meaning.

Module 2

SECRET 6 – Interruptions vs Opportunities

The Most Successful People

have a _system_ for turning interruptions into opportunities.

Module 6

SECRET 7 – Avoiding To-Do-List frustration

The Most Successful People

avoid-To-Do-List frustration by _not using_ a To-Do List

Module 3

SECRET EIGHT – The System

The Most Successful People

implement the SECRETS as a System.

Module 1-8 & Follow up

Take-Home Value:

The SECRETS form a system.

To enjoy the Significant Competitive Edge

You need them all.

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Start at the Bulletin Board – Text & Audio Presentations

1. Enter www.SSAinternational.com

2. Click on ATJ Bulletin Board

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Living the 9 ½ Aligned Thinking™ Secrets 1. Discovering the SECRETS

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This page shows

On the left, Personal On Line Virtual coach

Your Unique Personal Welcome Page

On the right – Class Bulletin Board

Enter your Class Code to go to your Class Bulletin Board

3. Enter Class Code

Submit

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Go to the TimeSaver Worksheets, the text of Module 1, see below.

4. Click on

TimeSaver Worksheets

1

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The TimeSaver Worksheets, the Text of Module 1

5. Print this Module 1

SUGGESTION

Two pages per sheet in color

Then click the back arrow

To return to the Class Bulletin Board

Then return to the last page.

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To participate in Critical Basics Module 1, click on Critical Basics 1.

6. Click on

Critical Basics 1

to participate in

Module 1

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How to listen to the presentation.

How to download and save Module 1.

7. Listen by clicking arrow.

Move back and forth

with the bar above.

OPTION

To download module,

right click

Module 1.

On new window

Left click on

Save Target as…

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2 Implementing the SECRETS

Partners’ Guide

Living the 9 1/2 SECRETS The Most Successful People Use that Others Don’t

And Using

The Aligned Thinking Tools

Commitment/Progress Record

The SECRETS the Most Successful People use upgrades time management

to the action to values level, becoming a Life Management Process

that will guide you to make an immediate and lasting difference in your life.

Creating the action to values habits to receive the full Life Management benefits

of the SECRETS the Most Successful People use will take

less effort and be more fun with a partner or team.

(A Partner is an option that makes it more fun and easier to enjoy a Significant Competitive Edge.)

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Partners Guide Participants Name_______________________

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Goal of this Guide Q – E – S

To lead you in the:

1. Q - Quickest

2. E – Easiest

3. S – Surest way to implement the 9 ½ SECRETS building

your Aligned Thinking Habit:

i.e. align EVERY action to - the riches - the values - the life - you REALLY want.

Challenges

The habits you have built over the years will not be easy to refine or change in just eight weeks.

You are already very busy with many other things that demand your attention.

The Significant Competitive Edge Principles

Discovery Principle

When you know exactly what you are looking for,

you give yourself a significant competitive edge to discover it.

Focus Principle

When you write the improvement you will focus on this week,

you give yourself a significant competitive edge to successfully improve this next week.

Accountability Principle

When you are accountable to share your recorded progress with your partner,

you give yourself a significant competitive edge to regularly improve.

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Partners Guide Participants Name_______________________

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Preparation for Your Partnering Meeting

1. Friday, Saturday or Sunday, complete the Module using this Guide for this week.

HINT: Fill in your answers right in this word document.

2. Complete your Progress on last week's commitments.

3. Send this document to your partner.

Directions for Your Partnering Meeting

1. Discuss with your partner “Key ideas to implement and remember…”

HINT: Focus on the synergism related to how you will implement each insight.

2. Share and explain your Progress since last week.

3. Share and explain your commitment "This week I will focus on... By..."

4. End each meeting by reviewing the Day, Time and Place of your next meeting.

Ideal Schedule

Monday schedule partnering meeting (Lunch is ideal)

- Tuesday is back up

Wednesday - send the entire word document to your Coach

Thursday - meet with your coach

For questions or support: [email protected] 203-740-8400 (8:00 am-5:00 pm Eastern Time)

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Partners Guide Participants Name_______________________

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Module 1 – Clarifying Your Personal Purpose/Mission

Challenge 1: Where will I get the power, motivation and insights

to align EVERY action to the riches I REALLY want? (The Empowerment Secret pp.1.7-1.93)

Related to answering this challenge, the key idea(s) I want to remember is…

I will implement this by…

Challenge 2: - How can I get the most from EACH of my actions?

- Where does the value of my action come from?

