january-february issue of the epistle

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THE EPISTLEjanuary - february 2014

GREEK ORTHODOX CATHEDRAL OF SAINT PAUL

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PUBLISHED BI-MONTHLYOfficial Publication of

GREEK ORTHODOX CATHEDRAL OF SAINT PAUL110 CATHEDRAL AVENUE

HEMPSTEAD, NEW YORK 11550Tel.: (516) 483-5700FAX: (516) 564-8335

Web-site: www.stpaulhempstead.orge-mail: [email protected]

FR. LUKE M. MELACKRINOS………...............Editor-in-ChiefJOAN PRIESTON………………………..............ChairpersonGUS DRIVAS……………………………….........EditorTHEANA JOANNON………………………........EditorERIKA HADJOGLOU- PALMER........................ LayoutGEORGE K. LAVAS..............................................Photographer

Vol. LXIII January-February No. 1-2

FATHER LUKE M. MELACKRINOS, EconomosFATHER PANAGIOTIS ZOUGRAS, Presbyter

DEACON MATHEW KAKIS

Parish Council Officers & Legal AdvisorWILLIAM J. LEMBO……..........................................PresidentANTHONY P. VACCARI…………............................Vice PresidentSPYRO GEORGOPALIS………................................ SecretaryGEORGE A. VORKAS............................................... TreasurerGEORGE MARINOS...….......................................... Finance SecretaryJOHN HAJISAVA........................................................Finance SecretaryHARRY RAPTAKIS, Esq.…….................................. Legal Advisor

Regular ScheduleOrthros 7:45 a.m.

1st Divine Liturgy 9:00 a.m.2nd Divine Liturgy 10:45 a.m.

Emergency Telephone NumbersFather Luke Melackrinos 516-225-1718Father Panagioti Zougras 718-314-4703

Cathedral SecretariesNicole RousakisHelen Caras

Stewardship SecretaryHermea Drivas

Music Director & OrganistAdrienne Stamatas-Borbely 516-481-9333 (9-5)

ChanterJames Tsimis

Ορθρος 7:45 π.μ.Α’ Θεία Λειτουργία 9:00 π.μ.Β’ Θεία Λειτουργία 10:45 π.μ.

SUNDAY EPISTLE & GOSPEL READINGS

January 5th 2 Timothy 4:5-8 Mark 1:1-8January 12th Ephesians 4:7-13 Matthew 4:12-17January 19th Colossians 3:4-11 Luke 17:12-19January 26th 1 Timothy 4:9-15 Luke 19:1-10

February 2nd Hebrews 7:7-17 Luke 2:22-40February 9th 2 Timothy 3:10-15 Luke 18:10-14February 16th 1 Corinthians 6:12-20 Luke 15:11-32February 23th 1 Corinthians 8:8-13; 9:1-2 Matthew 25:31-46

CHURCH FEAST DAYSJanuary 1st St. Basil the GreatJanuary 6th Theophany of our LordJanuary 7th Synaxis of St. John the BaptistJanuary 17th St. Anthony the GreatJanuary 18th St. Athanasios and CyrilJanuary 25th St. Gregory the TheologianJanuary 30th The Synaxis of the Three Hierarchs

February 1st St. Tryphon the MartyrFebruary 2nd The Presentation of our LordFebruary 9th Triodion BeginsFebruary 10th St. HaralambosFebruary 22nd The First Saturday of the Souls

UPCOMING EVENTS Saturday, March 1st Second Saturday of the SoulsSunday, March 2nd Apokreatiko GlendiMonday, March 3rd Great and Holy Lent BeginsFriday, March 7th First Salutations to the Virgin MarySaturday, March 8th Third Saturday of Souls Psychosavato Brunch - Philoptochos GOYA Annual Cathedral CupSaturday, March 9th Sunday of Orthodoxy (One Liturgy)Friday, March 14th 2nd Salutations to the Virgin MarySaturday, March 15th 54th Anniversary of the Tearing Icon Paraklesis Service & ReceptionSunday, March 16th 54thAnniversary of the Tearing IconFriday, March 21st 3rd Salutations to the Virgin Mary

“Whenever I see a church,I always stop in for a visit.

So that when at last they carry me in, God won’t say “Who is it?”

- Bishop Fulton Sheen

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Christian Illumination By Father Luke Melackrinos

“Then this is the message which we have heard of Him, and declare unto you, that God is light, and in Him there is no darkness at all.” (1 John 1:5)

As we celebrated the great feast of the Epiphany (Θεοφάνια), we of course commemorate the Baptism of Our Lord, God and Savior Jesus Christ. It is referred to as the feast of lights in Greek for many reasons. Our loving God is beyond all limitations and human reasoning, yet is personal and immediately knowable when our hearts and minds reach out to Him. And He is manifest goodness without limitation, and “without spot or wrinkle.” There is no darkness, evil, or imperfection in Him or in His Creation as He has made it. This goodness is immeasurable and Eternal. Lesser understandings see eternal dualities, but Christians truly know that all illumination comes from God and that the perception of this light is in the Light Itself, God shining in this world and in the next. Christ was born and lived in this world to bring the light of Heavenly understanding to all who will receive it, for He Himself, according to St. Basil, is the icon of God the Father. As we say meaningfully in the Nicene Creed, “…light of light, true God of true God.…” We also take a moment to remember our own Christian baptism during this feast and as we begin a new year. Christian baptism is called illumination too because it reveals God’s light within us, preparing us for a life with God here and forever. Let us open our minds and hearts to receive this gentle gladsome light of Jesus Christ, the glory of the Immortal Father, with thanksgiving, love, and praise. May He make us bright with His radiance and transparent with His love. So, as we journey into 2014, another year of goodness of the Lord, we go forth with prayers for enlightenment for all of us. As we know, though, enlightenment is not something that happens passively. The Church in her wisdom know that we have fallen into our post-holiday routines and now calls us to wake up to partake in the Light and Life of our Lord, God and Savior, Jesus Christ. While we partook of the rebirth through Holy Baptism, we now begin our journey towards Great and Holy Lent. The journey begins with the preparatory

Sundays of the Triodion period. We begin with the Sunday of the Publican and the Pharisee. Here our beloved Church teaches us the value of humility and put aside the pride of the Pharisee and emulate the simple prayer of the Publican, “God have mercy on me a sinner.” The following Sunday is the Sunday of the Prodigal Son. This lesson causes us to focus on returning out of the pigpen of our sinful lives to our loving Father. We are next reminded of God’s judgment on Judgment Sunday, and wrap up our Pre-Lenten Preparation with Forgiveness Sunday. After our “Apokreatiko Glendi” on March 2, we will begin our Lenten journey in earnest with Forgiveness Vespers at 8:30 p.m. If you have not attended this uplifting service, do not miss out this year. Beyond the beauty of the Vespers, at the end of the service we gather in a circle and ask each other for forgiveness. On Clean Monday, March 3, we will be hosting the Clergy of the area for a Holy Unction service. This service traces its roots all the way back to Apostolic times and is prayed for the healing of soul and body for all who are suffering. That evening, and every evening the first week of Lent, we will pray the Great Compline Service with parts of the Great Canon of St. Andrew of Crete. On Wednesday evenings in Lent, we have the great blessing of praying the Liturgy of the Pre-Sanctified Gifts. We begin with the Ninth Hour at 6:00 p.m. followed by the Liturgy at 6:30 p.m. Immediately following the services, we have a Lenten Meal with a Lenten Lecture Series. The speakers this year include: Fr. Demetrios Carellas, Fr. Martin Kraus, Gerontissa Foteini of All Saints Monastery, and Mother Maria of St. Mary of Egypt Monastery in Uganda! These promise to be fulfilling and inspiring lectures. On the Fridays of Lent, we will pray the Liturgy of the Pre-Sanctified Gifts in the morning, and the Salutations to the Virgin Mary at 7:00 p.m. Ask yourself how you can make this Lent different? What efforts will you put forth? What will you teach your children about Lent? Thankfully, we are here to help. Our children will be invited to participate in the Lenten Passport Program, where they get stickers for each service attended. I pray that you all have a blessed Lent and a glorious journey to Holy Pascha!

