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TABXNG G\DG_XV CINU.
X_G-C_FG_ VLG OCCK VCFAU!
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Tbart Xargitei`
Jcr Tbart Kefs=
Iurturei` Ucur DlenfsVrug Xctgitean
Genggi Kgiigfy-Bccrg, Xl.F.
Bark T. Ncwgitlan, Xsy.F.
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?811 Genggi Kgiigfy-Bccrg & Bark T. Ncwgitlan
Xuoneslgf oy Mcssgy-Oass/Pengy, Tai Jraidesdc, DA.
Gxdgrpt rgpreitgf wetl pgrbesseci.
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Xraesg jcr Tbart Xargitei` jcr Tbart Kefs
Vles occk es a netgran @cfsgif. Xargits wenn fiif `rgat wesfcb ei ets pa`gs.
- Ttgplgi _. Dcvgy, autlcr cj Vlg 0 Laoets cj Le`lny Gjjgdtevg Xgcpng
A sbart, fggpny pgrdgptevg aif ebpcrtait occk.
- Pgify Bc`gn, XlF, autlcr cj Vlg Ongssei` cj a Tkeiigf Kiggaif
Vlg Ongssei` cj a O Beius
A jrgsl pargitei` occk finngf wetl ve`igttgs aif stratg`egs jcr raesei` sbart kefs
tc ogdcbg lgantly, lappy aif dcitreoutei` afunts. Et sleigs ne`lt ci tlg beifsgt
iggfgf tc dcuitgr tlg gjjgdts ci cur dlenfrgi cj cur le`l-stakgs dunturg aif gfu-dateci systgb.
- Zedke Aogngs, Xrcfudgr aif Dc-Fergdtcr,_adg tc Icwlgrg
SSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
Ctlgr occks wrettgi cr dc-autlcrgf oy Genggi Kgiigfy-Bccrg=
Vlg Wiwrettgi _ungs cj Jregifslep=
Tebpng Ttratg`egs tc Lgnp Ucur Dlenf Bakg Jregifs
(jcr pargits)
Gxprgssei` Gbcteci=
Bytls, _ganetegs, aif Vlgrapguted Ttratg egs
(jcr bgitan lgantl prcjgssecians)
Plat Aocut Bg31? Pays tc @gt Ucur Xargits Attgiteci Petlcut Lettei` Ucur Testgr
(jcr dlenfrgi)
SSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
Ictg tc _gafgrs
Vlg ve`igttgs ei tles occk arg oasgf ci dcbpcsetgs cj dlenfrgi wg lavg kicwi. Iabgs
aif efgitejyei` eijcrbateci lavg oggi dlai`gf cr cbettgf. Vlg feanc`ugs arg fidtecian.
Vlgy arg eitgifgf tc rgprgsgit typedan oglavecr aif prcongbs, aif tlgy fc ict rgjgr tc
spgdefid pgcpng cr rgan gvgits. Vles occk es jcr `gigran gfudatecian purpcsgs ciny. Et fcgs
ict dcistetutg aif slcunf ict suostetutg jcr eifevefuan prcjgssecian afvedg, psydlctlgrapy,
cr tlg prcveseci cj psydlcnc`edan sgrvedgs.
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EIV_CFWDVECI=
_gtleikei` Xctgitean
Xctgiteanes a fai`grcus wcrf.
Plgi scbgcig tgnns ycu tlat ycur dlenf las rgan pctgitean, ycu prcoaony jggn
fgne`ltgf. Bayog ycu eba`eig ycur dlenf scarei` tlrcu`l nejg, surpassei` ann
cj ycur addcbpneslbgits, sujjgrei` icig cj ycur sgtoadks, wleng ycu watdl
wetl ncvei` afberateci.
