styles at work: transforming differences into connections, by charlene .j. phipps
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Styles @ Work Transforming differences
into connections
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How much time do
you spend
communicating and
relating with people
at work?
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Communication and relationships can
be puzzling!
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Take-aways
Understand differences that make
communication difficult
Validate the importance of relationships
and communication at work
Learn 6 style differences that matter
Know your own and others’ styles
Get tools for better communication
Fine print: Warning, this will take some work on your end!
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Understanding Differences
WE ALL HAVE:
Different strengths and ways of doing things
Good and not so good “Baggage”
Different world views and stories
Different styles of relating & communicating
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Relating well with other people is good for our
health and well being
Hello,
is anyone
there?
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We keep trying
because…..
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Teamwork works!
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Relating well is good for thinking and creativity
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EMOTIONS ARE CATCHING
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Our work requires us to:
COMMUNICATE
COORDINATE
COLLABORATE
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The New Science of Relationships Offers tangible information about differences
in how people relate with others
Helps us make informed choice abut how to
communicate effectively with different
people.
Understanding Styles:
A Good Place to Start
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Style differences that matter at work
Awareness
What we focus on or
are most aware of
as we interact
Expression
How we
habitually
express
ourselves
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3 Differences in Awareness
SELF Wisdom
Objective
Intentional
Reflective
KNOWLEDGE
OTHER Caring
Sensitive
Responsive
Listener
CONNECTION
SOCIAL Influence
Creative
Catalyst
Expressive
MOMENTUM
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3 Differences in Expression
DATA
see
Hear
Taste
touch
Thoughts (perceptions)
Feelings (emotions)
Actions (behaviors)
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Nine Styles
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If I were super woman…
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STP for Relationships
SENSITIVITY
TRANSPARENCY
PRESENCE
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SENSITIVITY
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TRANSPARENCY
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PRESENCE
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Workshop Summary
3 reasons why good relationships are essential
in the workplace
3 differences in what people are most aware
of as the relate and communicate with others
3 differences in how people express
themselves
How to determine the 9 relationship styles
STP for relationships: 3 ways to communicate
more effectively with people with different
styles
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Resources
Human Dynamics Blog
www.humandynamicsblog.com
Relationship Survey www.relationshipstylessurvey.com
Free team building activity Email: [email protected]