- How can I optimize my Inner Fulfillment? (The Inner Fulfillment Secret pp. 1.10-1.14)

Related to answering this challenge, the key idea(s) I want to remember is…

I will implement this by…

Challenge 3: - What are the riches – the values – I REALLY cherish from life? - What is so important I want to get up every day and live life to the fullest for?

(Personal Purpose or Mission pp 1.17-1.22.)

Related to answering this challenge, the key idea(s) I want to remember is…

I will implement this by…

Successful Insights from Outstanding Alumni

Ken Blanchard – Speaker, Author of “The One Minute Manager”

I especially want to remember the following insights…

This will help me and/or help me help others I care about in the following ways….

Dillard Myers, Global VPO, Cisco

I especially want to remember the following insights…

This will help me and/or help me help others I care about in the following ways….

3 Pages are from the TimeSaver Worksheet available on Bulletin Board. First number is the Module, second the page

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Commitment to add LIFE to my Years (See suggestions p.22)

This week I will focus on… By…

Progress – Results – Filled in by the following meeting.

Commitment to add YEARS to my Life (See suggestions p.22)

This week I will focus on… By…

Progress – Results – Filled in by the following meeting.

The best idea from our partner’s meeting…

Your Personal Virtual Online Coach (PVOC)

My first AT Assessment score was ______ With a Strength of _____and Growth Potential of __________

PVOC suggested…

(From Tuesday email or 1D and 1E on your Personal Home Page)

…In my Personal Life, the quickest way to improve is to focus on…

…in my Professional Life, the quickest way to improve is to focus on…

Our next meeting will be: Day______ Time_______ Place _________

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Living the 9 ½ Aligned Thinking™ Secrets 2. Implementing the SECRETS

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Where to Focus

To Add LIFE to my Years

Challenges I will overcome

Too much to do! I never get everything done!

Turn interruptions into opportunities

Not enough personal or family time

So little control over my life

Even in troubled times, to get up every day and

live life to the fullest.

Benefits I will enjoy

Increase productivity

Accomplish more

Accomplish more especially of the important

things

Accomplish more with less stress

Become more promotable

Improve satisfaction

Increase motivation

Enjoy better business/personal life balance

Achieve more especially in my personal life

Build on my inner fulfillment

Overcome procrastination

4 Research by Dan Buettner, Supported by National

Geographic, written in The Blue Zones - Where people

live to 100 and beyond.

To Add YEARS to my Life

Maybe even live to100

Learning from those who live to 100+4 1. Move Naturally

- Be active without having to think about it - The centenarian did not go to the gym

2. 80% Rule - Hara Hachi Bu - Painless cut calories 20% - but eat a lot - I’m full vs. I’m no longer hungry

3. Plant Slant

- Avoid meat and processed foods - Showcase fruits and vegetables - “Nuts - the longevity food” - eat them daily

4. Grapes of Life

- Drink red wine (in moderation daily) - Treat yourself to your “Happy Hour”

5. Purpose Now --- See the Big Picture - “Being able to verbalize the reason to get up today is worth 7 years of life expectancy” Dan Buettner NPR 12.5.12. - ikigai - Okinawan - the reason I got up today - No word for retire

6. Down Shift - Take (make) time to relieve stress - Reduce the noise in your life - Stress today - takes years from tomorrow - See Modules 3 and 5.

7. Belong - Weekly spiritual experience - add 4 - 14 yrs.

- Participate in a spiritual community - NIH - tracked 34,000 - for 12 yrs >> 20% less likely to die at any age -258/263 centenarians belonged to faith-based community - Key - relinquish the stress of everyday life to a higher power

8. Loved Ones First - Make family a priority - Aged who live with family were sharper mentally and socially (MacArthur Study)

9. Surround Yourself with those who share your Blue Zone Values - Happiness, loneliness, smoking, and obesity are contagious - Farmingham Studies - Identify & make time for your inner circle - Social networks shape the behavior of long-lived people’s health

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SECRET 9 – Imitate the Champions

Consider champions in tennis, golf, football or baseball

They all have a personal coach to help them become a champion

And the Personal Coach to help them stay a champion

SECRET 9

The Most Successful People use a Personal Coach as the Q – E – S –

(Quickest, Easiest, Surest) Method to become a Champion and Stay a Champion

Your Personal Coach has a double purpose. It can be looked at from the vantage point of

Implementing the 9 ½ SECRETS as seen in the table of contents, or as a Fully Functioning

Aligned Thinker on your Journey, as seen in the appendix.

Directions: The day before your meeting with your Personal Coach, send the completed Partner’s

Guide to your Personal Coach.

Aligned Thinking Growth Pyramid

1. The base = the knowledge to think/act like Most Successful People.

You receive this in the modules on the bulletin board.