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Greetings In The Lord!By Father Panagiotis Zougras

I pray this New Year began with many of the Lord’s Blessings of love, health, peace and happiness to you and your families. I could not be any more proud of the youth of our community

as they brought out the past year by filling the hearts of so many with the love and grace of the Holy Spirit. I will begin by thanking each and everyone of you as you all responded to our call for donations of winter coats for children. The children of our JOY Program provided a huge box for the collection of coats and the response was overwhelming. We were able to fill the box a week early and then we delivered them to our local Mary Brennen Inn. These coats were then distributed to the needy children of the Hempstead area. I would also like to thank the community for the support and love you all showed Dean Yeostros, an exemplary young man who serves in our altar. He is also a GOYAn and Scout who is now working on the highest achievement of the Scouting Program, “Eagle Scout”. He had spoken during first and second liturgy asking the community to give financial support in order for him to purchase materials needed in order to paint the downstairs hallway of our Cathedral. Once again the community generously responded and made it possible to get all the materials he needed in order to complete this project. Dean worked very hard with the help of his fellow scouts and members of the community to finish the task at hand and he did a wonderful job. Downstairs is now a better place for our organizations to meet, I strongly encourage everyone to go downstairs and look at the completed job. His fellow Scout, Harris Cherpelis was honored on January 5th for achieving his Eagle Scout. Harris renovated the basement of the Cassis building which is now being used for our Greek School Dance Program.

The GOYAns hosted the Cancer Care Christmas Party for the children at Winthrop. Fifty children from the Pediatric Cancer Care Unit were invited to the Father Nicholas Magoulias Center, along with their families, to partake in an amazing Christmas event. The children made arts and crafts, danced and ate with our GOYAns. They received a very special visit from Santa Claus who delivered gifts to all the children. Our GOYAns made a $500 donation to the Winthrop Cancer Care Unit. I would like to thank Nicole Rousakis, Kay Georgopalis and Maria Vorkas for all of their hard work to make this event possible.

The GOYAns celebrated the Christmas season together by going to Winter Wonderland in Bayville and having two Christmas parties, one just for the GOYAns of St. Paul Cathedral and another one with all the GOYAns of Long Island which was held at Archangel Michael church. They also had an Advent Retreat at St. John the Baptist in Bluepoint. Students from Holy Cross

attended this event and worked with the GOYAns with the focus on Diakonia and which included a service project for the local homeless. Our JOY and HOPE children also had a Christmas Party on December 13th.

The Nuns of All Saints Monastery were gracious enough to come to our parish on a Friday evening and teach our children of the JOY program how to make komboskinia. The children learned prayers and had the opportunity to speak to the Sisters about monastic life and the daily chores of being a monastic. The GOYAns were taught how to make prosforo. They learned the prayer that is read as you make the prosforo as well as learning the importance of this offering which we make to our Lord before each liturgy.

For the first time ever, the Inter GOYA of Long Island, along with the Five Borough GOYA, attended a Ski Trip together. There was over 200 in attendance and the children had the opportunity to see friends and make new friends from other communities. The children had a great time attending the dance, pool party with ice cream, 4 on 4 basketball tournament, Water Park, tubing and, of course, skiing and snowboarding. Liturgically, we celebrated Orthos and Vespers together as well as having devotionals in the evening with the children. The highlight of the trip was celebrating Sunday Liturgy at Agia Skepi Monastery. Attending this liturgy was an amazing experience for us all and the Sisters were kind enough to invite all 200 of us for brunch and giving each one of us an icon and a komboskini.

In closing, I hope you can all attend our Annual Apokreatiko Glendi Dinner Dance on Sunday March 2nd in the Father Nicholas J. Magoulias Center. This year it will be hosted by the JOY Program and will be led by Andrea Pagonis, Athena Menoundakos and Stephanie Danill. I hope to see you all there!

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Our Journey to the Great FastBy Deacon Mathew Kakis By the time you are sharing this article, we will be in the pre-lenten season and quickly approaching the Great Fast. Our church spends three weeks of preparation by delving strongly into her most basic

theme, forgiveness. Within this one one word, we encompass humility, repentance, compassion, charity, faith and the greatest of all, love. It is only through the love of our Heavenly Father and the Grace of His Son, our Lord Jesus Christ and the communion of the Holy Spirit that we can understand this theme. From Genesis we read the proclamation, “Let us make man (male and female) in our image and according to our likeness”. (1:26). It is through the inspiration and obedience of the Holy Prophets, Apostles, Fathers, Mothers, Martyrs and ascetics throughout history that we have this incomparable inheritance to somehow appreciate and continue our existence. Let us pause and reflect for a moment. The poor soul, who proclaims atheism, simply cannot embrace the frailty of his fellow man. In such a situation, how can he or she find the heavenly force of love to forgive? I firmly believe that if the atheist is able to love and forgive, then he or she is unaware that Holy Spirit is working with love, within themselves.

The pre-lenten scriptures deal with the Prodigal Son ,The Publican and The Pharisee, The Last Judgment and finally Forgiveness Sunday when we hear Jesus say “if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will forgive you but if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses”. (Matthew 6:14). It need not be reminded that our Lord’s Prayer confirms this throughout the liturgical cycle. At every liturgy, the priest asks prayers for forgiveness to the faithful before the Great Entrance and before he approaches the body and blood of our Lord.

Here at St. Paul and at many other Orthodox communities, it has been a secular tradition to celebrate an Aprokeatiko Glendi in a carnival atmosphere just prior to “Clean Monday”. While this is a day of family fun, the Orthodox Church in its wisdom, proclaims and sets it aside as “Forgiveness Sunday”. It calls us to remember our sins, not only, to God, but to anybody and everybody and at the same time, those who may have hurt us. We must completely forgive them all so that we may be forgiven by our Lord. This is a glorious cleansing. We forgive and the hurt no longer burdens our soul. We are free from the pain of this fallen world and are able to approach His Kingdom where only His love and joy exists just as the choir of saints before us have gone.

We must never forget as each of us is led to our final resting place that the priest prays the profound words, “As a good and loving God, forgive every sin he (she) has committed in thought word or deed, for there is no one who lives and does not sin. You alone are without sin and your is an everlasting righteousness and your word is truth, Amen.”

Forgiveness and love is our inheritance, our treasure in heaven. Moth and rust cannot consume it and no one can steal it. For where our treasure is, there will our hearts be also. (Mathew 6:19-21).

From the Parish Council PresidentBy William J. Lembo

I hope that everyone had a wonderful Christmas season.

We said goodbye to 2013 and welcomed the New Year with dinner at Jonathan’s Restaurant. April Mavrovitis and Olga Georgakis organized a superb evening. The Mavrikis family, as always, were extraordinary hosts.

We kicked the New Year into gear with a fantastic Vasilopita Dinner Dance at the Chateau Briand. Our own virtuoso, Andrew Andron, entertained everyone during the cocktail hour with non-stop piano music. DJ George Marchelos kept the music coming and parishioners of all ages filled the dance floor throughout the evening. Thank you to Chris Katehis and his hard-working committee (Fran Lutfy, Kay Georgopalis, Nicole Rousakis & Maria Vorkas) for presenting a fabulous evening of great food and fun.

Thank you to all of the parishioners and local businesses who supported our 64th Annual Church Journal. Chairperson Carol DePietto did an outstanding job compiling and producing a terrific publication with help from her committee (Liz Comack, Irene & Jim Ginis and George Zakos).

I hope to see everyone at the Aprokreatiko Glendi on March 2nd, the Cathedral Cup on March 8th or maybe we will march together in the Greek Independence Day Parade on March 30th. Certainly we will worship together in Church and pray for another blessed year for our Cathedral.

Please continue to support your Church with your time, talent and treasure. Whenever I think about stewardship, a story that Father Nick often put in the bulletin comes to mind:

Our church was saddened to learn this week of the death of one of our most valued members, Someone Else.

