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…a virtual gathering place for people throughout the world

www.globaldialoguecenter.com

Debbe Kennedy | dialogue hostfounder | Global Dialogue Centerauthor | PUTTING OUR DIFFERENCES TO WORKThe Fastest Way to Innovation, Leadership, and High Performance

Jessica Roemischer guest thought-leader

transformational advisor, pianist, and composer

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PERSONAL REINVENTION PERSONAL REINVENTION Discovering New Pathways to Leadership

with Jessica Roemischer

• SETTING THE STAGE for our conversation• Where are YOU? • What YOU told us about yourselves?• What brought YOU here?

On the AGENDA

• PERSONAL REINVENTIONDiscovering New Pathways to Leadership

• Seeding conversation with JESSICA ROEMISCHER• Exploring YOUR QUESTIONS and COMMENTS• Gathering IDEAS to take home

• YOUR REFLECTIONS Informal Virtual Break follows…

Where are you

What you told us ?

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3 iAustralia | Brazil | Canada | Chile | China | Columbia

Denmark| France | Germany | Hong KongIndia | Mexico | Slovakia | Sweden | Switzerland | Trinidad and Tobago |

United Arab Emirates | United Kingdom | United States [27]

134 + representing…

Aspiring WriterAssistantAssoc Professor | Asst ProfessorAsst Vice ChancellorAssistant Principal and Athletic DirectorBudget Coordinator and Executive AsstBusiness Advisor | Business AnalystBusiness Development AnalystBSN RN CBIS CEOCo-OpCSEMCertified Professional CoachCommercial Manager Communications Catalyst/PerformerConsultant | Principal ConsultantLearning ConsultantCorporate Community Involvement

Financial AnalystGlobal Manager SchedulingGraduate AssistantHead of Marketing DepartmentHRIng.Independent Organizational and

Health Care Strategist Internet Marketing ManagerIT Project ManagerLearning ConsultantLicenciada | IngenieraManagerManager | New DevelopmentManager | Project Mgt. TeamManaging DirectorNational Project ManagerNo TitleOrganization & Leadership Consultant

Research AnalystResearch BCSales ExecutiveSecurity and Privacy Analyst Sales ExecutiveSelfSenior Consulting ArchitectSenior EngineerSenior IS&T Acquisition Mgr.Senior Systems AnalystSenior Training AnalystSenior ManagerService Delivery ManagerSoftware Engineer Level 5Software EngineerSoftware EngineerSenior IT SpecialistSr. Director Commercial OperationsSr. Director, CES ProjectsCorporate Community Involvement

Customer Service Relationship MgrDirectorDirector | Learning & DevelopmentDirector - National Project ManagementDirector of Libraries | RetiredDirector | Public Service Leadership ProgDirector of Internships | Asst Prof | Human and Organizational Dev.

Education Center Coor/Media SpecialistEngineering ManagerExecutive Director | DirectorExecutive Project Manager

How you described yourselves… Partial List

g pOwnerPDM Project ManagerPhD Student | Corporate InternPre-K through 12 Music TeacherPresident Principal | Principal ConsultantProduct ManagerProfessor | RetiredProject Executive | Project ManagerQI AdvisorQuality Assurance ManagerRegional Director

Sr. Director, CES ProjectsSr. HR Specialist and Training CoorSr. Program Support Asst.Senior VPStudent | Student/TeacherSTSMSVP, Website Product ManagerTeacherVice PresidentVisual Artist/PianistVP | Technology Project Team ManagerWater Quality Tech 10Writer | Corporate Educator

Artists | Musicians | Theatre Aerospace Banking | Financial Management Business and Professional Services | ITConsumer ServicesCommunications | NetworkingComputers | IT | Software | NetworkingChildren's Education Products & ServicesChurches | Religious OrgsCity | County | State Government Colleges and UniversitiesCommunity and Public ServicesConsulting Services| CoachingDistribution | Mfg.Education and SchoolsEngineeringEnvironment | Energy ServicesFinancial ServicesF t 100 C ti

