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Social Circle Training Special Report:
IS COLD APPROACH KILLING YOUR SEX LIFE?
Written by:
Greg Greenway
www.socialcircletraining.com
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IS COLD APPROACH KILLING YOUR SEX LIFE?
It probably is, but you don’t know it. Do you want to revive it?
Keep reading.
Social Circle Game is to women what Passive Income is to wealth.
Most people understand that to truly be financially secure and to create real
wealth, you need passive sources of income.
This is generally accepted right?
If the only time you make money is when you go to work, then you aren’t being
efficient with your time, knowledge or expertise. If you find a way to package your
knowledge into goods and services that can be sold to a large audience, you can
effectively make money while you sleep.
Regular income:
Sleeping? No money...
Holiday? No money...
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Sick or injured? No money...
Jobless? No money...
Passive income:
Sleeping? Still making money...
Taking a shit? Still making money...
On holiday? Still making money...
Sick or injured? Guess what? Still making money...
Which is better?
Passive income, obviously.
Well Social Circle Game is to women what passive income is to money.
Social Circle Game is PASSIVE PUSSY
I have not opened or cold approached a girl in 2011. I have slept with somewhere
between 20-30 women this year!
That’s like scoring goals without ever being on the pitch.
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After I broke up with my last girlfriend towards the end of last year, I have casually
been dropping hints to girls in my social circle that I’m looking to settle down with
some top quality girl and start making babies.
Guess what has happened?
All my female friends, are literally throwing their single girlfriends pussy’s in my
face. I literally have a bunch of minions getting me dates and introducing me to
women because I’ve effectively managed my social circle.
You want to be surrounded by women who are not only beautiful, but are a perfect
match for your interests?
You want to have quantity and quality?
Well, the answer is Social Circle Game.
Social Circle Game = Passive Pussy
Getting more pussy without actually having to do anything extra.
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Have a look at the week of two different guys. Guy 1 only uses cold approach; Guy
2 uses Social Circle Training:
If you can already get pussy, being social (in the right way) is going to get you
more pussy than you could possibly imagine.
Let’s look at 2 guys, and say they both have the same level of game, and are
starting off with zero women.
Guy 1
Saturday Night
At a social gathering, he picks his target; he seduces, escalates, and closes. Well
done he fucked 1 girl.
Sunday Night
Guy 1 wants more pussy. Calls girl from last night. She’s busy. Oh shit, Guy 1,
doesn’t have any other options. Guess he has to go out and look for more pussy.
He doesn’t find any girls that meet his standards, so he goes home and makes
love to his right hand.
Monday Night
Same as Sunday, maybe he’ll get lucky, maybe he won’t. He wants more pussy,
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he has to go out and look for it.
Tues – Fri
Girl 1 keeps flaking so he goes out a couple more times. He meets more girls, but
due to cock blocks, ASD, LMR and a whole bunch of other stuff he gets no more
pussy.
Guy 1, end of week lay count = 1
Guy 2
Saturday Night
Goes out with his social circle, and meets many women and people. Using Social
Circle Training techniques, he has many women fighting for his attention. 5
different women ask for his number, which he happily gives out. He picks his
favourite woman; he seduces, escalates and closes. Lay count = 1.
Sunday Night
Girl 1 flaked. No problem, calls up one of the other girls that he spoke to last night.
After a bit of chat, it’s obvious she wants his dingaling. Goes for late night
cocktails. He seduces, escalates, he closes.
Lay count = 2.
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Monday morning
Finds out that Girl 2 is bi-sexual.
He phones Girl 1 and invites her over.
Monday Night
Has 3some with Girls 1 and 2.
Lay count = 3* (* for legend)
Tuesday Night
Wants to take a break, and chill. Another girl from Saturday who met him through
is social circle calls him up. He arranges for Thursday.
Wednesday Night
Girls 1 and 2, talk about their 3some with Guy 1 to Girl 3. (Girls 1,2 and 3 are all
part of the same social scene/circle) Girl 3 gets turned on, and wants a piece of
the action.
Thursday Night
He goes on date with Girl 3. She’s already heard of his sexual prowess, and the
close is a done deal. He seduces, escalates and closes.
Lay count = 4
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Friday Night
He realizes he still has 2 more girls from the party last week he hasn’t even spoken
to yet…....
