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Difficult conversations can be challenging in the workplace and can lead to conflict if handled poorly. Tips on how to prepare for these conversations, get the right mindset and build an Engaged workforce using Emotional Intelligence and the Neuroscience of the brain.

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Managing difficult conversations in the workplace

Richard Riche

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oneclearmessageoneclearmessage.co.za

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Dr Stephen Covey

Begin with the End in Mind

What are you trying to achieve?

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Engaged conversation

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Adult  learning

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Check your contribution?

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Action

Intent

Intent vs action

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Agree to next steps

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S C A R F neuroscience model and difficult conversations

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Status

PhD

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Certainty

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Autonomy

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Relatedness

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Fairness

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Status Certainty Autonomy Relatedness Fairness

S C A R F model

David Rock

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Focus on Mindset

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Research

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Hypothesis?

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Fixed  Mindset

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Growth  Mindset

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Applaud effort,

not just outcomes

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Learning to receive feedback

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3 main development conversations

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Know?

Johari’s Window

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Be proactive

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Frame the request

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Beware the amygdala hijack

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Amygdala hijack strategies

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Develop a positive mindset

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Look for the “Bright spots”

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What ideas stand out?

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Managing difficult conversations in the workplace

Richard Riche

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oneclearmessageoneclearmessage.co.za