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Janice Ballenger, volunteer EMT and former deputy coroner, with a New Holland Ambulance vehicle. The ambulance association was on the scene with Ballenger during the aftermath of the shooting at the West Nickel Mines School in October 2006. Costars Remember Elvis the Actor page 6 Veterans’ Expo & Job Fair Highlights page 12 Inside: By Chelsea Peifer Whenever Janice Ballenger’s name was listed on the schedule as deputy coroner, the 911 dispatchers joked that they knew they were in for a demanding day. “My initial years as deputy coroner were filled with a lot of horrific calls,” said Ballenger. “Scenes that I can never erase from my mind.” Ballenger, 62, had been working at a bank for 23 years when she read a headline stating a need for volunteers for emergency situations—no experience necessary. The Ephrata native began volunteering as a vehicle rescue technician before becoming an emergency medical technician and then serving as Lancaster County’s first female deputy coroner from 2004 to 2008. “It was quite the struggle to balance working full time, volunteering as an EMT, and doing deputy coroner calls 24 hours a week,” Ballenger said. “The amount of time that is required to be a volunteer is unbelievable.” Ballenger volunteered for nearly 20 years. While beginning in her 40s was a “late start,” she said that just proves that it is never too late to follow your dreams. Volunteers are the world’s greatest unsung heroes, and many people have no idea how much money is saved thanks to volunteer efforts, said Ballenger. “If I could say something to those aspiring to enter any of these fields, it please see NEW NORMAL page 16 Volunteer EMT, Former Deputy Coroner Heals by Writing Memoir Penning a ‘New Normal’ Lancaster County Edition January 2015 Vol. 21 No. 1

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Page 1: Lancaster County 50plus Senior News January 2015

Janice Ballenger, volunteer EMT and former deputy coroner, with a New Holland Ambulancevehicle. The ambulance association was on the scene with Ballenger during the aftermath of

the shooting at the West Nickel Mines School in October 2006.

Costars RememberElvis the Actorpage 6

Veterans’ Expo & Job FairHighlightspage 12

Inside:

By Chelsea Peifer

Whenever Janice Ballenger’s name was listed on the schedule as deputycoroner, the 911 dispatchers joked that they knew they were in for ademanding day.“My initial years as deputy coroner were filled with a lot of horrific calls,”

said Ballenger. “Scenes that I can never erase from my mind.”Ballenger, 62, had been working at a bank for 23 years when she read a

headline stating a need for volunteers for emergency situations—noexperience necessary.The Ephrata native began volunteering as a vehicle rescue technician

before becoming an emergency medical technician and then serving asLancaster County’s first female deputy coroner from 2004 to 2008.“It was quite the struggle to balance working full time, volunteering as an

EMT, and doing deputy coroner calls 24 hours a week,” Ballenger said. “Theamount of time that is required to be a volunteer is unbelievable.”Ballenger volunteered for nearly 20 years. While beginning in her 40s was

a “late start,” she said that just proves that it is never too late to follow yourdreams.Volunteers are the world’s greatest unsung heroes, and many people have

no idea how much money is saved thanks to volunteer efforts, said Ballenger.“If I could say something to those aspiring to enter any of these fields, it

please see NEW NORMAL page 16

Volunteer EMT, Former Deputy

Coroner Heals by Writing Memoir

Penning a‘New Normal’

Lancaster County Edition January 2015 Vol. 21 No. 1

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April 19 – A car bomb detonated outside the MurrahFederal Building in Oklahoma City, Okla., killing 168 people.Timothy McVeigh and Terry Nichols were later convicted ofthe antigovernment plot to avenge the Branch Davidianstandoff in Waco, Texas, exactly two years prior.

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Pete Billis was born in Greece.His home was the island ofChios, one of those

picturesque Greek islands that todaydraw millions of tourists to sharetheir beauty.In 1970, however, his dad found

the U.S. a lot more attractive, andhe, with his wife and three children,left for Lancaster, Pa. WhyLancaster? “Because that’s where my dad’s

sister and friends of our family wereliving,” Billis says.Lancaster quickly became home to

Billis, and he was soon speakingEnglish without an accent. Aftergraduation from McCaskey HighSchool in 1982, he enteredMillersville University, graduating in1986. He then “wanted to do something

for his country and to see theworld,” as he puts it. So he enlistedin the Air Force.He had basic training in Texas at

Lackland Air Force Base. Whilethere, an Air Force master sergeanthe knew suggested that he take in-flight refueling as a career field. Normally, you had to complete a

more basic assignment for three ormore years after basic training beforerequesting assignment to in-flightrefueling, but a special Air Forceprogram briefly opened the programup, and Billis took it.After air crew training at

Sheppard AFB in Texas, and thenland- and water-survival training atFairchild AFB in Washington, he wasassigned to advanced training as anin-flight fueling specialist at CastleAFB in California. Upon graduation, he was qualified

to fly in KC-135 Stratotankers asthey refueled aircraft in flight. Hewas home-based at Grissom AFB inIndiana while flying missions inmany parts of the world.The KC-135 was the Air Force’s

first jet-powered refueling tanker. Itwas needed in order to keep up withthe speed of the Air Force’s new jetfighters and bombers. Holding more than 30,000

gallons of aviation fuel, it was able to

transfer the fuel in flight that ourbombers and fighters needed inorder to extend their range for longflights or, for the fighters, to extendthe loiter time on station.The fuel was transferred through a

boom at the tail section of the KC-135, with the receiving plane onlyfeet from the tail of the tanker. Thepilot of the KC-135 and thereceiving airplane had to carefullymaintain exactly the same speed andposition throughout the refueling. The boom operator of the KC135

lay on his belly while he peered out asmall window and carefullymaneuvered the boom through asmall port near the nose of theairplane following behind and belowhim. At that time, the success of themission was literally in his hands.

