men are from mars and women are from venus part 1 slide share
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VIDEO
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DISCLAIMER:
– All the event, examples and issues shared are imaginary OR based on the book. Significance with any individual or event is not intentional
– If it is helpful silently implement it and enjoy
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OBJECTIVE
• To share some of the differences between Man and Women so that relationship with each other can be more effective.
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ABOUT THE AUTHOR
• John Gray (born December 28, 1951) is an American relationship counselor, lecturer and author
• In 1992 he published the book Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus• He has written 17 books on relationships and personal growth
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WHAT MOTIVATED TO WRITE THE BOOK? • Pregnancy• Pills• Nobody cares for the pain• Heated communication• I need your company
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FLOW OF THE PRESENTATION• Mr. Fix-It and the Home-Improvement Committee• Men Go to Their Caves and Women Talk • How to Motivate the Opposite Sex • Speaking Different Languages • Men Are Like Rubber Bands • Women Are Like Waves • Discovering Our Different Emotional Needs • How to Avoid Arguments
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MEN ARE FROM MARS WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS • Past• REMEMBERING OUR DIFFERENCES
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MR. FIX-IT AND THE HOME-IMPROVEMENT COMMITTEE • Complaint:
– men don't listen and– offering solution
• Man:– Confused when she doesn't appreciate this gesture of love.
• IDIOT:– She wants empathy and not solutions
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MR. FIX-IT AND THE HOME-IMPROVEMENT COMMITTEE • Complaint:
– Women are always trying to change them – When a woman loves a man..
• She feels responsible to assist him in growing and tries to help him improve the way he does things
• Woman:– Why he gets angry????
• IDIOT:– He thinks, he is getting controlled
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MR. FIX-IT AND THE HOME-IMPROVEMENT COMMITTEE • Root cause:
– WE ON MARS :• Martians value power, competency, efficiency, and achievement • more interested in "objects" and "things" rather than people and feelings • Achieving goals is very important (Competence) • No advice / Expert advice
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MR. FIX-IT AND THE HOME-IMPROVEMENT COMMITTEE • Root cause:
– LIFE ON VENUS :• They value love, communication, beauty, and relationships • They experience fulfilment through sharing and relating • A sign of great love is to offer help and assistance to another Venusian
without being asked
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LEARNING
• GIVE UP GIVING ADVICE • LEARNING TO LISTEN
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MEN GO TO THEIR CAVES AND WOMEN TALK • Stress:
– Men: Feels better by solving problem– Women: Feels better by talking about problems
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MEN GO TO THEIR CAVES AND WOMEN TALK • COPING WITH STRESS ON MARS :
– Never talks about what is bothering him • Feels better by solving problem by own (Private cave)• Occupy mind with other stuff• Shares only if he needs expert advice
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MEN GO TO THEIR CAVES AND WOMEN TALK • COPING WITH STRESS ON VENUS:
– seeks out someone she trusts and then talks in great detail about the problems of her day • Sharing considered as a love and trust not Burden • Feels good about herself when someone listen 100%
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LEARNING
• When men will be in stress :They will love to be alone• When Women will ne in stress: They will love to share in detail to someone
who listen
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HOW TO MOTIVATE THE OPPOSITE SEX • WHEN A MAN LOVES A WOMAN:
– Win/lose philosophy : All the games – Winning is important– Want to be hero/ appreciation
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HOW TO MOTIVATE THE OPPOSITE SEX • WHEN A WOMAN LOVES A MAN:
– feel supported by someone who cares. – Want to make him perfect/ better– Want to be No. 1
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LEARNING
• Appreciation / Learn to give• Hero Vs. No. 1
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