Guy 2, end of week lay count = 4 (including a 3some)
Guy 2 has a week typical of anyone who is using Social Circle Training properly.
Can you imagine having a life where you are sitting at home minding your own
business, and a friend of yours brings over 3-5 new girls to your place just to meet
you?
Hmmmm
Cold approach doesn’t do that...
Day Game doesn’t do that...
Online game doesn’t do that...
Text and phone game doesn’t do that...
Social Circle Training is a philosophy for your entire life. All other types of game are
just skill-sets.
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Think of it this way,
Day Game,
Cold Approach,
Dance floor Game,
Online Game,
Text/Phone Game,
And any other type of game I missed,
Can be compared to “free throws”, in basketball or “penalties” in soccer. If you
want to get great at basketball, you don’t just go and learn free throws do you?
They can help and are an important part of the game, but on their own won’t help
you that much with your game.
Same with penalties in soccer. If all you know about soccer is how to take a
penalty kick, then you’re never going to be that good at soccer.
Cold approach, Day Game, Text Game, Online Game etc are valid tools to have in
your skill set, but if you’re using it as the staple for getting you laid YOU’RE
MISSING THE BIG PICTURE!!!
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Sorry to be so harsh, but your success is the most important thing to me, and this
is the one thing in this community that drives me mental. Why are so many
insistent on using an inefficient method for getting laid?
It’s like insisting on recording cassettes so you can listen to music on a Walkman,
when everyone with a brain is using MP3 players.
Or accountants are taught double entry bookkeeping, doesn’t mean they actively
use it...they have enough sense to use a more efficient system like a computer.
Yeah it can be fucking done the hard way, but why not do it better, more easily
and more efficiently?
Let me give you an example:
A certain very famous PUA by his own admission went out NIGHT after NIGHT for
9months Cold Approaching before he got good. He then spent another 3 or so
years practicing; and he said in an interview his lay count is between 30-50.
EVERY NIGHT FOR 9 MONTHS, PRACTICING FOR 3 FUCKING YEARS!!!!!!
30-50 lays!!!
MADNESS
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Honestly, if you ask me, that is just insane.
If you seriously think that is an effective use of your time, then cool, stop reading
this right now.
Even if you started from 0 as in super AFC bordering on no social skills (assuming
you a had no mental health issues) It would take a couple solid months to be good
at holding a conversation.
Then spend 2 months engineering a social circle with HOT women.
1 week with a FREE stylist to sort out your look. So your now 3-4 months in, and
at this stage you can hold a conversation with a woman, and you have a decent
social circle.
Now go out every night for the next 3 months....you will get laid like a fucking
ROCKSTAR, I fucking guarantee it.
Imagine a Victoria Secrets fashion photographer.
Does he have more game than Cold Approach specialist PUA?
Nope.
Does he go out “SARGING”?
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Probably not
Does he fuck more Victoria Secret Models (i.e HB10s) than Cold Approach
Specialist PUA?
Very fucking likely.
WHY? Cos he has a life where hot women are around him, and because all his
approaches will be WARM, he is more likely to close with much less effort.
Obviously not everyone can be a VS photographer, but anyone can engineer a life
and create an environment where women are around them all the time.
Social Circle creates Warm Approaches
A “cold approach”, is when you approach a woman who is a complete stranger
that knows nothing about you and you attempt to have an interaction with that
woman.
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Every cold approach starts at zero. Your fashion, look, confidence in approach,
body language and tonality can all help move you away from zero when you first
say hello, but in cold approach you ALWAYS start from zero.
The goal of Social Circle Game is to make your approaches warm, so you’re
starting close to 100 in every interaction that you have. You will still need to have
all your shit together, as you would in a cold approach, but the benefit is, you have
a lot less way to go before you reach the “significant relationship”, stage.
Social Circle Game means HOTTER chicks
Let’s be completely honest. How often do you see women like this:
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I’d like you and your friends/wings to try something out. It will show you just how
limited Cold Approach is. Go out with a wing or even better one or 2 wings for a
month. You are only allowed to interact with 9s and 10s. She’s only a 9/10 if you
and ALL your wings 100% agree she’s a 9/10. If she’s not a 9/10, YOU HAVE TO
END THE INTERACTION. You’re only allowed to go for 9s and 10s.
Do this and see how many 9s and 10s you fuck....scratch that see how many 9s
and 10s YOU MEET in that month.