Did it take a lot of skill to do hisjob? “Not according to the Air Force

after all the training they gave us,”Billis says with a grin. “But livesdepended on our ability to do itright. Both bombers andinterceptors routinely flew missionsthat required in-flight refueling. Andthat happened around the world.” Did Billis ever have a time when

things didn’t go well? “Well,” he reflects, “there was one

time when our F-16s were scrambledto meet Russian bombers off Icelandthat were trying to penetraterestricted airspace. It was nighttime,and we were at 30,000 feet when Ineeded to refuel an F-16 whose lighton the receiving port had failed, andI had to find the port in the dark. “It was touch and go, but

fortunately, I was able to handlethat, and the F-16 pilot was savedfrom a stark experience, since the F-16s, because of the foulest weatherat Iceland, had to fly on to Englandto land after the mission.”Often they were called upon to

refuel the AWACS aircraft we usedin order to conduct missions in Iranand Afghanistan. And they weresometimes tasked to fuel aircraftbeing flown in efforts to controldrug trafficking.In October 1993, Billis, by then a

sergeant, was discharged and camehome to Lancaster. He became adistributor of Pepperidge Farmproducts, and then in 2002established his own eBay business,selling collectibles, mostly stampsand coins.Asked what he thinks about his

years in the Air Force, he says,“They were wonderful years. I metsome of the finest people in thisworld. In fact, one of my greatestregrets is that I didn’t stay in untilretirement. “It’s not that I’m not happy now

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Sgt. Peter Billis in the pilot’scompartment of a KC-135 Stratotanker.

Sgt. Billis on leave in 1992 athome in Lancaster.

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For many, the title “King of Rock’n’ Roll” is reserved for one man:Elvis Presley. Had he lived, the

King would have celebrated his 80thbirthday on Jan. 8, 2015.Unlike most departed singers who are

remembered largely for their music,Presley lives on through a phenomenalnumber of appearances in scriptedmotion pictures—31 in all—beginningwith Love Me Tender in 1956 and ending13 years later with Change of Habit in1969. His movies provide a unique glimpse

into another dimension of one of the 20thcentury’s greatest entertainers.Although his films were often

dismissed due to weak and predictablescripts, critics generally regarded Presleyas a surprisingly good actor. But whatdid costars think about working withPresley?In 1966, 10-year-old Donna

Butterworth costarred in Paradise,Hawaiian Style, the second Presley filmset in Hawaii.“My mom and dad took me to see

Blue Hawaii when I was just a little girl,and I fell in love with him right then andthere,” said Butterworth. “I used to listen

to his records, and I couldn’t get enoughElvis.”Butterworth recalls filming her first

scene on the cliffs of Makapuu, onOahu.“I had to run up into Elvis’s arms and

call out, ‘Uncle Rick, Uncle Rick.’ But I

had only met him a few minutes beforethat. So when the director called ‘action,’I ran up and got in his arms and his facewas about 4 inches from my face. “After all the anticipation of meeting

Elvis Presley and working with him, Ijust froze. I couldn’t believe I was so closeto this beautiful man! All the crewcracked up because they knew I was soenamored. In fact, Elvis laughed thehardest—he just loved to laugh.”Unlike Butterworth, 7-year-old Susan

Olsen wasn’t a Presley fan when shebriefly appeared in the talent-contestaudition scene in Presley’s second-to-lastfilm, The Trouble with Girls (1969).“I couldn’t understand all the hype

over him, and I didn’t even think he wasgood-looking!” said Olsen, who went onto play youngest daughter Cindy on thepopular ’60s TV show The Brady Bunch.That changed after their first brief

encounter.

Costars Remember Elvis the Actor

Tinseltown Talks

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Donna Butterworth and Elvis inParadise, Hawaiian Style

Marlyn Mason and Elvis in The Trouble with Girls

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“I remember that a bunch of the kids’mothers suddenly started screaming.Elvis had come out of his dressing room,and they crowded around him forautographs. So I thought, ‘What theheck! I’ll get one too.’ “So I went up to him—and I’m not

making this up—when he looked at me,I thought, ‘Oh, I get it! I see why theylike him so much.’ He had this specialaura about him. I was just dumbstruck; Icouldn’t say anything. He signed thephoto, handed it to me, and said, ‘Hereya go, darling.’”Presley’s leading lady in The Trouble

with Girls came away with more thanjust an autograph. Marlyn Masonsnagged an on-screen kiss.“It was a comedy kiss,” said Mason,

indicating that the only fireworks werethe real ones in the movie scene.“He was great fun to work with,

because I could throw anything at himand he’d just throw it right back.”She also recalls a private moment

when Presley shared thoughts about hisacting.“The saddest thing Elvis said to me

was, ‘I’d like to make one good filmbecause I know people in this town laughat me.’ I’ll never forget that,” she said. “But he was always down to earth and

comfortable with himself. Some of that

dialogue wasso corny, buthe managedto bring arealness to it.And I thinkthat’s justhow he wasin real life.He was anaturalcomedian,and histiming wasjustimpeccable. Ijust found him tobe a very genuineperson.”Despite his

fame, WillHutchins saysPresley didn’t playthe celebrity,although he wasusuallyaccompanied onmost of his filmsby pals—the so-called MemphisMafia.“On the set, Elvis was like a host—a

Southern gentleman—making sure

everyone washaving a goodtime,” saidHutchins,who firstworked inSpinout(1966).The

following yearhe costarredwith Presleyin Clambake,whichfeatured a lotof ad-libbing

and foolingaround on the set.“It was more

or less a de factostag party becauseElvis was gettingmarried soon afterthe filming wasfinished,” recalledHutchins. “Elvisand his buddieswould set offfirecrackers. It waspretty wild, but a

lot of fun. For the director’s birthday,they had a cake and pushed it right in hisface!”

