relationship counselling life line course 3 nov 2016
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RELATIONSHIPS
RELATIONSHIP COUNSELLING
PHILIP DE BRUYN [MBL]Life and Leadership Coach
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CELL: 0834444235/[email protected]
GROW
G= GOAL
R=REALITY
O=OPTIONS
W=WAY FORWARD
Goal 1
For me to lead you gently back to yourself
Leo Buscaglia
GOAL 2
`To wash away the confusion and the contamination of pain, self-condemnation, anger, hatred, and bitterness.`
Dr. Phil McGraw
Or simply to build bridges
What is a bridge?
`A bridge is when the world falls out under you, and you build something to connect the cracks`
5 yr old
When everything falls away from under you
Song: Please lock me away and dont allow the sun here inside where I hide with my loneliness I wont live in a world without love.
THE FIRST BRIDGE TO BUILD.
IS A BRIDGE TO YOU!
The Journey
Sometimes in life you will go on a journey. It will be the longest journey you have ever taken. It is the journey to find yourself.
Katherine Sharp
The Journey and 5 Discoveries
The first: Who do I want to be?The second: Who am I?The Third: My learning AgendaThe Fourth: Experimenting with new behaviours,thoughts, feelings.The Fifth: Developing supportive and trusting relationshipsD Goleman
Who am I?
SWOT FOR POTENTIAL
Describe yourself by using three words
Who do you want to be?
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Develop
Robin Sharma
The ultimate goal
To own that :
I was born awesome!
and to live that way!
If you are awesome..
What would you change today?
..and tomorrow?
.and..?
MIRROR, MIRROR ON THE WALL, WHO IS THE MOST INCREDIBLE OF ALL?
Baby, it's you!
The next bridge is to
Everyone else!
I do not love her anymore
Ive lost that loving feeling, and now its gone, gone, gone.
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Love is
A verb
A man needs ?
A battle to fight
Adventure
A Beauty to rescue
John Eldredge: Wild at Heart
And a woman?
Romance
Adventure to share
Beauty to unveil
Stasi Eldredge:Captivating
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Talking the languages of love!
If you know them, why dont you use them?
touch
Affirm
Give
Do
Be present
scanspeak to us of marriage
But will people trust me again?
`You cannot talk yourself out of a position you behaved yourself into`
SR Covey
Behave yourself in a way that will engender new trust
Talk Straight
Show respect
Create transparency
Behave
Right the wrongs
Show loyalty
Deliver results
Forgive!
It is your future!
Take this life and live it
You take the brush and the paint, and paint your own future