However, just knowledge of the process will not bring you benefits.

2. The left side is your “I can” attitude.

However, with just base and left side, the pyramid is all open and cannot stand.

3. The right side is YOUR IMPLEMENTATION.

Now you have a closed pyramid that can stand on its own.

Critical Point: As can be seen from the above, this process let’s your Personal Coach focus on exactly the

area that is most important to your living the 9 ½ SECRETS using Aligned Thinking: i.e. your

implementation of the SECRETS. With your Personal Coach you’ll be able to build these new habits in the

Q – E– S Way (Quickest, Easiest, Surest).

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Living the 9 ½ Aligned Thinking™ Secrets 3. Bonus Support

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3. Bonus Support – Your Own 24/7 Personal On Line Virtual Coach

Where to Begin – Aligned Thinking™ Assessment

It would be nice if:

- You knew exactly where you were at as an Aligned Thinker, including:

- Your strengths and growth areas

- What doable activity to focus on first

- What doable activity to focus on after that

- Your Aligned Thinking Assessment score and its graph

- You had a Personal On Line Virtual Coach available 24/7 to help you to:

- Clarify your Personal Life Mission/Purpose

- Guide you to create your Professional Life Mission/Purpose

- You were provided with tutorials to help you quickly and easily get started

Your 24/7 On Line Personal Virtual Coach does exist.

Directions: Register as follows. On your Welcome Page, do at least 1 through 5.

To review all the details of how to register and go to your Welcome and Home pages, see Appendix 24.

1. Go to: www.SSAinternational.com

2. Click on: ATJ Registration

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Living the 9 ½ Aligned Thinking™ Secrets Part II Refining the Aligned Thinking Habits

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Part II Refining the Aligned Thinking Habits

to Grow the Life You REALLY want

Double Dangers The Double Dangers are: Slipping back – Old habits return

Not continuing to grow

SECRET 9 ½ Kaizen

The Most Successful People have a Well-designed Plan

for regular continued growth

Kaizen Japanese business philosophy of continuous improvement

It was this philosophy that helped the Japanese auto industry be #1 in the

US

The Champion – Once they are champions they work daily to stay there.

Our Well-designed Plan

Each week, you will receive This Week’s Single Simple Step

in an 8-minute audio postcard

With less than 15 minutes a week, you can continue to grow

You continue your weekly meeting with your Partner

You meet with your Personal Coach once every four weeks.

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Living the 9 ½ Aligned Thinking™ Secrets Elegant Simplicity

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Aligned Thinking’s Elegant Simplicity

For Just the 30, 5, 5 Commitments

SSA International thanks the many Very Successful People for their insights.

These insights have helped us offer you this Q – E – S Experience.

Q – Quickest to learn

E – Easiest to use

S – Surest to help you align EVERY action to the life you REALLY want

Once you have built your Aligned Thinking Habits, you just need

the 30, 5, and 5 commitments to enjoy the life you REALLY want for a lifetime.

YOU will be a Fully Functioning Aligned Thinker5

.

30 minutes – not a week or a month, but just a quarter to refine – What You REALLY Want.

5 minutes a day – to make it easy to focus on – What You REALLY Want.

5 seconds – to make sure each decision is taking you to – What You REALLY Want.

5 For details about the Fully Functioning Aligned Thinker, see Appendix p.30.

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Living the 9 ½ Aligned Thinking™ Secrets Appendix

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Appendix

1. Putting your Personal Virtual On Line Coach to work for you 24

2. Suggested Schedule for Week One 28

3. Bonus Module 29

4. Fully Functioning Aligned Thinker 30

5. Check List Week One Thursday and Tuesday meetings 33

6. Frequently Asked Questions 34

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Living the 9 ½ Aligned Thinking™ Secrets Appendix 1

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Appendix 1

To Put your Personal On Line Virtual Coach to Work for You

1. Enter www.SSAinternational.com

2. Click on ATJ Registration

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Living the 9 ½ Aligned Thinking™ Secrets Appendix 1

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On the Register Page

Follow the prompts

To register, you need the Class Code emailed to you by Coach

When you submit, you are ready to login.

3. E-mail and Password

are case sensitive.

Enter them exactly

from your copy.

4. In the future

when you go to

ATJ Personal Login,

you will skip the

registration page

and come here.