“Someone’s” passing creates a vacancy that will be difficult to fill. Whenever there wasa job to do, a class to teach, a meeting to attend, or money to give, one name was on everyone’s list, “Let ‘Someone Else’ do it.”

Someone Else was a wonderful person; almost superhuman. Everybody expected too much of Someone Else. Now Someone Else is gone!

Someone Else left a wonderful example to follow, but who is going to do the things Someone Else did?

When you are asked to help this year, remember -- we can’t depend on Someone Else anymore.

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Greek Orthodox Cathedral of Saint PaulMinutes of the Parish Council Meeting of Thursday, October 17, 2013

Parish Council Members Absent: Elizabeth Comack, Tom Flouskakos, John Hajisava, Mike Lazarakis, Bill Lombard, John Papachristos and Jim Rigano.Past Presidents Absent: William Kallinikos, Antonia Kourepinos, William Pappas, Lou Patrickakos, George P. Possas and Dino Zografos.The meeting was called to order by President William Lembo at 8:08PM. Father Panagiotis led all those in attendance in an opening prayer.President Lembo wished a Happy Birthday to Mike Gurlides. The meeting minutes from September 23, 2013 were distributed. A motion to approve the minutes was made by Jim Stephens and seconded by Dean Mavrovitis. Motion carried.

President Lembo reminder every one of all upcoming events, including:• October 22 Seminary Trust Fund Wine Tasting• October 27 AHEPA Spaghetti Dinner• November 3 General Assembly• November 17 Golden Leaves Ball, honoring Past-President Jim Georgakis and Steve Pontickio.

Correspondence:• President Lembo received a letter from the President of AHEPA asking approval for the use of the Hellenic Room on Thursday, November 14 from 5PM-10PM for the AHEPA Thanksgiving Dinner; he asked if the rental fee can be waived. Harry Monioudis made a motion to waive the rental fee; seconded by Triphon Kollitides. Motion carried.• President Lembo received an email from Fran Lutfy on behalf of the Daughters of Penelope, Pasithea Chapter. The Daughters would like to decorate the Hellenic Room for the Christmas Season the last week of November, at their expense. They requested if the rental fee can be waived for the Annual Honey Party Fundraiser in the Father Nicholas J. Magoulias Cathedral Center on Monday, November 11. George Lavas made a motion to waive the rental fee; seconded by Andy Andron. Motion carried.

Stewardship Report: President Lembo presented the following reports as of September 30, 2013:

Clergy Report:George Marinos stated that we must continue to focus on increasing the amount of stewards. He reported the Stewardship Committee is preparing a new mailing for November, which is Stewardship Month.

Youth Report:Father Panagiotis reported the following events and activities:• The GOYA Executive Board will attend a meeting at the Cathedral of the Holy Trinity in Manhattan on Tuesday, October 22 at 7PM to discuss upcoming events.• Father Panagiotis requested the payment of $2,550 in fees, for 3 GOYA basketball teams (2 boys’ teams and 1 girls’ team). George Papazicos made this in the form of a motion; seconded by Mike Gurlides. Motion carried.• The Boy Scouts will be going to the Jets/Patriots game this Sunday, October 20. Also, this year the 50th Anniversary of Troop 568 will be held on Scout Sunday, February 2, 2014.• The JOY/HOPE Costume Party will be held on Friday, October 25. The Nuns from the All Saints Monastery will be teaching the JOY children how to make prayer ropes on Friday, November 15.• Father Panagiotis presented a $1,000 check from JOY towards the soccer fees and a $500 check from JOY towards the reimbursement of the Brooklyn Nets’ game tickets.

Treasurer’s Report:George Vorkas presented the Treasurer’s Report as of September 30, 2013.

Current Liquid Assets $421,492Less: Decorations Fund ($72,044)Less: Renaissance Fund ($24,832)

$324,616 Liabilities $0 Net Available Funds $324,616

Month of September-13

Year to Date 9/30/13

Month of September-12


Revenue $82,019 $1,231,576 $124,309 $1,197,461 Expenses ($54,355) ($1,068,842) ($95,575) ($1,105,843)Surplus (Deficit) $27,664 $162,734 $28,734 $91,618 Less Proj Ren & Dec Funds (net) $0 $400 ($3,200) $4,563 Net Operating Surplus (Deficit) $27,664 $163,134 $25,534 $96,181

A motion to approve the Treasurer’s Report was made by Jim Ginis and seconded by Joan Prieston. Motion carried.

Financial Report:George Vorkas presented the invoices to be paid. A review and discussion ensued. A motion to pay the invoices was made by Mike Gurlides; seconded by Fran Lutfy. Motion carried.

Reservations Committee:• Tony Vaccari reported that there was a Reservation/Organization meeting the previous week. Topics discussed included the submittal of a questionnaire regarding the organizations’ banking information; charging a cleaning fee for facility usage and the organizations storage areas.• Tina Vasilakis requested the use of the Hellenic Room for a private party on Saturday, December 14 from 6PM-10PM.• The Boy Scouts requested the use of the Father Nicholas J. Magoulias Cathedral Center for their Scout Sunday 50th Anniversary Blue and Gold Dinner on February 2; setup at 1PM with dinner at 4PM. Tony Vaccari made

Year Number of Pledges Amount Pledged Average Pledge2013 871 $461,836 $530.24 2012 823 $404,556 $491.56 2011 886 $424,097 $478.66 Increase (decrease) 48 $57,280 $38.67

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this in the form of a motion; seconded by Louis Yeostros. Motion carried.• There was a request for the Hellenic Room for a Rehearsal Dinner on Friday, January 17 at 7PM. Tony Vaccari made this in the form of a motion; seconded by George Hadjoglou. Motion carried, subject to availability.

Project Management:Tony Vaccari reported that 3 items on the Project List were completed. The committee will be meeting with Tony Pantelides to review the list and remove all completed maintenance items. The new Project Management List will consist of 2 lists; a Major Items List and a Maintenance Items List. A revised Project Managements List will be sent out periodically to the Parish Council for review.

Sunday School Committee:George Lavas reported that there are 233 students registered, as of October 2nd. A Thanksgiving Communion Liturgy and Breakfast will be held in the Hellenic Room on Saturday, November 23rd. The Sunday School Boutiques is November 23rd & 24th. The Sunday School financials for 2012-2013 were audited by Joan Prieston, Jennie Papas and George Lavas.

Seminary Trust Fund:Andy Andron stated that the Seminary Trust Fund Wine Tasting Fundraiser will be held at Jonathan’s Restaurant on Tuesday, October 22 at 7PM. The admission price is $50 per person.

Greek School Committee:George Hadjoglou reported that there are 8 students registered for the Elementary Conversation Adult Program.

Journal Committee:Carol DePietto reported that the deadline for the Journal is fast approaching. She asked the Parish Council to support and help obtain more ads.

Fall Festival:Fran Lutfy thanked all those who helped make the Fall Festival a successful event. Fran will present a complete report at a later date.

Entertainment Committee:Chris Katehis reported that the Annual Vasilopita Dinner Dance will be held at Chateau Briand in Westbury on Sunday, January 12 from 3PM-8PM. The admission price will be $75 per person, $30 for youth ages 13-20 and $20 for kid’s meal ages 3-12. There will be music by DJ George Marchelos. Chris Katehis made a motion for the approval of the Dinner Dance and a $500 deposit for Chateau Briand; seconded by Bob Donus. Motion carried.

Technology Committee:Jim Stephens informed the Parish Council that Nortel Networks no longer makes parts for our telephone system. The Technology Committee will present proposals for a new telephone system at the next Parish Council meeting.

Jim Stephens made a motion to purchase $1,000 of Cat-6 wire so that Tony Pantelides can finish wiring the facility in preparation for a new phone system. The motion was seconded by Mike Gurlides. Motion carried.Jim Stephens made a motion to purchase additional hardware in the amount of $800 for support of the server and in preparation for the new phone system; seconded by George Hadjoglou. Motion carried.