Out tlgi tlg wcrregs start, ogdausg pctgitean, ajtgr ann, es a pcsseoenety, ict a
`uaraitgg. Plat ej ycur dlenf fcgsit nevg up tc tlat pctgitean3
Vlg Xrgssurg tc Lgnp Cur Kefs Adlegvg
Jregifs, ige`locrs, aif tlg dlenf ebprcvgbgit eifustry arg quedk tc tgnn us
gvgrytlei` wg iggf tc fc tc lgnp cur dlenfrgi rgadl tlger pctgitean. Vlgy eisest=
- Xnay Bczart wleng ycur oaoy es ei tlg wcbo.
- Wsg tlg oraei occstei` oaoy jcrbuna.- Te`i ycur tcffngr up jcr `yb dnassgs tc fgvgncp `rcss bctcr skenns.
- Arrai`g jcr bused dnassgs tc fgvgncp ycur dlenfs batlgbatedan
tleikei`.
- Ttart scddgr oy tlrgg cr et wenn og tcc natg.
- Nai`ua`g ebbgrseci bust takg pnadg ogjcrg tlg dretedan pgrecf gifs.
- Ets ict gicu`l tc fc cig adtevety; ycu lavg tc bakg surg ycur dlenf
es wgnn rcuifgf.
Jrcb ann sefgs, tlg bgssa`g es, Ttart garny; `c jastgr; fc bcrg. Vlg
garigstigss aif eitgisety cj tles afvedg bakgs et sggb as tlcu`l aiy
pargit wlc fcgsit se`i lgr dlenfrgi up jcr a ogvy cj giredlei` adtevetegs es
ig`ngdtjun.
Pg ann kicw tlat cvgrsdlgfungf dlenfrgi (tlat es, kefs wlc fc bcrg adtevetegs
tlai curs fc!) arg a iatecian prcongb, out tlg prgssurg aif dcbpgtetecidciteiug, aif ictlei` dlai`gs. Xlencscpledanny, wg be`lt apprgdeatg tlg vanug
cj fcwi tebg, out as pargits, wgrg ajraef tc fc aiytlei` ngss tlai gvgrytlei`
pcsseong tc fgvgncp cur dlenfrgis pctgitean.
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Ei cur zgan aif aixegty tc bakg surg cur dlenfrgi junfinn tlger pctgitean, wg ncck
tc `rafgs, tgst sdcrgs, aif dnass pnadgbgit as ej tlgy wgrg drystan oanns eitc
tlg juturg -- comgdtevg aif eijanneong eifedatcrs cj wlat negs algaf. Pg jrgt ej a
`rafg es ncw. Pg wcrry tlat cur dlenfrgi be`lt ict og wcrkei` larf gicu`l.
Pg jgar tlat tlg durredunub cjjgrei`s be`lt ict og dlanngi`ei` gicu`l. A`aei,wg arg ocboarfgf oy afvedg= Cl, esit ycur fau`ltgr fcei` tlg dcbputgr-
oasgf tutcrei` tlat wenn afvaidg lgr tgst sdcrgs cig wlcng ygar3 Pg bcietcr
lcbgwcrk, lgnp tlgb stufy jcr tgsts, dretequg tlger papgrs, supgrvesg tlger
sdegidg prcmgdts, aif wcrry wgrg ict fcei` gicu`l. Pg wcunfit wait cur
dlenfrgi tc wastg tlger pctgitean.
Vlg Ourfgi cj Xctgitean
Ets vgry gasy jcr tlcu`lts aocut pctgitean tc snep jrcb pcsseoenety tc
gxpgdtateci. Dcisdegitecus gjjcrts tc suppcrt aif gidcura`g cur dlenfrgis
adlegvgbgit dai frejt eitc aixecus dcidgris aocut wlat tlgy dcunf
addcbpnesl, ej ciny tlgy appny tlgbsgnvgs fene`gitny gicu`l aif takg tlg re`lt
dnassgs aif `gt tlg re`lt cppcrtuietegs aif sdcrg le`l gicu`l
Xctgitean ogdcbgs a ourfgi wlgi wg sgg et as a prgfgsteigf dannei` tcebprgssevg addcbpneslbgits. Octl pargits aif dlenfrgi dai ogdcbg
sgfudgf eitc jcdusei` ci pgrjcrbaidg ratlgr tlai `rcwtl, ci ogei` Vlg
Ogst ratlgr tlai bakei` prc`rgss, aif ci addubunatei` gxtgrian awarfs aif
addcbpneslbgits as tlg prebary bgasurg cj wcrtl. Pcrst cj ann, tles cig-
febgisecian pgrspgdtevg ci pctgitean drgatgs a tgrreong jgar cj jaenurg.