Key Industries andareas of expertise

represented…

Fortune 100 Corporations Healthcare | Hospitals Hospitality | Hotels | TravelHuman Resources InsuranceLibrary Services | UniversityManagement and Leadership DevelopmentNGOs | Non-Profits | FoundationsPharmaceuticalsPetroleumProducers | Marketing ServicesProfessional Services | ConsultingSmall/Medium BusinessesTelecommunications Television | Radio and MediaUtilities | EnergyVirtual Communities | Internet ServicesWriters

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POLL

Your TOP CHALLENGES

QUESTION for Jessica

How did MUSIC become

a MISSION for YOU?

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with Jessica Roemischer

PERSONAL REINVENTIONPERSONAL REINVENTIONDiscovering New Pathways to Leadership

Two performers or singers who perform together.

An action or activity performed by a pair f l l t d of closely connected

individuals.

DUETDefinition

The MOMENT you registered for this webinar…

WE BEGAN A DUET TOGETHER!

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Personal Reinvention and MusicListening to Your Self

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We Shall Overcome Wake Up and Live | Bob MarleyIMAGINEYou Light Up My LifeThe Gift You Are | John DenverOver the Rainbow

Good Night Song (Hebrew)

Greatest Love of AllPachelbel's Canon 42 | ColdplayOn Eagles WingsBritten's War Requiem

YOU and the MUSIC you LOVE

Over the RainbowI Hope You Dance | Lee WomackDon't Stop Believing – JourneyThat‘s LIFE & My Way – SinatraThanks to Life | Violeta Parra (Chilean)

Freedom | Richie Havens Amazing GraceThe Age of AquariusWhere is the LOVE? | Black Eyed PeasI Have a Dream | ABBA

Britten's War RequiemHandel's Messiah & Water MusicCats in the Cradle | Harry ChapinOde to Joy | BeethovenOlympic Fan Fare | John WilliamsAin’t No Stopping Us NowHey Jude | The BeatlesPretty, Pretty Please | P!NKBeethoven Symphony No.6It’s a BEAUTIFUL World

• It's happy, optimistic and has lots of energy.• It’s about climbing a mountain and turning around.• It reminds me I have the talents needed to succeed. • My late husband gave me this as a gift.• It was the first classical piece I recall hearing; I begged

…and WHY?

p g; ggmy grandmother to let me learn to play it. She did.

• Reminds me that Life is a gift.• I may still be stuck in the small town I grew up in,

if it weren’t for that song.• That song came out as I graduated college and

it spoke to me of endless possibilities. • It reminds me that our behavior and actions create

very important message to the world.

In LISTENING to the MUSIC you love…LISTEN to YOURSELF

There’s a SELF

to be heard!

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Personal

REINVENTION

is actually

Personal

RECONNECTION!

You’re connecting toan immense RESOURCE…

THE SOURCE of your confidence and LEADERSHIP

It is…

j f l joyful

authentic

creative

unfettered by fear

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Personal Reinvention and MusicACTIONABLE IDEAS

ADD MUSIC to your Personal Reinvention practices…

• Create a Personal Reinvention PLAYLIST of songs and pieces that are most meaningful to YOU.

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ACTIONABLE IDEAPersonal Reinvention and Music

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• Change or add SONGS as you discover them.

• LISTEN to your Personal Reinvention PLAYLIST when you need to RECONNECT, find CONFIDENCE,or overcome CHALLENGE.

When CHALLENGED, stop and listen to YOURSELF…

• If challenged, STOP and LISTEN to YOURSELFeither in silence or with your favorite MUSICplaying.

ACTIONABLE IDEAPersonal Reinvention and Music

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• SUSPEND your thoughts.

• ASK inwardly for INSIGHT and DIRECTION.

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Look at TOP CHALLENGES differently…

• Think of your TOP CHALLENGE in the light of your experience with MUSIC.

