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    Positive Thinking

    M Sutapa Lakshmanan23/11/2010

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    Coverage Knowing your world

    How attitudes affect results Personal Excellence

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    Any fact facing us is not as important as

    our attitude toward it, for that determines

    our success or failure.

    Norman Vincent Peale

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    What is attitude?

    Attitudes are evaluative statements- either

    favorable or unfavourable about objects,

    people or events

    They reflect how we feel about something

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    Components of AttitudeCognitive= evaluation

    e.g. My boss is unfair

    Affective= feeling

    I dislike my boss!

    Behavioral=action

    I am looking for other job

    Negative

    attitude toward

    boss

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    Know Yourself True nature of your current attitude (how

    you react to current situations)

    To succeed in any endeavour, you have to

    approach them with positive or affirmative

    attitude

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    Your Positive Attitude Quotient 1: Never; 2:Seldom; 3: Sometimes; 4: Usually; 5: Almost always

    I can quickly recover from failure

    I have personal goals I am working on

    I keep track of my progress on goals and make the changes needed

    I make up my mind slowly whether or not I will like new people I

    meet

    I get a lot of good ideas from other people

    I can find what I need to know without much help

    I dont have to be reminded to do what I have agreed to do I can quickly detect people who are pessimists

    I enjoy listening to peoples explanations, even if I dont like them

    personally

    I am patient with people who disagree with me

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    Your PAQ-Score

    Score:40 or more: Strong Positive attitude:

    credibility as leader and compatibility as a co-

    worker

    Between 30 and 40: Normal positive attitude:serve you well and a favourable influence on

    others

    Between 20 and 30: unpredictable attitude andwill cause confusion and uncertainty in

    relationships at home and workplace

    Under 20: Negative attitude: will inhibit

    confidence in your relationships and work

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    CHANGE THE WAY YOU FEEL ABOUT YOURSELF

    The only disability in life is a bad

    attitude....Scott Hamilton

    Cast away your negative past

    Evaluate your attributes( list personal assets,

    competencies and achievements)

    Seek out positive input

    Write down specific goal

    Take responsibility for your emotional

    environment

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    PULL YOURSELF UP( learn early and put

    in hard work)

    REWORK MISTAKES

    LOOK FOR A BETTER WAY

    Dont React; Initiate Action

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    How Attitude affects Results

    Your job satisfaction, happiness, progress and

    development on the job depends on your boss

    Study your bosss goals, style and work habits

    and tailor your actions accordingly

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    Least Valuable People(LVP) Profile

    Constantly sidesteps problems and complaints, hoping

    that someone else will handle them

    Avoids disciplining people

    Blames others when things go wrong

    Allows false statements to go unchallenged

    Doesnt worry about being late for work or meetings

    Postpones completion of projects as long as possible

    Avoids seeking clarification for misunderstandings inorder to criticize later

    Never volunteers for an assignment when not absolutely

    sure of success

    Doesnt worry about deadlines

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    Least Valuable People(LVP) Profile Maintains the same sources of information and bases

    decisions more on opinions than facts

    Tries to be as noncommittal as possible

    Punishes good people who disagree

    Sees delegating as a way of getting rid of unpleasantchores

    Keeps busy with current projects and is

    uncomfortable with future planning

    Tends to criticize others in public, rather than inprivate

    Is not in touch with customers

    Frequently talks about how much others depend on

    them

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    Least Valuable People(LVP) Profile

    Is not concerned about nurturing promotable people

    Is uncomfortable when depending on others to

    provide answers

    Concentrates efforts on favourite tasks rather thanhighest priorities

    Rarely compliments others for good work

    Downplays competence of other people

    Takes as few risks as possible Waits as long as possible before delivering bad news

    Is not involved in self-improvement programs

    Hides talented people to further their own career

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    Key to Success at workplace Go above and beyond expectations

    Bring solutions and not more problems

    Bounce back from mistakes

    Dont make excuses Dont depend on reminders to complete work

    Work for improvement, not perfection

    Think ahead

    Dont dwell on successes

    Dont assume too much

    Negotiate agreements and then get going

    Concentrate on what is wrong versus who is wrong

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    MAKE SURE YOUR ATTITUDES ARE CLEARLY

    PRESENT IN YOUR DAY TO DAY BEHAVIOUR

    AND ACTIONS

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    Yourself as a problem

    Put your negative attitudes in focus

    Laugh

    Accept failures and setbacks as part of life

    Talk calmly to yourself when you are upset

    Talk positively to yourself when you feel down

    Examine your priorities and goals

    Simplify everything you can

    Dont let small problems get bigger

    Get more involved with family and friends

    Brainstorm constructive alternatives with others

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    Build Your Self-confidence

    Knowing your limitations

    Learning to make choices

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    Personal attributes to achieve excellence

    Self-esteem

    Responsibility

    Optimism Steady progress

    Imagination

    Awareness Creativity