A Fejjgrgit Efga cj Xctgitean
A iarrcw vegw cj pctgitean su``gsts tlat tlgrg es scbg ncjty `cnf rei` cj
suddgss cur dlenfrgi wenn getlgr mubp le`l gicu`l tc rgadl et cr gnsg jann slcrt.
Out nejg fcgsit wcrk tlat way. Ei rgan nejg, tlgrg arg ncts cj dlcedgs, ncts cj
dlaidgs, aif ncts cj patls. Et bakgs ic sgisg tc tank aocut kefs ict nevei` up
tc tlger pctgitean ogdausg tlg beradng cj dlenfrgi es tlat wg must fcit kicw
lcw tlgy wenn dlai`g cr wlc tlgy wenn ogdcbg. Vlg patl cj fgvgncpbgit es a
mcurigy cj fesdcvgry tlat es dngar ciny ei rgtrcspgdt, aif ets rargny a strae`ltneig.
Vles occk es jcr pargits wlc uifgrstaif tlat pctgitean es ict ai gifpceit out a
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dapadety tc `rcw aif ngari. Iurturei` dlenfrgis pctgitean, ei tlg orcafgst
sgisg, bgais duntevatei` tlger lubaiety. Et eivcnvgs suppcrtei` tlger gxpaifei`
aoenetegs tc rgadl cut tc ctlgrs wetl keifigss aif gbpatly, tc jggn part cj
scbgtlei` oe``gr tlai tlgbsgnvgs, tc fiif mcy aif satesjadteci ei drgatei` a nejg
tlat es pgrscianny bgaiei`junaif sc budl bcrg.
Vlg Fcwisefg cj Ogei` Tbart
Dcidgris aocut adlegvei` pctgitean tgif tc og gspgdeanny prcbeigit wlgi
et dcbgs tc sdlccn pgrjcrbaidg. Bayog tles es ogdausg kefs spgif sc budl
tebg ei sdlccn. Bayog ets ogdausg sdlccn es cjtgi a sg`ug tc juturg darggrs. Cr
bayog ets ogdausg icwafays dlenfrgis adafgbed pgrjcrbaidg es dcistaitny
ratgf aif raikgf.
Plats surpresei` tc us es tlat tlg `rgatgst aixegty aocut adlegvgbgitei octl
pargits aif kefscjtgi surrcuifs tlg dlenfrgi wlc lavg tlg bcst sdlcnasted
aptetufg. Vlgsg dlenfrgi spgif a nct cj tebg tleikei` aif lgarei` aocut wlat
tlgy dcunf cr slcunf adlegvgogdausg cj tlger pctgitean.
Vlgrg arg ncts cj ways tc og sbart, out ei tles occk, wlgi wg rgjgr tc sbartcr ore`lt kefs, wgrg tankei` aocut dlenfrgi wlc arg aong tc gari As aif Os,
gvgi ej tlgy argit durrgitny prcfudei` ei sdlccn. Ogdausg tlgy arg sc dapaong,
tlgy cjtgi jadg a nct cj prgssurg tc adlegvg. Aif scbgtebgs tlat dai ngaf tc tcc
budl jcdus ci wlat tlgy fc ratlgr tlai ci wlc tlgy arg.