Nomination Committee:Jim Georgakis reported that there 9 incumbents: Harry Demiris, Tom Flouskakos, George Hadjoglou, John Hajisava, John Heliotis, Fran Lutfy, John Papachristos, Tony Vaccari and George Zakos. The Nominations Committee recommends 2 additional nominees: Nick Kontoleon and George Pourakis.

House Committee:• Tony Pantelides made a motion to hire a professional cleaning company in the amount of $600 to clean and strip the floors in the Cathedral Center basement (hallway and classrooms). All work to be performed at night. The motion was seconded by Jim Ginis. Motion carried.• Tony Pantelides made a motion to purchase a scrubbing machine, wet vacuum and 2 commercial vacuum cleaners in the amount of $2,600; seconded by Mike Gurlides. Motion carried.• Tony Pantelides made a motion to hire a LIPA Efficiency Contractor to replace all the lighting of the Cathedral facilities with high efficiency lighting in the amount not to exceed $12,000. The motion was seconded by Jim Georgakis. Motion carried.

President Lembo thanked Nick Kenny for donating and installing a marble backsplash in the Chapel by the candles.

Finance Committee:George Vorkas presented the Budget for 2014. A review and discussion ensued. A motion to approve the budget was made by Jim Ginis; seconded by George Papazicos. Motion carried. George Vorkas stated that the individuals he will nominate at the Parish Assembly for the Board of Auditors are Dina Minucci, Jim Panos and Steve Gianaca.

New Business:George Vorkas made a motion for a Banquet Sponsor Ad in the amount of $1,000 for the Saint Nicholas Journal honoring Father Kim; seconded by Tony Vaccari. Motion carried.

Old Business:George Hadjoglou informed the Parish Council that there was an issue with the delivery of the chairs for the Father Nicholas Magoulias Cathedral Center. George dealt with the issue with the manufacturer and will give an update at the next meeting.

A motion to adjourn at 11:22PM was made by Jim Georgakis; seconded by Carol DePietto. Motion carried.

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Respectfully submitted,

Spyros GeorgopalisSecretary, Parish Council

Greek Orthodox Cathedral of Saint PaulMinutes of the Parish Council Meeting of Thursday, November 21, 2013

Parish Council Members Absent: Chris Katehis, Steve Makrinos, John Papachristos and Tony Vaccari.Past Presidents Absent: William Kallinikos, William Pappas, George P. Possas, Peter Xanthos and Dino Zografos.The meeting was called to order by President William Lembo at 8:02PM. Father Luke led all those in attendance in an opening prayer.

President Lembo wished a belated Happy Birthday to Presvytera Marusia and Father Panagiotis. Additionally, he thanked Chairman George Lavas and his committee for a terrific job honoring Past-President Jim Georgakis and Steve Pontickio, at the Golden Leaves Ball.

The meeting minutes from July 17, 2013 and October 17, 2013 were distributed. A motion to approve the minutes was made by Jim Ginis and seconded by Joan Prieston. Motion carried.

President Lembo gave a reminder of all upcoming events, including:• November 23rd: Sunday School Thanksgiving Communion Liturgy and Breakfast. Also, the Sunday School Boutique on November 23rd and 24th .• December 10: Saint Anna’s Philoptochos Christmas Luncheon at the Westbury Manor. • December 12: Parish Council Meeting and Christmas party.

Correspondence:• President Lembo received a Thank You letter from Bill Kallinikos and Dino Zografos for the Get Well fruit baskets.• President Lembo received a Thank You letter from Jim and Irene Ginis for the fruit basket they received for the loss of Jim’s mom.• President Lembo received Thank You letters from Steve Pontickio, Katherine Casimates and Peter and Pagona Catsounis.• President Lembo received a Thank You letter from the Mary Brennan Inn for our donation.• President Lembo received a confirmation for the Archdiocesan assessment for 2014 in the amount of $125,310. Additionally, he received information suggesting clergy compensation for 2014; which he gave to Lou Patrickakos, the Human Resources Chairman. • President Lembo received a donation to the cathedral of $5,000 from the estate of the late Maryann Scotidas.President Lembo reported that the Direct Archdiocese District Clergy-Laity is on Saturday, November 23rd at Holy Cross in Whitestone. In addition to Father Luke and

President Lembo we are entitled to have 2 additional delegates and 2 non-voting observers. President Lembo recommended that Vice-president Tony Vaccari and Treasurer George Vorkas attend as the 2 delegates and Secretary Spyros Georgopalis and Finance Secretary George Marinos attend as the 2 non-voting observers. George Lavas made this in the form of a motion; seconded by George Hadjoglou. Motion carried.

Clergy Report:Father Luke reported the following:• Father Luke thanked the Parish Council for sending Father Panagiotis and him to the Clergy Retreat in Florida. The Retreat was very informative and a great experience.• The Cathedral hosted a Young Adult Conference from October 18 thru October 20. There were over 60 young adults. • The Cathedral hosted the All Saints Monastery Fundraiser which was a great success.

Youth Report:Father Panagiotis reported the following events and activities:• The GOYA Annual Winthrop Cancer Care Party will be held on December 7th .• The GOYA Christmas Dance will be held on December 13th at Archangel Michael in Port Washington and the Advent Retreat with the seminarians will be held on December 14th at Saint John in Bluepoint. • Father Panagiotis requested the payment of $4,600 in fees, for 8 JOY basketball teams (2 G1, 3B1, 1G2 and 2B2). Jim Georgakis made this in the form of a motion; seconded by Louis Yeostros. Motion carried. JOY will be reimbursing the Cathedral $25 per child for a total of $2,025.• The JOY children made prayer ropes “Komboskinia” with the Nuns of the All Saints Monastery. Each child donated $10 to the monastery raising a total of $450.• The JOY Coat Drive was a huge success. Andrea and Tommy Pagonis, along with Father Panagiotis delivered the donated coats to the Mary Brennan Inn.• Father Panagiotis presented a second payment $500 from JOY towards the reimbursement of the Brooklyn Nets’ game tickets.• The Boy Scouts went on a camping trip to the Schiff Scout Reservation.• Additionally, the date for the Scout Sunday 50th Anniversary Blue and Gold Dinner has been changed to February 9, 2014.

Stewardship Report: President Lembo presented the following reports as of October 31, 2013:


George Marinos asked the entire Parish Council to continue working hard to bring in more stewards.

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Festival Committee:President Lembo informed the Parish Council that Tony Vaccari and George Zakos will be the Chairmen of the 2014 Festival. George Zakos made a motion to hold the Festival on May 29, 30, 31 and June 1. The motion was seconded by Jim Georgakis. Motion Carried.

Boy Scouts:• Louis Yeostros stated that Dean Yeostros is requesting permission for his Eagle Scout Project to be to clean, repair and paint the damaged hallway walls in the Lower Level and cleaning out the closets. Additionally, he will install a new bulletin board that will fold closed for the Nursery School. Louis Yeostros made this in the form of a motion; seconded by Dean Mavrovitis. Motion carried.• Louis Yeostros made a motion requesting the use of Hellenic Room and waiving the fee for Harris Cherpelis’ Eagle Scout Ceremony on January 4. The motion was seconded by Triphon Kollitides. Motion Carried.

Technology Committee:Jim Stephens presented 3 options for the replacement of the Telephone System. The committee recommended option # 3, which includes: Voice Over Internet Protocol (VOIP) with a new in-house server, new phones, expanded WIFI and completely new wiring. Jim Stephens made a motion to move forward with option # 3 in the amount of $9,845. The motion was seconded by John Hajisava. Motion carried.

Entertainment Committee:President Lembo reported that there will be a Reservations Table during Fellowship Hour starting this Sunday for the Annual Vasilopita Dinner Dance which will be held at Chateau Briand in Westbury on Sunday, January 12.Journal Committee:Carol DePietto requests the Parish Council to obtain additional ads; personal and business. The deadline for the Journal is fast approaching and she needs the ads as soon as possible.

