SCIENCE OF LOVE

By John Baines

“Corrupt Love” Summary

EVOLUTION OF LOVE

FUTURE

True, divine, conscious love

TODAY

Egoic, corrupt love

YESTERDAY

Pure utilitarian function

THE PROCESS

TRUE LOVE Genuine spiritual love

as part of the development of the

awakened being

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ing CORRUPT LOVE

Egoic, unconscious,

disconnected mind version of love

CORRUPT LOVE

Corrupt love is a result of man not living in the divine truth of

consciousness and/or being lost in his ego identity.

It is only through conscious awareness that corrupt love can be

transcended within the human experience.

CORRUPT LOVE IS…

All forms of corrupt love are simply egoic, unconscious

psychological behavioural patterns.

All egoic behavioural patterns, whether called love or not, come from

fear.

Corrupt love is therefore psychological patterns we call “love” but

which are actually beahviours based on fear.

TYPES OF CORRUPT LOVE

!  Ignorance

! Using Marriage

! Withholding Oneself

! Narcissism and Jealousy

! Amorous Human Automaton

! Vampirism

! Magnetic Drunkness

! Heterosuggestion

! Oedipus and Electra Complex

! Diana Complex

!  Symbiosis

! Daydream Phantom

!  Sado-Masochism

TYPES OF CORRUPT LOVE

!  Compulsive Sexual Pleasure

!  Macho & Matriarchal Behaviour

!  Social Substitutes

!  Having Children

!  Artificial Obligations

!  Loneliness and Anxiety

!  Making a Women a Sex Object

!  False Romanticism

!  Frigidity and Impotence

!  Hysteria

!  There are 3 categories of Corrupt Love that all the types fall into:

!  Most types of corrupt love are born out of being unconscious: •  When people are unconscious, they live in an unhealthy ego and are therefore at the mercy

of a slew of negative psychological behavioural patterns

!  When people are unbalanced in their masculine and feminine polarities, they

are unable to connect with their sexual counterpart •  When this is combined with being unconscious, they are further subject to the psychological

patterns that result from this unbalanced energy

!  Programming happens as a result of social and societal conditioning that

drives people to enter relationships for the wrong reasons

CATEGORIES OF CORRUPT LOVE

Unconscious Unbalanced Programmed

CATEGORIES OF CORRUPT LOVE

UNCONSCIOUS UNBALANCED PROGRAMMED

Ignorance Oedpius & Electra Using Marriage

Withholding Oneself Diana Complex Heterosuggestion

Narcissim & Jealousy Matriarchal & Macho Artificial Obligations

Amorous Automaton Frigidity and Impotence Having Children

Vampirism False Romantiscism

Oedipus & Electra

Symbiosis

Daydream Phantom

Sado Masochism

Loneliness & Anxiety

IGNORANCE

! Humankind is largely still unconscious and is therefore unaware of

what true divine love actually is

! True love requires total polarity between men and women

! Without awareness, men and women cannot attain this and

therefore remain in ignorance

USING MARRIAGE

! Marriage is not evidence of true love; it does not mean that true

love can’t exist within marriage but only that marriage does not mean

that it does exist

! A form of corrupt love is therefore those that see marriage as an

end goal, as opposed to true, divine love itself which does not need

marriage to exist

WITHHOLDING ONESELF

! A transactional style of relationship

! When there is a dichotomy between the internal an external

relationship

! Externally and physically there is an exchange; often where the

woman gives her body and the man gives money

!  Internally, though, there is no real divine connection or love

NARCISSISM & JEALOUSY

!  Jealousy is a pure egoic reaction that originates from a fear frequency

and is therefore not real love

!  A jealous person is a true narcissist because to allow this emotion to

drive decisions is to act in pure self-interest

!  Psycho-analytically, narcissism is self-centeredness arising from failure

to distinguish the self from external objects. This is the definition of pure

ego.

!  Someone in a purely egoic state can never connect with true, divine

love.

AMOROUS HUMAN AUTOMATON

! Describes the partner of an extreme narcissist .

! The extreme narcissist is so deeply empty and so blindly connected

to the external world for a definition of themselves, that they seek a

partner to further define them, in that external world

! This person has been dubbed the “Amorous Human Automaton”

because of the required robotic qualities to be a partner of an

extreme narcissist.

HETEROSUGGESTION

! Describes the relationships that happen as a result of

programming through: •  Societal “expectations” and public opinion •  Cultural indoctrination - customs and traditions

! These are relationships that happen because it is felt that they

“should” happen (for whatever reason) not because of true love.

OEDIPUS & ELECTRA

!  Individuals in these relationships are seeking a substitute for a mother

or father

!  This is an egoic behavioural pattern, normally through a conditioned

childhood response which prevents the person from moving out of ego

!  It can lead to many unhealthy issues mostly due to the parent-child

style of relationship required to fulfill this conditioned psychological state

THE DIANA COMPLEX

! When a woman exhibits an exaggerated masculine energy

!  Science of Love holds that men and women must be in perfect

polarity and therefore any examples of unbalanced energy in either

male or female are forms of corrupt love

! This is a form of matriarchal and/or macho behaviour

! These behaviours are often triggered by an ego that feels

threatened.

VAMPIRISM

! Because the person is empty inside, they seek another to “suck”

the life from another.

! This is a function of living in pure ego and not being connected to

pure divine love internally.

SYMBIOSIS

!  Where people find another person to fill the empty void inside

themselves instead of seeking true divine love to fill themselves so

they can then give properly to another in a relationship

!  Describes an unhealthy dependence on the partner that is bred from

fear and not love

!  It can be due to extreme insecurity, sadist or masochistic tendencies, or

living in an egoic personality pattern such as extreme shyness, ignorance,

etc.

DAYDREAM PHANTOM

!  Defines themselves completely through daydreams formed and fed by

the external world

!  They live in a false idea of themselves which eventually leads to intense

feelings of disappointment – there are documented psychological

disorders of this nature such as “Perfection Malfunction Disorder”

!  Similar to those in symbiosis, the daydream phantom seeks “love” with

another person to fill an empty void internally

SADO-MASOCHISM

!  Is another example of an unhealthy egoic behavioural pattern that

drives unbalanced relationships

!  It is an example of a “symbiosis” relationship as described earlier

PSYCHOLOGICAL SEXUAL APPETITE

! Compulsive search for sex that ultimately drives behaviours,

actions and decisions

! The definition of a man “ruled by his penis”

! Driven by indoctrination and programming from popular culture –

therefore an example of Heterosuggestion

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