Wilda Taylor appeared in three ElvisPresley films but strutted into Presleymovie history as exotic dancer LittleEgypt in Roustabout (1964).“We rehearsed for about two weeks,”

said Taylor. “Elvis was in and out of therehearsal hall every so often between hisother busy filming days for the otherscenes. He knew his material and musicwell, and I grew to admire him a greatdeal. “It’s amazing, through the years, how

many people know about me and LittleEgypt from that film. Oddly enough, Ireally didn’t know much about Elvisbefore we worked together, but I foundhim to be a lovely, darling person, and Iwas just pleased to be a small part of hislife.”With each passing decade since his

death in 1977 at age 42, the Elvis Presleylegend and legacy continue to grow.When viewed in the context of the oftenzany ’60s TV and film period, it isgratifying that there exists such anextensive film library of the mostcelebrated entertainer in history.

Thomas’ features and columns have appearedin more than 400 magazines and newspapers,and he is the author of Raised by the Stars,published by McFarland. He can be reachedat his blog: http://getnickt.blogspot.com

Wilda Taylor as Little Egypt with Elvis in Roustabout

Will Hutchins and Elvis in Clambake

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Lancaster County

Calendar of EventsCocalico Senior Association – (717) 336-7489Jan. 8, 11 a.m. – Lunch OutingJan. 22, 10 a.m. – Medicare ProgramJan. 27, 6 p.m. – Senior Social

Columbia Senior Center – (717) 684-4850Jan. 5, 10:15 a.m. – Musical MemoriesJan. 21, 10:15 a.m. – Senior Driving … What to KnowJan. 27, 10:15 a.m. – Songs of Yesteryear

Elizabethtown Area Senior Center – (717) 367-7984 Jan. 7, 1:30 p.m. – Bingo for BucksJan. 8, 10:30 a.m. – Hearing and Ear CareJan. 21, 10 a.m. – Medication Take-Back

Lancaster House North Happy Hearts Club SeniorCenter – (717) 299-1278Tuesdays, 1 p.m. – Varied ActivitiesThursdays, noon – Pinochle

Lancaster Neighborhood Senior Center – (717) 299-3943Jan. 9, 9:30 a.m. – How to Use the iPad Training StartsJan. 14, 9:30 a.m. – Haircuts and ManicuresJan. 22, 9:30 a.m. – Chorus Practice

Lancaster Rec. Senior Center – (717) 392-2115, ext. 147Mondays, 1:30 p.m. – PickleballJan. 14, 10:30 a.m. – Craft with PreschoolersJan. 22, 10:15 a.m. – Music by Marty’s One-Man Band

Lititz Senior Center – (717) 626-2800Fridays, 9 a.m. – Tai ChiJan. 8, 10:15 a.m. – Music and DancingJan. 29, 10:15 a.m. – History of Reading and Columbia

Railroad

Luis Munoz Marin Senior Center – (717) 295-7989Jan. 6, 10 a.m. – Three Kings Celebration with MusicJan. 13, 10 a.m. – The New School of Lancaster Spanish

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Millersville Senior Center – (717) 871-9600Mondays and Fridays, 10 a.m. – Healthy Steps in

Motion ExerciseJan. 14, 10 a.m. – Music for a Wintry DayJan. 21, 10 a.m. – Brain Teasers

Next Gen Senior Center – (717) 786-4770Mondays and Fridays, 9:30 a.m. – ExerciseWednesdays, 9:30 a.m. – Bible Study Jan. 6, 10:30 a.m. – Penn State Nutrition Program

Rodney Park Happy Hearts Club Senior Center –(717) 393-7786 Tuesdays, noon – Pinochle Wednesdays, 1 p.m. – Varied Activities Thursdays, noon – Bingo

Please call or visit the centers’ websites for additional activities.

Community Programs Free and open to the public

Support Groups Free and open to the public

Jan. 7, 7 to 8:15 p.m.Alzheimer’s Caregivers Support GroupWillow Lakes Outpatient Center212 Willow Valley Lakes Drive, Willow Street(717) 464-9365

Jan. 12, 10 to 11 a.m.Alzheimer’s Caregivers Support GroupGarden Spot Village Concord Room433 S. Kinzer Ave., New Holland(717) [email protected]

Jan. 15, noonBrain Tumor Support GroupLancaster General Health Campus Wellness Center2100 Harrisburg Pike, Lancaster(717) 626-2894

Jan. 26, 2 to 3 p.m.Parkinson’s Support GroupGarden Spot Village Concord Room433 S. Kinzer Ave., New Holland(717) [email protected]

Jan. 28, 6 to 8 p.m.Epilepsy Foundation of Eastern Pennsylvania SupportGroupLancaster General Hospital – Stager Room 5555 N. Duke St., Lancaster(800) 887-7165, ext. 104