House Committee:• Tony Pantelides informed the Parish Council that the work for the driveway at 2 Kensington will begin the week after Thanksgiving.• The Cleaning Company will clean and strip the floors in the Cathedral Center basement during Christmas week.• Tony Pantelides purchased a wet vacuum and 1 commercial vacuum cleaner.

Greek School Committee:George Hadjoglou reported that a Second Grade teacher was terminated due to lateness and a replacement teacher has been hired.

Sunday School Committee:George Lavas reported that the Sunday School Christmas Pageant will be held on December 22, after Liturgy. The Greek School will perform first, followed by the Sunday School.

Golden Leaves Ball:George Lavas thanked his committee for a great job. There were 139 adults, 11 children and 9 band members. George will provide a full report in January.

Treasurer’s Report:George Vorkas presented the Treasurer’s Report as of October 31, 2013.



Month of October-13


Month of October-12


Revenue $80,673 $1,312,250 $54,419 $1,251,880 Expenses ($99,925) ($1,168,769) ($129,728) ($1,235,571)Surplus (Deficit) ($19,252) $143,481 ($75,309) $16,309 Less Proj Ren & Dec Funds (net) $0 $400 $2,044 $6,607 Net Operating Surplus (Deficit) ($19,252) $143,881 ($73,265) $22,916

A motion to approve the Treasurer’s Report was made by Toni Kourepinos and seconded by Carol DePietto. Motion carried.

Financial Report:George Vorkas presented the invoices to be paid. A review and discussion ensued. A motion to pay the invoices was made by Mike Gurlides; seconded by Lou Patrickakos. Motion carried.

Security Committee:George Vorkas reported that the door buzzer for the entrance door was repaired. Also, George informed the Parish Council that he has scheduled the installation of a new camera in the Vestry and a new camera in the Cathedral office, which were previously approved. Installations will be completed in December.

Insurance Committee:Fran Lutfy informed the Parish Council that our healthcare plan costs for our employees will increase starting in January due to new healthcare requirements. Fran will gather more information and update the Parish Council at an upcoming meeting.

APP Committee:George Hadjoglou presented a Reservations Proposal from the APP Committee. A review and discussion of the proposal ensued. George Hadjoglou requested Parish Council members to contact him with their comments or suggestions. The committee will meet and make a final draft which will be presented at the January meeting for a vote.

Fellowship Hour:Harry Demiris made a motion to increase the amount of cookies for Fellowship Hours to 15 pounds; an additional $13.50 per week. The motion was seconded by Carol DePietto. Motion carried.

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Gala Sweepstakes Committee:Harry Demiris reported that the committee is finalizing the prizes. The committee would like the first prize to be a Mercedes or BMW or $25,000 in cash and the second prize to be a Ford or $15,000 in cash. The committee will try to hand out the raffle tickets earlier, to give everyone more time to sell their tickets. Also, the committee will try to get sponsors for the various prizes.

New Business:• George Vorkas made a motion to increase the donation for the Christmas poinsettias to $25; seconded by George Hadjoglou. Motion carried.• George Vorkas made a motion to approve the Christmas gratuities in the amount $2,100; seconded by Jim Ginis. Motion carried.

Old Business:• George Papazicos reported that arrangements were made with Jonathan’s Restaurant for the New Year’s Eve Dinner. The Dinner will start at 10PM and will cost $80 per person. There will be a Reservations Table during Fellowship Hours. • George Hadjoglou informed the Parish Council that the issue with the delivery of the chairs for the Father Nicholas J. Magoulias Cathedral Center has been resolved. The manufacturer “Church Plaza” will notify George with a delivery date.• Tom Flouskakos examined the chairs in the Hellenic Room. Tom along with Tony Pantelides will take pictures of the 20 damaged chairs and send the pictures to the manufacturer for repair.• George Lavas reported that after meeting with the Building Department inspector, the chairlift is not feasible due to the width of the staircase. Any room whose occupancy is greater than 50 people requires two fire exits with a minimum width requirement.• George Lavas reported that Father Luke’s vestments for his 10 Year Anniversary have arrived. Father Luke will wear the vestments for the first time on Sunday, December 22.

A motion to adjourn at 10:01PM was made by Jim Ginis; seconded by Carol DePietto. Motion carried.

Respectfully submitted,Spyros GeorgopalisSecretary, Parish Council

Greek Orthodox Cathedral of Saint PaulMinutes of the Parish Council Meeting of Thursday, December 12, 2013

Parish Council Members Absent: John Heliotis, Triphon Kollitides, Steve Makrinos, Jim Rigano, Bill Lombard, Jim Stephens and George Vorkas.Past Presidents Absent: Lou Patrickakos and George C. Possas.The meeting was called to order by President William Lembo at 8:02PM. Father Luke led all those in attendance in

an opening prayer.

President Lembo welcomed all those in attendance and wished everyone a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. The President wished Spyros Georgopalis a Happy Nameday. The President thanked the Daughters of Penelope Pasithea Chapter, their President, Fran Lutfy and Chairladies Marina Heliotis and Julie Raptakis for decorating the Hellenic Room. The President thanked the Markos family for donating the Christmas tree in the Cathedral and Dimitri and the Boy Scouts for placing the tree in the Cathedral. Also, he thanked Presvytera Marusia, Marina Heliotis, Anna Heliotis, Annoula Lukas, Katina Tzakas and Maria Tzakas for decorating the tree. Additional, he thanked his wife Marge for her support throughout the year and for all the ladies who helped prepare the Christmas Reception.

President Lembo recognized the 85th Anniversary of AHEPA Constantine Cassis Chapter #170 founded in July 1928 and the 25th Anniversary of Saint Paul being proclaimed the Cathedral of Long Island by Archbishop Iakovos. Also, President Lembo recognized Parish Council members celebrating significant anniversaries on the Parish Council which include: George Hadjoglou, Harry Raptakis and Dino Zografos 35 years; Gus Drivas 30 years; George Papazicos 15 years and George Marinos 5 years. Additionally, the President recognized members of the Parish Council for their many years of service which include: Mike Gurlides 54 years; Bill Pappas 46 years; George P. Possas 44 years; Mike Lazarakis 43 years and George Lavas 42 years.The meeting minutes from November 21, 2013 were distributed. A motion to approve the minutes was made by Dean Mavrovitis and seconded by Jim Georgakis. Motion carried.

President Lembo gave a reminder of all upcoming events, including:• Sunday, December 15 - Saint Anna’s Philoptochos Christmas Bake Sale.• Thursday, December 19 - Grief and Bereavement Memorial Christmas Tree Lighting. • Sunday, December 22 - Greek School Christmas Program & Sunday School Christmas Pageant.• Monday, December 30 - Mary Brennan Inn.• New Year’s Eve Dinner at Jonathan’s Restaurant.• Tuesday, January 7 - Special Parish Council Meeting.• Sunday, January 12 - Vasilopita Community Dinner Dance.

Correspondence:• President Lembo received a donation of $5,000 for the Cathedral of Saint Paul from the estate of the late Maryann Scotidas.

Clergy Report:Father Luke reported the following:• Father Luke wished everyone a Blessed Christmas Season and Happy New Year; and wished all the Spyros a Happy Nameday.• Father asked everyone to try to attend Bible Study on Monday nights at 7:00PM.

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Holiday Time at St. Paul’s

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Vasilopita Dance

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• Father Luke reported on what an amazing year 2013 has been. The Cathedral of Saint Paul conducted many fundraisers and collections to help all those around our community, which include: a fundraiser for the All Saints Monastery; a collection for Saint Demetrios, Merrick; collections for Saint Basil’s Academy, Hellenic College Holy Cross and the Patriarchate; the Wine Tasting Fundraiser for the Seminary Trust Fund, hosted by the Mavrikis family; the GOYA Midnight Run and Cancer Care; the JOY Coat Drive; the Weekly Food Run and serving and fundraising for the Mary Brennan Inn. • Additionally, the Cathedral of Saint Paul hosted a Marriage Preparation Seminar and a Young Adult Conference, with over 60 young adults in attendance, for the Archdiocese.• Father Luke recognized the Nursery School teachers and assistances for all their hard work; at this time the Nursery School is at its highest enrollment to date. Father highlighted the importance of the Nursery School in bringing young families to the church.

