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Managing difficult conversations in the workplace

Richard Riche

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oneclearmessageoneclearmessage.co.za

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Dr Stephen Covey

Begin with the End in Mind

What are you trying to achieve?

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Engaged conversation

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Adult  learning

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Check your contribution?

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Action

Intent

Intent vs action

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Agree to next steps

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S C A R F neuroscience model and difficult conversations

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Status

PhD

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Certainty

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Autonomy

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Relatedness

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Fairness

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Status Certainty Autonomy Relatedness Fairness

S C A R F model

David Rock

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Focus on Mindset

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Research

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Hypothesis?

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Fixed  Mindset

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Growth  Mindset

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Applaud effort,

not just outcomes

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Learning to receive feedback

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3 main development conversations

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Know?

Johari’s Window

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Be proactive

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Frame the request

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Beware the amygdala hijack

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Amygdala hijack strategies

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Develop a positive mindset

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Look for the “Bright spots”

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What ideas stand out?

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Managing difficult conversations in the workplace

Richard Riche

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oneclearmessageoneclearmessage.co.za


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