ACTIONABLE IDEAPersonal Reinvention and Music

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• Call upon the MUSIC you love to help you overcome obstacles. It works!

I listened, motionless and still…

and, as I mounted up the hill, the MUSICin my heart I bore,y ,

long after it was heard no more.

William Wordsworth

New Pathways to Leadership

Leading in Duet

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Our lives and the worldare built upon RELATIONSHIPS

LEADING IN DUETLeadership is activated in relationship…

The Piano Duet ParadigmTM

Pathway to Leadership

When you create

an OPTIMUMan OPTIMUMENVIRONMENT

for another to discover his or her

true GIFTS…you become a

LEADER.

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We have to look beyond our walls…We need to remember that we can do little alone—and much together.

Frances HesselbeinFounding President and CEO Leader to Leader Institute(formerly the Peter F. Drucker Foundation)

Remember the MUSIC you LOVE.

CONNECT TO YOUR SELF

CONNECT to the INSPIRATION.

This is your eternal source of STRENGTH. No person or situation can change or diminish it!

LISTEN UNCONDITIONALLY

When you LISTEN unconditionally to another person,

her or his TRUE SELF will be expressed in a UNIQUE

way. Look for it…

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LEADERS sometimes become

so used to being the transmitter

of information that they lose the

Source: As quoted by Leader to Leader Institute, “Leadership Tip of the Day”

perishable skill of listening.

Eric Weiss

GENERATE TRUST

Value the other person’s uniqueness and

vulnerability, whoever they are.

FEAR dissolves. TRUST flourishes.

FEARFUL workers are twice as likely

to be depressed and 33% more

likely to suffer from exhaustion

Source: FSU Study | COURAGEOUS LEADERSHIP webinar | Global Dialogue Center

and sleep disorders…

Bill Treasurerauthor, Courageous Leadership

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Be true to your word.

Apologize when necessary.

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CULTIVATE INTEGRITY

Never gossip or speak badly about others.

INTEGRITY is the FOUNDATION of LEADERSHIP

USE INTUITIVE AWARENESS

TAKE RISKS when something needs to be expressed.

FOLLOW YOUR HUNCH, but restrain reactivity.

CALL UPON your courage, vulnerability, self-TRUST and patience.

New Pathways to Leadership: Leading in DuetACTIONABLE IDEAS

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Practice LEADING in DUET…

• IDENTIFY a relationship you want to transform.

• FEEL the MUSIC most meaningful to you as you

Source: The Piano Duet Paradigm™

ACTIONABLE IDEAPersonal Reinvention and Music

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• REMEMBER the experience when you meet thePERSON. Look for the DUET between you.

simultaneously VISUALIZE the person.

Between stimulus and response there is a space.

In that space is our power to choose our response.

In our response lies our GROWTH and our FREEDOM.

KEY POINT: In our response lies the other person’s FREEDOM, too!

Viktor E. Frankl

EXPECT MIRACLES

The outcome will EXCEED what either you

or the other person could create alone or

even have IMAGINED. ANTICIPATE IT!

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YOUR BEST PRACTICES

You ALREADY…

TRUST in life

TRUST in other people’s potential

Have CONFIDENCE and INSPIRATION

Seek POSITIVE and HIGHER outcomes

Express your inherent intelligences,

even when you are challenged

Your GIFTSto each other…

HANDOUT

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See EVERY encounter as…a DUET

New Pathways to Leadership

I h th i i l TREASURE

KEY POINT: A LEADER is ALWAYS looking for that treasure!

In each person there is a priceless TREASUREthat is in no other…

Martin Buber

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Exponential Power

LEADING through DUET is our best hope for meeting the unique challenges of our time.

We are one, after all, YOU and I.Together WE…exist and forever willrecreate each other.

Teilhard de Chardin

with Jessica Roemischer

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x l iexploringYour Questions

HAND-OUTS

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Your GIFTSto each other…

HANDOUT

Closing Message...Jessica Roemischer

Closing Message...Debbe Kennedy

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