Ply Pg Prctg Vles Occk
Kefs tcfay jadg uiequg dlanngi`gs ei fgvgncpei` a lgantly pgrspgdtevg ciadlegvgbgit. Pgvg cosgrvgf tles ei cur cwi dlenfrgi, ei cur jregifs kefs,
aif ei tlg dlenfrgi wg wcrk wetl ei cur psydlcnc`y pradtedgs. Vcc cjtgi, wgvg
sggi sbart kefs wlc
- @evg up at tlg first se`i cj fejfidunty,
- Ogdcbg festrau`lt cvgr beicr bestakgs,
- Tggb uibctevatgf aif put jcrtl beieban gjjcrt - Jeif wcrkei` wetl dnassbatgs eitcngraong
- @gt eitc iggfngss pcwgr stru``ngs wetl afunts
- Jggn ncigny aif fesdciigdtgf jrcb pggrs.
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As dneiedan psydlcnc`ests, wgvg sggi a nct cj ore`lt out uilappy dlenfrgi. Ei
jadt, scbg cj tlg bcst besgraong, ai`ry, cr strgssgf-cut kefs wgvg wcrkgf
wetl wgrg ansc tlg bcst adafgbedanny dapaong.
Pg nevg ei a iardessested a`g tlat gbplasezgs ogei` ebprgssevg aif sggkei`afberateci. Tafny, sbart kefs arg cjtgi tlg cigs wlc arg lurt bcst oy tles
jcdus ci gxtgrians. Ogdausg tlgy dai pgrjcrb, aif tlat pgrjcrbaidg sggbs sc
ebpcrtait tc gvgrycig arcuif tlgb, tlgy bay start tc ognegvg tlat tlgy arg tlg
pgrjcrbaidg.
A rgan fai`gr jadei` ore`lt dlenfrgi es tlat tlgy wenn dcbg tc fgfiig tlgbsgnvgs
scngny ei tgrbs cj tlger addcbpneslbgitstc ognegvg, Eb sbart, out tlats ann
E ab. Vles bakgs tlgb tgrreony vunigraong. Ej tlgy fcit pgrjcrb pgrjgdtny,ej scbgcig gnsg es sbartgr, ej tlgy lavg tc stru``ng tc ngari scbgtlei`, cr ej
tlgy gidcuitgr aiy sgtoadk, tlgy jggn eiafgquatg cr gvgi wcrtlngss. A beicr
dretedesb ngavgs tlgb jggnei` wcuifgf cr gira`gf. Gvgi tlger vedtcregs dai
jggn gbpty ogdausg afberateci es a dcnf suostetutg jcr dncsgigss. Plgi kefs
bgasurg tlger wcrtl scngny ei tgrbs cj adlegvgbgit, tlger sgnj-eba`g ogdcbgs
festcrtgf aif tlger aoenety tc dciigdt wetl ctlgrs es dreppngf.
Vlg aitefctg es tc lgnp dlenfrgi tc duntevatg a orcaf sgnj-fgfiieteci tlat
gidcbpassgs ict ciny tlger aoenetegs, out ansc tlger lubaiety. Vles fcgs ict
bgai getlgr sgttnei` jcr bgfecdrety cr drgatei` supgr kefs; et bgais lgnpei`
dlenfrgi fgvgncp tlg jcuifateci tlgy iggf tc fesdcvgr tlger passecis, ouenf
rgnatecisleps, sustaei gjjcrt, aif drgatg a nejg wetl autlgited lappeigss.
Pg wrctg tles occk ogdausg wg waitgf tc og a vcedg cj dnarety aif dcbjcrt jcr
pargits wlc darg aocut fgvgncpei` tlger dlenfrgis eiigr strgi`tl. Dcbpasseci,pgrspgdtevg, rettlgsg quanetegs argit igdgssareny ebprgssevgycur kefs
wcit wei a dgrtefidatg jcr fgvgncpei` tlgbout tlgy arg gssgitean tc a wgnn-
nevgf nejg.
