Interpersonal
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DynamicsEd BatistaClass 3:
SELF-DISCLOSURE & AUTHENTICITY
First 35 mins here • Brief discussions • Set up exerciseRemaining 2 hours • Exercise in T-group roomsT-group tonight
Today’s agenda
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Discuss with your
What are the implications of this for me?
partner
Safety & trust
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Negativity biasEssential for our safetyBut is safety always our top priority?Must balance risks with opportunity costs
A paradoxBradford & HuckabayGoffee & JonesPfefferIbarra
Discuss with your
How do I rationalize these views?
partner
Self-monitoringAt what point does it render us inauthentic?
Is our authentic
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self…uncovered?
…or is it created?
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A propositionWe create our authentic selvesActive experimentation is essentialIntention & forethought ≠ Inauthenticity
Consciousness
Competence
Consciousness
Competence
Consciousness
Competence
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Consciousness
Competence
We’re blind.We need feedback.
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Consciousness
Competence
We’re unskilled.We need guidance.
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Consciousness
Competence
We’re self-conscious.
We need practice.
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Consciousness
Competence
We’re in the flow.We need new
challenges.
Next stepsExercise until 5:50pm & T-group tonightWeek 3 Post-Group Assignment due Thurs @ NoonWeek 4 Readings & Class Notes on CanvasWeek 4 Pre-Class Assignment due Mon @ NoonNext class Tues Jan 31, 3pm here
T-group visitsStarting next week, I’ll visit each groupWill join for the evening sessionWeek 4: Group 3Week 5: Group 2Week 6: Group 1
5 levels
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Richard FranciscoIn what ways do we communicate?Increasing levels of difficulty, risk & learning
5 levels
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1: Ritual2: Extended Ritual3: Content4: Feelings About Content
5 levels
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1: Ritual2: Extended Ritual3: Content4: Feelings About Content
5: Feelings About Each Other
5 levels
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5: Feelings About Each Other
HardestRiskiest
Most powerful for feedback
Self-disclosureCan occur on all levelsSharing stories (Level 3)Our feelings about the story (Level 4)Our feelings about the storyteller (Level 5)
An exercise
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An exerciseToday’s Pre-Class AssignmentReflect on 2 types of experiences: 1) Acted authentically, didn’t get desired results 2) Acted inauthentically, did get desired resultsBe prepared to tell a 4-minute story
An exerciseFishbowlsIn your T-group breakout room1/2 the group forms an inner circle1/2 the group observes from an outer circleWith your partner, decide who’s in the 1st group
An exerciseYou have a set of instructions& your facilitators will answer any questions
To your T-group
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rooms
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