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PARENTING(Good and effective)
Djatnika Setiabudi
Family Medicine System
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BASIC NEEDS OF CHILDREN
PARENTING LOVE EDUCATION
COMMUNITY-ENVIROMENT
MACRO
PROFESIONAL ORGANISATION
GOVERNMENT POLICY
COMMUNITY ORGANIZATION
MICRO
NUTRITIONAL• Breast milk• Food complemen tary• Micronutrient
MOTHER• Nutritional • Education• Family Planning
MESO
HEALTH SERVICE
FACILITIES
NON HEALTH SERVICE
FACILITIES
EDUCATION FACILITIES
MINI
HOME ENVIROMENT
FAMILY
ENVIROMENT
PRENATAL NEONATUS INFANTS TODLER PRESCHOOL ADOLESENCE
GROWTH-DEVELOPMENT
RISK OF GROWTH AND DEVELOPMENT DISTRUBANCE
PRENATAL NEONATALANTENATAL
GOLDEN GENERATION
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What is parenting?
Parenting is the process of
promoting and supporting
the physical, emotional, social and intellectual development of a child
from infancy to adulthood
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Parenting
Practically:
• Meeting the child’s need to age of 18 or
sometimes longer
• Guiding the child toward the goal of becoming a competent adult
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Parenting
Providing care, support, and love in a way that leads to a child’s total development
Parenting Skills:
- Physical
- Nurturing
- Guidance
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Physical
Food
Clothing
Shelter
Health
Safety
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Nurturing
Support
Encouragement
Attention
Love
Sense of security
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Guidance
Acceptable behavior
Right from Wrong
Social skills
Emotional skills
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Parenting styles
1. Authoritarian or strict
2. Permissive
3. Democratic or authoritative or balance
4. (Neglectful)
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Authoritarian style
Limits without freedom
Extremely strict and often cold
communicate through lecture, yelling, punishment, and one-sided discussion
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Authoritarian style
Outcome:
- Obedient
- distrustful
- No expression of freedom
- withdrawn
- unhappy
- Not high achievement
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Permissive style
Freedom without Limits
More of an “anything goes” attitude
Do not attempt to exert any sort of control over their children
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Permissive style
Outcome:
- Aggressive
- most unhappy
- least self-reliant
- least self-controlled
- least explorative
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Democratic style
Freedom within Limits
Middle ground approach and is often considered the parenting ideal
Based on warmth, love, guidance, and positive discipline
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Democratic style
Outcome:
- Happy
- cooperative
- friendly generous
- mostly self-reliant
- mostly self-controlled
- High achieved
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Effective Parenting
A style of raising children
that increases the chances of a child
becoming the most capable person and adult he or she can be
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Ten Basic Principles of Good Parenting
1. What you do matters
2. You can not be too loving
3. Be involved in your child’s life
4. Adapt your parenting to fit your child
5. Establish and set rules
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Ten Basic Principles of Good Parenting
6. Foster your child’s independence
7. Be consistent
8. Avoid harsh disciplines
9. Explain your rules and decisions
10. Treat your child with respect
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Parent’s Pledge
I promise…………………………
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Parent’s Pledge
I will show my children I love them
I will listen and value what my children say
I will praise my child’s efforts towards
accomplishment
I will respect my children as individuals
I will enjoy with my children everyday
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Take-home messages
Parenting is a gift of God
Parenting is gardening
Parenting is trust
Parenting is labor of love
Parenting is enjoying
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Take-home messages
Good Parenting:
Parenting from the Heart
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