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Women of immense beauty are rare, but for some reason united in their rarity in
certain social circles. If you are able to ACCESS these social circles the quality of
women you will meet, will go through the roof.
Social Circle Game means BETTER chicks for you
Make a list of all the things you want in a woman. Now, when you go out and
about, and you meet a new woman through cold approach. You know nothing
about her. You have to qualify and screen her to make sure she meets your
standards.
This can become quite frustrating if you have high standards in behaviour and
personality.
What if you could have a social circle, where all the women in that social circle
where already pre-approved and screened for certain qualities that you desire?
Imagine how great that would be?
A social circle where I know all the women I meet fit my standards. That means I
can just spend time getting to know her and connecting with her.
Social Circle Game is Consistent
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I love Day game. I absolutely love it. Being able to just walk up to a chick any time,
anywhere and talk to her, connect with her and seduce her is amazing.
It has proved valuable to my sex life.
The one thing, I don’t like about Day Game is the consistency. Sometimes I could
walk around literally for hours and not see a woman who I would consider
stunningly beautiful. It’s one thing for me to date a girl who I’ve spoken to and
become attracted to her personality, but if I’m going to go out of my way to stop
and talk to a girl she had better be drop dead gorgeous.
I don’t know about you, but I can’t remember the last time I saw the likes of Rosie
Huntington Whitely, Mila Kunis, Vida Guerra or Beyonce at a supermarket, bank or
just walking down the street. I’d have to spend hours to see a woman like that on
the street, and frankly my time is precious.
Day Game will only get you the girls you “just happen to run into” and that is why
it’s miles behind social circle.
This report is not to bash the likes of Day Game, Online Game, Phone Game, or
the merits of Cold Approach. They are all skills that I use on a regular basis.
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But that is all they are, part of a toolbox. The wider philosophy to adopt is Social
Circle Training. Once you have a basic skill-set of interacting with women, you
should be spending your time engineering a lifestyle where the exact type of
women that you desire is in your life on a consistent basis.
So what exactly is Social Circle Game?
Social Circle Game is the practice of using one's social circle to aid them in their
goals of dating and seducing women. This is very different from just building a
social circle or accessing a social circle for business benefits. Social Circle Game
is targeted at improving your love and sex life.
The main premise of Social Circle Game is that you create situations and
approaches with women that are WARM. Social Circle Game is directed at having
a WARM approach be the worst case scenario, and women actively opening you
as the best case scenario.
Types of Social Circle Game
There are 3 main types of Social Circle Game. Entourage style; going solo; and
building a "dream team" of guys and working that way.
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Each method requires different types of personality, level of effort put in and
approach to mastery. Before I run through a quick break down I need to explain
some concepts so that it makes the break down easier to understand.
SOCIAL INFLUENCE. This is how many people one person can connect with at
any given time. Promoters, PR people, individuals that know everybody have a lot
of SOCIAL INFLUENCE.
SOCIAL POWER. This is the possession of control or command over others. Your
boss has SOCIAL POWER over you. The alpha dog has the most SOCIAL
POWER in a social group etc etc.
SOCIAL CIRCLE GAME – Entourage Style
You create a social circle or group that has lots of women. Usually, you will be the
head of this group, and you will be the one charged with doing all the organising.
At the very least, because you created the group you will be most responsible in
setting the rules, and parameters, ensuring that the group stays together.
This style is most common for nightclubs as made popular by famous PUA AFC
Adam.
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This style requires a lot of work and a personality type that is on the VERY social
side. If you are comfortable being the center of attention, and the life and soul of
the party, this is the style of Social Circle Game to adopt.
In a nutshell, the tactic is to build your entourage and then use the social proof and
pre-selection to take your pick of the women. Because it is a social circle that you
have created, you have the most SOCIAL POWER, and automatically trigger
"value" and "leader of men" attraction switches in women.
In terms of sheer numbers of women, and having women chasing after you, this is
probably the best. I used to exclusively adopt this style of game between 2004-
2007 when I was a consultant for nightclubs and restaurants. I never had to cold
approach, and women on a consistent basis would open me.
The steps to running Entourage style Social Circle Game are as follows:
1. Identify a purpose for your group that is female friendly.
2. Find a source of women and begin adding them to your social circle.
3. Organise regular events for your social circle.
4. Use the attraction generated from pre-selection and your SOCIAL POWER
in the group to date and seduce your IDEAL WOMAN.