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Living the 9 ½ Aligned Thinking™ Secrets Appendix 1

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SSA International’s

Implementing & Enjoying

9 ½ SECRETS

The Most Successful People Use That Others Don’t

a.k.a Aligned Thinking Secrets

Welcome (name):

Good News --- Bad News --- Good News

Goal: Think and act like the Most Successful People think and act

Why: To enjoy success like the Most Successful People do

Meaning:

Money Happier Healthier

More from your time Greater satisfaction Less stress

Suggested Order: Bonus Tutorials (T) and Home Page 1. How-To-Tour – T

2. Where Am I At?

Understanding the Assessment – T

3. Home Page Step 1A: Take the Aligned Thinker’s™

Assessment

4. Immediately After Assessment

Scoring and Analysis– T

5. Getting the Most from Your

Personal Coach - Tuesday Emails - T

6. Step 2A: Hints to Create Your Personal Life

Mission/Purpose – T

7. Home Page Step 2A

– Creating Your Personal Life Mission/Purpose

8. Step 2B: Hints to Create your Professional Life

Mission/Purpose – T

9. Home Page Step 2B

- Creating Your Professional Life

Mission/Purpose

10. Step 3: Help Setting Daily Priorities - T

11. Home Page Step 3 Setting Daily Priorities

12. Getting The Most From Your Home Page - T

13. Home Page: Click Here

5. Like before, you control

the audio with the

arrow and bar.

6. Make time

to do the

How-to-Tour.

8.

Your Personal On Line Coach

Helps you create your

Professional Mission.

7.

Your Personal On Line Coach

Helps you create your

Personal Mission.

Coach Jim Steffen

Audio controls

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9. Navigation Bar

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Appendix 2 Suggested Schedule for Week One – With Thursday Start

The schedule is designed to use:

- Your Personal Virtual Online Coach

- The text and audio of the modules

- Your own Partner

- To make it possible for you to get the most from you time with your Personal Coach.

During that time, your Personal Coach’s focus will be on guiding your progress

to implementation of the SECRETS and help you become

a Fully Functions Aligned Thinker (See Appendix 4) running your Journey

to enjoy the Life You REALLY want.

Thursday Evening, Friday, Saturday or Sunday – At Your Convenience

______- Schedule an hour to do module of the week – fill in the Partners’ Guide

- Send Partners’ Guide to your partner.

______- Time for Bonus Module (See Appendix 3)

- Putting your Personal Virtual Coach to work for you

Monday or Tuesday

______- Schedule time for your weekly meeting with your partner

- Suggestion – coffee or lunch each Monday (See Partners’ Guide in email)

Wednesday - Send completed Partners’ Guide for this Module to your Coach

- Email total Partners’ Guide document

- Fax just the pages (Module of the week)

Thursday - scheduled hour with your Personal Coach to discuss all the above.

Day of Meeting with Coach

Come on five minutes ahead of time - say hello

Dial in 1-712-432-3082 Code 331360

Additional Hint – Get a loose leaf binder to keep modules and other Aligned Thinking documents.

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Appendix 3. Bonus

Again, it would be nice if:

- There was a place you could go for more details when you want them.

- Each doable habit in the Aligned Thinking Assessment was explained.

- There were more interviews showing how very successful alumni use Aligned Thinking.

- The two sources of procrastination were explained and how to overcome them.

Bonus 1 does exist

Go to Bonus Follow-up on the Bulletin Board

Go to your Class

Bulletin Board.

Each module 1 – 7 has a

Bonus Follow-up

The text is the same

as the Critical Basics text.

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Appendix 4

Guiding You to Be a Fully Functioning Aligned Thinker on Your Life’s Journey

What it is not.

What it is.

What do you need to do to enjoy life this way?

How will the Coach help guide you there?

What are the benefits you can expect?

What It is Not

- You don’t live in the past

- You don’t live in the future

What It Is

- Learn and build on the past

- Plan and get ready for the future – but don’t live there

- You are T-I-I-M-M Now (pronounced time NOW)

-- Totally Involved In My MIN (Most Important Now)

-- Not easy – but WOW – What a way to run your Journey and enjoy your life.

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What do you need to enjoy life this way? How will the Coach help guide you here?

You need a clear, written idea of the life

you REALLY want to enjoy

- Module 1 – Your Personal life Mission

- Module 2 – Your Professional Life Mission

An easy, quick way to consistently decide

your next Most Important Now related to

the Life you REALLY want

- In the hustle and hassle of life, you have

about 5 seconds to decide and go.

Module 4 – 5-Second MIN SECRET

A way to plan your day so that:

- You avoid to-do-list frustration and

- Keep what You REALLY want in mind

- So you can quickly, easily and consist-

ently use the 5-second MIN Secret

Module 3 – Working without a to-do list

- The Holding Pen/List and Priority List

Stress can block your being a Fully Func-

tioning Aligned Thinker and cause high

blood pressure, strokes, heart attacks, can-

cer, and ultimately your demise.

