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The LOVE Approach:The LOVE Approach:The Negative Test ClientThe Negative Test ClientAn Introduction to Sexual IntegrityAn Introduction to Sexual Integrity

Carol Angeline R. Perez, LASGuidance CounselorUniversity of Santo Tomas

4 February 2012


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2010 Heartbeat International Annual

Conference, Orlando, Florida

In-Depth Training: Sexual Integrity

Program Implementation

Katy Flood, LAS

Heartbeat Sexual Integrity Program

(SIP) Specialist


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Contents

The Negative Test Client

Sexual Integrity

Application: The LOVE Approach

Source:The Sexual Integrity Implementation Manual.

2007. Heartbeat International, Inc.


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The Negative Test ClientThe Negative Test Client


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How do we attend to a clientHow do we attend to a client

who is NOT PREGNANT?who is NOT PREGNANT?


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What will our response be?

No response.

The client is not pregnant, therefore

she is okay.

The center only caters to pregnant

women in crisis. Since there is bound

to be no crisis, then there is no

need for an intervention.

NOT TRUE!


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What will our response be?

God has brought this particular

client to you for a reason.

You are being given an

opportunity to LOVE.


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Sexual IntegritySexual Integrity


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SEXUAL INTEGRITYSEXUAL INTEGRITY

Expressing your gift ofsexuality

throughout life in a true, excellent,

honest, andpure way.

Protection in childhood, direction in

adolescence, celebration in

adulthood.

Source: Heartbeat International, Inc. (2007).

The Sexual Integrity Implementation Manual


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Gods Blueprint for Sexual Integrity:Gods Blueprint for Sexual Integrity:Gods original plan for life, love, and relationshipsGods original plan for life, love, and relationships

Four Foundational Pillars of Sexual Integrity

1. An understanding of male and femaledifferences and how to have HealthyRelationships.

God created man in His image; in theDivine image He created him; male andfemale, He created them (Genesis 1:27)

2. An understanding ofMarriage.That is why a man leaves his father andmother and clings to his wife, and the two ofthem become one body (Genesis 2:24)


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Gods Blueprint for Sexual Integrity:Gods Blueprint for Sexual Integrity:Gods original plan for life, love, and relationshipsGods original plan for life, love, and relationships

Four Foundational Pillars of Sexual Integrity

3. The gift of life in our bodies is ourFertility.

God blessed them, saying: Be fruitful and

multiply; fill the earth and subdue it(Genesis 1:28a)

4. A focus on Healing and Restoration(Sexual Wholeness).

The man and his wife were both naked, yetthey felt no shame (Genesis 2:25)


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Application: Using theApplication: Using the

LOVE Approach on theLOVE Approach on theNegative Test ClientNegative Test Client


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Important questions to ask a client after a Negative Test:

How do you feel about your negative test?

Your future would have looked really different had

your test been positive, right? How often do you think about your future?

What are her hopes, dreams, goals, for herself, her children,

and her relationships?

Build a relationship with her, show her you care.

If you are able to meet the clients need, the more likely

that she will come back for another session.

The LOVE Approach: Listen & Learn


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How can she achieve her hopes, dreams,

and goals?

Are her present actions (sexual activity)

helping her to achieve these hopes,dreams, and goals, or could they be

hindering her?

What could she do differently?

A new path, approach, or lifestyle

The LOVE Approach: Open Options


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Share the true meaning of sexuality, and the

message of Sexual Integrity and Sexual

Wholeness.

Sexual integrity can be embraced byeveryone.

The LOVE Approach: Vision & Value


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Let the client know that she is welcome to visit

you again for further talks and sharings,

consultation, encouragement and support.

Conduct follow-up on the client.

The LOVE Approach: Extend & Enable


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Some of the benefits of introducing Sexual

Integrity to the Negative Test Client (NTC):

The NTC will choose healthier

relationships and will strengthen her

current or future marriage relationships.

Women will be empowered to respect their

bodies, thus making better choices.

The NTC will be empowered and educated

to make healthier choices with her body,

reducing sexual activity outside of

marriage.


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The Call & The Challenge...The Call & The Challenge...

We should all be extremelyWe should all be extremely

proud of the work that hasproud of the work that has

gone on in pregnancy resourcegone on in pregnancy resourcecenterscenters. It is time to expand the. It is time to expand the

work even more.work even more.


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Thank you!Thank you!

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