Jan. 5, 6 p.m.Red Rose Singles MeetingHoss’s Steak & Sea House100 W. Airport Road, Lititz(717) 406-6098

Jan. 16, 6 to 9 p.m.Music FridaysDowntown Lancaster (717) 341-0028

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Library Programs

Lititz Public Library, 651 Kissel Hill Road, Lititz, (717) 626-2255Jan. 15, 7 p.m. – Lititz Garden Club: All About OrchidsJan. 16, 10 a.m. – Literary Travelers Book Discussion: Please Look After Mom by Kyun-Sook ShinJan. 17, 1:30 p.m. – Lititz Historical Foundation Program

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Snow geese, snowy owls, andsnow buntings are birdspecies that nest on the

ground of the treeless Arctictundra and often winter in openhabitats in the Lower 48,including farmland in LancasterCounty, which must remind themof the tundra. They are a bit of the Arctic

come south for the winter. Butonly snow geese come this farsouth every winter. These species are mostly white, which

camouflages them in snow. Snow geesewinter in noisy hordes that blanketharvested cornfields and winter rye fields,where they feed on waste corn kernelsand the green shoots of rye. They rest on larger, human-made

impoundments between feeding forays.And their clamorous takeoffs andlandings on fields and water are

spectacular and inspiring. Theirdeafening masses in flight block thebackground from view, as does a blizzard.In Lancaster County, snow geese are

most likely seen at Middle CreekWildlife Management Area from mid-February to the middle of March,depending on the weather. But by mid-March they begin their migration northto their breeding territories on thetundra.

A few snowy owls winter in LancasterCounty, as in much of the Lower 48,after lemming populations crash on thetundra about every five years. Most of the owls here are young of the

year come south, looking for any preyanimals they can handle. And they arethrilling to birdwatchers and othersbecause they are rare here and aremagnificent creatures from a distantwilderness.

Flocks of white and brownsnow buntings by the score fly lowto the ground in local farmlandwhile uttering buzzy notes. Theyare a little larger than sparrowsand the colors of fields partlycovered with snow. Some individual snow buntings

may be in groups of horned larksin the fields. Snow buntings eatweed and grass seeds and grain infields through winter. But by April

they are going north to their tundranesting grounds. This winter, or succeeding ones, try to

get out to see these tundra birds in localfields and impoundments. They arethrilling to experience because we don’tsee them every day, and they came fromwilderness.

Clyde McMillan-Gamber is a retiredLancaster County Parks naturalist.

Their First Name is Snow

Snow geese winter in harvested cornfields. A snowy owl in flight.

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By Andrea Gross

I’m a sucker for superlatives. Mypersonal bucket list demands that Ivisit as many “ests” as possible, places

that hold the record for being thehighest, hottest, or in some way the verybest of their category. I thought compiling the list would be

simple, especially after I limited it to theUnited States, but of course it wasn’t. Iran into myriad problems ofmeasurement and definition. Eventually I came up with my own

criteria, based as much on practicalityand desirability as on quantifiable data.Here, my recommendations for the

Best of the Ests:

Highest I have no intention of actually

climbing the tallest peak, which rules outAlaska’s Mt. McKinley (20,237 feet), yetI want to do more than peer toward theheavens. Thus I head for Colorado’s Mount

Evans. At 14,265 feet, Mount Evans is apigmy among giants, but—and this isimportant—it’s home to the highestpaved road. This means I can drive almost all the

way to the country’s highest parking lot,

walk a mere quarter mile to the summit,and voila, I’ll be standing atop thehighest reasonably accessible peak in theU.S.The highway was built between 1917

and 1927 as a means of drawing tourists.

It worked. Today, the scenic drive—atwo-lane ribbon that winds betweentowering evergreens, open meadows, andlovely alpine lakes—is one of Colorado’stop attractions. (www.mountevans.com)

Lowest Choosing the lowest spot is easy. Since

I quickly rule out deep-sea diving anddescending into a mine, I’m left withDeath Valley, Calif., which is the lowestpoint of dry land that was formed bynature as opposed to by man-and-shovel.The valley’s precise lowest point (282

feet below sea level) is near BadwaterBasin, which sits amidst nearly 200square miles of salt flats. A boardwalk lets visitors walk part

way into the basin, but most folks stepdown onto the actual flats. Thelandscape is bizarre but beautiful, apattern of interlocking shapes created bythe valley’s unique combination ofextreme heat, minimal rainfall, and lowelevation. (www.nps.gov/deva/index.htm)

A Quest for the Ests: Visiting the Extremes of the United States

Photo courtesy of National Park Service

A boardwalk at Badwater Basin leads froma parking lot to the salt flats that mark the

lowest point in the United States.

Photo courtesy of National Park Service

The salt flats of Death Valley are nothospitable to plants or animals.

People who take a short hike fromthe highest paved parking lot in theU.S. to the summit of Mt. Evans canbrag that they’ve climbed one ofColorado’s famous Fourteeners(mountains that rise more than14,000 feet above sea level).

