Goal Setting ReviewGoal Setting Review

______ ______ ______ ______ ______

What is Behavior?What is Behavior?

Is it okay to be different?Is it okay to be different?

True or False ?True or False ?

• As a small group, please complete As a small group, please complete the first page ONLYthe first page ONLY

What is Bullying?What is Bullying?

• Happens more than once – Happens more than once – REPEATEDREPEATED

• It’s done It’s done ON PURPOSE ON PURPOSE with the intention with the intention to hurt someoneto hurt someone

• Creates an imbalance of social or physical Creates an imbalance of social or physical powerpower

What is Bullying?What is Bullying?

• Physical – hitting, kicking, pushingPhysical – hitting, kicking, pushing

• Verbal – using insults, name calling, or Verbal – using insults, name calling, or spreading rumors. Words CAN hurt.spreading rumors. Words CAN hurt.

• Relationship/Emotional – social isolation or Relationship/Emotional – social isolation or exclusion, gossip, mocking, exclusion, gossip, mocking, giggling/pointinggiggling/pointing

What does Bullying look What does Bullying look like?like?

What does Bullying sound What does Bullying sound like?like?

True or True or False ? False ? (Answers)(Answers)

Normal Conflict vs. BullyingNormal Conflict vs. Bullying

CONFLICTCONFLICT1.1. Equal powerEqual power2.2. Happens occasionallyHappens occasionally3.3. Occurs naturallyOccurs naturally4.4. Everyone is upsetEveryone is upset5.5. Not seeking power or Not seeking power or

attentionattention6.6. Feel bad for what Feel bad for what

happenedhappened7.7. Effort to solve Effort to solve

problemproblem

BULLYINGBULLYING1.1. Imbalance of powerImbalance of power2.2. Happens repeatedlyHappens repeatedly3.3. On purposeOn purpose4.4. Only the target is upsetOnly the target is upset5.5. Seeking PowerSeeking Power

6.6. Do not feel bad for Do not feel bad for what happenedwhat happened

7.7. No effort to solve No effort to solve problemproblem

Now it’s Your turn to decide…Now it’s Your turn to decide…Bullying or Normal Conflict?Bullying or Normal Conflict?• He said I wasn’t “cool” and wouldn’t He said I wasn’t “cool” and wouldn’t

let me play basketball at recess…let me play basketball at recess…

Now it’s Your turn to decide…Now it’s Your turn to decide…Bullying or Normal Conflict?Bullying or Normal Conflict?• He said I wasn’t “cool” and wouldn’t He said I wasn’t “cool” and wouldn’t

play with me at recess today…play with me at recess today…

NORMALNORMAL CONFLICT CONFLICT because it only happened oncebecause it only happened once

Now it’s Your turn to decide…Now it’s Your turn to decide…Bullying or Normal Conflict?Bullying or Normal Conflict?• Some girls are ignoring me for no Some girls are ignoring me for no

reason every day…reason every day…

Now it’s Your turn to decide…Now it’s Your turn to decide…Bullying or Normal Conflict?Bullying or Normal Conflict?• Some girls are ignoring me for no Some girls are ignoring me for no

reason every day…reason every day…

BULLYINGBULLYING Because the behaviors are Because the behaviors are

repeatedrepeated

Now it’s Your turn to decide…Now it’s Your turn to decide…Bullying or Normal Conflict?Bullying or Normal Conflict?• He pushed me in P.E.…He pushed me in P.E.…

Now it’s Your turn to decide…Now it’s Your turn to decide…Bullying or Normal Conflict?Bullying or Normal Conflict?• He pushed me in P.E…He pushed me in P.E…

NORMAL CONFLICTNORMAL CONFLICT However, it could be Bullying However, it could be Bullying IFIF the the

behavior is repeatedbehavior is repeated

Group Activity - is it Normal Group Activity - is it Normal Conflict or Bullying?Conflict or Bullying?

Each group will come up with a situation, and the class will decide if it is normal conflict or bullying behavior.

In Summary:In Summary:• Bullying is about Bullying is about powerpower – it is NOT everyday conflict – it is NOT everyday conflict

• Bullying is done Bullying is done REPEATEDREPEATED and and ON PURPOSE ON PURPOSE to to upset othersupset others

• IndividualsIndividuals or or groupsgroups can bully can bully

• With bullying there are the: With bullying there are the: – Targets, or students who are bulliedTargets, or students who are bullied– Students who bully othersStudents who bully others– BystandersBystanders– Those who Those who InterveneIntervene

Why do you think people Why do you think people use bullying behavior?use bullying behavior?

Why do you think people get Why do you think people get bullied?bullied?

Let’s Review:Let’s Review:

• Bullying is when mean behavior is done Bullying is when mean behavior is done _______________ and _____________ ._______________ and _____________ .

• What is one difference between normal What is one difference between normal Conflict and Bullying?Conflict and Bullying?

• With Bullying there are ________ , ________ With Bullying there are ________ , ________ , __________ , and __________., __________ , and __________.

Share with a Neighbor:Share with a Neighbor:

•Today in Guidance Today in Guidance I learned……I learned……

•DemonstrationDemonstration