how to be a connector - my talk at ny personal development meetup
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How to Build an Awesome Professional Network
Mike Fishbein, www.mfishbein.com
Why Build Relationships?
Not just what you know or can do, it’s who you know.
It’s how the world goes around
Learn from people in your network who have experience and expertise.
How I learned
Not a lot of great content out thereAsking everyone I knowReading what I could findPracticing and experimentingMaking a lot of avoidable mistakesMeeting and building relationships with lots of awesome pople
My book
Business Networking: How to Build an Awesome Professional Network
StrategiesTactics
Everything I knowhttp://amzn.to/HdcYpl
Be Helpful
When people in your network get stronger, you get stronger
Per the law of reciprocity, people will be more motivated to return the favor
Share expertise, ideas, informationPromote your networkBe a connector
Build a Reputation
Be someone that people want to meetSomeone who is valuableSomeone who is helpful
If no one knows who you are, they can’t help you
Be visibleGo outside!
How to Be a Connector
What
"What makes someone a Connector? The first -- and most obvious -- criterion is that Connectors know lots of people. They are the kinds of people who know everyone. All of us
know someone like this. But I don't think that we spend a lot of time thinking about the importance of these kinds of people. I'm not even sure that most of us really believe that the kind of person who knows everyone really knows everyone. But they do." - Malcolm Gladwell
Be a Connector
Strengthen your networkWhy
Be helpfulBuild your reputationLaw of reciprocityCurationComfort
Be a Connector
Complementary supply/demand Meeting similar peopleWhen
Hiring/seekingFundraising/investingComplementary interests or expertise
Be a Connector
Mutually beneficial Double opt in Share bios, reason, and linksHow No obligation Email with both copied
Or, happy hour
Be a Connector
Connect with connectors
Relationships > Business Cards
Play the long gameStay in touchAuthenticityDig your well before you’re thirsty
My BookBusiness Networking: How to Build an Awesome Professional
Network
http://amzn.to/HdcYplLike, everything you ever wanted to know about networking
Thanks!Mike Fishbein
www.mfishbein.comhttps://twitter.com/mfishbein