Youth Report:Father Panagiotis reported the following events and activities:• Father Panagiotis thanked the GOYA advisors Nicole Rousakis, Maria Vorkas and Kay Georgopalis. GOYA hosted the Annual Winthrop Cancer Care Party on December 7, for approximately 50 patients and their families. Additionally, GOYA made a donation of $500 towards the Winthrop Cancer Care Unit.• The Inter-GOYA Christmas Dance will be held at Archangel Michael in Port Washington, on December 13 and the Advent Retreat with the seminarians will be held at Saint John in Bluepoint, on December 14. The GOYA Ski Trip will be a combined 5-Bourough and Inter-GOYA Ski Trip from Friday, January 17 to Sunday, January 19. On Sunday the GOYAns will worship at the Holy Protection Monastery before returning home. • Father Panagiotis thanked the JOY advisors Andrea Pagonis, Athena Menoudakos and Stephanie Daniil. The JOY children made prayer ropes “Komboskinia” with the Nuns of the All Saints Monastery and JOY donated $450 to the monastery. The JOY Coat Drive was very successful; the coats were delivered to the Mary Brennan Inn. • There will be a JOY and HOPE Christmas Party on Friday, December 13.• Father reported that there are many Eagle Scouts emanating from Troop 568 at the Cathedral of Saint Paul, which include Harris Cherpellis, Andrew Monioudis, Dean Yeostros, Andrew Bandini, Pantelis Marinos and Sava Papadopoulos. Additionally, the date for the Scout Sunday 50th Anniversary Blue and Gold Dinner will be February 9, 2014.• Father Panagiotis wished everyone a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.

Stewardship Report:President Lembo presented the following report as of November 30, 2013:


George Marinos asked everyone to speak with fellow parishioners and ask them to renew or become stewards; so that we may continue to help the Cathedral and its Christian missions.

Treasurer’s Report: Tony Vaccari presented the Treasurer’s Report as of November 30, 2013



Month of November-13


Month of November-12


Revenue $102,553 $1,414,802 $67,845 $1,319,725 Expenses ($106,155) ($1,294,470) ($87,634) ($1,323,205)Surplus (Deficit) ($3,602) $120,332 ($19,789) ($3,480)Less Proj Ren & Dec Funds (net) $0 $8,752 $7,094 $13,701 Net Operating Surplus (Deficit) ($3,602) $129,084 ($12,695) $10,221

A motion to approve the Treasurer’s Report was made by Jim Ginis and seconded by Fran Lutfy. Motion carried.

Financial Report:George Marinos and John Hajisava presented the invoices to be paid. A review and discussion ensued. A motion to pay the invoices was made by Tony Vaccari; seconded by Jim Ginis. Motion carried.

DAD Clergy-Laity Report:Tony Vaccari reported on the Direct Archdiocese District Clergy-Laity Assembly which was held on Saturday, November 23 at Holy Cross in Whitestone.• The Assembly opened with a prayer from Archbishop Demetrios followed by the Chancellor Bishop Andonios who discussed the expansion of Saint Michael’s Home and the rebuilding of Saint Nicholas in lower Manhattan.• Theo Nikolakis delivered a presentation on Internet Resources available to the Parishes, which include a Children’s Bible Reader and the Listserv. He continued with a discussion on Tech Safety and the use of Social Media to reach our youth and closed by informing the Assembly of a Grant Program with Google that the Archdiocese is working on. • Effie Marie Smith provided an update on the Parish Software project. The software is comprehensive and includes capabilities such as Sacraments, Stewardship, Donations, Voting Eligibility, Pledge Forms, Reports and Directories, Campaigns and Cash Flow and others. There will be a seminar on January 18 at Holy Resurrection in Brookville. Effie also indicated that the DAD will continue to fund the costs for years 2 and 3 after which time the cost will be approximately $65 per month.

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• Jerry Dimitriou then provided an update on the Archdiocese finances in his Financial Report which addressed Revenue and Expense projections and the 2014 Budget. • Harry Raptakis presented the DAD Financial Report and explained the Total Commitment Program process implemented to insure fairness when determining individual Parish Commitment Allocation. • The Keynote Address was delivered by Father Maximos, a professor at Holy Cross School of Theology. • Haeda Mihaltses gave an update of the expansion of Saint Michael’s Home. The Archdiocese acquired a large area of land in Uniondale, LI and a complete Assisted Living Complex with Nursing Facilities will be built. The estimated cost will exceed $30 million and the Archbishop is requesting all parishes to participate in its funding.• Finally, a report was presented on the rebuilding of Saint Nicholas Church at Ground Zero, with a complete overview of its design. The initial cost estimates exceed $20 million. This will be a globally recognized shrine that is the only religious institute at the footprint of the World Trade Center.

Project Management:Gus Kratsios gave an update of the top projects to be completed in 2014:• New Phone System (In the process of being completed). • New Driveway for 2 Kensington (In the process of being completed).• Renovation of the Choir Loft., the Parish Council Office and Father Luke’s Bathroom.• Repair and painting of the Lower Level Hallway.

Nomination Committee:Jim Georgakis thanked the members of his committee George Papazicos, George Vorkas, George Marinos and Spyros Georgopalis. Additionally, he thanked the Board of Elections members Penny Makris, Faith Drapan, Anastasia Milonas and Georgia Tsempelis. Jim gave an update on the election result; the ten nominees elected are: Tony Vaccari, Fran Lutfy, George Hadjoglou, George Pourakis, George Zakos, John Hajisava, John Papachristos, Harry Demiris, Tom Flouskakos & George Vasilakis. Congratulations to all.

Old Business: George Hadjoglou informed the Parish Council that the new chairs for the Father Nicholas Magoulias Cathedral Center were delivered on Monday. George thanked Issac and Father Luke for helping to unload the chairs, from the delivery truck.

New Business:• President Fran Lutfy of the Daughters of Penelope, Pasithea Chapter presented a donation to President Lembo for the Cathedral of Saint Paul.• President Soteroula Constantinou and Dino Zaferiou of LIACA presented a donation of $1,000 to President Lembo for the Cathedral of Saint Paul.• President Ted Lakis of the Laconian Association presented a donation of $2,000 to President Lembo for the

Sacraments Celebrated at the Greek Orthodox Cathedral of St. Paul

NOVEMBER

BAPTISMSDaughter of Mr. & Mrs. KarlosSon of Ms. V. MouroulisDaughter of Mr. & Mrs. KourounisDaughter of Mr. & Mrs. Zafiridis

WEDDINGSNicholas Theoharis & Lauren MessineoAntonios Georgiadis & Lucretia TabnerConstantinos Katsapis & Elicia SelvaggioNenad Radakovic & Chancee Trgo

FUNERALSLiuben ConovVictor TsantilasMaria Kapareliotis CaporalThomas James LukasEstathia A. GounalisAnnette F. Stasinos

DECEMBER

BAPTISMSSon of Mr. & Mrs. TziamihasDaughter of Mr. & Mrs. AnagnostopoulosDaughter of Mr. & Mrs. LeipoldSon of Mr. & Mrs. Dellis

WEDDINGSNone

FUNERALSDespina VrahnasJohn F. DimopoulosVlassis PittBertha MitchellPearl Karadenes

Cathedral of Saint Paul.

Jim Georgakis thanked President Bill Lembo for his hard work and dedication this year and also thanked his wife Marge for her support.

A motion to adjourn at 8:39PM was made by Joan Prieston; seconded by Carol DePietto. Motion carried. The Saint Paul’s Choir rendered a beautiful “Mini-Concert” of Christmas Carols, after which refreshments were served.

Respectfully submitted,Spyros GeorgopalisSecretary, Parish Council

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St. Anna’s PhiloptochosBy Soteroulla Constantinou, President

χρονια πολλα και ευτηχισμενα! On behalf of St. Anna’s I wish you and your loved ones a joyous 2014 filled with the Lord‘s blessings!