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DriestHere I run into trouble. Calexico, a

small town on the California-Mexicoborder, has the lowest annual rainfall, butDeath Valley has the most consecutivedays with no rainfall. In the end I opt for neither. In my

mind, “dry” suggests a place where I canmount a camel and ride endless milesacross towering sand dunes. Calexico isdune-less, and while Death Valley hasdunes, they aren’t record-setters. For that I have to go to Great Sand

Dunes National Park in Colorado,which, although devoid of camels, has750-foot-tall sand piles, the highest inNorth America. Later I learn that the dunes aren’t

really dry. In fact, it’s the moist layer ofsand right under the surface that holdsthe upper dry sand in place. But that’s OK. At this point in my

Quest-Est, I’m more concerned withimagery than scientific accuracy.(www.nps.gov/grsa/index.htm)

Wettest As for the wettest place, I must choose

between the soggiest land or the drippiestsky. Since I don’t have a pair of wet bootsbut own several umbrellas, I decide onHawaii’s Mount Waleleale. Then I learn that the mountain’s

average rainfall exceeds 38 feet a year—a

fact that greatly dampens my enthusiasm(pardon the pun)—so I restrict mysearch to the contiguous United Statesand end up on Washington’s OlympicPeninsula.While the Aberdeen Reservoir is the

rainiest place, with 130.6 inches a year,Forks is the rainiest town, with 120

inches a year. More important, it’s given this

accolade not only by the NationalClimatic Data Center, but also byStephenie Meyer, who used it as a settingfor her Twilight book series. Why, I may even spot a vampire along

the shore or amidst the trees, and this

makes Forks a double superlative—winner of both the wettest and theweirdest categories. (www.forkswa.com)

ColdestOnce I exclude non-contiguous

Alaska, Rogers Pass, Mont., holds therecord for a one-day temperature low(minus 70 F), but the peak of NewHampshire’s Mount Washington winsthe title for all-time year-around cold(annual average temperature of 27 F). In addition, with wind gusts that

sometimes reach more than 230 mph, it’salso considered the windiest place in theUnited States.Therefore, with masochistic

determination I head to the summit. Theroad is steep, narrow, and bordered withdeadly drop-offs. But am I glad I went? Absolutely. The

view on top is spectacular and, what’smore, at the Weather Discovery Centerin nearby North Conway I learn thatMount Washington holds bragging rightsto the best Est of all: Home of theWorld’s Worst Weather.It’s a perfect way to end my search.

The title of “worst” makes MountWashington the “best.”(www.mountwashington.org)

Photos © Irv Green unless otherwise noted;story by Andrea Gross (www.andreagross.com).

Photo courtesy of Forks Chamber of Commerce

Forks, Wash., is the gateway to therainforests of Olympic National Park.

Great Sand Dunes National Park has thetallest dunes in North America.

Photo courtesy of Mount Washington Observatory

Scientists at the Mount WashingtonObservatory work in a place that’sreputed to have the worst weatherin the world.

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State Representative Angel Cruz, with helpfrom the Pennsylvania House ofRepresentatives, named 2014 as the Year ofthe Veteran—and OLP EvENtS, with the helpof Lancaster County, hosted the area’s firstVeterans’ Expo & Job Fair Nov. 14 at theEden Resort, Lancaster.The Veterans’ Expo was open to all active

military and veterans, men and women fromall branches of service, and their families witha mission of ensuring all eligible individualsare aware of the benefits they have earnedfrom their service to our nation.“In 1960, when I came home from

Vietnam in my uniform, people spit at us aswe got off the plane,” said Gene Conylman ofEphrata, Air Force. “Veterans need to behonored and respected better than that.Anything for the veterans is beneficial.”There were a total of 33 Expo vendors and

65 Job Fair exhibitors present at the sold-outevent, which began with an openingceremony. After a welcome from Donna Anderson,

president of On-Line Publishers, the RedRose Veterans Honor Guard performed thePresenting of the Colors, honoring allbranches of military service. Peggy Keller, 2011 Pa StatE SENiOr idOL

winner, sang the national anthem, andAnderson led the attendees in the Pledge ofAllegiance before Lt. Gen. Dennis Benchofftook the stage as the keynote speaker. Benchoff addressed the importance of

helping veterans secure employment and therole the day’s event played in making thathappen. He also commented on veterans’benefits—both the fact that they are availableand how they are earned.Tom La Nasa closed the opening ceremony

with a performance of Johnny Cash’s “RaggedOld Flag.”

Along with the Expo & Job Fair

exhibitors, there were also a number ofseminars and presentations for visitors toattend. Audrey M. Bergstresser from the

Department of Pennsylvania Veterans ofForeign Wars hosted “You and Your VABenefits”; Beth A. Lovell of EmploymentIssues! presented “Resume Writing to Improveand Shorten Your Job Search” and “Winningthe Interview”; and Jack Marino, SCOREcounselor, gave a presentation called “So YouWant to Start a Business?” With more than 500 visitors in attendance,

the response to the first Lancaster CountyVeterans’ Expo & Job Fair was positive. “There are a lot of veterans out there who

don’t even have jobs, so I think it’s nice thatthis event is here for them,” said TerrySchaffer of New Holland, Marines.The event also brought out organizations

looking to recruit other veterans to providethem with the resources they deserve and togive them the support network they may needat home. “We’re an organization that honors

veterans in Lancaster County and IndiantownGap National Cemetery,” said Clyde R.Snyder, Army, of the Vet 21 Salute HonorGuard. “We’re looking for new members to join

our current 43 and improve our ranks,”Snyder said. “We wore our uniforms outtoday hoping to catch somebody’s eye andmaybe gain a new member or two … We’veonly been at this 15 months, and we’vealready honored 1,500 veterans.” Snyder also said he would love to see this

