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The difference between the almost-right word & the right word is…the difference between the lightning bug and the lightning.
—Mark Twain
Language
It’s all about respect and dignity, not political correctness!
—Kathie Snow
Person-First Language
Person-First Language
Puts the person before the disability
Describes what a person has, not who a person is
Reflects good manners, not “political correctness”
Was started by individuals who said “We are not our disabilities!”
—Kathie Snow
What to say, and what to avoid
Words and Phrases
Words and Phrases
Things to AvoidAppropriate Alternatives
Handicapped
Disabled, crippled, invalid, gimp
Special Needs
Mental Retardation
Accessible
Person with a disability
Refer to Kathie Snow
Intellectual Disability
Words and Phrases
Things to AvoidAppropriate Alternatives
Fits
Wheelchair boundConfined to a
wheelchair
Electric Chair
Birth Defect
Seizures, Epilepsy
Uses a wheelchairWheelchair user
Power Chair
Born with
Words and Phrases
Things to AvoidAppropriate Alternatives
Victim or Afflicted with
Normal
Person who has or Person with
Non-disabled, able-bodied
How am I supposed to know?
Sandy and Sarah
http://www.thesarahjanestory.com/photos/most_recent02.html
And other things not to say
If your faith had been stronger…
—Kathie Sheetz, That All May Worship, 1997
Think before you speak…“If your faith had been stronger, you would
have been healed long ago.”
“Let me know if there is anything I can do for you.”
“I’ll pray for you.”
“God must have had a reason for this tragedy happening to you and your family. But, God never gives us more than we can bear.”
And getting answers
Asking Questions
Consider this…
“Listen to the straight questions of children about my chair. They’re great! They want to know what happened to me, how fast I can go in the chair, how it works, what I can do with it, and whether I hurt. They’re into real questions! Adults at the church coffee hour clam up, look the other way, act embarrassed, and try to shoo the children away.”
—That All May Worship
Consider this…
“I’d much rather have someone deal with me directly, maybe even say the wrong thing, than to say nothing at all. Words I can handle. Being ignored is tough!”
—That All May Worship