The Art of Neighbouring, Session 4: Motives Matter

The Art of Neighbouring, Session 4: Motives Matter

• This study is about community, not evangelism; we are not the only

people who think knowing your neighbours is important…

• Getting to know your neighbours makes stronger, more resilient

communities.” NZ Red Cross

https://www.redcross.org.nz/get-involved/stand-their-shoes/

• “There are Neighbourhood Support groups across

New Zealand. Together, we act to prevent crime,

promote safety and care for one another. As part of

a group, you’ll cope better in civil emergencies,

provide safe environments for our vulnerable

communities.”

• “If you don’t know your neighbour, start today and

say gidday.”

https://neighbourhoodsupport.co.nz

• “Helping to build neighbourhoods where you watch out for each

other”

• “Finally an easy way to learn the name of the nice neighbour from

down the street.”

https://www.neighbourly.co.nz

Session 4: Motives Matter

“This is not an evangelism strategy. And if evangelism is

your only motive, then you won’t be a very good

neighbour. However, if neighbouring is done with the right

posture, then people who don’t know God will most

certainly come to know him.”

The Art of Neighbouring, Chapter 7

Why do we share about Jesus?

• Is it about love for God and the people God created and loves?

•Or, is it about us? Our sense of obligation/guilt

“You’re here to be light, bringing out the God-colours in the world.

God is not a secret to be kept. We’re going public with this, as public

as a city on a hill. If I make you light-bearers, you don’t think I’m

going to hide you under a bucket, do you? I’m putting you on a light

stand. Now that I’ve put you there on a hilltop, on a light stand—

shine! Keep open house; be generous with your lives. By

opening up to others, you’ll prompt people to open up with

God, this generous Father in heaven.” Matthew 5:14-16 Message

Pray that I’ll know what to say and have the courage to say it at

the right time… the Message that… I am responsible for getting

out.

Ephesians 6:19-20 The Message

Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you

to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with

gentleness and respect.

1 Peter 3:15 NIV

Art of Neighbouring, Ch.7 Motives Matter

• Ulterior verses Ultimate motive:

• Ulterior = concealed, manipulative

• Ultimate = final, ‘longed for destination’

“We don’t love our neighbours to convert them,

we love them because we are converted.”Art of Neighbouring, Chapter 7

• People don’t want to be projects.

• Love is compelling, just be involved.

• Love God, make friends!

How do you develop love

for your neighbour?

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