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wake up between 2:30 and 4 o’clockalmost every morning. A force inside my head flips a

switch, lights go on, and rollers andgears begin to turn. It’s like the startupshift in a manufacturing plant. As theminutes slowly pass, the lights getbrighter, the sounds inside becomecacophonous, and all attempts to sleepare futile.Then the neuronal network within

my normally sedate noggin fires away atfull speed to conjure all kinds ofworriment that I think should beimmediately considered. Problems go back and forth as though

going through acerebral rollingmill, and eachproblem isforged intosmaller, moredetailed elementsthat demandmore intensescrutiny witheach pass.Concrete

solutions to some problems are so elusivethat I must store them in mysubconscious until the next morning—or even the morning after that. And theywill again appear between 2:30 and 4a.m. to bedevil me.It is necessary, then, to try to solve

these problems as soon as possible beforethey pile up on all the other woeswaiting to steal my sleep. I am too oftenconfounded, and the frustrationexacerbates my troubles.My wife tends to stir knowingly when

I’m in the “worry” mode. She usuallysays nothing until about 6 a.m. when Istumble downstairs, bleary-eyed andunsteady.I know that my tossing and turning

keeps her from sleeping soundly, whichmakes me worry even more. She has togo to work in the morning. I, on theother hand, can take a nap during theday to recover from my sleeplessness,which can create some resentment.I find it odd that my wife doesn’t

worry much about anything. And thatoften drives me crazy—I worry aboutwhy she doesn’t worry. Oh, she pondersover the same things that worry me; she

just does not let those thoughts devolveinto a condition of hyperventilation likeI do.What are some of the things I worry

about? I’ll tell you. But, keep in mindthat the following is far from acomprehensive list. There isn’t enoughspace in this column to elaborate on allof my vexations.For example, my roof is almost 20

years old. Each time there is a downpourthat lasts more than several minutes, Iroam around the house looking forleaks. So far, so good. But should I replace this roof soon?

Will it hold up for a couple more years?I forget what thelife was on theshingles Ibought. Was it20 years? Ormaybe it was 25. If I could just

find the originalcontract, maybeI could stopworrying.However, maybe

I would worry more if I found theanswer.I’m beginning to wonder how long a

car with 161,000 miles on it willcontinue to start up and take me where Ineed to go. I have put more than acarload of money into repairs for thething, believing that it is more desirablethan four years (or more) of carpayments. Whenever I hear an unusual noise

under the hood, I worry. Should I justgo ahead and strap myself with carpayments?Our water heater started to leak

several months ago. I installed it myselfand it lasted much longer than it wassupposed to. But this time around, I decided to

have somebody else do the installation. Ialso installed a new garbage-disposal unitand a new dishwasher many years ago. Ihad the disposal replaced last year by aplumber. So, when will the dishwasher go on

the fritz? I cross my fingers and continueto worry on that one.

The Way I See It

Mike Clark

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Dear Savvy Senior,What constitutes age discrimination in

the workplace, and where can I turn forhelp if I think I’ve got a case?– Demoted at 64

Dear Demoted,Age discrimination has become a

much more frequent complaint in recentyears as more and more people areworking into their retirement years. But, you need to be aware that proving

it is extremely difficult to do, especiallysince the 2009 Supreme Court decisionthat raised thebar for thetype of legalproof thatworkers needto win age-discriminationlawsuits.With that

said, here arethe steps you’llneed to take tofight agediscriminationif you think you’ve been treatedunlawfully.

ADEA ProtectionThe Age Discrimination in

Employment Act (ADEA) is your firstdefense against age discrimination. Thisis a federal law that says an employercannot fire, refuse to hire, or treat youdifferently from other employees becauseof your age. Some examples of age discrimination

include:

• You were fired because your bosswanted to keep younger workers who arepaid less.

• You were turned down for apromotion, which went to someoneyounger hired from outside the company,because the boss says the company “needsnew blood.”

• When company layoffs are announced,most of the persons laid off were older,while younger workers with less seniorityand less on-the-job experience were kepton.

• Before you were fired, your supervisormade age-related remarks about you.

• You didn’t get hired because theemployer wanted a younger-lookingperson to do the job.

The ADEA protects all workers andjob applicants age 40 and over who workfor employers that have 20 or moreemployees—including federal, state, andlocal governments as well as employmentagencies and labor unions.If your workplace has fewer than 20

employees, youmay still beprotected underyour state’santi-age-discriminationlaw. Contactyour state labordepartment oryour state’s fairemploymentpractices agencyfor moreinformation.

Another protection for older workers isthe federal Older Workers BenefitProtection Act. Under this law, anemployer cannot reduce health or lifeinsurance benefits for older employees,nor can it stop their pensions fromaccruing if they work past their normalretirement age. It also discourages businesses from

targeting older workers when cutting staffand prohibits employers from forcingemployees to take early retirement.