St. Anna’s Philoptochos has been working diligently to try to make a difference in the life of a sick child, bring a little joy to a senior and make life a little easier for a needy family. With your ongoing support we were able to fulfill those obligations through different events. What have we been doing?

We held a Christmas Wreath (Dec.8) and Christmas Bake Sale (Dec.15). Both were very successful .

Although the weather and driving conditions were horrendous, we achieved our goal nonetheless and the children at St. Mary’s Healthcare System for Children and the Greek division of UNICEF will benefit from our Christmas Luncheon which was held on Dec. 10, 2013.

The children of St. Basil Academy, a safe haven and home for Orthodox children, will benefit from your generosity from the collection tray passed on Jan. 5, 2014.

March 1st will mark the Grand Opening and Ribbon Cutting of the Philoptochos Center of Philanthropy located at 126 East, 37th Street, Manhattan.

March always proves to be a busy month for St. Anna’s. March 8th we will be hosting the Psychosavato Brunch in memory of our deceased members. March 15/16 is the services of the Tearing Icon followed by a reception. March 25 we celebrate the Evangelismos tis Thetokou with liturgy followed by a Nistissimo Luncheon. Please join us to celebrate these important days.

Please visit www.philoptochos.org to find out more information as to what we have been doing nationally.’I hope the new year will bring each and every one of you good health, peace and joy!

AHEPA By Anton Skrivanek

We welcome our newest member, Br. Chris Andreas who was initiated into our chapter back on November 20th, 2013.

We must commend the Daughters of Penelope, Pasithea Chapter #141 for putting together a wonderful Christmas Party that we enjoyed on Wednesday, December 11th, 2013. Tasty food, wonderful desserts and entertainment were enjoyed by all in attendance.

We are presently in the early stages of reactivating the Sons of Pericles Chapter that once existed here at St. Paul. If you are a young man between the ages of 14 to 27 or know of one who would be interested in joining the Sons Chapter, please contact our chapter Vice-President, Triphon Kollitides or email us at the address below.

We send our deepest sympathy to Br. Jim Ginis and his family on the passing of his mother.

We also send our deepest sympathy to Br. George Stasinos and his family on the passing of his wife, Annette.

If anyone is aware of news of one of our brothers falling asleep in the Lord, illness etc., please inform one of our officers. Our chapter officers are: C. Dionysios Dionou, President, Triphon Kollitides, Vice-President, Anton Skrivanek; Secretary; Paul Sekas, Treasurer. If you wish to join the AHEPA, please contact one of our officers. We also have an email address to contact us by: [email protected] A very Happy New Year to all!

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over the years. Kay and Father Nicholas Magoulias, of blessed memory, created the Grief & Bereavement Support Group nearly 20 years ago, a program that has helped countless individuals deal with their grief, and Cookie assisted Kay with the recordkeeping for many years and has been an invaluable friend to the program and to all of us.

Following the presentations, a lovely reception was held in the Father Nicholas J. Magoulias Cathedral Center where Chaplain Eglon Angel, of the Bereavement Support Program at Winthrop Hospital, presented an excellent, informative talk on ‘Coping with Loss During the Holiday.’

The Saint Paul’s Grief & Bereavement Support Group meets each month on the 2nd and 4th Wednesday evenings at 7:30 PM and on the 3rd Wednesday afternoon at 2:30 PM. All are welcome to attend.

Grief & Bereavement Support GroupBy Anna Dounelis

It’s A New Year…So What!

One New Year’s Day, a few years after my husband had passed away, a dear friend of mine called to wish me a Happy New Year. During our conversation, she told me that I was too young to spend the rest of my life alone and she hoped I’d meet someone else. I was stunned! How could she suggest such a thing? How could I ever do that? It would be an act of betrayal! After all, I was still married in my heart, mind and soul. I knew my friend spoke out of love and concern for me but she just didn’t understand my feeling of loss and how difficult it is to continue living without the one you love.

A New Year for many people can mean hopefulness and a chance to begin anew and they make New Year’s resolutions hoping that the New Year will be better than the last! They look forward with excitement and anticipation to what may lie ahead. However, those who are grieving tend to look back rather than look forward and they may feel a sense of hopelessness, knowing that life will never be the same and often longing for what was lost. Even the thought of going on may make them feel as though they are betraying or letting go of their loved one.

Those who are grieving need to remember that January 1st is just another day and that day has no meaning except what we choose to give it. As we face a new year, we can hope and pray to find a sense of peace and comfort in dealing with our sorrow, the strength to take life one day at a time and being ever thankful to God for the joy our loved one brought into our life. We can look for ways to help others, and in that way, we can help ourselves heal as we continue our grief journey.

The Annual Memorial Christmas Tree Prayer Service was held on Wednesday, December 19th, and we thank Father Luke and Father Peter for a beautiful service. Afterwards, bouquets of roses were presented to Kay Pamas and Rose “Cookie” Vaream with our most sincere appreciation and on behalf of all who have benefited from the Grief & Bereavement Program

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Over the past 56 years, the seventeen women in the Recipe Club published four books. ALL the royalties that these four cookbooks have generated has been given to our community treasury with specific usages. Some of these include the fact that they were major donors for the elimination of the Mortgage Fund and the Project Renaissance Drive. They annually support the Pastry Tent in our Festivals. (In years gone by, they used to coordinate and bake, with the help of our parishioners, the desserts for the Bazaars.) Some of the items they purchased for the church include several mosaics, chandeliers, the downstairs kitchen, the restoration of our front patio, our “name” sign in front of our church and our beautiful organ!

The first three books are now considered “collectors’ items” and no new ones are available. They were: “The Grecian Gourmet”, “The Art of Greek Cookery” and “The Regional Cuisines of Greece”, published by Doubleday. Their latest book is “The Complete Book of Greek Cooking”, published by Harper Collins. It is sold in our church office by mail and on line through Amazon and Barnes and Noble.

There continues to be a great interest in our books and just last month a long article in the “National Herald” discussed the book and highlighted two of their recipes with photos and instructions. The Recipe Club story and three of their recipes were also recently featured in a Food Network television show.

Homebound MinistryBy Joan Prieston

The holiday celebration of the Homebound Ministry was truly exceptional. The members attended the Divine Liturgy and received the Holy Gifts with their family member or their aide. Following, they proceeded to the Rev. Nicholas Magoulias Center for the traditional luncheon which was prepared for them by our chef Lou Patrickakos and his assistants. We welcomed several new member who were obviously happy with our program. They were treated to a special musical program by two members of our youth program, Andreas Petrides on the violin and Steven Pagonis on the saxophone. They entertained everyone with songs from Broadway musicals as well as Greek songs, much to the delight of the members. The afternoon was a memorable one and everyone left looking forward to the upcoming Holiday Season.

School of Religious EducationBy Joan Prieston

The fall season was a very busy one for the Sunday School. On Saturday, November 23, the students attended the annual Divine Liturgy and received the Holy Gifts with their classmates. Following, they enjoyed the Communion Breakfast in the Hellenic Room which was prepared for them by the committee.

On Saturday, November 23 and Sunday November 24, the annual Holiday Boutique was held in the Father Nicholas Magoulias Center. The parishioners generously supported the event by purchasing the handmade articles which were lovingly created by the Tuesday Ladies, the homemade pastries, the array of religious articles and, of course, our vintage items in Yiayia’s Attic. Always very popular were the freshly baked cheese and spinach pitas which were enjoyed by many with their Fellowship coffee! The pivotal moment on Sunday was the Raffle Drawing with the lucky winners leaving happily with their prizes!

The Christmas Season was again celebrated by our students with excitement and festivities. They enjoyed their Christmas Party with the delicious goodies which were donated by Georgia Gilas, something she has done for us for over 40 years! Santa Claus, again, paid his jolly visit, much to the joy of our younger students!

The students then entertained the parishioners with the special holiday program which included a special presentation by our Greek School students and conducted by Maria Vennis, one of their teachers. The annual Christmas Pageant by chairperson Virginia Pourakis, a project which she has presented for many years, was beautifully performed by our students. Wearing the authentic costumes added to the beauty of the portrayal of the Holy Nativity. Needless to say, a great deal of effort was made by all to make this program a success. God Bless them for their faith and their dedication.