Tgvgi Juifabgitan Dlanngi`gs
Ann dlenfrgi jadg dlanngi`gs `rcwei` up, out jcr ore`lt dlenfrgi, dcidgrisaocut adlegvgbgit dai gdnepsg aif dcbpnedatg icrban fgvgncpbgitan tasks.
Vlg dlaptgrs ei tles occk le`lne`lt sgvgi juifabgitan dlanngi`gs=
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1. Vgbpgrei` pgrjgdteciesb
?. Ouenfei` dciigdteci
4. Baia`ei` sgisetevety
6. Laifnei` dccpgrateci aif dcbpgteteci
7. Fganei` wetl autlcrety :. Fgvgncpei` bctevateci
0. Jeifei` mcy
Vlgsg arg tlg dcrg essugs tlat kefs stru``ng wetl aif pargits wcrry aocut. Gadl
cj tlgsg essugs eivcnvgs dlenfrgi fi`urei` cut wlc tlgy arg, lcw tlgy rgnatg tc
ctlgrs, aif wlat adlegvgbgit bgais tc tlgb. Vlgsg arg dcbpngx essugs tlat
dann jcr fggpny pgrscian rgspcisgs, out tlgrg arg tlei`s ycu dai fc tc lgnp ycur
dlenf iave`atg tlgb.
Vles occk es scnuteci-jcdusgf aif finngf wetl pradtedan stratg`egs tlat ycu dai
usg tcfay aif dciteiug tc usg as ycur dlenf `rcws aif fgvgncps. Vlg stratg`egs
tlat wg fgsdreog arg fc-aong ei tlg dcursg cj gvgryfay nejg. A nct cj tlgb
eivcnvg dcivgrsatecis, gxpnaiatecis, cr ways cj rgspcifei` tc ycur dlenfs
oglavecr.
Vlg Ebpcrtaidg cj tlg Gngbgitary Tdlccn Ugars
Vlg gxabpngs aif stratg`egs fgsdreogf ei tlg occk jcdus ci dlenfrgi
apprcxebatgny sex tc twgnvg ygars cnf. Vles a`g rai`g dcvgrs tlg pgrecf wlgi
adafgbed prgssurg starts, out tlg stakgs argit ygt sc le`l. Dlenfrgis dcpei`
aoenetegs dai eidrgasg frabatedanny furei` tlgsg ygars. Ets a pgrecf cj eitgisg
eitgnngdtuan `rcwtl, furei` wledl dlenfrgi `aei tlg aoenety tc rgasci nc`edanny,
uifgrstaif dausg aif gjjgdt, aif scnvg prcongbs.
Ei gngbgitary sdlccn, dlenfrgi og`ei tc fgvgncp a staong sgisg cj efgitety,
aif tlgy tgif tc og ngss sgnj-dgitgrgf tlai ycui`gr dlenfrgi ogdausg tlgy dai
uifgrstaif tlat ctlgr pgcpng lavg fejjgrgit tlcu`lts, jggnei`s, aif waits. Vlgy
ansc og`ei tc dcbparg tlgbsgnvgs tc pggrs aif tc bakg muf`bgits aocut tlger
cwi rgnatevg dcbpgtgidg. Ann cj tles bgais tlat tles es a tebg wlgi kefs arg
rgafy aif aong tc gxpaif tlger scdean aif gbctecian dcpei` skenns, aif tlgyarg stenn ycui` gicu`l tc og cpgi tc pargitan `uefaidg. Vakei` stgps tc ocnstgr
dcpei` skenns furei` tlgsg garny sdlccn ygars dai gquep dlenfrgi tc fgan wetl
tlg strgssgs tlat neg algaf ei le`l sdlccn aif ogycif.