SOCIAL CIRCLE GAME – Going Solo
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This is probably the most neglected style of Social Circle Game when it comes to
literature in the seduction community. It requires a firm understanding of how
relationships are built and being very socially aware.
With this style, you identify the type of women that you to have in your life. This
can be based on looks, interests personality or all of the above. You then seek out
social circles and groups that will have these types of women. Once you have
found those circles or groups, you must gain ACCESS to the group via virtue of
your relationship with someone in the group.
The easiest member to pick is the people with large amounts of SOCIAL
INFLUENCE. It is there very nature to know and connect with many different
people, and often people with high SOCIAL INFLUENCE have access to a variety
of different social circles. Your relationship must get to a stage with this person via
either rapport or utility, whereby they invite you into one of their social circles.
Once in this group your interactions with women in that circle will be starting at the
very least in a warm state. You then game as normal, bearing in mind whatever the
rules and parameters of that social circle are.
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This style is a lot more flexible, as you are not responsible for any particular social
circle, so therefore it requires less of your effort. It also isn't just reserved to
nightlife. Any social circle in any niche, genre or interest can be accessed this way.
The main difference is you have to be comfortable going out on your own, and
have a solid set of social skills to be able to meet, befriend and align with people
that you like to a level that they will introduce you to their circle of friends. This is
generally more tactical and is more suited to guys who have their shit together.
The biggest advantage of this style is that it's the best way to meet the HOTTEST
women.
Beautiful women (9s and 10s) aren't just sitting around waiting for you to add them
to your social circle. They already belong to a social circle. With this style you can
access that social circle and have ACCESS to women that you wouldn't normally
see or come across in your day to day life.
Once you are among women that you find attractive, you can then qualify on your
other requirements for personality and interests as well.
Steps to running Social Circle Game Solo style:
1. Identify your tastes in women.
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2. Choose an Environment where you will find these types of women.
3. Gain ACCESS into this environment.
SOCIAL CIRCLE GAME – “Dream Team”
This is probably the most suited to PUA's. In this style, a tight social circle of like
minded individuals will come together with the purpose of creating a "dynasty", a
playground of hot women. Each individual in the social circle will have their own
strengths and weaknesses, but all have the common goal of creating an
environment of warm approaches and ACCESS to women.
EG, you have a guy who is good at Day Game; one guy is good at Night Game;
one guy is good at Online Game; another is rich; one guy has all the connections
etc etc.
So what each guy will do is go about their day to day lives and meet women, and
invite them to the "dream teams" activities. This can be any form of social
gathering. As long as each guy is doing this and pulling their weight in the group
you will have the situation where each guy is bringing out a new group of women
to the social gathering. This also creates warm interactions, not as warm as the
other 2 methods, but definitely a lot stronger than pure cold approach.
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At the social gathering all the guys game as normal following the groups rules and
parameters (eg the guy who brought the girls get's the first pick). This is a good
style for those who are sort of in the middle or are just starting out. You have
others to encourage you, there's less of a load on your time as effort is split up,
and you don't have to worry about who you are befriending or aligning with
socially.
With this style you still have to do a lot of cold approach and meeting women
outside of the group, but because everyone else is doing that as well, and pooling
their "women", so to speak, you have a lot more options.
Steps to setting up a successful “DREAM TEAM”:
1. Find some guys who have the same goals for dating.
2. Make up a set of rules for the group and it’s purpose.
3. Assign each guy to his “role” in the group (ie, what each person is bringing
to the group.
4. Go out meeting women in your normal routine.
5. Invite the women that you are meeting to the activities of your “DREAM
TEAM”.
This is Social Circle Seduction and is a big part of SOCIAL CIRCLE TRAINING; it
is the evolution of Game, and the philosophy of guys who have an abundance of
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beautiful high quality women in their life. Upgrade yourself to the new and
improved version of “Game”, because if you’re sticking to the old style, then cold
approach is KILLING your sex life.
This report is JUST THE BEGINNING. There is still so much I have to teach you to
ensure that you have a life filled with 9s and 10s. I want you to have ACCESS to all
the beautiful women that you want. Email me with your thoughts, results and any
questions you have. But, for now that’s it. I’ll be in touch soon.
Love and Carnage
Greg Greenway
Social Circle Training
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