The Sunday school extends to all a very Happy and Healthy New Year!

Recipe Club NewsBy Kathy Boulukos, Chairperson

With the new year upon us, the Recipe Club has donated 80 new Divine Liturgy books to be used in church for our parishioners. These books replace the previous ones that had also been donated several years ago along with the hymnal books which are also being used today. These liturgy books have been published by Holy Cross Orthodox Press, part of our Seminary School of Theology.

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The St. Paul’s Choir Restoration ProjectBy Nicholas George

On January 14, 2014, a professional consultant hired by the Executive Board began a very thorough inspection of the infrastructure of our Cathedral Choir. We are saddened to report that several problems were found in the Choir’s existing structure.

The following are of major concern:1-The foundation of the choir is now 70+ years old. Not only is much of the foundation unable to sustain the existing rigors of use, but it is also tilting to the south.2- Serious cracks in two (2) important sections are making it increasingly difficult for the foundation to continue bearing the weight of the rich musical mosaics that it once supported.3- The remaining pillars of the foundation have become too few in number to support two (2) Divine Liturgies each Sunday. Inspection shows that splitting the pillars into two has weakened the entire support structure.4- New support pillars are desperately needed in all four corners of the choir loft to help bolster the existing foundation.

Of course, these findings are troublesome and quite serious. For those who may not understand the technical jargon, the consultant offered a layman’s explanation: “Our findings conclude that the average member of St. Paul’s Choir is now higher than retirement age. Many of its talented members have already moved to the warmer climates in south Florida while others still located in the immediate area have ceased to participate due to health or personal reasons. Splitting the group in half to provide for two liturgies (especially tenors and basses) further dilutes the sound of the group and further limits musical choices. Conclusion: talented replacements in all four voice parts must be found if the present level of service to the Cathedral is to be maintained.”

By now, you must understand our tongue and cheek message!

If you would like to hear a full, majestic CHOIR at services, it is time to help by offering your voice or by helping to recruit new members who are talented and can sing. Everyone knows a good singer who perhaps is a bit shy and needs a bit of encouragement to join! Adult or still in school….if you are a regular church goer with choral experience or an instrumentalist who can sing, consider joining our choir today! We will love you like no other organization will!

Call Nick George at 212-505-6254 or Connie Germanakos at 516-328-0777 for further details.

Daughters of PenelopePasithea Chapter 141 By Fran Lutfy, President

While the temperature has dropped, our Chapter has heated up with its holiday activities and philanthropic endeavors. In early December, our Chapter had a wonderful tree trimming party in the Hellenic Room which we decked “to the nines” for Christmas. It was a fun night with wine, cheese and laughs. Thank you to all the Sisters who participated in our decorating, particularly our chairpersons, Julie Raptakis and Marina Heliotis. We held an initiation of our newest members, Erika Hadjoglou Palmer, Anna Theofilaktidis , Christina Vasilakis Tavoulareas and Margaret Zanone. We also held a Christmas Party two weeks later. Thank you, Corie Commander, for chairing this lovely night and for the attendance and assistance of our AHEPAN brothers, clergy, President Bill Lembo and VP Tony Vaccari and their lovely wives. A portion of proceeds from our events was donated to the St. Demetrios fire relief and to the Penelope House, which helps victims of domestic abuse.

Our Chapter attended a very special day at St. Basil’s Academy, where we visited with the young lady that we sponsor, watched a touching Christmas Pageant performed by the children and also we presented gifts to the children. Finally, our Chapter was honored to attend liturgy and a lovely lunch at Three Hierarchs in Brooklyn where we celebrated Founder’s Day. On February 12th, our Chapter celebrated “Girls Night Out” at the Seventh Street Café. It was a fun night, full of laughs and great food. Our next annual event is our annual Pot Luck dinner. More details will follow by mail.

Our Calendar for March and April is as follows:

MARCH 12 (WED) POTLUCK DINNER, DISTRICT VISITATION AND INITIATIONS Hellenic Room 7:30pmMarch 26 (Wed) Membership meeting 8pm Conf Rm CMarch 30 (Sunday) Greek ParadeApril 9 (Wednesday) Executive & Woman’s Day Forum Committee, 8pm in Conf Room CApril 30 (Wednesday) General Meeting & Woman’s Day Forum Committee Meeting 8pm, Rm C

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WE CARE Cancer Support GroupBy Joanne Vagelatos, Chairperson

Whenever a person is diagnosed with cancer, questions start being asked. Questions like: Why me? How could this happen? I eat healthy and exercise regularly, why is this happening to me? I go to church every Sunday, how can God allow this to happen? What did I do to deserve this? We may never find the answers to these questions. What we do know is that our faith in God and prayer will help us get through whatever we are faced with in life.

For this reason, we begin our WE CARE meetings with a Paraklesis service to the Panaghia, asking the Mother of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ to intercede on our behalf.

When we are diagnosed with a serious disease, we get upset and frustrated. We realize how powerless we really are. We start questioning our relationship with God. When we reach this point, we have to remember to pray and to put our whole faith and trust in God. Our life is in His hands. He is in charge and He will guide our steps through the good times and the difficult times.

I hope that you will join us at the Paraklesis services to pray, not only for your own wellbeing, but for the wellbeing of your family members and friends who are going through difficult times. We meet after Paraklesis services to discuss a variety of topics, including the lives of saints, nutrition, current health issues and concerns.

Solon SocietyBy C. Dionysios Dionou, President

The Solon Society opened it’s fall 2013 season with a joint meeting. We partnered with AHEPA Chapter #170, in a celebration and remembrance of October 28th, Oxi Day, Greece’s entry into World War II, when our people were attacked by Italian Military forces. Our victory over the aggressor was the first Allied victory against the Axis powers. Members enjoyed a detailed lecture on Oxi Day followed by a question and answer period. Light refreshments were served.

In December I was awarded the St. Barbara’s Medal. Saint Barbara is the patron saint of field artillery soldiers worldwide. I am a serving officer in the 9th Field Artillery New York. The unit was founded in 1790 by the veterans of George Washington’s Artillery Batteries. The 9th Field Artillery is one of nine historical military commands in the United States Army and served as the Honor Guard of the governor of the state of New York.

The Solon Society meets the second Thursday of the month unless otherwise indicated. We begin at 8:00 PM and our lectures start at 8:30 PM. We look forward to seeing you there.

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Greek Orthodox Cathedral of Saint Paul’s 2014 Annual Festival - Save the Date!The dates of our 2014 Festival are Thursday, May 29, 2014 through Sunday, June 1, 2014.

It is once again time for the Cathedral of Saint Paul’s Annual Greek Festival. Planning for our 2014

Festival is well underway! As always, we rely on good weather and we know that our Clergy is hard at work to make that happen. But equally important is the dedication of all our Volunteers who work hard

to ensure that our Guests have a wonderful time over the four days in late May and early June.

Our Guests can expect to experience Greek Culture by tasting authentic Greek Foods, Souvlaki and Greek Pastries, including our Famous Loukoumades, or by enjoying Greek Music and Dance. If American Fare is more your style, you can stop by our Chicken Fingers & Fries or Hamburgers & Hot Dogs Tents. Take a guided Church Tour of our beautiful Cathedral which is adorned by magnificent Mosaics in the true Byzantine style. We also offer Shopping in our “Agora” Marketplace or our huge Air Conditioned Flea Market. There is also a wide variety of Rides and Games for the children as well as a Beer Garden

and Wine & Cheese Tent for the adults. You can also test your skill at our Ring Toss!

Our Co-Chairmen, Tony Vaccari and George Zakos are working through the planning process and are anxious to hear from any and all volunteers to assist in preparations.

Please stop by or call the Cathedral Office at 516-483-5700 if you would like more information on

Sponsorship opportunities or know of a Vendor who would want to reserve a space in our “Agora” to reach over 10,000 attendees.

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