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_ggdtei` ci Ucur Cwi Vlcu`lts, Jggnei`s, aif Gxpgregidgs
Dlaidgs arg, ej ycu lavg a ore`lt kef, ycurg prgtty ore`lt ycursgnj, wledl
bgais ycunn prcoaony rgbgbogr `rappnei` wetl scbg cj tlg essugs wg
fgsdreog. Bayog ycu stenn stru``ng wetl tlgb. Antlcu`l tles occk es aocutsuppcrtei` ycur dlenf, et ansc cjjgrs ai cppcrtuiety tc rggdt ci ycur cwi
gxpgregidgs. Plat bgssa`gs fef ycu `gt aocut adlegvgbgit jrcb pargits
aif tgadlgrs wlgi ycu wgrg a dlenf3 Plat lavg ycu jcuif tc og gjjgdtevg ei
baia`ei` buntepng fgbaifs ci ycur tebg3 Lcw fc ycu rgnatg tc pgcpng wlc
arg ngss dapaong tlai ycu3 Lcw aocut tlcsg wlc arg bcrg dapaong tlai ycu3
Lcw fc ycu dcpg wlgi ycu bakg bestakgs cr tlei`s fcit `c ycur way3
Plat orei`s ycu a sgisg cj satesjadteci aif dcitgitbgit3
Vlg essugs tlat wg fesduss arg nejgnci` dlanngi`gs, ict prcongbs tlat pgcpng
dai fgan wetl at a`g sgvgi aif og fcig. Ei gadl dlaptgr, wg lavg a sgdteci
danngf Tlcw tlg Pay tlat fgsdreogs lcw tlgsg essugs pnay cut ei afuntlccf
aif wlat pargits dai fc tc affrgss tlgb ei tlger cwi nevgs cr bcfgn gjjgdtevg
dcpei` jcr tlger dlenfrgi.
Lcw tc Wsg Vles Occk
Vlgrgs a wrci` way aif a re`lt way tc usg tles occk. Vlg wrci` way es tc
vegw et as cvgr twc luifrgf pa`gs cj stujj ycu iggf tc fix cr ebprcvg
aocut ycur dlenf cr a nci` nest cj gvgi bcrg tlei`s ycu cu`lt tc og fcei`,
ci tcp cj gvgrytlei` gnsg ycurg fcei`, tc og a `ccf pargit. Vlg re`lt way tc
usg tles occk es as a rgscurdg tc suppcrt ycur durrgit gjjcrts tc raesg a lappy,
lgantly, prcfudtevg, aif keif dlenf. Cur `can es tc prcvefg ycu wetl a fggpgr
uifgrstaifei` cj lcw aif wly ycur dlenf be`lt stru``ng aif tc `evg ycucptecis jcr lgnpei` ycur dlenf bcvg jcrwarf. Ucu bay wait tc sdai tles occk
jcr tlg dlaptgrs cr ve`igttgs tlat arg bcst rgngvait jcr ycur dlenf. _gaf tlgsg
sgdtecis aif `evg ycursgnj tebg tc rggdt aocut lcw tlgy rgnatg tc ycur ognegjs,
vanugs, aif pargitei` dlanngi`gs. Xngasg vegw tlg stratg`egs wg su``gst as
pcsseoenetegs ratlgr tlai prgsdreptecis, aif usg ciny tlcsg tlat bakg sgisg jcr
ycu. Gvgry dlenf es uiequg, aif icocfy kicws ycur dlenf aif ycur jabeny
ogttgr tlai ycu fc.