Module 5 – Overcoming 5 causes of stress

Interruptions can take away your control of

your life whether at home or work.

Module 2 – How to be free in all you do even

though you have boss, peers, clients at work

and family and friends – Freedom Secret

Module 6 – Turning all interruptions into

opportunities.

Poor communications with boss or direct

reports can significantly impede your living

as a Fully Functioning Aligned Thinker on

your Journey

Module 7 – the PFS (Priority Feedback Sys-

tem) will help you optimize your direct re-

port’s productivity and help your boss opti-

mize yours and his/hers.

To be a Fully Functioning Aligned Thinker

on your Journey, “Life should be a Celebra-

tion,” and a happy affair.

Module 8 – How to make

- “Life a 24/7 Celebration”

- How to make L.I.B.T.A.D.C.T.

“Life Is Better Than A Dream Come True”

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What are the Benefits You Can Expect?

When you are T-I-I-M-M Now

- You’re learning and building on the past, but not living there

- You’re preparing for the future, but not living there

You are using the 1, 2, 3 Power Play

1. You know what you REALLY want

2. You select your MIN to take you

to what you REALLY want

3. You are Totally involved in you MIN this moment

Benefits You Can Expect

You’re as productive as possi-

ble

- Totally involved

- In your MIN – the most important thing

In the moment satisfied

- Because you are on the Journey to what

You REALLY want

Enjoying great Life Meaning

- You are totally involved related to the Big Picture

- What you identified as what you REALLY want

in your Personal and Professional Life purposes.

Stress is low

- There is no psychic energy to worry about the fu-

ture, which causes stress.

- All your psychic energy is used in running the

Journey to what you REALLY want.

Guilt is low or non-existent

- All your psychic energy is used now

to create a great future.

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Appendix 5. Check List

For Thursday Start -Today

___ 1. Agree with you partner when you will regularly meet. Before Monday ___ 2. Print the TimeSaver Worksheets (text) to Module 1 (from Class Bulletin Board).

Listen to the presentation and complete Challenges in the Partners’ Guide for Module 1. Send completed Partners’ Guide for this module to your partner.

___ 3. Put your Personal Virtual Online Coach to work for you. (See appendix 1, pp.24-27) Monday or Tuesday ___ 4. Hold your meeting with your Partner. (See Partners’ Guide p.3) Wednesday ___ 5. Send your answers to the challenges in this Partners’ Guide to your Coach. Thursday ___ 6. Meet with your Coach at the appointed time. ___ 7. Come in five minutes before time to say hello so we can start exactly on time

For Tuesday Evening Start -Today

___ 1. Agree with you partner when you will regularly meet. Before Sunday Evening ___ 2. Print the TimeSaver Worksheets (text) to Module 1 (from Class Bulletin Board).

Listen to the presentation and complete Challenges in the Partners’ Guide for Module 1. Send completed Partners’ Guide for this module to your partner.

___ 3. Put your Personal Virtual Online Coach to work for you. (See appendix 1, pp.24-27) Before Monday Evening ___ 4. Hold your meeting with your Partner. (See Partners’ Guide p.3) Monday Evening ___ 5. Send your answers to the challenges in this Partners’ Guide to your Coach. Tuesday ___ 6. Meet with your Coach at the appointed time. ___ 7 Come in five minutes before time to say hello so we can start exactly on time

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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

All the pages below are from this Introduction to Aligned Thinking.

Print and post the following for your convenience.

…How to Print TimeSaver Worksheets and Audio for any Module

Start at the Bulletin Board pp. 7-12

…How can I Participate in a module?

See the Partner’s Guide pp 15-17.

…Login to Welcome and My Personal Home Page THE FIRST Time

- At www.SSAInternational.com, click on ATJ Registration (p.20)

> Follow prompts using your Class/Reference Code you received in the email

…Login to Welcome and My Personal Home Page AFTER THE FIRST Time

- At www.SSAInternational.com, click on ATJ Personal Login

…Review a BONUS FOLLOW-UP of the Presentation

- On the Bulletin Board under Audio Modules:

- Click on the desired number under Bonus Follow-up (p. 29)

…Save a Presentation on CD or Flash Drive (p.12)

- Go to the presentation like you would listen to it – see above

> Right click on the blue Module 1 under the word “Play”

> Left click on “Save Target as…”

> Save it where you want it -

…Take or Retake Assessment (p.27)

- www.SSAInternational.com

- Click on Personal Login Welcome & Home Page – On Welcome Page Click on #13

- Then on your Personal Home Page, click on Step 1A – (See p. 27)