What to DoIf you think you are a victim of

employment age discrimination, yourfirst step is to file a charge with the EqualEmployment Opportunity Commission(EEOC) usually within 180 days fromthe date of the alleged violation. You can do this by mail or in person

at your nearest EEOC office (seewww.eeoc.gov/contact) or by calling (800)669-4000. They will help you throughthe filing process and let you know if youshould also file a charge with your stateanti-discrimination agency.Once the charge is filed, the EEOC

will investigate your complaint and find

How to Fight AgeDiscrimination

Savvy Senior

Jim Miller

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When it finally goes out, I’ll have topay someone else to install the new one.Can you say “expensive”?Two of my grandchildren moved to

another state back in June. It wassudden, unexpected, and disheartening. Iam still disheartened by it. I miss themterribly.I am always wondering if they are

adjusting to their new digs. Are theyhappy? Are they making friends? Arethey doing well in their new school?They call, and I am reassured that all iswell. My wife takes them at their word.Still, I worry.And so it goes until the bright lights

and noise inside my head subside, and Islowly go back to sleep for what remains

of the time left before the alarm goes off.My wife reminds me that in all of our

years together, things have alwaysworked out. Then I worry about apossible exception.For the new year ahead, I’m going to

have to find ways to banish my morningwoes. After all, my wife really needs hersleep. Happy New Year.

Mike Clark writes a regular column for TheGlobe Leader newspaper in New Wilmington,Pa. He has a Bachelor of Science degree inorganizational behavior/applied psychologyfrom Albright College. Mike lives outsideColumbia, Pa., and can be contacted [email protected].

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either reasonable cause to believe thatage discrimination has occurred or nocause and no basis for a claim. After the investigation, the EEOC

will then send you their findings alongwith a “notice of right to sue,” whichgives you permission to file a lawsuit ina court of law.If you decide to sue, you’ll need to

hire a lawyer who specializes inemployee discharge suits. Lawyers.comand FindLaw (www.findlaw.com) aretwo websites that can help you locatediscrimination attorneys in your area.Another option you should consider

is mediation, which is a fair andefficient way to help you resolve youremployment disputes and reach anagreement. The EEOC offers mediation at no

cost if your current or former employeragrees to participate. At mediation, youshow up with your evidence, youremployer presents theirs, and themediator makes a determination withina day or less.

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As part of Landis Homes’ recent50th anniversary celebrationculmination event, hundreds ofcelebrants stepped outside to view the1,000 luminaries lining the walkwayfrom the community’s Harvest ViewApartments to the site of the plannedLeaman Woods paved walking path.The walkway stretches nearly

three-quarters of a mile. Each litluminary represented a $50 gift,given in memory or in honor of aloved one.The $50,000 goal for the Leaman

Woods Accessibility Project to createa paved walking path was farexceeded, with the total amounttopping $70,500.

In addition to a new paved paththrough the woods, additionalbenches, a gazebo, and two entrancearches are planned to be added to theLeaman Woods in 2015.

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Ballenger. “In their opinion, when theydial 911, it is one of the worst days oftheir lives, and I respect that.”Performing CPR on calls for people

she knew was very difficult.“I literally had to be pulled off of the

one man by the doctor at the hospital ashe announced time of death,” Ballengersaid. “A little bit of you dies with theperson.”Successful and unsuccessful suicides,

as well as calls involving children, arealways the most difficult, she said.

But on Oct. 2, 2006, she respondedto a call in Bart Township that nothingcould have prepared her for.Ballenger was one of the first

responders to the shooting at the WestNickel Mines School, where a manentered theschoolhouseand lined up10 youngAmish girlsbeforeshooting themexecutionstyle. Five ofthe girls died;the gunmanlater took hisown life.“I was one

of the few toenter the school with the dead bodiesstill inside,” Ballenger said.She asked the crew from New

Holland Ambulance to clean one of thegirl’s faces because she did not want thechild’s mother to see her face entirelycovered in blood.“They said they had been told not to

touch her. I said, ‘I will take fullresponsibility and will risk my job on

it,’” Ballenger recalled. “They agreed andwere flawless in their work. I am foreverindebted.“I was on scene from approximately

11 a.m. until midnight,” she said. “I stillhave no idea how I made it home.”

That night,Ballenger had tocomplete herreports from thehaunting tragedythat she hadbarely begun toprocess.“As I

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could beginprocessing any further, her phone beganto ring nonstop. “CNN called to say they were on their

way to my home. I said, ‘Absolutelynot.’”Ballenger took two weeks off from

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“It was very emotional. I couldn’tthank them enough for cleaning herface,” Ballenger said. “And I didn’t getin trouble.”She met with counselors and visited

with the Amish families who lost theirchildren on that day.“I still keep in contact with them. I

always leave their homes feeling a littlebetter,” Ballenger said.Her mind kept revisiting the inside

of the Amish school, and in an effort tofind a “new normal,” Ballenger decidedto move and sell nearly everything thatshe owned.“In hindsight, I wish I hadn’t done

that,” Ballenger said. “But I wasdesperate to try to find a normal placein my mind.”She tried crafts and other endeavors

to occupy her mind, but writing amemoir about her experiences was whatfinally gave her a greater sense of peace.Ballenger had been keeping journals

of her experiences since she startedvolunteering.“As I began seeing some gruesome

sights, I needed a way to vent myemotions. My brother, John, gave me alined journal and when I would returnhome from a call, I recorded myemotions in the journal—which turnedinto many, many journals,” Ballengerexplained.

She spent the next two years writingher first book, Addicted to Life & Death:Memoirs of an EMT & Deputy Coroner.She gives free talks in the community

about her book and experiences andbrings a guest speaker with her todiscuss suicide and its effects on thoseleft behind. She includes instructions ongiving CPR in her talks.“Some people have said, ‘I guess you

get used to seeing the things you see.’No, you never get used to it. If you do,then it is time to get out of doing thatwork,” Ballenger said. “Others ask how I could do that

work. I reply, ‘Everyone has their placeon Earth. I am blessed that I was able todo that work for many, many years.Someone has to do it. But don’t ask meto be a dental hygienist—I could neverdo that work.”Ballenger is a still a certified EMT

but does not run on calls. She works ata skilled nursing facility near Ephrata. Ballenger is available to speak about

her experiences and can be reached at(717) 606-3494, [email protected], or at her Facebook page:www.facebook.com/AddictedToLifeDeathMemoirsOfAnEmtDeputyCoroner. Her book is available online or can

be purchased directly through Ballenger;she will sign them as requested.

