relationships. learning targets i can define relationship. i can discuss qualities of a healthy...
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Relationships
Learning Targets
I can define relationship.I can discuss qualities of a healthy relationship.I can explain the difference between constructive and destructive relationships.
JournalWeek 4 11-9-15
What makes your best friend your best friend?
Your Relationships
List people whom you have a relationship with (parents, siblings, teacher, coach, etc.)Under each of your people, list qualities you expect in that relationship
A relationship is the process of connecting with another
Humans are social creatures that want to belong and feel included, which is what being in a relationship gives us.
Types of relationshipsVoluntary
We choose to be in themFriends, significant others, etc.
InvoluntaryWe don’t have a choice to be in the relationship
Partners, siblings, peers at school or work, etc.
Closeness Circle
Constructive vs. DestructiveConstructive Characteristics
Can be dependent, independent, or interdependent, according to the situationAllow one another independence and freedom to grow and developCan communicate effectively to resolve conflicts and solve problemsFlexibilityAccept differences and work to resolve themAre willing to compromiseDemonstrate care and concern for one anotherTake responsibility for their own behavior and for the relationship
Construction Relationships = balance
Destructive Relationship Expect total loyal or no loyalty at allDemonstrate a lack of love or concern or use “smother love”Avoid conflicts entirely or fight and disagree constantlyWant to control one another’s behaviorCommunicate ineffectivelyAre overly possessiveNeglect one another’s needsFind themselves in win/lose situationsBecome locked into a dependent or independent role
People in destructive relationships tend to be at the extreme ends
Don’t care at all about one another
“Smother Love”
Care about self & others
Behavioral Continuum
Improving Your Relationships
Keep promisesBe loyalListenSay you’re sorrySet clear expectations
Do small acts of kindnessImportant People Lessons
Review
Define relationship.Provide 2 qualities of a healthy relationship.Explain the difference between constructive and destructive relationships.
Provide 2 examples of destructive behavior.