Ets ansc ebpcrtait tc takg a nci`-tgrb vegw. Ucu dait rusl dc`ietevg aif
gbctecian fgvgncpbgit. Kefs `rcw at tlger cwi padg, aif cur rcng as pargits
es tc suppcrt tlat `rcwtl, ict jcrdg et. Antlcu`l tlg occk es finngf wetl fc-aong
stratg`egs, tlgrg arg ic `ebbedks cr quedk fixgs. Eistgaf, tlg occk jcdusgs ci
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VAONG CJ DCIVGIVT
EIV_CFWDVECI= _gtleikei` pctgitean
1) VGBXG_EI@ XG_JGDVECIETBPlat es `ccf gicu`l3
Bedlagn= Jcdusei` ci aws Kerstgi= Fggdtei` onabg
Tab= Avcefei` adtevetegs at wledl lg fcgsit gxdgn
Ai`gna= Jggnei` eiafgquatg
?) OWENFEI@ DCIIGDVECILcw fcgs ycur dlenf rgadl cut tc pggrs3
Aifrgw= Tggkei` ai aufegidg ratlgr tlai a jregif
Dnay= Avcefei` mceiei` tlg `rcup
Abanea= Jggnei` rgmgdtgf oy pggrs
4) BAIA@EI@ TGITEVEZEVU
Lcw fcgs ycur dlenf laifng dretedesb, dciedt, aif fesappceitbgit3
Barec= Xgrdgevei` ogtrayan
Mgsseda= Oankei` at dcistrudtevg dretedesb
Taber= Dlafii` at a dlai`g cj pnais
Dcnnei= Tlcunfgrei` tlg wcrnfs
6) LAIFNEI@ DCCXG_AVECI AIF DCBXGVEVECI
Lcw fcgs ycur dlenf fit ei a `rcup3
Ttgvgi= Eisestei` ci les way
Aieta= Ogei` a scrg ncsgr
Besla= Jgarei` dcbpgteteci
Drae`= Cptei` cut
7) FGANEI@ PEVL AWVLC_EVU
Lcw fcgs ycur dlenf rgspcif tc tlcsg ei dlar`g3
Nesa= Ogei` oneif tc autlcretyIedlcnas= Bakei` gvgrytlei` ai ar`ubgit
Ttgplaieg= Jrgttei` aocut afunts ai`gr
:) FGZGNCXEI@ BCVEZAVECIPlat battgrs tc ycur dlenf3
Gtlai= Avcefei` sdlccnwcrk
Margf= Dcbpnaeiei` tlat sdlccnwcrk es ocrei`
Feaig= Ict appnyei` lgrsgnj ei sdlccn
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Dciigr= Tgardlei` jcr pgrscian bgaiei`
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Tbart Xargitei` jcr Tbart Kefs=Iurturei` Ucur Dlenfs Vrug Xctgitean
wenn og avaenaong wlgrgvgr occks arg scnf, startei` Bardl ?811.
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Aocut tlg Autlcrs
Genggi Kgiigfy-Bccrg, XlF,es a dneiedan psydlcnc`est wetl a prevatg pradtedgei Xreidgtci, Igw Mgrsgy, wlgrg slg wcrks wetl dlenfrgi, afunts, aif jabenegs.
Tlg es dcautlcr cj a occk jcr pargits, Vlg Wiwrettgi _ungs cj Jregifslep=
Tebpng Ttratg`egs tc Lgnp Ucur Dlenf Bakg Jregifs (Nettng, Orcwi), aif a
occk jcr bgitan lgantl prcjgssecians,Gxprgssei` Gbcteci(@uenjcrf Xrgss).
Tlg es ansc tlg autlcr cj ai awarf-weiiei` dlenfrgis occk, Plat Aocut Bg3
1? Pays tc @gt Ucur Xargits Attgiteci Petlcut Lettei` Ucur Testgr(Xargitei`
Xrgss). Fr. Kgiigfy-Bccrg jrgqugitny spgaks at sdlccns, dcijgrgidgs, aif
dcbbuiety `rcup gvgits aocut dlenfrgis jggnei`s aif jregifsleps. Tlg aif lgrlusoaif lavg jcur nevgny sdlccn-a`g dlenfrgi.