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LANCASTER COUNTY

EMPLOYERS NEED YOU!!

For more job listings, call theLancaster County Office of Aging

at (717) 299-7979or visit

www.co.lancaster.pa.us/lanco_aging

Lancaster County Office of Aging150 N. Queen Street, Suite 415

Lancaster, PA

cARe PROviDeRs – PtLocal organization needs caring persons to assist adults with developmental disabilities living in group

homes by helping with hygiene, medications, cooking, cleaning, and using company van to transport

guests to appointments. Need valid driver’s license/good record.

Have you made any New Year’s resolutions? How about making a resolution that will enrich your life and the life of an older person in yourcommunity?The volunteer opportunities available at Lancaster County Office of Aging are diverse, offer flexibility, and require a minimal time commitment. As a volunteer, you can choose to provide a consumer with hands-on help with laundry, grocery shopping, or cleaning. You can also provide

socialization as a Phone Pal or Friendly Visitor. There are also several specialized programs for volunteers through our agency. They include the Volunteer Ombudsman and APPRISE volunteer

programs. Volunteers are also invited to participate in several special events during the year, such as distribution of donated chicken barbecue dinners and

the Christmas holiday program.For more information about any of these opportunities and others, contact Bev Via, volunteer coordinator, at (717) 299-7979 or

[email protected]. Becoming an Office of Aging volunteer is one resolution you’ll enjoy keeping!

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(717) 299-7979.SN-GEN.03

SN120002.01Age 55 or over? Unemployed? The 55+ Job Bank is one ofthree services offered by Employment Unit at the Office ofAging. Jobs are matched with those looking for work. Based on an

evaluation of your skills and abilities, we can match you with aposition needed by a local employer. Some employers arespecifically looking for older workers because of the reliabilityand experience they bring to the workplace. There is a mix offull-time and part-time jobs covering all shifts, requiringvarying levels of skill and experience, and offering a wide rangeof salaries. The other services available through the Office of Aging are

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Dear Mark: I know that you haveclearly stated multiple times in yourcolumn that casinos do not cheat. I amstill leery of your belief. I guess myquestion is: Who monitors the casinoto ensure their slot machines are on theup-and-up? – Jared J.

Every state that offers land-basedcasinos has some form of a gamingregulatory agency that provides you, thecasino patron, with protection fromplaying on a rigged machine.Let’s begin with the machine itself.

Each new slot machine goes throughroughly a six-month process to beapproved before it hits the casino floor.A state’s gaming regulatory agency

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inspection of the machine’s source code

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doesn’t pay out too little or too much. These internal tests also look out for

the casino’s best interest in that theymake sure the slot machine isn’t

susceptible tocheating.In most (if not

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the Shondells, 1966), and we’re talkingthe possible loss of a gaming license.Besides, most casinos today are publiclytraded companies not interested inexposing their gaming license to loss withany suspicion of monkey business goingon.Furthermore, in some states, casinos

can’t even access the logic boards in theirmachines. Only the gaming authoritycan either make the change or witnessthe swap.Some states do allow casinos to make

Who Watches Them?‘Them’ Being the Casino

Deal Me InBy Mark Pilarski

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variations to slot machines under thatstate’s regulations. By variations, I meaneither a paytable modification or a chipswap inside a machine to make it returnmore or less. As long as “approved” chips are used,

and the payback is within the minimumlimit set by each state’s law, it is legit.Another reason the slot machine is on

the up-and-up is that every machineoffered is mathematically in the casino’sfavor. It is the way they make theirmoolah—by paying you less than thetrue odds on every machine on thecasino floor. Why cheat? There isn’t any need to

swindle you beyond what the statealready allows them via the casino hold.They don’t call slot machines “one-armed bandits” for nothin’.

Please take into account, Jared, thatmy above answer is to some degreegeneralized. Each gaming jurisdictionmay use a slightly different approach,but you can rest assured that who’swatching whom is watching out for you.

Gambling Wisdom of the Month:“Slot machines are the cotton candy andthe McDonald’s of the casino. Everyoneknows that they’re bad for you, but fewcan resist their junk-food appeal.” –Andrew Brisman

Mark Pilarski is a recognized authority oncasino gambling, having survived 18 years inthe casino trenches. Pilarski is the creator ofthe bestselling, award-winning audio bookseries on casino gambling, Hooked onWinning. www.markpilarski.com

Disk Damage: Watch Your BackA herniated spinal disk can cause

severe pain. Spinal disks act as cushionsbetween your vertebrae, and if theybecome damaged or slip out of place,they can irritate surrounding nerves. The result: weakness, numbness,

and/or pain in arms, legs, or back. Watchfor these risk factors to assess yourvulnerability:

Age. Spinal disks degenerate over time,becoming less flexible and more likely totear as you grow older.

Weight. Extra weight puts more of astrain on your lower back.

Lifting. If your job (or your personallife) requires you to do a lot of heavylifting, be sure to pick objects upproperly and safely to avoid injury.

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