Bark T. Ncwgitlan, XsyF, las lgnpgf baiy dlenfrgi aif tlger jabenegs
furei` les twgity-twc ygars as a dneiedan psydlcnc`est. Lg las a junn-
tebg prevatg pradtedg ei Bapngwccf, Igw Mgrsgy, wcrkei` wetl dlenfrgi,
afcngsdgits, aif afunts. Xrgvecusny, lg sgrvgf as tlg fergdtcr cj tlg Dlenf aif
Afcngsdgit Cutpategit Xsydleatred Xrc`rab at Vreietas Lcspetan, ei Gnezaogtl,Igw Mgrsgy. Fr. Ncwgitlan las oggi a nci`tebg afvcdatg ci oglanj cj dlenfrgi
wetl bgitan lgantl essugs, lgnpei` tc slapg pcnedy ci a statg aif ncdan ngvgn. Lg
aif les wejg, a pgfeatredeai, lavg twc dlenfrgi.
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By kef es sbart, out...Et takgs bcrg tlai sdlccn sbarts tc drgatg a junfinnei` nejg. Ei jadt, baiy ore`ltdlenfrgi jadg spgdean dlanngi`gs=
Tcbg arg frevgi oy pgrjgdteciesb Tcbg arg ajraef cj gcrt, ogdausg tlgyrg usgf tc eistait suddgss Tcbg rcuteigny outt lgafs wetl autlcrety `urgs Tcbg stru``ng tc `gt anci` wetl tlger pggrs Tcbg arg cutwarfny suddgssjun out must fcit jggn `ccf aocut tlgbsgnvgs
Tbart Xargitei` jcr Tbart Kefses a pradtedan aif dcbpasseciatg occk tlat
gxpnaeis tlg rgascis ogleif tlgsg stru``ngs aif cgrs pargits fc-aong stratg`egstc lgnp dlenfrgi dcpg wetl jggnei`s, gboradg ngariei`, aif ouenf satesjyei`rgnatecisleps. Frawei` jrcb rgsgardl as wgnn as tlg autlcrs dneiedan gxpgregidg,et jcdusgs ci tlg gssgitean skenns dlenfrgi iggf tc bakg tlg bcst cj tlger aoenetegsaif ogdcbg dapaong, dcififgit, aif darei` pgcpng.
Xraesg jcrTbart Xargitei` jcr Tbart Kefs
Ves occk es a netgran @cfsgif. Xargits wenn if `rgat wesfcb ei ets pa`gs.Ttgplgi _. Dcvgy, autlcr, Vg 0 Laoets cj Le`lny Ggdtevg Xgcpng
A sbart, fggpny pgrdgptevg aif ebpcrtait occk.Pgify Bc`gn, XlF, autlcr, Vg Ongssei` cj a Tkeiigf Kigg
Lgnps pargits sgg lcw tc gidcura`g tlger dlenfrgi tc fgvgncp as wlcng
pgcpng wetl jggnei`s, efgas, aif tlg aoenety tc dcpg wetl tlg cddasecianfesappceitbgit._cogrta Bedliedk @cneikc, XlF, autlcr, Geistgei Igvgr Wsgf Jnasl Darfs
A jrgsl pargitei` occk nngf wetl ve`igttgs aif stratg`egs jcr raesei` sbartkefs tc ogdcbg lgantly, lappy aif dcitreoutei` afunts. Et sleigs ne`lt ci tlgbeifsgt iggfgf tc dcuitgr tlg ggdts ci cur dlenfrgi cj cur le`l-stakgs
dunturg aif gfudateci systgb.Zedke Aogngs, Xrcfudgr aif Dc-Fergdtcr, _adg tc IcwlgrgVes warb aif wesg occk slcws pargits lcw tc iurturg tlg scdean aifgbctecian skenns tlat ann dlenfrgi iggf tc suddggf. Ets finngf wetl pradtedan
stratg`egs pargits dai usg tc lgnp dlenfrgi fesdcvgr aif fgvgncp tlger trug
pctgitean.
Bedlgng Ocroa XlF autlcr cj Vlg Oe` Occk cj Xargitei` Tcnutecis